You can't compromise with a culture built on violence and fear

After spending time with the 'other" side of the family for the holidays the sentiment that the government is out to get us, we must prepare for the world order, etc has grown only stronger. The embrace of weapons that cause death has only increased. The belief that a house is well protected with such a device is solidified. Taxes are going up so the government can horde the cash and starve the population through an economic blitz, so the new world order can be established yadda yadda yadda. If you think all these ideas are isolated drivel spouted by a select few, I am here to tell you that you are wrong. I heard this from many people I know, and frankly that is the most disturbing thing in all of this.

Often I am asked about my opinion about these various topics. And the best way I can answer these questions isn't to belittle their point of view, but simply lay out facts and truth. After that, I let them determine what they want to believe. But, I am not naive enough to believe that is enough. Reality is these people are your neighbors, friends, family, coworkers, etc. You have to interact with them or the entire fabric of society would fall apart. At the same time though, I am starting to wonder can we continue to this facade if these types of poisonous ideas persist? When is it enough?

One side of me wants to help as that is at the core of my nature, but the other pragmatic side of me realizes that people that need help often seek it out if they genuinely want help. Can we maintain a just, stable, democratic republic at this pace? I don't know but what I do know is that I reject the idea we have to compromise with the worship of violence in our society or the racism/sexims, etc that is rampant. For me personally, the last few months have been an epiphany for me when it comes to a variety of beliefs. Some beliefs may have not been altered for me while others have changed radically.

But what has been the catalyst to these changing beliefs is interacting with other people as it has reinforced my position as a progressive. I would argue that I am more liberal now than I was ten years ago, because I am more honest about what I believe in. And most importantly I am not afraid to point it out no more.

The best way to combat such ideas is to hold onto dearly the ideas that make us Democrats. Have a happy New Year, and don't forget who you are at the core. Don't give up.