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MrScorpio

(73,631 posts)
Sat Aug 24, 2013, 03:08 PM Aug 2013

FINAL SCORE: 1 scared White customer wins a victorious rout over 25 peaceful Black customers

Blacks Asked to Leave Wild Wing Cafe because White Customer Felt Threatened
BY HASSAHN LIGGINS – POSTED ON AUGUST 24, 2013

Once again we are witnessing the true power of social media. You are hearing about this story because one man posted about his experience on Facebook at a Wild Wing Cafe in North Charleston, SC, where his friends and family suffered some “1960?s” style discrimination.

A group of 25 Black people waited two hours to get in a Wild Wing Cafe restaurant in North Charleston, South Carolina, only to be asked to leave almost immediately after entering the restaurant because a white customer felt “threatened” by their presence. One member of the group, MIchael Brown, took his complaint to Facebook when the corporate office of the restaurant did not call him back after placing several calls.

Mr. Brown says he was celebrating his cousin’s last day in Charleston last month at Wild Wing Cafe in North Charleston. He says after his party of 25 peacefully waited two hours for a table, the shift manager told them there was a “situation.”

“She said there’s a situation where one of our customers feels threatened by your party, so she asked us not to seat you in our section, which totally alarmed all of us because we’re sitting there peaceably for two hours,” explains Brown. “Obviously, if we were causing any conflict, we would have been ejected out of the place hours before.”

Brown says while he was talking to the shift manager, someone in his group began videotaping the conversation. Brown says that’s when the manager became upset and refused to seat them.

“I asked her I want to be clear with you,” says Brown. “I said so you’re telling me I have to leave. She said I have a right to deny you service. I said so you’re asking me to leave because you’re upset because he was recording you, after we’ve waited for two hours, and after you’ve already pretty much discriminated on us, and she answered yes.”

- See more at: http://www.radiofacts.com/blacks-asked-leave-south-carolina-restaurant-white-customer-felt-threatened-video/#sthash.cp6Ho5Kk.dpuf
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FINAL SCORE: 1 scared White customer wins a victorious rout over 25 peaceful Black customers (Original Post) MrScorpio Aug 2013 OP
Maybe not the FINAL score. Jackpine Radical Aug 2013 #1
Oh the comments there are fantastic. AllyCat Aug 2013 #44
Bless you, dear. IrishAyes Aug 2013 #69
thanks for the link Liberal_in_LA Aug 2013 #71
Wild Wings Chain? dem in texas Aug 2013 #2
it is a chain d_r Aug 2013 #5
Oh, Okay dem in texas Aug 2013 #7
yeah, that's what I figured d_r Aug 2013 #10
Not to be confused with "Buffalo Wind Wing" which is a different chain. Erose999 Aug 2013 #111
Wild Wings Cafe is definitely NOT Buffalo Wild Wings (or BW3) countryken Aug 2013 #116
Fuck that shit, MrScorpio. Here's their Facebook page, I hope people set them straight. NYC_SKP Aug 2013 #3
DONE! Rex Aug 2013 #6
Meanwhile we are not supposed to be afraid malaise Aug 2013 #35
Because they are "free" and "legal" as I've been told in the Gunbucks threads AllyCat Aug 2013 #45
THEY'RE the ones who scare me most. IrishAyes Aug 2013 #104
Most of the negative comments on this incident on their Yelp page have been filtered SwankyXomb Aug 2013 #47
Thanks. Will do. I'm now FB friends with Mr. Brown and one of his party. NYC_SKP Aug 2013 #48
Good news about the shift manager. Grateful for Hope Aug 2013 #60
The filtering has nothing to do with the negative comments Atman Aug 2013 #101
For the first time in my life I am slightly interested in signing up for Facebook, lol. grantcart Aug 2013 #58
Don't do it. :>)))) pangaia Aug 2013 #79
Every time I consider it . . . Brigid Aug 2013 #85
Well my client base and my friend base would make for an embarassing juxtaposition. grantcart Aug 2013 #98
Ditto! Xyzse Aug 2013 #107
Going there next IrishAyes Aug 2013 #70
Was the manager fired? 840high Aug 2013 #84
It's not confirmed, but a mutual Facebook friend with me and Mr. Brown says yes, they were. NYC_SKP Aug 2013 #87
Well, I feel threatened by all these racists in this country, LisaLynne Aug 2013 #4
As JP points out, this is NOT going to be the final score cali Aug 2013 #8
So glad I don't live in the South. woolldog Aug 2013 #9
What happened in that eating place can happen anywhere if people aren't vigilant. nt bluestate10 Aug 2013 #20
This could happen in the north gollygee Aug 2013 #37
Sad but true....although not in a major population center, I don't think. nt navarth Aug 2013 #66
This restaurant must be really amazing, if loyal customers are willing to wait petronius Aug 2013 #11
Yep. I'll NEVER wait for a table at ANY cafe. Amonester Aug 2013 #92
The two hour wait got me as well Mike Daniels Aug 2013 #103
Do you have an email addy for them? nm rhett o rick Aug 2013 #12
so now we have DWB napkinz Aug 2013 #13
More precisely, it was ADWB Jim Lane Aug 2013 #31
Contact and picture from their site antiquie Aug 2013 #14
I guess the adult has to carry out. Hassin Bin Sober Aug 2013 #21
What a cute kid! TheDebbieDee Aug 2013 #29
That's just a stupid business move Trekologer Aug 2013 #15
Yeah ... 1StrongBlackMan Aug 2013 #32
Don't get me wrong, I'm not advocating for the Rand Paul position Trekologer Aug 2013 #34
Okay ... 1StrongBlackMan Aug 2013 #43
Of of the many examples of why libertarians are stupid gollygee Aug 2013 #38
The free market is so awesome that it Enthusiast Aug 2013 #61
thank goodness for Social Media.. From your link.. Cha Aug 2013 #16
Dead bang perfect response from Mr. Brown. Paladin Aug 2013 #18
Exactly. Cha Aug 2013 #19
I wrote to them on their contact page. CrispyQ Aug 2013 #40
Perhaps you would like to get a bigot bag? The Second Stone Aug 2013 #57
"bigot bag" CrispyQ Aug 2013 #59
"Bigot bag!" Brigid Aug 2013 #88
Well, Michelle Jenneke won the whole The Second Stone Aug 2013 #126
What can I say? Brigid Aug 2013 #129
Thanks for writing them, CrispyQ! Cha Aug 2013 #64
This message was self-deleted by its author meow2u3 Aug 2013 #42
“We had a conversation,” says Stokes. “It was a really good conversation........... pangaia Aug 2013 #81
Mr Brown is using this a teaching lesson.. let's hope Cha Aug 2013 #89
Wow. The chain should fire the shift manager and investigate her boss and regional boss. bluestate10 Aug 2013 #17
I agree...perhaps a corporate wide study of this type of behavior potential also. Deuce Aug 2013 #24
This reminds me of what happened to Denny's years ago steve2470 Aug 2013 #22
I'd love to hear the "threatened" customer's story. Gormy Cuss Aug 2013 #23
And whoever it was GP6971 Aug 2013 #76
it doesn't pass the smell test for me either Skittles Aug 2013 #90
would you really? hfojvt Aug 2013 #97
Yes, really Gormy Cuss Aug 2013 #102
the posting on FB though hfojvt Aug 2013 #114
Tell me you're not posting hearsay and giving it credence? nt brush Aug 2013 #105
I see this morning that I made a mistake hfojvt Aug 2013 #113
Hearsay that one woman reacted badly to having her foot stepped on gollygee Aug 2013 #106
the whole story seems to be based on hearsay hfojvt Aug 2013 #115
Oh those pesky cellphone cameras! and that damn social media! Hekate Aug 2013 #25
That's fucked up gopiscrap Aug 2013 #26
It won't shut down HeiressofBickworth Aug 2013 #27
I've been posting and following comments. Somebody started a rumor about a deaf girl.... NYC_SKP Aug 2013 #28
Statement is better than most corporate standard blah- time will tell--- snooper2 Aug 2013 #109
That most recent statement wasn't made until yesterday, but it's far better than the one before it. NYC_SKP Aug 2013 #112
Awesome PSA posted by a friend at their website. Check it out! NYC_SKP Aug 2013 #30
n/t Dont_Bogart_the_Pretzel Aug 2013 #49
Holy crap! Enthusiast Aug 2013 #62
excellent heaven05 Aug 2013 #82
Yes, commemorating the 50th anniversary of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights NYC_SKP Aug 2013 #86
Post removed Post removed Aug 2013 #33
"Come Armed..."? Are you suggesting that's the solution in this situation? Rose Siding Aug 2013 #39
Yeah, I'm sure that would have improved the situation. gollygee Aug 2013 #41
Wild wings needs its wing clipped over this. alfredo Aug 2013 #36
I don't understand why this is not grounds for a discrimination lawsuit. Crunchy Frog Aug 2013 #46
without going to their site SwampG8r Aug 2013 #54
I doubt that would shield them from a lawsuit woolldog Aug 2013 #55
That's where that sign came from, and it doesn't provide any legal shield Egalitarian Thug Aug 2013 #63
When is the south going to secede so we can get going on that border fence? vkkv Aug 2013 #50
*Groan* Not Texas. Rozlee Aug 2013 #117
Sounds like that scene in Silverado PatrynXX Aug 2013 #51
I don't know how they've managed to stay in business for 23 years notadmblnd Aug 2013 #52
Kinda of what I was thinking too dballance Aug 2013 #56
New name: WHITE Wing Cafe. nt valerief Aug 2013 #53
????? heaven05 Aug 2013 #65
***New Facebook Page: "Boycott Wild Wing Cafe"*** (link and pic) NYC_SKP Aug 2013 #67
+1 lunasun Aug 2013 #118
But... but... but... IrishAyes Aug 2013 #68
+ 10000 JustAnotherGen Aug 2013 #80
Shit Just Got Real. Huffington Post Has the Story This Morning. NYC_SKP Aug 2013 #72
I just read some of the comment's there.... Little Star Aug 2013 #99
Their first mistake was waiting two hours to eat there. Beacool Aug 2013 #73
I'm sorry, but I can't boycott my local Wild Wing Cafe SouthernLiberal Aug 2013 #74
So I wasn't wrong? Beacool Aug 2013 #93
Somebody needs to be fired brush Aug 2013 #75
Thank God the "threatened" yahoo was not Zimmerman with his new assault shotgun. Hoyt Aug 2013 #77
No doubt gollygee Aug 2013 #108
Discrimination, Racism, and Bigotry...alive and well! SoapBox Aug 2013 #78
Message auto-removed Name removed Aug 2013 #131
Never ate there, never will... Lithos Aug 2013 #83
WTF is going on in this country??????? a kennedy Aug 2013 #91
Message auto-removed Name removed Aug 2013 #132
I saw the group photo Cronus Protagonist Aug 2013 #94
Check out the photo OldRedneck Aug 2013 #95
We recently had a situation in Michigan tiredtoo Aug 2013 #96
See how capitalism just makes racism worse? fasttense Aug 2013 #100
Wild Wing Cafe sucks anyway. The last few times I went my wings were undercooked. And I always order Erose999 Aug 2013 #110
Anyone read this employees version of the story??? KinMd Aug 2013 #119
Quite obviously from an "anonymous" company hack Submariner Aug 2013 #120
And you know this how? KinMd Aug 2013 #121
This crap is straight out of the Breitbart/Drudge line of propaganda Submariner Aug 2013 #123
Oh, the "deaf white girl" insult tale from an anonymous source... MrScorpio Aug 2013 #122
. blkmusclmachine Aug 2013 #124
Some folks.... AnneD Aug 2013 #125
The GOP will change the location of their 2016 convention to Wild Wing Cafe in North Charleston, SC Snake Plissken Aug 2013 #127
I hope that even divided 25 ways, their settlement tblue37 Aug 2013 #128
Message auto-removed Name removed Aug 2013 #130

Jackpine Radical

(45,274 posts)
1. Maybe not the FINAL score.
Sat Aug 24, 2013, 03:09 PM
Aug 2013

Thanks to social media.

And the internet.

If anyone would like to call or fax the restaurant to congratulate them on their wonderfully successful PR initiative, this link will provide the relevant numbers:

Have fun, people.

http://www.wildwingcafe.com/our-locations/north-charleston-sc.php

AllyCat

(16,189 posts)
44. Oh the comments there are fantastic.
Sun Aug 25, 2013, 10:57 AM
Aug 2013

Check it out and add your comments folks. The company's "apology" is so weak as to really make things worse. They waited for 3 weeks to respond and then got worried about public pressure so issued this cheap statement they ran through their lawyers first.

Ack.

dem in texas

(2,674 posts)
2. Wild Wings Chain?
Sat Aug 24, 2013, 03:13 PM
Aug 2013

Is this the Wild Wings chain, if so, I will never go in there again. This is outrageous!

d_r

(6,907 posts)
5. it is a chain
Sat Aug 24, 2013, 03:39 PM
Aug 2013

it is called wild wings cafe, mostly in South Carolina with a few in Georgia, TN, NC. It is not Buffalo Wild Wing (BW3 or b-dubs) which is a different chain with over 900 locations.

d_r

(6,907 posts)
10. yeah, that's what I figured
Sat Aug 24, 2013, 04:07 PM
Aug 2013

it is confusing because there is also "Buffalo's Cafe," those are mostly in Georgia. So I always got confused ("wait, which one is that?&quot

countryken

(114 posts)
116. Wild Wings Cafe is definitely NOT Buffalo Wild Wings (or BW3)
Mon Aug 26, 2013, 03:25 PM
Aug 2013

I just want to re-emphasize that. BW3 has been a favorite venue of mine in Jacksonville FL, and I would hope there is no confusion and that they not suffer from any fallout on this issue.

 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
3. Fuck that shit, MrScorpio. Here's their Facebook page, I hope people set them straight.
Sat Aug 24, 2013, 03:14 PM
Aug 2013

The comments are, many of them, sheer bigotry.

https://www.facebook.com/WildWingCafeNorthCharleston

Fuckers.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
6. DONE!
Sat Aug 24, 2013, 03:41 PM
Aug 2013

There are a few of those restaurants around the metro area and I will be sure to avoid them at all costs now.

malaise

(269,056 posts)
35. Meanwhile we are not supposed to be afraid
Sun Aug 25, 2013, 10:07 AM
Aug 2013

on white men in restaurants with their AR15s or AK47s.

IrishAyes

(6,151 posts)
104. THEY'RE the ones who scare me most.
Mon Aug 26, 2013, 10:23 AM
Aug 2013

And I have such a Nordic appearance that in my younger years I've been flirted with by obvious KKK types when I was alone in public. Imagine how scary that is! I couldn't say my boyfriend or husband would intervene because they'd take that as a challenge. So I always said my boyfriend or husband would kill me instead. That convinced them well enough that I wasn't available w/o letting them make it an issue.

 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
48. Thanks. Will do. I'm now FB friends with Mr. Brown and one of his party.
Sun Aug 25, 2013, 11:32 AM
Aug 2013

I'm told that the shift manager was fired but Wild Wings hasn't made a statement about it.

Thanks for the link.

Atman

(31,464 posts)
101. The filtering has nothing to do with the negative comments
Mon Aug 26, 2013, 09:40 AM
Aug 2013

I'm a Yelp Elite member, and I know how this works; the comments are filtered because the poster is new, probably only having signed in to post one negative hit and run, never to be heard from again. BTW, they will filter out positive comments, too, if the poster has no "track record."

For instance, if you are a Yelper with just one post, have no profile info filled out, have no picture, and have never even rated any other restaurant, you can almost gaurantee your review will be filtered. This is to stop family and friends from signing in once just to give Uncle Joe 's Diner five stars and saying "It's the best diner in the world!" It also helps owners who get unfairly maligned by a single hit and run, usually by a competitor across town.

Once Yelp has established the you didn't just sign up for a one-off bashing (or praise), and you start regularly participating, your reviews will stop being filtered. It may only take a couple of reviews or comments. It might be more if you're suspected of being a rabble rouser or a paid shill.

Brigid

(17,621 posts)
85. Every time I consider it . . .
Sun Aug 25, 2013, 08:19 PM
Aug 2013

I read about that punk Zuckerberg making some stupid comment. That cures me instantly.

 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
87. It's not confirmed, but a mutual Facebook friend with me and Mr. Brown says yes, they were.
Sun Aug 25, 2013, 08:23 PM
Aug 2013

Mr. Brown's group is classy, he's a musician and has a church musical group and they aren't looking for much more than an apology and maybe some direction for staff in how to handle situations.

They weren't AFAIK asking for anyone to be fired, and they have been in conversations with the owners, albeit 3 weeks late.

This is a teaching moment.

Tomorrow may bring some news from corporate.

LisaLynne

(14,554 posts)
4. Well, I feel threatened by all these racists in this country,
Sat Aug 24, 2013, 03:24 PM
Aug 2013

so I'm going to have to ask all of them to leave.

 

cali

(114,904 posts)
8. As JP points out, this is NOT going to be the final score
Sat Aug 24, 2013, 03:51 PM
Aug 2013

the racist pig shift manager and the restaurant just fucked themselves. So sad.

petronius

(26,602 posts)
11. This restaurant must be really amazing, if loyal customers are willing to wait
Sat Aug 24, 2013, 04:08 PM
Aug 2013

two hours for a table. But I guess I'll never know, since they won't see a dime of mine even in the unlikely chance that I'm ever near one...

Mike Daniels

(5,842 posts)
103. The two hour wait got me as well
Mon Aug 26, 2013, 10:16 AM
Aug 2013

If I didn't make reservations or if a restaurant doesn't take reservations I think 30 minutes-40 minutes (tops) is the longest I'm willing to wait for a seat.

Life's too short to spend 2 hours waiting to get a seat in a chain restaurant.

 

Jim Lane

(11,175 posts)
31. More precisely, it was ADWB
Sun Aug 25, 2013, 02:21 AM
Aug 2013

As I read the OP, the group of 25 disruptive terrorist hoodlums -- uh, that is to say, some completely peaceful black customers -- waited two hours for a table and then weren't seated.

The vigilant restaurant nipped this attack in the bud, so all that happened was Attempted Dining While Black.

Trekologer

(997 posts)
15. That's just a stupid business move
Sat Aug 24, 2013, 05:15 PM
Aug 2013

They turned away a 25 top because of the complaints of one patron. That's just bad business sense.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
32. Yeah ...
Sun Aug 25, 2013, 08:29 AM
Aug 2013

that is rand paul's argument, too. We don't need the Public Accommodations section of the Civil Rights Act because to discriminate is a bad business move and if they keep making bad business decisions, the market will punish them (or not).

Trekologer

(997 posts)
34. Don't get me wrong, I'm not advocating for the Rand Paul position
Sun Aug 25, 2013, 10:00 AM
Aug 2013

The "invisible hand of the free market" doesn't always punish such bad decisions, not to mention that the victims of such bad decisions, in this case the group of would-be-patrons, are still victims. I think that these victims would rather have been seated and enjoyed their meal instead of the restaurant suffering a possible loss of profit or going out of business over the next 6-12 months.

Cha

(297,323 posts)
16. thank goodness for Social Media.. From your link..
Sat Aug 24, 2013, 05:18 PM
Aug 2013

"Once his post went live and began to circulate around Facebook, he finally got a response from Wild Wings Cafe corporate office. ” We got alerted through social media, so we always encourage our customers to respond to us or to comment on our social media pages,” says Debra Stokes, the chief marketing officer for Wild Wing Cafe.

“We had a conversation,” says Stokes. “It was a really good conversation. He and many of his family and friends were there about a month ago, and they are regular customers of ours. So, they were having a going away party, and they just didn’t receive the experience that they have come to know and love.”

Brown says an apology was offered and a free meal for the entire group, but he says he’s not completely satisfied.

“We weren’t coming there for a free meal. When we came there that night, we were coming to patronize the business. This is not a situation where you can just give us a free meal and everything is ok because it’s deeper than that.”

I think the manager should have said to the "white" customer that.. "sorry, you feel threatened, Sir, but these are our customers and we will be seating them. Perhaps you would like to get a doggie bag?"

thanks MrScorpio

Paladin

(28,264 posts)
18. Dead bang perfect response from Mr. Brown.
Sat Aug 24, 2013, 05:32 PM
Aug 2013

I'm never setting foot in any of those restaurants, ever.

CrispyQ

(36,478 posts)
40. I wrote to them on their contact page.
Sun Aug 25, 2013, 10:48 AM
Aug 2013

I suggested training for their employees on how to deal with racist customers in a non-racist fashion. I love what you posted:


I think the manager should have said to the "white" customer that.. "sorry, you feel threatened, Sir, but these are our customers and we will be seating them. Perhaps you would like to get a doggie bag?"


 

The Second Stone

(2,900 posts)
57. Perhaps you would like to get a bigot bag?
Sun Aug 25, 2013, 01:15 PM
Aug 2013

would be a bit better.

And this isn't about the customer, it is about the restaurant. There was one customer in the restaurant and they determined when the party walked in that they wouldn't seat them and made them wait two hours hoping they would go away. Maybe a jerk customer hogged a table for two hours, but I find that unlikely.

CrispyQ

(36,478 posts)
59. "bigot bag"
Sun Aug 25, 2013, 01:28 PM
Aug 2013


Yes, the manager should be fired, but the employees should be trained. A lot of employees are not comfortable bucking "the customer is always right" mentality of retail. And sadly, it is usually the rude, loud customer that points out how right they are. With a little training, the employees who are on the front line, could be better prepared to deal with situations like this. That's what I would do if I owned a business that deals with the public.

Employee training: an antiquated concept.

Cha

(297,323 posts)
64. Thanks for writing them, CrispyQ!
Sun Aug 25, 2013, 03:21 PM
Aug 2013

I should mail in my little suggestion.. I use to work in the service industry for years. I tried to put myself in her place. She has a lot to learn about not making a hell fire storm out of something that could have been handled with more finesse!

"A Passenger having to travel beside a despicable person"



h/t NYC SKP http://www.democraticunderground.com/10023528941

Response to Cha (Reply #16)

pangaia

(24,324 posts)
81. “We had a conversation,” says Stokes. “It was a really good conversation...........
Sun Aug 25, 2013, 07:56 PM
Aug 2013

“We had a conversation,” says Stokes. “It was a really good conversation........... and they just didn’t receive the experience that they have come to know and love.”

We...ee..eelllll there Ms Stokes...l I guessie not... Who would'a thunk it, now.

Paraphrasing----
'Oh Mr Brown we're happy to give you and your....associates... a free meal...'

Typical crock of s**t corporate-speak, isn't it.


bluestate10

(10,942 posts)
17. Wow. The chain should fire the shift manager and investigate her boss and regional boss.
Sat Aug 24, 2013, 05:27 PM
Aug 2013

The correct action would have been to tell the one customer that he could either accept other customers or leave.

steve2470

(37,457 posts)
22. This reminds me of what happened to Denny's years ago
Sat Aug 24, 2013, 05:45 PM
Aug 2013

There was ample evidence of systemic racism at Denny's, and their corporate had to take action. I'm not sure if Denny's has been "cured" of that racism yet.

This chain needs to take appropriate action at the local level, and post a notice by their front door at every restaurant that they do not discriminate on the basis of race, creed, national origin, religion, etc etc

The local racists can go to the White Hood Cafe to eat for all I care.

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
23. I'd love to hear the "threatened" customer's story.
Sat Aug 24, 2013, 05:53 PM
Aug 2013

What exactly did this person fear, and why didn't the manager move the white person to a different section rather than eject 25 customers?

My theory? There was no customer concern. It was some prejudiced staff.

GP6971

(31,168 posts)
76. And whoever it was
Sun Aug 25, 2013, 07:12 PM
Aug 2013

probably had a big shit eating grin on their face while being heartily back slapped when the party left the premises.

Skittles

(153,169 posts)
90. it doesn't pass the smell test for me either
Sun Aug 25, 2013, 09:52 PM
Aug 2013

it makes no sense unless the staff simply did not want to accommodate those folk

hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
97. would you really?
Mon Aug 26, 2013, 01:49 AM
Aug 2013

because this is what I quickly found on FB

Here is what I think I know and don't know based on my extensive research:

"1. 25 African Americans were asked to leave Wild Wing N Charleston after an altercation between some of their group and some/a white customer(s).
2. The altercation started when, in a crowded restaurant (I have confirmed this with friends who were eating there that night) with a large number of people waiting to be seated a white woman stepped on the foot of a black woman (a part of the group of 25). The black woman reacted in some fashion (word in the restaurant, again from my friends who were dining there but did not see anything, was that the reaction was verbal abuse followed by either a threat of or actual physical "action&quot . What I do not know is the intentionality or reaction of the white woman or what the black woman said or did...the above info is simply heresay."

I don't know if I can link to it, since I am logged in there.

I have no way to know if that is true or not, but that seems like a pretty good reason to feel threatened to me.

But I doubt if the white customer will be making a statement. She probably feels threatened by all the people calling her a racist piece of excrement.

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
102. Yes, really
Mon Aug 26, 2013, 09:56 AM
Aug 2013

Not from some random posting on FB, from the 'threatened" white person. Some other anonymous person said that one of the waiting party touched a deaf kid. Another anonymous person claimed that one of the waiting party stepped on a white woman's foot.

None of those stories add up to why the manager told them ALL to leave.

hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
114. the posting on FB though
Mon Aug 26, 2013, 11:36 AM
Aug 2013

is not anonymous, although I don't know that person from Adama.

The question is, are there legitimate reasons for a white person to feel threatened by a black person, or is it always racism?

If there are legitimate reasons, then how does anyone know that was not the case in this incident?

As for telling them all to leave, again, this FB post made it sound like they were told they were gonna be seated in another section and some of them became belligerent about THAT, and then they were all told to leave.

Again, though, I am not saying that I know, but I am saying it is possible. But other possible explanations do not seem to be slowing down a rush to judgement.

brush

(53,791 posts)
105. Tell me you're not posting hearsay and giving it credence? nt
Mon Aug 26, 2013, 10:28 AM
Aug 2013

Your words: Here is what I think I know and don't know based on my extensive research"

And also this: "I have no way to know if that is true or not, but that seems like a pretty good reason to feel threatened to me."


Puhleeeze!

hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
113. I see this morning that I made a mistake
Mon Aug 26, 2013, 11:23 AM
Aug 2013

these words "Here is what I think I know and don't know based on my extensive research"


were not mine, they should have been part of the quote.

But it seems to me that the OP is hearsay from one side, and everybody is giving THAT credence.

I have no way of really knowing what happened, so I am not prepared to light a torch or hurl invective.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
106. Hearsay that one woman reacted badly to having her foot stepped on
Mon Aug 26, 2013, 10:31 AM
Aug 2013

And that iffy bit of unsubstantiated "news" is enough for it to make sense to you that a whole group of 25 people got ejected?

hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
115. the whole story seems to be based on hearsay
Mon Aug 26, 2013, 11:49 AM
Aug 2013

should I just go charging in screaming "racism!!!" without waiting to hear details, or other sides? What has been substantiated? I did not watch the video since that, for me, required some kind of download that I was unwilling to make.

But yes it makes more sense to me for somebody to feel threatened by actual threats than it does for them to be threatened by blackness, especially in a city like Raleigh which probably has a fair number of black people.

HeiressofBickworth

(2,682 posts)
27. It won't shut down
Sat Aug 24, 2013, 06:32 PM
Aug 2013

Every white bigot in the area will be all too pleased to patronize the place, feeling assured that they don't have to eat next to "those" people. The owners are probably in the basement brushing the cobwebs off their "Whites Only" signs. All discussion of discrimination aside, what a stupid business move -- to forgo revenue from a party of 25 because one customer objected to them being seated and served. And the servers are out whatever tips that party of 25 would have left. Stupid all the way around.

 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
28. I've been posting and following comments. Somebody started a rumor about a deaf girl....
Sat Aug 24, 2013, 06:54 PM
Aug 2013

...that one of Mr. Brown's party made fun of a deaf girl and/or stepped on her foot.

Thankfully, the accusations have been removed from the feed but the page owners are mute about this, apologizing only for having delayed in getting back to Mr. Brown.

There has been no statement from the franchise owner or from corporate about measures taken to prevent this from happening again or anything like that.

It really sucks.

 

snooper2

(30,151 posts)
109. Statement is better than most corporate standard blah- time will tell---
Mon Aug 26, 2013, 10:42 AM
Aug 2013

The majority owners of Wild Wing Cafe (WWC) and the WWC senior management team want to say that we are incredibly saddened and regretful about all that has happened in this unfortunate situation.

We are appalled that a customer service issue of any kind would be left unaddressed for three weeks. As soon as the owners and the senior management team were made aware of the situation on the afternoon of Thursday, August 22, we responded swiftly.

We are truly disappointed and sorry that any guests of ours felt disrespected or discriminated against. Our ownership group, home office staff and restaurant staff represent the diversity that our great country is made up of and these accusations do not reflect our values. We can assure you that we will not tolerate any discriminatory behavior in our organization.

We are conducting a thorough investigation and are taking the appropriate action. In the meantime, we are in regular and productive conversation with the individuals and we hope to keep all involved fans and friends of WWC. We realize these are topics that engender emotional reactions. We truly believe that actions speak louder than words and we hope all are open to let ours speak for us as we move through this situation. We are committed to not repeat the mistakes that have been made and to make sure anybody who walks in the doors of WWC is treated with love, respect and care.

Thank you for your understanding.

 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
112. That most recent statement wasn't made until yesterday, but it's far better than the one before it.
Mon Aug 26, 2013, 11:00 AM
Aug 2013
Update: With regard to the ongoing discussion about a customer complaint, we at Wild Wing Cafe are completely aware of the fact that we dropped the ball in communicating swiftly to a loyal customer. We take full responsibility for our lapse in response time, had the opportunity to call back and have no excuses for not doing so in 3 weeks.

However, we have never tolerated racism from our employees and won't tolerate it on our Page either. Our biggest concern has always been our customers and our staff. We have always insisted on hearing all sides to an issue and treating people with respect... and this time is no different.


Apologizing for the response time and not the act itself, pretty weak and it brought on this shitstorm.
 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
86. Yes, commemorating the 50th anniversary of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights
Sun Aug 25, 2013, 08:19 PM
Aug 2013

Here are some other good ones:

http://lybio.net/despicable-ad-against-racism-2000/commercials/

Better video from the producer's page:

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gollygee

(22,336 posts)
41. Yeah, I'm sure that would have improved the situation.
Sun Aug 25, 2013, 10:49 AM
Aug 2013

Do they have a Stand Your Ground law? Apparently, you just have to be scared to shoot someone and have it be legal. That idiot could have shot the whole group, and sadly I'm not sure he would have been convicted.

SwampG8r

(10,287 posts)
54. without going to their site
Sun Aug 25, 2013, 12:34 PM
Aug 2013

I would say they likely have liquor permits and are allowed to "reserve the right to refuse service to any person at any time"
I am not issuing a defense
I am just stating one reason that could apply
I have been in food for 35 years and this is a common and legal practice

 

woolldog

(8,791 posts)
55. I doubt that would shield them from a lawsuit
Sun Aug 25, 2013, 12:48 PM
Aug 2013

based on racial discrimination.

They can refuse service to anyone, but they can't do so based on race. If they could then Jim Crowe would be a ok.

 

Egalitarian Thug

(12,448 posts)
63. That's where that sign came from, and it doesn't provide any legal shield
Sun Aug 25, 2013, 02:13 PM
Aug 2013

against a lawsuit in most jurisdictions. It's like those liability waivers you have to sign to do anything, they don't shield the business from injuries caused by negligence, for instance.

OTOH, it is regularly used to keep the homeless out of restaurants and those cases are creating a body of precedence.

 

vkkv

(3,384 posts)
50. When is the south going to secede so we can get going on that border fence?
Sun Aug 25, 2013, 12:06 PM
Aug 2013

And take TX, MO, KS and OK with them??

Rozlee

(2,529 posts)
117. *Groan* Not Texas.
Mon Aug 26, 2013, 04:32 PM
Aug 2013

In a poll, 73% of Texans said they didn't want to secede. I've proposed in this site before that the 27% of douchenozzles that do want to form their own state should be relocated to a part of Texas that is sparsely populated. Texas is a big state. Big enough to accommodate them. It'll have to be a part of the state with lousy infrastructure and services, terrible roads and highways, poor access to power and exchanges. After all, they don't need anything supported by that nasty federal government. They can leave their American dollars at home and mint their own coins with Jesus stamped on them. And leave Medicare behind. They can call themselves New Jerusalem, just don't call us.

PatrynXX

(5,668 posts)
51. Sounds like that scene in Silverado
Sun Aug 25, 2013, 12:10 PM
Aug 2013

it was of course only Danny Glover but Carter decided he doesn't serve ******'s and John Cleese responds I don't like that word very much Carter.



(do'h) fast forward 200 yrs viola.. yeah it was only a movie

seriously though who in Hollywood has thought it a great idea to keep Any Day Now from being on DVD or google play. Come on!!! Only show I've seen (Mom loves it) that treats race relations up front and laid bare. Should be offered free...

notadmblnd

(23,720 posts)
52. I don't know how they've managed to stay in business for 23 years
Sun Aug 25, 2013, 12:18 PM
Aug 2013

Turning down 25 customers @ minimum 20 buck a head + tip for a $20.00 tab and a 5 dollar tip.

They're not just bigots, they're incredibly stupid bigots.

 

dballance

(5,756 posts)
56. Kinda of what I was thinking too
Sun Aug 25, 2013, 12:51 PM
Aug 2013

You have one customer complaining about a group of 20 customers who had waited quietly for a table for some time. If I were the manager I would have politely told the one customer that I didn't see any threat from the group since they'd been there waiting for 2 hours with no aggressiveness. Then, maybe, I would have offered to pack up that one customer's food to go and offered them a discount on a later meal to get rid of them.

Me thinks the manager was no better than the asshole customer. Just saying.

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
65. ?????
Sun Aug 25, 2013, 04:06 PM
Aug 2013

happening more and more every day. Wait till election time in the good ole south and north and west and east and texas.

 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
67. ***New Facebook Page: "Boycott Wild Wing Cafe"*** (link and pic)
Sun Aug 25, 2013, 04:17 PM
Aug 2013

Good job, people!

https://www.facebook.com/pages/Boycott-Wild-Wing-Cafe/473118876118140

Wild Wing Cafe has been updating their page to include more pictures of black customers, it's pathetic, but haven't expressed much remorse.

The Boycott page photoshopped one of WWC's page's pics, pretty funny:

IrishAyes

(6,151 posts)
68. But... but... but...
Sun Aug 25, 2013, 04:30 PM
Aug 2013

But didn't the USSC recently assure us that this sort of thing doesn't happen anymore and the voting rights act belongs to another era? That Jim Crow flies no more?

(gasp) Are you saying they lied to us?

Little Star

(17,055 posts)
99. I just read some of the comment's there....
Mon Aug 26, 2013, 08:16 AM
Aug 2013

Some people are such ignorant bigots! Jesus, this pisses me off. How can this kind of thinking still go on in this country? It's sick!

USA, USA, my ass!!

Beacool

(30,250 posts)
73. Their first mistake was waiting two hours to eat there.
Sun Aug 25, 2013, 05:49 PM
Aug 2013

I never heard of the place, so I looked it up. Looks like the standard mediocre food typical of chain restaurants.

The manager's version of the story sounds weird. Is there any corroboration that a customer complained? Maybe they just didn't want to serve them and made up the story. Although I can't think of a reason why a restaurant would want to turn away 25 paying customers.

The corporate offices should have suspended the shift manager and sent her to sensitivity training.

Either way, screw them!!!!

SouthernLiberal

(407 posts)
74. I'm sorry, but I can't boycott my local Wild Wing Cafe
Sun Aug 25, 2013, 06:33 PM
Aug 2013

Because the food was so bad the only time I went there, that I had already decided never to eat there again.

Beacool

(30,250 posts)
93. So I wasn't wrong?
Sun Aug 25, 2013, 10:48 PM
Aug 2013

I figured it would be like most chains: too much fat, grease and salt. I rather go to a smaller family own restaurant.



brush

(53,791 posts)
75. Somebody needs to be fired
Sun Aug 25, 2013, 06:39 PM
Aug 2013

If I was the owner I'd fire any manager that was stupid enough to turn away 25 customers because 1 customer said she felt threatened.

A business is in business to make money. It's simple math: 25 customers are going to spend a lot more money than 1 customer. That manager could not work for me anymore after that stupidity.

And speaking of stupidity, that's really what racism is.

SoapBox

(18,791 posts)
78. Discrimination, Racism, and Bigotry...alive and well!
Sun Aug 25, 2013, 07:31 PM
Aug 2013

OH...and STOOPID too.

...all I can do is shake my head in disgust.

Response to SoapBox (Reply #78)

a kennedy

(29,673 posts)
91. WTF is going on in this country???????
Sun Aug 25, 2013, 09:57 PM
Aug 2013

D*mn, D*mn, D*mn, D*mn, D*mn. That's 25 crying emotions. I'm just sick about this. Just sick.

Response to a kennedy (Reply #91)

 

OldRedneck

(1,397 posts)
95. Check out the photo
Sun Aug 25, 2013, 11:27 PM
Aug 2013

There's a photo on several websites showing the group of 25 folks.

NOT ONE of them is wearing a hoodie or carrying iced tea or Skittles. How threatening could they be?

tiredtoo

(2,949 posts)
96. We recently had a situation in Michigan
Sun Aug 25, 2013, 11:54 PM
Aug 2013

Now I paraphrase this as exact details were never made public but this is about how it went from what I could glean from the news reports. Anyone that has more specific details is welcome to share them.

Where some minority nurses were taken off their regular work stations because a bigot complained. The nurses complained/filed a suit or something and were consequently bought off.
"The case was settled out of court"

 

fasttense

(17,301 posts)
100. See how capitalism just makes racism worse?
Mon Aug 26, 2013, 08:56 AM
Aug 2013

According to the lovers of capitalism, no good businessman would turn away 25 paying customers for one white racist. Yet that is exactly what has happened.

Erose999

(5,624 posts)
110. Wild Wing Cafe sucks anyway. The last few times I went my wings were undercooked. And I always order
Mon Aug 26, 2013, 10:53 AM
Aug 2013

their spiciest wings on the menu, and one time the server didn't refill my drink for like half the meal.

And there was one time my friend found a napkin rolled up in his wrap. WTF? How does that even happen? He'd eaten half of it before he found it too.

The last straw was when we came on SUPER BOWL SUNDAY and the place was empty. They had ONE server working and we waited for like an hour between when we ordered and when we got our food. Any wings joint/sports bar should be fully staffed and have customers lined up out the door during the Super Bowl, you know?

This particular location closed not too long after that. Good riddance.

Submariner

(12,504 posts)
120. Quite obviously from an "anonymous" company hack
Tue Aug 27, 2013, 02:21 AM
Aug 2013

desperately shoveling sh*t to minimize the damage to their sh*tty wings outfit.

KinMd

(966 posts)
121. And you know this how?
Tue Aug 27, 2013, 02:45 AM
Aug 2013

I mean it does mess up the story of the poor victims who didn't get their wings.

Submariner

(12,504 posts)
123. This crap is straight out of the Breitbart/Drudge line of propaganda
Tue Aug 27, 2013, 03:15 AM
Aug 2013

Anonymous my ass...

They made this a racial issue before anything. One of the guests also insulted a deaf white girl because she didn’t respond to one of them telling her to move (she was deaf and didn’t hear them) They were also all standing in the middle of the walk way, making it difficult for customers to leave. We asked them if they could move over, but they said they can stand wherever they want, and if we wanted them out of the way then we should seat them. The customer that was offended was offended by a particular individual’s constant uses of the word “n*gger” When asked to stop, he threw out a long string of racial epithets against one of my co-workers.

What a crock of crapola. But at least shitty wings got back to them after THREE WEEKS!

Snake Plissken

(4,103 posts)
127. The GOP will change the location of their 2016 convention to Wild Wing Cafe in North Charleston, SC
Tue Aug 27, 2013, 09:06 AM
Aug 2013

In support of this incident.

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