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A 24-year-old Pennsylvania woman abandoned her 8-month-old daughter in the woods with the hopes of getting a fresh start, according to police.
Jennifer Cutruzzula was spotted by a neighbor walking into the woods with her child, only to emerge alone. The neighbor called police and went into the woods and found the baby girl on a muddy hillside next to a bottle of milk.
She walked into this area with the intention of abandoning the child, said Alleghany County District Attorney Stephen Zappala.
Cutruzzula told police she left her child because she wanted a fresh start, according to a criminal complaint.
http://usnews.nbcnews.com/_news/2013/02/28/17137418-hoping-for-a-fresh-start-mother-abandons-child-in-woods?lite
Unbelievable...thank God someone witnessed this and the little girl is safe.
mainer
(12,022 posts)A good thing she decided to get involved.
City Lights
(25,171 posts)R. Daneel Olivaw
(12,606 posts)Why do some resort to murder?
WTF is right.
MH1
(17,600 posts)I wonder if she wanted to have the kid in the first place, or if it was forced on her. (No I didn't read the article yet, just reacting.)
Kalidurga
(14,177 posts)If that neighbor hadn't seen the mom leave the woods alone. That baby might have never been found and certainly not been alive for very long.
Sheldon Cooper
(3,724 posts)Thank a deity for that neighbor and their willingness to get involved.
daleanime
(17,796 posts)in a new home. The neighbor was definitely a guardian angel.
Euphoria
(448 posts)I am not disagreeing with you, joeybee12. And it's wonderful that the baby is OK.
But until you've walked a mile in someone's shoes....
Being a single-mother without any support, or a reasonable place to live, or job to work at, or a job that helps one pay for child care is more than difficult, it is probably overwhelming, to say the least. Oh and then there's that pesky food, utilities, diapers, cost of transportation, you get my drift.
Then there's the fact that there's virtually no real support to learn how to be a mom, what to do, how to manage and understand an infant/baby. Oh did I forget the post-parfumerie depression thing?
All I know is that without my husband, Mom, sister, friends, education, a roof over my head and money to pay for it all, I might've not been able to 'make it' as a mom.
Joey, I know you mean well. I just felt that today, I don't wanna jump on the hate-that-24-year-old-mother bandwagon. Thanks for letting me put it out there.
LibertyLover
(4,788 posts)and welcome to DU. The points you raise in your post are good ones. I was older when I became a mother and my daughter was already 16 months old (we were very fortunate to have been allowed to adopt her). My mom was dead and my friends and relatives mostly empty nesters or grandparents. My husband had had 2 kids in his first marriage and had specific ideas on how he wanted to raise our child, which I didn't agree with. It was very difficult to be a mother under those circumstances. I can understand how overwhelmed a young woman might be, especially if trying to mother under the circumstances you describe. I'm not saying she should not face consequences for her actions, and in the current climate and economy I'm sure there is no money for parenting classes and job training, but I truly hope she receives some type of help.
FedUpWithIt All
(4,442 posts)I agree. It is always easy to judge things from the outside. Much easier than walking in someone's shoes.
Euphoria
(448 posts)I didn't want to put anyone 'down' including the poster. Hope that translated.
FSogol
(45,491 posts)Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)Nine
(1,741 posts)although I know not everyone does.
Tommy_Carcetti
(43,184 posts)Here in Florida, I think they allow a no-questions asked drop-off at any firehouse or hospital. Makes sense.
vankuria
(904 posts)Makes it very difficult to track at risk parents, I'm wondering if this young woman has psychiatric issues or perhaps is developmentally disabled. And while I don't doubt she may have had a rough go to want to give up her baby, it seems especially cruel to just leave a defenseless baby all alone in the cold woods. As a Social Worker for many years I know the difficulties alot of parents face, particularly if they are sole caregiver. I can't think of a single client I've ever had that would resort to something so heartless. I'm so glad this baby was found alive and unharmed, but I shudder to think what she must've experienced when she saw her mom walk away. I pray this sweet baby is adopted into a good family and is given a chance at life.
LiberalAndProud
(12,799 posts)I expect there is much to understand about the young woman's circumstances.
Ms. Cutruzzula told police she was having "family issues" with her mother and stepfather. She said she "thought she was doing the right thing," police wrote in the complaint.
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Mr. Zappala said Ms. Cutruzzula will likely be treated at a behavioral clinic and prosecutors will review her charges -- a felony and a misdemeanor.