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niyad

(113,306 posts)
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 06:43 PM Dec 2013

40 years of college football's sexual assault problem


40 Years of College Football's Sexual-Assault Problem
The case of FSU's Jameis Winston highlights a long and ugly history of universities dropping the ball on rape allegations.

Update: ESPN is reporting that Jameis Winston will not be charged in connection to an alleged sexual assault last December.



In November, TMZ reported that a former Florida State University student had accused the school's quarterback, Jameis Winston, of rape nearly a year ago. The accuser's lawyer says that after she came forward the Tallahassee police tried to dissuade her from pressing charges, warning her that the city is "a big football town" that might not treat her warmly if she leveled these allegations. Indeed, since her charges became public, some Seminoles fans have floated conspiracy theories that a rival school or Heisman Trophy contender may have put the accuser up to it. Prosecutors, for their part, will hold a press conference on Thursday afternoon to announce whether they'll go forward with the case.

Ultimately, Winston—whose DNA was found at the scene and who claims the sex was consensual—may not be charged. But the case has highlighted a disturbing and long-standing pattern in college football. At top football schools the sport is a major moneymaker, and many big-name universities (and law enforcement authorities in those jurisdictions) have too often shielded players accused of rape—even going so far as to smear and punish victims who speak out. Here's a brief guide to college football's sordid history of addressing sexual assault:


University of Notre Dame, 1974: An undergraduate accused six Fighting Irish players of rape. A university administrator called the woman, who later spent a month in psychiatric care, a "queen of the slums with a mattress tied to her back." No charges were filed.

Notre Dame, 1976: Two of the Notre Dame players accused in 1974, along with one other player, were accused of rape by a 17-year-old student. "I was told to shut up and mind my own business," a witness to the assault later told the National Catholic Reporter's Melinda Henneberger. The witness, a resident advisor at nearby St. Mary's College, had been informed by administrators that one of the players had been involved in another unreported rape, in addition to the previous 1974 incident. No charges were filed.

University of Colorado, 1989: Twenty-four Buffaloes were arrested in a three-year span under coach Bill McCartney for everything from rape to illegally skinning a rabbit. Another former player, linebacker Miles Kusayanagi, was accused of being "the Duct-Tape Rapist," responsible for eight sexual assaults in Boulder. (He was convicted on four counts of first-degree sexual assault.) McCartney told a local news reporter that another alleged rape by one of his players couldn't have been rape because it wasn't violent enough. Besides, he told Sports Illustrated, it could be worse: "You'll notice that we haven't had anybody shoot anybody."

(for those of you who do not know, or remember, bill mccartney is founder of "promisekeepers"
and cost the taxpayers of colorado nearly a million dollars when he ran out of his CU contract to run that woman-hating organization)

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http://www.motherjones.com/media/2013/12/college-football-sexual-assualt-jameis-winston
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40 years of college football's sexual assault problem (Original Post) niyad Dec 2013 OP
Not every accusation is true. Ask Brian Banks. nt lumberjack_jeff Dec 2013 #1
And here we have part of the problem...no, not every accusation is true... joeybee12 Dec 2013 #2
I know nothing about the case except this... lumberjack_jeff Dec 2013 #4
the state attorney did not think the case was winnable. slight difference. but keep trying. niyad Dec 2013 #5
It's a difference, but I'd characterize it as xulamaude Dec 2013 #7
That's ok by me Sgent Dec 2013 #6
If that is true, a) it's inexcusable and b) should justify rolling heads at the PD. lumberjack_jeff Dec 2013 #19
That kind of thing happens several times every day BainsBane Dec 2013 #57
Which is how rape culture is propagated BainsBane Dec 2013 #63
since, by your own admission, you know nothing about the case, perhaps you could educate niyad Dec 2013 #72
The thing is, I know exactly as much as you do. lumberjack_jeff Dec 2013 #73
wow--that is one of the funnier statements I have seen today. thanks, I needed the laughs. niyad Dec 2013 #75
You "lack" a "belief system"!!! xulamaude Dec 2013 #84
More accurately, my belief system is the one taught in civics 101. n/t lumberjack_jeff Dec 2013 #87
I took civics 101 too - xulamaude Dec 2013 #89
Okay. Then what does Blackstone's formulation mean to you? lumberjack_jeff Dec 2013 #91
I can't possibly imagine what he envisioned but xulamaude Dec 2013 #96
Unless, of course, they happen to excel at a popular school sport. radicalliberal Dec 2013 #198
If you review the facts as we know them in this case, its clear it was a false accusation. nt aaaaaa5a Dec 2013 #127
What facts are those? EOTE Dec 2013 #138
Sure not problem at all. aaaaaa5a Dec 2013 #139
I'm not sure that this info in itself convinces me. EOTE Dec 2013 #140
Everyone is entitled to their opinion. aaaaaa5a Dec 2013 #143
You haven't answered any of the questions I had. Not a single one. EOTE Dec 2013 #145
Please see the latest post when the prosecutor comments on that. nt aaaaaa5a Dec 2013 #148
Which latest post? EOTE Dec 2013 #150
Um... okay aaaaaa5a Dec 2013 #152
That has nothing to do with this conversation. EOTE Dec 2013 #153
I think to a reasonable person aaaaaa5a Dec 2013 #156
Wow, you're going way off the wall now. EOTE Dec 2013 #157
Please answer this. aaaaaa5a Dec 2013 #158
What you are asking are non-sequitors. EOTE Dec 2013 #159
I guess we won't be getting an case facts from you. LOL! aaaaaa5a Dec 2013 #162
You do nothing but distract from the ridiculous and sexist comments you made. EOTE Dec 2013 #164
Why does a woman having sex with someone mean she wasn't raped by someone else? EOTE Dec 2013 #166
Why do you think a woman who wasn't drugged can't be raped? EOTE Dec 2013 #167
Wow 3 posts! aaaaaa5a Dec 2013 #170
You did lie. You said there was a photo of her rooting for the accused. EOTE Dec 2013 #171
I'm glad you agree with me regarding the outcome of the case. aaaaaa5a Dec 2013 #174
You said the accuser falsely accused the accused. EOTE Dec 2013 #175
And you present yet another lie. EOTE Dec 2013 #176
You do know you're accusing this woman of a crime, right? EOTE Dec 2013 #173
I honestly think you need to read the full 86 page report and do some aaaaaa5a Dec 2013 #177
Why do you think a woman who had sex with her boyfriend willingly can't be raped by someone else? EOTE Dec 2013 #178
Okay, this is my last try. aaaaaa5a Dec 2013 #179
CNN Is another excellent source: Very fair and impartial. aaaaaa5a Dec 2013 #147
You're just repeating the same old offensive, sexist tripe. EOTE Dec 2013 #149
"CNN is an excellent source" xulamaude Dec 2013 #160
Ha! aaaaaa5a Dec 2013 #163
"CNN Is another excellent source: Very fair and impartial." radicalliberal Dec 2013 #200
you are familiar with the fbi statistics on false rape accusations, yes. but this is what you post? niyad Dec 2013 #3
Don't bother ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #8
LOL nt xulamaude Dec 2013 #9
Actually... Upton Dec 2013 #13
when it comes to rape some people think that Niceguy1 Dec 2013 #27
When it comes to rape, some people like to pretend false allegations are common BainsBane Dec 2013 #55
it counts Niceguy1 Dec 2013 #58
Do you think women should be intimidated into not pressing charges? That the minority of rape BainsBane Dec 2013 #60
I think they should be welcome to come forward Niceguy1 Dec 2013 #77
i know man. that lack of evidence. like videos put up on the net. or admitted to raping a child seabeyond Dec 2013 #82
thatbisnt the aveeage case Niceguy1 Dec 2013 #90
there is all kinds of NORM where women and girls being raped is dismissed by people, cops, seabeyond Dec 2013 #93
They aren't prosecuted because misogynysts assholes in charge of the judical BainsBane Dec 2013 #83
Go back and look at Steubenville. NuclearDem Dec 2013 #86
Sequere pecuniam, for one thing LadyHawkAZ Dec 2013 #101
Prove guilt? xulamaude Dec 2013 #61
that's not the reaction with high profile cases are dismissed Niceguy1 Dec 2013 #79
I can't understand your post. nt xulamaude Dec 2013 #81
well clearly our lives do not count Tumbulu Dec 2013 #120
lives do count Niceguy1 Dec 2013 #137
Guilt and innocence is handed down by courts only. We merely have opinions. LanternWaste Dec 2013 #133
And nobody should NOT be imprisoned xulamaude Dec 2013 #65
To many, Human rights = Men's rights...period. whathehell Dec 2013 #126
Most rapists aren't imprisoned at all. alarimer Dec 2013 #203
Yep xulamaude Dec 2013 #10
Well, it's clear the FBI has been infiltrated by radical feminists. NuclearDem Dec 2013 #11
Note zero interest in facts BainsBane Dec 2013 #69
yes, and it gets more disgusting each and every time it happens. niyad Dec 2013 #71
Completely ignores the hundres of cases listed in the article BainsBane Dec 2013 #74
That FBI study is hotly disputed. This is why such numbers are not allowed to aaaaaa5a Dec 2013 #128
hotly disputed by whom? those who don't want to look at facts, who want us to think that all niyad Dec 2013 #131
Indeed... Upton Dec 2013 #12
Got stats on the number of convictions of xulamaude Dec 2013 #14
Your point? Upton Dec 2013 #15
No, it does not justify it. xulamaude Dec 2013 #17
Criminal prosecution isn't a statistical exercise. lumberjack_jeff Dec 2013 #21
A set of generalized cultural beliefs?? xulamaude Dec 2013 #34
she lied because she knew she was going to get 1.5 mil? how many other women have sued niyad Dec 2013 #78
The point to me gollygee Dec 2013 #18
Okay...whatever.. Upton Dec 2013 #20
This thread isn't about him gollygee Dec 2013 #22
Love threads like this where the Mens group come a running. trumad Dec 2013 #24
I'm dreeeaming of a white Christmas!!!! lumberjack_jeff Dec 2013 #39
I love when I can clear a jury blacklist spot.... ProudToBeBlueInRhody Dec 2013 #48
LOL! n/t whathehell Dec 2013 #168
"is one too many" xulamaude Dec 2013 #25
. lumberjack_jeff Dec 2013 #42
Are those the only options? gollygee Dec 2013 #47
The ideal is to convict, sentence and punish every guilty person and zero innocents. lumberjack_jeff Dec 2013 #49
Yes, it's a statement of innocent until proven guilty gollygee Dec 2013 #53
Ah, the old Pol Pot! How'd I miss this?! xulamaude Dec 2013 #112
"It is more important that the innocent be protected, than the guilty be punished" davidn3600 Dec 2013 #59
How does that contradict anything I've said gollygee Dec 2013 #122
Yes, it is the only option. We must set the burden of proof high enough that... JVS Dec 2013 #88
Which means that we should never convict anyone of anything gollygee Dec 2013 #121
ten INNOCENT raped girls to avoid 1 innocent man. really? nt seabeyond Dec 2013 #52
OK, I know better than to get involved in this stuff, but... Comrade Grumpy Dec 2013 #56
really? cause i was the first to suggest 10 INNOCENT girls should not be protected for 1 seabeyond Dec 2013 #66
You sound like you're okay with innocent men being imprisoned if it prevents rape. seabeyond Dec 2013 #68
All kinds of 'innocent' people xulamaude Dec 2013 #80
It's better that 10 guilty rapists go free? Way to go, man. nt xulamaude Dec 2013 #54
Yeah, well, one rape is too many. historylovr Dec 2013 #110
"Dismissed" No. lumberjack_jeff Dec 2013 #28
They should absolutely get a fair trial gollygee Dec 2013 #32
and the other several hundred unprosecuted cases in the article? BainsBane Dec 2013 #67
wow, did you even bother to read that list? you keep bringing up this banks person, without niyad Dec 2013 #70
This message was self-deleted by its author LadyHawkAZ Dec 2013 #16
Well, you're consistent with your misogyny anyway. Matariki Dec 2013 #103
Oh honestly, this is preposterous Tumbulu Dec 2013 #119
I wonder whether the girls in the top pic would have the signs out if Jameis Winston.... ProudToBeBlueInRhody Dec 2013 #23
Shockingly, they almost certainly see rape as more important than football BainsBane Dec 2013 #26
I bet they don't ProudToBeBlueInRhody Dec 2013 #30
I went to the U of Texas BainsBane Dec 2013 #35
Then you should get it. ProudToBeBlueInRhody Dec 2013 #37
I wouldn't go to the stadium regardless BainsBane Dec 2013 #43
Uh, ok ProudToBeBlueInRhody Dec 2013 #46
I hate to break it to you.. Upton Dec 2013 #31
evidently you and a couple of others here see this as all about the football fans BainsBane Dec 2013 #38
Actually, bullshit ProudToBeBlueInRhody Dec 2013 #45
because the "bigger issue" is football, not rape and rape culture BainsBane Dec 2013 #50
Nope, you still don't get it.... ProudToBeBlueInRhody Dec 2013 #64
You and your pals are intent on derailing the thread BainsBane Dec 2013 #76
What's amazing is that you can't use an iota of reading comprehension.... ProudToBeBlueInRhody Dec 2013 #85
It's not up to me to read your mind BainsBane Dec 2013 #109
"I have, however, grown weary of some of their shtick." ProudToBeBlueInRhody Dec 2013 #114
One has kindly offered to hear a petition to reinstate me BainsBane Dec 2013 #118
This thread went off the rails way before that snooper2 Dec 2013 #141
What do you think? The article talks about 40 years of sexual assault going unpunished BainsBane Dec 2013 #142
OMG! chervilant Dec 2013 #123
I would guess that since these females are attending college, they are adults, women, not "girls" niyad Dec 2013 #117
The banner they are holding says "No means No" once. It says "Go Gators!" twice. lumberjack_jeff Dec 2013 #33
Oh, I'm sure they're very upset a Florida State player might be getting away with something. ProudToBeBlueInRhody Dec 2013 #41
I would agree with you if they didn't have a "Go Gators" on that sign... ScreamingMeemie Dec 2013 #130
Yeah I think it would mean a lot more if those girls were FSU fans davidn3600 Dec 2013 #29
That's far more a condemnation of Steelers fans than anything. NuclearDem Dec 2013 #36
"Funny how that works." xulamaude Dec 2013 #40
Funny who wants to make this all about football fans in the photo BainsBane Dec 2013 #51
Football is sacred, don't you know? radicalliberal Dec 2013 #199
Tell you what. historylovr Dec 2013 #108
And maybe Jameis Winston knows that. nt ProudToBeBlueInRhody Dec 2013 #113
Unfortunately we'll never know for sure one way or the other, will we. historylovr Dec 2013 #115
Just add that one to the list of so-called "false allegations" BainsBane Dec 2013 #146
While you willfully ignore the hundreds of unprosecuted rapes discussed in the article BainsBane Dec 2013 #144
So you're saying he is guilty then? ProudToBeBlueInRhody Dec 2013 #184
I wonder why you think chervilant Dec 2013 #124
I haven't followed the case and have no opinion on his guilt kiva Dec 2013 #44
DU- where we can make a battle out of ANYTHING! LadyHawkAZ Dec 2013 #62
Help me understand your post. chervilant Dec 2013 #125
It had nothing to do with the article n/t LadyHawkAZ Dec 2013 #169
Well, chervilant Dec 2013 #172
There is a proven case of false rape allegation in another thread, YET BainsBane Dec 2013 #92
goddess forfend that we should discuss issues of importance to women,issues like rape culture, niyad Dec 2013 #94
Some make it their mission to disrupt that as much as possible BainsBane Dec 2013 #95
rather pathetic, is it not? niyad Dec 2013 #105
Once the falsely convicted has been exonerated, the legitimacy of justice is already damaged. lumberjack_jeff Dec 2013 #97
NOTHING would have happened in that stuebenville case if people didnt yell from seabeyond Dec 2013 #98
Yeah, and justice isn't "damaged" when communities sweep rape under the rug NuclearDem Dec 2013 #100
"the legitimacy of justice is already damaged" xulamaude Dec 2013 #102
+1 historylovr Dec 2013 #111
hyperbole much? mob justice? because this one person to whom you keep referring, completely niyad Dec 2013 #116
you might read this thread if you still wonder why we need to speak up, even when told nuthin' to se seabeyond Dec 2013 #197
That's a damn good question. nt xulamaude Dec 2013 #99
My Friend Was Propositioned By Dan Marino AnnieBW Dec 2013 #104
but surely Ben Roethlisberger has dropped out of the "beloved" position... surely. seabeyond Dec 2013 #106
I follow sports closely. aaaaaa5a Dec 2013 #129
I bet you do. Have you ever considered the possibility that the sports media might be biased? radicalliberal Dec 2013 #201
nice list, but a bit misleading. niyad Dec 2013 #206
More Like That He's Settle Down And Got Married AnnieBW Dec 2013 #192
i didnt know one "vindicated" themselves of raping another human being, simply by marrying. wow. k seabeyond Dec 2013 #193
Yeah, well, they don't AnnieBW Dec 2013 #194
ok. thanks. i was misreading your posts. thanks for the clarification. nt seabeyond Dec 2013 #195
Jerry Sandusky is a different aspect of the football sexual assault problem. kwassa Dec 2013 #107
It should be standard procedure in situations like this for the FBI to take jurisdiction stevenleser Dec 2013 #132
thank you. a most excellent point. now to wait for the usual suspects. . . niyad Dec 2013 #134
I wonder what it would take to make that change. Also... stevenleser Dec 2013 #135
not sure what it would take, and not sure of the fbi's track record. but, as you said, somebody niyad Dec 2013 #136
I understand the suggestion, but am not a big fan of ever-expanding federal law enforcement. Comrade Grumpy Dec 2013 #154
It wouldn't happen much after the first few. Police departments hate the Feds doing this... stevenleser Dec 2013 #155
This was handled fairly well Sgent Dec 2013 #161
What about the 40 years of rapes in which victims were pressured, shamed, and intimidated BainsBane Dec 2013 #182
Read the title of the article: 40 years of rape BainsBane Dec 2013 #151
"It's about a half century of rapes going unpunished. That is being widely ignored. Why?" redqueen Dec 2013 #165
yes, we do know exactly why, and the fact that we do know, and are not silent about it, is niyad Dec 2013 #181
Well, fortunately, more and more women are no longer willing to silently accept it. redqueen Dec 2013 #186
but we are not supposed to notice, or point it out for fear of hurting their feelings. how dare niyad Dec 2013 #180
Can anyone imagine a 40 yr pattern of crime against men going unpunished? BainsBane Dec 2013 #183
I know this is the season for miracles, but I would not hold my breath. niyad Dec 2013 #185
This article is suggesting that Winston is guilty and there was a cover-up davidn3600 Dec 2013 #187
You clearly didn't read it BainsBane Dec 2013 #188
Oh whatever... davidn3600 Dec 2013 #189
It's called rape culture BainsBane Dec 2013 #190
I scrutinize any accusation of anyone makes of any crime davidn3600 Dec 2013 #191
There's no national conspiracy, there's a cultural problem. NuclearDem Dec 2013 #196
Notice the pathetic attitude on the part of so many football fans toward the OP. radicalliberal Dec 2013 #202
ya. radical. i notice. decency. lack of decency. nt seabeyond Dec 2013 #205
NIYAD... listening to baines op song Nina Simone, Four Women... sittin out on the porch. with red seabeyond Dec 2013 #204
just read some of the new additions to this OP-- and I need a glass as well. niyad Dec 2013 #207
 

joeybee12

(56,177 posts)
2. And here we have part of the problem...no, not every accusation is true...
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 07:05 PM
Dec 2013

But was that the first thought that crossed your mind? How about, "A lot of them are true and they have trouble with the police taking them seriously."

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
4. I know nothing about the case except this...
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 07:56 PM
Dec 2013

Unlike Brian Banks and the Duke Lacrosse team, the prosecutor didn't think this case was provable

 

xulamaude

(847 posts)
7. It's a difference, but I'd characterize it as
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 08:21 PM
Dec 2013

more than slight when a man's (political) career depends upon 'winning'.

Those FBI stats don't amount to a hill of beans.

Sgent

(5,857 posts)
6. That's ok by me
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 08:18 PM
Dec 2013

not every accusation is true or even credible.

What's not ok is that the police stopped the investigation and tried to talk the accuser out of pressing charges. They even went as far as putting it into the cold case file saying she was dropping charges (something denied by the victim).

There was never a real investigation until the last couple of months because the case was hidden by the police.

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
19. If that is true, a) it's inexcusable and b) should justify rolling heads at the PD.
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 09:25 PM
Dec 2013

I'm just saying that internet discussion boards are poor venues for trying criminal cases.

The cops have an obligation to thoroughly investigate all allegations and report their findings to prosecutors.

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
57. That kind of thing happens several times every day
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 10:37 PM
Dec 2013

anyone who reads a newspaper knows that. The question is why you are insistent on raising the specter of false rape allegations in this context when the article clearly says the victims were intimidated into not reporting the crimes. This is about an epidemic of rape. Of course, we're only talking about women, and that simply cannot abide. The tens of millions of rape survivors in this country are inconsequential compared to men.

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
63. Which is how rape culture is propagated
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 10:49 PM
Dec 2013

Rapists are willfully left unpunished. Women are disbelieved, shamed, and treated as lesser citizens in the courts. That is how it is made possible for their predatory behavior to continue. Rapists know their chances of actually being convicted are very low. That is rape culture, as is the determination to focus on the rare cases of false accusations and continually ignore the significance of violent crime against women. The article paints a clear picture of rampant covering up of rape in universities. The list of unprosecuted assaults in the article is very lengthy. That, however, doesn't interest you. Instead are determined to promote your agenda.

niyad

(113,306 posts)
72. since, by your own admission, you know nothing about the case, perhaps you could educate
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 11:00 PM
Dec 2013

yourself before you comment. knowledge and information are very useful things.

 

xulamaude

(847 posts)
89. I took civics 101 too -
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 11:28 PM
Dec 2013

that our takes (or, "belief system", in your case) on it diverge so drastically does not surprise me at all.

All men are created equal and... stuff.

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
91. Okay. Then what does Blackstone's formulation mean to you?
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 11:31 PM
Dec 2013

Do you think that he envisioned any exceptions to his general rule that it was worse to convict innocents than to fail to convict the guilty?

 

xulamaude

(847 posts)
96. I can't possibly imagine what he envisioned but
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 11:41 PM
Dec 2013

I doubt he was thinking about 21st century girls and women who 'falsely' report rape and manage to somehow get the legal/jury system to accommodate them.

EOTE

(13,409 posts)
138. What facts are those?
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 12:20 PM
Dec 2013

Honestly, I'm not trying to be snarky, I just know very little about this case.

However, when it comes to high level college athletes, I do tend to believe the accuser in the bulk of the cases. I'd really like to be informed on this issue.

aaaaaa5a

(4,667 posts)
139. Sure not problem at all.
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 01:17 PM
Dec 2013

The press keeps talking about her lapses in memory as being key for no charges being filed.

However, I believe the real key findings regard the witnesses in the room.

There were several witnesses who saw the sex act taking place. One witness even tried to jokingly interrupt their sex act and was ushered out of the room by the accuser so she could finish her sex act with more privacy.

There is one witness with an affidavit given to the police who witnessed the accuser giving oral sex. This witness gave this statement to authorities over 10 months ago and then told the same story to the DA again when the investigation was reopened.

In what would likely come down to a he said/she said case, I think that is pretty damning evidence against the accuser's story. Don't you?


There is lots of other evidence as well, including a picture of the accuser dressed in FSU football gear going to a game to cheer on Winston after the incident occurred. (This picture is one of several widely available on the internet)

There are text messages sent and received by the accuser immediately after the incident that didn't help her case.

There are serious questions about her initial ID of the suspect.

There were claims she was hit on the head and/or suffered a concussion that was not backed my medical examination.

The woman was not drunk. There were no drugs in her system, including the date rape drug.


Authorities even found the DNA of another person on her during the rape kit examination. The second DNA sample is believed to be deposited around the same time as the alleged incident. To be clear, authorities did not officially identify the second DNA sample, but it is widely believed to be that of another scholarship football player. And yes, his name is readily available too.


This is just some of what the DA looked at when he determined there was not sufficient evidence to seek charges in this case. I would add, that if you were around high level athletics, you would understand that players are targets. They are targets for women. They are targets for men. They are targets for money.They are targets for fame. They are targets for resentment. Because there is so much anger in the general public against the so called "privileges of athletes", they are often held to a higher criminal standard by police. Not a lower one.


The are some in the general public who claim this case was dismissed because a star football player was involved. That is wrong. In truth, if this had been an "average joe" nobody would have ever heard of this case. And charges still would not have likely been filed. Authorities even under extreme public pressure have now closed this case twice in 10 months. What does that tell you?

BTW... this incident occurred last year. The player was not yet a star. He hadn't even played. He was a freshman student on FSU's campus. Nobody knew who he was. So why would he have been given the star treatment a year ago? It just doesn't add up.

When you actually read through much of the evidence, this woman is fortunate not be be charged with making a false accusation. The real victim is Jamies Winston. He is the person who has to move on with a stain on his record over something for which he was never even charged with a crime, never mind actually being found guilty.


I love DU. But I am amazed at how often on this site any time a rape accusation is made, everyone assumes guilt. In this case guilt is assumed even when there are no charges filed. I am frankly even scared at the lack of objectivity found here when this issue comes up. There is a lot of hate. We have a lot of people here that sadly don't have the mind set to ever objectively sit on a jury in a rape case.


I could provide more on the case. But I don't want to violate any of DU's posting policies, especially regarding information that would make it easy to identify the accuser. But trust me. There is a reason why the case has now been closed twice in just 10 months. The accuser was not raped. PERIOD.



Sorry for the long post. But I have one more tidbit to add.

The DA's press conference was awful. Rape is a serious crime. I thought the atmosphere and tone of the DA was deplorable. I also think the Tallahassee PD did a terrible job. If they had done a better job 10 months ago, none of this would have happened. The accuser still would have some sense of privacy. And an innocent young man would not have seen his name dragged through the mud over something he did not do.

For instance the accuser and Winston were at a bar before the alleged incident took place. They were drinking. The security camera at the bar had it on tape. But because the initial police investigation was so poor, the police never recovered the tapes. The DA said that having the video of them in the bar that night would have helped the investigation. But we don't have it, because the Police work was terrible. That wasn't good for the accuser, the defendant, or justice.

Okay.. I'll stop now.



EOTE

(13,409 posts)
140. I'm not sure that this info in itself convinces me.
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 01:33 PM
Dec 2013

If you happened to have a link or links to a reputable site with this information, that would do quite a bit to make up my mind. A lot of that stuff just seems like rumors passed around on the internet, but I'd like to see a solid source to verify it. The first bit seems the most damning, but again, I'd need to see it in context. The fact that the accuser was seen giving oral sex really means nothing as that happens quite often in rape. As for wearing FSU gear to a game, that really means nothing as well, cheering Winston on would certainly mean something, but how would one get that from a picture (did she have a sign that said "Go Winston!" or something?).

There are text messages sent and received by the accuser immediately after the incident that didn't help her case.

Such as?


Authorities even found the DNA of another person on her during the rape kit examination. The second DNA sample is believed to be deposited around the same time as the alleged incident. To be clear, authorities did not officially identify the second DNA sample, but it is widely believed to be that of another scholarship football player. And yes, his name is readily available too.


What on earth does this have to do with whether or not she was raped?


This is just some of what the DA looked at when he determined there was not sufficient evidence to seek charges in this case. I would add, that if you were around high level athletics, you would understand that players are targets. They are targets for women. They are targets for men. They are targets for money.They are targets for fame. They are targets for resentment. Because there is so much anger in the general public against the so called "privileges of athletes", they are often held to a higher criminal standard by police. Not a lower one.


This is where you lost me. Athletes are held to a HIGHER standard? What a joke! Athletes in general are far more likely to be excused of their crimes than ordinary folk. I'm amazed you don't recognize this.

aaaaaa5a

(4,667 posts)
143. Everyone is entitled to their opinion.
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 02:09 PM
Dec 2013

We just have to be thankful that this one case was handled objectively. They looked at the facts and the evidence. And they came to the only legal decision a reasonable person could conclude.

As for source articles, there are many.

Here is just one.

http://espn.go.com/new-york/college-football/story/_/id/10082441/jameis-winston-not-charged-sexual-assault-investigation


Here are some of the important points of the investigation.


-----SNIP------

He did reveal some new information, saying that while Winston's DNA was present in the sexual assault kit, the DNA of another male was also found, complicating the investigation. That person was identified as the accuser's boyfriend, and he was not associated with the complaint, Meggs said.

Meggs added that the accuser had no outward signs of trauma, a key point in trying to prove an assault, and that documents related to the case were being released.


------SNIP-------

Meggs said he didn't think prosecutors could put the accuser on the stand and "count on her to prove elements of a crime."


-----SNIP-------


After praising Meggs for his investigation, Jansen said he wished Meggs had spoken about the affidavits from witnesses who refuted the accuser's claims. He said that three other men were present in the apartment where the accuser said she was raped. When asked whether those were also football players, he said that was a "good bet."

Two of Winston's teammates backed his story in statements they gave last month to an investigator for Jansen. The statements were part of an investigative file released Thursday.

Teammates Chris Casher and Ronald Darby said they were at a bar with Winston when the accuser struck up a conversation with the quarterback and got into a cab with the three men.

Once at the apartment, the teammates said they peeked through Winston's bedroom door and saw the woman having sex with the quarterback. At one point, Casher said, he "busted into the room to embarrass Jameis" and the woman yelled at him to "get out."

In a later interview with police, Casher changed this part of his story, saying he went into the room because he hoped the woman would also have sex with him, something he said had happened in the past when he and Winston brought a woman to the apartment.

Casher left the room and was not accused of having sex with the woman, and no other women have made accusations against Casher or Darby.

(This morning on ESPN's Mike and Mike Sports Talk radio show it was added that they actually tried to video the encounter but that Winston and the accuser were against the idea so they didn't.)


Here is another link just to clean up the second DNA that was found in the rape kit. That DNA belongs to her boyfriend named Jamal Roberts. I added his name because I see it is now being widely reported. Jamal Roberts is another football player.


---SNIP----

According to the official documents from the case, a swab revealed that the second DNA donor was a man named Jamal Roberts. Some media outlets are reporting that Roberts is a collegiate football player at another school. LBS has been unable to confirm these reports.

Meggs said in his press conference that the DNA from the third party belonged to the accuser’s boyfriend, though he noted that the boyfriend refused to speak with investigators. Meggs also said that the accuser acknowledged having sex with her boyfriend.

http://www.chatsports.com/rumors-humor/a/Jamal-Roberts-DNA-also-reportedly-found-on-Jameis-Winston-accusers-clothing-2-8931355



There are plenty more source articles which back up every fact I initially wrote and more. I fully understand that the facts in evidence are not likely to be enough for everyone. But for people without a strong bias, there is enough evidence here for doubt. I hope you could at least acknowledge that.



EOTE

(13,409 posts)
145. You haven't answered any of the questions I had. Not a single one.
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 02:20 PM
Dec 2013

You did provide links, which I appreciate, but a lot of what you suggested isn't in those links and what IS in those links is laughably far from anything which suggests she's a false accuser. You just reposted a lot of what I questioned earlier.


He did reveal some new information, saying that while Winston's DNA was present in the sexual assault kit, the DNA of another male was also found, complicating the investigation. That person was identified as the accuser's boyfriend, and he was not associated with the complaint, Meggs said.

Meggs added that the accuser had no outward signs of trauma, a key point in trying to prove an assault, and that documents related to the case were being released.

So what you're saying here is that women can't be raped if they had sex with their boyfriend on the same day? What kind of ridiculous bullshit is that? And are you also suggesting that women with no outward signs of trauma can't be raped? REALLY? Christ, I'd expect this kind of talk at FR, but definitely not here.


Two of Winston's teammates backed his story in statements they gave last month to an investigator for Jansen. The statements were part of an investigative file released Thursday.


You don't say!! His teammates back him up?

So again I ask you, do you have any evidence other than sexist, medieval bullshit that suggests that she made this story up? The fact that she also had sex with another person at some time and the fact that his teammates back him up, as any thinking person should know, does not count.


EOTE

(13,409 posts)
150. Which latest post?
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 02:27 PM
Dec 2013

I've responded to all the ridiculousness that you've suggested proves that this was a false accusation. So far, you've only proven that you think that sober women can't be raped and that you think that if an accused's friends back him up that he can't be a rapist. All of those suggestions are incredibly ignorant.

aaaaaa5a

(4,667 posts)
152. Um... okay
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 02:31 PM
Dec 2013

If that is not enough then please answer this.

Question?

If someone is accused of rape, please give me an example of evidence that in your opinion would exonerate him? If its even possible to be exonerated once someone has accused someone else of rape.

EOTE

(13,409 posts)
153. That has nothing to do with this conversation.
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 02:39 PM
Dec 2013

These recent threads have been about why the hell her case was handled like it was. I don't know whether he raped her or not, I'm guessing we'll never know, but I believe he did. YOU are the one who suggests that you know that her charge was false. EVERY SINGLE LITTLE BIT of your so called evidence is just ridiculously sexist bullshit. So far, you have shown that you think her charge to be false because:

1) She had sex with someone else.
2) His friends back him up.
3) Someone claims that she saw him give oral sex to the accused.
4) She didn't have drugs in her system.
5) She didn't show any outward signs of trauma.

All 5 of your points are ridiculously ignorant and sexist. Let me go through them one by one.

1) You REALLY think that because a woman has sex with someone else that she can't have been raped? Do I REALLY need to explain to you how stupid this is?

2) Of COURSE his friends back him up, birds of a feather and all that.

3) Do you think that oral sex doesn't occur in rape? Rape is about power, the one with the power can make the one without the power do quite a few things they wouldn't do normally.

4) What the fuck does her being sober have to do with whether or not she was raped?

5) Do you REALLY think that one needs to be injured in order to have been raped? Are you saying that if she didn't fight back enough to be injured that she wasn't raped? Christ, how to respond to shit like this.

Also, where is this picture of the accuser cheering on the accused? Or is that something you simply made up?

There is utterly no need for me to provide my standard of evidence because I am not the one making comments on the accused's guilt or innocence. YOU are.

aaaaaa5a

(4,667 posts)
156. I think to a reasonable person
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 02:53 PM
Dec 2013

there is enough doubt here to warrant the decision by the DA yesterday. Most objective people support the decision.

As for the picture, I can't post it because it could lead to the identification of the accuser. That is against DU guidelines. But its out there. I have seen 2 pictures of her. One in her FSU football gear. One with her and a friend. Simply do a Google search. I think you could easily find it if you want to.

I have given you 3 credible objective news sources with excerpts explaining in detail why the DA did what he did. And you can't even present one example of evidence that in your view would exonerate someone in a hypothetical case?


I honestly think its possible that for people who think like you, it's impossible for anyone to ever be innocent of a rape accusation. Wow. Hate is truly blind and powerful.

EOTE

(13,409 posts)
157. Wow, you're going way off the wall now.
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 03:04 PM
Dec 2013

"there is enough doubt here to warrant the decision by the DA yesterday." That may be the case now after the police waited an ENTIRE YEAR to do anything about this case, that's what tends to happen when so much time is given for evidence to be destroyed. However, you said you knew that this was a case of false accusation and so far you've posted nothing but sexist bullshit to bolster your argument.

As for the picture being against DU rules, I really don't believe that's the case, but if it were, you're more than welcome to send it to me through PM. If it's just her in her FSU gear, then that's nothing as to what you suggested it was. You said there was a picture of her rooting for her accuser. I've done a google search and have found nothing of that source.

You have done NOTHING to explain why the DA did what he did or to explain why the case withered away for an entire year. Again, you've just posted loads of sexist tripe.

And again, I don't need to provide what I think should exonerate someone. I believe in INNOCENT UNTIL PROVEN GUILTY. So again, if the burden of proof isn't met, I think the person should go free. That has NOTHING to do with how awfully this case was handled and your ridiculously sexist bullshit on sober women without outward signs of trauma can't have been raped. That's absolutely disgusting, subhuman bullshit.

aaaaaa5a

(4,667 posts)
158. Please answer this.
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 03:26 PM
Dec 2013

You have said you believe in innocent until proven guilty. Thank you. (I was honestly starting to doubt that for a second.)


Outside of the girls statements... what other proof is there that a rape occurred based on the evidence we currently have before us?

Please give me an outline of the case that proves a rape did occur.


As for the picture, I love DU. I am a monetary contributor. To be fair I have not read all of the posting guidelines with regard to the message board. But unless a moderator give me permission, I am not going to pass around pictures of a rape accuser publicly or through PM on this site.

There is a picture of the accuser dressed in full FSU football gear widely available online. There are credible witnesses who saw her at the game cheering Winston (who is the Quarterback, star player and face of the team) to victory at a game.

Do this prove she was raped? No. Does it prove she was not raped? No. But is it a part of the picture as we try to piece together what happened? Yes.

If you get me the moderators okay... I will flood the thread with the name, pictures, addresses etc. of the accuser just to make you happy. Until then, my personal policy stands. And I think it is the correct one. I think other DU posters and the moderators of this site would agree with this judgement. Nobody here benefits from passing race accusers pictures along even through PM. I'm shocked you would make such a request.

I'll wait for your outline proving Jameis Winston is guilty of rape.

Until I see it to further this discussion, you will just have to understand that there are people here who believe in justice. There are people who can observe facts and form opinions without a strong bias based on on race, gender, religion, etc. Those of us on that side of the track, with the evidence we currently have before us... don't understand why you are so angry with regard to this particular outcome.

The DA was correct.

EOTE

(13,409 posts)
159. What you are asking are non-sequitors.
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 03:32 PM
Dec 2013

They have NOTHING to do with this conversation. You said that you knew the charges were bogus and when I asked you to provide evidence of that, you provided NOTHING but sexist bullshit in your defense.

You're now even admitting you lied about whatever evidence you provided that wasn't sexist bullshit to begin with. I admit it sounded pretty bad that she was photographed supporting her accuser, but now you're saying it's just a picture of her in FSU football gear. For real?

Now you're saying I have to prove he's guilty of rape just to counter your horrifically sexist and subhuman trash? I NEVER SAID I COULD PROVE HE'S GUILTY OF RAPE. YOU SAID HE WASN'T and you based it on some filthy, repugnant bullshit. What you posted is just beyond disgusting.

I believe in justice, you're just proving how sad and desperate you are by suggesting I'm not. I never suggested he should be in jail. I just suggested that all your so-called 'evidence' is nothing more than disgusting, sexist tripe. You lose. And more than that, you lose at life.

aaaaaa5a

(4,667 posts)
162. I guess we won't be getting an case facts from you. LOL!
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 03:49 PM
Dec 2013

You have resorted to swearing and name calling. You have offered no evidence or insight as to how Winston could be guilty or why the DA should have proceeded further.

I am providing facts and evidence in the case. In return you shout at me and swear.

I suppose until you can at least provide a thumbnail sketch as to why the DA's conclusion is wrong, (As well as that of the overwhelming majority of legal opinions I have seen on the case) there is no reason to go any further.

EOTE

(13,409 posts)
164. You do nothing but distract from the ridiculous and sexist comments you made.
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 03:56 PM
Dec 2013

You said you know that the accused wasn't guilty. In response, I ask you for what evidence you have of this and the evidence you provide is:

1) His teammates say he's not guilty.

2) She wasn't under the influence of drugs.

3) She didn't have any outside injuries.

4) She had sex with someone else.

5) You lied and made up a story about her rooting for the accused afterward.

Disregarding the one piece of evidence you flat out lied about, the rest is just utterly sexist bullshit.

I didn't ask you why you think the DA was right to dismiss the case, I asked you why you thought she made up her story. Everything you provided in that regard has been sexist bullshit. I'm not trying to suggest the DA was wrong. These threads have been about why the case was handled so awfully prior to the DA making that conclusion. What I'm asking you is why the utterly insane 'evidence' you've provided leads you to believe she made the story up. I can see no way that what you posted would lead one to that conclusion unless they were a neaderthal at best.

So, can you answer ANY of the questions that I've posed you? Can you explain how any of that tripe you bolded in your posts asserts that the accuser made up her story? Or do you honestly believe that if a woman has sex or if a woman isn't drunk, that means she wasn't raped?

EOTE

(13,409 posts)
166. Why does a woman having sex with someone mean she wasn't raped by someone else?
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 04:06 PM
Dec 2013

Care to explain to me why you think that awful gem exonerates the accused? Why do you think it's even relevant to bring that up?

Why would you bring up those myriad other sexist tidbits? How do you think in ANY WAY any of that crap you posted suggests the accuser made up her story? I'm not asking you to prove he didn't do it, I'm asking you how you think that any of that crap suggests she made the story up. I can guarantee you won't actually answer any of my questions. If you did, people would realize the disgusting way you think.

EOTE

(13,409 posts)
167. Why do you think a woman who wasn't drugged can't be raped?
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 04:09 PM
Dec 2013

Do you really lack the mental capacity to understand that some men are capable of doing awful things to women without drugging them first? What kind of fucked up, backward thinking is that?

Not that you're actually going to answer any of these questions.

aaaaaa5a

(4,667 posts)
170. Wow 3 posts!
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 04:44 PM
Dec 2013


First I didn't lie about anything. Remember, I am the only one in this debate with actual links to credible sources. I am the only one who has introduced actual evidence which was used in the case. All you have done is shout, swear and call people names.

I will try one more time.

Answer this.


Do you think the DA was wrong to not pursue the case further?


Please. No swearing. No name calling.No angry outbursts. Could you please just answer this very simple question using the evidence as it is currently constituted in this case within your response. This is pretty clear. its pretty easy. If you can't. I think this is settled.

If you can't answer this question, I will assume you agree with the DA's decision. At this point there is nothing more to debate.

EOTE

(13,409 posts)
171. You did lie. You said there was a photo of her rooting for the accused.
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 04:48 PM
Dec 2013

Even YOU admit that wasn't the case. And the only actual 'evidence' you've provided was nothing but sexist bullshit. Why I should answer your questions when you've repeatedly refused to answer even one of mine is beyond me, but I'll bite.

No, I don't think the DA was wrong, but that has nothing to do with these OPs. These OPs were about why the police department did such an awful job and why it took them a fucking year to do a single thing.

That has NOTHING to do with your asinine assertion that she made a false accusation. You base that assertion on nothing but ridiculous and sexist bullshit. If you can't explain to me why the accuser having sex with someone else means she can't have been raped, then you have nothing to stand on. Only a neanderthal would believe such ridiculous bullshit. So, is that what you believe? If not, why did you post that and even bold it? Why would you suggest that a LACK of drugs in her body means that she wasn't raped? Do you have any idea how ungodly stupid that sounds?

aaaaaa5a

(4,667 posts)
174. I'm glad you agree with me regarding the outcome of the case.
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 05:10 PM
Dec 2013

If my OP regarding the picture wasn't fully clear I apologize. The picture shows her dressed up in FSU gear before a football game after the alleged incident. FSU fans said she was cheering on Winston during the game. If that wasn't fully clear again I apologize. The picture and information is readily available online. It's not conclusive evidence. But it is a part of the story. If you read the OP, this was not a big part of argument. If you wish to hang your hat on the fact that the post was poorly worded with regard to when the picture was taken during the game... so be it.


Secondly, if you read my original OP into this discussion, (instead of just swearing at me with angry outbursts), you would have known that I too think the police did a terrible job.

l spent a whole paragraph talking about how poor the Tallahassee PD handled the case.

And unlike you, who apparently is inellectually unable to discuss any facts about the case, I cited a specific example in my post, noting that because of the poor police work prosecutors did not have bar video when the two where having drinks before the alleged incident. I even wrote the lack of video evidence at the bar which police should have confiscated, didn't help the accuser when she made her claims. I further provided credible news links where the DA said the same thing.


So we have agreement.

You believe there was not enough credible evidence to charge someone with a crime. So do I.

You believe the police were complete fools and did a terrible job on the case. And so do I.

Have we found common ground!

EOTE

(13,409 posts)
175. You said the accuser falsely accused the accused.
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 05:17 PM
Dec 2013

Your evidence for this was nothing but repugnant, sexist bullshit and lied when you wanted something else to throw in. A picture of the accuser wearing FSU clothing does NOT mean she was rooting for the accused. How incredibly stupid.

Why do you believe that her having sex with her boyfriend suggests that she wasn't raped? That is utterly disgusting.

Why do you believe that her not having drugs in her system means that she wasn't raped? Do you realize how insanely stupid that line of thinking is?

Why do you throw out such an ugly, awful accusation without a shred of evidence to back it up?

Are you even going to attempt to answer a single question I've asked you? Or are you just going to let it stand? I think you need to turn in your human card. This is not about any of that shit you've posted to distract from the questions I've asked of you. This is about why you think that the accuser made up her story. Are you even going to attempt to defend your lack of humanity?

EOTE

(13,409 posts)
176. And you present yet another lie.
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 05:22 PM
Dec 2013

"Secondly, if you read my original OP into this discussion, (instead of just swearing at me with angry outbursts), you would have known that I too think the police did a terrible job. "

Your first response in this discussion was to accuse this girl of lying about being raped. Not suggesting that there wasn't enough evidence to convict the accused, but that she LIED. In order to defend your batshit crazy accusation, the evidence you present is that she didn't have drugs in her system and that she had sex with her boyfriend. That line of thinking is well beyond mentally incompetent.

EOTE

(13,409 posts)
173. You do know you're accusing this woman of a crime, right?
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 04:51 PM
Dec 2013

Based upon your way beyond idiotic assertion that women who have sex willingly with one person can't be raped by another. Or that only women who have been drugged can be raped. Are you going to do ANYTHING to explain these insane posts or are you just going to let them stand as is? Do you have any idea how insanely stupid that all sounds?

aaaaaa5a

(4,667 posts)
177. I honestly think you need to read the full 86 page report and do some
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 05:37 PM
Dec 2013

research into the case before calling people you don't even know stupid. I haven't called you any names like that.


I don't want to go into the real details of this case, especially with someone who by their own admission doesn't know a lot about it.

However, I will say this. There is compelling evidence that this woman never wanted to bring charges. I think she got swept into the case by the people around her, including her family who allegedly leaked the story to the Tampa Bay Tribune setting off this firestorm. (And yes there is evidence to support this.)

Furthermore, throughout this case the accuser has both engaged and disengaged police efforts to solve this alleged crime. If you read the report, at one point during the case, the investigation was hampered because police were trying to determine who was responsible for the second DNA swab, and she wouldn't tell them. That's how uncooperative she was. There is evidence to support the charges where made up because Winston's girlfriend was coming to town and the accuser didn't like that. She gave conflicted details of her alleged attacker. Including an initial description that was way off. She didn't identify Winston until weeks later.

She claimed she had a head injury. There was no medical evidence of this.

She claimed she was raped. There was no evidence of sexual trauma. And remember it is very possible to have trauma during consensual sex. She has sex twice within this time frame with 2 different football players (one of which was an alleged rape) and showed no trauma at all.

Again this does NOT PROVE that a rape did not happen. But it certainly doesn't prove that it did.

Finally, there are credible witnesses who saw her engaging in sex with Winston. They tell the story of a willing participant. Not someone who was raped. There were no screams. No violence. No drugs. Nobody was drunk. Nobody heard anything. She was even texting classmates looking for the answers to an exam right after this sexual escapade that was watched by multiple people.

Again for the millionth time, this DOES NOT PROVE that a rape did not occur. But it is compelling evidence.

Perhaps accusing her of making false accusations is a bit strong. I may need to take that back. But if this isn't a story that at the very least should be looked at with severe skepticism, then you are basically saying it is impossible for anyone accused of rape to every be exonerated, short of the women recanting her story, or DNA evidence showing they never had sex. This was my point.


I would invite you to do some research into the case. Its very interesting. Please read the 86 page report. Its fascinating. Police have looked at this case twice in 10 months and come to the same conclusion both times. There is a reason for that.

I hope we can continue to have a discussion without the name calling and angry outbursts.

EOTE

(13,409 posts)
178. Why do you think a woman who had sex with her boyfriend willingly can't be raped by someone else?
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 05:55 PM
Dec 2013

Why would you suggest such a disgusting, vile and awful thing?

Why would you suggest that a woman who wasn't drugged can't be raped? What's your excuse for that piece of awfulness?

Why would you lie in order to defend saying such a disgusting thing?

I'd hoped that I could have a discussion with a shred of humanity. We don't always get what we want.

aaaaaa5a

(4,667 posts)
179. Okay, this is my last try.
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 06:02 PM
Dec 2013

You clearly could not have read and understood the last post.

My last question, just out of curiosity.


In a rape case, what do you consider exonerating evidence?

aaaaaa5a

(4,667 posts)
147. CNN Is another excellent source: Very fair and impartial.
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 02:23 PM
Dec 2013

Here is their link.

http://sportsillustrated.cnn.com/college-football/news/20131205/jameis-winston-florida-state-seminoles-not-charged/


In affidavits, Florida State cornerback Ronald Darby and defensive end Chris Casher told a very different story. The players said they met the woman at Potbelly's and that she willingly joined them in a taxi. They each said Casher saw the woman give Winston oral sex because the bedroom door was ajar due to a non-working lock. Casher said he saw them take their clothes off, lie on the bed and begin to have intercourse. He and Darby said Casher burst in the room at one point to embarrass Winston, and Casher said the woman yelled "get out." "From what I saw, she was a more than willing participant," Casher said in his affidavit. Winston never spoke to investigators. He only provided a DNA sample.

----SNIP----


Teammates might attempt to help a fellow player facing such an accusation, so Meggs and his staff had to consider that possibility. But independent of the witnesses, there were two other factors that would have made the case difficult to prosecute.

First, the woman had significant gaps in her memory. "Her recall of the events of that night have been moving around a good bit," Meggs said. "There are some memory lapses. There are some major issues. We have been trying to determine about the memory lapses what would cause that." A toxicology report found that the woman's blood-alcohol level was .048. For comparison's sake, the legal driving limit in Florida is .08. Meggs said technicians extrapolated based on the time the sample was taken and estimated her blood-alcohol level at the time of the incident would have been .10. No drugs were found in her system. Meggs said there was no physical evidence of any head trauma.



Second, investigators found a second DNA profile on the shorts the woman provided. (Winston's DNA profile was found on her underwear.) A defense attorney could use an unknown DNA profile as the foundation of his defense. If prosecutors couldn't positively identify the source of the unknown DNA profile, a defense attorney could suggest that the person who provided the other sample committed the rape. That would likely provide reasonable doubt in jurors' minds. So if Meggs was going to prosecute, he would have to identify that sample. "She acknowledged having sex with her boyfriend," Meggs said. "But she wouldn't tell me who her boyfriend was. Being a shrewd investigator, we found out, and we got his DNA." The investigation could have wrapped up more quickly if not for the delay, which required Meggs to enlist the help of a prosecutor in Ohio to request the boyfriend's DNA.


Identifying the boyfriend's DNA removed a significant stumbling block for prosecutors, but the woman's reluctance to name him could have been problematic. Combined with the conflicting witness accounts and the gaps in her memory, Meggs and his staff decided they would have a difficult time meeting their burden of proof at trial.


---------------------------------------


I would be interested in your feedback.

EOTE

(13,409 posts)
149. You're just repeating the same old offensive, sexist tripe.
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 02:26 PM
Dec 2013

"They each said Casher saw the woman give Winston oral sex because the bedroom door was ajar due to a non-working lock."

OK, so are you saying she wasn't raped because she was giving oral sex, or because the guy's friend backs him up?

"No drugs were found in her system. Meggs said there was no physical evidence of any head trauma. "

So, are you saying that women not on drugs can't be raped or are you saying that women without signs of physical head trauma can't have been raped?

I've given you my feedback, are you willing to actually answer any of my questions?

 

xulamaude

(847 posts)
160. "CNN is an excellent source"
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 03:43 PM
Dec 2013

That was a good one.

My favorite part of CNN is the comments! The best and brightest wax philosophical there!

aaaaaa5a

(4,667 posts)
163. Ha!
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 03:52 PM
Dec 2013

I think for this particular topic, the CNN article is fair and objective.


Don't you just love the ridiculous comments? Sadly I think it does in a small way provide an open window into how bad our society really is.

radicalliberal

(907 posts)
200. "CNN Is another excellent source: Very fair and impartial."
Sun Dec 15, 2013, 05:51 PM
Dec 2013

Don't make me laugh. Notice the unbounded sympathy expressed by Candy Crowley and Poppy Harlow for the CONVICTED rapists in the Steubenville case.

Upton

(9,709 posts)
13. Actually...
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 08:56 PM
Dec 2013

I believe he's standing up for human rights. Nobody should be imprisoned for a crime they didn't commit..

Niceguy1

(2,467 posts)
27. when it comes to rape some people think that
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 09:36 PM
Dec 2013

innocent until proven guilty does not apply. In their world the mere accusation means guilt

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
55. When it comes to rape, some people like to pretend false allegations are common
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 10:32 PM
Dec 2013

when in reality they are rare. It's not hard to figure out the reason for those kind of willful distortions. That 4% of rapists are actually convicted is truly horrifying. Worse yet, some of them even get jail time. Poor men. They are the ones who really count. The fact that 20% of women are raped is inconsequential because our lives don't count.

Niceguy1

(2,467 posts)
58. it counts
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 10:37 PM
Dec 2013

But you still have to prove guilt....the mere accusation isn't enough.

Do you think that it should be different when it comes to rape?

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
60. Do you think women should be intimidated into not pressing charges? That the minority of rape
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 10:41 PM
Dec 2013

victims who come forward should be shamed and intimidated, and then if their rapists get off have misogynists wave the flag of false allegation? Obviously they need to be proved guilty as in all crimes. The fact is that few are. That some here insist on raising the specter of false allegations when in fact they are rare is revealing. The article lists literally hundreds of unprosecuted rapes. Everyone can read this thread and see exactly what is going on.

Niceguy1

(2,467 posts)
77. I think they should be welcome to come forward
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 11:09 PM
Dec 2013

And the people should be proescuted if sufficient evidince exists....which is the hurdle. The question is why are they unprosecuted? I know that lack of evidence is an issue. And there is Not much we can do about that..aside from educating women in what to do....when I was in th ER we would have women arrive for a rape kit after showering and changing clothes. ..

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
82. i know man. that lack of evidence. like videos put up on the net. or admitted to raping a child
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 11:14 PM
Dec 2013

while she was unconscious....

just really not enough fuckin evidence. bummer that.

Niceguy1

(2,467 posts)
90. thatbisnt the aveeage case
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 11:29 PM
Dec 2013

High profile cases aren't the norm.... like the one where the vid went viral recently.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
93. there is all kinds of NORM where women and girls being raped is dismissed by people, cops,
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 11:32 PM
Dec 2013

prosecutors and judges. THAT would be your norm. in high profile cases and no profile cases. THAT is the norm that the rape victims faces. so much so, as a NORM, that many many many rape victims keep their damn mouth shut cause they and all the rest of us are so well versed in the damn NORM.

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
83. They aren't prosecuted because misogynysts assholes in charge of the judical
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 11:14 PM
Dec 2013

system don't want them to be, because of victim blaming rather than focusing on how rape victims are treated like garbage. Did you read the article? Do you really think there wasn't evidence in any of those hundreds of cases? The article makes clear why those cases weren't prosecuted. It shows how victims were shamed, intimidated, and threatened. To have that level of willful ignorance of how rapes are trivialized by police and prosecutors takes sustained effort. This article could be an opportunity to learn something, if you wanted to. Yet you steadfastly resist even considering its point. Why is that?

LadyHawkAZ

(6,199 posts)
101. Sequere pecuniam, for one thing
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 11:56 PM
Dec 2013

is a college with millions of dollars riding on their athletic program more likely, or less likely, to give a fair hearing to a rape allegation against one of their athletes? (or coaches: see Penn State for a recap of how this gets handled)

Also, there are still a lot of ingrained attitudes about rape victims that come into play, and a reluctance to ruin the lives of "nice young boys" even in the face of overwhelming evidence. (See Steubenville for a recap of how this gets handled) The default position on women being raped is still "she's lying"; the default position on men being raped is still "no such thing". We're making advances, but those attitudes are still around, and they can be traumatizing or deadly to victims.

And some places simply haven't bothered testing rape kits (google "untested rape kits" for how that gets handled).

And AFTER you get through all that, you still have to prove in court that there was a rape and get a jury to believe you, which is difficult to do in cases of date or acquaintance rape, or rape where there is little other corroborating physical damage.

If you had to run that gauntlet of belittling and shaming to prosecute someone who had harmed you, do you think you could do it, and follow it through to the end? A lot of people don't bother.

Hopefully that answers your question.

 

xulamaude

(847 posts)
61. Prove guilt?
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 10:49 PM
Dec 2013

We (meaning girls and women and some other folk) are all too aware that the "accusation isn't enough".

Holy crap.

Niceguy1

(2,467 posts)
79. that's not the reaction with high profile cases are dismissed
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 11:11 PM
Dec 2013

due to the lack of evidence. Go to the current threads on the football player and the references to the award ceremony. Accusatikns privilege was cited by many

Niceguy1

(2,467 posts)
137. lives do count
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 11:51 AM
Dec 2013

I was referring to the times that it is determined that there is insufficient evidence to prosecute...or that a rape did not actually occur (ie the recent public sex case). In a perfect world there would always be evidence. .

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
133. Guilt and innocence is handed down by courts only. We merely have opinions.
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 11:27 AM
Dec 2013

Guilt and innocence is handed down by courts only. We merely have opinions. But my all means-- continue to conflate the two to better validate your own biases and well as pretend bias in others... that too is your right.

alarimer

(16,245 posts)
203. Most rapists aren't imprisoned at all.
Sun Dec 15, 2013, 07:05 PM
Dec 2013

The number who are imprisoned falsely is vanishingly small.

Most of these thugs never see a day in court even. 97% are never tried.

 

NuclearDem

(16,184 posts)
11. Well, it's clear the FBI has been infiltrated by radical feminists.
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 08:38 PM
Dec 2013

Because God knows all rape accusations are false!

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
74. Completely ignores the hundres of cases listed in the article
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 11:02 PM
Dec 2013

and repeats incessantly ONE case where a false allegation. Ten to one. The numbers are tens of thousands to one, and even that is too much for some.

aaaaaa5a

(4,667 posts)
128. That FBI study is hotly disputed. This is why such numbers are not allowed to
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 09:56 AM
Dec 2013

be introduced in any rape trial. It is not considered factual evidence. To state it as the "end all be all" is actually very misleading.

niyad

(113,306 posts)
131. hotly disputed by whom? those who don't want to look at facts, who want us to think that all
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 11:08 AM
Dec 2013

women who report rape are liars or sluts? please cite links to legitimate, reliable sources for the "hotly disputed", showing that the fbi is wrong. funny, that same fbi is used to "prove" that the incidence of rape is going down. keep trying.

and, of course, no comment about the FORTY YEARS of colleges, police and prosecutors turning a blind eye to this heinous crime when football is involved. sadly, I am not in the least surprised.

Upton

(9,709 posts)
12. Indeed...
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 08:51 PM
Dec 2013

The woman, Wanetta Gibson, who falsely accused Banks, not only put him in prison for 5 years and cost him his pro football career, but she also sued the Long Beach School District for damages, receiving 1.5 million. And as far as I know, she has yet to serve a day in jail or pay a cent back..

 

xulamaude

(847 posts)
14. Got stats on the number of convictions of
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 08:58 PM
Dec 2013

falsely accused and prosecuted and convicted 'rapists'?

Upton

(9,709 posts)
15. Your point?
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 09:00 PM
Dec 2013

I mean, no matter what the stats are, does that somehow justify what happened to Banks?

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
21. Criminal prosecution isn't a statistical exercise.
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 09:28 PM
Dec 2013

Banks was convicted because of a set of generalized cultural beliefs, not because of the merits of the case.

"Why would she lie?" in Gibson's case, there were $1.5 million reasons.

 

xulamaude

(847 posts)
34. A set of generalized cultural beliefs??
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 09:42 PM
Dec 2013

Are you trying to say that there is an ingrained belief that all (black) men are rapists?

Historically it has been white men prosecuting and convicting in rape cases.

(and the $$ are a civil issue, not criminal as I'm sure you know)

niyad

(113,306 posts)
78. she lied because she knew she was going to get 1.5 mil? how many other women have sued
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 11:09 PM
Dec 2013

schools, or districts, or universities, and gotten settlements to the point where this woman would think it a likely outcome of her lie? please cite all the relevant cases. you need a longer straw here.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
18. The point to me
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 09:16 PM
Dec 2013

is whether every thread about rape should be dismissed by bringing up one false accusation. False accusations are rare, and rape is pretty common. Do you respond to every thread about murder with a name of someone who was falsely accused of murder, which also happens?

Upton

(9,709 posts)
20. Okay...whatever..
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 09:26 PM
Dec 2013

would it make you happier if every false allegation was just ignored? I really don't understand this unwillingness to address the Banks situation.. or does it interfere with some agenda?

Btw, false rape allegations may be relatively rare, but I'd suggest even one, is one too many..

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
22. This thread isn't about him
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 09:30 PM
Dec 2013

It's about several rape allegations. Do you think every rape allegation related to college football players is false? Do you think there is any problem at all with rape and college sports? Do you think we should not discuss rape on college campuses? Do you think it's right to dismiss every discussion?

Obviously it's horrible when it happens, but it is not common, and rape on college campuses is common. We can talk about rape on college campuses even though this one person was falsely accused (when in high school, not college, so not even relevant as far as that goes.) It does not negate the need for discussion of actual rape.

The agenda is to discuss rape. What agenda do you have?

 

xulamaude

(847 posts)
25. "is one too many"
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 09:32 PM
Dec 2013

Great.

Actual rape is NOT relatively rare in relation to false accusations and the subsequent prosecutions, convictions and incarcerations of 'rapists'.

Yet one is too many...

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
47. Are those the only options?
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 09:55 PM
Dec 2013

That we have to set guilty people free in order to not convict anyone falsely? Why not want justice in every case?

Maybe we shouldn't convict anyone for any crime. That would keep anyone from being falsely convicted. Or is it just rape you're thinking of?

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
49. The ideal is to convict, sentence and punish every guilty person and zero innocents.
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 10:04 PM
Dec 2013

Blackstone wasn't comfortable with the idea that the justice system should be an agent of injustice, and "probably guilty" wasn't good enough.

Authoritarians like Pol Pot on the other hand believed the reverse.

So no. There's always the Pol Pot approach.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
53. Yes, it's a statement of innocent until proven guilty
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 10:16 PM
Dec 2013

which I agree with. It is not a statement that it is desirable, or OK, for rapists to go free.

 

xulamaude

(847 posts)
112. Ah, the old Pol Pot! How'd I miss this?!
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 12:27 AM
Dec 2013

Because women have all sorts of power to become Nazi-esque dictators who resort to eliminating the cultured and educated!

Just. LOL.

 

davidn3600

(6,342 posts)
59. "It is more important that the innocent be protected, than the guilty be punished"
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 10:38 PM
Dec 2013
"It is more important that innocence should be protected, than it is, that guilt be punished; for guilt and crimes are so frequent in this world, that all of them cannot be punished.... when innocence itself, is brought to the bar and condemned, especially to die, the subject will exclaim, 'it is immaterial to me whether I behave well or ill, for virtue itself is no security.' And if such a sentiment as this were to take hold in the mind of the subject that would be the end of all security whatsoever."
-President John Adams

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
122. How does that contradict anything I've said
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 09:00 AM
Dec 2013

I don't want anyone innocent convicted. I also don't want us to ignore rape.

JVS

(61,935 posts)
88. Yes, it is the only option. We must set the burden of proof high enough that...
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 11:23 PM
Dec 2013

we are certain that anyone convicted of a crime has committed it.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
121. Which means that we should never convict anyone of anything
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 08:58 AM
Dec 2013

We have a burden of proof and presumption of innocence, which is what that quote is about and is a just and right thing. And we need to work on issues like racism creeping into courts and juries because I think that leads to a lot of cases where innocent people are found guilty, but we can't simply ignore crime.

 

Comrade Grumpy

(13,184 posts)
56. OK, I know better than to get involved in this stuff, but...
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 10:33 PM
Dec 2013

You sound like you're okay with innocent men being imprisoned if it prevents rape. That seems like the beginning of a slippery slope.

I have an idea: Let's try to prevent both. That would require trying cases based on evidence, not on the accused's connections and not on preconceived political positions.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
66. really? cause i was the first to suggest 10 INNOCENT girls should not be protected for 1
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 10:54 PM
Dec 2013

innocent man? maybe i feel it sounds like those ten INNOCENT girls were being dismissed. MAYBE that would be the point of me talking about the ten INNOCENT girls that were raped, while the poster was concerned about one innocent man

ya think?

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
68. You sound like you're okay with innocent men being imprisoned if it prevents rape.
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 10:56 PM
Dec 2013

what a stupid, stupid... comment to make.

 

xulamaude

(847 posts)
80. All kinds of 'innocent' people
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 11:12 PM
Dec 2013

are imprisoned all the time. Many of them are women who protected themselves from physical/sexual abuse.

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
28. "Dismissed" No.
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 09:37 PM
Dec 2013

It's very possible that the police bungled their investigation.

It is also possible that they didn't and found that the case is simply not provable.

The reaction here to my simple, patently true and uncontroversial observation suggests that, to the extent that public pressure may exist, it's not pressure to give accused athletes a fair trial.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
32. They should absolutely get a fair trial
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 09:40 PM
Dec 2013

What frustrates a lot of women is that we've seen, and in many cases experienced, that there is often not a fair trial. In fact women are often talked out of doing anything about it at all so it never even gets to trial, or are not taken seriously so there are not even charges. Or are afraid to even bring it up because they've seen that happen to friends.

It's also frustrating to have every discussion of rape become a discussion of the occasional false reports, especially when that doesn't seem to happen with discussion of other crime.

niyad

(113,306 posts)
70. wow, did you even bother to read that list? you keep bringing up this banks person, without
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 10:57 PM
Dec 2013

ever addressing this appalling list of college athletes, almost none of whom faced prosecution, unlike the victims. not surprising, sadly.

Response to lumberjack_jeff (Reply #1)

Tumbulu

(6,278 posts)
119. Oh honestly, this is preposterous
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 02:47 AM
Dec 2013

and what is it, 1 in 10 rapes get reported?

Let's see I know of 16 rapes that immediately come to mind of fiends and family and not one of them was reported. not one. And you have the gaul to talk about that sometimes the accusations are not true?

Wonder what would happen to the male population if all these rapists were actually jailed?

A woman shoots a gun off in the air in self defense and gets 20 years, a man rapes a minor and gets one month probation.

Sick sick sick, I suggest you think a little bit about these dismal facts.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
23. I wonder whether the girls in the top pic would have the signs out if Jameis Winston....
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 09:30 PM
Dec 2013

....played for good old FU.

The old "our laundry is clean and your laundry stinks". Just sayin'.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
30. I bet they don't
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 09:39 PM
Dec 2013

And if you think so, you really don't understand the tribe mentality of college sports.

Your hint should be the lower right corner.

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
35. I went to the U of Texas
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 09:43 PM
Dec 2013

a major football university. I couldn't give a flying fuck about football or anyone who trivializes rape.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
37. Then you should get it.
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 09:47 PM
Dec 2013

If the Longhorns quarterback was accused of rape, you wouldn't get in the building with a sign accusing him.

If the Aggies QB was in the same boat, you'd be a hero.

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
43. I wouldn't go to the stadium regardless
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 09:52 PM
Dec 2013

Never did, never will. Nor did I have patience for the stupid longhorn steer running around campus. I had some of the football players as students, only when one cheated on his final I had to be told he was some big star already signed for the pros. (I couldn't begin to remember his name). I couldn't tell a one of them from any other hapless student, other than they tend to be bigger.

What you are describing is rape culture in action.

Upton

(9,709 posts)
31. I hate to break it to you..
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 09:40 PM
Dec 2013

but those women are Gators. They almost assuredly wouldn't be demonstrating the same reaction had the accused been playing for Florida..

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
38. evidently you and a couple of others here see this as all about the football fans
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 09:47 PM
Dec 2013

Rather than the fact rape victims are intimidated into not filing charges and universities sweep the problem under the rug. This is a clear demonstration of the rape culture some pretend doesn't exist.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
45. Actually, bullshit
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 09:53 PM
Dec 2013

The bigger question you should ask is "Would those girls be holding that sign if Jameis Winston played for Florida?" and the ramifications of that and why all this shit continues.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
64. Nope, you still don't get it....
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 10:51 PM
Dec 2013

....we're a little closer on this issue than you think....but I'm not going to spell it out for you with your usual attitude towards me.

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
76. You and your pals are intent on derailing the thread
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 11:08 PM
Dec 2013

rather than dealing with the article which is about 40 years of rapes being swept under the rug. It's not about the cheering habits of football fans. It's about prosecutors, police, and university officials covering up and refusing to prosecute rape. It's about the rape culture engendered by that behavior that makes it easy for rapists to continually reoffend without consequence. That is the fucking point of the article. All one needs is a basic level of reading comprehension.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
85. What's amazing is that you can't use an iota of reading comprehension....
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 11:18 PM
Dec 2013

....to figure out what I'm trying to say. Again, it's actually on point with your statement. You're just too blinded by your hatred of "me and my pals" for whatever reason to draw it.

One last hint: The same culture you rail against is the same culture that would probably get those Florida fans to hold a sign saying "Innocent" if Winston played for Florida.

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
109. It's not up to me to read your mind
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 12:24 AM
Dec 2013

It's your responsibility to make your point clear. Focusing on the young female fans to the exclusion of prosecutors, police, and administrative officials leaves a definite impression. If you choose not to clarify, that's your choice. I'll grant you one thing. At least you aren't going on endlessly about a false allegation not mentioned in the article.

And for the record, I don't hate you or your pals. I have, however, grown weary of some of their shtick. If I didn't have the men's group on trash, I might very well hate them, but I prefer to spare myself the torment of reading that stuff.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
114. "I have, however, grown weary of some of their shtick."
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 12:38 AM
Dec 2013

Wow....the irony.

My guess is you "trashed" it because you couldn't be civil and got banned and can't reply. But I'm sure your imagination makes up for a lot.

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
118. One has kindly offered to hear a petition to reinstate me
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 01:37 AM
Dec 2013

but I declined. I was never uncivil in there. Never had a hidden post in there. I did confront them on gossiping about me. That clearly hit at the core and disqualified me from posting. But as I've told that host, I owe him a debt of gratitude. I go through my life quite happily, with normal, civilized people. I don't meet men who insist on complaining about how they are oppressed by women or how awful feminists are for daring to hold ideas that some men don't approve of. Yet somehow online I witness the most astonishing individuals I've ever encountered in my life. Perhaps it's just that the internet frees them to say what they wouldn't otherwise dare. Or, as someone noted, perhaps some have grown more reactionary the longer they've been involved. Whatever it is, I'm happier not seeing it up close. Occasionally someone directs me there, like today, where I saw a witch hunt in action. Anything seems to go. No one has to invent anything. It is kind of funny to watch MIRT members unfamiliar with the place react when they see what's posted there.

The reality is the entire ethos is irrelevant to the 21st century. Time marches on, and society progresses. Whine as they might, they can't stop time.

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
142. What do you think? The article talks about 40 years of sexual assault going unpunished
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 02:07 PM
Dec 2013

and some here want to insist it just isn't important because one guy somewhere was falsely accused. Any decent human being should be upset by that. It's repulsive.

chervilant

(8,267 posts)
123. OMG!
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 09:02 AM
Dec 2013

You are the one who doesn't "get it." I strongly encourage you to find resources and people who can help you understand.

niyad

(113,306 posts)
117. I would guess that since these females are attending college, they are adults, women, not "girls"
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 01:21 AM
Dec 2013

but a nice try at diminution and dismissal.

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
33. The banner they are holding says "No means No" once. It says "Go Gators!" twice.
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 09:41 PM
Dec 2013

Shockingly, what seems almost certain to you may not seem so certain to them.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
41. Oh, I'm sure they're very upset a Florida State player might be getting away with something.
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 09:49 PM
Dec 2013

That's how it is down there, on all sides.

ScreamingMeemie

(68,918 posts)
130. I would agree with you if they didn't have a "Go Gators" on that sign...
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 10:06 AM
Dec 2013

To me, it's depressing to see these women. It's not about the rape for them, it's about the winning.

 

davidn3600

(6,342 posts)
29. Yeah I think it would mean a lot more if those girls were FSU fans
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 09:38 PM
Dec 2013

There is no shortage of signs in the Baltimore Ravens stadium of Roethlisberger being a rapist. But you won't find any in Pittsburgh by Steeler fans.

Funny how that works.

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
51. Funny who wants to make this all about football fans in the photo
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 10:09 PM
Dec 2013

and diminish the importance of the actual substance of the article. Ah. No it's not. It's utterly predictable.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
113. And maybe Jameis Winston knows that. nt
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 12:34 AM
Dec 2013

You apparently assume he doesn't I guess and the fans in the photo I bet don't care much.

But it doesn't really matter. I guess he did it.

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
146. Just add that one to the list of so-called "false allegations"
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 02:22 PM
Dec 2013

that some invent in order to dismiss rape as a problem. Ignoring the article that talks about hundreds of rapes that went unprosecuted and why they did in order to parrot some idiocy about a single falsely accused man in another context shows absolute disregard for the lives and safety of women.

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
144. While you willfully ignore the hundreds of unprosecuted rapes discussed in the article
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 02:19 PM
Dec 2013

Last edited Fri Dec 6, 2013, 06:07 PM - Edit history (1)

I take back what I said about your not going around talking about false accusations. I clearly overestimated you. It won't happen again.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
184. So you're saying he is guilty then?
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 08:08 PM
Dec 2013

All I said was maybe.

You've decided though, judge and jury.

There were people in the south who did that 80 years ago too.

chervilant

(8,267 posts)
124. I wonder why you think
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 09:22 AM
Dec 2013

it's appropriate to call young women "girls"? Should we call these college football players "boys"? I mean, apart from the ones we should call rapists.

kiva

(4,373 posts)
44. I haven't followed the case and have no opinion on his guilt
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 09:53 PM
Dec 2013

or innocence, in fact hadn't really heard about it until today (not a sports fan), but what caught my attention when I was listening to NPR was when the prosecutor said (paraphrasing here) that because the woman had had sex with her boyfriend within the same time frame the case would be 'confusing' to prosecute.

Really? So if a woman is unlucky enough to be raped shortly after having consensual sex with a partner her rapist gets lucky? I don't know how common this is, and frankly am posting this to ask if anyone is familiar with this issue.

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
92. There is a proven case of false rape allegation in another thread, YET
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 11:31 PM
Dec 2013

some have ignored that thread and instead are insistent on raising an entirely unrelated case in this thread. They do so rather than engaging with the point of the linked article about 40 years of rape being swept under the rug. Just what do you suppose that's about?

niyad

(113,306 posts)
94. goddess forfend that we should discuss issues of importance to women,issues like rape culture,
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 11:35 PM
Dec 2013

the treatment of women in society, etc.,

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
95. Some make it their mission to disrupt that as much as possible
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 11:38 PM
Dec 2013

because after all, the only thing that matters is menz.

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
97. Once the falsely convicted has been exonerated, the legitimacy of justice is already damaged.
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 11:44 PM
Dec 2013

Better that the rush to judgement not create victims of mob justice in the first place.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
98. NOTHING would have happened in that stuebenville case if people didnt yell from
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 11:50 PM
Dec 2013

one end of the nation to the other. and so many other situations. so excuse us women if your platitudes do not hold water for us.

 

NuclearDem

(16,184 posts)
100. Yeah, and justice isn't "damaged" when communities sweep rape under the rug
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 11:55 PM
Dec 2013

Or intimidate women into not reporting or create hostile environments for teenagers who've been violated.

Such bullshit. The justice system is repeatedly shown to be stacked against rape victims and nothing, but two examples of false rape accusations and all of a sudden you're fucking quoting Blackstone. Yeah, "justice", my ass.

 

xulamaude

(847 posts)
102. "the legitimacy of justice is already damaged"
Thu Dec 5, 2013, 11:56 PM
Dec 2013

Please do tell that to the hundreds of thousands (millions) of rape victims who know how badly "justice" is damaged.

Man.

niyad

(113,306 posts)
116. hyperbole much? mob justice? because this one person to whom you keep referring, completely
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 01:12 AM
Dec 2013

ignoring all the other situations listed here, was wrongly convicted, we are talking "mob justice"??? and yet, when we talk about all the cases of rape, all the victims who never see justice because of things like this list shows, that somehow doesn't really count. I wish I could say I was surprised by your comment, but, sadly, am not.

AnnieBW

(10,426 posts)
104. My Friend Was Propositioned By Dan Marino
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 12:03 AM
Dec 2013

When he was at Pitt. He was a senior and she was a freshman. She was in an elevator with him, and he asked her "how would you like to sleep with a legend?" I told her that she should have responded that she didn't see Joe Montana around here anywhere.

It's jock privilege, plain and simple. They're taught that all women are going to fall all over them. A lot of women are "starfuckers" and do fall all over them. There's a lot that are looking for a payout. But that doesn't excuse raping someone - even from my beloved Ben Roethlisberger.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
106. but surely Ben Roethlisberger has dropped out of the "beloved" position... surely.
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 12:15 AM
Dec 2013

what got me more than anything was a headline saying, regardless of his past troubles, he is vindicated taking the team to the super bowl

so, because he took the team to the super bowl, he is no longer a rapist. or something.

oh, and i like the montana comment

aaaaaa5a

(4,667 posts)
129. I follow sports closely.
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 10:01 AM
Dec 2013

Jamies Winston-False Accusation

Kobe Bryant-False Accusation

Duke Lacrosse- False Accusation

Brian Banks- False Accusation ( A very tragic case where an untrue accusation of rape cost a young man dearly)

Jerome Bettis-False Accusation

And I could go on.


However the Ben Rothlisberger case always bothered me. False accusations especially in sports is more common than the general public believes. But even in this environment, its hard to get "falsely accused of rape TWICE. The case in Georgia probably warranted a more serious look. And I am not sure proper Police work was done in this particular situation.

radicalliberal

(907 posts)
201. I bet you do. Have you ever considered the possibility that the sports media might be biased?
Sun Dec 15, 2013, 06:27 PM
Dec 2013

I mean, after all, all school athletes are noble and can never do wrong. As Gerald Ford once said, "Athletes are the natural leaders of a country." (That must be true. After all, we know that all nonathletic men are wimps.) Blah, blah, blah.

Do you really believe the sports media makes a point to expose bad behavior on the part of athletes? Oh, please! They're too busy putting athletes on pedestals to do any investigative reporting. Besides, we don't want to upset the sports fans. Of course, there are a few football fans who are candid enough to admit that they have no problem with rapists playing on their favorite teams.

Have you ever heard of "jock privilege"? Have you ever heard of unbounded sense of entitlement? ("We own this s---.&quot A former university football player with whom I'm acquainted has referred to the "rule the roost" attitude that most of his teammates had.

We live in a society in which, far more often than not, school athletes are not held accountable for rotten conduct off the playing field. I seriously doubt many high-school football coaches have any problem with any of their players bullying other students. (Especially if the bullying victim is physically weaker. Since many of these guys define masculinity in terms of athletic prowess and physical strength, they will view a teenage boy who is not physically strong or who simply has no interest in sports as not deserving of any respect. So, he deserves to be bullied for being such a "sissy" or wimp.)

Sure, there are false accusations of rape; but many rapes are never reported, no doubt because the victim doesn't think she will receive any justice, but will likely be victimized by the local community. (Witness the death threats the Steubenville victim received AFTER the conviction. Also notice the lack of outrage by sports fans and columnists over this heartbreaking injustice of these death threats.) But statistics have shown that a nonathletic man is far more likely to be convicted of rape than an athlete accused of rape. It's not surprising. All the defense attorney has to do is pack the jury full of sports fans! I have no doubt that if the Steubenville case had been tried before a jury, there would have been no conviction.

We live in a society in which a teenage adolescent or a young man who commits a rape can actually get away with it if . . . he excels at a sport! That's not insane? No, what will often happen is that the local community will rally around the rapist(s) and spit upon the victim. (Good sportsmanship, I suppose!)

I notice you don't comment on most of the cases listed in the OP. (Oh, well, it doesn't matter. We all know the game of football is more important than the issue of rape being covered up. To hell with the victims!) I suggest you read Our Guys by Bernard Lefkowitz. It might broaden your outlook beyond the extremely biased view of so many sports fans.

niyad

(113,306 posts)
206. nice list, but a bit misleading.
Sun Dec 15, 2013, 08:57 PM
Dec 2013

there is NO 'false accusation" in winston's case. the incompetent, inept, corrupt police did not do their jobs, and, frankly, neither did the state (no other investigation I ever heard of had a "time limit" (which just happened to coincide with the heisman vote, not to mention he is an fsu alum) deciding not to prosecute because there is, supposedly, not enough evidence, is, as you damned well know, NOT the same thing as a false accusation.

but then, we are well aware of what that list is all about. keep trying, I need another reason for a glass of wine.

oh, and the kobe bryant thing? really need to get your facts straight:

Kobe Bryant sexual assault case

The Kobe Bryant sexual assault case began in July 2003 when the news media reported that the sheriff's office in Eagle, Colorado had arrested professional basketball player Kobe Bryant in connection with an investigation of a sexual assault complaint filed by a 19-year-old hotel employee. Bryant had checked into The Lodge and Spa at Cordillera, a hotel in Edwards, Colorado, on June 30 in advance of having surgery near there on July 2 under Dr. Richard Steadman. The woman accused Bryant of raping her in his hotel room on July 1, the night before the surgery. Bryant admitted to an adulterous sexual encounter with his accuser, but denied the assault allegation. The case was dropped after Bryant's accuser refused to testify in the case. A separate civil suit was later filed against Bryant by the woman. This was settled out of court and included Bryant's publicly apologizing to his accuser, though admitting no guilt on his part.

. . . .

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kobe_Bryant_sexual_assault_case




Jerome Bettis
Aug. 21, 2002: Accused of sexual assault
Oct. 16, 2002: Prosecutors say Bettis will not be charged

http://sportsillustrated.cnn.com/more/news/2003/07/18/the_accused/

(it is disgusting that I must point out the obvious, but--not being charged is NOT THE SAME AS saying it was a false accusation) but, as I said, keep trying. I could use another drink.

AnnieBW

(10,426 posts)
192. More Like That He's Settle Down And Got Married
Sun Dec 8, 2013, 12:56 AM
Dec 2013

Ben straightened himself out, met a girl, and got married after that happened. That vindicated him more than winning a Super Bowl in the eyes of a lot of people. Some people - not me.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
193. i didnt know one "vindicated" themselves of raping another human being, simply by marrying. wow. k
Sun Dec 8, 2013, 12:59 AM
Dec 2013

thanks.

AnnieBW

(10,426 posts)
194. Yeah, well, they don't
Sun Dec 8, 2013, 01:02 AM
Dec 2013

The only thing that would have vindicated him in MY eyes is being in jail. Then again, look at Michael Vick.

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
107. Jerry Sandusky is a different aspect of the football sexual assault problem.
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 12:21 AM
Dec 2013

and the power of football over all other programs at a university. The power of Joe Paterno to deny all.

No checks and balances, just power.

 

stevenleser

(32,886 posts)
132. It should be standard procedure in situations like this for the FBI to take jurisdiction
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 11:23 AM
Dec 2013

I don't know all the ins and outs of it but the FBI has the right to assert jurisdiction on hate crimes and on color of law abuses. Those categories should be extended to cover sexual assaults where the local jurisdiction may seem to have a conflict of interest.

Edited to add... ...conflict of interest or otherwise less than normal prosecutorial zeal to prosecute what seem to be prosecutable sexual offenses.

 

stevenleser

(32,886 posts)
135. I wonder what it would take to make that change. Also...
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 11:31 AM
Dec 2013

... anyone know the FBI's track record on rape prosecution? I can look it up too, just want to know if anyone has the stats.

niyad

(113,306 posts)
136. not sure what it would take, and not sure of the fbi's track record. but, as you said, somebody
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 11:36 AM
Dec 2013

here probably knows.

 

Comrade Grumpy

(13,184 posts)
154. I understand the suggestion, but am not a big fan of ever-expanding federal law enforcement.
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 02:39 PM
Dec 2013

Remember when we used to say "You don't need to make a federal case out of it"?

If you doubt the ability of local law enforcement to act properly, I would suggest going to state authorities, not the feds. I don't know any statutory basis for the FBI to get involved in local criminal matters, other than what you mentioned.

 

stevenleser

(32,886 posts)
155. It wouldn't happen much after the first few. Police departments hate the Feds doing this...
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 02:42 PM
Dec 2013

...the embarrassment that would be incurred by the first few departments shown up by a rock solid conviction of rapists they should have prosecuted would give the rest of the country the incentive not to keep pulling this.

Sgent

(5,857 posts)
161. This was handled fairly well
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 03:49 PM
Dec 2013

once the state attorney's office took over the investigation.

The Tallahassee police were horrible.

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
182. What about the 40 years of rapes in which victims were pressured, shamed, and intimidated
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 08:02 PM
Dec 2013

into not pressing charges, or in which police didn't investigate and prosecutors didn't press charges because "boys will be boys" and few give a fuck about rape victims. That is what this article is about.

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
151. Read the title of the article: 40 years of rape
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 02:29 PM
Dec 2013

It's not about one guy. It's not about a Lacrosse player. It's about a half century of rapes going unpunished. That is being widely ignored. Why? Why do some so insistently refuse to engage with what is clearly an endemic problem in order to parrot ramblings about a falsely accused guy, not even a football player?. The clear message is that the fact that hundreds to thousands of women have been raped, and that their rapists operate with impunity is insignificant. Their lives don't matter. What matters is the man. One claimed "we don't know why they weren't prosecuted." Actually the article shows why they weren't prosecuted and were instead subjected to intimidation, victim shaming, and complete contempt. The actions of police, prosecutors, and university officials are mirrored by some of the responses in this thread. What we see is an active propagation of rape culture, both online and off.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
165. "It's about a half century of rapes going unpunished. That is being widely ignored. Why?"
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 03:59 PM
Dec 2013

Right, like we don't know.

We know exactly why.

niyad

(113,306 posts)
181. yes, we do know exactly why, and the fact that we do know, and are not silent about it, is
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 07:56 PM
Dec 2013

really threatening to so many. sad, but not in the least surprising.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
186. Well, fortunately, more and more women are no longer willing to silently accept it.
Sat Dec 7, 2013, 12:43 AM
Dec 2013

More and more women are getting more and more pissed off at the way the brutality toward women is treated as no more noteworthy than background noise. A natural situation. Simply part of a woman's lot in life, and something for us to accept as a consequence of living in "a man's world".

niyad

(113,306 posts)
180. but we are not supposed to notice, or point it out for fear of hurting their feelings. how dare
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 07:55 PM
Dec 2013

we talk about, make lists of, the terrible things that have happened, with blind eyes turned by police and every other authority group involved. the brazen and constant attempt to deflect attention from this is far beyond disgusting.

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
183. Can anyone imagine a 40 yr pattern of crime against men going unpunished?
Fri Dec 6, 2013, 08:06 PM
Dec 2013

and then posters coming into a thread about it and completely ignoring the point of the article to talk endlessly about the rights of one alleged rapist? Is it really too much for people to at least pretend that they give a damn about the lives of sexually assaulted women?

 

davidn3600

(6,342 posts)
187. This article is suggesting that Winston is guilty and there was a cover-up
Sat Dec 7, 2013, 03:07 AM
Dec 2013

Now, some of the things about this investigation is a bit odd. The police telling the woman something like, "This is a football town and if you pursue this your life will be miserable" (or whatever the exact quote was) is wrong and unprofessional. But for all we know, it's taken out of context. Many would say it's intimidation for her not to file the report. But perhaps the police was simply warning her that people are going to attack her and to expect that attack because its a football town. Things can easily be interpreted the wrong way. Either way though...the comment should have never been said.

Listening to the state attorney at the press conference, he's also obviously not the brightest bulb in the box.

However, this isn't a Steubenville situation. You look at the evidence in the case and there is a lot of flimsy things. And it's quite likely that a jury will find reasonable doubt. With Steubenville, the evidence was glaring and you had local officials, the police, the prosecutor, parents, and school officials...most of the town actually... actively working to cover it up. That's not the case here... There is no evidence that happened here...

Ultimately, I was not there when this sex/rape occurred. You were not there either, correct? There are only 2 people in this world that know the truth...the woman and Jameis Winston. You have to look at every case independently. Yet the article is subtly trying to make a connection between those other cases and making the suggestion that Winston is guilty. No matter who you believe, he is innocent until proven guilty.

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
188. You clearly didn't read it
Sat Dec 7, 2013, 03:19 AM
Dec 2013

Last edited Sat Dec 7, 2013, 04:24 AM - Edit history (1)

It places this in the context of 40 years of rapes swept under the rug. The long term pattern of allowing rapists to operate unfettered is the point of the article. This is not a piece about one man. Why is it that you don't care about those many hundreds of other cases? This determined effort to make this all about championing one accused rapists shows how little some members care about violent crime against women.

Is your assertion that in an entire half century, none of those women were telling the truth? Do you think all women lie just to make lie about rape just to make life difficult for men? Or is it that you simply don't give a damn about those women's lives?

As for this guy, he will not be tried so he is not a convicted rapist. I think it highly likely that he not only raped her but that he will continue to rape. That, however, is not the main point of this piece. It is about a long term pattern of allowing men to get away with rape that you and too many other men in this thread clearly don't care enough about to even engage with. From you, I would expect nothing else. One or two others have slightly surprised me, but at least now I know. These threads have a way of illuminating who people are.

 

davidn3600

(6,342 posts)
189. Oh whatever...
Sat Dec 7, 2013, 04:58 AM
Dec 2013

I dont know enough about all those other cases to have a very good opinion on them. The information presented is by an author that has an obvious bias and is certainly not allowing the other side to defend themselves.

But are you suggesting there is some national conspiracy to not prosecute rape? That's a pretty big accusation. And it would have to be a pretty damn big conspiracy.

Rape CAN BE very difficult to prosecute. Im not talking about blatant cases of violent rape where there is no question to what's going on. Why those are not prosecuted, I can't tell you and there is something wrong with the system in those cases. I dont know what the issue is there.

But a lot of rape cases are far more difficult to reach the burden of overcoming reasonable doubt. For example, cases where both parties are plastered drunk and neither can recall much of what happened. Unless you are suggesting that men have the ultimate responsibility for any sexual activity that occurs. But I think most people would find that kind of sexist. I'll tell you this...most prosecutors in cases like that will drop the case if there is no evidence of physical trauma. First, you can't prove much if no one can really remember much. And second, technically the man also couldn't have legally consented either if his BAC is sky high. So some may argue that she's just as guilty of rape as he is. Should they both be thrown in prison?

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
190. It's called rape culture
Sat Dec 7, 2013, 05:27 AM
Dec 2013

The article shows exactly the sort of thing that happens. The conspiracy, as you call it, is misogyny and homophobia: victim shaming, intimidation, pressure and complete disregard for the lives of rape victims. You must work very hard to maintain the incredible level of ignorance you display on his topic.

As for who is responsible: rapists. If someone penetrates a drunk person, it's rape. That's the law. The reason rapes are difficult to process is because too many people, like yourself, refuse to believe women. The conspiracy is widespread violation of human rights in a rape culture that refuses to consider women and gay male rape victims as human beings worthy of protection from violent crime. 99% of the time the rapist is male, so yes he is responsible. He is the violent sexual predator. That is the law. That you refuse to recognize that is frightening, to say the least.

I will not be revisiting this or other topics with you in the future.

 

davidn3600

(6,342 posts)
191. I scrutinize any accusation of anyone makes of any crime
Sat Dec 7, 2013, 06:00 AM
Dec 2013

Which is what is supposed to happen in the American justice system. A system where you have obviously lost complete faith in. When someone reports a crime, the police have a duty to investigate all possible angles. Then, the prosecutor has a duty to investigate. If charges are brought, the defense has a right to see the evidence and challenge it. And ultimately if it comes to it, a jury will be the ultimate arbitrator of the truth.

We don't lock people up for decades based on single-person accusations. The fact that 98% of rape victims tell the truth only proves that 2% are lying (and that doesnt include the victims that might have identified the wrong person). If I am on a jury, I do not want to send someone to prison for possibly the rest of their life unless I am sure that person is guilty beyond all reasonable doubt. Im sorry having this belief offends you so much. But wouldnt be able to sleep at night unless Im sure the person Im sending to prison is really the person guilty of the crime.

Have a nice life.

 

NuclearDem

(16,184 posts)
196. There's no national conspiracy, there's a cultural problem.
Sun Dec 8, 2013, 01:14 AM
Dec 2013

That's what rape culture is. Date rape isn't taken seriously because drunk hookups are just accepted as normal, and not rape. Women and young girls are shamed or intimidated from reporting their assaults by the perpetrator, their friends, and their families. The onus of protecting women from assault is placed squarely on women.

And then there are people who swarm over the very, very rare false rape accusation and blow it out of proportion. They ignore the thousands of unreported or unprosecuted rapes for every one false accusation, and have an agenda to make those false accusations seem the norm rather than the exception. Sound familiar?

That's why rape is difficult to prosecute. Give me any Duke or Winston and I'll give you hundreds of Steubenvilles, Marysvilles, Notre Dames, and Parsons.

radicalliberal

(907 posts)
202. Notice the pathetic attitude on the part of so many football fans toward the OP.
Sun Dec 15, 2013, 06:47 PM
Dec 2013

Not all, of course. But many.

Decades ago I knew something was wrong when I witnessed the football madness at my high school in good ol' Texas where nice guys and bullies and thugs were placed on the same sort of pedestal. No distinction was made on the basis of character. All that mattered was excelling at a game. Nothing else.

I've been vindicated time and time again.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
204. NIYAD... listening to baines op song Nina Simone, Four Women... sittin out on the porch. with red
Sun Dec 15, 2013, 07:26 PM
Dec 2013

wine in a lovely crystal reading this song... awesome woman. awesome song.

the problem. what woman spoke up and out about rape in the past. humiliating, hurtful, not understood. today, women say fuck it. RAPE. we are fuckin talking about RAPE.

there is something in that woman.

we wont shy from the RAPE.

fuckin got it... we are talking RAPE

niyad

(113,306 posts)
207. just read some of the new additions to this OP-- and I need a glass as well.
Sun Dec 15, 2013, 09:00 PM
Dec 2013

had not heard that song before--incredibly powerful:

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