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grahamhgreen

(15,741 posts)
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 11:04 AM Mar 2012

WEIRD: Wife of pro-life Rick Santorum had love affair with abortion doctor who delivered her as baby

"The wife of fiercely pro-life presidential hopeful Rick Santorum had a six-year love affair with an abortion doctor, 40 years her senior - who, incredibly, delivered her as a baby - it has emerged.

Karen Santorum, 51, who, like her husband, opposes abortion even in cases of rape and doesn't believe in using birth control, lived with Pittsburgh abortion pioneer Dr Thomas E. Allen for most of her 20s in the 1980s.

When she met Dr Allen, Mrs Santorum, who then went by the name Karen Garver, was a 22-year-old nursing student who shared his liberal views on abortion and enjoyed life as the younger lover of the 63-year-old divorcee and man-about-town, according to friends.

The image of Mrs Santorum living with her progressive playboy boyfriend stands in sharp contrast to the matronly devout Catholic mother of seven that she plays on the campaign trail. "

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2087812/Rick-Santorums-wife-Karen-love-affair-abortion-doctor.html


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WEIRD: Wife of pro-life Rick Santorum had love affair with abortion doctor who delivered her as baby (Original Post) grahamhgreen Mar 2012 OP
Sanctimonium's revenge? Cirque du So-What Mar 2012 #1
Ding ding ding!!!! kestrel91316 Mar 2012 #11
Does she think that marrying Richie EC Mar 2012 #2
My,my ~ the truth will come out goclark Mar 2012 #3
Naaahhh... they're too busy with their 15 minutes of fame... MrMickeysMom Mar 2012 #40
she realized that her integrity had a price. nt Javaman Mar 2012 #4
What she did before marriage is of no arthritisR_US Mar 2012 #5
Wow sounds like a statement that could have been released from EmeraldCityGrl Mar 2012 #12
I am not an apologist just going by the, albeit arthritisR_US Mar 2012 #27
So personal integrity is held to a higher standard only by marriage? nt patrice Mar 2012 #23
Although that is not what I am saying I can arthritisR_US Mar 2012 #28
Yes, it is ONLY one possible implication of your post. Just trying to add to the discourse here. patrice Mar 2012 #31
Sure, it's just a rite of passage for a young girl in her early twenties to have an affair with MADem Mar 2012 #24
I should have read more carefully and arthritisR_US Mar 2012 #29
No problem. EmeraldCityGrl Mar 2012 #39
I can sure understand why it caught you arthritisR_US Mar 2012 #41
But this is SO TYPICAL of the GOP. The men are pedophiles and loudsue Mar 2012 #6
What the hell? RZM Mar 2012 #10
I'm not talking about the doctor she was living with. I'm talking about loudsue Mar 2012 #37
Rush is a loudmouth idiot RZM Mar 2012 #38
Not all that weird. SoCalDem Mar 2012 #7
I feel so sorry for her. Can you imagine having Ricky as your husband? jillan Mar 2012 #8
weirdo wilt the stilt Mar 2012 #9
She's lived the defintion of a 'kept woman' all her life. Perfect concubine material. No wonder... freshwest Mar 2012 #13
Isn't there a word Rush like to use for ummarried women having "so much sex"? Hmm. Let me think. HopeHoops Mar 2012 #19
Um, I hate to bring this up in a way, but who's a good shill for this? nolabear Mar 2012 #14
Some Republican nun. That's the only one who could get away with it. MADem Mar 2012 #25
No one is a good shill for this, certainly not us here going for spite. freshwest Mar 2012 #35
yeah, and after the doctor finished paying to send her to college and everything else ladywnch Mar 2012 #15
True, Sir: His Career Is the Worst Case Of 'God, I Hate Her Ex!' In History The Magistrate Mar 2012 #16
So much creepiness, where to begin HockeyMom Mar 2012 #17
Hmm LeftishBrit Mar 2012 #18
She had a necessary abortion when he was Senator too. appleannie1 Mar 2012 #20
nobody knows what Eva saw in Adolf, either Voice for Peace Mar 2012 #21
Apparently life DOES have a price & Ricky won the auction. nt patrice Mar 2012 #22
This almost could be something made up by Romney's team Julian Englis Mar 2012 #26
Newsweek carried the story vankuria Mar 2012 #32
Fornication? Cohabitation without benefit of mariage? What does Rush Limbaugh have to say ... 11 Bravo Mar 2012 #30
My first thought on seeing this headline was "WTF" Spider Jerusalem Mar 2012 #33
Kicked and Recommended!!!! superpatriotman Mar 2012 #34
Daddy issues? tanyev Mar 2012 #36
I doubt she's changed that much. She just married the wrong guy. craigmatic Mar 2012 #42

Cirque du So-What

(25,938 posts)
1. Sanctimonium's revenge?
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 11:09 AM
Mar 2012

Is there some serious pathology at work here? A passive-aggressive slap in the face to his wife that he delivers on a daily basis?

goclark

(30,404 posts)
3. My,my ~ the truth will come out
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 11:23 AM
Mar 2012

especially in the internet world.

Mr. and Mrs. Santorum need to look in the mirror and Shut Up !

MrMickeysMom

(20,453 posts)
40. Naaahhh... they're too busy with their 15 minutes of fame...
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 11:35 PM
Mar 2012

Next year, it'll be, "Rick WHO?"

Then, she can write another book.

arthritisR_US

(7,288 posts)
5. What she did before marriage is of no
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 11:34 AM
Mar 2012

import, IMO. Many people who are liberal in their young adulthood become conservative later. Sounds like he was a playboy type and probably cheated on her and it is her anger and the betrayal that has driven her in these ensuing years.

EmeraldCityGrl

(4,310 posts)
12. Wow sounds like a statement that could have been released from
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 11:51 AM
Mar 2012

Karen Garver Santorum's PR firm. Bit of a stretch to presume the Dr. was a "playboy type" and "probably" cheated
on her is approaching slander of a man whose relationship we know little about.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
24. Sure, it's just a rite of passage for a young girl in her early twenties to have an affair with
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 01:39 PM
Mar 2012

a guy forty two years her senior, who DELIVERED HER AS A BABY, who runs an abortion clinic, and who later delivered at least one her HER kids. Oh, and then after she breaks up with Doctor Choice (the reason was said to be she wanted kids, he, in his sixties, had had enough of that), she marries Senator AntiChoice, and turns into a persistently pregnant Stepford Wife.

Then later, she sends Dr. Choice a card that says "I miss you."

You don't think a spouse tells us much about their partner? People choose others for a reason. Sometimes many reasons.

Yeah, nothing to see here....move right along!

arthritisR_US

(7,288 posts)
29. I should have read more carefully and
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 02:15 PM
Mar 2012

in its entirety and not amidst my morning rush, sorry. She sent him a card expressing that she misses him? I am speechless

EmeraldCityGrl

(4,310 posts)
39. No problem.
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 11:31 PM
Mar 2012

I do that sometimes, skim through and miss the full story

Just sort of took me off guard after having read the story.

arthritisR_US

(7,288 posts)
41. I can sure understand why it caught you
Tue Mar 20, 2012, 12:00 AM
Mar 2012

off guard, it made rouge unnecessary for me this AM. Thanks for understanding

loudsue

(14,087 posts)
6. But this is SO TYPICAL of the GOP. The men are pedophiles and
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 11:34 AM
Mar 2012

the women are mentally-ill "make-up-reality-as-you-go, and if-I-can-imagine-it-then-it's-MY-reality" quacks. They're just mentally ill to the max, but they have a world stage on which to try to legitimatize their point of view. They are just fuckin crazy.

 

RZM

(8,556 posts)
10. What the hell?
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 11:42 AM
Mar 2012

This post makes no sense.

There's no evidence that the doctor was even a Republican, let alone a 'pedophile.' From the information here, he sounds more like a moderate and maybe even a liberal. And the relationship began when Mrs. Santorum was in here 20s. That's not 'pedophilia.' Is a 40-year age gap a little unusual and perhaps unsettling to some? Sure. But it's not a crime.

And how is this evidence that she's 'mentally ill?' She had a relationship with an older man, then moved on and settled down with a man closer to her own age. That kind of thing happens sometimes. Who the hell cares?

loudsue

(14,087 posts)
37. I'm not talking about the doctor she was living with. I'm talking about
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 05:32 PM
Mar 2012

the tendency of the GOPers to be living lives that in no way represent who they actually are. Family values? We find out that the congressmen who support that the loudest end up chasing their young male staff members, soliciting male and female prostitutes, Rush Limpballs travelling to isolated places that are known for selling the services of LITTLE boys.

My point was that Mrs. Santorum represents the opposite of what she has been.

 

RZM

(8,556 posts)
38. Rush is a loudmouth idiot
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 07:51 PM
Mar 2012

But I've never seen any evidence that he has a penchant for young boys.

As for people like Larry Craig, David Vitter, and Mark Foley, it's all about numbers. While these cases make huge headlines, people should resist the temptation to use them as poster children for the GOP. They are all hypocrites, but they are a small part of the GOP congressional delegation.

It's not any different from saying that the CBC is a bunch of crooks because people like Charlie Rangel, Maxine Waters, and Jesse Jackson Jr. have been accused of ethics violations. They aren't the whole CBC, they are just three members of it (yes I know, Jesse has never been formally charged with anything). Same thing with NY Democrats. Eliot Spitzer and Anthony Weiner are kind of sleazy, but they really aren't typical of Democrats from NY. Or Blago for that matter. He's one dumbass and not at all indicative of how most Democrats behave.

But none of this really even matters when talking about Mrs. Santorum. She was in her 20s when she was with this guy. Many people are a whole lot different at 45 than they were at 25.

SoCalDem

(103,856 posts)
7. Not all that weird.
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 11:35 AM
Mar 2012

I have personally known many women who, as young persons, were the consummate "wild-child", and who later "found Jesus" and did a 180.

I had a best-friend/neighbor who ran away from home at 16, got pregnant (she married the guy later) and at 30 joined a near-cult evangelical group.. Even the Jim Jones thing did not dissuade her from selling one of their cars to donate to "father"...so they could buy some land in Missouri for their "compound"..

jillan

(39,451 posts)
8. I feel so sorry for her. Can you imagine having Ricky as your husband?
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 11:40 AM
Mar 2012

She has been put in the role of being home all day with the kids.
As much as I love my girls - they are the most precious things in the world to me - I celebrated the day my youngest started kindergarten just so I could breathe.
She has them all day, every day - and has the challenges of a special needs child as well.

I bet Rick never makes dinner or helps around the house because a jerk like him probably thinks that is the woman's job.

Not to mention that she is probably out of her mind from sexual frustration.

As one woman to another, I truly feel sorry for her.... and even more sorry for her because she chose this life inspite of the fact that other women fought so hard to give her a better life.

I'm glad that there was a time in her life when she had fun and she can use those memories during her darkest times.

Yes it is hypocritical in so many ways. But I am looking at her from the lens of being another woman, and she saddens me.

freshwest

(53,661 posts)
13. She's lived the defintion of a 'kept woman' all her life. Perfect concubine material. No wonder...
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 12:00 PM
Mar 2012

That she's amazed to see women while on her husband's road show who have strong opinions on matters such as the economy. She was never in that position, she's been on the sidelines her entire life, supporting whatever man she's been in bed with.

The much younger Ricky must have seemed like a boy toy after bedding the doctor who brought her into the world, forty years her senior. Oh, yeah, you know she's gotta be happy now.

 

HopeHoops

(47,675 posts)
19. Isn't there a word Rush like to use for ummarried women having "so much sex"? Hmm. Let me think.
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 12:58 PM
Mar 2012

It just slips my mind at the moment. I'm sure he'll be all over this story, won't he?

nolabear

(41,963 posts)
14. Um, I hate to bring this up in a way, but who's a good shill for this?
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 12:06 PM
Mar 2012

I hate to admit to being willing to blow out Sanctimonious' presidential aspirations by assassinating his wife's character, but I kind of want to go there too.

I can come up with all kinds of theories about Santorum's Savior complex which could easily include "saving" his wife from her former sinful ways, but it doesn't matter except as a parlor game. What does matter is whether people are willing to bring it up in order to help derail what is a very dangerous man's political aspirations.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
25. Some Republican nun. That's the only one who could get away with it.
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 01:43 PM
Mar 2012

For now, it's just something to pass around. Mention it to a wingnut, let them disbelieve you, get their email address, and send them the link to the story.

Santorum was hardly in a position to save anyone, with all the beer chugging he did in college. If anything, the wife probably did her one-eighty after she realized Doctor Choice was done with having kids, hooked up with Li'l Ricky, and dragged him into sanctimony!

freshwest

(53,661 posts)
35. No one is a good shill for this, certainly not us here going for spite.
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 04:53 PM
Mar 2012

Guess it's just an exercise on my part on trying to figure out what makes people tick and just how damaged the people running for office are.

The difference between the Democrats who have had similiar problems, the main reason for the anger and retorts, is that we are not trying to mandate what is going on in someone else's bedroom. Democrats never do.

No one stood with a cattle prod like they're doing in Texas, to ensure that women are pro-life enough and to punish Rick for drinking himself silly, or this woman for being what she was and recovering from it, hopefully.

I guess that was a pretty nasty statement about Rick being her boy toy, but how any woman beds a man for a place to stay and upkeep, is simply beyond me. It seems totally unnatural to surrender one's body in that fashion.

They don't call marriage the world's second oldest profession for nothing. We know what the first one is. Think I should edit that, Nola?

ladywnch

(2,672 posts)
15. yeah, and after the doctor finished paying to send her to college and everything else
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 12:11 PM
Mar 2012

she left him.................hey Rush, what does that make HER?

 

HockeyMom

(14,337 posts)
17. So much creepiness, where to begin
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 12:53 PM
Mar 2012

The doctor who delivered you? Creepy. She couldn't find another "older man" who wasn't actually at her birth? Having your lover perform an abortion on you? Creepy. She couldn't find a different doctor? After all this, it actually makes sense that she would marry CREEPY Saint Rick.

This whole "affair" sounds like a very bad Soap. General Hospital? St. Elsewhere? You couldn't make this stuff up.

LeftishBrit

(41,205 posts)
18. Hmm
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 12:57 PM
Mar 2012

Maybe some of Santorum's fanaticism on related subjects is linked to jealousy, even though the affair was before she met him?

Whatever the reasons, he's revolting!

appleannie1

(5,067 posts)
20. She had a necessary abortion when he was Senator too.
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 01:10 PM
Mar 2012

That is what the book she wrote was about. So they made money off their dead baby. He refuses to say anything about it except
that it was not an abortion but a "necessary procedure to save Karen's life". Seems to me when you sign for your doctor to induce labor knowing full well that the baby will not survive outside the uterus, you cannot shrug it off as not being an abortion.

 

Voice for Peace

(13,141 posts)
21. nobody knows what Eva saw in Adolf, either
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 01:21 PM
Mar 2012

some mysterious hold these megalomaniacs
have on a woman's body and mind

Julian Englis

(2,309 posts)
26. This almost could be something made up by Romney's team
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 01:58 PM
Mar 2012

What's also weird is there are no other major news sources that picked up on this story. I tried a dozen Google News search using various key words such as "Karen," "abortion," "Allen," "Santorum," "Carver" and turned up nothing--not even the Daily Mail Story. A regular Google search does turn up the Daily Fail story but no other major news providers--just Huffington Post and Kos type aggregators.

This is whole story rather strange.

11 Bravo

(23,926 posts)
30. Fornication? Cohabitation without benefit of mariage? What does Rush Limbaugh have to say ...
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 02:20 PM
Mar 2012

about this woman of loose morals and easy virtue?

 

Spider Jerusalem

(21,786 posts)
33. My first thought on seeing this headline was "WTF"
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 03:29 PM
Mar 2012

not because of the facts (which I knew) but because of the wording. "Abortion doctor"? REALLY? Then I clicked the post and saw that the link is from the Daily Fail, and all is explained. OB/GYN who happened to provide abortion services as part of his practice != "abortion doctor".

superpatriotman

(6,249 posts)
34. Kicked and Recommended!!!!
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 03:34 PM
Mar 2012

My favorite line of the story courtesy of Dr. Allen: 'But I don't think there's a humanist bone in that man's body.'

Second favorite line courtesy of the Dr's -ex:'There are so many contradictions in their lives that are quite alarming,' Judi Allen told the Mail Online.

Ha!


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