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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsWoman in iconic photo is sister of slain teacher (Victoria Soto)
Scores of people gathered in the slain teacher's hometown of Stratford, Conn., Saturday night for an emotional vigil.
The iconic Associated Press photo was taken Friday, as relatives descended on the school to find out about their loved ones. It has appeared on countless front pages and websites.
She is Jillian Soto, the sister of Victoria Soto, the first-grade teacher who has been hailed as a hero for coming between her first-grade students and the shooter by shepherding them into a closet. Victoria Soto, 27, was killed.
http://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2012/12/15/sister-of-dead-teacher-in-photo/1772011/
Justitia
(9,316 posts)NYC_SKP
(68,644 posts)Veterans commit suicide, successfully, at the rate of 18 per day.
18 successful suicides per day by US veterans.
No pictures.
18 successful suicides per day by US veterans.
No pictures.
18 successful suicides per day by US veterans.
No pictures.
18 successful suicides per day by US veterans.
No pictures.
18 successful suicides per day by US veterans.
No pictures.
18 successful suicides per day by US veterans.
No pictures.
18 successful suicides per day by US veterans.
No pictures.
littlemissmartypants
(22,694 posts)bmbmd
(3,088 posts)Now let us mourn them all together.
teddy51
(3,491 posts)eyes, nothing will. That teacher was such a hero, may she rest in peace.
myrna minx
(22,772 posts)Cooley Hurd
(26,877 posts)Now, it makes sense.
SoCalDem
(103,856 posts)The unsuspecting woman will be frozen in time...in the second her soul was laid-bare..
JoDog
(1,353 posts)humans are very visual creatures. Images get through to us when words cannot. Perhaps seeing the anguish on this woman's face will help wake people up to the need for better gun laws in most of the states, not to mention the need for radical reform of how mental health issues are handled.
I live in hope.
awoke_in_2003
(34,582 posts)roguevalley
(40,656 posts)whistler162
(11,155 posts)shut on the anti-gun nuttery we might actually get something achieved!
Le Taz Hot
(22,271 posts)I've yet to figure out how to post pictures on DU but I remember the impact of the pictures from the Civil Rights Movement of the early and mid sixties wherein the police let loose the dogs on the protestors. There was footage of protesters being beaten and crushed with water coming from a hose connected to fire hydrants. I'm convinced it was what turned the tide in this country from a vague understand of something that was largely perceived to be a regional problem to one that concerned the entire nation.
justiceischeap
(14,040 posts)you'll find out there (the good one's anyway). Pictures don't lie and covering events like mass shooters, war, etc. are hard on the photographer as well--look up Kevin Carter (he took the iconic photo of the starving girl and vulture in the background).
malaise
(269,057 posts)Losing your sister is hard any time of the year, but one week before Christmas is way too much pain.
Cha
(297,323 posts)Cerridwen
(13,258 posts)medeak
(8,101 posts)same beautiful girl.
Deep13
(39,154 posts)I'll remember that name as an American Hero. I've already forgotten the killer.
Ruby the Liberal
(26,219 posts)something just jumped at me - the feeling that she was snapped at the moment she was being told that her child was killed.
Too 'snuff' for me, iconic or not, but maybe making this information public will wake people the fuck up about the need for gun regulation in this country.
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JoDog
(1,353 posts)today I remembered this shot and thought there was a strong resemblance. I hoped I was wrong and she found her sister.
ProudToBeBlueInRhody
(16,399 posts)Me too.
adigal
(7,581 posts)It was early in the incident, and there was such chaos. This poor girl.
Sissyk
(12,665 posts)The heartbreak does not stop.
I do not know whether to thank you, or kick you (j/k kinda0\)
Serious, this keeps getting sadder and sadder.
Sky Masterson
(5,240 posts)Odin2005
(53,521 posts)Let these people GRIEVE without flashing their faces on the public airwaves.
xtraxritical
(3,576 posts)Odin2005
(53,521 posts)It's unseemly and is insulting to the survivors and the victims' families. They have enough to deal with without being badgered by "journalists".
reformist2
(9,841 posts)question everything
(47,487 posts)Relatives of the people who died were upset every time the collapse of the towers, or even the hit by the second plane were shown. They showed the death of their loved ones.
And this is what Carlee Soto told a reporter: "It's like a reminder of that moment all over again," Soto, 20, told CBS 2's Chris Wragge in a TV interview. "It kills."
Unfortunately, for many people, to get the enormity of the event they cannot rely on descriptions, they have to witness the agony, the - while not a comparison - the tear at the corner of the President's eye.
geckosfeet
(9,644 posts)FourScore
(9,704 posts)My heart goes out to her, her family and all the families of those who lost loved ones.
Raksha
(7,167 posts)Quantess
(27,630 posts)marions ghost
(19,841 posts)in a tragedy that, it can be argued, was preventable. A mother provided weapons and weapons training to her disturbed son apparently. Preventable.
We need to see it. If you don't allow photos, it's all too easy to forget. Too easy not to feel the pain. Too easy to just go back to business as usual. And hide in denial. And wait for the next one.
This is the face of grief.
Remember this face, and act on what it represents--to honor her sister.