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Well, I won't vote for any of these jerks. But I admire your hard work anyway | |
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This is so exciting! I love voting! How many times can I vote? | |
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I gotta ten minute rant ready on how I really don't got time to talk right now | |
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When you ask for me by name, I'll just say "I'm not home!" | |
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Oh, c'mon, dude! I voted last year, I think. Mebbe it was the year before ... | |
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I take your lit. I look at it and hand it back to you. Then I decide I want it after all | |
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Shizz! Turn off the music! Hide the stash! Turn out the lights! | |
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Hey, look! It's Straggles! Come on in, buddy! Kick off yer shoes! How's bout a beer anna sammitch? | |
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Anybody's on my porch after dark, I shoot first, ask questions after | |
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Tx4obama
(36,974 posts)N.J. GOPer: If My Rival Comes To Your Door, 'Get Your Gun'
http://www.democraticunderground.com/1014623679
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)and encounter an only-issue-is-guns dude. I just try to have a pleasant chat. The last one ended well, but it was a while ago
CaliforniaPeggy
(149,629 posts)It's spooky.
Luckily, we have an intercom, and I tell whoever it is to politely go away.
And then they do.
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)folk often don't open the door to me even in broad daylight
Jenoch
(7,720 posts).
CaliforniaPeggy
(149,629 posts)We love Halloween.
yuiyoshida
(41,831 posts)First you would have to break into the garage..than fumble around in the dark...and hope you can find the door.
Seriously! Why do you think I have a compass on my watch?
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)yuiyoshida
(41,831 posts)Stalker!!!
we can do it
(12,189 posts)After telling you about my earlier in the day canvassing efforts.
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)Sheldon Cooper
(3,724 posts)So don't do it. Please.
Wwagsthedog
(1,533 posts)winter is coming
(11,785 posts)struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)Myrina
(12,296 posts)n/t
Jamastiene
(38,187 posts)If they knock after dark, then wait a minute, then leave, no problem. If they knock and wait then knock again, I might start get irritated. If they knock and continue to linger and knock more after the first two attempts, and will not take a damn hint that I'm not comfortable opening to door to strangers after dark, I'll call the police to come see what they want, then get them the hell off my lawn.
If I find out they are representing a political party or candidate, I'm asking for their supervisor's contact info* so I can talk to their supervisor about it. I am all for GOTV efforts, but there is no reason to be damned creepy about it. There is a time and place for that type of thing and doing it after dark would be unnerving to a lot of people.
*I would do the same if they were representing any other group, i.e. salespeople, religious proselytizers, etc.
Warpy
(111,270 posts)Most door to door canvassing is done in September-October. By the end of October, sunset here is about 6 PM. Show up by 7, I'll answer the door. Show up at nine, I won't. Show up while the police helicopter is circling overhead, you're probably SOL. This is a bad enough area that a lot of bad guys bail and try to hide here.
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)WorseBeforeBetter
(11,441 posts)robberies, home invasions, etc. lately so I'd probably just talk to you through the locked storm door, and ask you to leave the materials on the porch. It is what it is.
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)NuclearDem
(16,184 posts)Most people I know are either asleep, having dinner, or otherwise unwinding when it's dark.
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)petronius
(26,602 posts)disappointment that you aren't the pizza deliverer.
But after that, I might be willing to chat a bit, especially if you're canvassing for a candidate or issue that I want to know more about...
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)my cost for the last month or so would be around $4500
DevonRex
(22,541 posts)JK. I don't hide the stash. I don't answer the door tho. Not unless I know you're coming with Girl Scout Cookies.
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)DevonRex
(22,541 posts)I thought I was going to have to disarm a guy with a knife that was selling oranges door to door. He got enraged when I said no after he cut one open with his dirty pocketknife. I decided the best way to go about it. Right then a police car pulled up. They carted him off.
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)kydo
(2,679 posts)the question is would you take it? I could be a serial killer and the beer could be laced with something or the sandwich deadly. Or I could be a really cool person that likes people that try to help people by doing what you are doing and just offered an awesome ice cold beer and big huge hoagie.
So do you feel lucky?
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)kydo
(2,679 posts)but that's ok last time I checked, I wasn't a serial killer. And while I probably wouldn't offer you a beer I would offer food and drink. I always offer a drink I'm in FL and it is hot. Well if you were working for a dem. But for baggers I tell them to get off my lawn or I'll shoot. And trust me you can tell the difference. And I don't have a gun but the dog parking usually makes them leave before calling my bluff.
enlightenment
(8,830 posts)You will be ignored.
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)enlightenment
(8,830 posts)When strangers come to my door, especially if they are carrying something, I assume they are there to sell me something. In your case, you're "selling" politics
As a woman, I will not respond to strangers ringing my bell after dark unless they identify themselves as police officers (in uniform) or are obviously in distress and in need of aid.
(If you thought I meant something else by soliciting, my apologies - I only meant it in the sense of selling a product).
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)And I suppose you can use the word "selling" as a metaphor, if you like, but I'm not actually selling anything: I never collect money or anything else from anybody; I'm not drumming up customers for any business
To my knowledge none of my state statutes or local ordinances consider my electioneering to be solicitation
If you put up a sign that says "KEEP OUT" at the edge of your property, I'll assume it applies to me, and I won't set foot on your lot
But if you have a sign that says "NO SOLICITING," I'll figure I'm not soliciting and I'll ring the doorbell anyway
enlightenment
(8,830 posts)I understand the need for electioneering, but since I do my own research and make up my mind on my own, I find it rather like "selling".
Quite honestly though, it's more about it being after dark and strangers at the door.
I wish you well - and I wish you safe electioneering. Be careful out there.
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)But people's perception of what's "dark" vary, and how dark it seems may depend on the weather
Yesterday was heavily overcast, so I quit around 6:45 as it began to seem darkish; today, there was a light intermittent drizzle, but it was less overcast so I knocked off when it started to seem dark around 7:00
enlightenment
(8,830 posts)Sounds like I need to wish you dry weather, too!
antiquie
(4,299 posts)struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)Jamastiene
(38,187 posts)The only difference is if they are in distress, I will talk to them through my locked closed door and offer to call the police for them to get them some help. Otherwise, I'm not inviting strangers into my home after dark or even unlocking the door when strangers enter my yard.
Strangers had better have a good reason to be in my yard after dark anyhow. My neighbors' dogs consider my yard and me their territory and family/pack member and will not let anyone get to me anyhow. I'm lucky I get deliveries from FedEx and UPS as protective as they are. I have to go out and reassure the dogs when it is FedEx or UPS. Otherwise, they would defend me to the death. Of that, I have no doubt. I always make friends with the animals in any neighborhood I live or even visit for any decent amount of time, especially neighbors' pets. I doubt anyone would make it to my door after dark without a big huge alert from my neighbors' dogs, lights all over the neighborhood coming on, shotguns getting cocked and ready, and several dogs barking and edging closer and closer to them the further inside the pack's "territory" the stranger stepped.
S4A, please never try to visit me after dark. Unless you like the sound of cocking shotguns, the sight of lights all over a neighborhood coming on, the sight of blue lights flashing and the sound of growling ferocious large dogs who mean business, it is probably not a good idea for your own safety. Also, the dogs will not stop barking for the rest of the night at every sound they hear if you unnerve them that way.
ProdigalJunkMail
(12,017 posts)or provide information to sway my opinion then, yes, you are.
(if this was meant to be a joke forgive my lack of humor-receptors before coffee...)
sP
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)doesn't match your usage
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)You're soliciting.
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)doesn't match your usage
Johnny Ready
(203 posts)now let's say it's 8:30pm no problem, I come outside and we talk as much as you would like. Now let's say it's 10:30pm here we have a completely different scenario. First I cut the lights "they" can't see in once the lights are off. Then I sneak out my Hal Capone gangster exit which then has me standing 12 ft behind you with a taser and cell phone. At that point my neighbors will have sent two family members over to see why I came out the Capone hatch. Seriously.
Lol of course I am exagerating a little but time is the biggest factor.
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)are getting ready to turn in by then
Niceguy1
(2,467 posts)To campaign volunteers...I do t want talking points and hype...I prefer to look for the info myself.
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)and they've got other things to do, so I've got about three points I can make, which I tailor to the situation. Much of what I would say is purely informational, and I try to leave ASAP when folk aren't interested in any of it
last1standing
(11,709 posts)I find it rather rude to canvass after dark whether it's for a candidate or girl scout cookies. If you don't find that others view it the same, then please carry on.
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)it doesn't seem to matter whether I'm knocking in broad daylight or at dusk. Usually those who don't want to talk with me just ignore the knock
But today, in broad daylight, I did have a woman tell me not to knock her door after dark
I don't remember ever knocking doors in her neighborhood before, and I'm quite sure I haven't knocked doors there in the last decade or so, so I don't know exactly why she was telling me that
I'd guess somebody knocked her door too late at night once in 2008 or 2010 or 2012
last1standing
(11,709 posts)My reasons for not liking it are twofold.
First, I believe that there has to be some time to call your own and during that time it's rude to intrude on someone you don't know somewhat. Again, as I seem to be the only one who thinks this, it's my own burden to bear.
Second, I think it's dangerous to walk many streets at night without company. While this isn't directly my problem, it is an indirect problem if something happens to you in my yard. It's sort of like those volunteers who stand in the street soliciting donations. If one of them steps in front of my car, it isn't my fault but it does affect me for life.
Yes, I know my second reason is stupid but it still bothers me.
TL;DR: last1standing is a cranky fool who needs to chill out and be more welcoming to strangers.
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)Some streets may be less dangerous than people think. I've had lots of folk tell me to be careful, in circumstances where I met no one on the street -- and in circumstances where everyone I met on the street was incredibly friendly
last1standing
(11,709 posts)That doesn't mean it's safe, only that I haven't had a problem.
I hope you have others with you when you canvass.
oneshooter
(8,614 posts)After all you would have to either climb over my locked gate or climb through or over a five strand barbed wire fence. Then walk a hundred yards or so the the house. You would be met at the door by a somewhat upset man with a gun and his equally upset wife, also armed Loving Wife. Of course she would be inside the house with her shotgun, while I would be behind you with a 45.
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)That's an explicit "KEEP OUT" even when there's no sign saying so, and I expect entry under such circumstances would be clear trespassing -- and easily prosecutable as that
So I don't hop locked gates
oneshooter
(8,614 posts)All you have to do is call the house, the phone is hardwired, ID yourself, and state your business. If the answer is no then hang up the phone, wave, and be on your way. If it is yes, then I, or my Loving Wife will unlock the gate. LE and local VFD have keys.
oldhippie
(3,249 posts)Nobody knocks on my door after dark (nor pretty much any other time.) When I do answer the door, I am armed. If it is after dark, my wife will be inside around the corner with either the shotgun or the sort barrel AR.
We don't cotton to strangers in my 'hood.
No, we don't get trick or treaters either.
pintobean
(18,101 posts)and let you deal with the rancor.
TeamPooka
(24,229 posts)struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)TeamPooka
(24,229 posts)rug
(82,333 posts)struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)rug
(82,333 posts)Agnosticsherbet
(11,619 posts)struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)Fumesucker
(45,851 posts)You certainly are if you got past our greeting committee after dark.
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)REP
(21,691 posts)We'll probably offer you something to drink after telling you we vote a straight D ticket
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)face off as the two ballot candidates for that slot in the real election, so there aren't any D/R labels on the ballot
And IIRC all the candidates in this one call themselves Dems anyway
In any case, for now there's no more Straight Ticket voting in NC: our Tea Pot legislature killed it
Brigid
(17,621 posts)Be warned.
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)Nye Bevan
(25,406 posts)struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)jberryhill
(62,444 posts)struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)jberryhill
(62,444 posts)mnhtnbb
(31,392 posts)I do not encourage anyone to come knocking on my door
and I tell them so. I do not accept any materials.
I'm polite, but firm. Don't come back.
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)A few people tell me this, now and again: I'd guess I've heard it three or four times in thousands and thousands of knocks
Blue_In_AK
(46,436 posts)No problem. Summer is another matter.
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)Blue_In_AK
(46,436 posts)We have kids playing in the street at 11:30 p.m. It never gets completely dark around solstice. Winter is another matter. It gets light, but the sun is only about a foot above the southern horizon at high noon.
LWolf
(46,179 posts)that you were able to:
1. Find my road
2. Find my driveway
3. Make it all the way down the driveway in the deep, total dark
4. Open the gate without an invitation and step, in the dark, into the rosebush growing too close to the gate and blocking the way through with long, thorny canes
5. Negotiate the steps up the deck in the dark
6. Get past the dog, who should have delightedly pushed you back at the gate, barking hysterically
7. Think that I live as inaccessibly as I do because I somehow want strangers to knock on my door EVER, let alone after dark
8. Find your way back to wherever you left your car after I said, "no thanks"
9. Find your way back down the private dirt road onto the county graveled road and finally back onto the little rural highway in the dark, when there are no street lights for many, many miles
10. Keep reading this
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)I'm willing to spent on average per door, and it's not that many minutes
LWolf
(46,179 posts)On purpose. Not just because I like my solitude, although I do.
When I bought it 9 years ago, we moved my very small grandson here for physical and social/emotional rehabilitation after finally getting him permanently away from his abusive mother. Wed had one very traumatic snatching attempt already. I knew she wouldn't be able to find the place.
She couldn't find it. The Witnesses can, though, and do make the attempt every couple of years.
Skip Intro
(19,768 posts)and don't come back.
If you're smart, you'll do just that.
What kind of idiot goes to a stranger's house after dark? I don't want to see you during the day either, but at night? That's a stupid and dangerous thing to do, imho.
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)or a city block, and I'd rather not have to come back tomorrow for just two or three doors
So if I'm walking your street as the sun is going down, the streetlamps may light before I quit
Exactly how stupid any person thinks that is, could depend on how important the person thinks elections are
Skip Intro
(19,768 posts)when you're on other people's private property.
It isn't about what is convenient for you.
I'd encourage you to adjust your efforts so that you're not knocking on people's doors after dark.
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)Skip Intro
(19,768 posts)you asked for opinions and you got them.
I am glad that you believe in something so much that you'd devote your time, effort, and I'm sure money to it. But that is all beside the point.
Many people, myself included, view their homes as a sanctuary from the outside world. Most of us work, or are busy trying to find work, and are deluged with ads and scams and people trying to sell us something, etc. It is incessant.
When we finally make it home and settle down for the evening, able to carve out some personal time for ourselves and our families after a long day, the last thing we want is someone intruding on that.
As I said before, I don't want uninvited people coming by my house period, day or night. I view them as telemarketers in person. If you want to influence my vote (or talk to me about God, or my windshield on my car, or my roof, or some magazine subscriptions you need to have some trip to Hawaii), send me a letter. I'll read it, or not, and reply, or not, at my discretion.
Intruding into my personal space, my property, my home, especially after dark, is not the way to go and could be dangerous as well.
Ron Green
(9,822 posts)One year ago I was doing the last few hundred of six thousand doors i knocked on during my campaign for State Representative. It's a mostly Republican and TP district, with quite a bit of low information, general apathy and mistrust of the electoral process.
And yet I really found no more "Get out of here" sentiment, even at dusk or after, than I've read on this sad thread.
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)"Get out of here!"
If people don't want to talk, they won't talk: they'll refuse to answer the door, or they'll politely say they don't have time to talk
But I'll chuckle a bit remembering some of them, because regularly folk, who tell me they don't have time to talk, end up talking to me much longer than I expect
There's no substitute for actually meeting with real people in real life: it's just not the same as chatting on a message board
dionysus
(26,467 posts)struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)it's because the person is a single-issue second-amendment voter, who wants to know my candidate's stand on right-to-bear-arms
People are sometimes shot by householders when going door-to-door but it's pretty rare: it looks to me like it happens about once a year, usually to a sales-person who meets a crazy
The number of full-time door-to-door sales-folk is over a million; and with part-timers, the figure is around 16 million. So it's really less than a one-in-a-million for the person doing doo-to-door sales, whereas the overall US death rate is around 800 per 100K per year
I guess somebody could shoot for knocking their door. But since I only do this a few hours a day during campaign season, I'm at least a hundred thousand times more likely to die of something else
Ron Green
(9,822 posts)struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)Over my years here, I've encountered people whom I considered brilliant and people whom I considered clueless, serious conversations and trolls merely trying to provoke reactions, some emotionally mature and some stuck playing adolescent games, gregarious folk and loners, the balanced and the unbalanced. Sometimes the very same person strikes me in entirely different ways at different times
And, of course, we all have our funny little quirks
In real life, some people are delighted to see me at their door, and others aren't. Some people who post at DU are who they say they are, and others aren't
There's no way for me to know what's going on with everybody
Deep13
(39,154 posts)frazzled
(18,402 posts)Or at least not a well-organized campaign. I've done a ton of canvassing over the years, in several different states. And we've always had to return to the campaign office before dark and turn in all canvassing sheets.
Also, it is generally recommended that you canvas in pairs, never alone.
Canvassing after dark is plain dangerous, and it would alienate more people than it would garner.
Finally, if you're just literature-dropping, you don't knock on doors at all. You leave it. (Though in some localities you may not leave it in a mailbox.)
Hey people: don't they do election training anymore?
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)When I've sent out other volunteers in past campaigns, I've sent them out in pairs, unless they really know what they're doing and voluntarily went alone: pairing's a good practice, and for some areas or some volunteers it can be important
Whether canvassing after dark alienates more people than it motivates really depends on the list being used, of course: for many of the lists I've used, your claim simply isn't true -- though the possibility always merits careful consideration
In some past years, I've had people absolutely delighted to see me an hour and a half after sunset. Currently, I'm knocking off in the dusk
The folk for whom I'm volunteering have good campaign backgrounds, and some I first worked with years ago. For these lists, we want the actual personal contact (not just the lit under the doormat) when we can get it
ucrdem
(15,512 posts)In my town the whole city council is being recalled, the guy I voted for via absentee ballot for mayor resigned this afternoon after revealing he's under FBI investigation for accepting bribes, and I don't like any of the 10 remaining candidates.
So I'd appreciate any help I can get frankly, after dark or no.
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)JDPriestly
(57,936 posts)being out there, wish you luck, talk politics a few minutes and maybe even invite you in.
Republicans don't waste their time knocking on doors in my neighborhood. And besides, most of the Republicans in my neighborhood are far too old (they are really, really from another era. Most of the Republicans in my neighborhood died some years ago.) to be walking around at night.
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)ohheckyeah
(9,314 posts)knocks on my door, especially after dark and I'm by myself, I wouldn't answer.
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)not in your driveway; I want to be able to walk to your door from the road in under half a minute; and I want to be able to knock more than fifteen doors an hour
In rural areas, figuring out house numbers, finding a safe place to park on the road near the house, getting up to the house, ringing the bell, waiting for answer, getting back to the car, and finding the next house will generally get me under ten doors an hour, without any conversations at all
ohheckyeah
(9,314 posts)I've never had anyone with a campaign knock on my door. I seldom have anybody knock on my door. Family and friends come to the back door or through the garage.
Douglas Carpenter
(20,226 posts)I'm not sure if this is a comparable situation or not - but for some reason that question reminded me of that joke.
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)they'll go straight to hell if they don't vote my way!
steve2470
(37,457 posts)I've never done door to door canvassing and I'm not sure when I will. I'm sure I'm like the vast majority of people, although DU probably has a very high percentage of canvassers.
As long as you "look OK" after dark, I might open the door to see what you want. Call me old fashioned but I'd give you points for wearing a tie/business attire, looking neat and clean, and having some organization about you. I'd do my best to be polite.
Keep up the good work.
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)I'll be neat and clean, but I won't be wearing a tie
LeftyMom
(49,212 posts)You should be more considerate of other peope with different experiences and different safety concerns.
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)and I can't determine who somebody might be, given their name on a list
Some people are glad to see me. Some people have questions about issues or the mechanics of elections. Some people agree with me; some don't. Sometimes I ask for a deceased person
I don't get anything done, that I want done, knocking the door of somebody who doesn't want the door knocked, so if you don't want your name on my list, just tell me: I'll do my best to get it removed. So far this election season, about 500 knocks has produced one (1) person who asked me to take their name off my list
LittleBlue
(10,362 posts)Usually followed by a request to take me off their mailing/calling list. Those are areas of my life that I prefer to keep private.
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)Jamastiene
(38,187 posts)who mean business, dogs who belong to my neighbors across the street and each side of me, but love me like I am their own family, then see lights going on all over the neighborhood, then hear the sound of shotguns being cocked from those houses, and one neighbor who uses 50 caliber bullets (why he has those I don't know, don't care, and didn't ask*) and know you are in their crosshairs, then possibly get to talk to some police if they can get here before the neighbors get too freaked out and shoot you first, don't. Just don't.
*My neighbors will not hesitate to shoot first and ask questions later if they see you as a threat. When we first moved here, someone was trying to peak into my aunt's bedroom window. We called the police, then the neighbors to be on the lookout. After that, in about a minute, we heard loud shots. The peeping tom left, in a hurry. About five minutes later, the police arrived and followed his footsteps. The next morning, I found their footprints heading away from the house and some 50 caliber shells at the edge of my neighbor's property. My neighbor was outside doing some work in his yard that night. He always does yard work at night because of his work schedule and the heat. He took care of the peeping tom and went right back to his yard work with no fanfare. It turns out I didn't need to even call the police. They didn't do anything but follow the footsteps out of the yard then say the peeping tom was gone, then left. The neighbor had it all taken care of a full three to four minutes before the police even got there. We never had another peeping tom again.
If you know what is good for you, don't visit my neighborhood after dark, for your own safety.
B Calm
(28,762 posts)struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)Hekate
(90,714 posts)... I will thank you for being the door to door volunteer I no longer am. I will take your literature unless I have already picked it up from the Dem card table at the farmer's market. If it turns out that you are the actual candidate I will ask a few pertinent questions, see if we know the same people, but not hold you up. I will try to lift your spirits.
Look, we had a thread not so long ago where a couple of people let it be known that they went out of their way to give all precinct walkers sheer hell. The lowliest signature gatherers were to be grilled over a slow fire on the front porch.
I'm a Dem. I want Dems to win. During the primary campaign I want to distinguish among people competing for the same office, but during the general election I want to know one thing: Is the candidate a Democrat? If they want to be a Green fine, as long as they register as and run as a Democrat. In the case of Democratic incumbents, if someone wants to primary them that person better walk on water and have a better reason than "I didn't get my pony last time." The incumbent Dem the challenger wants to unseat better be corrupt past hope and/or visibly senile, because I sure as hell don't want to risk an otherwise safe seat and all the seniority that goes with it.
I am getting old and cranky as hell, and I have no patience left for people who want to suppress the vote, split the party, toss Blue Dogs out of Red districts, and otherwise cause the Democratic Party to continue to be a minority in the US House of Representatives and lose more governorships to outright fascists. We can work with Green Dems on common ground; we can work with Blue Dogs who contribute to our having a majority, which means we get to choose the Speaker of the House; we can work with just about anybody with a D after their name, but we can't work with the lunatic fringe of the GOP or the radical right wing of the GOP. Republican centrists and pragmatists and those who know the art of compromise are hiding under a rock these days, hiding from the monsters they created or ignored too long. I will not stand for risking the GOP gaining more power just so some on the left can feel self-righteous and pure. Stand with us and help or get out of the way.
>ahem< >cough<
Have a nice day! (because we seem to get our precinct walkers mostly during the day on weekends, not at night)
Hekate
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)in an instant whether this is a real jerk or just somebody who's grumpy after having had a rough day. There's no upside to responding in kind: it's not my house, so I make every effort to scoot pleasantly
Sometimes I'll be left with an impression the person had hoped for more of a reaction from me, than I gave, and is a bit at a loss when I just apologize for the intrusion while heading away
Democracy's not a spectator sport. Folk who want progressive government should do what they can to get such government. We can't beat the voter suppression efforts without counter-efforts of our own -- and that requires voter contact
datasuspect
(26,591 posts)is this understood?
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)I offer a few glossy campaign prints and, if you need it, an early voting schedule off my clipboard
MineralMan
(146,317 posts)during the day. I don't like door knocks after dark, so I don't knock on doors after dark.
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)PATRICK
(12,228 posts)Most canvassing that drops lit does it by day so people coming back and getting their mail will naturally collect it. Night is reserved for phone calling when presumably most people, those with landlines enumerated on poll information, are available. That may be because of my own experience. Bolder folk who knock on doors, I don't know their hours and the poll info and Union membership usually directs them to GOTV efforts not debating the other side(time wasted even if one vote is turned?).
In my experience people are unusually polite considering. The hot button people usually have one issue they fortress behind. The experience of GOP workers would be interesting, probably similar, with reversed hot button experience.
The whackos of course will never give up fear and hate as their personal norm, their projection. I'd rather be visited by one of the Xian nut groups who don't intend much real world harm and whose underlying supposition that they are trolling the damned doesn't always create overt bad manners.
I can assume that people who talk like this about guns will produce the odd one or two who will carry guns in hostile(the majority) neighborhoods. This should make answering the door at all in some states a further act of courage.
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)shanti
(21,675 posts)unless it's family. I also have a 'no soliciting' sign near the door. It works sometimes...
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)to electioneering
We don't, and plenty of people with 'no soliciting' signs spend time chatting with me
mulsh
(2,959 posts)I rarely answer knocks at my door during the day. All of the folk I want to see or talk to always call before coming over.
That's how I can tell not to answer the door.
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)TBF
(32,064 posts)j/k ... I only let him answer when I can see them carrying Watchtower magazines ...
I have actually gone door to door around here for Obama but definitely not after dark. It's a major city and a lot of folks in Texas have guns. I'm just not that stupid.
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)A few days ago, there was a friendly little yapper in a fenced yard
I would have had to open the gate to get to the house
I decided there was a risk he'd run out and on down the street, so I skipped the address
TBF
(32,064 posts)so we are lucky in that regard. Except when the gardening service comes at an off time and opens the side door - then all hell breaks lose as my crazy labs chase them back to the street.
I really had no trouble when I campaigned in this area for Obama.
librechik
(30,674 posts)and quickly concealed all my pot materials, even though it's perfectly legal here! Gaaa!
bigwillq
(72,790 posts)Leave me alone.
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)bigwillq
(72,790 posts)With nothing on but a towel! Enjoy that contact!
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)SheilaT
(23,156 posts)after dark. Period. Don't do it, unless the door you're knocking on is actually that of a close personal friend.
When I ran for office in 2004, I discovered that doing door-to-door in the middle of the day was surprisingly productive. Stay at home moms were home, especially the week immediately before the start of school. Shift workers were home also, and appreciated the attention.
If you live in a city that is paying close attention to their NFL team, do NOT interrupt the game.
Yes, early sunset sucks, and definitely cuts into your campaigning, but do not knock on doors after dark.
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)Erose999
(5,624 posts)madrchsod
(58,162 posts)Posteritatis
(18,807 posts)struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)it'll jump back to 5:15 PM
MadrasT
(7,237 posts)Ever.
I vote in every election. Primaries included.
noamnety
(20,234 posts)regardless of the position of the sun.
Daylight or not, you don't know if the person there is working a graveyard shift, and you just did the equivalent of waking a person with regular hours at 3am.
You don't know if the person just spent an hour trying to get a crying baby to sleep and is almost in tears in frustration - and your knock or bell ringing just woke the baby up again. (This happened to me with Jehovah's witnesses several times, and decades later I am still resentful.)
You don't know if you are intruding on someone who is ill or injured, who is in physical pain trying to get to the door.
You don't know if the homeowners are in the middle of a discussion about something serious, or tragic - or if they have social anxiety issues, or if a stranger at their door is going to trigger a PTSD issue.
There are just too many ifs to be assuming it's okay to interrupt people in their private space at your convenience to get something you want from them when they haven't solicited your opinion or advice.
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)a Baby Sleeping or Do Not Knock sign on the door, or they can fence the yard and lock the gate
You'd find that an effective way to communicate with people (like me) who don't believe in ESP and so don't decide whether or not to knock the door by trying to tune into whatever thoughts the occupant might be trying to mind-beam to others on the street
I encounter such written notices from time to time, and then I always respect the intent
noamnety
(20,234 posts)You recognize you don't have ESP. Part of that is recognizing that you don't know if there's going to be a problem with you intruding on a household uninvited. It seems like the burden should be on the intruder to not assume it's okay to interrupt whatever is happening in the house at any given time.
People shouldn't have to spend thousands of dollars on fencing because others can't respect basic boundaries, and they shouldn't have to plaster signs around that will keep someone like the UPS guy from knocking to let me know a package has arrived.
I find it's always safer to assume people don't want strangers knocking at their door at random times, regardless of their own issues or schedules or illnesses, etc.
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)about ballot mechanics and the early voting schedule, or wanted yard signs, and thanked me for dropping by -- I could conclude that I am actually providing a useful and appreciated service to many of my fellow citizens, that I was engaged in an civic duty essential to the functioning of our democracy, and that I was exercising fundamental free speech rights upheld repeatedly by the courts
And I could say -- again -- that if you do not want persons, like myself, to knock your door, then I feel sure you will be able to find some effective method for notifying us of that fact in advance, since most of us certainly won't bother with you if we can determine in advance that you prefer for us not to
noamnety
(20,234 posts)or whether your actions are legal.
It's sounds from your other comments ("A lot of folk, who are obviously home, don't answer their doors even in broad daylight" that although most of the people who DO come to the door seem to want to talk, you are also aware that many people find it annoying, threatening or otherwise at least disruptive.
A sample of the reactions of people who go out of their way to answer the door isn't a very scientific study of the overall effect you are having on people. I'm just saying that it's possible the bad outweighs the good, and you aren't aware of the bad (which can sometimes have lingering effects that last hours) because those people aren't answering the door.
It's sort of like smokers in restaurants back in the day when that was allowed. Their perception is that they've followed the rules by sitting in the smoking area, and nobody complained. They go about their day completely oblivious to the fact that they may have triggered a migraine in someone who then went home and was puking repetitively all night because of that migraine. All the smoker sees is that they "followed the rules" - and heck, maybe even did a good deed by letting someone at the next table bum a cigarette off them, which totally made that person's night.
Sometimes things which are legal and benefit some people have other negative effects on other people which we prefer (understandably) to disregard or be in denial about.
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)You don't answer your door, then I don't knock again: I walk away within a minute, so my time on your lot is entirely de minimis
noamnety
(20,234 posts)As I mentioned in another post, just because YOUR experience is done in one minute, doesn't mean the other person's experience is over in a minute. When the jehovah's witnesses were harassing me, their experience was over in 60 seconds. Mine was just beginning.
You should be able to put yourself in the other person's shoes, and not just see it from your own perspective. It's clear I'm not alone in having experiences where my aftermath last way the hell longer than the door peron's - and this is what you'd expect anytime one person is doing something to another through free will and at their own convenience, without the other's consent. http://www.democraticunderground.com/123014613#post4
If you ever have insomnia, or have a sick child who is in pain and takes hours to get to sleep - when you are running on 4 or 5 hours of sleep a night and have to be up early the next day for work, feel free to send me your phone number so I can call you at 3am, so you can run the next day on 2 hours sleep instead of 5. My experience calling you will be over in a minute, and your aftermath will last much longer, right?
Douglas Carpenter
(20,226 posts)how candidates - especially those without big budget have always campaigned. It's how people like George McGovern back in the 50's built the Democratic Party of South Dakota out of nothing when there were only two elected Democrats in the entire state legislature and then used the same retail door to door politics to get himself elected to the U.S. Congress and the U.S. Senate. If you were running for city council or state legislature or whatever - that is how you get word around - along with other means of personal contact.
Perhaps people have gotten more paranoid in recent years and part of it might be for good reason. But going door to door has always been the way those who have something to sell, a message to spread or a campaign to promote have always done it since time immemorial. Maybe there are reason why this tradition is less common than it used to be - but this decline is a decline of an ancient tradition and way of life.
noamnety
(20,234 posts)and I am sure bill oreilly would be all over my ass for being a single mom for part of my life, commuting an hour each way for work and struggling to hold it together.
None the less, it's reasonable to assume nowadays that many households are not filled with extended families helping with all the loose ends like they used to be, and that the residents are already stretched to their limits, and many of those single parents can barely find time to pee, let alone deal with uninvited visitors making demands on their time.
Fortunately, other things have also changed since ancient times, like we have printing presses so we can just leave cheap printed material on people's doors so they can read it at a time that works for them. We have the internet for communication also.
And yet with all the new nonintrusive ways to communicate, people have been becoming increasingly MORE intrusive. We had one day last week when we had political people calling us - we had some spans of time where we got more than one call every 5 minutes. It's fucking impossible to sleep during the day unless you unplug the phone - which you don't always want to do in case your kid's school calls - and even if you do, then people are knocking on the door. You would think a no solicitors sign would be clear enough, but we got people playing semantics with that also and interpreting it as we still want random strangers interrupting us, so long as they are soliciting for votes or donations instead of selling a physical product.
Douglas Carpenter
(20,226 posts)disturb sign" - Last week - I had a knock on my door, fortunately, I had already woken up and it was about time I get up anyway and get ready for work - I thought it was probably the manger for the place I was renting - but it turned out to be a couple of fine young gentleman from Utah who were on a mission. I suppose I could have been annoyed - but noticing that I am no spring chicken - they graciously asked if there was any help they could offer - like errands I need running or help around the house I could use - what can I say? - I thanked them - but always striving for self-sufficiency - I said that everything was okay but I appreciate their offer. Besides they were just so cute and so eager - how could I possibly be annoyed? Yeah, I don't want people bothering me when I need some sleep before I go to work - That's when I would use a "Do not disturb" sign - I can't stand the robo-calls and telemarketers - but a simple knock on the door every now and then is quite okay with me - whatever the reason - whatever the cause - maybe I'm getting old and lonely and just appreciate a few minutes of company - every now and then
noamnety
(20,234 posts)a couple of young men offering to come into my house to "help" would be perceived as a threat here.
I don't answer the door, so I wouldn't have found out if they were nagging for votes or my soul. Just so that's clear - I'm not going to the door and being rude or abusive or anything. I just don't feel obligated to have a conversation with people I don't want to talk to at my own house.
Douglas Carpenter
(20,226 posts)also things are different - depending on where you live.
struggle4progress
(118,291 posts)Rstrstx
(1,399 posts)n/t
Ino
(3,366 posts)Before dark, I'd listen, take your literature, thank you.
Unless your candidate is a Repuke, then I'd sneer and tell you to get the hell off my property.