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IdaBriggs

(10,559 posts)
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 09:06 AM Oct 2013

Bridegroom Movie - Because AWESOME and Heartbreaking.

I didn't learn about this until yesterday. It deserves multiple threads.

to everyone you love...

http://bridegroommovie.com/

BRIDEGROOM is a documentary directed by Linda Bloodworth-Thomason that tells the emotional journey of Shane and Tom, two young men in a loving and committed relationship — a relationship that was cut tragically short by a misstep off the side of a roof. The story of what happened after this accidental death– of how people without the legal protections of marriage can find themselves completely shut out and ostracized– is poignant, enraging and opens a window onto the issue of marriage equality like no speech or lecture ever will.

On May 7, 2012, the anniversary of Tom’s death, after a year of documenting his own grief, Shane decided to make a video tribute to his partner entitled “It Could Happen To You.” This film, posted on YouTube, received over 3.4 million views and has been translated into over 20 different languages. The impact of Shane’s YouTube video and the raw nerve it touched, tells us this is an important story that needs to be told.

With the incredible support from influential people like Brad and George Takei and Neil Patrick Harris, Bridegroom was successfully funded on July 19, 2012 by over 6,500 people on Kickstarter.com becoming the most funded documentary in the history of crowd funding, and released in the fall of 2013.


And the video that inspired it all: "It Could Happen to You" -

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Bridegroom Movie - Because AWESOME and Heartbreaking. (Original Post) IdaBriggs Oct 2013 OP
Wow. That is powerful. Borchkins Oct 2013 #1
I was stunned by it. IdaBriggs Oct 2013 #2
Recommended as highly as possible Bluenorthwest Oct 2013 #3
Kicking. IdaBriggs Oct 2013 #4
Such needless pain lillypaddle Oct 2013 #5
 

IdaBriggs

(10,559 posts)
2. I was stunned by it.
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 09:23 AM
Oct 2013

I don't know how it ends, but I read the family of the man who died refused to participate in the film honoring their son and his relationship.

The idea that people I love have to battle this type of nonsense is ... words fail.

One of my good friends had to deal with a similar situation. I will never forget the two of them dancing at my wedding.

It has been nearly twenty years; things change, but sometimes, not quickly enough.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
3. Recommended as highly as possible
Fri Oct 18, 2013, 09:23 AM
Oct 2013

Edited to add a reminder to readers about the director, Linda Bloodworth-Thomason. Linda co-created Designing Women and she's a seriously useful Democrat when not being a seriously useful filmmaker. She and her husband Harry did much early work for Bill Clinton, including the 'Man From Hope' promo film.

 

IdaBriggs

(10,559 posts)
4. Kicking.
Sat Oct 19, 2013, 10:02 AM
Oct 2013

Avd thank you for the comments! She is talented, and I am very impressed with these two young men!

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