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babylonsister

(171,079 posts)
Sat Sep 21, 2013, 12:25 PM Sep 2013

On Behalf of the Kids Whose Families Depend on Food Stamps

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/phaedra-ellislamkins/on-behalf-of-the-kids-who_b_3962344.html


Phaedra Ellis-Lamkins
CEO, Green for All

On Behalf of the Kids Whose Families Depend on Food Stamps
Posted: 09/20/2013 11:43 am



The first time I knew that being poor made me different than everyone else was when my mom sent me into the grocery store to get food with food stamps. We had just picked up our free cheese at the food bank. I was running into the store to get pickles for the cheese and pickle sandwiches that I took to school everyday. A woman behind me smirked and made a comment about food stamps being used for snacks. She had a cart full of groceries and she was judging our family based on the jar of pickles and food stamps. I did not understand what I had done wrong. I knew I was supposed to be ashamed and I was.

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There should be no shame. Now, I feel pride that my family needed help because we are the American story. Our story is about struggle and perseverance. The people I admire fought to succeed and needed help along the way.

Yesterday's vote by the House of Representatives to pass the Nutrition Reform and Work Opportunity Act of 2013 (H.R. 3102), which cuts the Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program (SNAP) by nearly $40 billion, is an attack on the best of our values. More than an attack on our shared values, it is an attempt to publicly shame those among us who need help. The same people who voted to cut food stamps for families who must survive on an average of $115 per month voted to give the most profitable oil companies hundreds of millions of dollars in tax breaks.

We cannot allow our country to turn away from our neighbors when they need help. It is those neighbors who we will turn to when we need help.


The policy implications for cutting food stamps are so enormous that everyone should be engaged in the debating the details -- including food-stamp recipients and other taxpayers, policy makers, faith leaders, civil and human rights advocates and others.

I know how hard it is to ask for help. I know how bad it feels. And I know that most families -- like mine -- use that help to make it out of tough situations and go on to do great things for others.

On behalf of those of us who need the help that food stamps provide, I am calling out the best in our leaders and all people of conscience. We cannot be a country that shames our neighbors and closes our ears to their calls for help.
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On Behalf of the Kids Whose Families Depend on Food Stamps (Original Post) babylonsister Sep 2013 OP
We are apparently a nation of socipaths Demo_Chris Sep 2013 #1
sociopaths kardonb Sep 2013 #6
Yes,,,,,,YEs!!!!!! Cryptoad Sep 2013 #10
Without doubt etherealtruth Sep 2013 #22
No, the people who own the govt officials who can get men with guns to valerief Sep 2013 #15
Buying snacks with food stamps is the reason for scorn ErikJ Sep 2013 #2
It is the reason people think they can stand in line and CRITICIZE VOCALLY AllyCat Sep 2013 #3
+ hundreds of thousands. shraby Sep 2013 #4
Very idealistic. Cons will judge no matter what you say ErikJ Sep 2013 #14
Who the fuck cares what the cons think.... awoke_in_2003 Sep 2013 #24
Cons are voters that can take away food stamps completely ErikJ Sep 2013 #27
you put it much nicer than I. nt awoke_in_2003 Sep 2013 #25
It is not our place to judge. You are right. But nevertheless a pickle and cheese sandwich totodeinhere Sep 2013 #8
Allow healthy hot foods and get rid of the junk-food food stamps. ErikJ Sep 2013 #11
I take exception to your pontificating strategery blunder Sep 2013 #21
Ice tea is much more effective body coolant. ErikJ Sep 2013 #23
People should be able to buy whatever they want with food stamps as long as it is covered by totodeinhere Sep 2013 #5
That wouldn't work. LuvNewcastle Sep 2013 #7
Taxing so-called junk food has been tried and it's probably not such as bad idea totodeinhere Sep 2013 #9
Agribusiness and crooked farmers won't pass the savings onto consumers meow2u3 Sep 2013 #13
I could certainly go along with giving subsidies to small farmers. LuvNewcastle Sep 2013 #19
Some farmers markets accept food stamps... Blanks Sep 2013 #29
I tell you the shame is in Cryptoad Sep 2013 #12
What task would that be? And what about the gazillions of parents babylonsister Sep 2013 #16
So you are saying Cryptoad Sep 2013 #17
Don't put words in my mouth. babylonsister Sep 2013 #18
Then what "argument sounds too rightwing" for you? Cryptoad Sep 2013 #20
K&R! sheshe2 Sep 2013 #26
Those are my students. LWolf Sep 2013 #28
K & R Scurrilous Sep 2013 #30

etherealtruth

(22,165 posts)
22. Without doubt
Sat Sep 21, 2013, 06:52 PM
Sep 2013

Them and their nut job constituents (not all the residents of their districts, just the ones that elected knuckle dragging inbred teabaggers to do exactly this)

valerief

(53,235 posts)
15. No, the people who own the govt officials who can get men with guns to
Sat Sep 21, 2013, 02:34 PM
Sep 2013

"control" us are the sociopaths.

 

ErikJ

(6,335 posts)
2. Buying snacks with food stamps is the reason for scorn
Sat Sep 21, 2013, 01:43 PM
Sep 2013

I've seen it myself. Carts full of snacks at well stocked grocery stores being bought with food stamps. And I have had lots of Cons tell me this is their main problem with food stamps. It would remove lots of the stigma if junk foods were not allowed to be bought with food stamps.

AllyCat

(16,211 posts)
3. It is the reason people think they can stand in line and CRITICIZE VOCALLY
Sat Sep 21, 2013, 01:53 PM
Sep 2013

the people buying them. It is not the cause of the stigma. Have you looked at what's IN THE STORES? It's all crap! Garbage food. And the cheapest stuff usually. We make healthy food expensive and it's difficult to get fresh foods at lots of food pantries. So the good stuff costs a blessed fortune. And who are we to say what is junk food and what is not? If putting pickles on the dang sandwich gets the kid to eat it, how is that "junk food"? How about the kid should get to have something special once in awhile since the family probably doesn't get to have much other special stuff. Pickles are a small price to pay for the kid to have a little treat once in awhile.

Who the HECK ARE WE to judge what other people buy?

What is "junk food"? When Clinton got that junk food tax passed, they had to base it on how the packaging was done. So a granola or protein bar is "junk food" just like a Butterfinger.

No, people should not be able to buy alcohol, soda, and cigarettes with food stamps.

But maybe we all need to mind our own business and quit worrying about what everyone else has or doesn't have.

shraby

(21,946 posts)
4. + hundreds of thousands.
Sat Sep 21, 2013, 02:01 PM
Sep 2013

More people should pay attention to what is in THEIR cart and not what is in the cart ahead or behind them. Maybe, just maybe the person paying for ice cream or some treat with food stamps is buying a treat for a very sick kid. Until they walk a month in the other persons shoes, they should keep their mouths SHUT.
What the person buys with food stamps is their business and no one else's. I know and others know that it's not enough funds to buy really healthy and nutritious food for a family for a whole month anyway.

 

ErikJ

(6,335 posts)
14. Very idealistic. Cons will judge no matter what you say
Sat Sep 21, 2013, 02:28 PM
Sep 2013

and they will vote to get rid of food stamps entirely by what they see.

 

awoke_in_2003

(34,582 posts)
24. Who the fuck cares what the cons think....
Sat Sep 21, 2013, 08:03 PM
Sep 2013

and I agree with the other poster that you need to keep your eyeballs in your fucking cart.

 

ErikJ

(6,335 posts)
27. Cons are voters that can take away food stamps completely
Sat Sep 21, 2013, 08:56 PM
Sep 2013

so any perceived abuse of the system gives them that much more clout and power.

totodeinhere

(13,058 posts)
8. It is not our place to judge. You are right. But nevertheless a pickle and cheese sandwich
Sat Sep 21, 2013, 02:10 PM
Sep 2013

is not so bad anyway. Yes pickles tend to be high in sodium but they are a good source of fiber and cheese is a good source of protein. Put that together with some enriched bread and it's quite acceptable IMO.

 

ErikJ

(6,335 posts)
11. Allow healthy hot foods and get rid of the junk-food food stamps.
Sat Sep 21, 2013, 02:22 PM
Sep 2013

Its ridiculous you cant buy hot foods in grocery stores like roasted chicken with food stamps but they allow candy bars and ice cream and chips. Junk foods in my mind are as unhealthy as cigs and alcohol. I buy canned soups and beans and chicken and bran cereal, Greek yogurt and turkey, sausages, frozen veggies, rice, fruits, almond milk, milk and lots of nuts etc, NO junk food.

Junk foods are very high in sugar, salt and/or fat, usually all 3. But I dont think pickles qualify as junk food.

If they could set a limit on salt, sugar and fat in processed foods as available for food stamps then I think they would all rapidly try to comply to try to avoid the junk food label. This might greatly cut obesity in the US and help out our health care system overload. The other thing they could do is a junk food tax so that it would reduce their purchases with food stamps and this revenue could be earmarked for the Obamacare program.

strategery blunder

(4,225 posts)
21. I take exception to your pontificating
Sat Sep 21, 2013, 06:47 PM
Sep 2013

Ice cream, very specifically, SHOULD be allowed. And not just for the standard "poor people need a treat every once in a while/junk food is probably the only luxury they'll ever enjoy" line of reasoning, though I subscribe to that too.

Many people on food stamps do not have/can't afford air conditioning. How would you propose said people cool off on hot and humid summer days when the fan breaks down? Especially in rural areas without air-conditioned community centers?

I'd much rather people buy ice cream on food stamps than collapse and be taken to the hospital for heat exhaustion, because their options for cooling themselves were limited to begin with and got further restricted by moralist finger-wagging over "wasting MY tax dollars."

 

ErikJ

(6,335 posts)
23. Ice tea is much more effective body coolant.
Sat Sep 21, 2013, 07:42 PM
Sep 2013

Or ice water kept in the refrigerator. You can drink ice cold water and tea all day long and it will be more effective than a single ice cream.

totodeinhere

(13,058 posts)
5. People should be able to buy whatever they want with food stamps as long as it is covered by
Sat Sep 21, 2013, 02:02 PM
Sep 2013

the program. What they choose to buy is nobody's business but their own. But having said that, if it's done in the right context there is nothing wrong with offering counseling on making sound nutritional food choices. But the place to do that is in an appropriate non judgmental setting, not in line at the supermarket checkout.

And of course the problem with trying to buy healthy food with food stamps is that more healthy food is usually more expensive food. And if you are a single mother feeding some hungry children you have to try to make your food stamp allowance go as far as possible and sometimes that necessitates making compromises with good nutritional choices.

LuvNewcastle

(16,847 posts)
7. That wouldn't work.
Sat Sep 21, 2013, 02:09 PM
Sep 2013

Diabetics often keep a little candy around the house to eat when their sugar gets low. Should they not be able to buy it with their SNAP card? Should moms be able to use their card to buy those little bags of potato chips to put in their kid's school lunch?

I know you're just trying to think of a way to keep people from criticizing the program, and I sympathize because a lot of people aren't eating enough nutricious food, but I just don't think it would work to ban certain foods.

I think that the thing to do would be for the government to give big subsidies to vegetable and fruit growers in order to bring down prices. People aren't buying the nutricious foods because they're so expensive and junk food is so cheap. It wouldn't hurt to also give certain foods away to people that qualify at distribution centers, like they used to do with the cheese. Bringing down the prices of the healthy foods and putting a tax on the junk would go a long way toward achieving the goal without banning certain foods to be bought with the cards.

totodeinhere

(13,058 posts)
9. Taxing so-called junk food has been tried and it's probably not such as bad idea
Sat Sep 21, 2013, 02:15 PM
Sep 2013

however there is always a battle over what what constitutes junk food and what does not. Plus I think we need to be wary of a regressive tax like that because it will hit the poor the hardest. Yes we should try to limit certain food commonly known as junk food but poor people should have as much right as anyone else to treat themselves occasionally to a bag of chips or a package of chocolate chip cookies.

meow2u3

(24,767 posts)
13. Agribusiness and crooked farmers won't pass the savings onto consumers
Sat Sep 21, 2013, 02:27 PM
Sep 2013
I think that the thing to do would be for the government to give big subsidies to vegetable and fruit growers in order to bring down prices. People aren't buying the nutricious foods because they're so expensive and junk food is so cheap. It wouldn't hurt to also give certain foods away to people that qualify at distribution centers, like they used to do with the cheese. Bringing down the prices of the healthy foods and putting a tax on the junk would go a long way toward achieving the goal without banning certain foods to be bought with the cards.


That's a bad idea because the people and entities who receive the biggest farm subsidies are the ones who need them the least: Big Ag. Do you see them passing on their cost saving to consumers? I don't think so. Just about every place I go to shop, prices on produce and meats are going up and up.

I don't go along with corporate welfare schemes that put the money in the hands of the rich, which will inevitably be hoarded, instead of giving the poor the money, which will be put back into circulation because they'll spend it on food.

If you really want people to afford healthful (not, the word is NOT "healthy food&quot foods instead of junk food, strip agribusinesses of all farm subsidies and give them only to family farmers who will pass the savings of their produce onto consumers.

LuvNewcastle

(16,847 posts)
19. I could certainly go along with giving subsidies to small farmers.
Sat Sep 21, 2013, 04:51 PM
Sep 2013

I see what you're saying about giving subsidies to big businesses who are already wealthy, but we do need to think of ways to make veggies and fruit more affordable. If we could somehow get guarantees that the money would be used to pass along the savings, I would be able to stomach the boon given to the agribusinesses.

I'm no economist, so my ideas aren't going to be as good as most experts, but something really needs to be done. Diabetes rates are going through the roof; all the juvenile diabetes we're seeing is scary. We're going to have to find a way to get better quality food to be consumed.

Blanks

(4,835 posts)
29. Some farmers markets accept food stamps...
Sun Sep 22, 2013, 10:08 AM
Sep 2013

That would be providing a subsidy to small farmers. If every farmers market accepted food stamps and every school had a garden then we'd begin to see real progress on health issues particularly the health issues associated with obesity.

Cryptoad

(8,254 posts)
12. I tell you the shame is in
Sat Sep 21, 2013, 02:26 PM
Sep 2013

the GOP taking food away from children whose parents are dead beats and refuse to perform the task the GOP is asking of them in order to get food stamps!

babylonsister

(171,079 posts)
16. What task would that be? And what about the gazillions of parents
Sat Sep 21, 2013, 02:47 PM
Sep 2013

who are not deadbeats, work 3 jobs, and still fall below poverty level? How do you separate them? Your argument sounds too rightwing for me.

Cryptoad

(8,254 posts)
17. So you are saying
Sat Sep 21, 2013, 03:04 PM
Sep 2013

you think the children of deadbeats deserve to go hungry? -----and you call me RW.

The GOP wants to tie Food stamps recipients to do community work and pass a drug test. I am sorry but he children of these deadbeats that will not perform the GOP 's task, should not be punished for their Parents actions.

babylonsister

(171,079 posts)
18. Don't put words in my mouth.
Sat Sep 21, 2013, 03:34 PM
Sep 2013

NO ONE should be going hungry; if they qualify for food stamps, they should get them, and without the ridiculous limitations the rethugs want to put on everyone.

Cryptoad

(8,254 posts)
20. Then what "argument sounds too rightwing" for you?
Sat Sep 21, 2013, 04:55 PM
Sep 2013

The only argument I made was that the children should not be punished with hunger for their parents actions.

LWolf

(46,179 posts)
28. Those are my students.
Sun Sep 22, 2013, 08:57 AM
Sep 2013

Those kids Green is speaking on behalf of. My students. MY kids. Kids that I am trying to stock my classroom cupboards full of snacks for, because this year the cafeteria staff is "cracking down" on those who don't have money for lunch, and I've got kids who don't eat all day.

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