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DainBramaged

(39,191 posts)
Sat Jun 29, 2013, 01:29 PM Jun 2013

My Dog Always Eats First: Homeless People and Their Animals (a great read)

Most of us have seen homeless people on the streets, many accompanied by their nonhuman animal (animal) companions (pets), especially dogs. On any given night there are about 640,000 homeless people in the United States (see also), however estimates vary quite a lot. It's also been estimated that 5-10% of homeless people have dogs or cats as their companions but the numbers vary geographically and it's difficult to come up with highly accurate statistics. Nonetheless, there is a large number of animals who live with homeless humans and in many cases the animals are the lifeline and reason for living for these people without a home, human beings living in a stigmatized and marginalized environment in which few if any would choose to live.

Many homeless people say their dog is their best friend and oxygen

Homeless people have told me on more than one occasion that their animal companion is their best friend and oxygen without whom life wouldn't be worth living. For many their animal friend is their only family. Last year while I was eating lunch in my hometown of Boulder (Colorado) I started talking with a homeless man named Joe and he told me that when he lost his job and became homeless he sold many of his very few possessions so that he could keep his dog, Clive, without whom Joe wouldn't be able to or want to live. I've heard similar stories in cities around the world.

Homeless people are often viewed with suspicion or fear. When people see homeless and their animals they do a number of things. Some give them money or food and some look away. Others judge them unworthy of animal companionship. Whatever the reaction, most of us would have no idea how to survive on the street with (or without) an animal.

A new book by University of Colorado sociology Professor Leslie Irvine is the first to explore what it takes to live on the streets with an animal. Using interviews with more than seventy homeless people in four cities, My Dog Always Eats First reveals what animals mean for homeless people and how they care for their four-legged friends. You can read the introduction to this landmark book here. Dr. Irvine's book provides rich descriptions of how animals provide social and emotional support and protection from harm (see also "My dog feels my pain&quot , and, in some cases, even helped turn around the lives of people who had few other reasons to live.

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/animal-emotions/201301/my-dog-always-eats-first-homeless-people-and-their-animals

http://www.buzzfeed.com/bryanbrunsell/the-dogs-of-homeless-people-45ct

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My Dog Always Eats First: Homeless People and Their Animals (a great read) (Original Post) DainBramaged Jun 2013 OP
k&r bookmarking for later Liberal_in_LA Jun 2013 #1
Thanks for posting this ashling Jun 2013 #2
I love the gifs in you sig line, love them DainBramaged Jun 2013 #4
It Gives Them A Reason To Go On grilled onions Jun 2013 #3
I know if it wasn't for my dog, I would be a lot less social. hollysmom Jun 2013 #5
For the night crew (the link to the pictures is wonderful) DainBramaged Jun 2013 #6
As A Dog Lover, That Story Warms My Heart........ ChoppinBroccoli Jun 2013 #7
Dogs believe that they exist for their person. flvegan Jun 2013 #8
Indeed we are well my friend DainBramaged Jun 2013 #9
"The biggest, meanest, sickest dog will become a puddle if you give it attention" flvegan Jun 2013 #10
And you will be remembered when you croos the bridge and see them all again DainBramaged Jul 2013 #12
One's pet is more than their pets. Lady Freedom Returns Jun 2013 #11

grilled onions

(1,957 posts)
3. It Gives Them A Reason To Go On
Sat Jun 29, 2013, 01:40 PM
Jun 2013

While the human race often turns their eyes,turns up their nose and offers them little but scorn an animal sees a human in need and they think "I need someone too" and a relationship is born. They do not judge their master if they have had a bath in awhile or if their clothes are worn and full of patches. They just know they get a well worn hand of love and an arm to protect them on a stormy night. They know they will give them food. It may not be enough or exactly what they would get in other circumstances but they know their master isn't living high on the hog either and it's better to have a little food with a human who loves you than it is to live in a fancy home with plenty of food and being totally ignored or abused.

hollysmom

(5,946 posts)
5. I know if it wasn't for my dog, I would be a lot less social.
Sat Jun 29, 2013, 03:03 PM
Jun 2013

They get you to talking to strangers. Mine gets me up in the morning, I am a v. late sleeper. I have to make food for the dog, so I make food for myself. Sound terrible and I have friends and money, It has to be painful to not have either.

ChoppinBroccoli

(3,784 posts)
7. As A Dog Lover, That Story Warms My Heart........
Sat Jun 29, 2013, 11:28 PM
Jun 2013

.................but as a dog TRAINER (not professional, I've only trained my own dogs), I immediately thought, "THAT'S WRONG!!!" When training a dog, the first thing you need to do is establish yourself as the Alpha Male of the pack. One of the ways you do this is by always eating first (the Alpha Male of the a dog pack always eats first).

If the dog is already trained, then I'm sure it's not a big deal. I just thought it was funny that I could take a heartwarming story about a homeless man being nice to his dog and in my mind turn it into a "you're training your dog wrong" scolding. My mind works in strange ways sometimes.

Seriously, though, as a person who loves dogs and who also loves stories about people who show their humanity in the most adverse of circumstances, I love this story.

It hits a little close to home, though, because I went through a rough patch a few years ago and actually had to give some serious thought to what I would do with my dog if I were forced into homelessness. Thankfully, it never came to that.

flvegan

(64,411 posts)
8. Dogs believe that they exist for their person.
Sat Jun 29, 2013, 11:49 PM
Jun 2013

They have no ego, and care little for anything outside of their relationship with their person. Not speaking from experience, but it has to be something to someone who has so little, that this being, while other humans abstain, loathe or ignore you, has no other focus. YOUR happiness, YOUR consolation, YOUR companionship.

Thanks for the post, Dain. I hope you and your loved ones are well my friend.

DainBramaged

(39,191 posts)
9. Indeed we are well my friend
Sun Jun 30, 2013, 02:32 AM
Jun 2013

Dogs do not judge. I have truly learned that this year. No matter how sick or broken the dogs are that come up to the shelter, they exist to please and to love.


I never understood it or realized it before.


The biggest, meanest, sickest dog will become a puddle if you give it attention, and for that one instant, bond to begin their recovery.

They are one of the most beautiful creatures on earth, and yet we abuse the privilege of ownership. But unlike cats, giving them love makes them mostly forget how mean and cruel we've been to them.


That is the gift that is dog.


Be well my friend.

flvegan

(64,411 posts)
10. "The biggest, meanest, sickest dog will become a puddle if you give it attention"
Sun Jun 30, 2013, 02:38 AM
Jun 2013

Welcome to my world. Remember, I rescue pitbulls.

Always good to see you, sir.

DainBramaged

(39,191 posts)
12. And you will be remembered when you croos the bridge and see them all again
Mon Jul 1, 2013, 09:46 AM
Jul 2013

You do good work.


Be well my friend.

Lady Freedom Returns

(14,120 posts)
11. One's pet is more than their pets.
Sun Jun 30, 2013, 02:44 AM
Jun 2013

They are their family. Many will not go into shelters because they can not bring their pets.

Luckily, there are newer programs out there to help get food to homeless for their dogs and sometimes cats. They even have started programs to spade and neuter as well as give the necessary shots!

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