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RadiationTherapy

(5,818 posts)
Fri Sep 6, 2013, 12:41 PM Sep 2013

On the ‘Every Child Wins’ Hoax and the Irrational Concern for the Young.

Recently, there was a story produced in Canada which accused a youth soccer league in Ontario of playing with an "imaginary ball." No scores were kept and no ball was used so that ‘every child wins’. Obviously this was satire, but when I saw how many people were talking and seemingly smiling knowingly about this on Facebook, I knew the story was tapping in to something deeper.

The story enjoyed lightning-quick sharing across the web - perhaps in part due to it being opening night of the NFL season – but more likely due to what I observe to be the proclivity of those in older generations to accept any insinuation that degrades young people as "lazy" "entitled" "expecting everything to be handed to them" and similar nonsense. It is nonsense to me because I personally have worked with hundreds of young people from ages 17 to 30 during my dozen years at a public university and they were - every one of them - individuals who are beyond such generic labels. Of course, that is just anecdotal evidence on my part, but how can one define – let alone study – the social factors and consequences of so subjective a term as “entitled?”

The entire cycle has been interesting to me as a media scholar in that it demonstrates the concept that we all tend to find/believe/share media stories that align with our preconceptions. I think this one took off because the 'wussification of our kids' - an illusion in my opinion - is something many older generations already believe. The same story and phenomenon may also speaks to some Americans’ opinions of Canadians.

http://www.cbc.ca/thisisthat/blog/2013/09/03/to-ensure-every-child-wins-ontario-athletic-association-removes-ball-from-soccer/

http://www.sportsgrid.com/soccer/entire-nation-of-canada-gloriously-punkd-by-networks-story-on-youth-soccer-no-ball-league/

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On the ‘Every Child Wins’ Hoax and the Irrational Concern for the Young. (Original Post) RadiationTherapy Sep 2013 OP
Let me suggest that media holds some responsibility for creating a notion of what constitutes Skidmore Sep 2013 #1
I agree with every point you make here. My personal issue is that there is no good RadiationTherapy Sep 2013 #2

Skidmore

(37,364 posts)
1. Let me suggest that media holds some responsibility for creating a notion of what constitutes
Fri Sep 6, 2013, 12:57 PM
Sep 2013

an expectation for lifestyle for everyone. Those necessities and amenities to which people have come to expect as part of the "American dream" have become more pricey and the notion that one needs to have them is hammered into the public by endless advertisements and "branding" that has become a science with a whole industry built around it. Also, in the entertainment media made available to people, you will find true representations of people in poverty or on the margins only in documentaries or some dystopian vision of the future or negative storylines constructed to make those without look bad. Otherwise, in sitcoms and dramas, the worlds they present are peopled by very ordinary folks living in posh penthouses and sprawling Victorian homes, who drive upscale cars, and dress in designer clothing. Very rarely to we see a portrayal of someone who is dealing with the world of work and experience grounded in reality.

Thus an expectation is set that we all are entitled to a certain style of life. I think this is what many people respond to in the younger generation. I went through a period with my son when he was in his early teens in which he informed me that he believed that it was a parents job to make certain that a child had all the things that made him "cool." I let him know that, on our income, my job was to make certain that we had the basics and coolness was not something he was entitled to. It was something he could earn or could be gifted to him at Christmas time or on his birthday.

RadiationTherapy

(5,818 posts)
2. I agree with every point you make here. My personal issue is that there is no good
Fri Sep 6, 2013, 02:09 PM
Sep 2013

social definition of "entitled." The word, as I see it being used in this intergenerational conversation, means whatever the user wants it to. That kid has a car? Entitlement! That kid complains about getting paid $7.25 an hour in this economy? Entitlement! Etc. What it really means is what it has meant for millenia, "Deez young kids deez days! They're just so...so....not GOOD enough!" hahahaha

(The word is also used extensively - and similarly meaninglessly - in the inter-class conversation)

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