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AgingAmerican

(12,958 posts)
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 01:15 PM Feb 2013

Florida father with assault weapon forces wife to watch as he kills two sons

Warning! This is very disturbing.

A Florida man armed with an weapon that had once been banned under federal law forced his wife to watch as he strangled one of his sons and then shot a second before turning a gun on himself.

Victoria Flores Zavala told Boynton Beach police that 45-year-old Isidro Zavala went to her home on Saturday with a plan to kill her and their two boys because she had filed for divorce last year, according to WTVJ. But Isidro Zavala decide to spare his wife at the last minute so she could suffer while watching him murder 12-year-old Eduardo Zavala and 11-year-old Mario Zavala.

...

“She tried fighting him off and begged him to kill her and not the children,” he explained. “He told her she was going to stay alive and suffer the loss of them.”

http://www.rawstory.com/rs/2013/02/04/florida-father-with-assault-weapon-forces-wife-to-watch-as-he-kills-two-sons/

My god what has this country come to.

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Florida father with assault weapon forces wife to watch as he kills two sons (Original Post) AgingAmerican Feb 2013 OP
!!!!! atreides1 Feb 2013 #1
Obviously he was not law abiding. This was premeditated murder. nt Mojorabbit Feb 2013 #117
The point is that everyone is a responsible, law-abiding citizen Orrex Feb 2013 #121
Every man and woman is a pre-criminal? hack89 Feb 2013 #124
Is that what you think? Because it's certainly not what I wrote. Orrex Feb 2013 #132
You said everyone is a pre-criminal hack89 Feb 2013 #135
Well, it's true, we're all pre-criminals that's why the police are militarized. xtraxritical Feb 2013 #137
Show me where I used that term--otherwise you're making a false accusation Orrex Feb 2013 #138
It is that entire "lawful gun owner until they are not" meme hack89 Feb 2013 #140
Don't lay your hang-ups on me Orrex Feb 2013 #144
OK nt hack89 Feb 2013 #145
In the words of Christian Grey, "Fair point well-made!" panAmerican Feb 2013 #193
Of course not all gun owners are "a crime just waiting to happen." That smells like straw to me. nomorenomore08 Feb 2013 #207
Of course not hack89 Feb 2013 #214
Oh this is well stated! Mojorabbit Feb 2013 #143
But make no mistake--the "pre-criminal" outlook is hack89's, not mine. Orrex Feb 2013 #147
I do but I am aware that I live in an area with lots of gangs and crime. Mojorabbit Feb 2013 #181
No where did that person say everyone or anyone is a pre-criminal. LiberalFighter Feb 2013 #174
Perhaps the gun wars are getting to me hack89 Feb 2013 #180
"Law abiding citizen until they're not" Bake Feb 2013 #229
Of course, we are all 'pre-criminals' ... earthside Feb 2013 #176
THis post added nothing to the conversation at hand. Mojorabbit Feb 2013 #183
A IMPLIES B is does not lead to B IMPLIES A. TheMadMonk Feb 2013 #177
This is such a dangerous agenda: hack89 Feb 2013 #179
Agreed with that. n/t AverageJoe90 Feb 2013 #162
I disagree. Most criminals have a history I would imagine Mojorabbit Feb 2013 #131
I'm sure that he was Orrex Feb 2013 #134
I do doubt that any of us are pure and law abiding in that sense. Mojorabbit Feb 2013 #141
I think that we've reached a good point of agreement Orrex Feb 2013 #148
You are wonderful. Mojorabbit Feb 2013 #184
You may have seen "Minority Report" too many times. Jenoch Feb 2013 #202
This has nothing to do with guns, but domestic violence obamanut2012 Feb 2013 #166
Seriously. This is a Domestic Violence story and I wish people would get upset about that uppityperson Feb 2013 #185
If didn't have a gun, he couldn't strangle them all tblue Feb 2013 #198
A gun made the domestic violence murders worse, yes. But let's also notice it was DV and be appalled uppityperson Feb 2013 #199
He strangled his first child. He shot the second child. Your logic does not work. Jenoch Feb 2013 #204
But as I implied upthread, someone with a gun has a greater means by which to commit violent crimes. nomorenomore08 Feb 2013 #208
Yes. REP Feb 2013 #212
I think I'd have to be taken directly to the psych ward after experiencing that... hlthe2b Feb 2013 #2
No wonder she divorced him. thecrow Feb 2013 #5
Killing a woman's pets for revenge is not at all rare obamanut2012 Feb 2013 #167
Nope,no regulations or restrictions needed huh NRA? libtodeath Feb 2013 #3
What law would have prevented this tragedy? hack89 Feb 2013 #15
Did you read the article or headline? libtodeath Feb 2013 #21
He seems to be the only one who did. The guy had two handguns Recursion Feb 2013 #25
It does not say it wasn`t used. libtodeath Feb 2013 #30
Yes, it does. It says the non-assault handgun was the one he used Recursion Feb 2013 #32
Wrong,it says he shot himself with the other,nothing mentioned on what he killed the one child with libtodeath Feb 2013 #40
Yes, and it's possible he used an axe that they didn't mention, too Recursion Feb 2013 #45
blah blah blah libtodeath Feb 2013 #47
No it isnt AgingAmerican Feb 2013 #55
We both clicked on the link Recursion Feb 2013 #56
Why do you exhibit horror at the thought of a particular gun being blamed for the shooting... AgingAmerican Feb 2013 #63
Well, both statements are absolutely false, and frankly beneath you to suggest Recursion Feb 2013 #65
THIS. Chorophyll Feb 2013 #101
And his hands. hack89 Feb 2013 #156
You are correct. Jenoch Feb 2013 #205
What the fuck does it matter? AtheistCrusader Feb 2013 #201
Point to a revolver mild enough that it wouldn't accomplish what he intended in that horrific AtheistCrusader Feb 2013 #200
A law banning ALL guns crim son Feb 2013 #58
We'll never know will we? Sekhmets Daughter Feb 2013 #92
Excellent argument for a nation with zero laws, dude, kestrel91316 Feb 2013 #108
Of course we need laws hack89 Feb 2013 #111
"What law would have prevented this tragedy?" Spitfire of ATJ Feb 2013 #115
Many states.. Capt13 Feb 2013 #119
sounds like a case detailed at the NIH green for victory Feb 2013 #4
Blame anything but access the guns and murderous male rage. maxsolomon Feb 2013 #7
It's not a 'this OR that' type of situation ... Myrina Feb 2013 #14
Could have been a contributing factor maxsolomon Feb 2013 #35
Well, very very few of them Recursion Feb 2013 #38
I know of only one. maxsolomon Feb 2013 #41
I was thinking of the woman who drove her kids into a reservoir in the car Recursion Feb 2013 #48
Along with not killing the children in front of the spouse maxsolomon Feb 2013 #95
Right, and not killing the spouse (though this guy didn't kill the wife either) Recursion Feb 2013 #96
What about that woman in Texas several years ago ... Myrina Feb 2013 #89
Postpartum psychosis... AnneD Feb 2013 #93
Do you care? AgingAmerican Feb 2013 #13
He recently became a Mormon as well - very sad story el_bryanto Feb 2013 #6
Guns didn't cause this? I doubt the coroner's report agrees with you. DisgustipatedinCA Feb 2013 #12
I think a person that disturbed would have done it in some other way el_bryanto Feb 2013 #18
Well, the assault weapon he didn't use certainly didn't cause it (nt) Recursion Feb 2013 #19
Both of the boys were stangled, so the coroner's report will probably agree with him. DesMoinesDem Feb 2013 #24
Even if this guy had no guns at all, those boys would still be dead. mikeysnot Feb 2013 #61
Who says they stood still or were threatened with a gun? DesMoinesDem Feb 2013 #83
So he killed himself with a gun? mikeysnot Feb 2013 #91
...which doesn't change the fact that the boys would be dead DesMoinesDem Feb 2013 #99
He fended her off with the gun deal with it. mikeysnot Feb 2013 #112
You made that up. Deal with it. DesMoinesDem Feb 2013 #120
project much. mikeysnot Feb 2013 #122
Nope. But you sure do. DesMoinesDem Feb 2013 #123
sad mikeysnot Feb 2013 #129
You wanted a serious reply to 'project much'? LOL DesMoinesDem Feb 2013 #155
right back at yah! mikeysnot Feb 2013 #159
Didn't catch this the first time. mikeysnot Feb 2013 #125
If the person you are trying to intimidate doesn't care if they die DesMoinesDem Feb 2013 #154
Reality catch it. mikeysnot Feb 2013 #158
So you admit you are wrong. Good for you. DesMoinesDem Feb 2013 #160
How lame can you get. mikeysnot Feb 2013 #161
That's the only explination for your nonsensical posts. DesMoinesDem Feb 2013 #163
I just love poster that have to proclaim themselves the "winner". mikeysnot Feb 2013 #164
One of the boys was shot repeatedly AgingAmerican Feb 2013 #189
No I wasn't wrong. DesMoinesDem Feb 2013 #191
You harped on the innocence of the gun AgingAmerican Feb 2013 #195
I hope they don't start talking about rope control or banning ropes. Jamastiene Feb 2013 #217
How could he have forced his wife to watch CitizenPatriot Feb 2013 #50
To be graphic, Lars39 Feb 2013 #97
Right CitizenPatriot Feb 2013 #116
I have to agree lostinhere Feb 2013 #23
a gun is a gun. mikeysnot Feb 2013 #68
That is nonsensical... lostinhere Feb 2013 #126
so you witnessed the crime? mikeysnot Feb 2013 #128
No. Did you? lostinhere Feb 2013 #225
well, he SHOT them with a GUN. spanone Feb 2013 #136
Gosh I missed that -I guess i should read more carefully. nt el_bryanto Feb 2013 #139
He shot one son, but strangled both obamanut2012 Feb 2013 #168
Gunshine State HockeyMom Feb 2013 #8
Gosh. Why didn't she have a gun of her own? SheilaT Feb 2013 #9
I would have been hanging off his back fighting him Mojorabbit Feb 2013 #118
The report says she did obamanut2012 Feb 2013 #169
There are no words that can describe how horrible this is. iandhr Feb 2013 #10
He did use a non-assault weapon Recursion Feb 2013 #22
If he didn't have ANY guns, the kids could have gotten away. They all could valerief Feb 2013 #33
No, it says he strangled both. Awful Recursion Feb 2013 #34
No, that's not what it says. And the kids would have gotten away if he had no gun. valerief Feb 2013 #43
You don't know that thetonka Feb 2013 #98
That is not true AgingAmerican Feb 2013 #73
You need to stop. Who cares what kind of gun he used? Chorophyll Feb 2013 #103
I'm questioning why the headline said "assault weapon", when the assault weapon was a handgun Recursion Feb 2013 #104
Then write a letter to the editor. Chorophyll Feb 2013 #106
Which ones, and why? (nt) Recursion Feb 2013 #107
The ones that place more importance on proving a gun is innocent than on Chorophyll Feb 2013 #151
Except that's none of them Recursion Feb 2013 #152
Okay. Chorophyll Feb 2013 #153
He killed them with his hands obamanut2012 Feb 2013 #170
I read he strangled both of them then finished them off with shots AgingAmerican Feb 2013 #187
And gun nuts say SUVs kill more people. Initech Feb 2013 #11
to them i say ,well the answer is obvious if suv's kill more people then you dont need a gun to leftyohiolib Feb 2013 #36
Indeed. October Feb 2013 #44
Just look at this thread to see the excuses they make libtodeath Feb 2013 #51
Just wrong,so wrong hollysmom Feb 2013 #16
The "assault weapon" was not used - it was found in a bag hack89 Feb 2013 #17
Where in the story does it say the assault weapon was not used? AgingAmerican Feb 2013 #26
When it says he used the .38, and they found a TEC-9 in a duffel bag Recursion Feb 2013 #28
It says he used the 38 "on himself" AgingAmerican Feb 2013 #31
Yes, fine, it's possible he used the TEC-9 and they didn't mention it Recursion Feb 2013 #52
Answer me this: AgingAmerican Feb 2013 #59
Obviously the crime Recursion Feb 2013 #60
If it were obvious, I wouldn't have asked the question AgingAmerican Feb 2013 #64
Yes, you would have, because you like to pretend a moral superiority Recursion Feb 2013 #67
All I have to go by are your comments in this thread AgingAmerican Feb 2013 #71
It's a *handgun* Recursion Feb 2013 #78
You are not fixated on the handgun, you are fixated on the assault weapon AgingAmerican Feb 2013 #81
The assault weapon *IS A HANDGUN* Recursion Feb 2013 #82
Yeah, so is an UZI AgingAmerican Feb 2013 #142
An uzi is a submachine gun. This is a perfectly normal pistol Recursion Feb 2013 #146
The smaller variants of which are 'machine pistols' AgingAmerican Feb 2013 #188
Wow, someone corrected your ignorance of the facts DesMoinesDem Feb 2013 #157
You guys remind me of... AgingAmerican Feb 2013 #190
You remind me of some guy that has absolutely no idea what he is talking about DesMoinesDem Feb 2013 #192
Look before you leap AgingAmerican Feb 2013 #194
We know the TEC 9 was not the pistol that was used hack89 Feb 2013 #237
I'm sure you guys are thankful.... AgingAmerican Feb 2013 #238
No - it is the inflammatory headline used to advance a political agenda hack89 Feb 2013 #239
Only a crackpot would become 'inflamed' by the headline AgingAmerican Feb 2013 #242
Judging by many of the responses here hack89 Feb 2013 #244
There are three or four people 'inflamed' by the headline AgingAmerican Feb 2013 #245
Including you hack89 Feb 2013 #246
I'm not a gun nut AgingAmerican Feb 2013 #247
Nuts come in many different flavors. hack89 Feb 2013 #248
And gun nuts come in one flavor AgingAmerican Feb 2013 #249
I merely pointed out that the headline was misleading hack89 Feb 2013 #250
The reaction by gun nuts in this thread AgingAmerican Feb 2013 #251
YOUR comment shows you're too ignorant/uneducated about guns that you shouldn't even be involved in Ghost in the Machine Feb 2013 #240
You shall sleep well tonight... AgingAmerican Feb 2013 #241
It was put in the headline specifically to enrage unstable gun creeps who care more about whether DisgustipatedinCA Feb 2013 #53
Well, I think we both agree the OP gets more traffic because of that phrase Recursion Feb 2013 #54
It doesn`t say it wasn`t used,what he shot the one child with is not specified. libtodeath Feb 2013 #29
I suppose it's possible he used an axe and they didn't mention that too Recursion Feb 2013 #37
Whatever,just another excuse from a gun lover libtodeath Feb 2013 #46
Is name calling your solution to all problems, or just important ones? cthulu2016 Feb 2013 #69
Truth telling is more like it. libtodeath Feb 2013 #72
It doesn't say it the TEC-9 wasn't used, but that it was found in a bag. DollarBillHines Feb 2013 #39
Granted; it's possible he used the TEC-9 and they aren't saying anything about it Recursion Feb 2013 #49
The TEC-9 was found in a bag. Both kids were strangled. hack89 Feb 2013 #76
One kid was shot and one was strangled AgingAmerican Feb 2013 #79
Actually no - both were strangled and one was also shot. hack89 Feb 2013 #86
Horrific nt DesertRat Feb 2013 #20
If only he had married a gun instead of a person, this never would have happened. valerief Feb 2013 #27
If only the kids were packing heat, this wouldn't have happened. alfredo Feb 2013 #87
The Depravity Of America's Gun Culture Is Now Legend cantbeserious Feb 2013 #42
Another "Good Guy" with a gun bongbong Feb 2013 #57
Somehow, I don't think this guy was NRA material NickB79 Feb 2013 #62
His neighbors said he was a hardworking, church going, helpful neighbor AgingAmerican Feb 2013 #70
He strangled the boys. nt hack89 Feb 2013 #77
Guns...guns and more guns amuse bouche Feb 2013 #66
A lot of abused women may not realize how important it is to go to trial ecstatic Feb 2013 #74
sick sick sick sad story. nt abelenkpe Feb 2013 #75
How horrible! AndyA Feb 2013 #80
Although the gun aspect is garnering attention, I've been reading stories just like it for 50 years. freshwest Feb 2013 #110
I've heard the "preserve the family" line as well. AndyA Feb 2013 #127
There may always be two generations growing up differently and in opposition to each other. Sigh... freshwest Feb 2013 #149
Thank for you a sane post obamanut2012 Feb 2013 #171
I am more into prevention - that costs money. It's why things get out of hand. We need action. freshwest Feb 2013 #175
Very good post obamanut2012 Feb 2013 #216
thank you. This is nothing new, DV and all associated with it have been around for a long long time uppityperson Feb 2013 #186
8 characteristics of family annihilators Recursion Feb 2013 #84
The argument will always sulphurdunn Feb 2013 #85
Hm Recursion Feb 2013 #88
First of all, sulphurdunn Feb 2013 #219
How about a .49 caliber? Would that be OK? Recursion Feb 2013 #220
The Russians sulphurdunn Feb 2013 #222
It's certainly within Congress's power; I don't really care one way or another Recursion Feb 2013 #224
Excellent! sulphurdunn Feb 2013 #227
I'm not sure I follow that logic Recursion Feb 2013 #228
Anyone bent on killing sulphurdunn Feb 2013 #231
There will still be AR15s if the AWB passes Recursion Feb 2013 #232
I was suggesting sulphurdunn Feb 2013 #233
I like the sound of that Recursion Feb 2013 #234
Then we need to sulphurdunn Feb 2013 #235
236 posts was all it took to get complete agreement on something Recursion Feb 2013 #236
MORE GUNS! Iggo Feb 2013 #90
I've never been to Florida Ian Iam Feb 2013 #94
You don't want to HockeyMom Feb 2013 #133
Domestic violence, "traditional" gender roles, power, conrtrol, GUNS. Chorophyll Feb 2013 #100
He is another article with some more details thetonka Feb 2013 #102
I wish I hadn't read this. I think I'm going to be sick. n/t FourScore Feb 2013 #105
:( me too felt nauseous LukeFL Feb 2013 #196
The gun held her at bay while he killed the kids. Not Me Feb 2013 #109
horrible Liberal_in_LA Feb 2013 #113
That's a result of a patriarchal society. Men think they can make their Cleita Feb 2013 #114
That's nonsense Orrex Feb 2013 #130
in the OP story i believe the woman DID leave him and filed for divorce JI7 Feb 2013 #150
J17 is dead on with his/her post obamanut2012 Feb 2013 #172
Domestic murder obamanut2012 Feb 2013 #165
Guns or not, this man was pure evil. Rex Feb 2013 #173
One very lost man who felt he had no choice but to commit this horror geckosfeet Feb 2013 #178
Wow, way to take away the guilt of the man. KitSileya Feb 2013 #210
Obviously he is guilty. But imo he must be deranged to commit this act. geckosfeet Feb 2013 #215
I do understand what you're saying. KitSileya Feb 2013 #218
There is that. Which may be a counseling topic. geckosfeet Feb 2013 #221
Definitely. The fetishisation of guns in certain segments of the American population is scary. KitSileya Feb 2013 #230
Frank Luntz would be proud krispos42 Feb 2013 #182
Are you implying guns are LukeFL Feb 2013 #197
Certainly not to the extent that those giant corporations are krispos42 Feb 2013 #213
A horrible, horrible incident causing this woman unimaginable grief... Lydia Leftcoast Feb 2013 #203
By the way, not the only such incident reported today: Lydia Leftcoast Feb 2013 #206
if she had a hand gun avaliable okieinpain Feb 2013 #209
Thats what they are saying at Freerepublic AgingAmerican Feb 2013 #243
This guy should be the posterchild (no pun intended) for the assault weapons ban davidpdx Feb 2013 #211
This is what happens when the gun grabbers ban 30 round clips jpak Feb 2013 #223
That which calls itself "Christianity" needs to examine its conscience. patrice Feb 2013 #226

hack89

(39,171 posts)
124. Every man and woman is a pre-criminal?
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 04:44 PM
Feb 2013

interesting way to organize a society - think the worst of everyone and place societal control accordingly.

Orrex

(63,216 posts)
132. Is that what you think? Because it's certainly not what I wrote.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 04:59 PM
Feb 2013

I'm not saying that every person is a criminal; I'm saying that every criminal was, at one time, a pre-criminal (to use your term). For that reason "law abiding citizen" mantra so beloved of gun advocates is ultimately pretty ineffectual.

hack89

(39,171 posts)
135. You said everyone is a pre-criminal
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 05:09 PM
Feb 2013

that implies a certain cynical perspective towards your fellow citizens.

There are some here that would like to regulate human behavior based on the assumption that everyone is a crime just waiting to happen - and it is not just guns. Pre-rapist and pre-dunk drivers are good examples.

I prefer to regulate human behavior based on the view that the vast majority of Americans are responsible and law abiding. If nothing else it minimizes government intrusion into our lives.

Orrex

(63,216 posts)
138. Show me where I used that term--otherwise you're making a false accusation
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 05:14 PM
Feb 2013

Since you're making up a term and blaming me for it, I see no reason to defend that strawman term.

hack89

(39,171 posts)
140. It is that entire "lawful gun owner until they are not" meme
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 05:26 PM
Feb 2013

it implies an attitude towards gun owners that is common here - that they are all a crime just waiting to happen. It reflects an attitude that most Americans shouldn't be trusted with guns.

Orrex

(63,216 posts)
144. Don't lay your hang-ups on me
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 05:34 PM
Feb 2013

Last edited Mon Feb 4, 2013, 10:04 PM - Edit history (1)

The term that you coined and attributed to me ("pre-criminal&quot implies an inevitability that I didn't express. Therefore I reject the term and will not defend it for you.

Put simply, all people are law-abiding until they are not. That doesn't mean that they must at some point become non-law-abiding; it simply means that if they become non-law-abiding, then at some time prior to that point they were law-abiding.

It's curious that you're so eager to find inevitability in that factual and, frankly, self-evident statement.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
207. Of course not all gun owners are "a crime just waiting to happen." That smells like straw to me.
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 02:56 AM
Feb 2013

But can you deny that someone with a gun - all other factors being equal - has a greater means by which to commit violent crimes?

hack89

(39,171 posts)
214. Of course not
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 07:46 AM
Feb 2013

but that does not justify the constant vilification of gun owners. There is no recognition that the vast majority of gun owners are safe and reasonable. "Gun nuts" "gun humpers" "NRA shills" are common prejoritives aimed at anyone who dares to disagree on iota on gun control.

My only point.

Orrex

(63,216 posts)
147. But make no mistake--the "pre-criminal" outlook is hack89's, not mine.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 05:38 PM
Feb 2013

Do you lock your car when you park in an unfamiliar neighborhood? Do you lock your house when you leave town for a few days?

If the answer to either question is "yes," then you view at least some of your fellow citizens as pre-criminal, and one wonders by what criteria you make the determination.

Mojorabbit

(16,020 posts)
181. I do but I am aware that I live in an area with lots of gangs and crime.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 08:15 PM
Feb 2013

Those are the people I am worried about. Not the average citizen of my part of the city.I trust that most people are trying to live a normal life like I am while being aware that there has always been a subset of the population that preys on others.

hack89

(39,171 posts)
180. Perhaps the gun wars are getting to me
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 07:40 PM
Feb 2013

This is the bigger point I was trying to make.

There are some here that would like to regulate human behavior based on the assumption that everyone is a crime just waiting to happen - and it is not just guns. Pre-rapist and pre-dunk drivers are good examples.

I prefer to regulate human behavior based on the view that the vast majority of Americans are responsible and law abiding. If nothing else it minimizes government intrusion into our lives.


It is a common anti-gun meme - the notion that most Americans can't be trusted with guns.

Bake

(21,977 posts)
229. "Law abiding citizen until they're not"
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 05:38 PM
Feb 2013

That's what that sounds like to me.

By the way, whether this involved an assault rifle is really irrelevant; he would've done it with a .22 revolver if that had been what he had.

Bake

earthside

(6,960 posts)
176. Of course, we are all 'pre-criminals' ...
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 07:09 PM
Feb 2013

... that's why everybody needs to be packing a concealed weapon with which to shoot the other pre-criminals when they decided to become criminals.

If we all weren't pre-criminals then there would be no need to own an arsenal of weapons to protect ourselves with.

How is the NRA going to have a 'surge' of discounted new members and how are the gun shows going to do record business if there isn't universal recognition that anyone standing next to you at any given time is a pre-criminal just one trigger pull away from becoming a criminal?

How hard is that to understand?





Mojorabbit

(16,020 posts)
183. THis post added nothing to the conversation at hand.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 08:18 PM
Feb 2013

It would be nice to have a discussion without it descending into this type of commentary. Truly. I am so tired of the acrimony and I am having a terrible day. Reading posts that are so negative just makes things all that much worse. There is no such thing as a pre criminal. It is all a stupid(IMO) meme.
Peace, Mojo

 

TheMadMonk

(6,187 posts)
177. A IMPLIES B is does not lead to B IMPLIES A.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 07:18 PM
Feb 2013

NEVER. NO WAY. NO HOW. UNDER ABSOLUTELY NO CIRCUMSTANCES.

Every criminal was once a law abiding person, Does not implie that every law abiding person will (or may) become a criminal.

And it takes pig ignorance or a blind agenda (same thing really) to keep pounding away with the same flawed illogic.

hack89

(39,171 posts)
179. This is such a dangerous agenda:
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 07:36 PM
Feb 2013

"There are some here that would like to regulate human behavior based on the assumption that everyone is a crime just waiting to happen - and it is not just guns. Pre-rapist and pre-dunk drivers are good examples.

I prefer to regulate human behavior based on the view that the vast majority of Americans are responsible and law abiding. If nothing else it minimizes government intrusion into our lives."

Mojorabbit

(16,020 posts)
131. I disagree. Most criminals have a history I would imagine
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 04:54 PM
Feb 2013

even if small petty stuff. That is just a popular meme these days IMO
I would bet this man was an abusive husband.
Peace, mojo

Orrex

(63,216 posts)
134. I'm sure that he was
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 05:09 PM
Feb 2013

And you're right that many criminals have a history of some sort.

Most criminals have a history I would imagine even if small petty stuff.
I submit that it's a rare person on DU or in society at large who doesn't have a history, by that metric.

Have you ever downloaded a song without paying for it? Exceeded the speed limit? Used illegal drugs? Littered? If so, then you have a criminal history, even if you haven't been caught. It's all about where you put the goal posts.

Let he who is without a criminal history shoot the first gun.


That's why the go-to label of "law-abiding citizen" isn't really useful in discussions of gun regulation. it tends to be more of a term by which gun advocates identify who is ok to own a gun and who isn't, and the criteria are remarkably elastic.

Mojorabbit

(16,020 posts)
141. I do doubt that any of us are pure and law abiding in that sense.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 05:27 PM
Feb 2013

In cases like this though there are usually warning signs before the big blowout. The meme that this was a law abiding infers upstanding citizen till this happened is probably imaginary. I am sure that people who have no past do snap every now and then but I don't think it is the norm. I hate that the phrase is used by both sides in the gun issue.
Peace, Mojo

Orrex

(63,216 posts)
148. I think that we've reached a good point of agreement
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 05:40 PM
Feb 2013

The term is ultimately pretty useless because it doesn't describe what it purports to describe, and it can be too easily abused by either side of the discussion.

Better to abandon it as a criterion for who should be allowed to own a gun or as a means to prevent sensible gun regulations (e.g., "This will only hurt law-abiding gun owners...&quot

obamanut2012

(26,083 posts)
166. This has nothing to do with guns, but domestic violence
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 06:29 PM
Feb 2013

That is the story here. Premeditated murder, and one of the murders was via strangulation.

uppityperson

(115,677 posts)
185. Seriously. This is a Domestic Violence story and I wish people would get upset about that
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 09:47 PM
Feb 2013

rather than the method.

tblue

(16,350 posts)
198. If didn't have a gun, he couldn't strangle them all
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 12:54 AM
Feb 2013

At least it would be harder to keep the others at bay. There was a gun. It made things worse. That's a fact.

uppityperson

(115,677 posts)
199. A gun made the domestic violence murders worse, yes. But let's also notice it was DV and be appalled
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 12:56 AM
Feb 2013

at that also. There is a lot more to this story than gunz and I am glad a couple other people here notice that also.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
208. But as I implied upthread, someone with a gun has a greater means by which to commit violent crimes.
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 03:06 AM
Feb 2013

That's a pretty simple, obvious fact. And it's not as if guns and domestic violence, as social issues, can really be separated from each other.

hlthe2b

(102,304 posts)
2. I think I'd have to be taken directly to the psych ward after experiencing that...
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 01:23 PM
Feb 2013

The sheer magnitude of hate in that act is almost beyond comprehension..

I surely hope this woman gets the help/support she is going to need.

obamanut2012

(26,083 posts)
167. Killing a woman's pets for revenge is not at all rare
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 06:31 PM
Feb 2013

Killing their children is rarer, but, sadly, not all that unusual. Sociopathic.

No wonder she was divorcing him.

Those poor kids. That poor woman.

hack89

(39,171 posts)
15. What law would have prevented this tragedy?
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 01:48 PM
Feb 2013

he used a .38 caliber revolver.

There is no evidence he was not allowed to own a gun. There is no evidence the gun was illegal.

So what additional law would have stopped this?

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
25. He seems to be the only one who did. The guy had two handguns
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:03 PM
Feb 2013

One was banned as an "assault weapon" by name (but then sold legally without modification under a different name). That was not the weapon he used.

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
32. Yes, it does. It says the non-assault handgun was the one he used
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:07 PM
Feb 2013

The handgun that was once classified as an assault weapon was found in a duffel bag.

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
45. Yes, and it's possible he used an axe that they didn't mention, too
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:12 PM
Feb 2013

Seriously, this is a stretch. They said he used the .38, and that a TEC-9 was found. I still don't see why the phrase "assault weapon" is even in the title.

 

AgingAmerican

(12,958 posts)
55. No it isnt
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:18 PM
Feb 2013

The pyrase "assault weapon" is in the title because an assault weapon was found at the scene. Sorry you are so offended by that.

You seem more offended by the thought of an assault weapon being mentioned than the crime itself. What's the psychology behind that?

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
56. We both clicked on the link
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:19 PM
Feb 2013

We both reacted. The phrase is there to make that happen. Unfortunately "man kills self with handgun", while equally (and probably more) accurate, doesn't get that same response.

 

AgingAmerican

(12,958 posts)
63. Why do you exhibit horror at the thought of a particular gun being blamed for the shooting...
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:26 PM
Feb 2013

...yet you have zero reaction to horrific nature of the crime itself?

Seriously, what's up with that?

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
65. Well, both statements are absolutely false, and frankly beneath you to suggest
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:27 PM
Feb 2013

The crime makes me sick to my stomach. The choice of headline makes me irritated. Anything else?

Chorophyll

(5,179 posts)
101. THIS.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 03:47 PM
Feb 2013

Jesus Christ, what the hell is wrong with people? What difference does it make what kind of effing gun the sick bastard used? Fact is, he used a GUN.

hack89

(39,171 posts)
156. And his hands.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 05:54 PM
Feb 2013

lets not forget he strangled both sons first.

Do you think they would be alive if he did not have a gun?

 

Jenoch

(7,720 posts)
205. You are correct.
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 02:16 AM
Feb 2013

So why is the focus on the kind of gun that was found in a bag that he DID NOT use in this heinous crime?

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
201. What the fuck does it matter?
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 01:48 AM
Feb 2013

If he'd only had the revolver would the kids be less dead? I can see calling out AW's in cases where the capacity or firing rate makes an actual difference in the number of people injured, or the severity of the injuries. In this case, it makes not one whit of difference. It is simply a pistol.

No difference. Could have used a revolver. Therefore, it is irrelevant, and the primary issue here is Domestic Violence.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
200. Point to a revolver mild enough that it wouldn't accomplish what he intended in that horrific
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 01:46 AM
Feb 2013

fucking act.

(There is no gun mild enough to point at a child and pull the trigger without horrific consequences, so in this case, it makes little goddamn difference. A 5 shot .38 revolver would have had the same consequences)

crim son

(27,464 posts)
58. A law banning ALL guns
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:22 PM
Feb 2013

might have. Maybe. And if it didn't prevent this tragedy it might prevent the one that will occur tomorrow. How many people must die before you agree something must be done?

 

kestrel91316

(51,666 posts)
108. Excellent argument for a nation with zero laws, dude,
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 03:56 PM
Feb 2013

since laws don't prevent crime. I mean really. Why bother to regulate behavior at all? It's not like we have any way to punish bad behavior if someone breaks the law.

I wish we had things like courts and trials and prisons, but we don't.

hack89

(39,171 posts)
111. Of course we need laws
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 04:06 PM
Feb 2013

I just wanted to know what specific gun control laws would have prevented this. You are right that there are plenty of laws to punish such behavior after the fact.

I support gun control - all of the President's EOs, universal background checks and limits on magazine size.

 

Spitfire of ATJ

(32,723 posts)
115. "What law would have prevented this tragedy?"
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 04:23 PM
Feb 2013

We could outlaw being an asshole....

Oh wait,....that's the Republican's worse fear....

Capt13

(62 posts)
119. Many states..
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 04:36 PM
Feb 2013

prohibit carrying, owning or ACCESS to any firearm if a no contact order is issued OR there, are charges of alleged domestic violence, OR other misdemeanor or felonies pending pending. In RI I believe it's 10 years.
Background checks and closing the gunshow/private sale loophole would go a long way.

 

green for victory

(591 posts)
4. sounds like a case detailed at the NIH
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 01:26 PM
Feb 2013
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1564177/

Annex: The Illustrative Medico-Legal Cases
Case 1

In 1998, a new family doctor, unaware of this adverse reaction to fluoxetine, prescribed paroxetine 20 mg to DS, for what was diagnosed as an anxiety disorder. Two days later having had, it is believed, two doses of medication, DS using a gun put three bullets each through the heads of his wife, his daughter who was visiting, and his nine-month-old granddaughter before killing himself....

So- was this latest killer on drugs that come with a warning of violent behavior?

Does anyone care?

maxsolomon

(33,345 posts)
7. Blame anything but access the guns and murderous male rage.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 01:37 PM
Feb 2013

Spouse killings and familicides preceeded SSRIs. There's about a 1000 blues or appalachian murder ballads about killing your wife and family.

Myrina

(12,296 posts)
14. It's not a 'this OR that' type of situation ...
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 01:47 PM
Feb 2013

.... the side-effects of some meds exacerbate 'teh crazy' and having a hair-trigger temper/personality issues AND access to uber-weapons synergize into a particularly dangerous concoction.

maxsolomon

(33,345 posts)
35. Could have been a contributing factor
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:07 PM
Feb 2013

Might not have been.

My point was that plenty of these types of murders happen without meds. And without assault weapons.

None of them happen without testosterone.

maxsolomon

(33,345 posts)
41. I know of only one.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:12 PM
Feb 2013

Cambodian grandmother in Seattle, Schizophrenic, used a gun to kill her family.

http://www.seattlepi.com/local/article/Family-Grandmother-in-shooting-spree-battled-884335.php

Another case of a schizophrenic with access to firearms. the motivation was completely different than this case, in which the motive was utterly cliched.

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
48. I was thinking of the woman who drove her kids into a reservoir in the car
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:14 PM
Feb 2013

And I vaguely remember a few others; drowning and poisoning seem to be more common for female FA's.

maxsolomon

(33,345 posts)
95. Along with not killing the children in front of the spouse
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 03:37 PM
Feb 2013

This was done to make the wife suffer, so she would experience the pain the narcissistic husband thought she deserved, and leave her with no way to exact justice or find peace. Cruel and typical.

I draw a distinction in the motivations of women who kill their children and men like this.

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
96. Right, and not killing the spouse (though this guy didn't kill the wife either)
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 03:38 PM
Feb 2013

I posted this downthread but I find it really interesting, a psychiatrist's take on family annihilation and media responses to it:

http://thelastpsychiatrist.com/2010/09/8_characteristics_of_family_an.html

Myrina

(12,296 posts)
89. What about that woman in Texas several years ago ...
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 03:17 PM
Feb 2013

... that drowned all of her children in the bathtub because 'the voices' told her to?

(Can't recall specifics at the moment) ...

AnneD

(15,774 posts)
93. Postpartum psychosis...
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 03:33 PM
Feb 2013

a frequently misdiagnosed mental illness, frequently poopooed as postpartum depression or baby blues.

Lack of sleep, lack of support, lack of adequate mental care, and a hormonal storm surge will do that to even the strongest person.

That was the case that shook Houston's Med Center to it's foundation. Women's and Pediatric care did a lot of soul searching after that case. They do a much better job of recognizing and treating women suffering from it. No one wants to see that happen again.

 

AgingAmerican

(12,958 posts)
13. Do you care?
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 01:47 PM
Feb 2013

You want to take the blame off the perpetrator and instead apply republican talking points?

Jaysus.

el_bryanto

(11,804 posts)
6. He recently became a Mormon as well - very sad story
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 01:30 PM
Feb 2013

I'm not sure the Guns caused this particular tragedy.

Bryant

To clarify - i don't think becoming a Mormon did it either (I am a Mormon myself) - I just think he was mentally disturbed.

el_bryanto

(11,804 posts)
18. I think a person that disturbed would have done it in some other way
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 01:53 PM
Feb 2013

With hand guns possibly (he used a 38 apparently on himself) or with knives or something.

Bryant

 

DesMoinesDem

(1,569 posts)
24. Both of the boys were stangled, so the coroner's report will probably agree with him.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:02 PM
Feb 2013

One of the boys was shot in addition to being strangled, but most likely he was shot after being strangled. Even if this guy had no guns at all, those boys would still be dead.

mikeysnot

(4,757 posts)
61. Even if this guy had no guns at all, those boys would still be dead.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:25 PM
Feb 2013

Really? The gun was used to threaten the family, just because it was not used to kill it was still used in this case.

Remove the gun and how is the guy going to hold back his family and contain them into standing still while he was there killing them.

We have so many unsolved cases of missing persons in this country every year.

How many of these were committed with a gun that we do not know about. Abducted at gun point is the easiest way to subdue someone.....

 

DesMoinesDem

(1,569 posts)
83. Who says they stood still or were threatened with a gun?
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:50 PM
Feb 2013

The report I read says the mom tried to fight back and even asked for him to kill her instead. That proves that she was not holding back because of fear of the gun and it proves that he didn't need the gun to stop her. Actually, the easiest way to restrain the family would be to use the duck tape that he had on him. An article I read also says that he didn't take a gun out until he had strangled both boys with a rope.

 

DesMoinesDem

(1,569 posts)
99. ...which doesn't change the fact that the boys would be dead
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 03:44 PM
Feb 2013

even if he didn't have a gun. They were strangled. He may or may not have killed himself in another way, but the boys would still be dead.

mikeysnot

(4,757 posts)
112. He fended her off with the gun deal with it.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 04:08 PM
Feb 2013

Are you saying he had magical powers and a force field.

Did you witness the attack?

Are you saying the gun was not brandished in anyway?

Good luck with that.

 

DesMoinesDem

(1,569 posts)
120. You made that up. Deal with it.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 04:36 PM
Feb 2013

Was she scared of the gun? No, she begged him to kill her instead, but he didn't. So in what way did he fend her off with the gun? He didn't shoot her. She wasn't scared of dying. Reports say she DID try to stop him. Brandishing a gun would accomplish nothing at all. All you have is your imagination. Deal with it.

mikeysnot

(4,757 posts)
129. sad
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 04:52 PM
Feb 2013

really sad... I know you are but what am I.... you must have been a big hit in the playground in second grade.

 

DesMoinesDem

(1,569 posts)
155. You wanted a serious reply to 'project much'? LOL
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 05:52 PM
Feb 2013

You need an actual argument if you want an actual reply.

mikeysnot

(4,757 posts)
125. Didn't catch this the first time.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 04:49 PM
Feb 2013

" Brandishing a gun would accomplish nothing at all."

So a gun nut finally admits to what we all know.

That guns do not deter crime, they are the enablers of it. Thanks for sharing.

 

DesMoinesDem

(1,569 posts)
154. If the person you are trying to intimidate doesn't care if they die
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 05:51 PM
Feb 2013

of course brandishing a gun doesn't matter. I can look at facts and apply common sense. You obviously can't do either. Thanks for sharing your ignorance.

 

DesMoinesDem

(1,569 posts)
163. That's the only explination for your nonsensical posts.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 06:17 PM
Feb 2013

You have no argument, so you lost the argument. You were wrong.

mikeysnot

(4,757 posts)
164. I just love poster that have to proclaim themselves the "winner".
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 06:23 PM
Feb 2013

I guess making up details and ignoring facts and then name calling is what you call Winning an argument, then

I will take losing any day.

 

DesMoinesDem

(1,569 posts)
191. No I wasn't wrong.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 11:41 PM
Feb 2013

I always knew one off the boys was shot. He was strangled first and would have been killed regardless of gun.

Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
217. I hope they don't start talking about rope control or banning ropes.
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 10:52 AM
Feb 2013

They come in handy a lot of times for various chores outside in the yard.

CitizenPatriot

(3,783 posts)
50. How could he have forced his wife to watch
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:15 PM
Feb 2013

while he used his hands to kill his kids? Without a gun to hold on her, she would have been free to call 911 if both of his hands were occupied killing someone.

Sorry, but no go.

CitizenPatriot

(3,783 posts)
116. Right
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 04:24 PM
Feb 2013

that's my point. Without a gun, he can't kill and threaten wife at same time. Sorry to be so graphic.

lostinhere

(78 posts)
23. I have to agree
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:02 PM
Feb 2013

As a divorced man with children, this killing makes absolutely no sense and should have not occurred. Unfortunately assaults or killings like this occur way too frequently. While working as a cab driver at night, I saw way too many domestic abuse crimes.

The news story is light on details, but it sounds like Mr. Zavala did not use the assault style weapon in the killing of his children. The story states that Mr. Zavala strangled one son and shot himself with a .38-caliber pistol. Additionally, the story says that the police recovered a bag containing the TEC-9 pistol. This leads me to believe that Mr. Zavala used the .38 caliber pistol to kill his other son.

I do have a question. If the term "assault weapon" was not used in the title of the article would this article been a post on DU?

lostinhere

(78 posts)
126. That is nonsensical...
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 04:49 PM
Feb 2013

The weapon is not the question. Intent, dedication and drive are. If all three are present, the weapon used does not matter.

obamanut2012

(26,083 posts)
168. He shot one son, but strangled both
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 06:35 PM
Feb 2013

With a non semi auto handgun.

It sounds like he shot the other boy after he strangled him.

 

SheilaT

(23,156 posts)
9. Gosh. Why didn't she have a gun of her own?
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 01:44 PM
Feb 2013

Not sure whether I'm speaking ironically or sarcastically, so I'll just note that as always, it's the guns, stupid.

Mojorabbit

(16,020 posts)
118. I would have been hanging off his back fighting him
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 04:33 PM
Feb 2013

gun or no gun before I stood by and let children be strangled. Perhaps she did fight him.

obamanut2012

(26,083 posts)
169. The report says she did
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 06:39 PM
Feb 2013

It wouldn't take long for a grown man to kill the two boys, and, a grown man could easily overpower an unarmed woman. A few punches and she's down.

He STRANGLED both kids.

iandhr

(6,852 posts)
10. There are no words that can describe how horrible this is.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 01:44 PM
Feb 2013

But it would be just as horrible if he used a non-assult wepon.

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
22. He did use a non-assault weapon
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:01 PM
Feb 2013

The assault weapon they found was a TEC-9, which became a non-assault weapon when it was called the "AB-10", with no changes whatsoever made to the weapon. And he didn't use it.

He also used his hands on one son. Awful.

valerief

(53,235 posts)
33. If he didn't have ANY guns, the kids could have gotten away. They all could
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:07 PM
Feb 2013

have fought him off. GUNS SUCK!!!!

valerief

(53,235 posts)
43. No, that's not what it says. And the kids would have gotten away if he had no gun.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:12 PM
Feb 2013

2 kids and 1 wife could beat him with shit and either knock him out or run faster than him.

thetonka

(265 posts)
98. You don't know that
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 03:41 PM
Feb 2013

Arguing that the only reason this happened is because of the gun ignores other potential issues in this story.

Why was she seeking a divorce? Perhaps he was abusive. Perhaps he was abusive to the point that the wife and kids were too afraid to fight back or run. Perhaps he had them cornered. Perhaps they were/are not legally in this country and the wife was too afraid to call 911.


Using a story like this to promote either side of the gun argument is disgusting. Ignoring the rest of the story in favor of only focusing on the gun will just end up with more of this happening. The gun was not the root cause of this violence, it was just the instrument used. There has to be more to this story than the guy had a gun and killed his kids and himself.

Using the structure of the argument that this would not have happened if there was no gun one could easily argue that it would not have happened if the wife had not filed for divorce.

Some people are so obsessed with guns that they are like kids with over active ADD. As soon as a gun comes into view everything else disappears so they can get on their soapbox and either promote more guns or promote more gun controls and bans.

Our society is failing not because of guns, it's because we can't have a real conversation about anything anymore.

 

AgingAmerican

(12,958 posts)
73. That is not true
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:37 PM
Feb 2013

and you know it.

You feign horror at the thought of a gun, any gun, being 'blamed' in any crime. That is obvious.

Chorophyll

(5,179 posts)
103. You need to stop. Who cares what kind of gun he used?
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 03:49 PM
Feb 2013

He shot his kids in front of their mother. And every step of the way you're defending the gun.

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
104. I'm questioning why the headline said "assault weapon", when the assault weapon was a handgun
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 03:50 PM
Feb 2013

and a different handgun was used.

Chorophyll

(5,179 posts)
151. The ones that place more importance on proving a gun is innocent than on
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 05:44 PM
Feb 2013

expressing a reasonable facsimile of dismay over a gruesome crime. So, pretty much every comment you've made on this thread.

obamanut2012

(26,083 posts)
170. He killed them with his hands
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 06:40 PM
Feb 2013

And shot one after the strangulation, with a .38 revolver, after overpowering his STBE wife. That's what I've read online.

 

AgingAmerican

(12,958 posts)
187. I read he strangled both of them then finished them off with shots
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 11:21 PM
Feb 2013

One multiple times. Gun worship strips away a persons sense of humanity.

 

leftyohiolib

(5,917 posts)
36. to them i say ,well the answer is obvious if suv's kill more people then you dont need a gun to
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:07 PM
Feb 2013

protect you ,go get an suv - we'll all be safer

hollysmom

(5,946 posts)
16. Just wrong,so wrong
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 01:49 PM
Feb 2013

I think he would have passed a background test - maybe we need to store guns of divorced couples until they reach a settlement.

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
28. When it says he used the .38, and they found a TEC-9 in a duffel bag
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:04 PM
Feb 2013

Why is the phrase "assault weapon" even in the headline?

 

AgingAmerican

(12,958 posts)
31. It says he used the 38 "on himself"
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:07 PM
Feb 2013

Assault weapon is used because the TEC-9 was one of the weapons banned under Florida's now expired assault weapons ban.

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
52. Yes, fine, it's possible he used the TEC-9 and they didn't mention it
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:16 PM
Feb 2013

I highly doubt it, but I admit this is a possibility.

 

AgingAmerican

(12,958 posts)
59. Answer me this:
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:22 PM
Feb 2013

Which is more horrific to you? The actual crime, or the thought of the assault weapon found at the crime scene being 'blamed?'

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
67. Yes, you would have, because you like to pretend a moral superiority
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:29 PM
Feb 2013

Just like I can say "which bothers you more, the crime, or the fact that the gun was branded as a 'TEC-9'"? See how pointless that is?

 

AgingAmerican

(12,958 posts)
71. All I have to go by are your comments in this thread
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:33 PM
Feb 2013

...all of which fixate on the assault rifle being wrongly 'blamed' for the crime. If you are outraged by the crime itself, stop making excuses for the assault rifle and show outrage for the crime itself.

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
78. It's a *handgun*
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:42 PM
Feb 2013
all of which fixate on the assault rifle being wrongly

The weapon in question, which was formerly classified as an assault weapon, is a pistol, no more powerful or dangerous than the one he used on himself. I get irritated that we want to ban one and keep the other legal, at great political cost to our party.
 

AgingAmerican

(12,958 posts)
81. You are not fixated on the handgun, you are fixated on the assault weapon
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:48 PM
Feb 2013

Though I must note, you just tried to excuse THAT down thread by claiming both kids were strangled.

You will obviously say ANYTHING to make excuses for the guns used. In doing so, you keep contradicting yourself, thus an easy target to pick apart.

It is hair on fire, use any excuse, tail chasers in the gun community that make all of us gun owners look like nutcases.

I will never understand 'Democrats' that buy into right wing gun madness.

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
82. The assault weapon *IS A HANDGUN*
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:49 PM
Feb 2013

I don't post gun images on DU, but if you want to see one, google "TEC-9"

It's a pistol, no more dangerous than the pistol he used on himself.

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
146. An uzi is a submachine gun. This is a perfectly normal pistol
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 05:35 PM
Feb 2013

It's banned based on its name and the fact that rap videos showed it a lot.

 

DesMoinesDem

(1,569 posts)
157. Wow, someone corrected your ignorance of the facts
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 06:00 PM
Feb 2013

and then YOU bring up an unrelated gun, and then you claim that THEY are trying to obfuscate? Some nerve you got.

 

AgingAmerican

(12,958 posts)
190. You guys remind me of...
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 11:40 PM
Feb 2013

...the people that heckled the parent of the Sandy Hook parent that was testifying before congress.

That is what gun worship has devolved into.

Sorry if my point went over your head.

 

DesMoinesDem

(1,569 posts)
192. You remind me of some guy that has absolutely no idea what he is talking about
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 11:44 PM
Feb 2013

And then invents new ignorant arguments when the facts are pointed out to him. Probably because that's exactly what you are.

 

AgingAmerican

(12,958 posts)
194. Look before you leap
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 11:56 PM
Feb 2013
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=2310846

Then you may have a clue what I'm talking about.

So, if the TEC 9 is a pistol, and the guy 'only used a pistol' then he must have used the TEC 9, right? It's fun luring you guys into pretzel logic.

Gun nuts are a funny lot. When extreme violence is perpetrated with a gun, they are more worried about the gun than the victims.

hack89

(39,171 posts)
237. We know the TEC 9 was not the pistol that was used
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 09:12 PM
Feb 2013

the reports say that he killed himself with a .38. TEC 9 is a 9mm weapon.

There were two weapons - the .38 and the TEC 9. The TEC 9 was found in a bag.

hack89

(39,171 posts)
239. No - it is the inflammatory headline used to advance a political agenda
Wed Feb 6, 2013, 07:39 AM
Feb 2013

Last edited Wed Feb 6, 2013, 01:33 PM - Edit history (1)

that got our attention.

If every "assault weapon" was to magically disappear it would not made an iota of difference in this case. Yet you continue to fixate on "assault weapon" while ignoring those weapons responsible for the vast majority of gun death and mass shootings.

hack89

(39,171 posts)
244. Judging by many of the responses here
Wed Feb 6, 2013, 01:35 PM
Feb 2013

there are many that did not get any further then the headlines. So yes, you are correct.

 

AgingAmerican

(12,958 posts)
245. There are three or four people 'inflamed' by the headline
Wed Feb 6, 2013, 01:38 PM
Feb 2013

...and they all posted ad nauseum in this thread.

hack89

(39,171 posts)
246. Including you
Wed Feb 6, 2013, 01:43 PM
Feb 2013

it is clear you want to make it about assault weapons even though the facts don't support that notion.

Raw story created a headline to get the anti-gun faithful whipped up. It appears to have worked.

 

AgingAmerican

(12,958 posts)
247. I'm not a gun nut
Wed Feb 6, 2013, 01:56 PM
Feb 2013

Nice try .

Come to think of it, the same three or four gun nuts hijack every gun tragedy thread with their assault weapon worship.

hack89

(39,171 posts)
248. Nuts come in many different flavors.
Wed Feb 6, 2013, 01:57 PM
Feb 2013

why is it so important to you to make this story about assault weapons?

 

AgingAmerican

(12,958 posts)
249. And gun nuts come in one flavor
Wed Feb 6, 2013, 03:40 PM
Feb 2013

Who is freaked out at the title of the article, you or I? Why is it so important to you that assault weapons always be given a free pass? Why have you adopted Right Wing talking points? I have owned guns all my life and I'm not threatened by gun control. Republican gun positions are sheer madness.

You guys come into this thread not appalled by the tragedy, but googly eyed in mourning for the assault weapon, and spewing Republican gun nut talking points. Then you act flummoxed when you meet resistance? Spare me the outrage.

It isn't like understanding rocket science.

hack89

(39,171 posts)
250. I merely pointed out that the headline was misleading
Wed Feb 6, 2013, 03:43 PM
Feb 2013

that is not a freakout.

At the moment you seem to be in the throes of an arm flapping freakout as you spew every cliched anti-gun insult you can remember.

Have an nice evening. Have a beer - relax a little.

Ghost in the Machine

(14,912 posts)
240. YOUR comment shows you're too ignorant/uneducated about guns that you shouldn't even be involved in
Wed Feb 6, 2013, 09:25 AM
Feb 2013

this discussion. You don't even know the basics of which gun is what, as you clearly demonstrated by not knowing the difference between a pistol and a rifle. All you see is the word GUN and and start drooling and slobbering all the anti-gun nut memes and talking points.

And just to educate you a little bit, "Assault *RIFLES*", capable of firing fully automatic, have been strictly banned from civilians since the 1930s. You can still own one.. if you have a Federal Firearms License (FFL), have the $2000 transfer fee, the (roughly) $20,000-$25,000 to buy it from another FFL holder, and pass more background checks than it takes to become a Presidential or Vice Presidential candidate.

Knee-jerk, reactionary posting with no knowledge at all about what you're talking about doesn't help the discussion one bit. Do us all, and especially yourself, a favor and at least educate yourself on the subject you're discussing so you don't make yourself look foolish again, like you just did in this post.

Thanks in advance,

Ghost

 

AgingAmerican

(12,958 posts)
241. You shall sleep well tonight...
Wed Feb 6, 2013, 01:25 PM
Feb 2013

...knowing no assault weapons were harmed in the tragedy.

I shouldn't be involved in this discussion? I started this thread. You shouldn't be involved in this discussion. You gun nuts hijack every gun tragedy thread with your "assault weapons are sweet and innocent" Republican talking points nonsense.

 

DisgustipatedinCA

(12,530 posts)
53. It was put in the headline specifically to enrage unstable gun creeps who care more about whether
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:17 PM
Feb 2013

the assault weapon was used than about the butchered children. Why do you ask?

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
54. Well, I think we both agree the OP gets more traffic because of that phrase
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:18 PM
Feb 2013

And I'd imagine a similar logic applies to the news article it's quoting.

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
37. I suppose it's possible he used an axe and they didn't mention that too
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:09 PM
Feb 2013

They said which gun he used. Do they need to name every other thing in the room he did not use?

DollarBillHines

(1,922 posts)
39. It doesn't say it the TEC-9 wasn't used, but that it was found in a bag.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:11 PM
Feb 2013

From article:

"The Palm Beach Post reported on Sunday that Isidro Zavala had killed himself with .38-caliber pistol, but police also recovered a bag with a TEC-9 semi-automatic handgun, extra ammunition, duct tape and cutting shears from the crime scene."

hack89

(39,171 posts)
76. The TEC-9 was found in a bag. Both kids were strangled.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:39 PM
Feb 2013

And he shot himself with a .38.

The Palm Beach Post reported on Sunday that Isidro Zavala had killed himself with .38-caliber pistol, but police also recovered a bag with a TEC-9 semi-automatic handgun, extra ammunition, duct tape and cutting shears from the crime scene.



 

AgingAmerican

(12,958 posts)
79. One kid was shot and one was strangled
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:42 PM
Feb 2013

"A Florida man armed with an weapon that had once been banned under federal law forced his wife to watch as he strangled one of his sons and then shot a second before turning a gun on himself."

Typical RW tack to obfuscate and make excuses for the criminal.

To the RW, the thought of the gun being 'blamed' is more horrific than the crime itself.

hack89

(39,171 posts)
86. Actually no - both were strangled and one was also shot.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 03:02 PM
Feb 2013
Just before 2 a.m. Saturday, police found Eduardo, 12, strangled on the back patio. His little brother, Marco, 11, died in the kitchen dining area, both strangled and shot.


http://www.palmbeachpost.com/news/news/roommate-provides-photo-of-boynton-beach-dad-who-k/nWD36/

How is this making excuses? I know a gun was used. I was commenting on the inflammatory use of the phrase "assault weapon" in the Raw Story headline. Talk about distorting a story to support an agenda.
 

bongbong

(5,436 posts)
57. Another "Good Guy" with a gun
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:20 PM
Feb 2013

Courtesy of the NRA, its members, and its chief hand-blood-stainer, Wayne LaTerrorist.

NickB79

(19,257 posts)
62. Somehow, I don't think this guy was NRA material
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:26 PM
Feb 2013

With a name like Isidro Zavala, I don't think he'd be welcome at many of their meetings, if you get my drift.

 

AgingAmerican

(12,958 posts)
70. His neighbors said he was a hardworking, church going, helpful neighbor
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:30 PM
Feb 2013

Lot of Cubans who are hardcore, right wing Republicans in Florida.

ecstatic

(32,717 posts)
74. A lot of abused women may not realize how important it is to go to trial
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:37 PM
Feb 2013

in domestic abuse cases. Once convicted of even a misdemeanor, the abuser is banned from buying guns and must turn in his old ones. A history of domestic violence (especially when combined with access to guns and drugs/alcohol) is a top factor in most "familycide" cases. I know this case is a little different in that he strangled the boys first, but he shouldn't have had access to a gun either way.

AndyA

(16,993 posts)
80. How horrible!
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:47 PM
Feb 2013

The grief the mother is dealing with is incredible. She will never, ever forget. Her life will be changed forever.

Something is terribly wrong with people today, no respect for human life and a penchant for inflicting pain on others.

freshwest

(53,661 posts)
110. Although the gun aspect is garnering attention, I've been reading stories just like it for 50 years.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 04:02 PM
Feb 2013

This is the reason battered women often do not leave their violent, psychopathic husbands. Killing the children is what these men do to torment their wives beyond the grave.

I'm relatively sure that social spending for battered women trying to escape such men with their children has been cut in their region - and we must not forget that this woman may have fallen in one of the categories of the VAWA that the GOP opposed - hispanic surnames - possibly immigrants - thus no foul, says the GOP.

We have the GOP elected officials saying that women should stay with such men to maintain the family, but really to keep them off the welfare roll. The dysfunction from them staying with these men creates another generation of tortured souls who act out again or end up in trouble.

There are cases where the woman and children had to be given new identities and moved out of state and hidden from their abusers. It requires a commitment of tax payer dollars and a legal system that refuses to allow it to continue.

Some RW states have, for all practical purposes if not literally, repealed their domestic violence laws because they have no money to enforce them and do what the laws were intended to do - prevent this.

Thanks to our Nordquist, Libertarian style of 'starve the beast' iniatiatives, there will be a lot more of this. The issue is lack of support for this woman and her children. I am not 'pro-gun' but that is not what this is about - the true problem is larger and requires tax money, not new laws.

AndyA

(16,993 posts)
127. I've heard the "preserve the family" line as well.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 04:50 PM
Feb 2013

Usually, it's an easy out for everyone except the tormented family members. Bottom line: the kids will ALWAYS be better off not exposed to an abusive parent with anger problems.

Republicans don't care about poor people, minorities, women, or children once they pop out of the womb. Instead, the money saved by doing nothing for them could go to corporations and wealthy individuals. Things need to change.

Agree completely that more money is needed to address this, to protect the family members from the abuser, and to get mental health care for the abuser. Throwing a gun into such a situation of course doesn't help.

I wonder what today's kids are going to be like when they grow up. Particularly the ones being raised in a household where the parents spew hate speech, anti-government, anti-gay, etc., thoughts constantly. I think it's only going to get worse until a generation grows up where they are taught equality and fairness for all, respect for others, and acceptance of those who aren't just like them.

freshwest

(53,661 posts)
149. There may always be two generations growing up differently and in opposition to each other. Sigh...
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 05:42 PM
Feb 2013

obamanut2012

(26,083 posts)
171. Thank for you a sane post
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 06:43 PM
Feb 2013

This is a domestic violence/murder incident. He overpowered his wife, and strangled both kids, then shot one he had strangled, and then shot himself.

Poverty and lax laws against helping women (and men) escape abusers is what caused this sociopath to be able to do this.

HE STRANGLED HIS KIDS.

freshwest

(53,661 posts)
175. I am more into prevention - that costs money. It's why things get out of hand. We need action.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 07:00 PM
Feb 2013

Last edited Mon Feb 4, 2013, 10:12 PM - Edit history (1)

Biden has worked to get some more protections, and the VAWA may have helped her. I see some posts saying the man had no problems, was a nice guy, and then whammo. No, that's not the case. It's known that women stay with abusers when there is no support from family or the community to help them and their children make a new life.

Al Franken testified when trying to get the VAWA renewed last year about the number of homeless women and children who were in that situation because of domestic abuse. And how the VAWA was part of funding rape crisis centers and sheltered for battered women and their children.

This should have never happened. There was once a network of shelters and laws to prevent things going this far. Now they are closed down. The woman knew something was wrong, and this man was willing to murder his own innocent children for revenge. That doesn't evolve over night - the signs had to have been there.

GOP lawmakers have vented on women for wanting divorce, child support, housing and protection orders. This is also from a generation that grew up listening to the pure hatred for women that is the province of Rush Limbaugh. He's worse than any of them, Beck, etc. He's still on the air, having inoculated a generation to believe that women are gold diggers and the poor are moochers and no good for other reasons.

This is a national mental health issue - but when it's this big it's not called that - it's culture. I'm not calling him insane unless we are all insane - and we are a little to deny that this requires compassionate pro-active measures. It won't be fixed by name calling or condemning the victims. RWers don't want these folks helped, they want them to disappear and don't care. Now the Earth will take their remains.

uppityperson

(115,677 posts)
186. thank you. This is nothing new, DV and all associated with it have been around for a long long time
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 09:49 PM
Feb 2013

To hell with those taking away the help and protection people need to keep themselves and their children safe.

"the true problem is larger and requires tax money, not new laws. " Indeed.

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
84. 8 characteristics of family annihilators
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 02:57 PM
Feb 2013
http://thelastpsychiatrist.com/2010/09/8_characteristics_of_family_an.html

There are broadly five types: altruistic, psychotic, unwanted child, accident by neglect, spousal revenge. Although filicide is perpetrated in equal numbers by mothers and fathers, spouse + kid murderers are overwhelmingly men.

That said, the media like to report on only three of these types of filicides: mothers who are psychotic (weak) ; women who are looking to get/please a new man (evil); and fathers committing "altruistic filicide" in which the father thinks he is sparing his family worse suffering by killing them (snapped).


Much more at the link, all insightful.
 

sulphurdunn

(6,891 posts)
85. The argument will always
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 03:02 PM
Feb 2013

be made that gun laws wouldn't have stopped (fill in the blank) shooting and that since the weapon was legal there's nothing to be done. That because the assailant used a hand gun to commit the crime rather than a hammer it's just fine to own a Bushmaster. This line of fallacious thinking is called the argumentum ad absurdum. By this line of reasoning there is no problem with owning a .50 cal. sniper rifle, a minigun or a howitzer. If pro-gun folks are smart they'll take the deal for the background checks and high-capacity magazine ban while they have the chance. Because after what happened at Sandy Hook they might not want to keep ranting about their gun rights too much.

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
88. Hm
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 03:08 PM
Feb 2013
By this line of reasoning there is no problem with owning a .50 cal. sniper rifle

There currently isn't. Should there be? How often are people killed with one?

a minigun or a howitzer

I haven't heard anyone suggesting the laws controlling miniguns and howitzers be overturned. Have you?

If pro-gun folks are smart they'll take the deal for the background checks and high-capacity magazine ban while they have the chance.

If you look at what the pro-gun voices on DU, at least, are saying, it's exactly that. Pass useful laws like the ones you mentioned and stop staking everything on pointless feel-good regulations.
 

sulphurdunn

(6,891 posts)
219. First of all,
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 01:33 PM
Feb 2013

.50 cal. weapons should be illegal. Use of at least one .50 cal. sniper rifle prompted the authorities to request armored vehicles during the Branch Davidian confrontation and seriously escalated that affair. That no one was killed by that weapon was unlikely due to a lack of intent. The potential carnage such a weapon can inflict is frightening. People are not killed with miniguns and howitzers because they are illegal. You cannot buy one at a gun show. The argument was not about any suggestion on overturning the ban on such weapons. It was to show the logical absurdity of the argument against firearms regulation, and yes, there are plenty of gunslingers out there who feel that way. I know some of them personally, so they cannot be uncommon.

Everyday that passes without federal action on any kind of regulation, meaningful or otherwise, is a victory for the NRA and the gun manufacturers. Everyday nothing is done in Congress increases the likelihood that Sandy Hook will go down the memory hole and the issue will just fade away until the next massacre, at which time the cycle will repeat, and the outcome will be the same.

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
220. How about a .49 caliber? Would that be OK?
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 01:34 PM
Feb 2013

.50 is a pretty arbitrary line; what will moving it a hundredth of an inch one way or another accomplish?

 

sulphurdunn

(6,891 posts)
222. The Russians
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 02:37 PM
Feb 2013

make a .51 cal. It does the same think a .50 does. A .49 would do the same thing. Were it up to me I'd ban any long gun bigger than .30 cal.and any handgun larger than a standard .45 cal. No magnums. How's that.

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
224. It's certainly within Congress's power; I don't really care one way or another
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 02:58 PM
Feb 2013

A gun is a gun is a gun, for the most part, and it's the "everyday" ones that do most of the killing. I'm much more interested in keeping them out of the wrong hands than futzing about on their characteristics.

 

sulphurdunn

(6,891 posts)
227. Excellent!
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 04:01 PM
Feb 2013

Then you should have no problem supporting a ban on certain types of weapons, and I'll support background checks to keep the "everyday" variety out of the hands of the wrong people.

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
228. I'm not sure I follow that logic
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 04:04 PM
Feb 2013
Then you should have no problem supporting a ban on certain types of weapons

It depends. What's the political cost and what good would it do? Passing a regulation that makes AR-15's change their grip shape isn't worth losing a House seat over, let alone the whole Senate. Particularly if it ends up increasing sales of weapons like the last one did.

I'll support background checks to keep the "everyday" variety out of the hands of the wrong people.

How about we just do that one, since we probably only get one swing here, and this one will actually do some good?
 

sulphurdunn

(6,891 posts)
231. Anyone bent on killing
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 07:59 PM
Feb 2013

a lot of people quickly and is given a choice will not pick a 30/30 over an AR-15. An assault weapon is called an assault weapon precisely because it is designed for war and nothing else. It is designed for firepower and lethality at close range, as are all assault weapons. You're right to criticize something as stupid as banning the bayonet lug on such a weapon and not banning the weapon itself. So, we need to make sure nothing like that happens this time. Part of that problem is there are too many people supporting gun control who think a gun is just a gun. If the Democrats lost the Congress because they supported reasonable restraints on military style firearms then you probably need to buy your own AR-15 and so do I.

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
232. There will still be AR15s if the AWB passes
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 08:03 PM
Feb 2013

They will be called something else and have a different grip shape. And if '94 is any guide, they will sell like hot cakes. Why go that way again?

 

sulphurdunn

(6,891 posts)
233. I was suggesting
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 08:47 PM
Feb 2013

that all such weapons be banned for what they are designed to do, not for how they look.

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
234. I like the sound of that
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 08:49 PM
Feb 2013

Too bad we have decades-long Senatorial reputations staked on doing it the other way :/

 

sulphurdunn

(6,891 posts)
235. Then we need to
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 09:05 PM
Feb 2013

begin working to see that there are never more than 39 of them in the Senate. Unless someone in the majority gets the a pair and takes on the filibusterer.

Chorophyll

(5,179 posts)
100. Domestic violence, "traditional" gender roles, power, conrtrol, GUNS.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 03:45 PM
Feb 2013

They all go together. I don't know what else to say. This is awful.

thetonka

(265 posts)
102. He is another article with some more details
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 03:47 PM
Feb 2013

Sounds like this was planned out. I can't imagine what that women and the son who is still alive are going through.

[link:http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/02/04/isidro-zavala-kills-2-son-suicide-boynton-beach_n_2615911.html|]

A man strangled his two sons in the South Florida home of his estranged wife, telling her she would live to suffer from the pain of their deaths before he shot himself.

Victoria Flores Zavala unsuccessfully fought to save her 12- and 11-year-old sons from Isidro Zavala, the Palm Beach Post reported. She offered to sacrifice herself if he'd spare the boys, but she couldn't stop him early Saturday morning.

“She said, ‘Why won’t you kill me?’ He said, ‘No, you’re going to live with this," according to Boynton Beach Police Chief Matthew Immler.

The violence began around 2 a.m. when Victoria was roused from watching television by a loud noise, the Associated Press said. She came upon her spouse choking one of the children.

Cops found the body of Eduardo, 12, strangled in the patio area of the house. 11-year-old Marco's body was found strangled and shot in the dining area.

"This is an unusually brutal type of murder," Immler said.

The couple had been married for 20 years when Victoria filed for divorce in October, according to CBS Miami. Police said there was no history of domestic violence calls to their home where the murders took place.

Police ascertained that Zavala, 45, planned the murder for days. In the apartment he rented, they found a bag stuffed with a semi-automatic handgun, cutting shears, duct tape and a note to the couple's eldest son, who was not present during the killings, the South Florida Sun-Sentinel reported.

Zavala owned a landscaping business and was described as a devoted, yet demanding father. He was regularly in the stands at his sons Little League baseball games, but removed Eduardo from his team to make him focus on school.

The oldest son Emanuel, 19, said he'd visited his father on Friday and invited him to watch the Super Bowl with him, according to NBC News.

"He was not a bad man," Emanuel said, according to NBC. "He was always a hard worker, trying to give us the best life he could."

LukeFL

(594 posts)
196. :( me too felt nauseous
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 12:04 AM
Feb 2013

Sometimes I wish some topic and real life tragedy should not be posted here.

We live in such dangerous world that DU should be a place to discuss just politics.

But I understand why is done... I Judy wish these things should be flagged or Red marked as a warning.

Not Me

(3,398 posts)
109. The gun held her at bay while he killed the kids.
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 03:58 PM
Feb 2013

Had he moved to strangle the kids *without a gun trained on his wife* she might have been able to put up some kind of a fight such that one or more could have escaped. She must have been frozen in terror looking into the business end of that gun.

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
114. That's a result of a patriarchal society. Men think they can make their
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 04:16 PM
Feb 2013

women relatives do everything they say and want. The tragedy is that many women believe that themselves. I'm certain that the man had displayed a lot of controlling and bullying behavior before that. It's too bad that woman didn't have the support network to pack up herself and her children and leave him before tragedy struck.

Orrex

(63,216 posts)
130. That's nonsense
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 04:54 PM
Feb 2013

Well, I wish it were nonsense.

A year ago I might have blindly declared that the woman should simply have left with the kids and escaped, but in recent months I've learned just how hard it really is. A good friend trying to escape from her abusive husband learned first-hand the difficulty that women face in those situations. She's an intelligent, strong-willed woman who doesn't take shit from anyone, but she was justifiably terrified that he was going to kill her, and when she reached out to local women's shelters and the like, she found how very little they had to offer her.

Only when she told them outright that she would likely be dead within the week did them make an accommodation for her, and many months later she still lives in fear that he'll track her down.


It's easy after the fact for people to say that she should have done this or she should have done that; I'm sure that she did what she could to escape with her children, and I'm sure that she'll spend the rest of her life wishing that she could have done more.

JI7

(89,254 posts)
150. in the OP story i believe the woman DID leave him and filed for divorce
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 05:43 PM
Feb 2013

but he went over to her home and did what he did.

obamanut2012

(26,083 posts)
172. J17 is dead on with his/her post
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 06:45 PM
Feb 2013

That is exactly what happened. And, sadly, this same thing happens EVERY DAY in this country. Often it's the pet that's killed, sometimes it is the children, usually it is the woman herself.

obamanut2012

(26,083 posts)
165. Domestic murder
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 06:27 PM
Feb 2013

It is not unusual for violent men to kill a woman's children or pet as revenge. How horrible. How horrible.

geckosfeet

(9,644 posts)
178. One very lost man who felt he had no choice but to commit this horror
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 07:26 PM
Feb 2013

I blame the countries lack of universal mental health csre. It is obscene to bury the military in our tax money while we let people go mad.

KitSileya

(4,035 posts)
210. Wow, way to take away the guilt of the man.
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 03:55 AM
Feb 2013

"Who felt he had no choice"..... Let's face it, this patriarchal culture we live in teaches men that women are their property, and so are kids, and they can do whatever they want with them. If a woman dares leave them, she needs to pay - usually these men kill her pets, or the woman herself, sometimes their children. If we take your view of things, there's an epidemic of mental illness among men, and a great minority of men need to be institutionalized.

geckosfeet

(9,644 posts)
215. Obviously he is guilty. But imo he must be deranged to commit this act.
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 08:02 AM
Feb 2013

Last edited Tue Feb 5, 2013, 08:33 AM - Edit history (1)

on edit: Not trying to relieve anyone of guilt - just acknowledging the emotional anguish and that someone could have helped him find another way.

KitSileya

(4,035 posts)
218. I do understand what you're saying.
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 11:45 AM
Feb 2013

I'm just fed up of the typical response to these types of event. Making the perpetrator into a monster, or excusing him by claiming insanity, is a negating of the very real problem this culture (this patriarchal culture) has of men looking at women and children as property. As feminists have been saying for decades, patriarchy hurt men as well as women, and it often corrupts those with underlying issues, as well as denying them adequate coping mechanisms. The mindset of "Men aren't supposed to cry. Men aren't supposed to talk about their feelings. Women cry. Women talk about their feelings. Therefore women are weaker, and worth less than men" is still alive and well and can be found in most cultures. There's a reason why the third leading cause of death for pregnant women is murder by their significant others.

And I know that some might read what I just wrote and say that I'm claiming that the cause is culture, not the men themselves, but we don't excuse people from committing heinous crimes because their culture dictates it (honor killings or FMG) or because they were ordered to (Nuremberg defense.) Men need to change their culture - we feminists can't do everything ourselves. I can't see that any liberal man would want to leave things the way they are right now.

geckosfeet

(9,644 posts)
221. There is that. Which may be a counseling topic.
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 02:26 PM
Feb 2013

The fact that someone who can find their way to doing something like this can get their hands on a gun is also a problem.

KitSileya

(4,035 posts)
230. Definitely. The fetishisation of guns in certain segments of the American population is scary.
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 05:53 PM
Feb 2013

Unfortunately it's so widespread, and their lobbying power is so great that I cannot see how the US can change it without also changing their entire society, in many areas, not just gun control. In American culture, a life is so little valued compared to the values that are espoused (bootstrap puritan 'freedom',) you'd be excused if you thought it was 1813, rather than 2013.

krispos42

(49,445 posts)
182. Frank Luntz would be proud
Mon Feb 4, 2013, 08:18 PM
Feb 2013

The penetration of the term "assault weapon" as an arbitrary, pejorative, and emotional term in our lexicon is complete, apparently. The screaming headline of the story is the fact that it was committed with an "assault weapon".


Now, probably at least half of the people reading my remarks though an AR-15 or AK-47 was used, and were surprised to find out an "assault weapon" handguns. It also covers shotguns of a certain type, too.


So yeah, despite the fact that "assault weapon" pistols have a shitty layout that the handgun-shooting community has pretty much universally rejected for about a century (heavier, clumsy handling, difficult to holster, hard to conceal), they were banned.


And the fact that the man had, and used, a much older technology gun, the steadfast .38 revolver, in the brutal crime described above in the screaming headline, the focus is on the guy had somewhere in the house a gun that had the magazine in a place that politicians found unacceptable and that the shooting community found stupid.


And those same politicians, having secured the emotional and subconscious reaction in the American psyche, now are trying to expand the definition to include even more guns based on cosmetic features because, hey, it gives them something to run on in 2014. "Standing up to the gun lobby" by banning rifles with pistol grips is surely worth millions of votes and tens of millions of dollars, right? Right?

And it's a welcome distraction from what they didn't do... like regulate the banks, or fight for union rights, or net neutrality, or reforming the campaign finance system, or any of a half-dozen other things they work quietly behind the scenes to subvert. Things they "compromise" with the Republicans with.

I wish they took on the pharmeceutical lobby, or the banking lobby, or the health-insurance lobby, or the carbon lobby, or the prison lobby, with a tenth of the zeal they've spend on banning rifles with protruding pistol grips, or handguns that have magazine mounted outside of the grip.

ANY ONE OF THOSE would save FAR more lives and improve the quality of American life than Feinstein's proposed ban on assault weapons. But... same old story. Follow the money, Lebowski.

The entire firearms industry in America has about $12 billion in revenues (guns and ammunition), and makes about a billion a year in profit.

Bristol-Myers Squibb: $19 billion in revenues, $11 billion in profits.
Astra-Zeneca: $33 billion in revenues, $10 billion in profits
Pfizer: $67 billion in revenues, $10 billion in profits.
Abbott Labs: $39 billion in revenues, $5 billion in profits.
Eli Lilly: $25 billion in revenues, $4 billion in profits.


Follow the money.

Manufacturing jobs that paid decent but not spectacular wages and created decent but not spectacular profits, but jobs that actually created wealth from raw materials, were shoved aside for the sake of high-wage, high-profit industries that produce money but not wealth. Gun makers are the former; pharma and financial services and health insurance... those are the latter. And that's why their precious, precious profits are unmentioned and untouchable by our congresscritters.

krispos42

(49,445 posts)
213. Certainly not to the extent that those giant corporations are
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 07:34 AM
Feb 2013

Remember, guns are used as tools to murder, they are not murderers themselves. The motive to murder comes from other factors, such as greed or hate or criminal business interests (drugs) or whatever.

I don't claim the problem with those corporate giants is that money exists, it's what the transnationals do with them.


40,000 people a year died for a lack of health care alone, 3x the number murdered annually.

Lydia Leftcoast

(48,217 posts)
203. A horrible, horrible incident causing this woman unimaginable grief...
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 02:10 AM
Feb 2013

and the BOYS (not the men) on this thread are arguing about weaponry.

Sick.

 

AgingAmerican

(12,958 posts)
243. Thats what they are saying at Freerepublic
Wed Feb 6, 2013, 01:29 PM
Feb 2013

Ever thought that maybe if there were NO GUNS in the family, it may have turned out different?

davidpdx

(22,000 posts)
211. This guy should be the posterchild (no pun intended) for the assault weapons ban
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 06:39 AM
Feb 2013

Someone needs to get a picture of him and put a huge X though it with the slogan "the number one reason we don't need assault weapons, crazy people."

patrice

(47,992 posts)
226. That which calls itself "Christianity" needs to examine its conscience.
Tue Feb 5, 2013, 03:17 PM
Feb 2013

It appears, validly so or not, to be a joke, an expensive, cruel joke. People are becoming more and more aware of this, even though some of them are still going through the motions, so there is nothing there when they need it and those who are "saved" think that's the way it is supposed to be.

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