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SoCalDem

(103,856 posts)
Fri Apr 5, 2013, 06:51 PM Apr 2013

An old man fell in the street yesterday

I met him at the bank today, and we struck up a conversation about his banged up nose, black eye & broken arm.

When he told me where he fell, I asked him if anyone came to help him immediately ( It is a very busy street).

The ONLY person who came to help him ..and who directed traffic around him, was a homeless woman.

She had no phone, but managed to use his to call for help for him.. She stayed with him until an ambulance came...and then they unceremoniously shooed her away ..

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An old man fell in the street yesterday (Original Post) SoCalDem Apr 2013 OP
Not sure what one can add to a post like this. randome Apr 2013 #1
I'll add a tear malaise Apr 2013 #7
Me too.... What the heck... midnight Apr 2013 #22
Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me. Fumesucker Apr 2013 #2
On Earth the good works of Heavan are ours to perform. HereSince1628 Apr 2013 #19
But Paul gave cover for those who don't want to do "good works" ... 1monster Apr 2013 #23
Just my personal opinion, but Paul was more an apostate than an apostle n/t tech3149 Apr 2013 #31
Clever. I'll use that in future. malthaussen Apr 2013 #38
"Show me your faith apart from your works Bake Apr 2013 #41
Fuck. ananda Apr 2013 #3
When I fell (tripped) in London... Deep13 Apr 2013 #4
That is really sad but I think many don't know what to do when something UBEEDelusional Apr 2013 #5
He was just glad that someone helped him SoCalDem Apr 2013 #6
Remembering purple nail polish is rather interesting UBEEDelusional Apr 2013 #8
He probably noticed when she made the call on his phone SoCalDem Apr 2013 #9
i would always help someone noiretextatique Apr 2013 #10
This kind woman may have saved his life Iwillnevergiveup Apr 2013 #11
I guess homeless people are the new Samaritans. mysuzuki2 Apr 2013 #12
The devout would go out of their way to avoid Samaritans Fumesucker Apr 2013 #24
How sad. It would never occur to me to not stop to help, but I guess I'm from a LoisB Apr 2013 #13
I once had a garbage truck back up right into my car. Literally LibDemAlways Apr 2013 #15
This message was self-deleted by its author A HERETIC I AM Apr 2013 #29
This happened before cell phones were common. I did not have LibDemAlways Apr 2013 #33
I am Disabled dem in texas Apr 2013 #14
I once walked past a woman who was stalled in traffic. I went to her window and said I could get it wellstone dem Apr 2013 #17
Brains over brawn..Love it SoCalDem Apr 2013 #40
Just a guess, but Dash87 Apr 2013 #16
Pretty pathetic. And there were many "Christians" among those who DIDN'T help for sure. judesedit Apr 2013 #18
Why single out Christians? Shame on you. 840high Apr 2013 #20
See my post #2 n/t Fumesucker Apr 2013 #25
the least of us nahant Apr 2013 #21
stupid question but SmileyRose Apr 2013 #26
He had a broken nose & humerus bone in his arm SoCalDem Apr 2013 #28
I've been homeless Herlong Apr 2013 #27
Been there too, Herlong. Welcome Mnemosyne Apr 2013 #34
sad CountAllVotes Apr 2013 #30
I'm afraid that by the time the meek inherit this earth, it will be uninhabitable. nt Mnemosyne Apr 2013 #35
You might be right CountAllVotes Apr 2013 #36
I sincerely hope that I am wrong, CAV. Mnemosyne Apr 2013 #37
What have we become? Timbuk3 Apr 2013 #32
I was hooked to a machine for 100 minutes yesterday, donating platelets Skittles Apr 2013 #39
Empathy comes from experience. nt zanana1 Apr 2013 #42
I would always stop to help someone who was hurt or who had fallen. smirkymonkey Apr 2013 #43

1monster

(11,012 posts)
23. But Paul gave cover for those who don't want to do "good works" ...
Fri Apr 5, 2013, 09:41 PM
Apr 2013

And thus "good Christians" can walk by someone in need and not try to help; they can even sneer at the person in need...


Ephesians 2:8-9

King James Version (KJV)


8 For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God:

9 Not of works, lest any man should boast.

Bake

(21,977 posts)
41. "Show me your faith apart from your works
Sat Apr 6, 2013, 05:12 PM
Apr 2013

And I by my works will show you my faith."

Can't really have one without the other.

Bake

Deep13

(39,154 posts)
4. When I fell (tripped) in London...
Fri Apr 5, 2013, 07:03 PM
Apr 2013

...and went down like a ton of bricks (fat), it was a young, professional woman who stopped to help. No ambulance, not that bad.

 

UBEEDelusional

(54 posts)
5. That is really sad but I think many don't know what to do when something
Fri Apr 5, 2013, 07:08 PM
Apr 2013

out of the norm happens so they just ignore it.

A few times in my life I have been in situations where a person needed help of some sort and most people panic or just don't know what to do until someone takes control of the situation.

It has been said before 'People are scared panicky animals' and it is very true.

 

UBEEDelusional

(54 posts)
8. Remembering purple nail polish is rather interesting
Fri Apr 5, 2013, 07:16 PM
Apr 2013

but our minds can fixate on strange things while under stress.

noiretextatique

(27,275 posts)
10. i would always help someone
Fri Apr 5, 2013, 07:35 PM
Apr 2013

but i know some people would rather not get involved or ignore the situation. i think: what if it was MY mother or father, or ME?

Iwillnevergiveup

(9,298 posts)
11. This kind woman may have saved his life
Fri Apr 5, 2013, 08:08 PM
Apr 2013

by directing traffic around him. How utterly terrifying for him - glad he got help, and it was very nice of you to have a few words with him. We need all the angels we can get.

LoisB

(7,206 posts)
13. How sad. It would never occur to me to not stop to help, but I guess I'm from a
Fri Apr 5, 2013, 08:21 PM
Apr 2013

different time where people actually did look out for one another; or maybe I just want to believe it was once that way.

LibDemAlways

(15,139 posts)
15. I once had a garbage truck back up right into my car. Literally
Fri Apr 5, 2013, 08:40 PM
Apr 2013

destroyed the front end and engine compartment. Fortunately my then 10-year-old daughter and I were only shaken up but ok. This was in my neighborhood not too far from my house. A bunch of people drove by and gawked. No one stopped to see if there was anything they could do to help. A few weeks later a woman I knew casually told me she had passed by the accident and proceeded to ask if my car was totaled. No concern for me. Callous world in which we live.

Response to LibDemAlways (Reply #15)

LibDemAlways

(15,139 posts)
33. This happened before cell phones were common. I did not have
Sat Apr 6, 2013, 01:21 AM
Apr 2013

a cell phone on me. The woman was very flippant about the accident. I stand by my original statement.

dem in texas

(2,674 posts)
14. I am Disabled
Fri Apr 5, 2013, 08:23 PM
Apr 2013

I am disabled and most of the time I must use a cane to walk and I walk very carefully and slowly. People are always offering to help me, to open doors for me, to help carry things, they couldn't be kinder. Most of the time I don't need the help, but it is nice to know that strangers can be so nice. I have been in New York city and people there have been just as helpful as my fellow Texans.

That said one day, one day, I was at the Dallas Farmer's Market and my car broke down as I was pulling out of my parking spot. I needed to push the car back into the spot because I was blocking all the traffic going through the market. Not one person offered to help me. I tried to push the car by myself, but could not make it move, finally one of the vendors, a very elderly man who hobbled when he walked, came over and offered to help push the car back in the space. It shamed the strong young men to see an old man and old lady pushing a car and they finally came to help out.

wellstone dem

(4,460 posts)
17. I once walked past a woman who was stalled in traffic. I went to her window and said I could get it
Fri Apr 5, 2013, 09:06 PM
Apr 2013

moved.

She looked at me, a 57 year woman and said, "How are you going to move this car?" I said, "Watch." "So I went behind the car and started to push." Guys jumped out of 3 different cars. I could then just walk away. I got her car moved!

Dash87

(3,220 posts)
16. Just a guess, but
Fri Apr 5, 2013, 08:42 PM
Apr 2013

she probably knew what it's like to be ignored in a time of need, which greatly influenced her stepping in.

CountAllVotes

(20,876 posts)
30. sad
Fri Apr 5, 2013, 10:02 PM
Apr 2013

When someone falls and you see it what you should do is cover the person with a blanket, etc. and call an ambulance. That is what should be done in all cases.

How often does it happen like this I often wonder.

Thank God that lady was there to help him.

Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the earth.

Timbuk3

(872 posts)
32. What have we become?
Sat Apr 6, 2013, 12:16 AM
Apr 2013

The least among us have begun to lead.

And the wealthy sit in their castles, watching.

Skittles

(153,169 posts)
39. I was hooked to a machine for 100 minutes yesterday, donating platelets
Sat Apr 6, 2013, 04:58 PM
Apr 2013

for people I do not know; for sure I would help someone I could see with my own eyes

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
43. I would always stop to help someone who was hurt or who had fallen.
Sat Apr 6, 2013, 07:00 PM
Apr 2013

I have lived in a number of large cities and have done so many times. I sometimes think that people in large cities are more caring than people in less metropolitan areas. In NYC, when someone was injured or had fallen in the street, a number of us would rush to their rescue and help, call an ambulance or do what was needed to assist them. It was just instinct to me. I would never ignore someone in need.

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