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cherokeeprogressive

(24,853 posts)
Mon Dec 30, 2013, 10:12 PM Dec 2013

Raising a glass to you, trumad... Here's to the hope that you'll change your mind.

You are truly in a class of your own when it comes to giving as good as you get. That's a trait I truly admire, and one reason I never fail to read your posts. Attempting to match wits with you is like bringing a cotton ball to a knife fight and I am sure there are many more who feel the same way. Your barbs sting, but my experience is that a razor cut never hurts as much as one caused by a dull knife, so the sting is only temporary, and taken for what it is: well-deserved in most cases.

So as I raise this plastic Tupperware glass full of White Zin from a box, it's to you, and it's with the hope that you'll change your mind about giving up on the community.

As evidenced by the responses in your HoF thread posted this morning, I'd say it's a safe bet there are more open arms than you'd have ever dreamed, mine included.

Here's to you, trumad. This place is better with you in the middle of it.

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Raising a glass to you, trumad... Here's to the hope that you'll change your mind. (Original Post) cherokeeprogressive Dec 2013 OP
Oh hell, K&R quinnox Dec 2013 #1
I can't argue with that. I'd add that if he insulted me, it's likely I earned it. n/t cherokeeprogressive Dec 2013 #16
+1 Wait Wut Dec 2013 #44
Trumad is one of our most distinct and original voices. annabanana Dec 2013 #2
Hear, hear!!!! nt kelliekat44 Dec 2013 #60
Here's a Pinot Noir in support. riqster Dec 2013 #3
Cheap beer here. nt awoke_in_2003 Dec 2013 #13
So was the Pinot. riqster Dec 2013 #33
I read the post that I think put tru over the edge.I don't blame him. Bogus BS. panader0 Dec 2013 #4
A guy with the courage to learn & grow & change A-Schwarzenegger Dec 2013 #5
WTF!?! Truuuuuuuummmadd. Come baaaaaack!!! denbot Dec 2013 #6
Yah trumad, wtf. darkangel218 Dec 2013 #7
I raise a glass of mighty fine tap water to Trumad! Shrike47 Dec 2013 #8
It's not really a choice. Rex Dec 2013 #9
Lol. Don't spoil it for them Pretzel_Warrior Dec 2013 #28
Toasting you with hot tea, trumad! calimary Dec 2013 #10
. Iggo Dec 2013 #11
I am raising one, too... awoke_in_2003 Dec 2013 #12
You grate on me cherokeeprogressive... hunter Dec 2013 #14
It's cherokeeprogressive's fault? pintobean Dec 2013 #37
God left you a long time ago, and the devil is scared of you. Yarg! *raises glass* K&R Ellipsis Dec 2013 #15
True dat trumad. nolabear Dec 2013 #17
it's basically about empathy BlancheSplanchnik Dec 2013 #18
Please, a link. delrem Dec 2013 #19
You mean... cherokeeprogressive Dec 2013 #22
Yes, like my reply when I searched 10 seconds: delrem Dec 2013 #24
Is it the 'pin' or the 'sintered bush'? grahamhgreen Dec 2013 #26
Sintered Bush? riqster Dec 2013 #34
Oh yeah.... linky??? grahamhgreen Dec 2013 #23
yes. Like this is my response to trumad, in his/her (no I didn't check) original thread. delrem Dec 2013 #25
Thanks, but I've been 86'd from that forum for grahamhgreen Dec 2013 #27
I've been 86'd from two forums. Not politically correct. delrem Dec 2013 #29
I trashed em so I didn't see it NoOneMan Dec 2013 #30
HUGE K & R !!! - Thank You !!! WillyT Dec 2013 #20
WTF? I love you in a business suit too, I'll give up on the sundresses!!! grahamhgreen Dec 2013 #21
This place won't be du without Trumad. shraby Dec 2013 #31
Well said and much felt! emsimon33 Dec 2013 #32
Another one in a long succession of my favorites who's leaving. Sad. n/t lamp_shade Dec 2013 #35
I agree 100% H2O Man Dec 2013 #36
Some of the strongest and most beloved posters have been targeted by teams loudsue Dec 2013 #39
What I witnessed with Nance was truly disgusting. It amounted to an attempt at "homophobe-shaming" KittyWampus Dec 2013 #45
Hey, Kitty....please read your post to me.. loudsue Dec 2013 #47
sorry for any inadvertent stupidity on my part. Am under the weather. I apologize KittyWampus Dec 2013 #51
It's all good. I just didn't know who you were replying to. loudsue Dec 2013 #63
The site has changed and not for the better. knitter4democracy Dec 2013 #43
Well said, knitter. A-Schwarzenegger Dec 2013 #54
I think the admins will have to go back to moderation eventually steve2470 Dec 2013 #55
Yes, well said nt Tumbulu Dec 2013 #57
Same here! I'll drink to trumad... loudsue Dec 2013 #38
Open arms blm Dec 2013 #40
what blm said! salin Dec 2013 #50
K&R! We need quality people like Trumad to STAY! n/t Greybnk48 Dec 2013 #41
I'll drink to that! KansDem Dec 2013 #42
Ooooo! McCallan! Mmmmm. loudsue Dec 2013 #46
Not many DUers know how to drive an M1-A1. Octafish Dec 2013 #48
+1 AtheistCrusader Dec 2013 #49
Kick malaise Dec 2013 #52
Republicans and alert stalkers hate him. Kingofalldems Dec 2013 #53
Hate to see him go. hrmjustin Dec 2013 #56
What did I miss? Is trumad leaving? nm rhett o rick Dec 2013 #58
Per his post in the History of Feminism group, yes. cherokeeprogressive Dec 2013 #59
It's hard to be too sympathetic when his transparency page shows 8 hides. Looks like rhett o rick Dec 2013 #64
Stay lunatica Dec 2013 #61
oh wow...i go away just a few days yuiyoshida Dec 2013 #62
Happy New Year, trumad. cherokeeprogressive Jan 2014 #65
Wow, I thought I was one of a very few who dug trumad. A-Schwarzenegger Jan 2014 #66
 

quinnox

(20,600 posts)
1. Oh hell, K&R
Mon Dec 30, 2013, 10:16 PM
Dec 2013

I have always liked Trumad, despite all the insults he has thrown my and others way. He is a cool dude.

Wait Wut

(8,492 posts)
44. +1
Tue Dec 31, 2013, 12:09 PM
Dec 2013

He's like that guy you know that always comes off as an ass, but you know damned well he's got a good heart and would help out you, your friend, your neighbor and a stranger without a second thought.

I don't need to agree with someone 100% of the time to like them. If I did, I would never have made it to my second post on DU.

A-Schwarzenegger

(15,596 posts)
5. A guy with the courage to learn & grow & change
Mon Dec 30, 2013, 10:26 PM
Dec 2013

& become a better man & human being type of guy.
And, oh, funny as fuck.

 

Pretzel_Warrior

(8,361 posts)
28. Lol. Don't spoil it for them
Tue Dec 31, 2013, 01:15 AM
Dec 2013

And while I'm gone I will write responses to posts in my own online journal and share with everyone upon my return.

J/k. Actually going to be busy with classes and work.

 

pintobean

(18,101 posts)
37. It's cherokeeprogressive's fault?
Tue Dec 31, 2013, 08:05 AM
Dec 2013

Huh. I thought it was all about trumad's transparency page and the upcoming suspension of his posting privileges.

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
18. it's basically about empathy
Tue Dec 31, 2013, 12:46 AM
Dec 2013

Being able to listen to another person. Even if you feel defensive, it's worth practicing stopping one's own reactions long enough to let yourself imagine how someone else feels.

That's really where the disconnect happens.

You're a good example, trumad.

 

grahamhgreen

(15,741 posts)
26. Is it the 'pin' or the 'sintered bush'?
Tue Dec 31, 2013, 01:08 AM
Dec 2013

Last edited Tue Dec 31, 2013, 03:59 PM - Edit history (1)

J/K

Thanks for the link!

Shame if she goes

 

grahamhgreen

(15,741 posts)
27. Thanks, but I've been 86'd from that forum for
Tue Dec 31, 2013, 01:13 AM
Dec 2013

my first post about keeping the feminine in feminism, or similar.

That said, I love these debates! And I think she's great!

delrem

(9,688 posts)
29. I've been 86'd from two forums. Not politically correct.
Tue Dec 31, 2013, 01:27 AM
Dec 2013

This, in fact, is giving me doubts about DU.

H2O Man

(73,558 posts)
36. I agree 100%
Tue Dec 31, 2013, 07:42 AM
Dec 2013

When I considered departing a while back, Mr. T convinced me to stay ......to try posting less, but to continue to be part of the DU community. And I've done that, although I find DU far less interesting, and of far, far less value in recent times.

Even if he just inhabited the sports forum every now and then, to discuss my boxing posts .......

loudsue

(14,087 posts)
39. Some of the strongest and most beloved posters have been targeted by teams
Tue Dec 31, 2013, 10:36 AM
Dec 2013

of the bad guys. It's not an accident. It's the new method of infiltrating, and it sucks. They even manage to get themselves on juries by flying under the radar. It's up to all liberals just to push back, and to not fall for the twisted pseudo-liberalism they come up with. We ARE smarter than them: they are just more malicious, unscrupulous, insidious...traits we have historically found repugnant....which is why, I suppose, we are liberals.

 

KittyWampus

(55,894 posts)
45. What I witnessed with Nance was truly disgusting. It amounted to an attempt at "homophobe-shaming"
Tue Dec 31, 2013, 12:12 PM
Dec 2013

which is the best way to describe what went on the other day.

And it is a relatively small but loud group of supposed "liberals" who do this. So I don't think saying it's up to "all liberals to push back".

 

KittyWampus

(55,894 posts)
51. sorry for any inadvertent stupidity on my part. Am under the weather. I apologize
Tue Dec 31, 2013, 02:30 PM
Dec 2013

if something wasn't phrased properly.

loudsue

(14,087 posts)
63. It's all good. I just didn't know who you were replying to.
Tue Dec 31, 2013, 05:30 PM
Dec 2013

I hope you feel better soon....everyone around here has been having some sort of bug. Happy New Year.

knitter4democracy

(14,350 posts)
43. The site has changed and not for the better.
Tue Dec 31, 2013, 12:02 PM
Dec 2013

This happens in online communities, I think, where it starts off great and then the trolls come sniffing around. If the trolls find a way to dominate, the conversation goes to heck in a handbasket, and the regulars are left scratching their heads and wondering what happened.

Trumad's a good one, as are you. I find that I post and reply far less here than I used to (partly due to time issues with my new job and partly because I just don't care about 99% of the crap here), and we've lost good posters. I hope DU can turn around, but I doubt it.

steve2470

(37,457 posts)
55. I think the admins will have to go back to moderation eventually
Tue Dec 31, 2013, 03:27 PM
Dec 2013

Yes, the jury system works sometimes. It doesn't work well all too often. The brighter and more energetic trolls know this. Yes, moderation had its pitfalls but the site was more civil and productive overall. I remember those days fondly.

Octafish

(55,745 posts)
48. Not many DUers know how to drive an M1-A1.
Tue Dec 31, 2013, 12:40 PM
Dec 2013

Not many DUers related to Langley folk, neither.

But there's only one trumad.

 

cherokeeprogressive

(24,853 posts)
59. Per his post in the History of Feminism group, yes.
Tue Dec 31, 2013, 04:19 PM
Dec 2013

Either way he's going on a forced vacation due to the new posting rules but plenty of people are making their opinions known.

 

rhett o rick

(55,981 posts)
64. It's hard to be too sympathetic when his transparency page shows 8 hides. Looks like
Tue Dec 31, 2013, 08:51 PM
Dec 2013

he wasnt trying too hard to keep under control. I wish him the best and hope he is ok.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
61. Stay
Tue Dec 31, 2013, 04:25 PM
Dec 2013

You always hold your own. Even in that OP. Are we talking about the graphic of the differently dressed women and rape? It was an excellent graphic! I was glad to see it, because it was aimed at men.

All I can say is 'fuck'!

yuiyoshida

(41,831 posts)
62. oh wow...i go away just a few days
Tue Dec 31, 2013, 05:20 PM
Dec 2013

and this place falls apart. (puts hands on hips). Seriously even I have read his posts, he is like one of the staples.. (Did I spell that right? You know, Staples, yeah.. we got that.) around here.

I hope he does not leave. Some of us could learn a lot. But I do understand how some times brutal this place gets. I stand with you Trumad.

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