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William769

(55,147 posts)
Mon Sep 16, 2013, 06:32 PM Sep 2013

Gay Veterans Marry at Calif. Senior Home



Two gay veterans found their fairy-tale ending in each other last Thursday, when the senior couple married at their retirement home in Chula Vista, Calif.

John Banvard, 95, is a World War II veteran, and his new husband, Gerard Nadeau, 67, served in Vietnam. They have been together for more than 20 years, according to San Diego's Fox affiliate, both living at Veterans Home of Chula Vista for the past three years.

The newlyweds told the station they'd been waiting to tie the knot until they could get legally married. With the Supreme Court's landmark rulings in June, striking down a key section of the so-called Defense of Marriage Act and effectively repealing California's ban on marriage equality known as Proposition 8, the couple wanted to make their commitment public before an intimate group of friends and family at the place they call home.

The facility director at the Department of Veterans Affairs–associated retirement home said some fellow vets and residents were upset by the couple's plan to marry. "It's been somewhat controversial," Neal Asper told the TV station, noting that the home held a town hall to discuss the upcoming wedding. "I told them, they have the right to get married here just like everybody else."

http://www.advocate.com/politics/marriage-equality/2013/09/16/watch-gay-veterans-marry-calif-senior-home

Just goes to show, you can't stop love. Stories like this help me get through the day.
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Gay Veterans Marry at Calif. Senior Home (Original Post) William769 Sep 2013 OP
Excellent gopiscrap Sep 2013 #1
Happiness is a good thing! k&r Little Star Sep 2013 #2
This story gives me hope. William769 Sep 2013 #3
Equality... A real American value Ohio Joe Sep 2013 #4
Why the fuck is this post worthy? Glassunion Sep 2013 #5
WooHoo! Le Taz Hot Sep 2013 #6
Agreed. William769 Sep 2013 #7
95???? Well, then there's hope for me! joeybee12 Sep 2013 #8
Makes me fell like a spring chicken. William769 Sep 2013 #14
Is that times 7...like dogs and cats? joeybee12 Sep 2013 #16
Mahalo William.. No you can't stop love.. Cha Sep 2013 #9
John is a cradle robber! Going after a 67-year-old youngun like that! Arugula Latte Sep 2013 #10
You got me again!! Sissyk Sep 2013 #12
I know what thread your talking about. William769 Sep 2013 #13
Big, big congrats to John and Gerard!! Sissyk Sep 2013 #11
I love it! Thanks for posting this! LiberalLoner Sep 2013 #15
Good for them, wishing them much further happiness, nt AnotherDreamWeaver Sep 2013 #17
Much happiness to both John and Gerard~ sheshe2 Sep 2013 #18
Sweet! Vanje Sep 2013 #19
Awww...So sweet! ChaoticTrilby Sep 2013 #20
Cute ! Sand Wind Sep 2013 #21

Glassunion

(10,201 posts)
5. Why the fuck is this post worthy?
Mon Sep 16, 2013, 06:42 PM
Sep 2013

This should be so commonplace as a trip through the drive through.
This should not be such an anomaly as to be considered news worthy.

This should simply be an event, beautiful for those involved, but such a non-story that never makes it beyond the announcement page in the paper.

It's 2013... This type of event should be common place today. Why have we let the Neanderthals hold this down for so long?

Man... I hate republicans.

Sissyk

(12,665 posts)
11. Big, big congrats to John and Gerard!!
Mon Sep 16, 2013, 06:54 PM
Sep 2013

This is a touching, wonderful story. A WWII Vet and a Viet Vet. I am so happy for them, William!

This is a very bright spot in a bad day. Thanks for posting!

Vanje

(9,766 posts)
19. Sweet!
Mon Sep 16, 2013, 09:22 PM
Sep 2013

Though sad that some people at the Veterans retirement home voiced disapproval.
This marriage should NOT be controversial

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