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boston bean

(36,221 posts)
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 08:57 PM Dec 2012

Woman in iconic photo is sister of slain teacher (Victoria Soto)

The unknown woman expressing heartbreaking anguish is the sister of dead teacher.





Scores of people gathered in the slain teacher's hometown of Stratford, Conn., Saturday night for an emotional vigil.

The iconic Associated Press photo was taken Friday, as relatives descended on the school to find out about their loved ones. It has appeared on countless front pages and websites.

She is Jillian Soto, the sister of Victoria Soto, the first-grade teacher who has been hailed as a hero for coming between her first-grade students and the shooter by shepherding them into a closet. Victoria Soto, 27, was killed.


http://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2012/12/15/sister-of-dead-teacher-in-photo/1772011/
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Woman in iconic photo is sister of slain teacher (Victoria Soto) (Original Post) boston bean Dec 2012 OP
OMG - terrible news. That pic has ripped my heart out since I first saw it. -eom Justitia Dec 2012 #1
The MSM makes it easy to distribute these pics. How many are there exposing 18 daily suicides? NYC_SKP Dec 2012 #2
Roger that. n/t littlemissmartypants Dec 2012 #18
Thanks for reminding us. bmbmd Dec 2012 #26
... Agony Dec 2012 #33
That is so heart breaking, words just escape one. If that doesn't bring tears to your teddy51 Dec 2012 #3
. myrna minx Dec 2012 #4
When I first saw this photo, I thought she looked a bit young to be a parent... Cooley Hurd Dec 2012 #5
Peeping Tom AP will make lots of money on that pic. SoCalDem Dec 2012 #6
I understand why you think that way, but JoDog Dec 2012 #16
Very true, case in point... awoke_in_2003 Dec 2012 #24
her photo helps nail the coffin shut on gun nuttery. roguevalley Dec 2012 #28
Npw if we could figure ouit away to nail the coffin whistler162 Dec 2012 #35
I agree there. Le Taz Hot Dec 2012 #31
Photographer's are probably the last honest journalists justiceischeap Dec 2012 #34
How sad malaise Dec 2012 #7
It's so hard.. Cha Dec 2012 #8
. n/t Cerridwen Dec 2012 #9
so now know who CNN was focusing on in her sister's vigil today medeak Dec 2012 #10
Victoria Soto. Deep13 Dec 2012 #11
I had a weird feeling when I first saw that photo Ruby the Liberal Dec 2012 #12
This message was self-deleted by its author ProudToBeBlueInRhody Dec 2012 #14
When I saw a photo of Vicki Soto JoDog Dec 2012 #13
Yup ProudToBeBlueInRhody Dec 2012 #15
I was confused as to if she knew anything when this photo was taken? adigal Dec 2012 #17
OMG!! Sissyk Dec 2012 #19
I haven't dropped this many tears over an American tragedy since 9/11 Sky Masterson Dec 2012 #20
I find this MSM voyerism rather disgusting. Odin2005 Dec 2012 #21
Yeah, they "interview" third graders. Assholes. Not a peep about NRA on MSM either. xtraxritical Dec 2012 #22
Massacre porn. Odin2005 Dec 2012 #25
It is almost like a war photo - and has the same effect. reformist2 Dec 2012 #27
Or the 9/11 question everything Dec 2012 #37
heartbreaking geckosfeet Dec 2012 #23
I was afraid of that. FourScore Dec 2012 #29
Omigod...I haven't seen this before. Raksha Dec 2012 #30
So tragic. Quantess Dec 2012 #32
This is the face of grief marions ghost Dec 2012 #36
 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
2. The MSM makes it easy to distribute these pics. How many are there exposing 18 daily suicides?
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 08:59 PM
Dec 2012

Veterans commit suicide, successfully, at the rate of 18 per day.

18 successful suicides per day by US veterans.

No pictures.

18 successful suicides per day by US veterans.

No pictures.

18 successful suicides per day by US veterans.

No pictures.

18 successful suicides per day by US veterans.

No pictures.

18 successful suicides per day by US veterans.

No pictures.

18 successful suicides per day by US veterans.

No pictures.

18 successful suicides per day by US veterans.

No pictures.

 

teddy51

(3,491 posts)
3. That is so heart breaking, words just escape one. If that doesn't bring tears to your
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 09:00 PM
Dec 2012

eyes, nothing will. That teacher was such a hero, may she rest in peace.

SoCalDem

(103,856 posts)
6. Peeping Tom AP will make lots of money on that pic.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 09:10 PM
Dec 2012

The unsuspecting woman will be frozen in time...in the second her soul was laid-bare..

JoDog

(1,353 posts)
16. I understand why you think that way, but
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 11:00 PM
Dec 2012

humans are very visual creatures. Images get through to us when words cannot. Perhaps seeing the anguish on this woman's face will help wake people up to the need for better gun laws in most of the states, not to mention the need for radical reform of how mental health issues are handled.

I live in hope.

 

whistler162

(11,155 posts)
35. Npw if we could figure ouit away to nail the coffin
Sun Dec 16, 2012, 09:32 AM
Dec 2012

shut on the anti-gun nuttery we might actually get something achieved!

Le Taz Hot

(22,271 posts)
31. I agree there.
Sun Dec 16, 2012, 06:40 AM
Dec 2012

I've yet to figure out how to post pictures on DU but I remember the impact of the pictures from the Civil Rights Movement of the early and mid sixties wherein the police let loose the dogs on the protestors. There was footage of protesters being beaten and crushed with water coming from a hose connected to fire hydrants. I'm convinced it was what turned the tide in this country from a vague understand of something that was largely perceived to be a regional problem to one that concerned the entire nation.

justiceischeap

(14,040 posts)
34. Photographer's are probably the last honest journalists
Sun Dec 16, 2012, 09:31 AM
Dec 2012

you'll find out there (the good one's anyway). Pictures don't lie and covering events like mass shooters, war, etc. are hard on the photographer as well--look up Kevin Carter (he took the iconic photo of the starving girl and vulture in the background).

malaise

(269,057 posts)
7. How sad
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 09:13 PM
Dec 2012

Losing your sister is hard any time of the year, but one week before Christmas is way too much pain.

Ruby the Liberal

(26,219 posts)
12. I had a weird feeling when I first saw that photo
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 10:45 PM
Dec 2012

something just jumped at me - the feeling that she was snapped at the moment she was being told that her child was killed.

Too 'snuff' for me, iconic or not, but maybe making this information public will wake people the fuck up about the need for gun regulation in this country.

Response to Ruby the Liberal (Reply #12)

JoDog

(1,353 posts)
13. When I saw a photo of Vicki Soto
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 10:57 PM
Dec 2012

today I remembered this shot and thought there was a strong resemblance. I hoped I was wrong and she found her sister.

 

adigal

(7,581 posts)
17. I was confused as to if she knew anything when this photo was taken?
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 11:01 PM
Dec 2012

It was early in the incident, and there was such chaos. This poor girl.

Sissyk

(12,665 posts)
19. OMG!!
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 11:04 PM
Dec 2012

The heartbreak does not stop.

I do not know whether to thank you, or kick you (j/k kinda0\)

Serious, this keeps getting sadder and sadder.

Odin2005

(53,521 posts)
21. I find this MSM voyerism rather disgusting.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 11:21 PM
Dec 2012

Let these people GRIEVE without flashing their faces on the public airwaves.

Odin2005

(53,521 posts)
25. Massacre porn.
Sat Dec 15, 2012, 11:55 PM
Dec 2012

It's unseemly and is insulting to the survivors and the victims' families. They have enough to deal with without being badgered by "journalists".

question everything

(47,487 posts)
37. Or the 9/11
Tue Dec 18, 2012, 05:36 PM
Dec 2012

Relatives of the people who died were upset every time the collapse of the towers, or even the hit by the second plane were shown. They showed the death of their loved ones.

And this is what Carlee Soto told a reporter: "It's like a reminder of that moment all over again," Soto, 20, told CBS 2's Chris Wragge in a TV interview. "It kills."

Unfortunately, for many people, to get the enormity of the event they cannot rely on descriptions, they have to witness the agony, the - while not a comparison - the tear at the corner of the President's eye.

FourScore

(9,704 posts)
29. I was afraid of that.
Sun Dec 16, 2012, 04:17 AM
Dec 2012

My heart goes out to her, her family and all the families of those who lost loved ones.

marions ghost

(19,841 posts)
36. This is the face of grief
Sun Dec 16, 2012, 09:44 AM
Dec 2012

in a tragedy that, it can be argued, was preventable. A mother provided weapons and weapons training to her disturbed son apparently. Preventable.

We need to see it. If you don't allow photos, it's all too easy to forget. Too easy not to feel the pain. Too easy to just go back to business as usual. And hide in denial. And wait for the next one.

This is the face of grief.

Remember this face, and act on what it represents--to honor her sister.

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