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ohheckyeah

(9,314 posts)
Fri Mar 2, 2012, 07:35 PM Mar 2012

To the men of D.U.

Millions of men laugh while Rush rages against women and millions more shrug their shoulders and ignore it. You, the men of Democratic Underground, see this as your issue as well as a women's issue.

Thank you for standing up and being counted. Thank you for saying NO MORE. Thank you.

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To the men of D.U. (Original Post) ohheckyeah Mar 2012 OP
Big second on that from me! LiberalLoner Mar 2012 #1
It warms my heart ohheckyeah Mar 2012 #3
Yes indeed! Thank you from me too! Happyhippychick Mar 2012 #2
I've already had one guy tell me Rush is "just kidding" Skittles Mar 2012 #4
It amazes me that every time one of these asses gets called out hobbit709 Mar 2012 #9
On CNN tonight laundry_queen Mar 2012 #54
Matalin has daughters....creepy that she thinks this attitude is okay. Darth_Kitten Mar 2012 #63
We are in an ideological war. Her daughters are expendable. nm rhett o rick Mar 2012 #85
Hey, if Mary Contrary Matalin can pass this off as "satire"... MrMickeysMom Mar 2012 #69
"It was a joke" - typical bully response ProfessionalLeftist Mar 2012 #67
Tell that guy you're going to be a guest on a national radio show next wk and are going Honeycombe8 Mar 2012 #43
I'm basically pissed shitless. Warren Stupidity Mar 2012 #4
Yes, it certainly is. ohheckyeah Mar 2012 #10
It is my issue. Takes two to tango. immoderate Mar 2012 #6
Barak Obama called the heroic woman weathering the storm of Limbaugh slander to provide support hayrow1 Mar 2012 #7
Mitt is a gutless coward. He has no principles. Old and In the Way Mar 2012 #19
Mitt won't say a damn thing. TexasTowelie Mar 2012 #72
Yep, one very important man standing up for Women's Rights ... 66 dmhlt Mar 2012 #59
Wonderful toon! BlancheSplanchnik Mar 2012 #60
He insults our wives, daughters, sisters, and aunts. Old and In the Way Mar 2012 #8
+1 usregimechange Mar 2012 #12
I agree but ohheckyeah Mar 2012 #14
A lack of self-awareness is not a gender-specific deficiency. Old and In the Way Mar 2012 #22
Too true. ohheckyeah Mar 2012 #24
We got your back yo usregimechange Mar 2012 #11
Yeah - that's ohheckyeah Mar 2012 #16
If Rush called my 20-year-old daughter a "slut"... KansDem Mar 2012 #13
If you did, I want to be on the jury. hobbit709 Mar 2012 #23
Me, too. n/t ohheckyeah Mar 2012 #25
No, thank you Shankapotomus Mar 2012 #15
... ohheckyeah Mar 2012 #17
As a son, brother, husband, and father of the women in my life randr Mar 2012 #18
I wish you could have a moment alone with him, too, ohheckyeah Mar 2012 #21
I'm sure that none of my male friends laugh or shrug their shoulders DavidDvorkin Mar 2012 #20
Well, shit--hard to believe that needs to be said here pinboy3niner Mar 2012 #26
#1000 n/t ohheckyeah Mar 2012 #27
+1 ellisonz Mar 2012 #45
I will fight with you and I will not be moved. My sisters are as equal and as important as my louslobbs Mar 2012 #28
Well said! ohheckyeah Mar 2012 #29
K&R hedgehog Mar 2012 #30
You're VERY welcome........ socialist_n_TN Mar 2012 #31
I completely agree. Texasgal Mar 2012 #32
I wil stand with you! mailman82 Mar 2012 #33
Thank you! n/t ohheckyeah Mar 2012 #34
proud to K&R this! LadyHawkAZ Mar 2012 #35
DU men are the best. pamela Mar 2012 #36
Fuck that guy. Warren DeMontague Mar 2012 #37
I can't believe that most men think like Rush mick063 Mar 2012 #38
We understand the embarrassment...... ohheckyeah Mar 2012 #55
K&R. It's been really wonderful seeing all the support here Whisp Mar 2012 #39
Thank you <eom> catrose Mar 2012 #40
We need to kick that male chauvinist pig off of the radio. Major Hogwash Mar 2012 #41
You want Rush off the air? BOYCOTT HIS SPONSORS!!! tonybgood Mar 2012 #62
ditto for that racist radio crap also. Liberal_in_LA Mar 2012 #42
Kicked and recommended. Uncle Joe Mar 2012 #44
Amen. Thank you all. We need you. nolabear Mar 2012 #46
Yes, indeed. Thank you! /nt October Mar 2012 #47
WE got REAL MEN here at DU! annabanana Mar 2012 #48
One more thing to add to why I can't stand Rush KeepItReal Mar 2012 #49
I was on Proflowers FB page and men were commenting. I love you guys!!! jillan Mar 2012 #50
My brothers emailed me info about the boycott, & I don't hear from them that often AnotherMother4Peace Mar 2012 #51
DU men rock! onestepforward Mar 2012 #52
I agree! nt Sarah Ibarruri Mar 2012 #53
Kick. ellisonz Mar 2012 #56
You're welcome lovemydog Mar 2012 #57
I already wrote to a few and tomorrow I'll write to more...hope everyone does. Auntie Bush Mar 2012 #83
My thanks also, men of DU. n/t DLevine Mar 2012 #58
proud to be the 101st rec' er AsahinaKimi Mar 2012 #61
k&r n/t RainDog Mar 2012 #64
I can't believe how many clueless assholes don't realize the majority of voters are WOMEN! bullwinkle428 Mar 2012 #65
This type of BS doesn't have to affect me personally to be angry. PotatoChip Mar 2012 #66
i think you have something there. EFerrari Mar 2012 #70
Not only that, it's freakin scary. PotatoChip Mar 2012 #82
We don't relish the thought of going back BootinUp Mar 2012 #68
re: To the men of D.U. allan01 Mar 2012 #71
I almost lost a friend ohheckyeah Mar 2012 #73
R#135 (my highest ever) & K for, thank you, I was afeard it was going to bash *all* men UTUSN Mar 2012 #74
Post removed Post removed Mar 2012 #75
What are you babbling on about? SammyWinstonJack Mar 2012 #77
Judging by your low post count... MrMickeysMom Mar 2012 #78
Strange BootinUp Mar 2012 #81
Yes varelse Mar 2012 #76
It was low and despicable Puzzledtraveller Mar 2012 #79
+another Matariki Mar 2012 #80
I've been saying "no more" to rush since I first heard his voice montanto Mar 2012 #84
My kind of woman is the woman who determines for herself. Aristus Mar 2012 #86
I'm so tired of them making everything about religion. Initech Mar 2012 #87
Of courseI have women's backs titaniumsalute Mar 2012 #88
I was completely offended at Limbaugh's remarks. trickyguy Mar 2012 #89
I salute you, gentlemen! yellerpup Mar 2012 #90
kudos to liberal and progressive men here...and everywhere noiretextatique Mar 2012 #91

Skittles

(153,202 posts)
4. I've already had one guy tell me Rush is "just kidding"
Fri Mar 2, 2012, 07:39 PM
Mar 2012

yup

I am curious what men think of Rush calling a lot of their wives/girlfriends/sisters/female friends "sluts" and "prostitutes"

hobbit709

(41,694 posts)
9. It amazes me that every time one of these asses gets called out
Fri Mar 2, 2012, 07:42 PM
Mar 2012

Their "alibi" is always "they were only kidding"
It's not funny to anyone with more than 3 synapses able to fire in sequence.

laundry_queen

(8,646 posts)
54. On CNN tonight
Sat Mar 3, 2012, 12:16 AM
Mar 2012

Mary Matalin (hopefully I spelled that right) was calling Rush's show 'satire'.

The Daily Show or the Colbert Report are satire. Rush's show is hate speech. I think Mary needs a dictionary.

Darth_Kitten

(14,192 posts)
63. Matalin has daughters....creepy that she thinks this attitude is okay.
Sat Mar 3, 2012, 11:29 AM
Mar 2012

Honestly, you stay in a party that thinks your own daughters are garbage, Mary?

Grow a pair, girl.

MrMickeysMom

(20,453 posts)
69. Hey, if Mary Contrary Matalin can pass this off as "satire"...
Sat Mar 3, 2012, 12:30 PM
Mar 2012

Then, she won't have a problem with being referred to as a "Republic*nt"...

Hey, Babe, it's satire!

ProfessionalLeftist

(4,982 posts)
67. "It was a joke" - typical bully response
Sat Mar 3, 2012, 12:15 PM
Mar 2012

"You're humor-impaired. Can't you take a joke?" - Rushbo said that. Many bullies and abusive types do.

They don't want to admit that the hateful, incendiary, vile crap that came out of their mouths was in fact INTENDED to insult and hurt others. It makes the bully look bad. Because, well, he is. Make no mistake: it was INTENTIONAL and meant to hurt. But they don't want to admit that so, they LIE. "It was a joke", they insist.

THEN to add injury to insult, they BLAME THE VICTIM of their verbal assault for the assault -- based on the lie they told about it -- by telling the victim(s): "you just don't have any sense of humor" or "you're humor-impaired" or "you can't take a joke!"

That way, the bully doesn't have to take any responsibility for his/her own behavior - for the crap that came out of the bully's own mouth. That way, they can make someone ELSE responsible for it.

It's how they operate. I know from experience.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
43. Tell that guy you're going to be a guest on a national radio show next wk and are going
Fri Mar 2, 2012, 09:49 PM
Mar 2012

to call your "friend" a vile name after naming him personally, and ask him if he'll find it funny or will instead sue you for slander.

 

Warren Stupidity

(48,181 posts)
4. I'm basically pissed shitless.
Fri Mar 2, 2012, 07:39 PM
Mar 2012

This is a war on my family, on your family, on our children, on our community.

ohheckyeah

(9,314 posts)
10. Yes, it certainly is.
Fri Mar 2, 2012, 07:43 PM
Mar 2012

I'm not one to wear my heart on my sleeve, nor am I very good at expressing my emotions, but I'm truly grateful.

 

hayrow1

(198 posts)
7. Barak Obama called the heroic woman weathering the storm of Limbaugh slander to provide support
Fri Mar 2, 2012, 07:42 PM
Mar 2012

Mitt Romney runs away from the issue.

Please explain why probably over 40% of the female gender will be voting for Romney or a similar pig?

Limbaugh's audience, primarily old white men are beyond redemtion.

Old and In the Way

(37,540 posts)
19. Mitt is a gutless coward. He has no principles.
Fri Mar 2, 2012, 07:48 PM
Mar 2012

Some leader he'd make. He'd be MIA on any issue of consequence.

TexasTowelie

(112,456 posts)
72. Mitt won't say a damn thing.
Sat Mar 3, 2012, 01:30 PM
Mar 2012

Bain Capital owns Clear Channel Communications which pimps Rush's radio show. This is a pocketbook issue for Mitt.

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
60. Wonderful toon!
Sat Mar 3, 2012, 10:34 AM
Mar 2012

funny how it's so rare to see a man stand up publicly for women....but Obama does.

As raygun and then dimson influenced the nation towards scapegoating, deceit, partisan hatred and androcentrism, I hope that President Obama's example inspires a new wave and new culture of respect.

Old and In the Way

(37,540 posts)
8. He insults our wives, daughters, sisters, and aunts.
Fri Mar 2, 2012, 07:42 PM
Mar 2012

Why wouldn't we be outraged? Any moron who thinks Rush is being funny or honest or smart or whatever apologist label they can apply have no self-awareness. They are the true idiots who invest their time listening to this emotionally stunted man-child.

ohheckyeah

(9,314 posts)
14. I agree but
Fri Mar 2, 2012, 07:45 PM
Mar 2012

there are a lot of men who think it's funny. For that matter, I've seen support for Rush and his comments from women.

Old and In the Way

(37,540 posts)
22. A lack of self-awareness is not a gender-specific deficiency.
Fri Mar 2, 2012, 07:51 PM
Mar 2012

Of course the average dittohead thinks it's funny. They don't have the on-board intelligence to know that Rush is insulting them as well as us.

ohheckyeah

(9,314 posts)
24. Too true.
Fri Mar 2, 2012, 07:54 PM
Mar 2012

I have a sister who in the past said she listens to Rush because he's funny. I wonder if she thinks this is funny.

KansDem

(28,498 posts)
13. If Rush called my 20-year-old daughter a "slut"...
Fri Mar 2, 2012, 07:44 PM
Mar 2012

It would be the last conscious act he'd perform that day. Or maybe several days...

And "yes"--I'd be willing to go to jail...

randr

(12,417 posts)
18. As a son, brother, husband, and father of the women in my life
Fri Mar 2, 2012, 07:47 PM
Mar 2012

I would love to have a moment alone with Limpballs.

ohheckyeah

(9,314 posts)
21. I wish you could have a moment alone with him, too,
Fri Mar 2, 2012, 07:50 PM
Mar 2012

except I don't have the money to bail you out of jail and we need you on the outside.

DavidDvorkin

(19,489 posts)
20. I'm sure that none of my male friends laugh or shrug their shoulders
Fri Mar 2, 2012, 07:48 PM
Mar 2012

Those who do laugh and/or shrug their shoulders are unlikely to ever be my friends or friends of my friends.

pinboy3niner

(53,339 posts)
26. Well, shit--hard to believe that needs to be said here
Fri Mar 2, 2012, 08:02 PM
Mar 2012

Women's health care shouldn't even be an issue. When it is, most of us men here have only one thing to say to our sister DU members: We've got your back. Period.

louslobbs

(3,238 posts)
28. I will fight with you and I will not be moved. My sisters are as equal and as important as my
Fri Mar 2, 2012, 08:08 PM
Mar 2012

brothers. Men who laugh with Rush as he lashes out at and attacks women, are sad excuses for human beings. They are everything that is wrong with the relatedness between man and woman, and they show themselves in that light, as the weak minded, bigoted and misogynistic beings that they are.
Lou

socialist_n_TN

(11,481 posts)
31. You're VERY welcome........
Fri Mar 2, 2012, 08:09 PM
Mar 2012

This IS our fight too. Fighting oppression no matter what form it takes, is ALWAYS a socialist's fight.

And personally? As a poster above said, a LOT of my heroes are women. Not to mention a wife and two grown daughters.

 

mick063

(2,424 posts)
38. I can't believe that most men think like Rush
Fri Mar 2, 2012, 08:32 PM
Mar 2012

As a man, I take his comments personal.

He is an embarrasment to my gender.

His views are Taliban in nature and fit right in with the Theocracy theme of this campaign.

Major Hogwash

(17,656 posts)
41. We need to kick that male chauvinist pig off of the radio.
Fri Mar 2, 2012, 09:42 PM
Mar 2012

Someone needs to start a petition in the Activism group and then the rest of us sign it.

We can do this.

YES WE CAN!!!!

tonybgood

(218 posts)
62. You want Rush off the air? BOYCOTT HIS SPONSORS!!!
Sat Mar 3, 2012, 11:10 AM
Mar 2012

A petition will not get Rush Limbaugh off the air. A complaint to the FCC will not do it. A fine and suspension from the air will not do it. The only way to get Rush Limbaugh off the air is to make his show unprofitable for the advertisers on his program. When you boycott their products and write to them and tell them why you will no longer patronize their business as long as they advertise on Rush Limbaugh's program, then you will be on the way to removing Mr. Limbaugh from the airwaves!!!

KeepItReal

(7,769 posts)
49. One more thing to add to why I can't stand Rush
Fri Mar 2, 2012, 10:10 PM
Mar 2012

Rush called President Obama "Barack the Magic Negro"

I'm still losing my mind he didn't lose everything after that

AnotherMother4Peace

(4,251 posts)
51. My brothers emailed me info about the boycott, & I don't hear from them that often
Fri Mar 2, 2012, 11:21 PM
Mar 2012

I guess you don't attack women and expect the men to stay quiet. Thanks guys.

lovemydog

(11,833 posts)
57. You're welcome
Sat Mar 3, 2012, 05:35 AM
Mar 2012

Any time.

Every Rush advertiser must be boycotted. Every Rush listener must be ostracized. Rush is a racist, homophobic, misogynistic liar. Like most bigwigs in the republican party.

PotatoChip

(3,186 posts)
66. This type of BS doesn't have to affect me personally to be angry.
Sat Mar 3, 2012, 12:00 PM
Mar 2012

Though my daughter has full contraceptive coverage through her job, it isn't just about that. It's about all women and the prevailing attitude of utter comtempt coming from the GOP directed at them. That really is the root of all of this.

And even if the more moderate, mainstream among them are not necessarily participants, they are complicit in their lack of condemnation.

We've all known for some time that Rush and his ilk are sexist, racist bigots. However, something about the current political climate on the right seems to have emboldened them to spew their hate all the more vehemently then ever. It's as if these people are hate addicts, needing a bigger and better fix, while the GOP in general enables them for their own (probably nefarious) reasons.

It's disgusting, and I for one cannot sit back and just watch as Rush, Beck, the new crop of TBag politicians ect. viciously attack women, minorities, the poor and the vulnerable, in their twisted, ever escalating, need for a more satisfying 'hate-fix'.

Judging by the many threads in GD right now with excellent ideas on how to fight this battle, it's good to see that I'm not the only one who refuses to take this BS any longer.

Here is one excellent thread on the subject by DUer Fumesucker and I know that there are plenty more. http://www.democraticunderground.com/1002374653

EFerrari

(163,986 posts)
70. i think you have something there.
Sat Mar 3, 2012, 12:34 PM
Mar 2012

They encourage people to express anger inappropriately and their audience gets hooked on that release. It's degrading at several levels.

PotatoChip

(3,186 posts)
82. Not only that, it's freakin scary.
Sat Mar 3, 2012, 04:42 PM
Mar 2012

The point you make about the audience-

Rush and others like him, would have been gone long ago if he didn't appeal to some segment of society. Clearly, there is an alarming number of people 'out-there' who are drawn into his rants by their own hatred, anger and ignorance. He feeds them and their anger, while they feed his. A vicious, worrisome cycle.

allan01

(1,950 posts)
71. re: To the men of D.U.
Sat Mar 3, 2012, 12:37 PM
Mar 2012

Evry four years these people regurgitate abortion, why? Ever since i can rememer these people bash, call p[eople name , silence debate! These people have no plan to help recover this counry. Ie infastructure , healthcare . None of them would ever dare to end corperate welfare, but would love to kick off people on social security ( milking the system, is one of their fav catch words) Always an attack on womans reproductive rights , the question is why?, No body blinks an eye when a man gets his tubes cut. Any of u see a back alley abortion? Prolly not. My late mum did and it wast pretty. We ban the woman to have abortions , and the 1% go to a far off land and have it done there Go figre

ohheckyeah

(9,314 posts)
73. I almost lost a friend
Sat Mar 3, 2012, 01:35 PM
Mar 2012

to a back alley abortion when we were in high school. She ended up having to have a hysterectomy - after she almost bled to death and had a massive infection. It was horrible. When she told me the details of the abortion I had to excuse myself and go throw up.

The reason she had the abortion - she was from the wrong side of the tracks and her boyfriend was the town's dentist's son, who abandoned her when he found out she was pregnant. She was 17 years old.

UTUSN

(70,744 posts)
74. R#135 (my highest ever) & K for, thank you, I was afeard it was going to bash *all* men
Sat Mar 3, 2012, 01:38 PM
Mar 2012

as is seen around sometimes.

Response to ohheckyeah (Original post)

MrMickeysMom

(20,453 posts)
78. Judging by your low post count...
Sat Mar 3, 2012, 02:31 PM
Mar 2012

... you are about as fucking clueless as your "boyfriend" is ... heh-heh-heh-heh....

Puzzledtraveller

(5,937 posts)
79. It was low and despicable
Sat Mar 3, 2012, 02:44 PM
Mar 2012

and I was just as hard on Ed Schultz when he made those comments about Laura Inghram.

montanto

(2,966 posts)
84. I've been saying "no more" to rush since I first heard his voice
Sat Mar 3, 2012, 04:47 PM
Mar 2012

on the radio twenty + years ago. Don't get me wrong, I celebrate women and support women with issues that might be specific to them at any time, but this issue is, like so many others, a Human rights issue. During the anti prop 8 marches here in LA a male couple came up to my "wife" and I and asked why we were marching for them. We looked at each other and said "you? these are our rights, everybody's rights." We aren't married and won't be until everyone has the same rights that we can enjoy (and maybe not even then. we both refuse to obey church or state on this one). So, by extension, I too am a slut and a prostitute because I refuse to procreate on command, and my non-wife and I have made illegitimate whoopie and will continue to do so until long after rush limbaugh is silent at last.

yours in slut-prostitute solidarity

Aristus

(66,467 posts)
86. My kind of woman is the woman who determines for herself.
Sat Mar 3, 2012, 05:56 PM
Mar 2012

Determines everything about her own life.

Rush Limbaugh can kiss my ass. Fat, shit-spewing dickbag...

Real men prefer strong, independent women...

Initech

(100,105 posts)
87. I'm so tired of them making everything about religion.
Sat Mar 3, 2012, 06:02 PM
Mar 2012

What the fuck do god and morality have to do with reproductive rights?

trickyguy

(769 posts)
89. I was completely offended at Limbaugh's remarks.
Sat Mar 3, 2012, 06:26 PM
Mar 2012

I'm a gay man but also consider myself a feminist so those remarks
were aimed at me also. He should be taken off the air.
What a useless human being (and man).

noiretextatique

(27,275 posts)
91. kudos to liberal and progressive men here...and everywhere
Sat Mar 3, 2012, 07:31 PM
Mar 2012

i post on facebook and youtube and other places, and men are really stepping up this issue. no one wants the regressive fantasies of so-called conservatives.

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