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proud2BlibKansan

(96,793 posts)
Sun Mar 18, 2012, 11:28 PM Mar 2012

FOX News Killed My Mother



Today I posted an image called "Fox News killed my mother." Because it did. It was the most widely circulated image I've ever posted. But, after about and hour I could no longer read any of the comments. Still can't. And some of you have messaged me to say you can't see it. So here it is again. This time, my explanation will be in the first comment instead of here. Basically my mother fell and refused to go to the doctor because she was afraid that "Obamacare" would get information about her and use it in their "death panels." Since then several of you shared identical experiences. This is how their fear mongering is killing our nation, one person at a time, one lie at a time.

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FOX News Killed My Mother (Original Post) proud2BlibKansan Mar 2012 OP
St Teresa of Avila. napoleon_in_rags Mar 2012 #1
My senior Senator was one of the liars. The voters in my state can be so stupid. libinnyandia Mar 2012 #2
kick one_voice Mar 2012 #3
Rec. progressoid Mar 2012 #4
The GOP - the party of hate, greed, and stupidity. Initech Mar 2012 #5
I was going to say something else. greytdemocrat Mar 2012 #34
RIP ffr Mar 2012 #6
I have a family member Doctor_J Mar 2012 #7
Just like these folks Rambis Mar 2012 #28
Whenever I talk to a teacher who watches Fox News, I want to scream proud2BlibKansan Mar 2012 #46
Me too. It's depressing. craigmatic Mar 2012 #50
Republican Party, the party with no empathy. rhett o rick Mar 2012 #8
I hope enough of them EC Mar 2012 #48
I dont think that will help. I think empathy is something that needs to be developed. rhett o rick Mar 2012 #52
Yeap, the could care less uponit7771 Mar 2012 #9
This is in poor taste. Mental illness is a SERIOUS problem, and this trivializes it, imo. Romulox Mar 2012 #10
In that case, most republicans are mentally ill. EOTE Mar 2012 #12
Democrats have proposed universal mental health care??? Missed that! nt Romulox Mar 2012 #13
Never said or even suggested that. Not sure where you got it. NT EOTE Mar 2012 #14
You mentioned Republicans, as if to imply Democrats support universal mental health care. Romulox Mar 2012 #17
I mentioned republicans because if THIS woman is mentally ill. EOTE Mar 2012 #18
Which is an odd remark to mine, which highlighted the lack of mental health care in this country. Romulox Mar 2012 #19
I don't believe the premise of your post. EOTE Mar 2012 #21
OK. I respect that. Romulox Mar 2012 #22
I guess it's a fine line. EOTE Mar 2012 #23
You're reading a lot into the story that isn't there...... tpsbmam Mar 2012 #32
As are you. nt Romulox Mar 2012 #35
No, the truth is not normally in poor taste handmade34 Mar 2012 #24
Don't wish to argue this further. I just advocate for universal, stigma free mental health care Romulox Mar 2012 #25
I grew up handmade34 Mar 2012 #26
me too... BlancheSplanchnik Mar 2012 #29
Similar story here. Priority #1 for me has always been to break the chain. Romulox Mar 2012 #36
Me also Dont call me Shirley Mar 2012 #42
And Fox news and all of the anti-people conservatives merh Mar 2012 #41
nevermind... fascisthunter Mar 2012 #44
Cancer killed my mom, but Faux got her, too Cosmocat Mar 2012 #11
Didn't kill my mom but caused her lots of fear before she died. stopbush Mar 2012 #15
Hmm, if corporations are people, and FOX is a corporation... Blue Owl Mar 2012 #16
If corporations are people, and Fox committed murder, Jamaal510 Mar 2012 #27
"I'll believe corporations are people when Texas executes one" KamaAina Mar 2012 #38
oh I thought you said MURdoch...... BlancheSplanchnik Mar 2012 #30
close enough to be interchangeable Blue Owl Mar 2012 #31
FNC=a death panel for brains alp227 Mar 2012 #20
This is a very complicated issue, so Fox shouldn't be reporting on it. Kalidurga Mar 2012 #33
When my elderly father was suffering from dementia three years ago, there was LibDemAlways Mar 2012 #40
Well you should make sure you send this to Sarah Palin after all she was the one who southernyankeebelle Mar 2012 #37
The whole "Obamacare" meme has taken hold in a way that is frightening. LibDemAlways Mar 2012 #39
I am so sorry for your tragic loss. Dont call me Shirley Mar 2012 #43
F*ck the Rightwing... fascisthunter Mar 2012 #45
Powerful post. Faygo Kid Mar 2012 #47
The propaganda in the mail caused my mother stress that led up to her stroke. glinda Mar 2012 #49
FOX News wasn't the only one to originate these smears and lies. joshcryer Mar 2012 #51

napoleon_in_rags

(3,991 posts)
1. St Teresa of Avila.
Sun Mar 18, 2012, 11:39 PM
Mar 2012

At some point in my past, I read a dusty book on her. I remember a scene in her life, where she prayed without cease. A most profound vision of God eventually came to her: She saw a world reflected in infinite mirrors, so that elements of each things were reflected in other things, and the voice of the Almighty spoke to her - "All I hate is a lie" it said. "All I hate is a lie."

I can't remember where I found that account, and I can't find it now. But its a damn challenging idea: The worst sins we can do in this world aren't in any evil action we can think of, they are in the simple subtle act of telling a lie. But as time goes on, I realize (as a total sinner in this regard) that it may be the most pure and incredibly true concept I have ever encountered in all of theology.

 

Doctor_J

(36,392 posts)
7. I have a family member
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 08:57 AM
Mar 2012

whose only means of support are Medicare, SS, and a public school pension. He would be on the street if not for those. Yet he sits and watches Fox all day.

Fox Nation is a bunch of rabid dogs, and the problem isn't going away until we treat them as such. The question is, why haven't we fought back?

proud2BlibKansan

(96,793 posts)
46. Whenever I talk to a teacher who watches Fox News, I want to scream
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 05:46 PM
Mar 2012

Sadly I know far too many of them.

 

rhett o rick

(55,981 posts)
8. Republican Party, the party with no empathy.
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 09:04 AM
Mar 2012

I remember when Pres Obama appointed Justice Sotomayor saying she had empathy. Top Republicans reacted with humor making fun of her because she had empathy. Then someone clued them in, explaining that empathy was a good thing to most Americans.

EC

(12,287 posts)
48. I hope enough of them
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 09:21 PM
Mar 2012

see the movie "The Hunger Games" then...see what a world without empathy brings.

 

rhett o rick

(55,981 posts)
52. I dont think that will help. I think empathy is something that needs to be developed.
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 10:56 PM
Mar 2012

Being raised in a Republican household excludes empathy.

Romulox

(25,960 posts)
10. This is in poor taste. Mental illness is a SERIOUS problem, and this trivializes it, imo.
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 09:16 AM
Mar 2012

The lack of comprehensive mental health care in this country "killed" this woman.

EOTE

(13,409 posts)
12. In that case, most republicans are mentally ill.
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 09:57 AM
Mar 2012

And even if we had comprehensive mental health care in this country, I'm not sure that would mean that the woman would have been forced to receive treatment.

Romulox

(25,960 posts)
17. You mentioned Republicans, as if to imply Democrats support universal mental health care.
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 12:13 PM
Mar 2012

As a party, they don't.

EOTE

(13,409 posts)
18. I mentioned republicans because if THIS woman is mentally ill.
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 12:41 PM
Mar 2012

Then certainly almost the entirety of republicans are as well.

Romulox

(25,960 posts)
19. Which is an odd remark to mine, which highlighted the lack of mental health care in this country.
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 12:44 PM
Mar 2012

I don't know if you want to be friends, or if you have a grudge, or if you just like arguing, but I find that you go out of your way to post argumentative and non-responsive remarks to me.

It doesn't bother me terribly (not the least of which because I find DU3 far less interesting than DU2, and therefore don't spend as much time here any more,) but I will admit to not knowing where you'd care to go from here.

EOTE

(13,409 posts)
21. I don't believe the premise of your post.
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 12:54 PM
Mar 2012

I wasn't trying to be disrespectful in disagreeing with it.

You noted that it was the lack of mental health care in this country which killed this woman. I don't think that's the case as she shares the same views as a good chunk of the country. Was she stupid? Ignorant? Yes. I don't think she was crazy. I agree with the premise of the OP. She was ignorant and easily misled by Fox News. That caused her to be so paranoid that she refused to get treatment. I think Fox has far more blame in this regard than the lack of universal mental health care in this country.

Romulox

(25,960 posts)
22. OK. I respect that.
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 01:01 PM
Mar 2012

I at least appreciate having a "for real" moment for a change.

"That caused her to be so paranoid that she refused to get treatment. I think Fox has far more blame in this regard than the lack of universal mental health care in this country."

Paranoid dementia is an EXTREMELY common ailment associated with aging. I have some personal pain in this area, and it colors my reading of the issue. That's where I'm coming from here. I have to leave it at that, as this story hits fairly close to home for me.

In my family's case, Fox News had nothing to do with the source of my loved one's delusions and paranoia but the details are still eerily similar. That's all I wanted to express.

EOTE

(13,409 posts)
23. I guess it's a fine line.
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 01:06 PM
Mar 2012

I wasn't trying to make light of mental illness, but I have to once again suggest that if this woman was mentally ill, then a huge chunk of the country is as well, probably more than a third of the voting public. Her views, no matter how ridiculous they were, could pretty much be taken directly from the RNC's website. I think if universal mental health coverage were actually to do some good in this regard, I'd think that conservatism would need to be declared a mental illness. This may or may not be the case (perhaps it's more likely than not), but I don't know how many people would trust the government to make that call.

tpsbmam

(3,927 posts)
32. You're reading a lot into the story that isn't there......
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 02:52 PM
Mar 2012

coming from someone who IS qualified to diagnose dementia (there's no such thing as "paranoid dementia" -- there most certainly can be symptoms of paranoia when someone is demented -- you're right, it's a common symptom).

Lots of people who watch Fox news think like this woman -- there doesn't need to be any kind of dementia involved. And there doesn't need to be any kind of "mental illness" involved. All kinds of pejorative qualities can be attributed to people who watch & believe Fox news, most of them accurate. But "mental illness" isn't necessarily one of those qualities. Ignorance, stupidity and a whole host of associated qualities are more accurately applied -- you really pretty much have to be those things to consistently watch this idiocy, believe it and vote against your own best interests due to the influence of the Foxes, Limbaughs, Hannities, etc.




Romulox

(25,960 posts)
25. Don't wish to argue this further. I just advocate for universal, stigma free mental health care
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 01:17 PM
Mar 2012

in this country.

I hope we can agree on this point.

handmade34

(22,756 posts)
26. I grew up
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 01:19 PM
Mar 2012

with a mentally ill mother... my life was forever tainted by her abuse of me... I advocate the same as you!

merh

(35,996 posts)
41. And Fox news and all of the anti-people conservatives
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 04:52 PM
Mar 2012

who support the notion that comprehensive mental health care and medical care are not government's concern and only socialists want to take care of the people are responsible for there being no comprehensive mental health care so they are responsible for this death and hundreds of others.

Hate is a vicious cycle, ain't it.

Cosmocat

(14,564 posts)
11. Cancer killed my mom, but Faux got her, too
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 09:54 AM
Mar 2012

Lifelong JFK type democrat.

Really got into CNN in the late 80s with the Ollie North stuff.

First veer toward that end of things though she hated Reagen deeply.

In the late 90s, she went from CNN to Faux.

I was eating lunch with her during the Bush reelection campaign.

She was so disgusted with democrats because of Howard Dean, and that horrible scream.

As she got older and her mind got less focused, they sucked her in.

stopbush

(24,396 posts)
15. Didn't kill my mom but caused her lots of fear before she died.
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 10:42 AM
Mar 2012

Fear of death panels. I tried to convince her to do a living will about a year before she died. She didn't, because she bought into the whole RW propaganda that talking to her doctor about such a thing constituted a death panel.

Less than a year later, she was diagnosed with cancer. While in the hospital, the doctors didn't have a clear idea about what extraordinary measures they were authorized to take because she hadn't stated them. She had bouts of delusion. During a period of lucidity, she sat with a representative of the hospital and told them she wanted everything possible done to extend her life. That caused the kind of problems one would expect to arise when you make such heavy decisions during a brief moment of lucidity, rather than years in advance when you're in decent health.

When she passed away, the family was left to pick up the pieces, and the inevitable turf war ensued about who best knew what mom wanted done after she died. I left it to my Republican siblings to argue among themselves about things, as they were all back home and I was out in CA.

Jamaal510

(10,893 posts)
27. If corporations are people, and Fox committed murder,
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 01:48 PM
Mar 2012

wouldn't it be subject to a lethal injection?

Kalidurga

(14,177 posts)
33. This is a very complicated issue, so Fox shouldn't be reporting on it.
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 02:54 PM
Mar 2012

Yes, FOX is responsible for telling lies and they are responsible when people believe them. But, it is more complicated than that as some have eluded to. We don't have adaqute means to take care of the mentally ill. We sure don't have the means to take care of roughly 25% that are struggling with a serious mental illness even though some appear to be highly functioning. Reagan cut a lot of mental health services and I believe this is making a bad problem even worse, I don't know how bad it has to be before the public has had enough and says hey, put people in institutions until they are well enough to function at least. So, even if you mom had been diagnosed with some kind of mental illness, there is no authority that could make her get treatment. I think that is the other problem, we don't have enough vested in making sure people are mentally healthy and as we see here the results can be deadly if an orgainization fans the flames of delusions of mentally ill people.

LibDemAlways

(15,139 posts)
40. When my elderly father was suffering from dementia three years ago, there was
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 04:40 PM
Mar 2012

literally nowhere for us to turn - no mental health services at our local hospital and no doctors even willing to see him. It was a nightmare we endured for several months until he had a heart attack and passed away.

It's criminal that we have the money to send our military overseas on all sorts of nation building crap, but we have no money to help our most vulnerable citizens here at home.

 

southernyankeebelle

(11,304 posts)
37. Well you should make sure you send this to Sarah Palin after all she was the one who
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 04:14 PM
Mar 2012

started with the death panels.

LibDemAlways

(15,139 posts)
39. The whole "Obamacare" meme has taken hold in a way that is frightening.
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 04:35 PM
Mar 2012

Did Obama ever give an address in which he laid out, point by point, what the health bill does and does not do? I realize FAUX News and the R's have grabbed the issue, constructed a pack of lies, and run with it, but there must be something more the voices of reason could do to reassure people that Obama isn't out to kill them.

Those who scream the loudest for the repeal of the bill have no clue what's actually in it, and that's dangerous.

joshcryer

(62,270 posts)
51. FOX News wasn't the only one to originate these smears and lies.
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 10:42 PM
Mar 2012

Some on the left used propaganda like "catfood commissions."

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