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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsRaising a glass to you, trumad... Here's to the hope that you'll change your mind.
You are truly in a class of your own when it comes to giving as good as you get. That's a trait I truly admire, and one reason I never fail to read your posts. Attempting to match wits with you is like bringing a cotton ball to a knife fight and I am sure there are many more who feel the same way. Your barbs sting, but my experience is that a razor cut never hurts as much as one caused by a dull knife, so the sting is only temporary, and taken for what it is: well-deserved in most cases.
So as I raise this plastic Tupperware glass full of White Zin from a box, it's to you, and it's with the hope that you'll change your mind about giving up on the community.
As evidenced by the responses in your HoF thread posted this morning, I'd say it's a safe bet there are more open arms than you'd have ever dreamed, mine included.
Here's to you, trumad. This place is better with you in the middle of it.
quinnox
(20,600 posts)I have always liked Trumad, despite all the insults he has thrown my and others way. He is a cool dude.
cherokeeprogressive
(24,853 posts)He's like that guy you know that always comes off as an ass, but you know damned well he's got a good heart and would help out you, your friend, your neighbor and a stranger without a second thought.
I don't need to agree with someone 100% of the time to like them. If I did, I would never have made it to my second post on DU.
annabanana
(52,791 posts)I DO hope the farewell is reconsidered.
kelliekat44
(7,759 posts)riqster
(13,986 posts)Trumad is always worth reading. Here's how, and here's hoping.
awoke_in_2003
(34,582 posts)riqster
(13,986 posts)But it is the thought that counts.
And the alcohol, of course.
panader0
(25,816 posts)Here's a toast!
A-Schwarzenegger
(15,596 posts)& become a better man & human being type of guy.
And, oh, funny as fuck.
denbot
(9,899 posts)We need to vastly expand the MIRT teams..
darkangel218
(13,985 posts)Do as I say , not as I do!!
(re GBCWs)
Shrike47
(6,913 posts)Rex
(65,616 posts)nt.
Pretzel_Warrior
(8,361 posts)And while I'm gone I will write responses to posts in my own online journal and share with everyone upon my return.
J/k. Actually going to be busy with classes and work.
calimary
(81,296 posts)I echo cherokeeprogressive. Hate to lose you!
Iggo
(47,558 posts)awoke_in_2003
(34,582 posts)but one does what one must do.
hunter
(38,314 posts)... but I ain't leaving this place.
pintobean
(18,101 posts)Huh. I thought it was all about trumad's transparency page and the upcoming suspension of his posting privileges.
Ellipsis
(9,124 posts)nolabear
(41,984 posts)BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)Being able to listen to another person. Even if you feel defensive, it's worth practicing stopping one's own reactions long enough to let yourself imagine how someone else feels.
That's really where the disconnect happens.
You're a good example, trumad.
delrem
(9,688 posts)cherokeeprogressive
(24,853 posts)Like this?
Or this?
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1255&pid=33830
delrem
(9,688 posts)grahamhgreen
(15,741 posts)Last edited Tue Dec 31, 2013, 03:59 PM - Edit history (1)
J/K
Thanks for the link!
Shame if she goes
riqster
(13,986 posts)Jesus Christ, doesn't this country have too many Bushes already?
grahamhgreen
(15,741 posts)delrem
(9,688 posts)grahamhgreen
(15,741 posts)my first post about keeping the feminine in feminism, or similar.
That said, I love these debates! And I think she's great!
delrem
(9,688 posts)This, in fact, is giving me doubts about DU.
NoOneMan
(4,795 posts)Trasholicious!
WillyT
(72,631 posts)grahamhgreen
(15,741 posts)shraby
(21,946 posts)emsimon33
(3,128 posts)lamp_shade
(14,834 posts)H2O Man
(73,558 posts)When I considered departing a while back, Mr. T convinced me to stay ......to try posting less, but to continue to be part of the DU community. And I've done that, although I find DU far less interesting, and of far, far less value in recent times.
Even if he just inhabited the sports forum every now and then, to discuss my boxing posts .......
loudsue
(14,087 posts)of the bad guys. It's not an accident. It's the new method of infiltrating, and it sucks. They even manage to get themselves on juries by flying under the radar. It's up to all liberals just to push back, and to not fall for the twisted pseudo-liberalism they come up with. We ARE smarter than them: they are just more malicious, unscrupulous, insidious...traits we have historically found repugnant....which is why, I suppose, we are liberals.
KittyWampus
(55,894 posts)which is the best way to describe what went on the other day.
And it is a relatively small but loud group of supposed "liberals" who do this. So I don't think saying it's up to "all liberals to push back".
loudsue
(14,087 posts)I think you left something out of the last sentence.
KittyWampus
(55,894 posts)if something wasn't phrased properly.
loudsue
(14,087 posts)I hope you feel better soon....everyone around here has been having some sort of bug. Happy New Year.
knitter4democracy
(14,350 posts)This happens in online communities, I think, where it starts off great and then the trolls come sniffing around. If the trolls find a way to dominate, the conversation goes to heck in a handbasket, and the regulars are left scratching their heads and wondering what happened.
Trumad's a good one, as are you. I find that I post and reply far less here than I used to (partly due to time issues with my new job and partly because I just don't care about 99% of the crap here), and we've lost good posters. I hope DU can turn around, but I doubt it.
A-Schwarzenegger
(15,596 posts)steve2470
(37,457 posts)Yes, the jury system works sometimes. It doesn't work well all too often. The brighter and more energetic trolls know this. Yes, moderation had its pitfalls but the site was more civil and productive overall. I remember those days fondly.
Tumbulu
(6,278 posts)loudsue
(14,087 posts)any time, any where.
blm
(113,063 posts).
salin
(48,955 posts)Greybnk48
(10,168 posts)KansDem
(28,498 posts)(But I'll have to wait 'til payday!)
loudsue
(14,087 posts)You DO like trumad!
Octafish
(55,745 posts)Not many DUers related to Langley folk, neither.
But there's only one trumad.
AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)malaise
(269,021 posts)because I love trumad's posts
Kingofalldems
(38,458 posts)hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)rhett o rick
(55,981 posts)cherokeeprogressive
(24,853 posts)Either way he's going on a forced vacation due to the new posting rules but plenty of people are making their opinions known.
rhett o rick
(55,981 posts)he wasnt trying too hard to keep under control. I wish him the best and hope he is ok.
lunatica
(53,410 posts)You always hold your own. Even in that OP. Are we talking about the graphic of the differently dressed women and rape? It was an excellent graphic! I was glad to see it, because it was aimed at men.
All I can say is 'fuck'!
yuiyoshida
(41,831 posts)and this place falls apart. (puts hands on hips). Seriously even I have read his posts, he is like one of the staples.. (Did I spell that right? You know, Staples, yeah.. we got that.) around here.
I hope he does not leave. Some of us could learn a lot. But I do understand how some times brutal this place gets. I stand with you Trumad.
cherokeeprogressive
(24,853 posts)A-Schwarzenegger
(15,596 posts)Good to know how wrong & misled I had been.