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n2doc

(47,953 posts)
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 12:15 PM Feb 2013

5-Year-Old Threatened With Suspension For Making Gun Out Of Legos

HYANNIS (CBS) – A mother says her 5-year-old boy was threatened with suspension after he made a gun out of Legos during an after school program.

Sheila Cruz received a written warning recently about her son from the after school staff at the Hyannis West Elementary School because he had been using toys inappropriately.

While Cruz thought her son Joseph Cardosa was just being a kid, she said school administrators called his actions a threat.

“I was given a book and they told me he’s going to be suspended if he does it again and to sign here,” Cruz told WBZ NewsRadio 1030 Tuesday. “I just couldn’t believe it. He’s 5-years-old.”

Joseph’s parents called the school principal but were given the same warning.

http://boston.cbslocal.com/2013/01/29/hyannis-5-year-old-threatened-with-suspension-for-making-gun-out-of-legos/

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5-Year-Old Threatened With Suspension For Making Gun Out Of Legos (Original Post) n2doc Feb 2013 OP
my kid got a warning -- alert the media! n/t Enrique Feb 2013 #1
Yeah, I know. randome Feb 2013 #10
Cause this zero tolerance policy is stupid nadinbrzezinski Feb 2013 #12
Next: expulsion for drawing a picture of a gun - held by a cowboy on a horse. kestrel91316 Feb 2013 #24
I think that has actually happened in the past. eom Purveyor Feb 2013 #27
I drew such when growing up nadinbrzezinski Feb 2013 #57
Nadin I remember reading some where AsahinaKimi Feb 2013 #67
I know, a few believe it's ok nadinbrzezinski Feb 2013 #69
I read it again and noticed something i had missed Enrique Feb 2013 #29
And you think there should have even been a warning? nadinbrzezinski Feb 2013 #56
think of it like a dress code Enrique Feb 2013 #60
And in this you think a five year old knows nadinbrzezinski Feb 2013 #62
At least they didn't suspend him summarily. aikoaiko Feb 2013 #2
When is this nonsense going to stop? Teachers and schools DESTROY their own reputations Nay Feb 2013 #3
No one called the cops. Robb Feb 2013 #8
Yes, blame thd teachers obamanut2012 Feb 2013 #21
The teacher has to carry out the HappyMe Feb 2013 #32
I know this specific incident didn't involve cops -- but the last few incidents here on DU did. I Nay Feb 2013 #37
In 3rd grade me and my friends used to draw war and super hero battles The Straight Story Feb 2013 #4
You've got sort of a a gun-lovin' Andy Rooney thing going, huh? Robb Feb 2013 #9
We also made ashtrays out of clay for our parents The Straight Story Feb 2013 #17
"Was" marions ghost Feb 2013 #23
Question is why now and not then? The Straight Story Feb 2013 #26
Times have changed marions ghost Feb 2013 #28
Thankfully, yes. Society is changing. For the better. It's called "PROGRESS". KittyWampus Feb 2013 #42
This is hysteria newfie11 Feb 2013 #5
Maybe it was more of an Open Carry violation. nt joeunderdog Feb 2013 #63
Lol nt newfie11 Feb 2013 #71
I don't like how the topic of guns has become a moral panic. Dash87 Feb 2013 #73
Perhaps it would have been better for the enlightenment Feb 2013 #6
This article is nonsense. Observe: Robb Feb 2013 #7
The difference is between giving his mother a warning and giving the child a warning. Bandit Feb 2013 #15
Perhaps I've just interacted with the age group more recently than most. Robb Feb 2013 #22
yeah, that's pretty funny Enrique Feb 2013 #30
Indicates to me there's a bias in the story against the warning. KittyWampus Feb 2013 #44
the legos just stacked into an L shape 2pooped2pop Feb 2013 #11
Yeah, but if he'd made a real gun, joeybee12 Feb 2013 #13
Where in my son's class (7th grade art), a kid made marshallow shooters for everyone woodsprite Feb 2013 #14
For good marks when I was in elementary you school you could choose trinkets froma box Puzzledtraveller Feb 2013 #16
Paranoia can be good marions ghost Feb 2013 #25
Ah yes, obviously, that construction of Legos could become a deadly weapon at any moment! n/t backscatter712 Feb 2013 #34
Yes, absolutely. RC Feb 2013 #58
Today it's just a toy gun made from Legos Nuclear Unicorn Feb 2013 #72
I didn't even know what a gun looked like when I was 5... EastKYLiberal Feb 2013 #18
Schools that bend over too far backwards will soon learn that they have no spine derby378 Feb 2013 #19
Damned straight. backscatter712 Feb 2013 #36
I remember those rjj621 Feb 2013 #41
Sorry, but that is impossible. n/t Ashgrey77 Feb 2013 #64
This is just dumb. HappyMe Feb 2013 #20
my son likes to draw action heroes backtoblue Feb 2013 #31
Totally ridiculous. backscatter712 Feb 2013 #33
Man, this is serious. Biden better get on this stuff fadedrose Feb 2013 #35
We should ban assault Legos - especially the high-capacity ones derby378 Feb 2013 #50
Fun with Legos Remmah2 Feb 2013 #38
Are school administrators required to shed common sense at the school house door? Comrade Grumpy Feb 2013 #39
Zero tolerance is license for authoritarian assholes to jerk people around on a whim. backscatter712 Feb 2013 #43
Ever work with the public? I and my family have for many decades. Make an exception for one KittyWampus Feb 2013 #45
That's when you tell the next person. backscatter712 Feb 2013 #48
This is the type of anecdotal story that will make FOX News. kentuck Feb 2013 #40
Bullshit story about a whiny foxnews parent Viking12 Feb 2013 #46
Local Paper Account 4Q2u2 Feb 2013 #47
OH MY GOD!!! backscatter712 Feb 2013 #49
The People 4Q2u2 Feb 2013 #52
+1 n/t rjj621 Feb 2013 #54
Funny, when I was five, gun gestures didn't bother me. backscatter712 Feb 2013 #65
School on alert! lumberjack_jeff Feb 2013 #51
So much for my Roy Rogers gun and holster! WinkyDink Feb 2013 #53
Reminds me of the old joke about the guy getting the Rorschach test. lpbk2713 Feb 2013 #55
Yes, the intolerance expressed by schools is ridiculous. randome Feb 2013 #59
Good. They need to learn early that guns are evil and they will not be tolerated. bowens43 Feb 2013 #61
I guess those school administrators will learn them there youngin's guardian Feb 2013 #66
Guns are bad, mkay. Ashgrey77 Feb 2013 #68
Oops! That will be my great grandson. He is very creative with legos. jwirr Feb 2013 #70
 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
12. Cause this zero tolerance policy is stupid
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 12:42 PM
Feb 2013

Read the story again. Unless Legos are a working weapon this is sheer stupidity.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
57. I drew such when growing up
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 04:18 PM
Feb 2013

Worst, we enjoyed hangman at school. I know, a deadly and worthy of expulsion offense.

AsahinaKimi

(20,776 posts)
67. Nadin I remember reading some where
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 07:13 PM
Feb 2013

on DU, about a kid who was suspended for pointing his finger at another student, and saying bang bang. The kid only used his hand to represent a weapon, and I thought that was rather off the wall. The kid, like this one was very young.

Enrique

(27,461 posts)
29. I read it again and noticed something i had missed
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 01:42 PM
Feb 2013

the story starts by saying the boy received a warning letter. It ends with a quote from the mother, "couldn't they have given him a warning?"

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
56. And you think there should have even been a warning?
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 04:17 PM
Feb 2013

I am asking a very serious question. In the current environment I would have been expelled as early as first grade, if not earlier...I could draw some really violent pictures...involving...guns, I know, the horror!

This is sheer stupidity...or can I somehow make a working gun from...Legos?

Enrique

(27,461 posts)
60. think of it like a dress code
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 05:03 PM
Feb 2013

you could ask me about some random school in the middle of nowhere, "do you think that kid should have been sent home for not wearing a tie?" My honest answer would be that the tie is not that important, but I would also say, if you're at that school just wear the stupid tie. And if your kid gets sent home for not having a tie, don't call the local news.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
62. And in this you think a five year old knows
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 05:28 PM
Feb 2013

Not to draw super heroes, with gunz I know...horror!

Funny you mention dress code, we had uniforms. A five year old gets warned due to the über dangerous super fully automatic Legos gun...

A teen at the top of her class faces expulsion for writing a somewhat violent poem after Newtown...

Are you starting to grasp the problem here? For the record, I would have been expelled for violent poetry too.

I am thankful I don't ave kids...we are killing that creativity in the name of security...what did one of the Founders write on the Subject? Oh never mind, in the name of security will stop teaching that too

aikoaiko

(34,174 posts)
2. At least they didn't suspend him summarily.
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 12:17 PM
Feb 2013

I suppose that is growth for those stuck with zero tolerance.

Nay

(12,051 posts)
3. When is this nonsense going to stop? Teachers and schools DESTROY their own reputations
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 12:22 PM
Feb 2013

when they act like this, esp when they actually are dumb enough to call the cops over it.

HappyMe

(20,277 posts)
32. The teacher has to carry out the
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 02:05 PM
Feb 2013

school policy. I don't think they have much choice in the matter.

Nay

(12,051 posts)
37. I know this specific incident didn't involve cops -- but the last few incidents here on DU did. I
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 02:22 PM
Feb 2013

was making a generalized comment about the general 'kid with a watergun/finger gun/lego gun' craziness.

I should NOT have implied that teachers are responsible -- I know they have to follow whatever idiot rules have been put in place. I also should have expanded on my frustration by asking whether the school boards/states/counties who install such rules are overrun with Pubs who want to make the schools look stupid (thus aiding in their destruction) or whether this is the result of other kinds of craziness.

My main point is that it is the teacher and the school are both made to look stupid in these scenarios, and it behooves them (and us) to determine what can be done to bring sanity back into these situations.

The Straight Story

(48,121 posts)
4. In 3rd grade me and my friends used to draw war and super hero battles
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 12:22 PM
Feb 2013

Vietnam was still fresh in everyone's minds and talked about in school (Our teacher had someone she knew there, can't remember the relation to her though). This was like 1973/74.

We had tanks, guns, paratroopers, etc we would draw in our down time and play 'tank game' where you draw a tank and use your pencil to shoot at the opposing on (hold your finger on top of the pencil, apply pressure, and let it fly, mark the spot, next turn, etc).

Teachers smoked on the playground and in the lounge

The thing we were most afraid of was tornadoes. We had drills for those and fire.

Outside of that we did get into 'stranger danger' discussion in our patrol group (I was a crossing guard in 5th/6th grade and would walk a good distance away from school to help the other kids cross - this job is done by grown ups now).

We had baked goods our parents would send for birthdays. Sang Christmas and Hannukah songs. No state testing.

School was fun for the most part.

Now it is a business.

Robb

(39,665 posts)
9. You've got sort of a a gun-lovin' Andy Rooney thing going, huh?
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 12:34 PM
Feb 2013

"Have you noticed there aren't as many homemade gifts given anymore? It's the Gun Grabbin' Liberals."

marions ghost

(19,841 posts)
23. "Was"
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 01:24 PM
Feb 2013

Those were the olden days. This is now.

I think it's fine for schools to discourage guns, pictures of guns and Lego guns if they want to. Not be heavy about it, just ask the child not to do that. Images of guns disturb others.

Not a lot to ask.

marions ghost

(19,841 posts)
28. Times have changed
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 01:35 PM
Feb 2013

in a big way. Not many people want to live in a country where you can get gunned down in a public place. The tipping point has been reached.

I would answer your question in more depth but I don't have time right now. If you or people in general can even ASK this question, then there is a whole lotta territory to cover. Suffice to say, a lot of people have had it up to HERE.

Life is not worth living if you have to be afraid to go out of the house--whether you carry a gun because of that, or not.

Dash87

(3,220 posts)
73. I don't like how the topic of guns has become a moral panic.
Sat Feb 2, 2013, 12:55 AM
Feb 2013

It's not surprising, but it makes it less likely that any decent gun control measures will be passed. It turns the gun control issue into a parody of itself. This story is one example of that.

A 5 year old is obviously not going to kill anyone (and wouldn't have the mental capacity to even contemplate it).

enlightenment

(8,830 posts)
6. Perhaps it would have been better for the
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 12:27 PM
Feb 2013

teacher or aide or whomever to sit down and help the child build something else - perhaps gently explain that making a gun isn't nice and there are so many other interesting and fun things to create?

They could have made it a learning moment instead of shrieking hysteria - with a note home to mom and dad that they should keep an eye on him and - again - encourage him to express himself in different ways.

Robb

(39,665 posts)
7. This article is nonsense. Observe:
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 12:30 PM
Feb 2013

Second paragraph:

Sheila Cruz received a written warning recently about her son from the after school staff at the Hyannis West Elementary School because he had been using toys inappropriately.


Sixth paragraph:

“‘I said listen, he’s a 5-year-old, I think maybe a redirection would be more appropriate. I understand what’s going on with this whole thing in schools and everything else but couldn’t they have given him a warning?’ ” Cruz said.


Bandit

(21,475 posts)
15. The difference is between giving his mother a warning and giving the child a warning.
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 12:48 PM
Feb 2013

Why couldn't they have just given the child a warning and let it go at that unless he did it again. Why send a formal letter of warning to his mother?

Robb

(39,665 posts)
22. Perhaps I've just interacted with the age group more recently than most.
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 01:23 PM
Feb 2013

Addressing disruptive behavior with 5 year-olds is rough sledding on all fronts; a reasonable caregiver would be forgiven for thinking a parent might be an ally in helping change the behavior.

Rather than, for instance, heading to the local news with her story.

Enrique

(27,461 posts)
30. yeah, that's pretty funny
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 01:47 PM
Feb 2013

also it's dumb that the article did not address that contradiction. It shows they report on these things kind of mindlessly.

 

KittyWampus

(55,894 posts)
44. Indicates to me there's a bias in the story against the warning.
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 02:51 PM
Feb 2013

Sort of like >>> "Hey everyone, school wildly overreacts to perfectly normal childhood behavior".

 

2pooped2pop

(5,420 posts)
11. the legos just stacked into an L shape
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 12:40 PM
Feb 2013

The 5 year old probably was not trying to make a gun. He started stacking lego's, ended up with an L, and if you pick up that L shaped lego stack, it would have to become a gun.

woodsprite

(11,916 posts)
14. Where in my son's class (7th grade art), a kid made marshallow shooters for everyone
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 12:44 PM
Feb 2013

and has been asked by his teacher to plan on selling them at a craft fair. I am a bit surprised because, even though the kid doing it had been working on it as an independent craft project, they were distributed to her art classmates as xmas presents the week after the CT massacre. Then for the teacher to suggest selling them at the student craft fair - I was thinking she needed some money to buy a clue and some sensitivity.

Truthfully, how can a kid use a freaking toy inappropriately unless he used the blocks to whack the kid over the head! Heck, 1/8th of any Toys-R-Us is filled with guns - no matter where you go. You have the action figures with weapons, then the dress up play sets to match the action figures that have full size weapons, then there is several rows of Nerf guns, Aqua Blasters, Cap guns, Super Soakers, Power Blasters, Airsoft, and Paintball guns, etc...

Puzzledtraveller

(5,937 posts)
16. For good marks when I was in elementary you school you could choose trinkets froma box
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 12:49 PM
Feb 2013

Among the many toys were army men, action figures etc.. Overall I think we have gone f*cking loco and bat shit paranoid. IMHO.

marions ghost

(19,841 posts)
25. Paranoia can be good
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 01:26 PM
Feb 2013

if it keeps you alive.

These days, when a school can easily become a war zone, you have to draw a line in the sand.

 

RC

(25,592 posts)
58. Yes, absolutely.
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 04:36 PM
Feb 2013

It's a good thing he was stopped before he built some bullets for it, or they'd all be dead.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
72. Today it's just a toy gun made from Legos
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 11:31 PM
Feb 2013

But next thing you know they have banks of high-speed centrifuges cranking out fissile material high-yield tri-phase nuclear warheads that induce anti-proton sub-atomic singularity inductions that swallow the entire solar system.

Surely, you don't think the 2nd Amendment protects those, do you?

Legos are the gateway doomsday device.

derby378

(30,252 posts)
19. Schools that bend over too far backwards will soon learn that they have no spine
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 01:18 PM
Feb 2013

This "zero tolerance" business is odious.

backscatter712

(26,355 posts)
36. Damned straight.
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 02:19 PM
Feb 2013

You can't even have toy guns?

Back when I was a kid, we had toy guns all the time. They didn't have the orange things on the ends of the barrels to show they're toys. Sometimes, they even shot projectiles. Usually not hard enough to damage people very much.

rjj621

(103 posts)
41. I remember those
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 02:46 PM
Feb 2013

Most of the boys in my neighborhood all had toy gun and the more realistic the better. We would all play cops/robbers or war or any other number of things our young imaginations could come up with and typically have the arguments of "I shot you" "No you didn't". Many of us had a gun with a clip in the handle to put a strip of plastic caps to make to pop. When there was no more noise we were out of bullets and had to reload. Back when kids could be kids.

backtoblue

(11,344 posts)
31. my son likes to draw action heroes
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 02:02 PM
Feb 2013

sometimes they have swords or bows or guns. I've told him that to make sure he doesn't draw guns at school because it could be taken wrong by some.

When he raised an eyebrow at me, I sat him down an explained that guns are a very sensitive topic and that besides, ninjas don't need guns. We don't have guns in our house, but I was concerned that his drawings could be taken wrong.

backscatter712

(26,355 posts)
33. Totally ridiculous.
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 02:13 PM
Feb 2013

I used to draw pictures of deaths that today would make it into a Saw movie, and the teachers didn't bat an eye.

No, I didn't grow up to be a serial killer.

fadedrose

(10,044 posts)
35. Man, this is serious. Biden better get on this stuff
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 02:18 PM
Feb 2013

This makes a mockery of the real problem.

A 5-year old with Legos is innocent, and I'm surprised that anybody recognized what it was. He should have been praised for ingenuity then incouraged to make something like cars, planes, etc.

Poor kid. Poor parents..

derby378

(30,252 posts)
50. We should ban assault Legos - especially the high-capacity ones
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 03:42 PM
Feb 2013

You know, the Lego "bricks" that are actually plates that you can stack tons of smaller bricks on? They have no business being on the streets. I should know - I accidentally stepped on one of those little suckers while barefoot, and it hurt like Hell.

 

Comrade Grumpy

(13,184 posts)
39. Are school administrators required to shed common sense at the school house door?
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 02:42 PM
Feb 2013

Okay, I understand the problem with guns and the concerns at schools. But we get a steady litany of these kinds of stories (not just about guns) where administrators seem to just blindly apply well-meaning rules in ridiculous, oppressive fashion.

Zero tolerance seems to come down to zero critical thinking.

backscatter712

(26,355 posts)
43. Zero tolerance is license for authoritarian assholes to jerk people around on a whim.
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 02:49 PM
Feb 2013

Essentially a powergrab by water-cooler and playground dictators.

 

KittyWampus

(55,894 posts)
45. Ever work with the public? I and my family have for many decades. Make an exception for one
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 02:52 PM
Feb 2013

and the next person WILL want favorable treatment.

backscatter712

(26,355 posts)
48. That's when you tell the next person.
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 03:27 PM
Feb 2013

"That's why they're called EXEMPTIONS. I chose to give the last guy one. I don't have to give you one."

kentuck

(111,106 posts)
40. This is the type of anecdotal story that will make FOX News.
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 02:44 PM
Feb 2013

As if it is the rule and not the exception.

Viking12

(6,012 posts)
46. Bullshit story about a whiny foxnews parent
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 02:56 PM
Feb 2013

The school is prohibited by law from discussing the incident. As others have posted above, the parent "received a warning" (probably not a 'warning').

 

4Q2u2

(1,406 posts)
47. Local Paper Account
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 03:08 PM
Feb 2013

"Although her son had been in trouble a few weeks earlier for pointing his finger as if it were a gun, Cruz said she hadn't heard any other complaints about his behavior.

Joseph, who pointed the Lego gun at other students and made shooting sounds, received several verbal reminders that he must be safe and respectful before he was formally reprimanded, Barnstable schools Superintendent Mary Czajkowski said Tuesday.

“At least five verbal reminders of proper, respectful and safe behavior were given,” she said.
Other students became uncomfortable and moved away from Joseph because of his behavior, she said.
School officials reacted appropriately in issuing the reprimand, Czajkowski said"


Cape Cod Times.

 

4Q2u2

(1,406 posts)
52. The People
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 04:04 PM
Feb 2013

The people that were uncomfortable were 5 yr old children. The teachers have an obligation to protect them. I agree that some 5 yr old pointing a gun at an adult would not elicit fear, but we have scared our children death in this country with everything. "Call the police" is also a far cry from a written letter to the parent stating that your child has not been obeying the rules. This is the result of our society trying to cocoon our children from the world, they are ruled and regulated into submission. One size fits all rules, usually bad rules.

backscatter712

(26,355 posts)
65. Funny, when I was five, gun gestures didn't bother me.
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 05:45 PM
Feb 2013

My friends and I were making gun gestures and bang-bang noises (or pew-pew noises - we were all into Star Wars), pointing toy guns at each other, and engaging in endless hours of pretend violence. Nobody was "uncomfortable."

lpbk2713

(42,762 posts)
55. Reminds me of the old joke about the guy getting the Rorschach test.
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 04:11 PM
Feb 2013


"Hey, they're your dirty pictures!"


They
provided the gun parts.



 

randome

(34,845 posts)
59. Yes, the intolerance expressed by schools is ridiculous.
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 04:44 PM
Feb 2013

But it's not as simple as it seems. Everyone saying, "Well, in my day we..." is missing the larger picture.

We have a more violent culture than before. We have greater population densities and our schools are hopelessly underfunded.

All these things play into the impetus to develop zero-tolerance policies.

I'm not agreeing with them, mind you, but stepping back and observing why officials move in that direction becomes a little clearer when you look at all the factors involved.

 

guardian

(2,282 posts)
66. I guess those school administrators will learn them there youngin's
Fri Feb 1, 2013, 06:22 PM
Feb 2013

Dialog between teacher and student

Teacher: "You're gonna get your mind right--and I mean right"
Student: Don't hit me anymore...Oh God, I pray to God you don't hit me anymore. I'll do anything you say, but I can't take anymore.
Teacher: You got your mind right, Luke?
Student: Yeah. I got it right. I got it right, boss. (He grips the ankles of the teacher)
Teacher: Suppose you's back-slide on us?
Student: Oh no I won't. I won't, boss.
Teacher: Suppose you's to back-sass?
Student: No I won't. I won't. I got my mind right.
Teacher: You draw a picture of a gun again, we gonna kill ya.
Student: I won't, I won't, boss.

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