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Beyonce blowing the doors off the place. (Original Post) trumad Feb 2013 OP
I've no doubt she's talented BuddhaGirl Feb 2013 #1
to each their own I guess. trumad Feb 2013 #3
same here Skittles Feb 2013 #13
Sounds to me like Tagish_Charlie Feb 2013 #64
Agree aptal Feb 2013 #61
Mine neither. I didn't get to see the show. Was she actually singing or plethoro Feb 2013 #70
You can't set up live sound in 15 minutes. That is a 3 hour job minimum to do concert quality sound BlueStreak Feb 2013 #87
Very interesting. Thanks for your answer........nft plethoro Feb 2013 #137
Yep. The music sucked. Plus, the whole thing was disjointed. It was like stopbush Feb 2013 #74
She can't sing. She can wail and there is no question about that. n/t vaberella Feb 2013 #79
Meh. Berlum Feb 2013 #90
They all sounded alike to me also. nt Mojorabbit Feb 2013 #133
Not only that.... sendero Feb 2013 #156
Agreed!! BuddhaGirl Feb 2013 #161
All I can say is ... she's certainly no Whitney Houston!! Bake Feb 2013 #163
True Freakin' Dat. nolabear Feb 2013 #2
All that was missing was the stripper pole... Atman Feb 2013 #4
SCHEDULING ATMAN FOR ASS KICKING Skittles Feb 2013 #15
Perhaps you would prefer the singing nun? eom Cleita Feb 2013 #18
Singing nun dlwickham Feb 2013 #33
Hmm, no not that singing nun. n/t Cleita Feb 2013 #36
I like singing nuns who fight Nazis ZRT2209 Feb 2013 #54
I like singing nuns who ride in buses and beat up Paul Ryan. Squinch Feb 2013 #166
She was awesome! I don't know how anyone couldn't like that. aaaaaa5a Feb 2013 #5
I agree with you 1983law Feb 2013 #131
I don't really care for her songs, BUT jazzimov Feb 2013 #6
I changed the channel so my daughter wouldn't see it. kwassa Feb 2013 #7
wow... trumad Feb 2013 #12
Post removed Post removed Feb 2013 #43
My niece (almost 4 years old said this) of Beyonce's dancing caraher Feb 2013 #81
Out of the mouth of babes. n/t vaberella Feb 2013 #92
lol Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2013 #98
your niece is very observant! Skittles Feb 2013 #107
My 4 year old son didn't utter a peep. AtheistCrusader Feb 2013 #139
I'm a 64 y/o female and I thought she was screamin' hot! Greybnk48 Feb 2013 #154
Not ok. I don't appreciate the use of that word... Agschmid Feb 2013 #104
oh, my, I shouldn't call things by what they are. kwassa Feb 2013 #106
Yes she is far, far, far away from being one. Agschmid Feb 2013 #108
oh, I see, she only acts like a prostitute on television, but that is not who she really is. kwassa Feb 2013 #115
See post #114. Agschmid Feb 2013 #118
Not hidden but I still suggest you change your language its OTT. Agschmid Feb 2013 #111
I didn't do this to offend you. kwassa Feb 2013 #117
She's also, well, um... dogknob Feb 2013 #135
that would be "conspicuous consumer" Scout Feb 2013 #165
That's what Rush Limbaugh calls women. JTFrog Feb 2013 #142
+1 Thanks! Agschmid Feb 2013 #143
Post removed Post removed Feb 2013 #153
I would hope that you would not allow a single performance at a single football game form the entire AtheistCrusader Feb 2013 #140
Hold on there...the poster made a specific statement about what he took issue with. vaberella Feb 2013 #80
Good for you mom jehop61 Feb 2013 #28
oh horse fucking shit. trumad Feb 2013 #31
Nice talk. nm rhett o rick Feb 2013 #40
Parents. Educated people. Intelligent people. kwassa Feb 2013 #45
I like where this sub-thread is going Orrex Feb 2013 #48
me too ... got enough to share? Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2013 #83
For you? Always! Orrex Feb 2013 #84
Thank you TM99 Feb 2013 #50
How about Whitney Houston ? i don't remember her being about anything than the voice JI7 Feb 2013 #68
There are always exception TM99 Feb 2013 #126
I hear you kwassa Skittles Feb 2013 #51
yeah, and what is it about pole dancing that is worth emulating? kwassa Feb 2013 #99
Gee I did not see a pole? n/t Agschmid Feb 2013 #112
it is not my fault you are unware of the meaning of the word EMULATING Skittles Feb 2013 #122
Really? Agschmid Feb 2013 #123
um..........done here Skittles Feb 2013 #129
Look, PAL; you aren't impressing anyone with your crudity. The Rude Pundit, you ain't. WinkyDink Feb 2013 #59
+1 TRILLION. Agschmid Feb 2013 #105
I have to respect you tblue Feb 2013 #52
I did the same thing. Not something I want my kids to emulate either. aptal Feb 2013 #62
good! kwassa Feb 2013 #72
how old is she ? JI7 Feb 2013 #65
She is five. kwassa Feb 2013 #69
you might be able to prevent her from seeing for maybe a couple years more or so JI7 Feb 2013 #71
I really don't believe in censorship, and I can't and won't prevent it. kwassa Feb 2013 #75
i can understand that, i think what you are doing is right JI7 Feb 2013 #78
thank you. kwassa Feb 2013 #94
parents influence. we like to pretend they do not. but, this parent making these choices seabeyond Feb 2013 #76
It is what we have to do. kwassa Feb 2013 #95
i have two teen boys, and our life is very easy, even in teen years. seabeyond Feb 2013 #101
First off...if she's five she's an impressionable child. vaberella Feb 2013 #82
i wasn't taking issue with what they did JI7 Feb 2013 #91
Ass shaking and ass cheeks showing. Misogyny of women by women. vaberella Feb 2013 #102
It happens to everyone... you think you are alone in this... Agschmid Feb 2013 #110
You miss the point kwassa Feb 2013 #113
I don't miss the point... Agschmid Feb 2013 #114
Do you think this is a good role model for any girl? kwassa Feb 2013 #120
Thanks for not using the word. Agschmid Feb 2013 #121
Good for you. rosesaylavee Feb 2013 #73
Thank you! kwassa Feb 2013 #100
Apparently you were OK with her seeing LadyHawkAZ Feb 2013 #138
Right? Agschmid Feb 2013 #144
Okay hi... Agschmid Feb 2013 #145
Have her take belly dance classes then :) kentauros Feb 2013 #146
Not a huge fan Texasgal Feb 2013 #8
I wish she sang the national anthem instead of Alicia Keys SunSeeker Feb 2013 #9
Gave me a fucking headache. I had to turn the volume down. madinmaryland Feb 2013 #10
I was waiting for a nonhipster to say that "turned down the noise" line lunasun Feb 2013 #49
Seriously? oberliner Feb 2013 #11
jesus christ what a bunch of old turds in this thread. trumad Feb 2013 #14
Everyone is entitled to an opinion Beaverhausen Feb 2013 #17
Lets get the Andrews Sister for the half time show next year Drale Feb 2013 #19
LOL trumad Feb 2013 #25
Yeah, because there have been no other artists since then. Atman Feb 2013 #38
Thats the joke Drale Feb 2013 #148
+1 uponit7771 Feb 2013 #141
Maybe next year they should get Cleita Feb 2013 #20
Well, as old a turd as I might be, I LOVED it! :) nt babylonsister Feb 2013 #21
So did this oldster... snacker Feb 2013 #32
No kidding. What on earth does someone have to do to get a little love? nolabear Feb 2013 #22
LOL, sorry everyone does not think like you. n-t Logical Feb 2013 #30
Huh? oberliner Feb 2013 #41
It's crazy isn't it? OKNancy Feb 2013 #42
Well, muhammad (for a little variety), why don't you GTH? WinkyDink Feb 2013 #56
You need to get over yourself. vaberella Feb 2013 #88
Great performance and special effects, Vattel Feb 2013 #16
huh? trumad Feb 2013 #23
Um, so you are saying that a weak song can't be a hit? Vattel Feb 2013 #29
Im saying you dont know what you are talking about trumad Feb 2013 #34
lol, okay, whatev Vattel Feb 2013 #157
BFD. WinkyDink Feb 2013 #60
Rumor has it a football game was going on, as well. TheCowsCameHome Feb 2013 #24
yeah you're cool. trumad Feb 2013 #27
Can they play in the dark? TheCowsCameHome Feb 2013 #37
She also blew out the power!! babylonsister Feb 2013 #26
My wife dozed off-- JohnnyLib2 Feb 2013 #35
Maybe they can start showing some of these great chelsea0011 Feb 2013 #39
People disagreed with your 9 word OP Bonobo Feb 2013 #44
What did I miss? I was watching Puppy Bowl IX catbyte Feb 2013 #46
Maybe from a mans perspective samplegirl Feb 2013 #47
Michelle Obama: 'Beyonce Was Phenomenal, I Am So Proud Of Her!' (TWEET) lunasun Feb 2013 #67
I suppose she has a good voice but her material just doesn't do anything for me. n/t Whisp Feb 2013 #53
"Unbelievable talent"?! Her own SISTERS can sing better! And JLo can definitely WinkyDink Feb 2013 #55
Unless she falls off the stage... Agschmid Feb 2013 #116
Many artists have fell during a performance bigwillq Feb 2013 #149
Yes an they all get right back up... Agschmid Feb 2013 #150
There's nothing else to do bigwillq Feb 2013 #151
Show us your talent, not your butt LittleBlue Feb 2013 #57
she was stunning La Lioness Priyanka Feb 2013 #58
She's got a good voice and good moves. I just don't care at all for the songs RZM Feb 2013 #63
If you say so, MadHound Feb 2013 #66
Wonderful talent The Second Stone Feb 2013 #77
Are you one of those "old turds" who got the "vapors" jazzimov Feb 2013 #85
Sorry, I didn't have another thread about this. Atman Feb 2013 #160
her music is shitty Hulk Smash Feb 2013 #86
zzzzz. NRaleighLiberal Feb 2013 #103
Worse part of the whole show, I thought. Coyotl Feb 2013 #89
She can wail real well and gets paid a lot for it. n/t vaberella Feb 2013 #93
I'm not a fan of her singing, not much vocal range IMO - lynne Feb 2013 #96
But is kind of boring... Agschmid Feb 2013 #124
YES! So good... Agschmid Feb 2013 #97
Beyonce looks like a pop star Hawaii Hiker Feb 2013 #109
I love your reality. Thanks for a dose of that. n/t Agschmid Feb 2013 #125
Sounded like someone trying to iron a cat Crabby Appleton Feb 2013 #119
meh. shanti Feb 2013 #127
BTW, good call saying doors and not roof RZM Feb 2013 #128
Meh. Common Sense Party Feb 2013 #130
I see more skin at a public beach. Apophis Feb 2013 #132
I thought it sucked. Lots of shrieking and ass-shaking with not that much singing. NYC Liberal Feb 2013 #134
Will take your word for it. Zax2me Feb 2013 #136
Prepackaged PasadenaTrudy Feb 2013 #147
You're right, I don't believe it. bluedigger Feb 2013 #152
yeah you're so fucking cool. trumad Feb 2013 #155
Awesome comeback. bluedigger Feb 2013 #158
if it fits. trumad Feb 2013 #159
Kind of a poor choice of words, considering the venue KamaAina Feb 2013 #162
Did anyone ever see Tina Turner perform? cash__whatiwant Feb 2013 #164
 

BlueStreak

(8,377 posts)
87. You can't set up live sound in 15 minutes. That is a 3 hour job minimum to do concert quality sound
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 12:24 AM
Feb 2013

Super Bowl shows are ALWAYS lip-synced. Even when the Boston Pops played a few years back, it was pre-recorded.

In some cases, they may let the featured singer actually sing live over a track that has everything else (band and backup vocals) pre-recorded. There is no way you can handle more than a half dozen mics in such a short time. I didn't watch the Beyonce show because that stuff sounds dreadfully monotonous to me, so I can't say if she was allowed to sing over a track or if the whole thing was lip-synced. I assume she was dancing a bit. If a person is doing a strenuous dance routine, it is almost certainly lip-synced or else you would hear the strain in the singing. If she did any talking between songs, then she probably had a live mic. But that doesn't mean the singing was live.

And you may notice that there are never any amplifiers on stage when there is a "live band". Back in the glory days, rock bands had an arsenal of amps right on stage with them. That is rarely done these days because it puts so much sound on the stage that it is very difficult to control feedback. So even if a band is playing live, they will be piping all their sound into the master mix, and then they will rely on sophisticated monitor systems to hear what they are playing. This makes the stage relatively quiet and feedback-free. That's great, but it takes hours to get the monitors adjusted right. Even if this were all tested ahead of time, that is just too many variables to deal with in a short set-up window.

stopbush

(24,396 posts)
74. Yep. The music sucked. Plus, the whole thing was disjointed. It was like
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 12:03 AM
Feb 2013

no section of the act could go over 15 seconds, lest the audience get bored.

I think she's a major talent, but this show didn't showcase her talent at all.

sendero

(28,552 posts)
156. Not only that....
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 01:09 PM
Feb 2013

... she sounds exactly like 500 of her contemporaries. Back in the day, vocalists had their own style, not a generic one.

Bake

(21,977 posts)
163. All I can say is ... she's certainly no Whitney Houston!!
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 08:22 PM
Feb 2013

I agree about the 500 contemporaries. All the same. Now Whitney ... you know as soon as you hear the first note who the singer is!

Bake

 

1983law

(213 posts)
131. I agree with you
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:25 AM
Feb 2013

Not a fan AT ALL of pop, but that show had energy to spare. It looked like she and her crew were having fun out there.

jazzimov

(1,456 posts)
6. I don't really care for her songs, BUT
Sun Feb 3, 2013, 09:26 PM
Feb 2013

she can SING! There is no doubt about that - or her talent!

And she definitely whipped up the crowd, so she must have some kind of charisma. She definitely put on a show.

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
7. I changed the channel so my daughter wouldn't see it.
Sun Feb 3, 2013, 09:27 PM
Feb 2013

She was in the other room with her mom working on something.

Thirty young black women in weaves shaking their asses for the leering masses. Something I want my African-American daughter to emulate.

 

trumad

(41,692 posts)
12. wow...
Sun Feb 3, 2013, 09:30 PM
Feb 2013

So you gonna hide your daughter her whole life?

Beyonce is a successful African American woman with terrific artistic talent.

And you call that bad?

Response to trumad (Reply #12)

caraher

(6,278 posts)
81. My niece (almost 4 years old said this) of Beyonce's dancing
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 12:20 AM
Feb 2013

She "looks like she needs to go to the potty."

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
139. My 4 year old son didn't utter a peep.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 06:14 AM
Feb 2013

Nor would he look away from the TV for nothing or no-one.

I was actually made MORE uncomfortable, as a parent, early in the first quarter, after a tackle, when a couple players got into a shoving/pissing match. I don't feel this game demonstrated a lot of good sportsmanship, and that concerned me.

Greybnk48

(10,168 posts)
154. I'm a 64 y/o female and I thought she was screamin' hot!
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 12:34 PM
Feb 2013

Last edited Mon Feb 4, 2013, 01:08 PM - Edit history (1)

The other thing that I noticed. There was not one man on the stage; all the brass, guitars, back-up singers and dancers were red hot women!!

This was the first time in my lifetime that I can recall that happening and I was really thrilled. I've grown up with the norm being all men on stage for pop groups (with maybe 3 Black women singers as backup so they sound good, LOL!), or a couple of females thrown in. I think Paul Simon will add a couple women to the 30 or so men on stage with him.

I'm sure some of you can come up with another instance of this, but I don't recall a huge production like this that was all female. I've seen it all male many, many times, but never all female.

Loved it!! I wish I could have been up there with them (looking like that)!

Agschmid

(28,749 posts)
104. Not ok. I don't appreciate the use of that word...
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 12:33 AM
Feb 2013

and FYI in all seriousness Beyonce is about as far away as you can get from that word.

You are being OTT. There are MUCH worse role models out there... and there are better ones. THe key to success is a MIX.

Make her read the Bluest Eye when she is old enough.

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
106. oh, my, I shouldn't call things by what they are.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 12:40 AM
Feb 2013

Beyonce is far away from being a slut?

OK.

Did you see the half-time show? Sluts En Regalia. By the Dozens.

all of them young women of color. And how is this role-modeling for my child? or any child of color? You will be valuable when you can be a sex object at the Super Bowl. An empowering message if ever there was one.

Agschmid

(28,749 posts)
108. Yes she is far, far, far away from being one.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 12:46 AM
Feb 2013

Go ahead and define the word...

Just do it...

What does it mean to you...

The woman is successful, has only married ONE guy, oh and has a kid which she had AFTER she was married. Oh an she donates to charities (and yes she performed in Dubai... that was bad). But really to use that word to describe her is OTT.

WHO are you Rush Limbaugh in disguise? Your comment's are OTT and should be edited to remove that hateful word.

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
115. oh, I see, she only acts like a prostitute on television, but that is not who she really is.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 01:10 AM
Feb 2013

And because she is financially successful and married, that makes it OK, which therefore makes her beyond criticism.

This makes no sense whatsoever.

Agschmid

(28,749 posts)
118. See post #114.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 01:16 AM
Feb 2013

I am done with this because we obviously clearly disagree and I am going to walk away before we get super escalated.

However I think again your usage of the new word in the above post is OTT as well.

Agschmid

(28,749 posts)
111. Not hidden but I still suggest you change your language its OTT.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 12:56 AM
Feb 2013

At Sun Feb 3, 2013, 11:42 PM you sent an alert on the following post:

oh, my, I shouldn't call things by what they are.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=2307987

REASON FOR ALERT:

This post is disruptive, hurtful, rude, insensitive, over-the-top, or otherwise inappropriate. (See <a href="http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=aboutus#communitystandards" target="_blank">Community Standards</a>.)

YOUR COMMENTS:

TOTAL Hypocrisy. It's okay to use the word when they WANT to apparently. Let's hide this post and be fair. I'm over this. It's the Superbowl... you know good ole' American entertainment. Gosh, goly, gee.

JURY RESULTS

A randomly-selected Jury of DU members completed their review of this alert at Sun Feb 3, 2013, 11:54 PM, and voted 3-3 to LEAVE IT ALONE.

Juror #1 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE and said: I may be wrong, but I don't think hypocricy is a hide-able offense.
Juror #2 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE and said: Just an opinion; not hide-worthy.
Juror #3 voted to HIDE IT and said: No explanation given
Juror #4 voted to HIDE IT and said: No explanation given
Juror #5 voted to HIDE IT and said: I also believe that this poster is a bit over the top calling Beyonce a slut. The show was suggestive but not slutty. Should have used the word inappropriate.
Juror #6 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE and said: No explanation given.

Thank you.

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
117. I didn't do this to offend you.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 01:15 AM
Feb 2013

the "slut" word apparently triggers something in you.

Using less charged language, I think the images conveyed by Beyonce's performance were terrible, and a very poor image to be conveyed for any young woman of color.

dogknob

(2,431 posts)
135. She's also, well, um...
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:45 AM
Feb 2013

...whatever you call somebody who spends $600K on a solid-gold rocking horse.

 

JTFrog

(14,274 posts)
142. That's what Rush Limbaugh calls women.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 10:24 AM
Feb 2013

That's what the nasty Republican misogynistic assholes we fight against here everyday call women.

But here at DU, we try to maintain community standards that aren't mired in bigotry and right wing talking points.

I would ask you kindly to edit your posts to remove the disgusting term you used to describe a beautiful, successful woman of color.

Agschmid

(28,749 posts)
143. +1 Thanks!
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 11:14 AM
Feb 2013

Someone else did alert and got it hidden.

I was so frustrated last night when the word kept getting tossed around on this thread.

It's not okay, end of story.

Response to kwassa (Reply #117)

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
140. I would hope that you would not allow a single performance at a single football game form the entire
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 06:17 AM
Feb 2013

ty of your child's view on her self-worth, limits on her abilities, etc.

vaberella

(24,634 posts)
80. Hold on there...the poster made a specific statement about what he took issue with.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 12:19 AM
Feb 2013

And you put words in his mouth suggesting that Beyonce is the problem. The issue he took with the performance which he found vulgar and I would actually refrain my own child from that as well. Susan Rice is far more successful and is beautiful, smart, and talented but keeps her clothing on.

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
45. Parents. Educated people. Intelligent people.
Sun Feb 3, 2013, 10:21 PM
Feb 2013

Also, people educated in the arts.

I don't think it is we who need to get a clue.

Want to debate black popular culture of the past 100 years? I will be happy to oblige.

 

TM99

(8,352 posts)
50. Thank you
Sun Feb 3, 2013, 11:12 PM
Feb 2013

Yes, most female 'pop' stars since Madonna are simply actresses. They are marketed as 'shocking' and 'sexy' young women who rarely have a lot of actual artistic/musical talent. They are capable of incredible acrobatic dance feats whilst singing simultaneously.

Most here don't even realize how technology today allows for massive amounts of vocal processing even at a 'live' performance.

JI7

(89,254 posts)
68. How about Whitney Houston ? i don't remember her being about anything than the voice
Sun Feb 3, 2013, 11:56 PM
Feb 2013

i don't even remember her as trying to be sexy.

and i think Whitney is from the same time as Madonna.

 

TM99

(8,352 posts)
126. There are always exception
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 01:53 AM
Feb 2013

though sadly Whitney Houston was 'made' a pop diva - dancing, acting, singing, performing, etc. Her untimely death attests to the pressures that were placed upon her that she was incapable of dealing with.

Yes, I admit to preferring her vocal talents far more than Beyonce, and correct, Whitney Houston was not as concerned with 'sexy' as Beyonce obviously is.

Skittles

(153,169 posts)
51. I hear you kwassa
Sun Feb 3, 2013, 11:19 PM
Feb 2013

I don't think pole dancing "empowers" women and I don't think emulating pole dancing does either

Agschmid

(28,749 posts)
105. +1 TRILLION.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 12:35 AM
Feb 2013

Have a little fun. I love that the person who called out the show as **** then used a word that the word police usually alert on.

Hypocrisy at it's best.

These shows are meant to be entertainment.

JI7

(89,254 posts)
71. you might be able to prevent her from seeing for maybe a couple years more or so
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 12:01 AM
Feb 2013

but she will see these things later on even if you prevent it in your home.

what are you going to do then ? plus she will see it when just going out sometimes or even when shopping and some of the advertising done.

but what are your plans as she gets older ?

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
75. I really don't believe in censorship, and I can't and won't prevent it.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 12:10 AM
Feb 2013

and we provide her with many other images of black women.

We teach her critical thinking skills, and emphasize independent thinking, in looking at everything around her. I am not worried, she is very smart.

I reacted viscerally to this half-time show, and changed the damn channel.


JI7

(89,254 posts)
78. i can understand that, i think what you are doing is right
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 12:16 AM
Feb 2013

after a certain age you can't prevent her from seeing things but teaching her enough and just having her know that she doesn't need to be like that is the key.


just knowing what is important and not to put soooo much into looks as girls are kind of pressured to do from early on.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
76. parents influence. we like to pretend they do not. but, this parent making these choices
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 12:13 AM
Feb 2013

will instill in the daughter thru out her life. this undoubtedly will not be the only moment that the parent does their job. and it will reflect in what the child picks up.

good parenting. lucky child that she has parents that think these things thru.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
101. i have two teen boys, and our life is very easy, even in teen years.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 12:32 AM
Feb 2013

daughters especially need fathers (parents) that address this issue.

it is not about a pat on the back, you are right. it is what our job is.

vaberella

(24,634 posts)
82. First off...if she's five she's an impressionable child.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 12:23 AM
Feb 2013

When she's older it would be easier to communicate to her appropriate behaviours and what is not appropriate. I don't get why people ask questions as yours which imply that you take issue with the fact he won't let his daughter see the performance. It's the same reason people wouldn't even at 13 allow their child to watch a porno or NC-17 rated film. Every parent knows they can't protect their child from everything...but they can sure as hell try and warn them away from certain things and behaviours early on.

JI7

(89,254 posts)
91. i wasn't taking issue with what they did
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 12:26 AM
Feb 2013

i would probably do the same if i ever have kids(whether they are boy or girl) at that age. but i was curious to see what else they planned on doing.

on edit, i ddin't see this performance and don't know what they were wearing or doing so i would have to see first before making judgement.

vaberella

(24,634 posts)
102. Ass shaking and ass cheeks showing. Misogyny of women by women.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 12:32 AM
Feb 2013

That's what was going on. If I had a daughter that's not what I would show her. Dancing with the Stars....I would, if dancing and the respect of women is what I am looking for. Beyonce like most African Women in the biz buys into these sorts of things that are popular in the Rap and R&B culture. By engaging in these actions they support he misogyny of women, enforce it, and use it for their own monetary gain.

Agschmid

(28,749 posts)
110. It happens to everyone... you think you are alone in this...
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 12:49 AM
Feb 2013

You think I look like this?

I don't.



But these are "rolemodels" for me. Guess what I turned out okay.

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
113. You miss the point
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 01:00 AM
Feb 2013

and if you think for one moment that men are sexualized in our culture the way women are, you are from an alternate universe.

Agschmid

(28,749 posts)
114. I don't miss the point...
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 01:06 AM
Feb 2013

Look I get it. You don't want your 5 y/o daughter watching Beyonce shake her booty to a song named Bootylicious. There are many role models out there, but I don't feel like a very financially successful African American woman who managed her own career, and growth, who has only married once, and only had one child while in wedlock deserves to be called such hateful language. But calling Beyonce that word is just OTT, and I feel it's improper for this discussion board.

However that being said I alerted on the bit I was offended by, and the DU jury let it stand.

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
120. Do you think this is a good role model for any girl?
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 01:24 AM
Feb 2013

Really?

Madonna also made a fortune out of playing the (word that offends you so much).

Is this a positive role model for young women of any color at any time?

Agschmid

(28,749 posts)
121. Thanks for not using the word.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 01:25 AM
Feb 2013

I'll leave the role model decision up to you, you are her parent not me.

LadyHawkAZ

(6,199 posts)
138. Apparently you were OK with her seeing
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 03:17 AM
Feb 2013

grown men in skintight pants violently attacking each other, though.

Agschmid

(28,749 posts)
145. Okay hi...
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 11:22 AM
Feb 2013

Not to start another battle...but...

You know you posted this... http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1018&pid=293319 right? It was Saturday in the lounge at 12am. I'd like to call out your hypocrisy of calling someone something negative but then full heartedly posting this (which is exactly the same thing... see women gyrating, licking their fingers, etc).

In the future I would appreciate it if you did not throw such shade, before looking at one's own lamp. Just Saying. And hey maybe something happened between Saturday and Sunday that was a life changing event... and in that case I retract my argument.

Now I am going to also post the video because it is good, and makes me wanna grove.

kentauros

(29,414 posts)
146. Have her take belly dance classes then :)
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 11:29 AM
Feb 2013



What is Belly Dance?
Many experts say belly dancing is the oldest form of dance, having roots in all ancient cultures from the orient to India to the mid-East. Probably the greatest misconception about belly dancing is that it is intended to entertain men.

Throughout history, this ritualized expression has usually been performed for other women, generally during fertility rites or parties preparing a young woman for marriage. In most cases, the presence of men is not permitted.

Belly dancing is natural to a woman's bone and muscle structure with movements emanating from the torso rather than in the legs and feet. The dance often focuses upon isolating different parts of the body, moving them independently in sensuous patterns, weaving together the entire feminine form. Belly dancing is generally performed barefoot, thought by many to emphasize the intimate physical connection between the dancer, her expression, and Mother Earth.
(more at link)



SunSeeker

(51,578 posts)
9. I wish she sang the national anthem instead of Alicia Keys
Sun Feb 3, 2013, 09:29 PM
Feb 2013

Alicia Keys made the Star Spangled Banner sound like lounge music. Feh.

Beaverhausen

(24,470 posts)
17. Everyone is entitled to an opinion
Sun Feb 3, 2013, 09:35 PM
Feb 2013

Including you. Some of us just don't like her music. Deal with it.

Drale

(7,932 posts)
19. Lets get the Andrews Sister for the half time show next year
Sun Feb 3, 2013, 09:37 PM
Feb 2013

with Bob Hope opening up for them. O wait I don't think that will work. GET ZEPPELIN TO COME BACK FOR THE HALF TIME SHOW!!!

Atman

(31,464 posts)
38. Yeah, because there have been no other artists since then.
Sun Feb 3, 2013, 09:51 PM
Feb 2013


Why does it have to be one extreme or the other?

Drale

(7,932 posts)
148. Thats the joke
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 12:15 PM
Feb 2013

One side complains about "the damn kids today" the other side replies with "Go listen to your Bob Hope records" its just the way these things work. Old lady screams at kids for going on her lawn, and she becomes a witch to eats children to the kids of the neighborhood.

nolabear

(41,987 posts)
22. No kidding. What on earth does someone have to do to get a little love?
Sun Feb 3, 2013, 09:39 PM
Feb 2013

The child rocked the place.

OKNancy

(41,832 posts)
42. It's crazy isn't it?
Sun Feb 3, 2013, 10:11 PM
Feb 2013

I loved it and she is wonderful. ( I'm 64 ) I can't believe all these negative comments.

vaberella

(24,634 posts)
88. You need to get over yourself.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 12:25 AM
Feb 2013

I'm around the same age as that singer and I don't like her performance. It's an open thread you need to get over yourself.

 

Vattel

(9,289 posts)
16. Great performance and special effects,
Sun Feb 3, 2013, 09:35 PM
Feb 2013

but really weak songs. Her talent is wasted on that material.

IMHO, of course.

Bonobo

(29,257 posts)
44. People disagreed with your 9 word OP
Sun Feb 3, 2013, 10:16 PM
Feb 2013

So you started another OP to insult them.

Stay classy "True Me".

 

bigwillq

(72,790 posts)
149. Many artists have fell during a performance
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 12:21 PM
Feb 2013

Including Beyonce. It happens.

A slip




A fall (bad quality)

Agschmid

(28,749 posts)
150. Yes an they all get right back up...
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 12:23 PM
Feb 2013

Thats is a great lesson for all of us to learn, don't let a fall get you down.

They are all so talented!

 

bigwillq

(72,790 posts)
151. There's nothing else to do
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 12:25 PM
Feb 2013

but get back up.
I can only imagine how I would fare trying to dance and sing in those heels and costumes!

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
57. Show us your talent, not your butt
Sun Feb 3, 2013, 11:33 PM
Feb 2013

Those outfits look like something from a strip club.

I'm sure her vocals are great but all the "booty shaking" and choreography/flash distracted IMHO

 

RZM

(8,556 posts)
63. She's got a good voice and good moves. I just don't care at all for the songs
Sun Feb 3, 2013, 11:46 PM
Feb 2013

Not knocking them, just not my thing. I also thought the booty-shaking was perhaps a bit over the top, but that's the way it goes.

My main beef with the performance was actually the lack of a cover song. The audience is so huge for these halftime shows, that I think it's nice for the artist to have fun with a cover, especially if they don't have 20+ years of hits under their belt (she has about 15 years of hits, which is a lot for somebody her age). For artists like McCartney and The Who, that's not really an issue. But as popular as she is, most of the people I watched the game with didn't recognize a single song.

So in the end it was kind of disappointing, but isn't that par for the course for a halftime show?

 

The Second Stone

(2,900 posts)
77. Wonderful talent
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 12:14 AM
Feb 2013

and very good dancing. Better than Michael Jackson at his peak. Although I do agree that the sexualization is not appropriate for children. Maybe I'm old fashioned.

jazzimov

(1,456 posts)
85. Are you one of those "old turds" who got the "vapors"
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 12:24 AM
Feb 2013

because Beyonce showed a little skin that you wrote about in your other thread?

Or are you actually recognizing that she has some talent?

lynne

(3,118 posts)
96. I'm not a fan of her singing, not much vocal range IMO -
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 12:29 AM
Feb 2013

- however, would have loved Jennifer Hudson to have done the half-time show. That girl has a set of pipes!

Agschmid

(28,749 posts)
124. But is kind of boring...
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 01:52 AM
Feb 2013

The Super Bowl is all about making profit... boring does not equal profits.

Hence why Mumford and Sons has not done a halftime show recently.

Agschmid

(28,749 posts)
97. YES! So good...
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 12:30 AM
Feb 2013

Love the DC reunion... one can only hope it's a more long-term thing!



Destiny's Child's Super Bowl performance was something of an open secret. Though Michelle Williams denied that it was happening, there was just too much evidence to the contrary: Williams herself was not busy on Sunday, Beyonce refused to deny a DC3 reunion was planned and the group released a single and album of old material on the preceding Tuesday.

So when Beyonce was joined by Williams and Kelly Rowland during the halftime show, there was hardly any reason for shock -- except, perhaps, at the brevity of the reunion.


http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/02/03/destinys-child-super-bowl-performance-halftime-show_n_2607562.html

Hawaii Hiker

(3,166 posts)
109. Beyonce looks like a pop star
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 12:49 AM
Feb 2013

and she can sing to, and im not even a big fan of hers..I prefer Katy Perry or Avril Lavigne music..

And yes, to be a pop STAR you have to look like one,...And that's not me being mean, that's simple REALITY..

Common Sense Party

(14,139 posts)
130. Meh.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:06 AM
Feb 2013

It did nothing for me. Good voice, boring songs, vocals drowned out by instrumentation, and way too skimpy of outfits (I thought we were supposed to be outraged at the hyper-sexualization of the Super Bowl?).

Glad you enjoyed it, though.

NYC Liberal

(20,136 posts)
134. I thought it sucked. Lots of shrieking and ass-shaking with not that much singing.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:41 AM
Feb 2013

She does have talent but this didn't showcase it.

At ALL.

 

Zax2me

(2,515 posts)
136. Will take your word for it.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 03:06 AM
Feb 2013

The only thing I cared for less during the game - other than the halftime performance - was the power failure.

cash__whatiwant

(396 posts)
164. Did anyone ever see Tina Turner perform?
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 09:04 PM
Feb 2013

I wasnt alive back then, bt they have a similar style ....I dont understand the uproar. Beyonce is MUCH classier than many of the acts today imo.

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