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struggle4progress

(118,291 posts)
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 08:04 PM Oct 2013

How do you react when I knock your door after dark with election materials in hand?


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Well, I won't vote for any of these jerks. But I admire your hard work anyway
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This is so exciting! I love voting! How many times can I vote?
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I gotta ten minute rant ready on how I really don't got time to talk right now
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When you ask for me by name, I'll just say "I'm not home!"
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Oh, c'mon, dude! I voted last year, I think. Mebbe it was the year before ...
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I take your lit. I look at it and hand it back to you. Then I decide I want it after all
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Shizz! Turn off the music! Hide the stash! Turn out the lights!
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Hey, look! It's Straggles! Come on in, buddy! Kick off yer shoes! How's bout a beer anna sammitch?
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Anybody's on my porch after dark, I shoot first, ask questions after
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How do you react when I knock your door after dark with election materials in hand? (Original Post) struggle4progress Oct 2013 OP
Related article below Tx4obama Oct 2013 #1
Yeah. Nobody's ever pulled a gun on me. Yet. Now and then, I'll knock a door struggle4progress Oct 2013 #5
I do not like it when anyone I don't know knocks on my door after dark. CaliforniaPeggy Oct 2013 #2
I usually only knock doors after dark in bad neighborhoods. In the better neighborhoods, struggle4progress Oct 2013 #9
I agree, with one exception, Halloween. Jenoch Oct 2013 #106
Oh, of course! CaliforniaPeggy Oct 2013 #107
It would be awfully hard to knock on my door... yuiyoshida Oct 2013 #3
I haven't learned how to break into garages yet. So you're safe for now struggle4progress Oct 2013 #14
000000h yuiyoshida Oct 2013 #18
I will give you a cookie after telling you what a good job you are doing. we can do it Oct 2013 #4
om! nom! nom! nom! struggle4progress Oct 2013 #13
I won't answer any knock on my door after dark. Sheldon Cooper Oct 2013 #6
Even if it's Penny? nt Wwagsthedog Oct 2013 #20
Even if it's Dave and he's got the stuff. n/t winter is coming Oct 2013 #40
"Dave's not here!" struggle4progress Oct 2013 #43
^^ this ^^ Myrina Oct 2013 #29
That is actually closer to my answer. Jamastiene Oct 2013 #91
Depends on how far after dark Warpy Oct 2013 #7
A few weeks back, I was staying out until 7:30 or 7:45 but now I knock off around 7:00 struggle4progress Oct 2013 #11
After dark? Raleigh has had some wacky... WorseBeforeBetter Oct 2013 #8
It sounds like you live near our Governor's Mansion struggle4progress Oct 2013 #23
Can't it just be during the day? NuclearDem Oct 2013 #10
Lots of folk aren't home until after 5:30, and sunset was around 6:30 today struggle4progress Oct 2013 #15
I will attempt (probably unsuccessfully) to hide my petronius Oct 2013 #12
I guess I could deliver a free pizza to every door I knock, but I can't afford it right now: struggle4progress Oct 2013 #19
I always hide the stash. What? You could be the Mormons from down the street. DevonRex Oct 2013 #16
A lot of folk, who are obviously home, don't answer their doors even in broad daylight struggle4progress Oct 2013 #33
I stopped after an uncomfortable encounter. DevonRex Oct 2013 #74
I wish some of the people I've known were that cautious struggle4progress Oct 2013 #85
I'm probably the only one that picked that I'd give you a beer and sandwhich kydo Oct 2013 #17
If anybody ever offers me food, I'll remember that : "Wait! This could be kydo the serial killer!" struggle4progress Oct 2013 #22
or kydo the cool person with beer food and football kydo Oct 2013 #26
Soliciting after dark? enlightenment Oct 2013 #21
I'M NOT SOLICITING! struggle4progress Oct 2013 #24
But I don't know that, do I? enlightenment Oct 2013 #25
I certainly shouldn't give you grief for being careful about opening your door to strangers struggle4progress Oct 2013 #30
It's just my opinion. enlightenment Oct 2013 #34
I generally knock in the dusk, before the afterglow has entirely faded struggle4progress Oct 2013 #36
Sounds like the best method. enlightenment Oct 2013 #50
Do you look like a process server through the peekhole? antiquie Oct 2013 #101
No. But every now and then, somebody leaves by the back door anyway struggle4progress Oct 2013 #103
I feel the same way about it. Jamastiene Oct 2013 #92
if you are coming to ask for my vote ProdigalJunkMail Oct 2013 #98
You can use the word however you like, I suppose, but its legal sense here, as I understand it, struggle4progress Oct 2013 #104
If you're knocking on my door and i don't know you Warren DeMontague Oct 2013 #139
You can use the word however you like, I suppose, but its legal sense here, as I understand it, struggle4progress Oct 2013 #141
In North Tampa it seriously would depend on the time Johnny Ready Oct 2013 #27
Even in the summertime, with long days, I've never knocked a door after 9:00 PM: a number of folk struggle4progress Oct 2013 #32
I don't talk Niceguy1 Oct 2013 #28
My average contact might be about sixty seconds. I figure folk didn't invite me, struggle4progress Oct 2013 #41
No offense but I'd tell you to take a hike regardless of who you're canvassing for. last1standing Oct 2013 #31
Maybe about one in a hundred of the people, who actually answer the door, tell me to get lost: struggle4progress Oct 2013 #35
That is a bit strange. lol. last1standing Oct 2013 #38
No. You're not alone. Plenty of folk, who are obviously at home, just don't answer the door struggle4progress Oct 2013 #46
I walk the streets of Detroit at night quite often and have never had a problem. last1standing Oct 2013 #48
I would be somewhat upset. oneshooter Oct 2013 #37
I encountered a house with a locked gate yesterday here in the city struggle4progress Oct 2013 #42
There is a telephone at the gate, and a video camera in a tree. oneshooter Oct 2013 #100
That's pretty much the way it would go at my house also ..... oldhippie Oct 2013 #44
Activate the trap door pintobean Oct 2013 #39
Other - I don't open the door but your free to leave the materials in the mailbox. TeamPooka Oct 2013 #45
I'm won't leave materials in your mailbox: I prefer under your mat or rolled into the door handle struggle4progress Oct 2013 #47
thats fine too. I actually have a box on the porch for stuff like this & flyers to new sushi places. TeamPooka Oct 2013 #49
If Honey BooBoo's not on, no problem. rug Oct 2013 #51
Writing note to self: don't interrupt rug's Honey BooBoo time struggle4progress Oct 2013 #62
Thank you. rug Oct 2013 #63
As long as your not selling Religion or magazines, you've got my attention for a while. Agnosticsherbet Oct 2013 #52
I'd be a shizzy door-to-door salesman, and I really can't imagine doing that Mormon/Watchtower thing struggle4progress Oct 2013 #57
Oh hi, always happy to meet another animal lover! Fumesucker Oct 2013 #53
Nice goggie! struggle4progress Oct 2013 #65
If I'm not alone and you identify as supporting a Democrat, Welcome! REP Oct 2013 #54
This is a "non-partisan" municipal election, and the top two vote-getters in each primary slot struggle4progress Oct 2013 #60
I have two attack kittehs. Brigid Oct 2013 #55
I don't have pets, but I meet them regularly doing this, and they're almost always quite friendly struggle4progress Oct 2013 #59
I make sure to vote for the other candidate (nt) Nye Bevan Oct 2013 #56
It's rare, but people do tell me that sometimes struggle4progress Oct 2013 #58
That didn't look like "election materials" to me jberryhill Oct 2013 #61
You just haven't kept up with the latest in modern electioneering struggle4progress Oct 2013 #64
My background in electoral engineering is out of date jberryhill Oct 2013 #66
I don't care what time of day it is--my reaction is the same mnhtnbb Oct 2013 #67
If you say you don't want us knocking your door, I'll make every effort to get your name off my list struggle4progress Oct 2013 #69
After dark here in the winter is about 3:30 p.m. Blue_In_AK Oct 2013 #68
"It can't really be 11:00 PM! Look! The sun's still up!" struggle4progress Oct 2013 #125
Yes, that's the way it is. Blue_In_AK Oct 2013 #135
With shock LWolf Oct 2013 #70
If your place is that hard to find, you're not on my walklist: I have a limit to how much time struggle4progress Oct 2013 #73
It is that hard. LWolf Oct 2013 #96
I tell you to get the hell off my property, Skip Intro Oct 2013 #71
If I'm going thru a walklist, I'm going to try to break at a natural spot: I'd rather finish a page, struggle4progress Oct 2013 #72
It doesn't revolve around what you want Skip Intro Oct 2013 #75
"Sunset was about half an hour ago, and I really should quit. I won't finish these doors tonight." struggle4progress Oct 2013 #124
I don't want to argue the point with you. However, Skip Intro Oct 2013 #138
What a sad thread. Ron Green Oct 2013 #76
I might be able to count on one hand the number of times I've been told in years of door-knocking struggle4progress Oct 2013 #79
especially those bragging about needing to answer the door armed... dionysus Oct 2013 #133
In my years of doing this, I've only heard people mention guns two or three times -- and always struggle4progress Oct 2013 #149
Then I wonder what explains so many DU members being hostile in this way? Ron Green Oct 2013 #153
It's an internet message board. All manner of persons post here with all manner of motives struggle4progress Oct 2013 #155
"No thanks. Goodnight." *slowly close door* nt Deep13 Oct 2013 #77
That you're not working in an official capacity for a campaign frazzled Oct 2013 #78
I'm an unpaid volunteer. But I've done this for years for some well-organized campaigns. struggle4progress Oct 2013 #80
Election day is Nov. 5 and it gets dark early in November. ucrdem Oct 2013 #145
Too many people think these local elections don't matter struggle4progress Oct 2013 #160
If you are a Democrat, which you are bound to be in my neighborhood, I thank you for JDPriestly Oct 2013 #81
I'm pushing Progressive Dems struggle4progress Oct 2013 #84
I live rural, so if someone I don't know ohheckyeah Oct 2013 #82
Your neighborhood is probably too sparse for me. I want to be able to park on the road, struggle4progress Oct 2013 #83
I'm sure you are correct. ohheckyeah Oct 2013 #87
What do you get when you cross a Jehovah's Witness with a Hell's Angel? Douglas Carpenter Oct 2013 #86
What a great idea! I drive onto the lawn on my chopper, bang the door, and tell them struggle4progress Oct 2013 #113
I really have to commend you for what you're doing steve2470 Oct 2013 #88
For many of my efforts, I'll get better responses by "dressing down" struggle4progress Oct 2013 #114
I don't answer the door for strangers after dark. LeftyMom Oct 2013 #89
I do what I can to be considerate. Different people are different. I don't know them all, struggle4progress Oct 2013 #110
I tell political and religious people "thanks but I'm fine" LittleBlue Oct 2013 #90
I've heard "I'm fine" from time to time struggle4progress Oct 2013 #111
Unless you like to be barked and growled at and surrounded by super protective dogs Jamastiene Oct 2013 #93
Tell them it's too early for Trick or Treaters! B Calm Oct 2013 #94
I doubt I'll be door knocking on the 31st struggle4progress Oct 2013 #115
After determining that you are not selling something (easy what with the campaign lit & buttons)... Hekate Oct 2013 #95
I encounter somebody unpleasant now and then. It's rare, and it's impossible to decide struggle4progress Oct 2013 #108
I will look on your treasures Gypsy datasuspect Oct 2013 #97
Might could be yer disappointed, according to what yer hopin t'find struggle4progress Oct 2013 #118
Your question is why I do all my canvassing on weekends, MineralMan Oct 2013 #99
Every door I knock during the week lets somebody else knock another door on the weekend struggle4progress Oct 2013 #120
That raises a question PATRICK Oct 2013 #102
I find most people are polite struggle4progress Oct 2013 #121
I don't open my door after dark shanti Oct 2013 #105
Some states or municipalities might have solicitation laws or ordinances that apply struggle4progress Oct 2013 #122
I don't answer knocks on my door when it gets dark outside. mulsh Oct 2013 #109
I suspect lots of us do that sometimes struggle4progress Oct 2013 #123
My dog is nearly 100 lbs - good luck. TBF Oct 2013 #112
My usual concern about dogs is that I don't let them out struggle4progress Oct 2013 #119
We only have fenced back yards here - TBF Oct 2013 #132
one of these guys knocked on my door so hard that I had palpitations librechik Oct 2013 #116
I don't like when they come to my door or call me. bigwillq Oct 2013 #117
Real politics involves actual contact with people struggle4progress Oct 2013 #126
Chris Christie is coming to your door tonight bigwillq Oct 2013 #127
Just tell me what time: I'll make sure some folk are here who want to talk with him struggle4progress Oct 2013 #128
Do not knock on a door with election materials in hand SheilaT Oct 2013 #129
I agree that daytime knocking can sometimes give good contact rates struggle4progress Oct 2013 #143
If they're GOP or Tea Party materials, I'll chase you off with the water hose, LOL Erose999 Oct 2013 #130
my dog would give you my answer. madrchsod Oct 2013 #131
After dark's currently around 6:30pm here and getting progressively earlier, so meh. (nt) Posteritatis Oct 2013 #134
Yeah, by the end of the month, sunset here will be 6:15 PM, and when Daylight Savings Time ends struggle4progress Oct 2013 #142
I do not answer the door to unexpected unknown visitors. MadrasT Oct 2013 #136
I think it's incredibly rude to intrude in people's lives noamnety Oct 2013 #137
Folk who don't want their doors knocked can always put a Keep Out sign at the lot edge, or struggle4progress Oct 2013 #140
I view the ESP this way: noamnety Oct 2013 #148
Or -- since a number of people I spoke with this week were glad to see me, asked questions struggle4progress Oct 2013 #154
I'm not debating free speech rights noamnety Oct 2013 #156
I'm pretty sure almost everybody recovers quickly from whatever trauma I inflict struggle4progress Oct 2013 #159
I understand your view is that it's a one minute interruption. noamnety Oct 2013 #161
the fundamental roots of grassroots democracy is going door to door - that is the historic method of Douglas Carpenter Oct 2013 #144
Yes, it's a decline of ancient tradition and family values noamnety Oct 2013 #147
I work nights too- quite frequently - if one must not be disturbed - I have at times used a "do not Douglas Carpenter Oct 2013 #150
that whole thing is probably perceived differently by men. noamnety Oct 2013 #151
oh - I get that Douglas Carpenter Oct 2013 #152
Results also vary according to walklist quality struggle4progress Oct 2013 #157
I'd wanna know how the hell you got past the gate Rstrstx Oct 2013 #146
After dark, I would not answer the door. I'd be very alarmed. Ino Oct 2013 #158

struggle4progress

(118,291 posts)
5. Yeah. Nobody's ever pulled a gun on me. Yet. Now and then, I'll knock a door
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 08:11 PM
Oct 2013

and encounter an only-issue-is-guns dude. I just try to have a pleasant chat. The last one ended well, but it was a while ago

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,629 posts)
2. I do not like it when anyone I don't know knocks on my door after dark.
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 08:09 PM
Oct 2013

It's spooky.

Luckily, we have an intercom, and I tell whoever it is to politely go away.

And then they do.

struggle4progress

(118,291 posts)
9. I usually only knock doors after dark in bad neighborhoods. In the better neighborhoods,
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 08:15 PM
Oct 2013

folk often don't open the door to me even in broad daylight

yuiyoshida

(41,831 posts)
3. It would be awfully hard to knock on my door...
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 08:09 PM
Oct 2013

First you would have to break into the garage..than fumble around in the dark...and hope you can find the door.


Seriously! Why do you think I have a compass on my watch?

we can do it

(12,189 posts)
4. I will give you a cookie after telling you what a good job you are doing.
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 08:11 PM
Oct 2013

After telling you about my earlier in the day canvassing efforts.

Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
91. That is actually closer to my answer.
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 04:18 AM
Oct 2013

If they knock after dark, then wait a minute, then leave, no problem. If they knock and wait then knock again, I might start get irritated. If they knock and continue to linger and knock more after the first two attempts, and will not take a damn hint that I'm not comfortable opening to door to strangers after dark, I'll call the police to come see what they want, then get them the hell off my lawn.

If I find out they are representing a political party or candidate, I'm asking for their supervisor's contact info* so I can talk to their supervisor about it. I am all for GOTV efforts, but there is no reason to be damned creepy about it. There is a time and place for that type of thing and doing it after dark would be unnerving to a lot of people.

*I would do the same if they were representing any other group, i.e. salespeople, religious proselytizers, etc.

Warpy

(111,270 posts)
7. Depends on how far after dark
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 08:14 PM
Oct 2013

Most door to door canvassing is done in September-October. By the end of October, sunset here is about 6 PM. Show up by 7, I'll answer the door. Show up at nine, I won't. Show up while the police helicopter is circling overhead, you're probably SOL. This is a bad enough area that a lot of bad guys bail and try to hide here.

WorseBeforeBetter

(11,441 posts)
8. After dark? Raleigh has had some wacky...
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 08:15 PM
Oct 2013

robberies, home invasions, etc. lately so I'd probably just talk to you through the locked storm door, and ask you to leave the materials on the porch. It is what it is.

 

NuclearDem

(16,184 posts)
10. Can't it just be during the day?
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 08:15 PM
Oct 2013

Most people I know are either asleep, having dinner, or otherwise unwinding when it's dark.

petronius

(26,602 posts)
12. I will attempt (probably unsuccessfully) to hide my
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 08:17 PM
Oct 2013

disappointment that you aren't the pizza deliverer.

But after that, I might be willing to chat a bit, especially if you're canvassing for a candidate or issue that I want to know more about...

struggle4progress

(118,291 posts)
19. I guess I could deliver a free pizza to every door I knock, but I can't afford it right now:
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 08:25 PM
Oct 2013

my cost for the last month or so would be around $4500

DevonRex

(22,541 posts)
16. I always hide the stash. What? You could be the Mormons from down the street.
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 08:23 PM
Oct 2013

JK. I don't hide the stash. I don't answer the door tho. Not unless I know you're coming with Girl Scout Cookies.

DevonRex

(22,541 posts)
74. I stopped after an uncomfortable encounter.
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 11:58 PM
Oct 2013

I thought I was going to have to disarm a guy with a knife that was selling oranges door to door. He got enraged when I said no after he cut one open with his dirty pocketknife. I decided the best way to go about it. Right then a police car pulled up. They carted him off.

kydo

(2,679 posts)
17. I'm probably the only one that picked that I'd give you a beer and sandwhich
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 08:25 PM
Oct 2013

the question is would you take it? I could be a serial killer and the beer could be laced with something or the sandwich deadly. Or I could be a really cool person that likes people that try to help people by doing what you are doing and just offered an awesome ice cold beer and big huge hoagie.

So do you feel lucky?

kydo

(2,679 posts)
26. or kydo the cool person with beer food and football
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 08:41 PM
Oct 2013


but that's ok last time I checked, I wasn't a serial killer. And while I probably wouldn't offer you a beer I would offer food and drink. I always offer a drink I'm in FL and it is hot. Well if you were working for a dem. But for baggers I tell them to get off my lawn or I'll shoot. And trust me you can tell the difference. And I don't have a gun but the dog parking usually makes them leave before calling my bluff.

enlightenment

(8,830 posts)
25. But I don't know that, do I?
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 08:40 PM
Oct 2013

When strangers come to my door, especially if they are carrying something, I assume they are there to sell me something. In your case, you're "selling" politics

As a woman, I will not respond to strangers ringing my bell after dark unless they identify themselves as police officers (in uniform) or are obviously in distress and in need of aid.

(If you thought I meant something else by soliciting, my apologies - I only meant it in the sense of selling a product).

struggle4progress

(118,291 posts)
30. I certainly shouldn't give you grief for being careful about opening your door to strangers
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 08:54 PM
Oct 2013

And I suppose you can use the word "selling" as a metaphor, if you like, but I'm not actually selling anything: I never collect money or anything else from anybody; I'm not drumming up customers for any business

To my knowledge none of my state statutes or local ordinances consider my electioneering to be solicitation

If you put up a sign that says "KEEP OUT" at the edge of your property, I'll assume it applies to me, and I won't set foot on your lot

But if you have a sign that says "NO SOLICITING," I'll figure I'm not soliciting and I'll ring the doorbell anyway

enlightenment

(8,830 posts)
34. It's just my opinion.
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 09:13 PM
Oct 2013

I understand the need for electioneering, but since I do my own research and make up my mind on my own, I find it rather like "selling".

Quite honestly though, it's more about it being after dark and strangers at the door.

I wish you well - and I wish you safe electioneering. Be careful out there.

struggle4progress

(118,291 posts)
36. I generally knock in the dusk, before the afterglow has entirely faded
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 09:21 PM
Oct 2013

But people's perception of what's "dark" vary, and how dark it seems may depend on the weather

Yesterday was heavily overcast, so I quit around 6:45 as it began to seem darkish; today, there was a light intermittent drizzle, but it was less overcast so I knocked off when it started to seem dark around 7:00

Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
92. I feel the same way about it.
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 04:29 AM
Oct 2013

The only difference is if they are in distress, I will talk to them through my locked closed door and offer to call the police for them to get them some help. Otherwise, I'm not inviting strangers into my home after dark or even unlocking the door when strangers enter my yard.

Strangers had better have a good reason to be in my yard after dark anyhow. My neighbors' dogs consider my yard and me their territory and family/pack member and will not let anyone get to me anyhow. I'm lucky I get deliveries from FedEx and UPS as protective as they are. I have to go out and reassure the dogs when it is FedEx or UPS. Otherwise, they would defend me to the death. Of that, I have no doubt. I always make friends with the animals in any neighborhood I live or even visit for any decent amount of time, especially neighbors' pets. I doubt anyone would make it to my door after dark without a big huge alert from my neighbors' dogs, lights all over the neighborhood coming on, shotguns getting cocked and ready, and several dogs barking and edging closer and closer to them the further inside the pack's "territory" the stranger stepped.

S4A, please never try to visit me after dark. Unless you like the sound of cocking shotguns, the sight of lights all over a neighborhood coming on, the sight of blue lights flashing and the sound of growling ferocious large dogs who mean business, it is probably not a good idea for your own safety. Also, the dogs will not stop barking for the rest of the night at every sound they hear if you unnerve them that way.

ProdigalJunkMail

(12,017 posts)
98. if you are coming to ask for my vote
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 08:17 AM
Oct 2013

or provide information to sway my opinion then, yes, you are.

(if this was meant to be a joke forgive my lack of humor-receptors before coffee...)

sP

struggle4progress

(118,291 posts)
104. You can use the word however you like, I suppose, but its legal sense here, as I understand it,
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 12:58 PM
Oct 2013

doesn't match your usage

struggle4progress

(118,291 posts)
141. You can use the word however you like, I suppose, but its legal sense here, as I understand it,
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 09:04 PM
Oct 2013

doesn't match your usage

Johnny Ready

(203 posts)
27. In North Tampa it seriously would depend on the time
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 08:42 PM
Oct 2013

now let's say it's 8:30pm no problem, I come outside and we talk as much as you would like. Now let's say it's 10:30pm here we have a completely different scenario. First I cut the lights "they" can't see in once the lights are off. Then I sneak out my Hal Capone gangster exit which then has me standing 12 ft behind you with a taser and cell phone. At that point my neighbors will have sent two family members over to see why I came out the Capone hatch. Seriously.

Lol of course I am exagerating a little but time is the biggest factor.

struggle4progress

(118,291 posts)
32. Even in the summertime, with long days, I've never knocked a door after 9:00 PM: a number of folk
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 08:57 PM
Oct 2013

are getting ready to turn in by then

Niceguy1

(2,467 posts)
28. I don't talk
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 08:44 PM
Oct 2013

To campaign volunteers...I do t want talking points and hype...I prefer to look for the info myself.

struggle4progress

(118,291 posts)
41. My average contact might be about sixty seconds. I figure folk didn't invite me,
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 09:36 PM
Oct 2013

and they've got other things to do, so I've got about three points I can make, which I tailor to the situation. Much of what I would say is purely informational, and I try to leave ASAP when folk aren't interested in any of it

last1standing

(11,709 posts)
31. No offense but I'd tell you to take a hike regardless of who you're canvassing for.
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 08:56 PM
Oct 2013

I find it rather rude to canvass after dark whether it's for a candidate or girl scout cookies. If you don't find that others view it the same, then please carry on.

struggle4progress

(118,291 posts)
35. Maybe about one in a hundred of the people, who actually answer the door, tell me to get lost:
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 09:15 PM
Oct 2013

it doesn't seem to matter whether I'm knocking in broad daylight or at dusk. Usually those who don't want to talk with me just ignore the knock

But today, in broad daylight, I did have a woman tell me not to knock her door after dark

I don't remember ever knocking doors in her neighborhood before, and I'm quite sure I haven't knocked doors there in the last decade or so, so I don't know exactly why she was telling me that

I'd guess somebody knocked her door too late at night once in 2008 or 2010 or 2012

last1standing

(11,709 posts)
38. That is a bit strange. lol.
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 09:33 PM
Oct 2013

My reasons for not liking it are twofold.

First, I believe that there has to be some time to call your own and during that time it's rude to intrude on someone you don't know somewhat. Again, as I seem to be the only one who thinks this, it's my own burden to bear.

Second, I think it's dangerous to walk many streets at night without company. While this isn't directly my problem, it is an indirect problem if something happens to you in my yard. It's sort of like those volunteers who stand in the street soliciting donations. If one of them steps in front of my car, it isn't my fault but it does affect me for life.

Yes, I know my second reason is stupid but it still bothers me.

TL;DR: last1standing is a cranky fool who needs to chill out and be more welcoming to strangers.

struggle4progress

(118,291 posts)
46. No. You're not alone. Plenty of folk, who are obviously at home, just don't answer the door
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 09:46 PM
Oct 2013

Some streets may be less dangerous than people think. I've had lots of folk tell me to be careful, in circumstances where I met no one on the street -- and in circumstances where everyone I met on the street was incredibly friendly

last1standing

(11,709 posts)
48. I walk the streets of Detroit at night quite often and have never had a problem.
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 09:49 PM
Oct 2013

That doesn't mean it's safe, only that I haven't had a problem.

I hope you have others with you when you canvass.

oneshooter

(8,614 posts)
37. I would be somewhat upset.
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 09:27 PM
Oct 2013

After all you would have to either climb over my locked gate or climb through or over a five strand barbed wire fence. Then walk a hundred yards or so the the house. You would be met at the door by a somewhat upset man with a gun and his equally upset wife, also armed Loving Wife. Of course she would be inside the house with her shotgun, while I would be behind you with a 45.

struggle4progress

(118,291 posts)
42. I encountered a house with a locked gate yesterday here in the city
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 09:42 PM
Oct 2013

That's an explicit "KEEP OUT" even when there's no sign saying so, and I expect entry under such circumstances would be clear trespassing -- and easily prosecutable as that

So I don't hop locked gates

oneshooter

(8,614 posts)
100. There is a telephone at the gate, and a video camera in a tree.
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 10:09 AM
Oct 2013

All you have to do is call the house, the phone is hardwired, ID yourself, and state your business. If the answer is no then hang up the phone, wave, and be on your way. If it is yes, then I, or my Loving Wife will unlock the gate. LE and local VFD have keys.

 

oldhippie

(3,249 posts)
44. That's pretty much the way it would go at my house also .....
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 09:43 PM
Oct 2013

Nobody knocks on my door after dark (nor pretty much any other time.) When I do answer the door, I am armed. If it is after dark, my wife will be inside around the corner with either the shotgun or the sort barrel AR.

We don't cotton to strangers in my 'hood.

No, we don't get trick or treaters either.

Fumesucker

(45,851 posts)
53. Oh hi, always happy to meet another animal lover!
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 09:54 PM
Oct 2013

You certainly are if you got past our greeting committee after dark.

REP

(21,691 posts)
54. If I'm not alone and you identify as supporting a Democrat, Welcome!
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 09:57 PM
Oct 2013

We'll probably offer you something to drink after telling you we vote a straight D ticket

struggle4progress

(118,291 posts)
60. This is a "non-partisan" municipal election, and the top two vote-getters in each primary slot
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 10:12 PM
Oct 2013

face off as the two ballot candidates for that slot in the real election, so there aren't any D/R labels on the ballot

And IIRC all the candidates in this one call themselves Dems anyway

In any case, for now there's no more Straight Ticket voting in NC: our Tea Pot legislature killed it

mnhtnbb

(31,392 posts)
67. I don't care what time of day it is--my reaction is the same
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 10:35 PM
Oct 2013

I do not encourage anyone to come knocking on my door
and I tell them so. I do not accept any materials.
I'm polite, but firm. Don't come back.

struggle4progress

(118,291 posts)
69. If you say you don't want us knocking your door, I'll make every effort to get your name off my list
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 11:15 PM
Oct 2013

A few people tell me this, now and again: I'd guess I've heard it three or four times in thousands and thousands of knocks

Blue_In_AK

(46,436 posts)
135. Yes, that's the way it is.
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 06:23 PM
Oct 2013

We have kids playing in the street at 11:30 p.m. It never gets completely dark around solstice. Winter is another matter. It gets light, but the sun is only about a foot above the southern horizon at high noon.

LWolf

(46,179 posts)
70. With shock
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 11:21 PM
Oct 2013

that you were able to:

1. Find my road
2. Find my driveway
3. Make it all the way down the driveway in the deep, total dark
4. Open the gate without an invitation and step, in the dark, into the rosebush growing too close to the gate and blocking the way through with long, thorny canes
5. Negotiate the steps up the deck in the dark
6. Get past the dog, who should have delightedly pushed you back at the gate, barking hysterically
7. Think that I live as inaccessibly as I do because I somehow want strangers to knock on my door EVER, let alone after dark
8. Find your way back to wherever you left your car after I said, "no thanks"
9. Find your way back down the private dirt road onto the county graveled road and finally back onto the little rural highway in the dark, when there are no street lights for many, many miles
10. Keep reading this

struggle4progress

(118,291 posts)
73. If your place is that hard to find, you're not on my walklist: I have a limit to how much time
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 11:56 PM
Oct 2013

I'm willing to spent on average per door, and it's not that many minutes

LWolf

(46,179 posts)
96. It is that hard.
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 08:13 AM
Oct 2013

On purpose. Not just because I like my solitude, although I do.

When I bought it 9 years ago, we moved my very small grandson here for physical and social/emotional rehabilitation after finally getting him permanently away from his abusive mother. Wed had one very traumatic snatching attempt already. I knew she wouldn't be able to find the place.

She couldn't find it. The Witnesses can, though, and do make the attempt every couple of years.

Skip Intro

(19,768 posts)
71. I tell you to get the hell off my property,
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 11:24 PM
Oct 2013

and don't come back.

If you're smart, you'll do just that.

What kind of idiot goes to a stranger's house after dark? I don't want to see you during the day either, but at night? That's a stupid and dangerous thing to do, imho.

struggle4progress

(118,291 posts)
72. If I'm going thru a walklist, I'm going to try to break at a natural spot: I'd rather finish a page,
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 11:54 PM
Oct 2013

or a city block, and I'd rather not have to come back tomorrow for just two or three doors

So if I'm walking your street as the sun is going down, the streetlamps may light before I quit

Exactly how stupid any person thinks that is, could depend on how important the person thinks elections are

Skip Intro

(19,768 posts)
75. It doesn't revolve around what you want
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 12:00 AM
Oct 2013

when you're on other people's private property.

It isn't about what is convenient for you.

I'd encourage you to adjust your efforts so that you're not knocking on people's doors after dark.

Skip Intro

(19,768 posts)
138. I don't want to argue the point with you. However,
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 08:23 PM
Oct 2013

you asked for opinions and you got them.

I am glad that you believe in something so much that you'd devote your time, effort, and I'm sure money to it. But that is all beside the point.

Many people, myself included, view their homes as a sanctuary from the outside world. Most of us work, or are busy trying to find work, and are deluged with ads and scams and people trying to sell us something, etc. It is incessant.

When we finally make it home and settle down for the evening, able to carve out some personal time for ourselves and our families after a long day, the last thing we want is someone intruding on that.

As I said before, I don't want uninvited people coming by my house period, day or night. I view them as telemarketers in person. If you want to influence my vote (or talk to me about God, or my windshield on my car, or my roof, or some magazine subscriptions you need to have some trip to Hawaii), send me a letter. I'll read it, or not, and reply, or not, at my discretion.

Intruding into my personal space, my property, my home, especially after dark, is not the way to go and could be dangerous as well.

Ron Green

(9,822 posts)
76. What a sad thread.
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 12:12 AM
Oct 2013

One year ago I was doing the last few hundred of six thousand doors i knocked on during my campaign for State Representative. It's a mostly Republican and TP district, with quite a bit of low information, general apathy and mistrust of the electoral process.

And yet I really found no more "Get out of here" sentiment, even at dusk or after, than I've read on this sad thread.

struggle4progress

(118,291 posts)
79. I might be able to count on one hand the number of times I've been told in years of door-knocking
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 12:24 AM
Oct 2013

"Get out of here!"

If people don't want to talk, they won't talk: they'll refuse to answer the door, or they'll politely say they don't have time to talk

But I'll chuckle a bit remembering some of them, because regularly folk, who tell me they don't have time to talk, end up talking to me much longer than I expect

There's no substitute for actually meeting with real people in real life: it's just not the same as chatting on a message board

struggle4progress

(118,291 posts)
149. In my years of doing this, I've only heard people mention guns two or three times -- and always
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 10:09 PM
Oct 2013

it's because the person is a single-issue second-amendment voter, who wants to know my candidate's stand on right-to-bear-arms

People are sometimes shot by householders when going door-to-door but it's pretty rare: it looks to me like it happens about once a year, usually to a sales-person who meets a crazy

The number of full-time door-to-door sales-folk is over a million; and with part-timers, the figure is around 16 million. So it's really less than a one-in-a-million for the person doing doo-to-door sales, whereas the overall US death rate is around 800 per 100K per year

I guess somebody could shoot for knocking their door. But since I only do this a few hours a day during campaign season, I'm at least a hundred thousand times more likely to die of something else

struggle4progress

(118,291 posts)
155. It's an internet message board. All manner of persons post here with all manner of motives
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 11:16 PM
Oct 2013

Over my years here, I've encountered people whom I considered brilliant and people whom I considered clueless, serious conversations and trolls merely trying to provoke reactions, some emotionally mature and some stuck playing adolescent games, gregarious folk and loners, the balanced and the unbalanced. Sometimes the very same person strikes me in entirely different ways at different times

And, of course, we all have our funny little quirks

In real life, some people are delighted to see me at their door, and others aren't. Some people who post at DU are who they say they are, and others aren't

There's no way for me to know what's going on with everybody

frazzled

(18,402 posts)
78. That you're not working in an official capacity for a campaign
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 12:20 AM
Oct 2013

Or at least not a well-organized campaign. I've done a ton of canvassing over the years, in several different states. And we've always had to return to the campaign office before dark and turn in all canvassing sheets.

Also, it is generally recommended that you canvas in pairs, never alone.

Canvassing after dark is plain dangerous, and it would alienate more people than it would garner.

Finally, if you're just literature-dropping, you don't knock on doors at all. You leave it. (Though in some localities you may not leave it in a mailbox.)

Hey people: don't they do election training anymore?

struggle4progress

(118,291 posts)
80. I'm an unpaid volunteer. But I've done this for years for some well-organized campaigns.
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 12:44 AM
Oct 2013

When I've sent out other volunteers in past campaigns, I've sent them out in pairs, unless they really know what they're doing and voluntarily went alone: pairing's a good practice, and for some areas or some volunteers it can be important

Whether canvassing after dark alienates more people than it motivates really depends on the list being used, of course: for many of the lists I've used, your claim simply isn't true -- though the possibility always merits careful consideration

In some past years, I've had people absolutely delighted to see me an hour and a half after sunset. Currently, I'm knocking off in the dusk

The folk for whom I'm volunteering have good campaign backgrounds, and some I first worked with years ago. For these lists, we want the actual personal contact (not just the lit under the doormat) when we can get it



ucrdem

(15,512 posts)
145. Election day is Nov. 5 and it gets dark early in November.
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 09:43 PM
Oct 2013

In my town the whole city council is being recalled, the guy I voted for via absentee ballot for mayor resigned this afternoon after revealing he's under FBI investigation for accepting bribes, and I don't like any of the 10 remaining candidates.



So I'd appreciate any help I can get frankly, after dark or no.

JDPriestly

(57,936 posts)
81. If you are a Democrat, which you are bound to be in my neighborhood, I thank you for
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 01:50 AM
Oct 2013

being out there, wish you luck, talk politics a few minutes and maybe even invite you in.

Republicans don't waste their time knocking on doors in my neighborhood. And besides, most of the Republicans in my neighborhood are far too old (they are really, really from another era. Most of the Republicans in my neighborhood died some years ago.) to be walking around at night.

ohheckyeah

(9,314 posts)
82. I live rural, so if someone I don't know
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 01:52 AM
Oct 2013

knocks on my door, especially after dark and I'm by myself, I wouldn't answer.

struggle4progress

(118,291 posts)
83. Your neighborhood is probably too sparse for me. I want to be able to park on the road,
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 02:17 AM
Oct 2013

not in your driveway; I want to be able to walk to your door from the road in under half a minute; and I want to be able to knock more than fifteen doors an hour

In rural areas, figuring out house numbers, finding a safe place to park on the road near the house, getting up to the house, ringing the bell, waiting for answer, getting back to the car, and finding the next house will generally get me under ten doors an hour, without any conversations at all

ohheckyeah

(9,314 posts)
87. I'm sure you are correct.
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 02:27 AM
Oct 2013

I've never had anyone with a campaign knock on my door. I seldom have anybody knock on my door. Family and friends come to the back door or through the garage.

Douglas Carpenter

(20,226 posts)
86. What do you get when you cross a Jehovah's Witness with a Hell's Angel?
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 02:26 AM
Oct 2013
Somebody who comes to your door on Saturday morning, wakes you up and then tells YOU to fuck off.

I'm not sure if this is a comparable situation or not - but for some reason that question reminded me of that joke.

struggle4progress

(118,291 posts)
113. What a great idea! I drive onto the lawn on my chopper, bang the door, and tell them
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 02:46 PM
Oct 2013

they'll go straight to hell if they don't vote my way!

steve2470

(37,457 posts)
88. I really have to commend you for what you're doing
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 02:33 AM
Oct 2013

I've never done door to door canvassing and I'm not sure when I will. I'm sure I'm like the vast majority of people, although DU probably has a very high percentage of canvassers.

As long as you "look OK" after dark, I might open the door to see what you want. Call me old fashioned but I'd give you points for wearing a tie/business attire, looking neat and clean, and having some organization about you. I'd do my best to be polite.

Keep up the good work.

struggle4progress

(118,291 posts)
114. For many of my efforts, I'll get better responses by "dressing down"
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 02:52 PM
Oct 2013

I'll be neat and clean, but I won't be wearing a tie

LeftyMom

(49,212 posts)
89. I don't answer the door for strangers after dark.
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 02:34 AM
Oct 2013

You should be more considerate of other peope with different experiences and different safety concerns.

struggle4progress

(118,291 posts)
110. I do what I can to be considerate. Different people are different. I don't know them all,
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 02:40 PM
Oct 2013

and I can't determine who somebody might be, given their name on a list

Some people are glad to see me. Some people have questions about issues or the mechanics of elections. Some people agree with me; some don't. Sometimes I ask for a deceased person

I don't get anything done, that I want done, knocking the door of somebody who doesn't want the door knocked, so if you don't want your name on my list, just tell me: I'll do my best to get it removed. So far this election season, about 500 knocks has produced one (1) person who asked me to take their name off my list

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
90. I tell political and religious people "thanks but I'm fine"
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 02:35 AM
Oct 2013

Usually followed by a request to take me off their mailing/calling list. Those are areas of my life that I prefer to keep private.

Jamastiene

(38,187 posts)
93. Unless you like to be barked and growled at and surrounded by super protective dogs
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 04:46 AM
Oct 2013

who mean business, dogs who belong to my neighbors across the street and each side of me, but love me like I am their own family, then see lights going on all over the neighborhood, then hear the sound of shotguns being cocked from those houses, and one neighbor who uses 50 caliber bullets (why he has those I don't know, don't care, and didn't ask*) and know you are in their crosshairs, then possibly get to talk to some police if they can get here before the neighbors get too freaked out and shoot you first, don't. Just don't.

*My neighbors will not hesitate to shoot first and ask questions later if they see you as a threat. When we first moved here, someone was trying to peak into my aunt's bedroom window. We called the police, then the neighbors to be on the lookout. After that, in about a minute, we heard loud shots. The peeping tom left, in a hurry. About five minutes later, the police arrived and followed his footsteps. The next morning, I found their footprints heading away from the house and some 50 caliber shells at the edge of my neighbor's property. My neighbor was outside doing some work in his yard that night. He always does yard work at night because of his work schedule and the heat. He took care of the peeping tom and went right back to his yard work with no fanfare. It turns out I didn't need to even call the police. They didn't do anything but follow the footsteps out of the yard then say the peeping tom was gone, then left. The neighbor had it all taken care of a full three to four minutes before the police even got there. We never had another peeping tom again.

If you know what is good for you, don't visit my neighborhood after dark, for your own safety.

Hekate

(90,714 posts)
95. After determining that you are not selling something (easy what with the campaign lit & buttons)...
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 05:13 AM
Oct 2013

... I will thank you for being the door to door volunteer I no longer am. I will take your literature unless I have already picked it up from the Dem card table at the farmer's market. If it turns out that you are the actual candidate I will ask a few pertinent questions, see if we know the same people, but not hold you up. I will try to lift your spirits.

Look, we had a thread not so long ago where a couple of people let it be known that they went out of their way to give all precinct walkers sheer hell. The lowliest signature gatherers were to be grilled over a slow fire on the front porch.

I'm a Dem. I want Dems to win. During the primary campaign I want to distinguish among people competing for the same office, but during the general election I want to know one thing: Is the candidate a Democrat? If they want to be a Green fine, as long as they register as and run as a Democrat. In the case of Democratic incumbents, if someone wants to primary them that person better walk on water and have a better reason than "I didn't get my pony last time." The incumbent Dem the challenger wants to unseat better be corrupt past hope and/or visibly senile, because I sure as hell don't want to risk an otherwise safe seat and all the seniority that goes with it.

I am getting old and cranky as hell, and I have no patience left for people who want to suppress the vote, split the party, toss Blue Dogs out of Red districts, and otherwise cause the Democratic Party to continue to be a minority in the US House of Representatives and lose more governorships to outright fascists. We can work with Green Dems on common ground; we can work with Blue Dogs who contribute to our having a majority, which means we get to choose the Speaker of the House; we can work with just about anybody with a D after their name, but we can't work with the lunatic fringe of the GOP or the radical right wing of the GOP. Republican centrists and pragmatists and those who know the art of compromise are hiding under a rock these days, hiding from the monsters they created or ignored too long. I will not stand for risking the GOP gaining more power just so some on the left can feel self-righteous and pure. Stand with us and help or get out of the way.

>ahem< >cough<

Have a nice day! (because we seem to get our precinct walkers mostly during the day on weekends, not at night)

Hekate

struggle4progress

(118,291 posts)
108. I encounter somebody unpleasant now and then. It's rare, and it's impossible to decide
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 02:21 PM
Oct 2013

in an instant whether this is a real jerk or just somebody who's grumpy after having had a rough day. There's no upside to responding in kind: it's not my house, so I make every effort to scoot pleasantly

Sometimes I'll be left with an impression the person had hoped for more of a reaction from me, than I gave, and is a bit at a loss when I just apologize for the intrusion while heading away

Democracy's not a spectator sport. Folk who want progressive government should do what they can to get such government. We can't beat the voter suppression efforts without counter-efforts of our own -- and that requires voter contact

struggle4progress

(118,291 posts)
118. Might could be yer disappointed, according to what yer hopin t'find
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 03:07 PM
Oct 2013

I offer a few glossy campaign prints and, if you need it, an early voting schedule off my clipboard

MineralMan

(146,317 posts)
99. Your question is why I do all my canvassing on weekends,
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 09:09 AM
Oct 2013

during the day. I don't like door knocks after dark, so I don't knock on doors after dark.

PATRICK

(12,228 posts)
102. That raises a question
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 10:24 AM
Oct 2013

Most canvassing that drops lit does it by day so people coming back and getting their mail will naturally collect it. Night is reserved for phone calling when presumably most people, those with landlines enumerated on poll information, are available. That may be because of my own experience. Bolder folk who knock on doors, I don't know their hours and the poll info and Union membership usually directs them to GOTV efforts not debating the other side(time wasted even if one vote is turned?).

In my experience people are unusually polite considering. The hot button people usually have one issue they fortress behind. The experience of GOP workers would be interesting, probably similar, with reversed hot button experience.

The whackos of course will never give up fear and hate as their personal norm, their projection. I'd rather be visited by one of the Xian nut groups who don't intend much real world harm and whose underlying supposition that they are trolling the damned doesn't always create overt bad manners.

I can assume that people who talk like this about guns will produce the odd one or two who will carry guns in hostile(the majority) neighborhoods. This should make answering the door at all in some states a further act of courage.

shanti

(21,675 posts)
105. I don't open my door after dark
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 01:14 PM
Oct 2013

unless it's family. I also have a 'no soliciting' sign near the door. It works sometimes...

struggle4progress

(118,291 posts)
122. Some states or municipalities might have solicitation laws or ordinances that apply
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 03:18 PM
Oct 2013

to electioneering

We don't, and plenty of people with 'no soliciting' signs spend time chatting with me

mulsh

(2,959 posts)
109. I don't answer knocks on my door when it gets dark outside.
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 02:34 PM
Oct 2013

I rarely answer knocks at my door during the day. All of the folk I want to see or talk to always call before coming over.

That's how I can tell not to answer the door.

TBF

(32,064 posts)
112. My dog is nearly 100 lbs - good luck.
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 02:45 PM
Oct 2013

j/k ... I only let him answer when I can see them carrying Watchtower magazines ...

I have actually gone door to door around here for Obama but definitely not after dark. It's a major city and a lot of folks in Texas have guns. I'm just not that stupid.

struggle4progress

(118,291 posts)
119. My usual concern about dogs is that I don't let them out
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 03:11 PM
Oct 2013

A few days ago, there was a friendly little yapper in a fenced yard

I would have had to open the gate to get to the house

I decided there was a risk he'd run out and on down the street, so I skipped the address

TBF

(32,064 posts)
132. We only have fenced back yards here -
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 05:45 PM
Oct 2013

so we are lucky in that regard. Except when the gardening service comes at an off time and opens the side door - then all hell breaks lose as my crazy labs chase them back to the street.

I really had no trouble when I campaigned in this area for Obama.

librechik

(30,674 posts)
116. one of these guys knocked on my door so hard that I had palpitations
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 02:53 PM
Oct 2013

and quickly concealed all my pot materials, even though it's perfectly legal here! Gaaa!

 

SheilaT

(23,156 posts)
129. Do not knock on a door with election materials in hand
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 03:47 PM
Oct 2013

after dark. Period. Don't do it, unless the door you're knocking on is actually that of a close personal friend.

When I ran for office in 2004, I discovered that doing door-to-door in the middle of the day was surprisingly productive. Stay at home moms were home, especially the week immediately before the start of school. Shift workers were home also, and appreciated the attention.

If you live in a city that is paying close attention to their NFL team, do NOT interrupt the game.

Yes, early sunset sucks, and definitely cuts into your campaigning, but do not knock on doors after dark.

struggle4progress

(118,291 posts)
142. Yeah, by the end of the month, sunset here will be 6:15 PM, and when Daylight Savings Time ends
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 09:12 PM
Oct 2013

it'll jump back to 5:15 PM

MadrasT

(7,237 posts)
136. I do not answer the door to unexpected unknown visitors.
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 06:32 PM
Oct 2013

Ever.

I vote in every election. Primaries included.

 

noamnety

(20,234 posts)
137. I think it's incredibly rude to intrude in people's lives
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 07:00 PM
Oct 2013

regardless of the position of the sun.

Daylight or not, you don't know if the person there is working a graveyard shift, and you just did the equivalent of waking a person with regular hours at 3am.

You don't know if the person just spent an hour trying to get a crying baby to sleep and is almost in tears in frustration - and your knock or bell ringing just woke the baby up again. (This happened to me with Jehovah's witnesses several times, and decades later I am still resentful.)

You don't know if you are intruding on someone who is ill or injured, who is in physical pain trying to get to the door.

You don't know if the homeowners are in the middle of a discussion about something serious, or tragic - or if they have social anxiety issues, or if a stranger at their door is going to trigger a PTSD issue.

There are just too many ifs to be assuming it's okay to interrupt people in their private space at your convenience to get something you want from them when they haven't solicited your opinion or advice.

struggle4progress

(118,291 posts)
140. Folk who don't want their doors knocked can always put a Keep Out sign at the lot edge, or
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 09:03 PM
Oct 2013

a Baby Sleeping or Do Not Knock sign on the door, or they can fence the yard and lock the gate

You'd find that an effective way to communicate with people (like me) who don't believe in ESP and so don't decide whether or not to knock the door by trying to tune into whatever thoughts the occupant might be trying to mind-beam to others on the street

I encounter such written notices from time to time, and then I always respect the intent

 

noamnety

(20,234 posts)
148. I view the ESP this way:
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 10:03 PM
Oct 2013

You recognize you don't have ESP. Part of that is recognizing that you don't know if there's going to be a problem with you intruding on a household uninvited. It seems like the burden should be on the intruder to not assume it's okay to interrupt whatever is happening in the house at any given time.

People shouldn't have to spend thousands of dollars on fencing because others can't respect basic boundaries, and they shouldn't have to plaster signs around that will keep someone like the UPS guy from knocking to let me know a package has arrived.

I find it's always safer to assume people don't want strangers knocking at their door at random times, regardless of their own issues or schedules or illnesses, etc.

struggle4progress

(118,291 posts)
154. Or -- since a number of people I spoke with this week were glad to see me, asked questions
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 11:01 PM
Oct 2013

about ballot mechanics and the early voting schedule, or wanted yard signs, and thanked me for dropping by -- I could conclude that I am actually providing a useful and appreciated service to many of my fellow citizens, that I was engaged in an civic duty essential to the functioning of our democracy, and that I was exercising fundamental free speech rights upheld repeatedly by the courts

And I could say -- again -- that if you do not want persons, like myself, to knock your door, then I feel sure you will be able to find some effective method for notifying us of that fact in advance, since most of us certainly won't bother with you if we can determine in advance that you prefer for us not to

 

noamnety

(20,234 posts)
156. I'm not debating free speech rights
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 11:21 PM
Oct 2013

or whether your actions are legal.

It's sounds from your other comments ("A lot of folk, who are obviously home, don't answer their doors even in broad daylight&quot that although most of the people who DO come to the door seem to want to talk, you are also aware that many people find it annoying, threatening or otherwise at least disruptive.

A sample of the reactions of people who go out of their way to answer the door isn't a very scientific study of the overall effect you are having on people. I'm just saying that it's possible the bad outweighs the good, and you aren't aware of the bad (which can sometimes have lingering effects that last hours) because those people aren't answering the door.

It's sort of like smokers in restaurants back in the day when that was allowed. Their perception is that they've followed the rules by sitting in the smoking area, and nobody complained. They go about their day completely oblivious to the fact that they may have triggered a migraine in someone who then went home and was puking repetitively all night because of that migraine. All the smoker sees is that they "followed the rules" - and heck, maybe even did a good deed by letting someone at the next table bum a cigarette off them, which totally made that person's night.

Sometimes things which are legal and benefit some people have other negative effects on other people which we prefer (understandably) to disregard or be in denial about.

struggle4progress

(118,291 posts)
159. I'm pretty sure almost everybody recovers quickly from whatever trauma I inflict
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 11:45 PM
Oct 2013

You don't answer your door, then I don't knock again: I walk away within a minute, so my time on your lot is entirely de minimis



 

noamnety

(20,234 posts)
161. I understand your view is that it's a one minute interruption.
Sat Oct 19, 2013, 08:42 AM
Oct 2013

As I mentioned in another post, just because YOUR experience is done in one minute, doesn't mean the other person's experience is over in a minute. When the jehovah's witnesses were harassing me, their experience was over in 60 seconds. Mine was just beginning.

You should be able to put yourself in the other person's shoes, and not just see it from your own perspective. It's clear I'm not alone in having experiences where my aftermath last way the hell longer than the door peron's - and this is what you'd expect anytime one person is doing something to another through free will and at their own convenience, without the other's consent. http://www.democraticunderground.com/123014613#post4

If you ever have insomnia, or have a sick child who is in pain and takes hours to get to sleep - when you are running on 4 or 5 hours of sleep a night and have to be up early the next day for work, feel free to send me your phone number so I can call you at 3am, so you can run the next day on 2 hours sleep instead of 5. My experience calling you will be over in a minute, and your aftermath will last much longer, right?

Douglas Carpenter

(20,226 posts)
144. the fundamental roots of grassroots democracy is going door to door - that is the historic method of
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 09:40 PM
Oct 2013

how candidates - especially those without big budget have always campaigned. It's how people like George McGovern back in the 50's built the Democratic Party of South Dakota out of nothing when there were only two elected Democrats in the entire state legislature and then used the same retail door to door politics to get himself elected to the U.S. Congress and the U.S. Senate. If you were running for city council or state legislature or whatever - that is how you get word around - along with other means of personal contact.

Perhaps people have gotten more paranoid in recent years and part of it might be for good reason. But going door to door has always been the way those who have something to sell, a message to spread or a campaign to promote have always done it since time immemorial. Maybe there are reason why this tradition is less common than it used to be - but this decline is a decline of an ancient tradition and way of life.

 

noamnety

(20,234 posts)
147. Yes, it's a decline of ancient tradition and family values
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 09:55 PM
Oct 2013

and I am sure bill oreilly would be all over my ass for being a single mom for part of my life, commuting an hour each way for work and struggling to hold it together.

None the less, it's reasonable to assume nowadays that many households are not filled with extended families helping with all the loose ends like they used to be, and that the residents are already stretched to their limits, and many of those single parents can barely find time to pee, let alone deal with uninvited visitors making demands on their time.

Fortunately, other things have also changed since ancient times, like we have printing presses so we can just leave cheap printed material on people's doors so they can read it at a time that works for them. We have the internet for communication also.

And yet with all the new nonintrusive ways to communicate, people have been becoming increasingly MORE intrusive. We had one day last week when we had political people calling us - we had some spans of time where we got more than one call every 5 minutes. It's fucking impossible to sleep during the day unless you unplug the phone - which you don't always want to do in case your kid's school calls - and even if you do, then people are knocking on the door. You would think a no solicitors sign would be clear enough, but we got people playing semantics with that also and interpreting it as we still want random strangers interrupting us, so long as they are soliciting for votes or donations instead of selling a physical product.

Douglas Carpenter

(20,226 posts)
150. I work nights too- quite frequently - if one must not be disturbed - I have at times used a "do not
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 10:17 PM
Oct 2013

disturb sign" - Last week - I had a knock on my door, fortunately, I had already woken up and it was about time I get up anyway and get ready for work - I thought it was probably the manger for the place I was renting - but it turned out to be a couple of fine young gentleman from Utah who were on a mission. I suppose I could have been annoyed - but noticing that I am no spring chicken - they graciously asked if there was any help they could offer - like errands I need running or help around the house I could use - what can I say? - I thanked them - but always striving for self-sufficiency - I said that everything was okay but I appreciate their offer. Besides they were just so cute and so eager - how could I possibly be annoyed? Yeah, I don't want people bothering me when I need some sleep before I go to work - That's when I would use a "Do not disturb" sign - I can't stand the robo-calls and telemarketers - but a simple knock on the door every now and then is quite okay with me - whatever the reason - whatever the cause - maybe I'm getting old and lonely and just appreciate a few minutes of company - every now and then

 

noamnety

(20,234 posts)
151. that whole thing is probably perceived differently by men.
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 10:23 PM
Oct 2013

a couple of young men offering to come into my house to "help" would be perceived as a threat here.

I don't answer the door, so I wouldn't have found out if they were nagging for votes or my soul. Just so that's clear - I'm not going to the door and being rude or abusive or anything. I just don't feel obligated to have a conversation with people I don't want to talk to at my own house.

Ino

(3,366 posts)
158. After dark, I would not answer the door. I'd be very alarmed.
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 11:36 PM
Oct 2013

Before dark, I'd listen, take your literature, thank you.

Unless your candidate is a Repuke, then I'd sneer and tell you to get the hell off my property.

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