Welcome to DU! The truly grassroots left-of-center political community where regular people, not algorithms, drive the discussions and set the standards. Join the community: Create a free account Support DU (and get rid of ads!): Become a Star Member Latest Breaking News General Discussion The DU Lounge All Forums Issue Forums Culture Forums Alliance Forums Region Forums Support Forums Help & Search
 

cali

(114,904 posts)
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 12:04 AM Apr 2013

I want to know how Dzhokhar Tsarnaev went from popular, easy going high school student

to bomber and murderer. He wasn't some loner. I'm guessing he was heavily influenced by Tamerlan, but of course that's just a guess.

<snip>

Dzhokhar Tsarnaev — who took the oath of citizenship on the 11th anniversary of 9/11 — was the captain of his high school wrestling team, drank and smoked pot with friends, quoted Jay-Z and Paul McCartney lyrics, wore his baseball cap backwards and loved Twitter.

The 19-year-old college student even said he enjoyed helping people.

“I didn’t become a lifeguard to just chill and get paid, I do it for the people, saving lives brings me joy,” he tweeted last May.

He also idolized his big brother Tamerlan Tsarnaev, 26, and a relative said that’s what likely led to his involvement in one of the worst terrorist acts ever to take place on U.S. soil.

“I used to warn Dzhokhar that Tamerlan was up to no good,” cousin Zaur Tsarnaev told the Boston Globe from his home in Makhachkala, Russia.

Read more: http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/dzhokhar-tsarnaev-friends-family-shocked-developments-article-1.1322536#ixzz2QyO8LyfA



68 replies = new reply since forum marked as read
Highlight: NoneDon't highlight anything 5 newestHighlight 5 most recent replies
I want to know how Dzhokhar Tsarnaev went from popular, easy going high school student (Original Post) cali Apr 2013 OP
I agree with you completely GitRDun Apr 2013 #1
Sadly, I think it will be about the influence of his brother. Behind the Aegis Apr 2013 #2
Yes, this kid won't know what happened. dkf Apr 2013 #10
I have a feeling that all of this horror will slowly sink in for him anneboleyn Apr 2013 #28
I think he ran over his wounded older brother on purpose, because he hated him. El Fuego Apr 2013 #57
I think he was trying to get away and would have run over anyone who was there. LisaL Apr 2013 #62
Well said DeadEyeDyck Apr 2013 #65
News said he went in reverse to do it, then fled going forward. El Fuego Apr 2013 #67
Or was he doing him an act of mercy. DeadEyeDyck Apr 2013 #66
Sometimes all you can say is.. RagAss Apr 2013 #3
or: "What the fuck?" Taverner Apr 2013 #59
And I really don't care. LisaL Apr 2013 #4
no, you can't, but I always want to understand the why of things cali Apr 2013 #6
That's ridiculous. Hissyspit Apr 2013 #8
Matters for what, exactly? LisaL Apr 2013 #11
Maybe help prevent another young adult from doing the same thing? uppityperson Apr 2013 #13
How has that been working for us so far? LisaL Apr 2013 #14
Since when does the United States choie Apr 2013 #18
Exactly. (no text) Quantess Apr 2013 #68
Well, my child, nephew and their friends have all managed to not murder anyone. uppityperson Apr 2013 #23
We have, so far, been more concerned about punishment than about JDPriestly Apr 2013 #36
To the victims. To the victims' families & friends. To researchers. To sociologists. Hissyspit Apr 2013 #17
To profile future bombers BainsBane Apr 2013 #25
finding out what happened is not the same thing as excusing it. Warren DeMontague Apr 2013 #38
So understanding why someone would do this is pointless? MrModerate Apr 2013 #43
"isn't there a nihilism forum" snagglepuss Apr 2013 #56
I understand what you are saying but I think if you turned the clock back a million times... RagAss Apr 2013 #12
Do you really think this will be the last terrorist attack ever? Donald Ian Rankin Apr 2013 #47
Sadly I think it's the brother too. nessa Apr 2013 #5
extremely impressionable, i think shireen Apr 2013 #7
yes, a folie a deux situation anneboleyn Apr 2013 #29
He had a crappy brother... dkf Apr 2013 #9
He had a crappy mother too--a felonious shoplifter from Lord and Taylor. MADem Apr 2013 #35
I posted this above, but I would be interested in what you think about JDPriestly Apr 2013 #37
No. I think the brotherly influence scenario is far more likely. MADem Apr 2013 #40
Strange. Like most DUers, I'm such a contrarian that I cannot imagine JDPriestly Apr 2013 #41
There's some serious "family dynamic" going on with that family, too. MADem Apr 2013 #44
Yes. Good points. I agree. JDPriestly Apr 2013 #50
Agree wholeheartedly. nt MADem Apr 2013 #58
That is kind of ironic. Warren DeMontague Apr 2013 #39
it might be a kind of culturally reinforced version of the "Dependent Personality Disorder" Douglas Carpenter Apr 2013 #15
The situation reminds me of Charlie Manson and his followers. Blue_In_AK Apr 2013 #16
Like serial killers who work in pairs BainsBane Apr 2013 #26
That was an informative article Generic Other Apr 2013 #19
Well apparently the younger one run the older one over with a car. LisaL Apr 2013 #61
speaking as a loner hfojvt Apr 2013 #20
Well he allegedly smoked pot. And this is DU. So he couldn't possibly be bad. LisaL Apr 2013 #21
Some "loners" are naturally solitary people. They don't necessarily winter is coming Apr 2013 #22
Those loners who are rejected/alienated are more accurately called "failed joiners," I think. Nay Apr 2013 #51
I'm sorry. I certainly didn't mean to insult you or others cali Apr 2013 #49
Faith-based religion can make good, sane people do horrible things... MellowDem Apr 2013 #24
Agreed. But is there a fact-based religion somewhere? AnotherMcIntosh Apr 2013 #27
more like his brother was a failure so he turned to religion and other things to deal with it JI7 Apr 2013 #30
Reading his twitter was like reading any other 19yr old twitter.... octothorpe Apr 2013 #31
What if the motivation was revenge for the insult to the family's honor JDPriestly Apr 2013 #32
If Tamerlan had a resentment I think it had more to do with his own arrest. dkf Apr 2013 #46
Very interesting. Sounds right. JDPriestly Apr 2013 #48
Exactly jessie04 Apr 2013 #55
No man is an island. We are all influenced, if not shaped, snot Apr 2013 #33
Don't you know CNN, FOX, MSNBC etc .. will leave no rock unturned .. YOHABLO Apr 2013 #34
Gee I wonder Montoya Apr 2013 #42
what sucks is a lot of people who are religious and live their lives that way JI7 Apr 2013 #45
Faith eallen Apr 2013 #52
I'm sure you're not alone in that wish. MineralMan Apr 2013 #53
uh, where did I say I wanted that information immediately? cali Apr 2013 #54
So do some of his friends. Denzil_DC Apr 2013 #60
in a lot of cultures around the world there is a romantic idea about the freedom fighter and the Douglas Carpenter Apr 2013 #63
When his parents went back to Russia, he was left dangling SoCalDem Apr 2013 #64

Behind the Aegis

(53,961 posts)
2. Sadly, I think it will be about the influence of his brother.
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 12:08 AM
Apr 2013

If that is true, then I also believe we won't learn anything from him as he wouldn't have ascribed to his brother's philosophy, and likely would only know cursory things. It is all around very sad. I have three younger brothers, and it makes one wonder what power we exert over our siblings.

anneboleyn

(5,611 posts)
28. I have a feeling that all of this horror will slowly sink in for him
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 02:03 AM
Apr 2013

I may be wrong of course but he doesn't seem to be a sociopathic type like McVeigh. He seems very young, rather rash, and impulsive -- manipulated by the older brother too easily. With his older brother dead, he is going to have to face some harsh truths about the nature of their actions and all the hurt and devastation created for so many families, including his own family.

El Fuego

(6,502 posts)
57. I think he ran over his wounded older brother on purpose, because he hated him.
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 11:21 AM
Apr 2013

You'd have to think there was a point in time where the younger brother came to the realization that his life was over, and of course he blamed the older brother. He had always worshipped the older brother, and the older brother was obviously at least the leader.

Some people say running over his brother to make sure he died was calculated and tactical, but I think the act was just violent and emotional. After all he is just 19 and this was his brother, he's not a trained military operative.

El Fuego

(6,502 posts)
67. News said he went in reverse to do it, then fled going forward.
Sun Apr 21, 2013, 01:47 PM
Apr 2013

The cops were handcuffing him at the time, but they jumped out of the way.

choie

(4,111 posts)
18. Since when does the United States
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 12:54 AM
Apr 2013

really attempt to analyze the real reasons that people (i.e. terrorists) commit these acts (and it's not because they hate our freedoms)?

JDPriestly

(57,936 posts)
36. We have, so far, been more concerned about punishment than about
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 02:47 AM
Apr 2013

prevention in these situations.

We assume that this was terrorism. But when I saw a picture of their mother after her arrest, I began to wonder whether the motivations of these two young men were more complex. The desire to avenge their mother and the honor of their family should be considered as a contributing motivation.

This kind of irrational anger is hard to understand. But we have so much violence that appears to grow out of this kind of anger. We need to study it just as we would study the cause of any other disease.

Just calling it "mental illness" or political or religious fanaticism does not help us help kids who are going off the deep end.

And we all know young people who are mentally ill who never come close to doing things like this. So I do think it is worth asking more questions.

That is not to say the behavior is excused. It is merely to say that, after they have been tried and convicted, we should study the people who do these things and try to find out how they think, how they fall into such violence. Maybe we could save some lives that way. I think that some individuals have tried to figure this out. But I don't think that they have gone about it as scientifically as is needed.

Hissyspit

(45,788 posts)
17. To the victims. To the victims' families & friends. To researchers. To sociologists.
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 12:52 AM
Apr 2013

To policymakers. To anyone who wants a more complete picture of reality.

BainsBane

(53,035 posts)
25. To profile future bombers
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 01:40 AM
Apr 2013

The same reason they interview serial killers. Understanding the deviant Criminal mind advances psychology, criminology, and law enforcement.

 

MrModerate

(9,753 posts)
43. So understanding why someone would do this is pointless?
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 03:11 AM
Apr 2013

Isn't there a nihilism forum somewhere you should be following? Democracy — underground or otherwise — doesn't actually seem to be your thing.

RagAss

(13,832 posts)
12. I understand what you are saying but I think if you turned the clock back a million times...
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 12:33 AM
Apr 2013

he ends up bloodied and in that boat a million times. Just different views of reality. It's not like anyone can prove their view is the right one.

Donald Ian Rankin

(13,598 posts)
47. Do you really think this will be the last terrorist attack ever?
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 05:27 AM
Apr 2013

If not, understanding why it happened is vital.

nessa

(317 posts)
5. Sadly I think it's the brother too.
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 12:16 AM
Apr 2013

I have two boys with the same age difference. The older could probably get the younger to do anything. The younger admires everything about his brother. Luckily for the younger the older is a good person.

shireen

(8,333 posts)
7. extremely impressionable, i think
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 12:19 AM
Apr 2013

he fell under the spell of his brother's forceful personality and beliefs. Like a 2-person cult? Just guessing ....

 

dkf

(37,305 posts)
9. He had a crappy brother...
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 12:26 AM
Apr 2013

If his brother had been a success in life this wouldn't have happened. He let himself be sucked into the resentment of his brother's failures.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
35. He had a crappy mother too--a felonious shoplifter from Lord and Taylor.
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 02:41 AM
Apr 2013

How ironic that a camera at the L/T Boston store was the device that initially identified the bombers.

http://natick.patch.com/articles/arrests-1-600-in-clothes-stolen

JDPriestly

(57,936 posts)
37. I posted this above, but I would be interested in what you think about
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 02:49 AM
Apr 2013

my idea.

Do you suppose maybe one motivation for the horrible crime rampage was avenging their mother?

MADem

(135,425 posts)
40. No. I think the brotherly influence scenario is far more likely.
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 02:58 AM
Apr 2013

The brotherly influence was likely more prominent after his parents went back home to Russia. Or maybe the parents were never Mother and Father of the Year.

Some kids--cheerful or otherwise--are just easily led. It's not a question of personality or intelligence.

I've seen this down the years, some folks are questioning contrarians, while others are eager to find someone to follow so they don't have to weigh life's tough issues themselves.

JDPriestly

(57,936 posts)
41. Strange. Like most DUers, I'm such a contrarian that I cannot imagine
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 03:07 AM
Apr 2013

anything else.

If this young man survives and talks, maybe we will find more out than we now know.

I think it is important to try to find out all the motivations at play. If the brother was the deadly influence, it may be that there were other similar influences. Maybe someone influenced the brother. I hope we find out how that worked.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
44. There's some serious "family dynamic" going on with that family, too.
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 03:14 AM
Apr 2013

The uncle in MD calling that branch of the family losers, the aunt up in Toronto screaming at the reporters, the shoplifting mama, the girlfriend beating brother...more drama in that family than most. Probably not too healthy. Might have produced a real "people pleaser" in the youngest child...

JDPriestly

(57,936 posts)
50. Yes. Good points. I agree.
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 06:05 AM
Apr 2013

A child who is fearful and cannot stand up in a healthy way to an authority that is wrong.

But then, at 19, very few have learned how to say "no" without getting into trouble to authority when the authority is behaving wrongly. It takes a long time to learn that.

Still, at 19, he is responsible for what he did, fully responsible.

I'm just keen on trying to understand how this works. If we could figure it out, we might be able to better inform parents about how they deal with their children.

If you ever have to deal with child abuse issues, you realize how deficient we are as a society with regard to helping parents deal with their children. We could lower our crime rate significantly without indoctrinating families if we could just make information about good parenting more available. I think the media does not do what it should in this area.

Douglas Carpenter

(20,226 posts)
15. it might be a kind of culturally reinforced version of the "Dependent Personality Disorder"
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 12:43 AM
Apr 2013

I can remember when I was a certain age - I could have become so enthralled with someone and so convinced that they were the be all and end all - they could have talked me into almost anything. In this case there might have been an even stronger cultural tradition of a younger brother really looking up to an older brother.

I know when I have read of serial killers or other heinous crimes that involved more than one perpetrator - it appears to be a common pattern that one leads the way and another one - who many times would have never on their own thought of committing such crimes - through some dynamic of emotional dependency surrenders their will to the dominance of the instigator.

I doubt that Dzhokhar would have ever on their own even considered doing such things. For that matter - what was Tamerlan thinking? Boston is not in Russia. The U.S. government and media has generally expressed sympathy for Chechnya. So far we don't know of any evidence that he had any foreign accomplices. What could he have possibly imagined that he could have accomplished?

Blue_In_AK

(46,436 posts)
16. The situation reminds me of Charlie Manson and his followers.
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 12:46 AM
Apr 2013

I doubt real seriously if those kids would have committed those murders had they not been under Charlie's influence.

BainsBane

(53,035 posts)
26. Like serial killers who work in pairs
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 01:42 AM
Apr 2013

They often wouldn't have started killing if they had not found that partner. That is based on my extensive knowledge from watching TV.

Generic Other

(28,979 posts)
19. That was an informative article
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 12:56 AM
Apr 2013

In a way the older brother got off easy. He should have been the one to answer for the crimes.

Thanks for posting that.

hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
20. speaking as a loner
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 12:57 AM
Apr 2013

I find it rather insulting that it would be understandable for a loner to do something like this, but, but not one of the normal people, not a person who wrestles, drinks and smokes pot. No, the perp should be more like me. It's not like those wrestling party-types ever do anything wrong. Certainly one of them wouldn't just start whaling on somebody for no reason and then tape his victims buns together. (How the heck is that done anyway?)

Maybe the kid watched too much NCIS Los Angeles. I have seen at least one show feature some Chechen terrorists. Maybe that helped to convince him that a Chechen should be a terrorist.

Maybe he was not doing well in college classes (he is a wrestler after all ) and he wasn't making friends in college either, and felt like he was just gonna end up like his brother - stuck in menial jobs where they treat you like a disposable wash-cloth.

winter is coming

(11,785 posts)
22. Some "loners" are naturally solitary people. They don't necessarily
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 01:04 AM
Apr 2013

dislike/distrust others, but are content with their own company. Other "loners" feel rejected by and alienated from others. That alienation can breed resentment of/emotional distancing from others, which makes them more likely IMO to engage in antisocial behavior.

Nay

(12,051 posts)
51. Those loners who are rejected/alienated are more accurately called "failed joiners," I think.
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 10:33 AM
Apr 2013

It's a more accurate description. I am a true loner -- I am perfectly happy with just my own company, could sit out in the woods counting birds for 6 months at a time, etc., but failed joiners REALLY want to have lots of friends, but because they are rejected by most people for some reason, they have no friends. My grandson has a classmate like this; because we see him in the neighborhood, we (that is, my grandson's parents and I) are trying to modify his behavior in some ways so he's more likely to attract a friend or two. That's all he needs.

 

cali

(114,904 posts)
49. I'm sorry. I certainly didn't mean to insult you or others
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 06:04 AM
Apr 2013

I think though, that it's significant that he was socially connected and evidently that was true of his college life as well.

MellowDem

(5,018 posts)
24. Faith-based religion can make good, sane people do horrible things...
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 01:28 AM
Apr 2013

we'll see what his big brother got into.

JI7

(89,252 posts)
30. more like his brother was a failure so he turned to religion and other things to deal with it
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 02:10 AM
Apr 2013

it's an excuse to take his revenge out on others and try to justify it.

octothorpe

(962 posts)
31. Reading his twitter was like reading any other 19yr old twitter....
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 02:14 AM
Apr 2013

I have a 19 yr old brother, it really didn't seem a whole lot different. He definitely didn't come off as a radical or someone who seemed unhinged.

Based on what I read though, his brother seemed like a bit of an asshole.

JDPriestly

(57,936 posts)
32. What if the motivation was revenge for the insult to the family's honor
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 02:35 AM
Apr 2013

when his mother was arrested?

For a Chechen a guest is a sacred person. That’s why friendship is appreciated so highly, as well as helping the weak person or those in need. A story tells about a driver who accidentally knocked down a woman on the street, and she died immediately. The driver took her in his arms and rushed to the nearest house, praying to God for help and mercy, for he had neither relatives nor friends near by. The man who opened the door saw his dead mother, and said to the praying driver: "Keep calm, I’ve heard your prayer. This dead woman an is my mother, and if you wish, I’ll be your brother from this day on. But by God, if you had only left her at the road and tried to run away, I would spend all my life looking for you in revenge for my mother."

http://www.truth-and-justice.info/chechnat.html

That appears to be some sort of pro-Chechen website. I have heard about this kind of revenge culture in that area before.

Here is a reference to that revenge culture in a footnote in what may be a scholarly publication.

Chechnya at a Turning Point
Winter/Spring 2001 – Volume VIII, Issue 1

Notes
. . . .
2. Blood revenge remains an essential component of Chechen culture. The filtration camps were used to hold numerous Chechens in temporary custody, officially in order to determine what links, if any, they might have with the rebels. The detainees were badly beaten and tortured.

http://www.watsoninstitute.org/bjwa/archive/8.1/Chechnya/Shenfield.pdf

Here is a link to the Watson Institute's website:

http://www.watsoninstitute.org/

 

dkf

(37,305 posts)
46. If Tamerlan had a resentment I think it had more to do with his own arrest.
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 03:47 AM
Apr 2013

In 2009 or so he was arrested on a domestic abuse charge. His father says he barely tapped his girlfriend or something to that effect but the cousin says he used to beat her up.

Apparently he went for his US citizenship interview and the arrest was a problem and during the year he lost an important boxing match, a title match iirc.

It was sometime after that the women in his life started dressing differently, in Muslim garb, and he started praying more often.

I think that is the timeline.

I have a feeling the wife is the key to understanding his problems more than the brother.


JDPriestly

(57,936 posts)
48. Very interesting. Sounds right.
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 06:00 AM
Apr 2013

I just think there is some personal, selfish aspect to this Tamerlan.

He seems to have had no thought for the danger he placed his younger brother in. Seems very egotistical to me.

But then that is one of the things that all these killers and terrorists have in common: this strange satisfaction to the ego that they seem to get from placing themselves in a position in which they have power over others and can terrorize them.

Maybe that is the key, the link between all these criminals whether using the excuse of politics or some childhood slight or religion or whatever to commit their crimes. Maybe if we could understand how the desire to feel their power and their need to satisfy their ego triggers their desire to kill, we could spot those prone to this kind of behavior and prevent these terrible crimes.

There is something about revenge involved in these crimes. Maybe people prone to these kinds of acts feel very angry because they can't just relax and let go when they feel inadequate or have their feelings hurt. Maybe they cannot deal with their weakness or their rejection.

I don't know but I am convinced that we need to understand the mechanism that triggers these horrible acts. After all, we all have to deal with rejection, failure, disappointment. It's part of life.

 

jessie04

(1,528 posts)
55. Exactly
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 11:13 AM
Apr 2013

He let his own ( or indoctrinated) religious/islamic beliefs outweigh the safety and love of his brother.

snot

(10,530 posts)
33. No man is an island. We are all influenced, if not shaped,
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 02:37 AM
Apr 2013

by our surroundings, especially the other people we're close to.

 

YOHABLO

(7,358 posts)
34. Don't you know CNN, FOX, MSNBC etc .. will leave no rock unturned ..
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 02:39 AM
Apr 2013

They will bring in the experts .. they will psychoanalyze this up and down, backward and forward. Every angle will be put forth and all their talking heads will have earned their big bucks. Everybody will be patting each other on the back saying job well done. And let's not forget who will be on top of the ratings. What a great news week .. oh shit, now back to gun control, back to chained CPI, back to cutting our Social Security .. you get the drift. Such great entertainment.

 

Montoya

(15 posts)
42. Gee I wonder
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 03:09 AM
Apr 2013

With the way the rabid right wing tea party spouts its violent rhetoric no wonder these kids snapped.

JI7

(89,252 posts)
45. what sucks is a lot of people who are religious and live their lives that way
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 03:43 AM
Apr 2013

and never hurt anyone else are seen as the ones more likely to be terrorists.

but guy slike this who fail in life so take out revenge on others and use religion as an excuse are seen as normal and gone bad. when they were probably fucked up individuals from the start.

MineralMan

(146,317 posts)
53. I'm sure you're not alone in that wish.
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 11:06 AM
Apr 2013

If you're patient, though, and follow the story, I'm sure you'll learn more. We all will.

 

cali

(114,904 posts)
54. uh, where did I say I wanted that information immediately?
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 11:09 AM
Apr 2013

Oh, I didn't? But you still felt the need to make a smug, patronizing comment.

Denzil_DC

(7,244 posts)
60. So do some of his friends.
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 10:39 PM
Apr 2013

I'm not going to link to their Twitter feeds because they've been taking a lot of predictable abuse in the last few days already (along with a lot of folks supporting them against it). They seem like a bunch of amiable, not unintelligent stoners.

The two I'm referring to can't reconcile what he's done with the guy they thought they knew. They condemn what he did outright, but they're hurting and confused and feel betrayed and would like answers.

Douglas Carpenter

(20,226 posts)
63. in a lot of cultures around the world there is a romantic idea about the freedom fighter and the
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 11:05 PM
Apr 2013

guerrilla soldier fighting for the downtrodden - not just Islamic culture but a lot of cultures. I'm sure the idea of the heroic Chechen freedom fighter resonates very strongly in the Chechnyan community. I'm sure a teenage boy would be quite susceptible to the influence of an older brother who led him to believe that on some level they were acting as heroic Chechen freedom fighters. Of course, it is absurd to imagine that their actions in Boston could somehow help the Chechen people. But a gullible and highly impressionable 19 year-old boy - might have fallen for it - especially if that idea was being shaped for him by someone who he thought was the be all and end all.

SoCalDem

(103,856 posts)
64. When his parents went back to Russia, he was left dangling
Sat Apr 20, 2013, 11:10 PM
Apr 2013

He was at a vulnerable time in life..not a kid, but not yet a full adult..

and there's the angry self-absorbed big brother..

He probably should have gone back to Russia with his parents

Latest Discussions»General Discussion»I want to know how Dzhokh...