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A holiday lesson: One young N.J. athlete's devotion to his sick mother
Hungry and alone, Vaida Jefferson lies in a cold, dark apartment, waiting for her son to come home.
She has barely moved in 11 hours. A rumpled purple comforter covers her frail, 100-pound body. Her rail-thin legs are folded and bunched toward her chest, stiff and stubborn.
The television, as it does so often, marks her countdown on this late October day.
"The Queen Latifah Show" in the morning.
The news at noon.
"Judge Alex" between 1 and 2.
And then, "Everybody Loves Raymond" reruns.
At times, she stares out her second-floor window, gazing at the mountains stretching from Passaic County toward western Jersey. But now they have been swallowed by darkness, so Vaida knows her boy will be home soon.
At 6:43 p.m., she hears a key slide into the front door. A small smile crosses her face.
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What a great son!
MineralMan
(146,317 posts)Jetboy
(792 posts)Thanks for posting.
brer cat
(24,577 posts)That is one fine young man.
kimbutgar
(21,163 posts)What a wonderful young man. Will fox say this young man is a thug?
Frustratedlady
(16,254 posts)I've been a caregiver and can just imagine what that young man and his mother are going through. In the end, they will have given each other the greatest gift they can.
I wish him great success in whatever he undertakes to do. Bless his mother and may her dreams come true.
kag
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aggiesal
(8,918 posts)I'll bet Hollywood comes calling.
I only hope they do it justice.
BrotherIvan
(9,126 posts)But having to care for an ill parent is just too much. Wouldn't it be nice if she could have a visiting nurse or caregiver to help? If she lived in a civilized country, her son wouldn't have to stay up until 3 in the morning and nearly kill himself to do it. We need real CARE--not insurance, care--desperately and we need it now.