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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsMy Breakfast Was Interupted By STUPID
Wife and I went to breakfast this morning in McMinnville OR early this morning. The place is always packed so we figured it must be good.
We ordered our meal and we were mostly done eating when 2 men and a women sat down next to us. They had the Oregonian and broke it up so each could read it. One of the men was reading a bit loud an article on the CT mass murders and then stopped and and said "Yep Obama's going to get his way and he is going to take our guns away from us...we need to impeach him like Clinton"
They sat and ragged more on the guns rights issue all the while I locked my eyes on them. One of them looked over at me and smiled and I said "Tell me when and where Obama said he was going to take your guns away from you....and do you think you are more honest than Obama,REALLY.
I closed up my comments by saying, I lost some of my libertys and constitutional protected privacy over 9/11 at the hand of a republican president,you do remember Bushjr dont you?... If gun organizations cant get their shit together you dont deserve to own them.Gun ownership comes with responsibility so take it.
The cancelled their meal order and sipped up the last of their coffee and left.
maryellen99
(3,789 posts)whats more important to these people: their precious guns or the fact that 18 little kids were killed.
Thank you for speaking up!
lpbk2713
(42,759 posts)That's the least price they could pay for being such assholes.
And I hope Obama can get something done now that momentum is in his favor.
meanit
(455 posts)I'd bet those people probably have "I'm the NRA" stickers on their cars, too.
And yes. people like them ARE the NRA
Bluzmann57
(12,336 posts)I haven't met a righty yet who doesn't end up yelling to try and get their (inane) point across. Good for you for pointing out the truth.
One more thing, I have been hunting in the past and refused to touch alcohol until after the days activities were done. An awful lot of people drink while hunting and that leads to bad things. I wonder if the guy you encountered at breakfast was drunk? Or just stupid?
R. Daneel Olivaw
(12,606 posts)Bullies yell and swagger, but yet when confronted back down and slither away.
elehhhhna
(32,076 posts)Really? Twenty children slaughtered in three minutes and YOU'RE the victim? Wow. You're amazingly self-involved.
avebury
(10,952 posts)Fla Dem
(23,691 posts)"If gun organizations can't get their shit together you don't deserve to own them. Gun ownership comes with responsibility so take it."
MurrayDelph
(5,299 posts)I'm ambivalent about your story.
While it's true those people were assholes, your counter-attack cost the business (who provably had to throw out some, if not all, of their partially-prepared orders) an amount equal to 4 hours of your server's salary.
So when you are talking about responsibility, remember free speech has it too.. Choose your battlegrounds wisely.
Skidmore
(37,364 posts)shut someone up who expressed their opinion. So no one should ever have an opinion except loudmouths. How is it the OPs responsibility if these people could not tolerate being called on their crap?
MurrayDelph
(5,299 posts)everyone has their extremist moments, where their view is more-important than the collateral damage.
As is the case with the gun tragedy that inspired the current discussions, all I am saying is there has to ne a better way to counter thses assholes than by being a bigger asshole.
(and no, I am not calling the OP an asshole)
PavePusher
(15,374 posts)they tend to be impervious to irony.
MurrayDelph
(5,299 posts)One of the problems with any group of people, no matter how good they are at heart, is that they have certain blind spots.
For the record, I believe those who are currently flaming me are well-meaning people.
Also, for the record, I did not say that nothing should ever be done about these type of bullies (i.e. the loudmouth assholes at the table adjacent to the OP) ever. Nor did I say that nothing should be done to combat their fetish towards guns.
What I did say was "choose your battleground wisely."
The OP was lucky that these loudmouths were just loudmouths. In the current climate, I am not sure how wise it is to directly confront a gun nut, when emotions are high on both sides. It is, however time to confront our elected officials to get off their collective fat asses and do something (I have no idea what; I'm just a former kindergarten teacher turned former restauranteur).
Also, for the record, I have a personal disdain for guns that goes back over twenty years, when a gang member walked onto my niece's high school and shot a rival gang member who was standing close-enough to my niece that she saw the flash and the bullet. Fortunately, back then, they only shot at the person they had the grudge over and not all the bystanders.
PavePusher
(15,374 posts)that is overwhelmingly law-abiding and not the primary source of criminals, does you a bit of a dis-service.
I don't defend their idiocy, but your implied concern for their reaction is misplaced.
Paulie
(8,462 posts)Coming on DU to talk about but letting the comments in person in public stand?
If the nuts are allowed their speech in public and there just happens to be a congress person in a booth a few rows down, what impression will that legislator take back to the people's house?
Someone says fucked up shit in public they need to be called on it. Every time. If they walk out fine, they should go back under the rock from which they slithered.
zbdent
(35,392 posts)more likely, if it's worth 4 hours of the server's salary ... then it's overpriced.
Then again, the "wasted food" probably was eaten by the "server" and cook(s) ... generally, if a place gets "stiffed" by the "patron", the place would likely take action against the "patron". In this case, the patrons didn't just walk out without warning, they left after canceling. Likely, they didn't get the prep past the soup or salad portion.
xmas74
(29,674 posts)it would be easy to have one meal be worth four hours of a server's salary. And I've waited in tables in restaurants over the years where if a customer refused to pay it came out of your pay.
hatrack
(59,587 posts)Kind of like an NRA argument, now that I think of it . . .
avebury
(10,952 posts)The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing.
― Edmund Burke
elehhhhna
(32,076 posts)we should limit free speech if it might affect someone's profits?
might want to think that through.
Cha
(297,323 posts)the Gunners were too Chicken to stay with their loud Pres Obama Lying Mouths.
Generic Other
(28,979 posts)The gun nutters would have spoiled my appetite and I would have left too.
I would have asked for my meal to go.
And I would not have returned.
George II
(67,782 posts)I would imagine they didn't pay for their coffee, either.
Fumesucker
(45,851 posts)Possibly one of the dumbest things I've read on DU in the last hour or so.
Moral Compass
(1,521 posts)I'm surrounded by the these idiots at work. They think that their rights to bear arms trumps any other right enumerated in the Constitution.
I'm ashamed to admit that I don't even try any longer...
onecent
(6,096 posts)FightingIrish
(2,716 posts)We showed the world how little class we have.
http://www.thegauntlet.com/article/525/26933/Randy-Blythe-Disgusted-By-Audience-In-Oregon#.UM4ShHdBmSo
WinkyDink
(51,311 posts)lobodons
(1,290 posts)Peoples right to own a gun end when public safety is threatened.
Cleita
(75,480 posts)down pat. I don't know what the Oregonian is saying these days about Obama and I don't watch FoxNews, so I don't know for sure, but it seems possible this is where they are being fed those talking points. I don't know how we fight this other than do what you did and straighten them out. I haven't read the Oregonian since the Clinton days, which is the last time I visited Oregon, so I don't know if they are ginning up this impeach Obama rhetoric. If they are, then LTTE by liberals telling them they are full of it seem to be in order until they stop printing that trash.
Initech
(100,081 posts)After all, he's caused paranoid lunatics around the country to purchase guns in droves, then they buy the bullshit propaganda being spewed by the NRA that Obama is somehow going to take their precious guns away. Right.
derby378
(30,252 posts)Imagine all the shit I'd have to deal with standing among them. The worst part? Sometimes, stupid is contagious.
PatrynXX
(5,668 posts)politics doesn't come up but even yesterday he went off saying Mike Huckabee is dead right. Really? then why do most murders happen in the USA. a supposed Christian nation?? Course this is a question satan would ask. without being asked.... But if Mike's bringing it up.. he's at fault for it. and many murders happen in the south. Some in the name of God.
elehhhhna
(32,076 posts)Perhaps those mass shootings would have been prevented with more prayer.
ejpoeta
(8,933 posts)and yes i am being sarcastic. I keep seeing that bs on facebook.
Cleita
(75,480 posts)For more than a decade I have been trying to get my step kids to vote. Their answer was that voting doesn't change anything so they won't vote and they really hadn't voted for most of their adult years. Last election, they registered to vote and voted. This was like a tiger changing his stripes to spots. So don't give up.
ReRe
(10,597 posts).... but you did what was right for you, and good on you for it. Me? I would have that SOB follow me outside for a little "Chit Chat", so to speak.
Initech
(100,081 posts)Last edited Sun Dec 16, 2012, 03:57 PM - Edit history (1)
I would not have been that polite. Part of me hopes that someone does take their guns away.
Octafish
(55,745 posts)Thanks to television, alcohol and the BFEE, people have become so stupid that they no longer realize they have a choice: They can either stand to do something to stop gun violence or they can sit and allow things to continue as they are.
Initech
(100,081 posts)Is that our lame talking points media never blames easy access to guns for any tragedy - it's always something else. The NRA has become such a powerful political entity where to even question their policies is like the worst thing you could ever do. We need to start reducing or even eliminating the NRA's political influence. But nope - dipshits like Huckabee have started toting their usual "we need more prayer in schools" bullshit and people are buying it.
JEB
(4,748 posts)like that, if they had a moment of honest self examination would stick the barrel of their guns in their mouths and pull the trigger. Not much danger of a mass suicide of gun nuts, they are generally delusional chickenshits. They dive deeper into their delusion at every opportunity. What you said to them is probably the nicest most honest thing anybody has said to them in a long while. Who knows....it might start the wheels turning.
CountAllVotes
(20,876 posts)Poor boys, they cancelled their orders and left. Awww ...
Good on you for speaking the truth!
& recommend!!
shenmue
(38,506 posts)I am glad you called them out.