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The Straight Story

(48,121 posts)
Tue Oct 22, 2013, 01:30 AM Oct 2013

Mother needing to breastfeed charged with contempt of court

LEE'S SUMMIT, MO (KCTV) -

Jury duty isn't most people's favorite thing, but imagine getting the summons while being a new mother and unable to leave the baby.

That was the case for a Lee's Summit woman whose stand is landing her a court date of her own at the Jackson County Courthouse.

Laura Trickle is fighting a charge of contempt of court all because she breastfeeds and couldn't leave her son behind to serve jury duty.

"You're not allowed to have children there for jury duty," Trickle said. "I've never even had a speeding ticket, so I have zero experience with legal issues."

Trickle said her 7-month-old son, Axel Graham has to be with her to eat. But that didn't get her off the hook, so she appeared for jury selection, with her baby, hoping the judge would grant an exemption, instead he gave two options.

"I would be able to pump on breaks. Unfortunately Axel doesn't take a bottle, so that was not an option for us. The other option was to have someone stay with me all day and then be able to nurse on breaks. But since I'm a stay-at-home mom, we don't have childcare," she said.

http://www.wnem.com/story/23736619/mother-needing-to-breastfeed-charged-with-contempt-of-court?clienttype=generic&smartdevicecgbypass#.UmYE9dsAK-M.email

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Mother needing to breastfeed charged with contempt of court (Original Post) The Straight Story Oct 2013 OP
If the baby is unable to either take a bottle or consume anything but mothers milk rocktivity Oct 2013 #1
Sounds about right. joshcryer Oct 2013 #2
Ugh. Warren DeMontague Oct 2013 #3
The one time I was called for jury duty, SheilaT Oct 2013 #4
I would be useless on a jury if I had a baby still on the breast Boudica the Lyoness Oct 2013 #5
I had the same issue when my daughter was a baby. PotatoChip Oct 2013 #6

rocktivity

(44,576 posts)
1. If the baby is unable to either take a bottle or consume anything but mothers milk
Tue Oct 22, 2013, 01:50 AM
Oct 2013

Last edited Tue Oct 22, 2013, 09:56 AM - Edit history (2)

she should simply present medical documentation to that effect.

And if it's the court's idea that she should have a babysitter, the court should foot the bill.


rocktivity

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
3. Ugh.
Tue Oct 22, 2013, 02:36 AM
Oct 2013

Judge made a very bad call. He should have excused her when she showed up with the baby. I hope she's got a good lawyer, she ought to be able to sue the state back for this.

 

SheilaT

(23,156 posts)
4. The one time I was called for jury duty,
Tue Oct 22, 2013, 02:50 AM
Oct 2013

I was outraged that a man with a small business was excused immediately, while a woman who was going to have to pay $50/day for childcare for her three young children wasn't.

As it happens, I didn't make the cut for the jury, but sat through almost the entire day of selection.

Judges, mostly men, understand men's issues, like owning a business, but haven't a clue about women's, such as being a breast-feeding mom. And apparently the concept of a stay-at-home mom is also alien to them.

 

Boudica the Lyoness

(2,899 posts)
5. I would be useless on a jury if I had a baby still on the breast
Tue Oct 22, 2013, 03:26 AM
Oct 2013

and we were forced a part. I would be so distracted and could not give the case my full attention. But I suppose if he was with someone nearby and I could be with him on frequent breaks...we'd be able to manage. My sons would not drink from a bottle either. They never had to, thank goodness.

PotatoChip

(3,186 posts)
6. I had the same issue when my daughter was a baby.
Tue Oct 22, 2013, 03:35 AM
Oct 2013

She would not take a bottle.

But by 7 months, she was beginning to eat soft table food, crackers, and some baby food (though she was quite picky about it). I'd say that it was approx. 85% nursing at that age. If necessary, I probably could have left her with a babysitter for about 3 or 4 hours at a time.

I didn't go to the link so I don't know the particulars of this case, but if the mother could get the court to pay for a nearby babysitter, I don't see why she couldn't do jury duty. 'Nearby' as in someone close enough to go to during breaks, but not necessarily there at the courthouse... within perhaps a 15 minute walk or drive.

When I did jury duty years ago, I remember having quite a few reasonably long breaks -and- we rarely put in much more than 5 hours a day anyway. It was a statutory rape case that lasted 3 days. We'd typically begin at 9am, have an hour (or more) for lunch at about noontime, then another approximately 2 hours in the afternoon.

I'm not saying it'd be easy, and would hope the judge would carefully consider the difficulty involved (which he didn't appear to do in this case)... That said, hypothetically, if the judge allowed for childcare reimbursement, it'd be do-able (imho).


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