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so I lost my job today (Original Post) Hobo Mar 2013 OP
Ouch. Ruby the Liberal Mar 2013 #1
Hang in there and work your friends. n/t hootinholler Mar 2013 #2
Try relatives or friends. But whoever you stay with don't overstay your welcome. While you are southernyankeebelle Mar 2013 #3
But like fish isn't that 3 days? MattBaggins Mar 2013 #6
LOL, well with some fish you find out one day is really more a person can stand the smell. southernyankeebelle Mar 2013 #19
Don't know what to say my friend except hang in there. demosincebirth Mar 2013 #4
Damn, that sucks. Jackpine Radical Mar 2013 #5
Hey Hobo Mar 2013 #47
so sorry to hear this. do you have friends or family with whom you could stay for a bit? niyad Mar 2013 #7
Sorry to hear that. UnrepentantLiberal Mar 2013 #8
mechanical engineering Hobo Mar 2013 #12
That's fucked up. UnrepentantLiberal Mar 2013 #13
I go tomorrow to unemployment office Hobo Mar 2013 #16
In New Jersey we can call in. UnrepentantLiberal Mar 2013 #17
You can apply online for unemployment here in Alabama...see if you can do that.... OldDem2012 Mar 2013 #29
I hope you qualify for enough UI benefits to maintain some kind of a life during your search slackmaster Mar 2013 #43
Well you could try GE. They outsource their profits so they have lots of dough. lonestarnot Mar 2013 #15
I'm so sorry. Ilsa Mar 2013 #9
If you have family get in touch with them to see whether they can help by giving you bluestate10 Mar 2013 #10
That sucks... Melon_Lord Mar 2013 #11
I'm sorry about that. liberal_at_heart Mar 2013 #14
I'm really sorry renate Mar 2013 #18
Very sorry to hear that. NaturalHigh Mar 2013 #20
Actually, you touched on something that might help him Floyd_Gondolli Mar 2013 #39
I'm so sorry. Hang in there. myrna minx Mar 2013 #21
Let's be practical. IdaBriggs Mar 2013 #22
Hi Hobo Mar 2013 #23
Excellent! Job Title? Perfect Position? IdaBriggs Mar 2013 #30
I would love Hobo Mar 2013 #33
If I was a single unattached male engineer, I might try one of the emirates. stevenleser Mar 2013 #36
Check this out Re: Bahrain stevenleser Mar 2013 #37
Is there anything in particular stopping you? IdaBriggs Mar 2013 #45
Check San Diego area. Jobs are not all military, and even though it's expensive living, hiring is up haele Mar 2013 #35
Start contacting contract houses..... llmart Mar 2013 #41
Why do you plan to "hang" for a few months, and when do you plan to start looking for work? slackmaster Mar 2013 #24
It takes time to find a job. And even longer to get your first paycheck. darkangel218 Mar 2013 #26
I was hoping to get some time off when I got laid off in February 2012 slackmaster Mar 2013 #27
Well in case Hobo Mar 2013 #34
Thanks for answering. On reflection I think I may have failed to dig your rap. slackmaster Mar 2013 #42
The "Gigs" section on Craigslist was a lifesaver when I was between jobs Recursion Mar 2013 #25
You're a mechanical engineer?! Come to San Diego. MindPilot Mar 2013 #28
whats the company? Hobo Mar 2013 #32
I PM'd you MindPilot Mar 2013 #44
Sorry to hear that. 99Forever Mar 2013 #31
This message was self-deleted by its author bamacrat Mar 2013 #38
Sorry to hear that, I lost mine about a month ago justiceischeap Mar 2013 #40
If and when your old employer calls you with a question about something kudzu22 Mar 2013 #46

Ruby the Liberal

(26,219 posts)
1. Ouch.
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 09:09 PM
Mar 2013

Been there - sorry to hear this. Best wishes for one closed door leading to a better open door. Sorry for the cliche.

 

southernyankeebelle

(11,304 posts)
3. Try relatives or friends. But whoever you stay with don't overstay your welcome. While you are
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 09:27 PM
Mar 2013

there do your share of work around the house. Try contribute something. If they let you use their washer and dryer try washing and drying your cloths while they are at work. Nothing worse coming home and you need to wash your families laundry but can't because you have your cloths in the washer. Believe me I know. I had a friend and her 2 children living we us. She was home all day with the kids. The kids watched tv. When we would come home and want to wash cloths we couldn't. I asked her nicely to do her things while we were gone through the day. I don't think I was asking to much. Well a fews weeks of this and my husband called her husband and said he had to hurry and find housing for them. He told us her parents kicked them out of the house also. The sad thing is we really like her husband and it ended up ruining our friendship. So be careful where you go and don't over stay your welcome.

 

southernyankeebelle

(11,304 posts)
19. LOL, well with some fish you find out one day is really more a person can stand the smell.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 07:26 AM
Mar 2013

Then you realize it's time for that fish to go.

Jackpine Radical

(45,274 posts)
5. Damn, that sucks.
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 09:29 PM
Mar 2013

Any prospects? Was it a total surprise? Did you have any time to plan?

Damn. That sucks.

Been there. Wasn't fun. You have my sympathy.

Hobo

(757 posts)
47. Hey
Wed Mar 20, 2013, 11:32 AM
Mar 2013

Thanks for your concern,


Prospects? not at this moment.

We were bought by another firm about a year ago. They have just started to get there upper management people in place and I figured they would start to bring in their own people, so when they let me go they stated they were going to go in another direction for my department, so no, it was not a total surprise. I thought I would have gotten a little time to plan but, hey thats life in the USA now.

They plan to do a lot of our work overseas. Yep, outsourcing.

Thanks

Hobo

niyad

(113,600 posts)
7. so sorry to hear this. do you have friends or family with whom you could stay for a bit?
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 09:32 PM
Mar 2013

what does the job market look like in your field? is it possible you could wind up with something much better?

please let us know how you are doing.

 

UnrepentantLiberal

(11,700 posts)
13. That's fucked up.
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 10:47 PM
Mar 2013

There will soon be no jobs left. At least you have very good skills. Will you get two years of unemployment?

OldDem2012

(3,526 posts)
29. You can apply online for unemployment here in Alabama...see if you can do that....
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:37 AM
Mar 2013

....and it may save you a trip.

First thing you need to do is update your resume and your references. Make sure those people give you a good reference...you may want to have a friend call those references and act like a potential employer just to see what they really say.

Next thing you want to do is take a look at your expenses and see what you can do without for a while....make your money stretch as long as possible.

See if any of your current friends, former co-workers, and your previous manager(s) have any leads for permanent or full-time work. Also, start checking online for contract work...that may provide you with steady pay and may give you a foot in the door at a new place of employment. Look for recruiting firms that specialize in mechanical engineering.

Good luck!

 

slackmaster

(60,567 posts)
43. I hope you qualify for enough UI benefits to maintain some kind of a life during your search
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 03:08 PM
Mar 2013

It's never enough, but it's always better than nothing.

Ilsa

(61,700 posts)
9. I'm so sorry.
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 09:37 PM
Mar 2013

I hope you can find something quickly.

Family usually doesn't mind helping out if they can see that you are doing everything you can to look, use benefits, and not drain them. Sometimes, working smaller, pt jobs has to be done in the interim to keep one floating if unemployment comp has run out.

I hope everything works out well and goes smoothly for you. Good luck.

bluestate10

(10,942 posts)
10. If you have family get in touch with them to see whether they can help by giving you
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 09:43 PM
Mar 2013

a place to sleep, even if it's not great. Apply for unemployment if that is available and use a few of the bucks to help the family member that is giving you help. Keep looking for a job, don't give up.

 

Melon_Lord

(105 posts)
11. That sucks...
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 09:47 PM
Mar 2013

Your new job is to get rehired or bring in some income on your own.

Treat it like a real job 9-5 and you'll be much better off .

renate

(13,776 posts)
18. I'm really sorry
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 01:23 AM
Mar 2013

I know absolutely nothing about mechanical engineering so I can't even make suggestions... I can only wish you the very best of luck.

NaturalHigh

(12,778 posts)
20. Very sorry to hear that.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 08:00 AM
Mar 2013

Unless you're in Oklahoma, I can't offer much advice, but I wish you all the best.

 

Floyd_Gondolli

(1,277 posts)
39. Actually, you touched on something that might help him
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 02:54 PM
Mar 2013

Assuming he has the desire to relocate. Job market is still pretty solid here. The catch is you have to live here (I say that as a lifer).

 

IdaBriggs

(10,559 posts)
22. Let's be practical.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 09:00 AM
Mar 2013

City, State you currently reside in?

Are you able to relocate? (If you have children, is this an issue?)

What are your job skills? Please provide a BRIEF resume (job title, length of time, employer)

Are you currently on Linked In? Have you asked past employers/co-workers for references there? (Recruiters love to read those.)

Have you updated your resume? Has it been reviewed by a third party with an "eye" for this?

Let's start with these - I'll ask more, depending on your answers.

Hobo

(757 posts)
23. Hi
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:23 AM
Mar 2013

I am in Tucson Arizona

I can relocate worldwide, kid has grown and I am divorced.

I have been working for 35 years I have a BS in mechanical engineering
I was with this company for 3 years was was previous company for 4 years, spend most of my career with one company then they decided to go bankrupt. I have been just trying to get to retirement which is about 7 more years.

I am on Linked in. I can get references

Resume is updated.


Thanks

Hobo

 

IdaBriggs

(10,559 posts)
30. Excellent! Job Title? Perfect Position?
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 12:00 PM
Mar 2013

Are you "Project Manager" material? What is your primary focus?

ON EDIT: Monster Link http://jobsearch.monster.com/search/Mechanical-Engineer_5?where=Tucson__2C-AZ

ON EDIT 2: With your experience and credentials, is Arizona your preferred place to live for a few years? How would you feel about overseas work?

I apologize for saying this, but YEAH! Congratulations! You just became free to do go / do whatever you might want to do!!! And with your skills/experience, get PAID for it!!!

ON EDIT 3: Craigslist job offerings in your current area: http://tucson.craigslist.org/search/egr?zoomToPosting=&query=mechanical&srchType=A

Hobo

(757 posts)
33. I would love
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 02:44 PM
Mar 2013

to work overseas especially in the Pacific asia area (singaore, malayasia, China, Japan, Hong kong...etc)


Hobo

 

stevenleser

(32,886 posts)
36. If I was a single unattached male engineer, I might try one of the emirates.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 02:51 PM
Mar 2013

I think they pay a huge amount of money for engineering talent. They always seem to be building over there.

 

IdaBriggs

(10,559 posts)
45. Is there anything in particular stopping you?
Wed Mar 20, 2013, 08:36 AM
Mar 2013

Are you just looking for contacts to find the right job in those places?

MSX is an international contracting house. http://www.msxi.com/careers/asia-pacific/

You might need to make a few phone calls to find the "right" recruiter, but ... ?

haele

(12,682 posts)
35. Check San Diego area. Jobs are not all military, and even though it's expensive living, hiring is up
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 02:47 PM
Mar 2013

However, like in most places you will have to compete. But the ability to relocate quickly on your own might be a plus on much of your competition.

Haele

llmart

(15,556 posts)
41. Start contacting contract houses.....
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 02:58 PM
Mar 2013

With your experience and age it maybe easier to start out as a contract engineer. You are actually in a much better position than most laid off engineers because you are free to move wherever the jobs are. Don't rule out anything or any place.

 

slackmaster

(60,567 posts)
27. I was hoping to get some time off when I got laid off in February 2012
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:32 AM
Mar 2013

I put out feelers immediately, beefed up my resume on LinkedIn and Monster, and I ended starting a new job just four weeks later.

I didn't even have time to do some badly needed Spring cleaning and yard maintenance. Or just catch my breath.

The length of time required to find a job depends on several factors, some of which the unemployed person has control over - Specifically the amount of time and effort put into looking for work, and the quality of self-presentation, of putting one's skill set and experience in the best possible light in the context of what kind of people are in demand.

 

slackmaster

(60,567 posts)
42. Thanks for answering. On reflection I think I may have failed to dig your rap.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 03:07 PM
Mar 2013

I'm 55 years old, and to me the slang term "hang" has always meant to indulge in a period of inactivity, to rest, or in the parlance of someone a little younger than myself to "chill out" or cool one's wheels.

I see that you meant it as "to reside," and I apologize for not getting your meaning.

Good luck finding work. This site is very good for moral support for your kind of situation.

FWIW, it has been my experience in most layoffs that I ended up better off in the long run.



Recursion

(56,582 posts)
25. The "Gigs" section on Craigslist was a lifesaver when I was between jobs
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:26 AM
Mar 2013

Help people move, paint their house, etc.; keeps you active and puts some $$ in your pocket.

 

MindPilot

(12,693 posts)
28. You're a mechanical engineer?! Come to San Diego.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:33 AM
Mar 2013

I just checked my employeer's site---we currently have six open positions for ME's

99Forever

(14,524 posts)
31. Sorry to hear that.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 12:05 PM
Mar 2013

Welcome to my world. The upside(?) is we have lots of friends in the same place and more every day. The downside(!!!) is that no one that could something to make things better, has any interest in doing so.

Response to Hobo (Original post)

justiceischeap

(14,040 posts)
40. Sorry to hear that, I lost mine about a month ago
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 02:55 PM
Mar 2013

But I was fortunate that I was just picked up my a different department at the same place until the end of June. It gives me more time to find something permanent.

Good luck in your search!

kudzu22

(1,273 posts)
46. If and when your old employer calls you with a question about something
Wed Mar 20, 2013, 08:40 AM
Mar 2013

Charge them $200 an hour for consulting fees. They'll pay it.

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