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SoCalMusicLover

(3,194 posts)
Thu Jul 25, 2013, 09:17 AM Jul 2013

Some People Can Just Get Away With Anything

I am a decent guy, never cheated in the slightest, yet like many guys, I have trouble even getting a date, or finding a relationship with a woman who doesn't complain about the simplest thing. I get yelled at for not doing the dishes or taking out the trash.

Yet Weiner can manage to be in a sexting relationship, sending and receiving nude pics, yet his wife stands by him proudly, supporting him every step of the way. I could never even imagine doing something like that, let alone deserving to get away with it.

Life just isn't fair.

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Some People Can Just Get Away With Anything (Original Post) SoCalMusicLover Jul 2013 OP
I know exactly what you mean. liberal N proud Jul 2013 #1
The cure for getting yelled at for not doing the dishes or taking out the trash rocktivity Jul 2013 #2
Proof That Size Does Matter SoCalMusicLover Jul 2013 #3
Has it occurred to you JustAnotherGen Jul 2013 #4

liberal N proud

(60,338 posts)
1. I know exactly what you mean.
Thu Jul 25, 2013, 09:23 AM
Jul 2013

Not that I want to be like those people because what I have is pretty good and she keeps me motivated as well as keeping me in line.

rocktivity

(44,577 posts)
2. The cure for getting yelled at for not doing the dishes or taking out the trash
Thu Jul 25, 2013, 09:25 AM
Jul 2013

is to do the dishes and take out the trash.


rocktivity

 

SoCalMusicLover

(3,194 posts)
3. Proof That Size Does Matter
Thu Jul 25, 2013, 09:25 AM
Jul 2013

Or maybe it's his political career.

Does anyone think that were his career to go into the toilet, she'd dump him like yesterday's newspaper?

JustAnotherGen

(31,828 posts)
4. Has it occurred to you
Thu Jul 25, 2013, 09:34 AM
Jul 2013

That we are as we see ourselves - and we draw to us our equal.

I don't feel bad for his wife - or question her choices. For women - matters of the heart are never easy choices.

But every day, intelligent, beautiful, accomplished women who don't really know THEMSELVES and their own flaws - get sucked into a relationship with their EQUAL ENERGY.

The first time she forgave him - that was love. Was she the victim of the bad behavior in the relationship? Who knows.

But a second time?

She no longer gets to complain or be upset. She's volunteering.

And for the record - the first time he imploded? Well - to his wife - My friend: What you permit you promote.



So OP - maybe it speaks to the quality of person you are that you draw to yourself women with high expectations. P.S. Holding the door open for your date/girlfriend/wife goes a lot of way towards getting you out of the dog house when you don't put your glass in the dishwasher (clean as you go). At least that's the way it works in my house.

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