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Snake Alchemist

(3,318 posts)
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 01:13 PM Mar 2012

Do you feel that people's accents color your perception of them?

This weekend I was speaking with my aunt from NY and a few other relatives who were at her house for St. Patty's Day and as I spoke with some of them I found myself kind of laughing in my mind at some of my own relatives thick NY accents. What's especially ironic is that I had just as thick an accent when I was younger, but it's mellowed over the years due to just being around more people with neutral accents.

So after my phone call I began thinking how I perceive people with a Yonker's accent, a deep southern accent, etc. I wonder how much I do it subconsciously each day.

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Do you feel that people's accents color your perception of them? (Original Post) Snake Alchemist Mar 2012 OP
Much as I hate pipi_k Mar 2012 #1
On tv if they want to communicate that someone is dumb TNDemo Mar 2012 #2
You could say the same for a thick NY accent as well, maybe not dumb but mean. Happyhippychick Mar 2012 #4
And a London accent to communicate intelligence. n/t lumberjack_jeff Mar 2012 #5
Wha'? A Sarf Lunnun assent sayz intel - inttelet intaglio Mar 2012 #31
Roit! We're not talkin foo'ball 'ooligans, now are we? lumberjack_jeff Mar 2012 #33
No moi 'Ansum intaglio Mar 2012 #36
I never really thought about that before. nt Snake Alchemist Mar 2012 #6
Oh, it's true and it's permeated the lexicon. Fawke Em Mar 2012 #32
Oh definitely! And let me say, Yonkiz accents are in a class by themselves! Happyhippychick Mar 2012 #3
I do, but it's a mistake. Been burned on it before. nt Romulox Mar 2012 #7
No, accents don't bother me nobodyspecial Mar 2012 #8
Yes. Arugula Latte Mar 2012 #9
Yes, undoubtedly Cirque du So-What Mar 2012 #10
I think on DU it is like color is to the RW, you sound southern you're a bad person The Straight Story Mar 2012 #11
Ya betcha dar Charley. RC Mar 2012 #12
I do it, definitely. I admitted as much during the "dad shoots laptop" outragaganza that went on Brickbat Mar 2012 #13
Mostly as a first impression.. socialindependocrat Mar 2012 #14
I admit I have an obstacle to overcome. Quantess Mar 2012 #20
Most of the accents of the United Kingdom and Ireland hifiguy Mar 2012 #25
My neighbor is from Scotland HockeyMom Mar 2012 #15
We hung out with a Scottish petroleum engineer when we were in Australia. Snake Alchemist Mar 2012 #17
Oh, yes he most definitely is! HockeyMom Mar 2012 #18
Which part? MichaelMcGuire Mar 2012 #39
Yup, but it isn't a bad thing really Spike89 Mar 2012 #16
I'm from New Jersey... a la izquierda Mar 2012 #19
It is interesting that you comment on foreign murielm99 Mar 2012 #21
I can't understand South Americans from the southern cone... a la izquierda Mar 2012 #38
It depends on the speaker. I adore Bill Moyers' soft north Texas accent, but detest Rick Perry's CTyankee Mar 2012 #22
Good point hifiguy Mar 2012 #27
Well, actually I grew up in north Texas so in many ways that accent was mine and that of CTyankee Mar 2012 #28
Have you seen The History of English? TNDemo Mar 2012 #23
Accents don't affect me except I'm hard of hearing and they are harder to shraby Mar 2012 #24
It probably does a little, at least at first Marrah_G Mar 2012 #26
British accents. The Backlash Cometh Mar 2012 #29
That was the neatest part about being in the navy years ago madokie Mar 2012 #30
Yes. I am very sensitive to voices, sounds and assess people a lot based on them. JDPriestly Mar 2012 #34
I don't think I do. ZombieHorde Mar 2012 #35
not exactly in a bad way , it just makes me think of where they are from JI7 Mar 2012 #37

TNDemo

(3,452 posts)
2. On tv if they want to communicate that someone is dumb
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 01:20 PM
Mar 2012

They give them a southern accent. Hard not to have automatic prejudices about any kind of variance from the generic accent.

intaglio

(8,170 posts)
36. No moi 'Ansum
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 04:24 PM
Mar 2012

ahm jus' gabbin 'boot them hoity-toity Anglish, them uz wans things dun fasser than dreckly!

Or perhaps I'm just passing the time with good company ...

Fawke Em

(11,366 posts)
32. Oh, it's true and it's permeated the lexicon.
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 03:03 PM
Mar 2012

People in New York think I'm slower, somehow, because of my accent - that is, until they get to know me.

Happyhippychick

(8,379 posts)
3. Oh definitely! And let me say, Yonkiz accents are in a class by themselves!
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 01:20 PM
Mar 2012

I am from NY, my parents had very thick accents and I definitely think of them (and my other relatives) fondly as "quirky". I always think of Brits as being incredibly intelligent and Southern women as being very sexy (southern man accents don't do it for me though).

nobodyspecial

(2,286 posts)
8. No, accents don't bother me
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 01:22 PM
Mar 2012

and I find some intriguing. However, I definitely judge people based on their spelling and grammar.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
9. Yes.
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 01:24 PM
Mar 2012

I have to admit -- I perceive certain Southern accents as less intelligent until proven otherwise. I now that's not fair, but I do. Stephen Colbert was aware of this tendency and trained himself to have a generic American broadcast accent at an early age (he's from South Carolina).

The Straight Story

(48,121 posts)
11. I think on DU it is like color is to the RW, you sound southern you're a bad person
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 01:25 PM
Mar 2012

And have to prove your not "one of them" rw Southern folks.

 

RC

(25,592 posts)
12. Ya betcha dar Charley.
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 01:26 PM
Mar 2012

When I overhear people, almost always men, talking with a deep South drawl, and talking up Romey or Santorum. I really wonder it they ever made it past the 3rd grade.

Brickbat

(19,339 posts)
13. I do it, definitely. I admitted as much during the "dad shoots laptop" outragaganza that went on
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 01:27 PM
Mar 2012

here several weeks ago. Because I know I do it, I try to mitigate it. But deep down inside, I totally do it.

socialindependocrat

(1,372 posts)
14. Mostly as a first impression..
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 01:31 PM
Mar 2012

But I do get hung up on a British accent
even listening to a British accent that the Brits
consider "uncultured" sounds good to me.

I think different accents have different plus and minus qualities

After listening to most people I get a feel for whether they are
liberal/open/curious or closed/conservative and ignorant

(now I'll get 10,000 comments back abourt the words I've chosen
but I imagine the most angry will identify with the ignorant conservatives!)

Let's see what happens, shall we?

If this gets blocked it's because I didn't stick that "sarchasm" thingie in here! Oh well, had to happen some time!

Quantess

(27,630 posts)
20. I admit I have an obstacle to overcome.
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 02:02 PM
Mar 2012

Unless the british person happens to be a comedian, I am not crazy about british accents.

But I dislike Australian accents even more! South African sounds grating, also.

Edit to add: what's the sarcasm about? I didn't see anything sarcastic in your post. I'm just replying to it calmly.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
25. Most of the accents of the United Kingdom and Ireland
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 02:26 PM
Mar 2012

sit well in the ear. Something about a woman with an Irish accent is very attractive to me.

 

HockeyMom

(14,337 posts)
15. My neighbor is from Scotland
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 01:32 PM
Mar 2012

Oh, you think people in the USA have "bad" accents? I cannot have a conversation with this man. I just yes him to death because I simply cannot understand what in the world he is saying. It sounds like he is swallowing every single word.

 

Snake Alchemist

(3,318 posts)
17. We hung out with a Scottish petroleum engineer when we were in Australia.
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 01:39 PM
Mar 2012

For the most part we could understand her, but when she got excited or animated about something she was completely unintelligible to us. She was a lot of fun though.

 

HockeyMom

(14,337 posts)
18. Oh, yes he most definitely is!
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 01:45 PM
Mar 2012

He invites half the neighborhood to his St. Andrew's Party, wears his kilts, plays the bagpipes, and even serves HAGGIS! I only wish I could UNDERSTAND him.

Spike89

(1,569 posts)
16. Yup, but it isn't a bad thing really
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 01:37 PM
Mar 2012

Just part of the puzzle that includes vocabulary, dress, overall appearance, and other information that forms a first impression. There is nothing wrong with putting the pieces together, the problems come when we refuse to adjust to new pieces or add pieces that aren't really there.

a la izquierda

(11,795 posts)
19. I'm from New Jersey...
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 01:46 PM
Mar 2012

and everywhere I've moved, people have wanted to "hear my accent." I lost most of it when I moved away. I don't care about peoples' accents in the slightest anymore. I used to make fun of the "hicks" from Oklahoma when I first moved there...until I developed a bit of an Okie drawl.

A most interesting thing is to spend enough time in a foreign country listening to a language other than English. You can eventually hear the different accents there.

murielm99

(30,741 posts)
21. It is interesting that you comment on foreign
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 02:15 PM
Mar 2012

language accents. My daughter is a fluent Spanish speaker. She has lived and travelled in South and Central America. She talks about the different Spanish accents there. She says the Chileans are very hard to understand. She loves her first Spanish teacher, from high school. She says her former teacher has a Midwestern, but good, Spanish accent. She means that native speakers would understand her teacher very well. She sounds very natural.

I don't get too hung up on regional accents. I am more likely to judge grammar. If someone uses poor grammar, I don't care where they come from. And if every other word is "like," "yanno," "yanno wut I'm sayin'", or "fuck," I start to judge them. I care about spelling. Of course, we all make typos, and certain errors are common. But I do judge people on their written communication. People are staying in school longer these days, and should be learning something.

I don't always like it that I am so judgmental. But that is my honest answer.

a la izquierda

(11,795 posts)
38. I can't understand South Americans from the southern cone...
Wed Mar 21, 2012, 06:38 AM
Mar 2012

it's bizarre. Part of it, I think, is idiomatic expressions and pronunciation of certain letters (like it is here). But you should here provincial Mexicans make fun of those from Mexico City. It's pretty humorous.

Don't get me started on grammar. I'm a professor. I don't know if grammar is not being taught, or what, but let me just say I'm not old at all, and I learned grammar in middle and high school. My students do not write well.

CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
22. It depends on the speaker. I adore Bill Moyers' soft north Texas accent, but detest Rick Perry's
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 02:21 PM
Mar 2012

Texas accent. It depends on how I feel about the person.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
27. Good point
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 02:28 PM
Mar 2012

My favorite professor in college had a very mellow North Carolina accent. Listening to his voice giving a lecture was like sipping really fine bourbon.

CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
28. Well, actually I grew up in north Texas so in many ways that accent was mine and that of
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 02:37 PM
Mar 2012

the people closest to me. So Moyers kinda soothes me. But really it is the content of his message that is most pertinent.

I also adore Jim Hightower!

TNDemo

(3,452 posts)
23. Have you seen The History of English?
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 02:25 PM
Mar 2012

Saw it years ago and it studied the different accents. The Tennessee accent (there are three, none of them sounding like Scarlett O'Hara) from the east is derived from the Irish and Scottish brogue. It is pretty thick and I have had to watch what comes naturally. My kids grew up in Nashville and live on the west coast but no one thinks they are southern.

shraby

(21,946 posts)
24. Accents don't affect me except I'm hard of hearing and they are harder to
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 02:25 PM
Mar 2012

understand what the person is saying because of it. I have to listen very carefully in order to catch and decipher all that is said.

The Backlash Cometh

(41,358 posts)
29. British accents.
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 02:41 PM
Mar 2012

Something about them. They seem to have a wider range of communication, since people don't get offended by what they say. It's how it's said that matters.

We Americans seem to be more constipated in our understanding of the English language.

madokie

(51,076 posts)
30. That was the neatest part about being in the navy years ago
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 02:44 PM
Mar 2012

All these people from all over the world with different ideas, likes, questions and answers. Delivered in the south Mississippi drawl or the Yankee whatever you call it to someone like me who talks like a real southern okie boy. Anyways that was the neatest part of my service time. Prior to the navy my world existed within a 25 mile radius at most of where I was born.

To answer your question, I try to not let it happen. Most of my relatives live nearby so its a tad different for me but I can see how it sure could though.

I had a good friend from Boston and man o man we sure had some fun with our different way of talking
I think it possibly helped to keep the tensions down where we were because we would laugh and make fun of each other, all in fun mind you, because we were different and it made everyone more relaxed. More open to the togetherness that being different brought to us as a whole.

JDPriestly

(57,936 posts)
34. Yes. I am very sensitive to voices, sounds and assess people a lot based on them.
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 03:30 PM
Mar 2012

On the other hand, I do not notice what people are wearing, how they look, etc. so much. (Unfortunately, I don't always pay much attention to what I am wearing or how I look, and other people judge based on physical appearances so that is bad for me.)

I am not a visual person.

But it isn't the accent that matters to me. I love the different accents. It is the voice quality, what I hear in terms of tension in the body and aggression or passivity in the personality just from hearing the voice. I hear whether a person is sincere, lying, knowingly lying. It's just the way I relate to the world.

ZombieHorde

(29,047 posts)
35. I don't think I do.
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 03:39 PM
Mar 2012

I like to look for certain types of outsiders within any group, so a person's accent or birthplace doesn't matter too much to me.

JI7

(89,249 posts)
37. not exactly in a bad way , it just makes me think of where they are from
Mon Mar 19, 2012, 04:40 PM
Mar 2012

i have interest in history and different places, cultures etc so it makes me think of some stuff i know and i can ask them about it.

i have relatives from many different countries so i am kind of used to it. when i was a kid though i remember laughing at some relative from australia and his accent.



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