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bigtree

(86,005 posts)
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 09:50 AM Dec 2012

Friends of the Romneys say, "The past month has been most difficult on... Ann"

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tweeted by, Jonathan Capehart ?@CapehartJ

"the past month has been most difficult on..Ann..believed up until the end that ascending to the WH was their destiny" http://wapo.st/VhDYFd



I'll bet. She had that look of a woman who wanted the throne . . . bad!



article:

A detached Romney tends wounds in seclusion after failed White House bid

http://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/a-detached-romney-tends-wounds-in-seclusion-after-failed-white-house-bid/2012/12/01/4305079a-38a9-11e2-8a97-363b0f9a0ab3_print.html

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Friends of the Romneys say, "The past month has been most difficult on... Ann" (Original Post) bigtree Dec 2012 OP
boo hoo spanone Dec 2012 #1
That's what caught my eye in the article too.... kalli007 Dec 2012 #2
A scholarship colored boy from the wrong side of the tracks alcibiades_mystery Dec 2012 #3
High School Mean Girl... Sekhmets Daughter Dec 2012 #5
She measured those drapes way too early malaise Dec 2012 #4
You People Embarrassed The Queen jsr Dec 2012 #6
I almost hate to admit this... Sekhmets Daughter Dec 2012 #7
I've never seen a FLOTUS cand. whose public statements were as personally venomous as Ann Romney's alcibiades_mystery Dec 2012 #12
An excellent analysis... Sekhmets Daughter Dec 2012 #27
Even Mitt knows that about her. After all, savalez Dec 2012 #50
mittLies was being sooooo Cha Dec 2012 #71
Actually, Hillary Clinton's Le Taz Hot Dec 2012 #59
I don't hate to admit it. magical thyme Dec 2012 #19
I actually do like Babs a bit brokechris Dec 2012 #45
my favorite photo of Babs and GHW: musette_sf Dec 2012 #66
Stop it, this is hard, you want to try it get in the ring. Stop it. loyalkydem Dec 2012 #8
find me someone who wasn't insulted to the core by those two and their arrogant blather bigtree Dec 2012 #11
Queen Ann was right about that brush Dec 2012 #20
now I fricken remember that bigtree Dec 2012 #21
Ah, the ProSense Dec 2012 #9
Awwwww, get her another pony! Champion Jack Dec 2012 #28
what a difference between her and Michelle Obama rurallib Dec 2012 #10
Michelle Obama has had to skip a meal from time to time in her youth alcibiades_mystery Dec 2012 #14
Exactly. For the first time in her life, she didn't get what she wanted. FSogol Dec 2012 #26
Now, now. Be fair. NYC Liberal Dec 2012 #53
She would have spent four years whining BeyondGeography Dec 2012 #13
Contrary opinion: Mitt's lying yet again...he just can't help himself.... OldDem2012 Dec 2012 #15
no one likes to lose bigtree Dec 2012 #17
Agree with you.... Swede Atlanta Dec 2012 #54
However, if she truly thinks she is better than everyone else... Generic Brad Dec 2012 #31
She got a taste of fame and liked it Freddie Dec 2012 #58
I get major Schadenfreude knowing that Ann is crying over the fact that America doesn't think... Taitertots Dec 2012 #16
Me, too. I have rarely encountered a more odious pair. nt Nay Dec 2012 #63
Start Packing and It's Mitts time GETTINGTIRED Dec 2012 #18
Those tears were delicious. alphafemale Dec 2012 #22
"It's our turn now." Puglover Dec 2012 #23
Psst, Mittens!1 It'll all get better the sooner you just GO AWAY!1 Don't be PALIN & Joementum UTUSN Dec 2012 #24
Ann "Norma Desmond" Romney dommyluc Dec 2012 #25
You're speaking for me, dommyluc spiderpig Dec 2012 #36
Great post and welcome to DU! smirkymonkey Dec 2012 #61
Raised 5 kids, had MS, AND had breast cancer. And she, as you say, was a completely Nay Dec 2012 #64
It is so hard to be given so much in life .... etherealtruth Dec 2012 #29
+1 kickysnana Dec 2012 #30
Living up to your name boobooday Dec 2012 #57
Wait, wait! joshdawg Dec 2012 #32
Ann Romney, In A Moment Of Candor, Said "It's Our Turn" DallasNE Dec 2012 #33
Now she will have time to play with her horse Angry Dragon Dec 2012 #34
What a tragedy for Anne. MoonRiver Dec 2012 #35
WTHCares?!?! She's about to spend much time and more money decorating their new La Jolla digs. WinkyDink Dec 2012 #37
They couldn't buy the Presidency cherish44 Dec 2012 #38
It sounds like there was a violation of Personal Desires and God's Will. TheBlackAdder Dec 2012 #39
Offshore a couple of thousand jobs - Destroying households might make you feel better! nt TheBlackAdder Dec 2012 #40
But does she still love us wimmens? TwilightGardener Dec 2012 #41
actually, according to the article, Romney didn't say that; "friends" did. cali Dec 2012 #42
Ill try ... GeorgeGist Dec 2012 #43
LOL polly7 Dec 2012 #44
Here's your cake and pony... L0oniX Dec 2012 #46
Mitt had lunch with the Prez, when is Annie gonna have lunch with the First Lady? edbermac Dec 2012 #47
Oh get over it. white_wolf Dec 2012 #48
No surprise ShadesOfBlue Dec 2012 #49
Welcome to DU! hrmjustin Dec 2012 #62
From what I saw, I think that's an accurate assessment. nt patrice Dec 2012 #51
Well well,Willard and Annie Wellstone ruled Dec 2012 #52
waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa graham4anything Dec 2012 #55
I guess I'm just mean, but I have almost no sympathy for the Rmoneys Stinky The Clown Dec 2012 #56
My opinion is my tagline.............. thelordofhell Dec 2012 #60
I tell ya - Ann wanted to be first lady more than Mitt wanted to be president! Initech Dec 2012 #65
Ya know in ten years DonCoquixote Dec 2012 #67
And she had already picked out curtains wtmusic Dec 2012 #68
Split residency? SoCalDem Dec 2012 #69
She wanted the White House so bad.. she Cha Dec 2012 #70
I have several thoughts that I haven't been able to gel together HeiressofBickworth Dec 2012 #72
I wouldn't underestimate agent46 Dec 2012 #73

kalli007

(683 posts)
2. That's what caught my eye in the article too....
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 09:55 AM
Dec 2012

We here at DU knew it, just funny to see that it was indeed true.

 

alcibiades_mystery

(36,437 posts)
3. A scholarship colored boy from the wrong side of the tracks
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 09:56 AM
Dec 2012

made them look silly in front of everybody.

Of course she's upset.

#HighSchoolMeanGirl

Sekhmets Daughter

(7,515 posts)
7. I almost hate to admit this...
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 10:00 AM
Dec 2012

But I found the fact that Annie would not be occupying the WH even more satisfying than the fact that Mittens wouldn't be the new prez.
There was just something about her I really disliked. Never felt that way before about a would be first lady.

 

alcibiades_mystery

(36,437 posts)
12. I've never seen a FLOTUS cand. whose public statements were as personally venomous as Ann Romney's
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 10:06 AM
Dec 2012

Laura Bush was anodyne. Hell, I almost even liked her. She was completely unoffensive in many ways.

Hillary Clinton was certainly involved and combative, but it always seemed to be policy driven, and she never seemed to be looking down her nose at people.

Barbara Bush had her rhymes with rich moments, but they were almost self-consciously patrician and therefore almost comical.

Ann Romney is practiced in shooting darts at people - finding the most hurtful thing to say and saying it. This is clearly a character trait she cultivated in her youth and has perfected in the shark-infested waters of the uber-rich social circuit. She is, to put it plainly, mean. She would have been a disastrous FLOTUS, precisely for that reason. It's a question of character.

Sekhmets Daughter

(7,515 posts)
27. An excellent analysis...
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 10:46 AM
Dec 2012

Watching her speak at the convention I was struck with the "Valley Girl" gestures and speech pattern. I couldn't believe that she thought women were that stupid and shallow. I thought back to Cindy McCain's speech and while not the equal of the one given by Michelle Obama this year, it was considerably better than Ann's. I felt vindicated in my judgement when I saw the 'grade level analysis of the speeches given by all of the wives you mentioned plus Cindy McCain. Ann Romney spoke at a fifth grade level...the lowest of modern candidates' wives while Michelle Obama scored highest with a speech delivered at a 10th grade level (probably the highest that can be easily understood by most people, but that's another topic)

"It's our turn now" drove me right around the bend.

savalez

(3,517 posts)
50. Even Mitt knows that about her. After all,
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 02:33 PM
Dec 2012

at that same dinner that produced the infamous 47% video tape, he also said this:

Romney also said that the campaign purposefully was using Ann Romney "sparingly…so that people don't get tired of her."


Cha

(297,692 posts)
71. mittLies was being sooooo
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 10:02 PM
Dec 2012

CANDID! Wonder if he caught shit at home for that little nugget?.. Oh Yeah.. you know he did!

Le Taz Hot

(22,271 posts)
59. Actually, Hillary Clinton's
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 03:31 PM
Dec 2012

". . . I'm not at home baking cookies all day" was WAY condescending and there was a huge backlash for that remark. As there should have been.

 

magical thyme

(14,881 posts)
19. I don't hate to admit it.
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 10:27 AM
Dec 2012

I find her absolutely vile. The embodiment of the *negative* connotation of word entitlement.

I liked Laura. I like Hillary. I like Michelle.

I did not like Babs, especially after her vile Katrina statements (although her "beautiful" mind was almost laughable) or Nancy. But HRH Dressage Queen Annie made Babs and Nancy seem decent by comparison.

brokechris

(192 posts)
45. I actually do like Babs a bit
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 01:45 PM
Dec 2012

I like the fact that she is comfortable just being herself--she doesn't dye her hair or diet into a size 6 or get plastic surgery.

That in itself is kind of refreshing. Sometimes she looked old enough to be her husbands mom or grandmother--but she didn't care what people thought about her. That is actually kind of cool.

(she is an elitist --but I still give props to any woman who can have such confidence in herself)

musette_sf

(10,206 posts)
66. my favorite photo of Babs and GHW:
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 05:28 PM
Dec 2012


10/26/05, as the White Sox beat the Astros to win the World Series at Minute Maid Park (née "Enron Field&quot

bigtree

(86,005 posts)
11. find me someone who wasn't insulted to the core by those two and their arrogant blather
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 10:06 AM
Dec 2012

I hope it was absolutely devastating for them both.

ProSense

(116,464 posts)
9. Ah, the
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 10:02 AM
Dec 2012

suffering of privileged entitled assholes.

"By all accounts, the past month has been most difficult on Romney’s wife, Ann, who friends said believed up until the end that ascending to the White House was their destiny. They said she has been crying in private and trying to get back to riding her horses. "

Ann "I could have been the First Lady, you people" Romney

 

alcibiades_mystery

(36,437 posts)
14. Michelle Obama has had to skip a meal from time to time in her youth
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 10:08 AM
Dec 2012

Ann Romney never had to make a single sacrifice for anyone or anything in her entire life.

It's a matter of character.

NYC Liberal

(20,136 posts)
53. Now, now. Be fair.
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 02:56 PM
Dec 2012

Mitt and Ann had to sell some stocks to get by in college, so they do know what sacrifice is like!

BeyondGeography

(39,380 posts)
13. She would have spent four years whining
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 10:08 AM
Dec 2012

about one "injustice" or another, in her thin-skinned high-handed manner. If she had any common sense at all, she'd understand that it all worked out for the best.

OldDem2012

(3,526 posts)
15. Contrary opinion: Mitt's lying yet again...he just can't help himself....
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 10:13 AM
Dec 2012

....My opinion is Ann didn't want Mitt to run at all, which has been pretty evident since Mitt started his run several years. Additionally, she made at least two fairly recent public comments about fearing for Mitt's mental health during the general election campaign. Those aren't the comments of someone doing everything she can to get her husband elected.

I personally think she's pretty pleased how things turned out.

bigtree

(86,005 posts)
17. no one likes to lose
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 10:21 AM
Dec 2012

Those two got as invested in winning as any presidential couple does. It takes a large ego to presume you can lead and provide an example for the nation. They are not a humble or gracious pair.

She may well have revealed the shallowness of their ambition and their weaknesses, but she was as caught up in the attention and as transparently enthralled by the position of influence as any first lady candidate I've seen. I think Nancy Reagan might top all of the modern ones in her naked ambition for the position of influence.

 

Swede Atlanta

(3,596 posts)
54. Agree with you....
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 02:58 PM
Dec 2012

I think she is used to "winning" and so this loss must come at her pretty hard.

There was the potential excitement of the inauguration, the glitter of the inaugural balls and the American "throne", such as it is.

But I really don't think she was looking forward to being First Lady. It is a JOB. Yes it is a job with many perks but she would have to actually serve, or appear to serve, the nation. That would mean all manner of social events and finding a "cause" to champion and fight for.

I don't think she was really looking forward to that. I think she had aspirations of "royalty" but without any sense of the duty that accompanies the position.

But she definitely came across as arrogant and self-serving. So not only am I glad we don't have two destroyers as President and Vice President but I think the nation and the world are much better served by Barack and Michelle.

Generic Brad

(14,275 posts)
31. However, if she truly thinks she is better than everyone else...
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 11:20 AM
Dec 2012

..then she also feels she is superior in some way to her husband.

Freddie

(9,275 posts)
58. She got a taste of fame and liked it
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 03:24 PM
Dec 2012

A little too much. Maybe she didn't want him to run initially. Reminds me a lot of Nancy Reagan (even the fondness for red dresses) -- "I'm the power behind the throne, he'd fall apart without me."

 

Taitertots

(7,745 posts)
16. I get major Schadenfreude knowing that Ann is crying over the fact that America doesn't think...
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 10:19 AM
Dec 2012

That they are as awesome as they thought they were.

GETTINGTIRED

(330 posts)
18. Start Packing and It's Mitts time
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 10:26 AM
Dec 2012

remember those messages sent courtesy of Mitt and Ann to the President back on April 16th ....... she is certainly not first lady material ... nor he presidential.......no sympathy here for either one of them....

UTUSN

(70,743 posts)
24. Psst, Mittens!1 It'll all get better the sooner you just GO AWAY!1 Don't be PALIN & Joementum
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 10:41 AM
Dec 2012

and hang around and hang around!1

dommyluc

(57 posts)
25. Ann "Norma Desmond" Romney
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 10:43 AM
Dec 2012

"I am big! It's the presidency that got small!"
I can see her descending the staircase, telling Mr. deMille she's ready for her close-up.
What a clueless, entitled, hateful person.
But you know what really kills me? If you had met someone who knew absolutely nothing about the election, and told them that Obama had an opponent whose wife had raised 5 kids and also had MS, they would automatically figure she would be an overwhelming asset to Romney's campaign and would help him secure the White House. Yet she was absolutely unsympathetic. That was fascinating to me. Every time she opened her mouth on national TV it was like listening to a Gorgon unleashed.
I will never shed any tears for thee, Queen Ann. Go back to Kolob where thy "destiny" awaits.

spiderpig

(10,419 posts)
36. You're speaking for me, dommyluc
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 11:46 AM
Dec 2012

Ann and her equally clueless spouse would have been characters in a SNL spoof - but they represented the Republican ticket.

Sad times, these.

But Obama won! They couldn't steal this one.

Nay

(12,051 posts)
64. Raised 5 kids, had MS, AND had breast cancer. And she, as you say, was a completely
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 04:19 PM
Dec 2012

unsympathetic figure. Exactly how much odiousness does it take to wipe out all that was in her favor? A whole boatload of odiousness. It IS fascinating, and 'Gorgon unleashed' is a precise description of what we all saw.

etherealtruth

(22,165 posts)
29. It is so hard to be given so much in life ....
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 11:14 AM
Dec 2012

.. and then to not receive everything. So, so hard.

How can those with little or nothing ever understand this kind of loss?

DallasNE

(7,403 posts)
33. Ann Romney, In A Moment Of Candor, Said "It's Our Turn"
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 11:36 AM
Dec 2012

It turns out she was wrong. It was not an entitlement so she needs to put on her grown up pants and deal with it. That is what ordinary folks have to do on a daily basis.

cherish44

(2,566 posts)
38. They couldn't buy the Presidency
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 11:51 AM
Dec 2012

And they're pissed. Seriously Romney was one of the biggest buffoons to be on the presidential ticket in the past century. The fact that the election was even considered "too close to call" by so many for so long baffled the hell out of me. I'm sure they can retire in LaJolla and just relax. It's not like they'll EVER have to worry about money... Wish I had the option of retiring in LaJolla and relaxing.

TheBlackAdder

(28,216 posts)
39. It sounds like there was a violation of Personal Desires and God's Will.
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 11:55 AM
Dec 2012

Perhaps Ann needs to properly reflect on their behaviors and actions which were driven by their desires.

Behaviors and actions that God did not approve of.

edbermac

(15,947 posts)
47. Mitt had lunch with the Prez, when is Annie gonna have lunch with the First Lady?
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 01:57 PM
Dec 2012

That would be soooooo sweet!

white_wolf

(6,238 posts)
48. Oh get over it.
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 02:01 PM
Dec 2012

I'm having a hard month too, but I don't have 5 different mansions to hide in or Olympic horses to ride. Forgive me if I'm not overly sympathetic.

ShadesOfBlue

(40 posts)
49. No surprise
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 02:21 PM
Dec 2012

Didn't even need Capehart to report what to me seemed like the obvious outcome. Nothing screams "entitlement" more to me than Queen Ann. Couldn't happen to a better, gal.

 

Wellstone ruled

(34,661 posts)
52. Well well,Willard and Annie
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 02:53 PM
Dec 2012

do Disney,then to the Beach House. Turkey day with dried up chicken from Boston Market,wow,you see a pattern here. This couple are so detached from reality that,unbelievable,isn't it. Well Willard,there should be a Presidents job opening shortly at the Temple in Salt Lake,noticed old Monson is a bit feeble and starting to lose his faculties. Yah,that's the ticket,King and Queen of the Mormon Church. Their you go Annie,houses and servants all paid for by your ignorant followers. BTW,Annie's arrogant attitude is shared by many wealthy Mormon women.

Stinky The Clown

(67,819 posts)
56. I guess I'm just mean, but I have almost no sympathy for the Rmoneys
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 03:03 PM
Dec 2012

They have been running for president for more than a decade. They have contributed almost nothing to this outcry and, in have, have destroyed or diminished small parts of it. They're vultures with a sense of entitlement. Their spawn seem pretty much the same. It is my fervent hope we hear less of them than we do of Barbara Bush's stupidest son.





DonCoquixote

(13,616 posts)
67. Ya know in ten years
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 07:19 PM
Dec 2012

Tagg and the rest of the Romney spawn will all be running for Prez to avenge Momma, to which I say, GOOD! They will all make nice targets!

SoCalDem

(103,856 posts)
69. Split residency?
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 08:37 PM
Dec 2012

Winters in CA & summers in NH...yet "officially" MA is his "residence"..

Somebody needs to put electronic bear collars on them so we know which states can tax 'em

Cha

(297,692 posts)
70. She wanted the White House so bad.. she
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 09:42 PM
Dec 2012

begged Romney to Release The Tax Returns! Oh, wait.. she agreed. "That's All You're Going To Get."

Turns out.. That's all she's going to get.. just willard without their Mormon Prophet's Vision of a Mormon being in the WH.

That shit was scary.

HeiressofBickworth

(2,682 posts)
72. I have several thoughts that I haven't been able to gel together
Sun Dec 2, 2012, 11:46 PM
Dec 2012

1. I feel sorry for Ann Romney -- raised in wealth, married wealth, lived in wealth and never, never, never was able to understand how the other 99% live, love, survive and, furthermore, never made the attempt to understand. What a shallow, empty life.

2. I feel disgusted with Ann Romney when I think of other wealthy people who have stepped outside their comfort zones and actually worked to better the lives of other people. Some of the Kennedys comes to mind, for example.

3. I feel sorry for both Romneys who were raised in their church to believe that they were superior to all other humans, living and dead. Any charity performed by either one of them was for the sole benefit of other mormons, not for the betterment of humanity as a whole. Their devotion to their religion did NOT make them better people but instead played to their worst and most self-serving sides.

4. I'm disgusted by the Romneys belief that somehow they were destined by "god" to fulfill one of their church's myths -- becoming President and ruling the US through the mormon church despite the fact the the US is pluralistic on religion and our founding documents specifically exclude a state religion.

5. Maybe I should feel some sympathy over their sudden realization that they are not the god-ordained royalty they thought themselves to be. Or not.

But one thing I'm very sure of: I am relieved and over-joyed that neither Romney was selected to live out their self-delusions with the US as their playground. I think they should follow their money and off-shore themselves (or self-deport?).

agent46

(1,262 posts)
73. I wouldn't underestimate
Mon Dec 3, 2012, 12:18 AM
Dec 2012

the deleterious effect of reality on the psyches of those who live and breath religious delusion. These people are powerful fanatics of the Mormon church who most probably believed they had been chosen by god to fulfill the Mormon White Horse prophesy.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/White_Horse_Prophecy

Add to that the stress of Queen Annie's physical weakness due to MS and you have a recipe for depression and angst. I'm not a psychologist but I grew up in a religious cult and I know the kind of bizarre effects a hermetically sealed religious environment can have on people's sense of reality.

I feel sorry for Mitt and Anne Romney on the level of human compassion but on the other hand, bullshit and money have always been the engine of both authoritarian religious cults and preditory capitalism. The Romneys can't complain. As in...



Yeah it's a crazy world but they'll get over the pain eventually. Money is a good narcotic.
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