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joeybee12

(56,177 posts)
Fri Mar 1, 2013, 01:30 PM Mar 2013

Hoping for a 'fresh start,' mother abandons child in woods

A 24-year-old Pennsylvania woman abandoned her 8-month-old daughter in the woods with the hopes of getting “a fresh start,” according to police.

Jennifer Cutruzzula was spotted by a neighbor walking into the woods with her child, only to emerge alone. The neighbor called police and went into the woods and found the baby girl on a muddy hillside next to a bottle of milk.

“She walked into this area with the intention of abandoning the child,” said Alleghany County District Attorney Stephen Zappala.

Cutruzzula told police she left her child because she wanted “a fresh start,” according to a criminal complaint.

http://usnews.nbcnews.com/_news/2013/02/28/17137418-hoping-for-a-fresh-start-mother-abandons-child-in-woods?lite

Unbelievable...thank God someone witnessed this and the little girl is safe.

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Hoping for a 'fresh start,' mother abandons child in woods (Original Post) joeybee12 Mar 2013 OP
Wow, that's one observant neighbor. mainer Mar 2013 #1
She'll get a "fresh start" alright. In prison. City Lights Mar 2013 #2
The worst she should have done is to give the baby up for adoption. R. Daneel Olivaw Mar 2013 #5
Probably didn't know how to. MH1 Mar 2013 #7
I am glad the baby wasn't found starved to death. Kalidurga Mar 2013 #3
It's cold here - she would have died of exposure pretty quickly. Sheldon Cooper Mar 2013 #11
I more worried about the child's "fresh start"....... daleanime Mar 2013 #4
For some reason today, I wanna respond Euphoria Mar 2013 #6
Thank you LibertyLover Mar 2013 #8
Welcome to DU. FedUpWithIt All Mar 2013 #10
Thank YOU and glad to be here! Euphoria Mar 2013 #17
I thought the same thing. The mom propably has zero support for raising the kid. n/t FSogol Mar 2013 #16
lucky someone was watching Liberal_in_LA Mar 2013 #9
This is why I support Safe Haven laws Nine Mar 2013 #12
They don't have Safe Haven laws there? Tommy_Carcetti Mar 2013 #13
Cuts to Services vankuria Mar 2013 #14
Sad story all around. LiberalAndProud Mar 2013 #15
 

R. Daneel Olivaw

(12,606 posts)
5. The worst she should have done is to give the baby up for adoption.
Fri Mar 1, 2013, 01:46 PM
Mar 2013

Why do some resort to murder?

WTF is right.

MH1

(17,600 posts)
7. Probably didn't know how to.
Fri Mar 1, 2013, 01:53 PM
Mar 2013

I wonder if she wanted to have the kid in the first place, or if it was forced on her. (No I didn't read the article yet, just reacting.)

Kalidurga

(14,177 posts)
3. I am glad the baby wasn't found starved to death.
Fri Mar 1, 2013, 01:40 PM
Mar 2013

If that neighbor hadn't seen the mom leave the woods alone. That baby might have never been found and certainly not been alive for very long.

Sheldon Cooper

(3,724 posts)
11. It's cold here - she would have died of exposure pretty quickly.
Fri Mar 1, 2013, 03:08 PM
Mar 2013

Thank a deity for that neighbor and their willingness to get involved.

daleanime

(17,796 posts)
4. I more worried about the child's "fresh start".......
Fri Mar 1, 2013, 01:43 PM
Mar 2013

in a new home. The neighbor was definitely a guardian angel.

Euphoria

(448 posts)
6. For some reason today, I wanna respond
Fri Mar 1, 2013, 01:52 PM
Mar 2013

I am not disagreeing with you, joeybee12. And it's wonderful that the baby is OK.
But until you've walked a mile in someone's shoes....
Being a single-mother without any support, or a reasonable place to live, or job to work at, or a job that helps one pay for child care is more than difficult, it is probably overwhelming, to say the least. Oh and then there's that pesky food, utilities, diapers, cost of transportation, you get my drift.
Then there's the fact that there's virtually no real support to learn how to be a mom, what to do, how to manage and understand an infant/baby. Oh did I forget the post-parfumerie depression thing?
All I know is that without my husband, Mom, sister, friends, education, a roof over my head and money to pay for it all, I might've not been able to 'make it' as a mom.
Joey, I know you mean well. I just felt that today, I don't wanna jump on the hate-that-24-year-old-mother bandwagon. Thanks for letting me put it out there.

LibertyLover

(4,788 posts)
8. Thank you
Fri Mar 1, 2013, 02:05 PM
Mar 2013

and welcome to DU. The points you raise in your post are good ones. I was older when I became a mother and my daughter was already 16 months old (we were very fortunate to have been allowed to adopt her). My mom was dead and my friends and relatives mostly empty nesters or grandparents. My husband had had 2 kids in his first marriage and had specific ideas on how he wanted to raise our child, which I didn't agree with. It was very difficult to be a mother under those circumstances. I can understand how overwhelmed a young woman might be, especially if trying to mother under the circumstances you describe. I'm not saying she should not face consequences for her actions, and in the current climate and economy I'm sure there is no money for parenting classes and job training, but I truly hope she receives some type of help.

FedUpWithIt All

(4,442 posts)
10. Welcome to DU.
Fri Mar 1, 2013, 02:22 PM
Mar 2013


I agree. It is always easy to judge things from the outside. Much easier than walking in someone's shoes.

Euphoria

(448 posts)
17. Thank YOU and glad to be here!
Fri Mar 1, 2013, 04:13 PM
Mar 2013

I didn't want to put anyone 'down' including the poster. Hope that translated.

Tommy_Carcetti

(43,184 posts)
13. They don't have Safe Haven laws there?
Fri Mar 1, 2013, 03:15 PM
Mar 2013

Here in Florida, I think they allow a no-questions asked drop-off at any firehouse or hospital. Makes sense.

vankuria

(904 posts)
14. Cuts to Services
Fri Mar 1, 2013, 03:34 PM
Mar 2013

Makes it very difficult to track at risk parents, I'm wondering if this young woman has psychiatric issues or perhaps is developmentally disabled. And while I don't doubt she may have had a rough go to want to give up her baby, it seems especially cruel to just leave a defenseless baby all alone in the cold woods. As a Social Worker for many years I know the difficulties alot of parents face, particularly if they are sole caregiver. I can't think of a single client I've ever had that would resort to something so heartless. I'm so glad this baby was found alive and unharmed, but I shudder to think what she must've experienced when she saw her mom walk away. I pray this sweet baby is adopted into a good family and is given a chance at life.

LiberalAndProud

(12,799 posts)
15. Sad story all around.
Fri Mar 1, 2013, 03:53 PM
Mar 2013

I expect there is much to understand about the young woman's circumstances.

http://www.mcall.com/news/nationworld/mc-mother-abandones-baby-woods-0301-20130301,0,6117631.story
Ms. Cutruzzula told police she was having "family issues" with her mother and stepfather. She said she "thought she was doing the right thing," police wrote in the complaint.
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Mr. Zappala said Ms. Cutruzzula will likely be treated at a behavioral clinic and prosecutors will review her charges -- a felony and a misdemeanor.


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