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WeekendWarrior

(1,437 posts)
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 12:00 AM Feb 2014

For Those of You Freaking Out About Woody Allen

I post this again:

http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2014/01/27/the-woody-allen-allegations-not-so-fast.html

"Moses Farrow, now 36, and an accomplished photographer, has been estranged from Mia for several years. During a recent conversation, he spoke of “finally seeing the reality” of Frog Hollow and used the term “brainwashing” without hesitation."

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For Those of You Freaking Out About Woody Allen (Original Post) WeekendWarrior Feb 2014 OP
The only people freaking out are DURHAM D Feb 2014 #1
Actually, there IS a video WeekendWarrior Feb 2014 #7
the author of the article implies that, not the investigators. they said "could be anything" which bettyellen Feb 2014 #24
Apparently you don't agree with the investigators WeekendWarrior Feb 2014 #35
The prosecutor said he had probable cause but the 7 year old victim was too fragile. n/t pnwmom Feb 2014 #45
Utter nonsense...and the DA was disciplined for saying such rot.... msanthrope Feb 2014 #74
Investigators said no evidence. Prosecutor was disciplined for that statement. cui bono Feb 2014 #88
The family court judge said the report was "inconclusive" and "not reliable." pnwmom Feb 2014 #141
Pedophiles leave a trail of victims. Which don't exist here. But another celebrity punching bag KittyWampus Feb 2014 #31
I would also add: Bonobo Feb 2014 #36
"Did this event actually occur? If we’re inclined to give it a second thought, we can each believe.. bettyellen Feb 2014 #2
Agree with last paragraph. DURHAM D Feb 2014 #4
I cannot believe how many people shared links to this hatchet job- and pretend it is some bettyellen Feb 2014 #12
But let's ignore the fact that a team of investigators WeekendWarrior Feb 2014 #5
never saw they suggested it was coached- and that she had no vagnal tearing doesn't mean anything. bettyellen Feb 2014 #10
I have no idea where you're getting your information WeekendWarrior Feb 2014 #11
the kid could be deeply disturbed or it could be coached. So, the author left out half the quote.... bettyellen Feb 2014 #15
You say "I think" a lot. WeekendWarrior Feb 2014 #18
the prosecuters final word was that there was "probable cause". I said think once, you three times. bettyellen Feb 2014 #23
And that prosecutor was reprimanded for those remarks WeekendWarrior Feb 2014 #25
actually- you are the one who assumes they know the truth. I repeatedly said we do not. bettyellen Feb 2014 #28
I'm basing my opinion on the facts available and WeekendWarrior Feb 2014 #30
you know "innocent until guilty" is for courts, right? I totally believe in that- in courts, LOL. bettyellen Feb 2014 #33
It's fun to watch someone look at the facts WeekendWarrior Feb 2014 #34
Only courts do that. People merely have benign opinions, premises and conclusions. LanternWaste Feb 2014 #100
Dylan's account had "a rehearsed quality" WeekendWarrior Feb 2014 #27
And their conclusion? Could have happened, could not have happened. bettyellen Feb 2014 #29
that is NOT their conclusion at all WeekendWarrior Feb 2014 #32
"We did not come to a firm conclusion. We think that it was probably a combination." Now that is a bettyellen Feb 2014 #37
Oh, for god's sake WeekendWarrior Feb 2014 #38
You are a liar. CSStrowbridge Feb 2014 #50
tell that to the LIAR who claimed they said she WAS coached....there were conflicting opinions all bettyellen Feb 2014 #52
For someone who doesn't know what happened you sure cthulu2016 Feb 2014 #54
because I said this article is a biased piece of shit? And I don't know what happened? bettyellen Feb 2014 #58
This message was self-deleted by its author HangOnKids Feb 2014 #132
Wow... that's sooooo dishonest cthulu2016 Feb 2014 #51
no, they thought she could have been a severely disturbed kid. which is problematic. bettyellen Feb 2014 #53
The article was based largely on facts that are public record WeekendWarrior Feb 2014 #95
we only have opinions, period. and that article left out so much that it's bias would sway anyone... bettyellen Feb 2014 #96
The woman who wrote the Vanity Fair article is a friend of Farrow's. She is also biased. El_Johns Feb 2014 #119
THEY were the ones who rehearsed her pnwmom Feb 2014 #143
Such a tactic could just as easily be harmful WeekendWarrior Feb 2014 #145
This point was made by an expert in child sex abuse. Literally the woman who wrote the textbook. pnwmom Feb 2014 #147
Have you actually read the testimony by the doctor WeekendWarrior Feb 2014 #148
It's not up to anyone other than the DA to prosecute jberryhill Feb 2014 #17
very weird that he'd say that thing about "probable cause" but decided to "spare her the trauma". bettyellen Feb 2014 #22
There was no physical evidence she was molested. The rest is you mangling the transcript. El_Johns Feb 2014 #39
physical evidence is often NOT there, so..... bettyellen Feb 2014 #42
The "more balanced" VF article was written by a friend of Farrow's, as was the 1992 article it El_Johns Feb 2014 #118
fuck Woody Allen CatWoman Feb 2014 #3
ditto Puzzledtraveller Feb 2014 #109
Very good article. nt msanthrope Feb 2014 #6
Just so you know, that article spurred Dylan's letter. joshcryer Feb 2014 #44
It's interesting to me that the licensed family therapist in the family believes Allen. nt msanthrope Feb 2014 #81
Thanks for that link..... I'd heard a lot about this but hard facts are tough to come by groundloop Feb 2014 #8
Mia Farrow's Daughter Opens Up About Alleged Abuse By Woody Allen Tx4obama Feb 2014 #9
This thread is in response to that post. nt. WeekendWarrior Feb 2014 #14
Dylan Farrow's letter was a response to that article. joshcryer Feb 2014 #43
Given space by another friend of Farrow's, Nicholas Kristof. Just in time for the Oscars. El_Johns Feb 2014 #120
I wouldn't be surprised if defacto7 Feb 2014 #13
Amanda Knox, Woody Allen... please, make it stop. hunter Feb 2014 #16
Then why did you feel compelled to say something? WeekendWarrior Feb 2014 #19
For WillyT... hunter Feb 2014 #20
Some people are able to learn from the experience of others siligut Feb 2014 #21
respectfully, defacto7 Feb 2014 #48
no, the Chris Christie threads are entertaining. This, not at all- unless you're speaking bettyellen Feb 2014 #63
It's never entertaining defacto7 Feb 2014 #64
you seem confused that people come here for wisdom, LOL. point me towards it, LOL bettyellen Feb 2014 #65
This small line in the thread comes from post #16 defacto7 Feb 2014 #67
I saw, but look at GD... seriously. Not a lot more wisdom out there either, just current events and bettyellen Feb 2014 #68
I so agree... defacto7 Feb 2014 #69
Respect would imply that you had actually read and processed my post siligut Feb 2014 #77
It's more than media gossip, it's an orchestrated campaign, IMO. El_Johns Feb 2014 #121
Thanks for the link to this article NBachers Feb 2014 #26
Thanks for this thread, and other important facts from the article - quinnox Feb 2014 #40
+ 1 red dog 1 Feb 2014 #57
Quinnox, on No. 6 you got something wrong. Manifestor_of_Light Feb 2014 #66
Fine, but that isn't my list quinnox Feb 2014 #70
OK, then the author was wrong about time requirements for common-law. Manifestor_of_Light Feb 2014 #86
NY doesn't have common-law marriage. tammywammy Feb 2014 #106
Texas isn't the state at issue here B2G Feb 2014 #105
It was right, but they threw in irrelevant discussion of common law marriage. Manifestor_of_Light Feb 2014 #112
I think the whole Farrow-Allen clan are a bit off-kilter. El_Johns Feb 2014 #41
gosh. it looks like I stepped into a time warp. is this a news report from the 90's?? 2banon Feb 2014 #46
That's one point of view, by a member of the Woody fan club. pnwmom Feb 2014 #47
And the Vanity Fair article written by a friend of Farrow's is another, from the Farrow fan club. El_Johns Feb 2014 #122
Yeah, the guy marries his daughter and we're going to debate whether he's a creep or not me b zola Feb 2014 #49
Definitely was not his daughter. Gravitycollapse Feb 2014 #55
But he didn't. defacto7 Feb 2014 #56
because he conspired to betray his LT partner with her own teen daughter. it's a good enough reason bettyellen Feb 2014 #60
Yeah... it seems questionable defacto7 Feb 2014 #62
It's Mia's fault for encouraging them to hang out! I mean, of course he'd want nude pics eventually. bettyellen Feb 2014 #61
+1 Coexist Feb 2014 #113
AND he made a movie -- Manhattan -- about his "affair" with a high school girl. Arugula Latte Feb 2014 #103
She wasn't his daughter. closeupready Feb 2014 #108
Thanks, WeekendWarrior, for posting this. red dog 1 Feb 2014 #59
I don't mean to go off topic but I'm curious OwnedByCats Feb 2014 #71
you're not alone Voice for Peace Feb 2014 #72
He mostly just looks like mia to me Doctor_J Feb 2014 #83
He looks like Mia as well OwnedByCats Feb 2014 #85
Yep OwnedByCats Feb 2014 #84
The young man has Frank's mouth. Not to mention the eyes. Dark n Stormy Knight Feb 2014 #91
Moses Farrow is also a family therapist, licensed and practicing in CT. So I have a feeling that msanthrope Feb 2014 #73
The entire world has had reason to distrust Mia Farrow for many decades. Artists warned us. Bluenorthwest Feb 2014 #75
You denounce the Catholic priests BainsBane Feb 2014 #89
Offering my opinion about Mia and Andre, not about Allen. Bluenorthwest Feb 2014 #125
I suggest you think about the implications of what you are doing BainsBane Feb 2014 #126
So you are not aware that the priests have lots of female victims? How can you not know this? Bluenorthwest Feb 2014 #129
I did not make an attack BainsBane Feb 2014 #130
yeah, you did. Bluenorthwest Feb 2014 #134
Well, I was about to apologize BainsBane Feb 2014 #138
How creepy that Dory Previn had a song called "My Daddy in the Attic"! Bonobo Feb 2014 #92
How many marriages did Andre Previn have- five or six? All Mia's fault, obviously.... bettyellen Feb 2014 #116
Andre and Mia are the parents of 6 children. They claim to be adults, both of them. Bluenorthwest Feb 2014 #127
I keep reading here SHE broke his marriage. A married person is responsible for their own shit. bettyellen Feb 2014 #128
I don't know what you 'keep reading here' but it was not me you were reading so don't barf it Bluenorthwest Feb 2014 #131
It was primarily an attack on Mia. And the warning about young girls, LOL.. It seems everyone Mia bettyellen Feb 2014 #137
It seems to me that Weekend Warrior is the one freaked out about... Walk away Feb 2014 #76
Yes, here and on the other thread - the denial is very telling. Sheldon Cooper Feb 2014 #78
Very Creepy! nt Walk away Feb 2014 #79
Disagreeing with you and Mia Farrow is not denial Bluenorthwest Feb 2014 #80
You obviously have something to hide! TheSarcastinator Feb 2014 #135
shame on you for such a slimy response TheSarcastinator Feb 2014 #136
And again, let's all remember: all this outcry and villification are happening simply because a Squinch Feb 2014 #82
There are people freaking out about Woody Allen? treestar Feb 2014 #87
God forbid anyone believe a woman about her own sexual abuse BainsBane Feb 2014 #90
God forbid anyone do any research on the subject before they spout WeekendWarrior Feb 2014 #94
Is it 1992 or 2014? BainsBane Feb 2014 #139
We have the brother Moses's clear statement as well WeekendWarrior Feb 2014 #140
^^this^^ Puzzledtraveller Feb 2014 #110
Woody Allen does not need to be a pederast Jenoch Feb 2014 #93
Message auto-removed Name removed Feb 2014 #97
Ronan would be their own biological son tammywammy Feb 2014 #98
Message auto-removed Name removed Feb 2014 #101
It might not have been a lie. tammywammy Feb 2014 #102
wow. I just read that whole and truly vile piece of dog shit cali Feb 2014 #99
I'm torn. no_hypocrisy Feb 2014 #104
As another poster so simply put it, Fuck Woody Allen! Puzzledtraveller Feb 2014 #107
By the way, Woody Allen has now responded to this, and said these accusations are untrue and quinnox Feb 2014 #111
If Woody Allen was a vocal right winger the call for his nutz would be unanimous here Puzzledtraveller Feb 2014 #114
Yeah, because this is a site for us to bash rightwingers LostOne4Ever Feb 2014 #117
I only had time to read about half the article davidpdx Feb 2014 #115
People Magazine article (2/05): Moses' comments and Dylan's response to Moses. PoliticAverse Feb 2014 #123
I guess the soap opera is going on for a while. El_Johns Feb 2014 #124
This message was self-deleted by its author HangOnKids Feb 2014 #133
Those freaking out about Dylan pnwmom Feb 2014 #142
Allen wasn't there all day WeekendWarrior Feb 2014 #144
There are 11 other siblings who support Dylan in this. Why is Moses the only one who matters? pnwmom Feb 2014 #146
I wouldn't know about the other kids except Ronan and Soon-Yi WeekendWarrior Feb 2014 #149
You haven't read either of the long Vanity Fair articles, which included interviews pnwmom Feb 2014 #150
The Vanity Fair Article is a Puff Piece WeekendWarrior Feb 2014 #151
The Robert Weide article of January 27th on Woody Allen by the guy who did the pnwmom Feb 2014 #152

DURHAM D

(32,611 posts)
1. The only people freaking out are
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 12:05 AM
Feb 2014

those who don't believe Woody could possibly be a pedophile because there is, after all, no video.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
24. the author of the article implies that, not the investigators. they said "could be anything" which
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 01:29 AM
Feb 2014

includes molestation. I agree with the investigators. We really do not know.

cui bono

(19,926 posts)
88. Investigators said no evidence. Prosecutor was disciplined for that statement.
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 05:36 PM
Feb 2014

Last edited Sun Feb 2, 2014, 06:45 PM - Edit history (1)

a disciplinary panel found the actions of County Prosecutor Frank Maco (the “probable cause” guy) were cause for “grave concern” and may have prejudiced the case. It winds up that Maco sent his “probable cause” statement to the Surrogate’s Court judge in Manhattan who was still deciding on Allen’s adoption status of Dylan and Moses, which Mia was trying to annul. The panel wrote, “In most circumstances, [Maco’s comments] would have violated the prosecutor’s obligation to the accused. [His actions were] inappropriate, unsolicited, and potentially prejudicial.” The article states that the agency could have voted sanctions against Maco ranging from censure to disbarment. Though the decision was quite damning, Maco got what amounted to a slap on the wrist. Two years later, the reprimand was overturned, but Mia was unsuccessful in her bid to annul the adoptions. Legally, Woody remains the adoptive father of Dylan and Moses.
http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2014/01/27/the-woody-allen-allegations-not-so-fast.html

pnwmom

(108,995 posts)
141. The family court judge said the report was "inconclusive" and "not reliable."
Thu Feb 6, 2014, 02:30 AM
Feb 2014

That is a far cry from "fabricated."

 

KittyWampus

(55,894 posts)
31. Pedophiles leave a trail of victims. Which don't exist here. But another celebrity punching bag
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 01:44 AM
Feb 2014

has been found.

Pound away.

Bonobo

(29,257 posts)
36. I would also add:
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 01:53 AM
Feb 2014

I see no relationship between a man attracted to sexually mature women (albeit young ones) and someone who is attracted to pre-pubescent children.

Making that logical error is somewhat like those who say there is a link between homosexuality and pedophilia.

Both are wrong.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
2. "Did this event actually occur? If we’re inclined to give it a second thought, we can each believe..
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 12:07 AM
Feb 2014

what we want, but none of us know."

Inclined to give it a second thought? Pretty fucking flippant, wow.

The author spent almost 3 years on various Woody glorification projects and keeps saying he's not there to trash Mia or side w/ Woody, but that's pretty much all he does here. Doesn't address a lot brought up in the more balanced VF piece, so there's some pretty selective editing going on too.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
12. I cannot believe how many people shared links to this hatchet job- and pretend it is some
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 12:37 AM
Feb 2014

last word when so much is left unadressed. The guy has obviously got an agenda, so much so, he denies it at least three times, LOL.
I don't know what really happened, but that article is a mess.

WeekendWarrior

(1,437 posts)
5. But let's ignore the fact that a team of investigators
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 12:17 AM
Feb 2014

found no evidence of child abuse and suggested that Dylan was coached.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
10. never saw they suggested it was coached- and that she had no vagnal tearing doesn't mean anything.
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 12:31 AM
Feb 2014

I heard the family "declined to prosecute" but could have. Seems that no real conclusions were reached. I am guessing neither of us know.

WeekendWarrior

(1,437 posts)
11. I have no idea where you're getting your information
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 12:36 AM
Feb 2014

The family didn't decline to prosecute. The investigators—people who specialize in sexual abuse—said there was no evidence of molestation. As for the coaching, THIS is from the article. Apparently you didn't bother to read it:

"As for the evidentiary videotape of young Dylan’s claims, it’s been noted that there were several starts and stops in the recording, essentially creating in-camera “edits” to the young girl’s commentary. This raises questions as to what was happening when the tape wasn’t running. Was Mia “coaching” her daughter off-camera, as suggested by the investigators? Mia says no—she merely turned the camera on whenever Dylan starting talking about what Daddy did. Maybe we should take Mia at her word on this. Since I wasn’t there, I think it’s good policy not to presume what took place."

And just for shits and giggles, I'll add this here:

"Mia’s allegations of molestation automatically triggered a criminal investigation by the Connecticut State Police, who brought in an investigative team from the Yale-New Haven Hospital, whose six-month long inquiry (which included medical examinations) concluded that Dylan had not been molested. "

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
15. the kid could be deeply disturbed or it could be coached. So, the author left out half the quote....
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 12:44 AM
Feb 2014

..... to skew it to look as if coaching was their conclusion. Nope.

I believe most of this is regurgitating Woody's claims, right? I don't think the "investigators" had any final answers. I know the article looks like "case closed", but it's bullshit.

WeekendWarrior

(1,437 posts)
18. You say "I think" a lot.
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 01:06 AM
Feb 2014

This article is pointing to THE FACTS. Not what people "think." A team of investigators found no evidence of molestation after a six month investigation. That is a FACT. Woody Allen was not prosecuted. That is a FACT.

I again think it's clear that you have not read this article. Why don't you actually take a moment to read it, then get back to me, instead of making uninformed assumptions.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
23. the prosecuters final word was that there was "probable cause". I said think once, you three times.
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 01:27 AM
Feb 2014

and those are both facts.

Accused rapists and molesters don't go to trial all the time, prosecutions are difficult to obtain. There is a difference between doing something, and being found guilty of it in court.

I did read this article, and others- that's how come I KNOW the author was biased- and left out important facts to skew opinions in favor of Woody. (Who he is making money off of as we speak)

No "investigator" said their final conclusion was that the kid was coached. None. Sorry, THAT is BS.

WeekendWarrior

(1,437 posts)
25. And that prosecutor was reprimanded for those remarks
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 01:32 AM
Feb 2014

and has been shown to be a friend of the Farrow family.

I said it elsewhere, but I'll say it again. I find it pretty amazing that people on DU—who claim to be progressives—are so quick to find Allen guilty until proven innocent.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
28. actually- you are the one who assumes they know the truth. I repeatedly said we do not.
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 01:36 AM
Feb 2014

WTF, are you reading someone else's posts?
Maybe someone who uses the word "think" as frequently as you do, LOL? Because your replies to me don't have much to do with what I have said at all- especially not my comments on the author's very deceptive editing.

WeekendWarrior

(1,437 posts)
30. I'm basing my opinion on the facts available and
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 01:41 AM
Feb 2014

the belief that people should be considered innocent until proven guilty.

You apparently don't share that belief. The facts are clear. I'll state them again. The investigation team, after a six month investigation, including physical examinations and interviews with all concerned, found no evidence that the young girl had been molested.

I'm sorry those facts don't matter in your world.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
33. you know "innocent until guilty" is for courts, right? I totally believe in that- in courts, LOL.
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 01:47 AM
Feb 2014

But no one in their right mind believes every crime that occurs actually ends up being prosecuted in court.
So, there's that.


And also the fact that we are not in court, LOL. But.... carry on as if we are, it's fun to watch!

WeekendWarrior

(1,437 posts)
34. It's fun to watch someone look at the facts
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 01:50 AM
Feb 2014

and completely ignore them.

You're really embarrassing yourself. I hope you realize that. You certainly have a right to your opinion, but that opinion—if we look at the facts available—is wrong.

Court or no court, any other conclusion is just silly.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
100. Only courts do that. People merely have benign opinions, premises and conclusions.
Mon Feb 3, 2014, 03:20 PM
Feb 2014

"people on DU—who claim to be progressives—are so quick to find Allen guilty until proven innocent..."

Only courts may decide guilt or innocence. People-- even those on DU who "claim" to be progressive merely have benign opinions, premises and conclusions. To think otherwise is pretty amazing too.

(insert distinction without a difference here)

WeekendWarrior

(1,437 posts)
32. that is NOT their conclusion at all
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 01:45 AM
Feb 2014

You're just being ridiculous now.

"The team told Mr. Allen and Miss Farrow on March 18 that it had concluded that Dylan was not molested, but the transcript gives the first look at the thinking behind that finding."

I mean, seriously. Get some help.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
37. "We did not come to a firm conclusion. We think that it was probably a combination." Now that is a
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 01:53 AM
Feb 2014

quote it appears you'd like to avoid acknowledging. But it is what I have been saying all along.
Hope that "helped" you out. Cause you have put waaaay to many words in my mouth.

WeekendWarrior

(1,437 posts)
38. Oh, for god's sake
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 01:55 AM
Feb 2014

Read what comes BEFORE that quote. He's talking about whether Dylan is a "disturbed child" or was coached. He's not talking about their final conclusion that she was NOT molested. This is his theory on why she may have said what she said.

You're REALLY stretching here.

EDITED TO ADD: Look, you can cherry pick all you want. This doesn't change THE FACT that the investigation concluded that she was not molested. End of story.

CSStrowbridge

(267 posts)
50. You are a liar.
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 03:22 AM
Feb 2014

You are a liar. It's as simple as that.

The entire quote from Leventhal makes it clear they are unsure why Dylan made up these charges, but concluded she made them up. They were unsure if Mia coached her to make these charges.

How could you have possibly read the second part of the quote without reading the first part. The only conclusion I can make is that you are a liar.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
52. tell that to the LIAR who claimed they said she WAS coached....there were conflicting opinions all
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 03:31 AM
Feb 2014

along the process, the judge certainly thought there was something going on, the prosecutor too.


Like I said, I don't know what happened, and guess what? NEITHER DO YOU, SO CHILL THE EFF OUT.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
58. because I said this article is a biased piece of shit? And I don't know what happened?
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 03:42 AM
Feb 2014

the article blames Farrow for (5X married) Previn dumping his wife, and claims it's comparable to Woody because, yeah- that's just like cheating on your long term partner *with her teen daughter*.

My opinions are- we don't know, we cant know- and Woody and Soon Yi pretty much deserve each other. That's about it.

Response to CSStrowbridge (Reply #50)

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
53. no, they thought she could have been a severely disturbed kid. which is problematic.
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 03:35 AM
Feb 2014

for obvious reasons.

my point -ONE LAST TIME-
Is none of us KNOWS what did and didn't happen.
And this article was biased crap from a dude making money off of Woody.

WeekendWarrior

(1,437 posts)
95. The article was based largely on facts that are public record
Mon Feb 3, 2014, 12:31 PM
Feb 2014

He makes it clear right at the beginning that he has worked with Allen, but that doesn't discount the fact that most of what he outlines is already public record. From the New York Times:

"Last March, a team of child-abuse specialists at Yale-New Haven Hospital, who were brought into the case by prosecutors and the police, concluded that Dylan had not been molested."

"A Connecticut prosecutor's handling of a child-molestation complaint against Woody Allen was cause for 'grave concern' and may have prejudiced the legal battle between Mr. Allen and Mia Farrow, a disciplinary panel has found."

None of us knows what happened. But based on the evidence, we have a pretty good idea.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
96. we only have opinions, period. and that article left out so much that it's bias would sway anyone...
Mon Feb 3, 2014, 03:00 PM
Feb 2014

who wasn't bothered by what a hatchet job it was toward both Mia and her children. You should find the VF article and see how much this author left out in order to get that slant.

 

El_Johns

(1,805 posts)
119. The woman who wrote the Vanity Fair article is a friend of Farrow's. She is also biased.
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 07:47 AM
Feb 2014

I'd bet there are very few people involved in the case who aren't biased.

Your selective use of one set of biased people is also biased.

pnwmom

(108,995 posts)
143. THEY were the ones who rehearsed her
Thu Feb 6, 2014, 02:32 AM
Feb 2014

by interviewing her nine times.

Each time a trauma victim has to repeat her story to strangers, she is subject to being re-traumatized. Why would they have done this except in an effort to catch her in contradictions and/or wear her down?

WeekendWarrior

(1,437 posts)
145. Such a tactic could just as easily be harmful
Thu Feb 6, 2014, 02:36 AM
Feb 2014

to the accused. Especially since her mother was in the room during some of the interrogations.

It's pointless to dismiss the investigation on that basis.

pnwmom

(108,995 posts)
147. This point was made by an expert in child sex abuse. Literally the woman who wrote the textbook.
Thu Feb 6, 2014, 02:39 AM
Feb 2014

Dr. Diane Schetky was an associate professor of psychiatry at the University of Vermont, and co-author of the textbook Child Sexual Abuse and co-editor of Clinical Handbook of Child Psychiatry and the Law.


http://www.andythibault.com/columns/CT%20Magazine%20-%20Apr%2097.htm

The team interviewed Dylan nine times. For three consecutive weeks, she said Allen violated her sexually. In several of the other sessions she mentioned a similar type of abuse. When Dylan did not repeat the precise allegation in some of the sessions, the team reported this as an inconsistency.

The nine interviews were "excessive," Schetky says. "The danger is the child feels like she's not believed if she's asked the same questions over and over."

WeekendWarrior

(1,437 posts)
148. Have you actually read the testimony by the doctor
Thu Feb 6, 2014, 02:45 AM
Feb 2014

in charge of the investigation, rather than someone watching from afar?

He said Dylan changed her story multiple times and seemed to be rehearsed. Mia Farrow was sometimes in the room during those interviews, so if anything, that would be prejudicial against Allen.

What Schetky has to say is interesting but ultimately irrelevant. She wasn't there.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
22. very weird that he'd say that thing about "probable cause" but decided to "spare her the trauma".
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 01:18 AM
Feb 2014

I guess it's a commentary on how difficult it is to try he said/ she said cases. I doubt we will ever know what really happened.

 

El_Johns

(1,805 posts)
39. There was no physical evidence she was molested. The rest is you mangling the transcript.
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 02:03 AM
Feb 2014

"It’s quite possible —as a matter of fact, we think it’s medically probable—that (Dylan) stuck to that story over time because of the intense relationship she had with her mother.”

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
42. physical evidence is often NOT there, so.....
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 02:37 AM
Feb 2014

not sure why you responded with a different quote either? want to quote the judge next? or Dylan, for perspective?

 

El_Johns

(1,805 posts)
118. The "more balanced" VF article was written by a friend of Farrow's, as was the 1992 article it
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 07:36 AM
Feb 2014

largely recapitulates.

"The campaign began in the November issue of Vanity Fair in a profile of Mia Farrow by Maureen Orth, a long-time friend (Orth is the widow of NBC's Tim Russert)"

http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2014/feb/03/woody-allen-dylan-farrow-abuse-allegations

defacto7

(13,485 posts)
13. I wouldn't be surprised if
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 12:40 AM
Feb 2014

Last edited Sun Feb 2, 2014, 02:45 AM - Edit history (1)

the whole thing is a decades long Woody Allen stunt in cooperation with the Farrow's and all other participants for the craziness of world domination of tabloid media. Maybe art.. like Salvador Dali who near the end of his life signed thousands of blank canvases just for the hell of devaluing his own art... as art. Then there's Andy Kaufman....

or not.

on edit: After reading other comments on the subject, I have to clarify that what I am saying. The idea we know something because we read it is as absurd as what I wrote in this comment above.

hunter

(38,328 posts)
16. Amanda Knox, Woody Allen... please, make it stop.
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 12:45 AM
Feb 2014

Shit like this happens EVERY FUCKING DAY and the mass media ignores it or makes it worse.

Turn off the god-damned T.V. and make the world a better place for the community you live in.

There are demons walking among you, and there are innocent neighbors who have been falsely charged.

Look out for them!

Amanda Knox and Woody Allen are stories, they do not exist in my personal universe. Nothing I could say, nothing I know, could make any difference at all.





WeekendWarrior

(1,437 posts)
19. Then why did you feel compelled to say something?
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 01:08 AM
Feb 2014

It can stop very easily and give you peace. You don't have to click the link.

See how easy that is?

siligut

(12,272 posts)
21. Some people are able to learn from the experience of others
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 01:14 AM
Feb 2014

And plenty of people are glad they are willing to share their wisdom.

defacto7

(13,485 posts)
48. respectfully,
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 02:55 AM
Feb 2014

the problem is we are not learning from the experience of others here, people are reading media gossip and making judgments with that information. There is no wisdom to be found in reading it. It's repeated and bludgeoned for the entertainment value, no more. If you or others are entertained then we should acknowledge that, not mistake it for learning or wisdom.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
63. no, the Chris Christie threads are entertaining. This, not at all- unless you're speaking
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 03:54 AM
Feb 2014

for yourself.

defacto7

(13,485 posts)
64. It's never entertaining
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 04:03 AM
Feb 2014

to watch perfectly well educated people mistake tabloid media for wisdom and education.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
65. you seem confused that people come here for wisdom, LOL. point me towards it, LOL
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 04:09 AM
Feb 2014

because there is not a lot of that going on here. Seen very little of it here in the last 8-9 years. But never expected to either.

defacto7

(13,485 posts)
67. This small line in the thread comes from post #16
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 04:19 AM
Feb 2014

In post #21 it stated learning from others and from their wisdom. That's where I began my replies.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
68. I saw, but look at GD... seriously. Not a lot more wisdom out there either, just current events and
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 04:27 AM
Feb 2014

opinions about them. some times it's interesting just to see what people say.
It's better than comments sections in a lot of articles, but not always. Good reads often has good links, but GD is a lot of self reverential wacking off these days. I don't know that anyone comes here for an education. I hope not!

siligut

(12,272 posts)
77. Respect would imply that you had actually read and processed my post
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 10:20 AM
Feb 2014

My post was explaining to weekendwarrior why Hunter would bother to take time to remind people to remain focused on what is important and on making the world a better place.

I hope you are just tired and confused, because seriously [URL=.html][IMG][/IMG][/URL]

 

quinnox

(20,600 posts)
40. Thanks for this thread, and other important facts from the article -
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 02:11 AM
Feb 2014

"Every time I stumble upon this topic on the internet, it seems the people who are most outraged are also the most ignorant of the facts. Following are the top ten misconceptions, followed by my response in italics:

#1: Soon-Yi was Woody’s daughter. False.

#2: Soon-Yi was Woody’s step-daughter. False.

#3: Soon-Yi was Woody and Mia’s adopted daughter. False. Soon-Yi was the adopted daughter of Mia Farrow and André Previn. Her full name was Soon-Yi Farrow Previn.

#4: Woody and Mia were married. False.

#5: Woody and Mia lived together. False. Woody lived in his apartment on Fifth Ave. Mia and her kids lived on Central Park West. In fact, Woody never once stayed over night at Mia’s apartment in 12 years.

#6: Woody and Mia had a common-law marriage. False. New York State does not recognize common law marriage. Even in states that do, a couple has to cohabitate for a certain number of years.

#7: Soon-Yi viewed Woody as a father figure. False. Soon-Yi saw Woody as her mother’s boyfriend. Her father figure was her adoptive father, André Previn.

#8: Soon-Yi was underage when she and Woody started having relations. False. She was either 19 or 21. (Her year of birth in Korea was undocumented, but believed to be either 1970 or ’72.)

#9: Soon-Yi was borderline retarded. Ha! She’s smart as a whip, has a degree from Columbia University and speaks more languages than you.

#10: Woody was grooming Soon-Yi from an early age to be his child bride. Oh, come on! According to court documents and Mia’s own memoir, until 1990 (when Soon-Yi was 18 or 20), Woody “had little to do with any of the Previn children, (but) had the least to do with Soon-Yi” so Mia encouraged him to spend more time with her. Woody started taking her to basketball games, and the rest is tabloid history. So he hardly “had his eye on her” from the time she was a child."

Now here is my comment:
I think it is very important to understand that these allegations were made during a child custody battle. I think this context from the article is very important --

"I know I’m treading a delicate path here, and opening myself up to accusations of “blaming the victim.” However, I’m merely floating scenarios to consider, and you can think what you will. But if Mia’s account is true, it means that in the middle of custody and support negotiations, during which Woody needed to be on his best behavior, in a house belonging to his furious ex-girlfriend, and filled with people seething mad at him, Woody, who is a well-known claustrophobic, decided this would be the ideal time and place to take his daughter into an attic and molest her, quickly, before a house full of children and nannies noticed they were both missing."

 

Manifestor_of_Light

(21,046 posts)
66. Quinnox, on No. 6 you got something wrong.
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 04:19 AM
Feb 2014

Texas has common-law marriage. There is no time limit. I know people who think that if you shack up for six months you will wake up married. This is incorrect.

First you have to have no prior impediments: 1. Legal adults 2. who are not presently married (includes separated) to someone else.
3. You must cohabit (this has a particular legal meaning)
4. At least one of you has to have intent to be married.
5. You hold yourselves out to the public as being married.

No time limit whatever.

In the Marvin v. Marvin case regarding "palimony", if they had lived in Texas, Michelle Triola Marvin would have had a solid case for a common-law marriage. She abandoned her singing career and changed her last name to Marvin.

California does have community property, in which both parties are assumed to be able to contribute to the support of the family and children by working, and both genders may be ordered to pay child support, and so does Texas. Michelle Marvin was given a limited monetary award to get back on her feet and working.

I have heard someone tell me that "Women in Texas don't have to pay child support." This is erroneous.

Texas does not have alimony. Texas has separate maintenance for a limited time after the divorce. The marital property and child custody laws are much more equal than New England states because of the Spanish law influence. Spanish law is much more equal as far as women's rights than the English law in New England or the French Law, the Code Napoleon, in Louisiana.

I learned all this in Marital Property class when I attended a Texas law school. Yes, I earned a Juris Doctor degree (Doctor of Jurisprudence), so that makes me a lawyer.


 

B2G

(9,766 posts)
105. Texas isn't the state at issue here
Mon Feb 3, 2014, 04:27 PM
Feb 2014

New York is, and they don't recognize Common Law marriages.

So how is the article wrong?

 

El_Johns

(1,805 posts)
41. I think the whole Farrow-Allen clan are a bit off-kilter.
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 02:22 AM
Feb 2014

"A more mischievous part of me wanted to repost (Farrow's) tweet, but swap out her link for one leading to an article about the recent 10-year jail sentence received by her brother, John Charles Villiers-Farrow, for multiple counts of child molestation—a topic she’s been unusually quiet about, considering her penchant for calling out alleged (let alone, convicted) molesters to whom she’s exposed her children."

"One of the witnesses who testified on Polanski’s behalf was Mia Farrow, who, I’m told, remains friendly with the director to this day. I commend her for standing by her friend and going on record as a character witness. That’s what friends do. In fact, her support of Polanski is so steadfast that when he won the Oscar for best director for his 2002 masterpiece, The Pianist, Mia never even suggested that the Motion Picture Academy showed contempt for all abuse survivors in so honoring him. But then again, those were the days before Twitter."

I find all of them creepy.

 

2banon

(7,321 posts)
46. gosh. it looks like I stepped into a time warp. is this a news report from the 90's??
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 02:51 AM
Feb 2014

saw references made in a different thread, and I thought it was some sort of weird antiquated analogy. this can't possibly be a story for Feb 1st 2014, or is it?

pnwmom

(108,995 posts)
47. That's one point of view, by a member of the Woody fan club.
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 02:51 AM
Feb 2014

Dylan is old enough to speak for herself now. Moses is ten years older, a busy senior in high school when the behavior was supposedly going on, and not in a position to know what Woody was doing with Dylan when he was alone with her.

I'm not calling for Woody to be imprisoned or even put on trial. But I believe the young woman, not him.

 

El_Johns

(1,805 posts)
122. And the Vanity Fair article written by a friend of Farrow's is another, from the Farrow fan club.
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 07:53 AM
Feb 2014

Nicholas kristof, who gave Dylan a platform, is also a friend of Farrow's.

There is no unbiased reportage here.

And IMO rehashing this 20 years after the fact is orchestrated, not accidental.

me b zola

(19,053 posts)
49. Yeah, the guy marries his daughter and we're going to debate whether he's a creep or not
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 03:04 AM
Feb 2014

PSSSSST....He's a fucking creep.

defacto7

(13,485 posts)
56. But he didn't.
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 03:40 AM
Feb 2014

You can think he's a fucking creep, that's cool. But not because he married his daughter.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
60. because he conspired to betray his LT partner with her own teen daughter. it's a good enough reason
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 03:44 AM
Feb 2014

to wonder if the guy ever had healthy boundaries.

defacto7

(13,485 posts)
62. Yeah... it seems questionable
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 03:50 AM
Feb 2014

But I have never known him or Mia or any of the others, so it's impossible for me to know. We just imagine.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
61. It's Mia's fault for encouraging them to hang out! I mean, of course he'd want nude pics eventually.
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 03:46 AM
Feb 2014

what was she thinking?

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
103. AND he made a movie -- Manhattan -- about his "affair" with a high school girl.
Mon Feb 3, 2014, 03:31 PM
Feb 2014

He was 42.

He is disgusting.

OwnedByCats

(805 posts)
71. I don't mean to go off topic but I'm curious
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 05:02 AM
Feb 2014

Does anyone else think Ronan looks more like Frank Sinatra and not like Woody at all? I know Mia said Frank was "possibly" Ronan's dad and looking at him he looks like Frank and Frank Jr. I also read that Nancy Sinatra treats him like he's family. The one child Woody was supposed to have fathered may not be his after all. Probably a blessing if I'm honest.

OwnedByCats

(805 posts)
85. He looks like Mia as well
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 02:20 PM
Feb 2014

but after looking through pictures of Frank Sr and Frank Jr and compare them to Ronan, there is quite a resemblance. He looks nothing like Woody. He however does look like a good mix of Mia and Frank.

Dark n Stormy Knight

(9,771 posts)
91. The young man has Frank's mouth. Not to mention the eyes.
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 09:18 PM
Feb 2014

I've looked at a few other pix and it seems clear. But, I wouldn't want to be responsible for making some legal decision based on what it looks like to me.

Still...

 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
73. Moses Farrow is also a family therapist, licensed and practicing in CT. So I have a feeling that
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 09:35 AM
Feb 2014

Moses knows exactly what his mother did to Malone....and that is why he reunited with his father.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
75. The entire world has had reason to distrust Mia Farrow for many decades. Artists warned us.
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 10:07 AM
Feb 2014

Andre Previn was married to his song writing partner, Dory Previn. Dory and Mia became friends, Mia was 24, the Previns much older. Andre left Dory and married Mia, half his age. Dory Previn wrote a song about her called 'Beware of Young Girls'

Beware of young girls who come to the door
Wistful and pale, of twenty and four
Delivering daisies with delicate hands
Beware of young girls, too often they crave
To cry at a wedding, and dance on a grave

She was my friend, my friend, my friend
I thought her motives were sincere
Oh yes I did
Ah, but this lass, it came to pass
Had a dark and different plan
She admired my own sweet man
She admired my own sweet man

We were friends
Oh yes we were
And she just took him from my life
Oh yes she did
So young and vain, she brought me pain
But I'm wise enough to say
She will leave him one thoughtless day
She'll just leave him and go away
Oh yes

Beware of young girls
Beware of young girls
Beware


Now let's remember that Mia kept up her affair with former spouse Sinatra while taking up with the married Previn, while married to Preven, while dumping Previn, then later while she was with Woody Allen.
Just some perspective, both Mia and her mother have a tendency to paint themselves in very excellent and saintly light that others might not see as suitable.

Also see the Dory Previn song 'With My Daddy In the Attic'.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
125. Offering my opinion about Mia and Andre, not about Allen.
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 02:03 PM
Feb 2014

It is not the same thing. Long before Allen, Farrow was distrusted by tons of people for all sorts of very specific reasons.
I see lots of discussion of Allen's every action and joke, as if his character was of importance, so it might be fair to take a moment to glance at the character and actions of Farrow and of Previn. If the idea is to protect the children, not Mia and Andre and Frank and Woody, well then why be upset with the facts about the adults being discussed? Why are some of them protected from their own damn history?
I did not realize that the other adults and parents involved were above all reproach in the current telling. That's not how I look at it.

BainsBane

(53,072 posts)
126. I suggest you think about the implications of what you are doing
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 02:12 PM
Feb 2014

Whatever you think of Mia Farrow is irrelevant to whether Dylan is telling the truth. The sins of the mother to not transfer to the daughter.

Disbelieving rape victims is a default position for many, something that occurs to no other victim. If someone reports their property being stolen, people don't then start talking about what a horrible person the victim's mother was. Why should they do so in the case of child rape? Disbelieving victims is why the crimes of rape and child sexual abuse are so difficult to prosecute. We can't know with absolute certainty what the facts of this situation are, but we can choose how we respond to this and other victims of rape and child sexual assault. We can think about what we want our role to be vis a vis rape culture.

I fail to see how this differs from any of the cases where priests have been accused. The only difference I can see is that the victim is female and the accused molester her father. Surely that doesn't make it less serious or the victim any less believable?

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
129. So you are not aware that the priests have lots of female victims? How can you not know this?
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 02:29 PM
Feb 2014

Some sort of implications there. I note you said not a word about what I wrote, and instead made an attack upon my character. I do not think such a comment is called for at all.
I am talking about the adults. Of whom I have an opinion. Your need to protect the adults is counter to the protection of the victim. 'How dare you imply that Father O'Doyle is anything less than a saint!'. Some adults, above all suspicion. I don't buy it.

BainsBane

(53,072 posts)
130. I did not make an attack
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 02:31 PM
Feb 2014

I also reedited my post. Yes, I know girls were also victims, but as I'm sure you know the Catholic clergy cases differ from the majority of child abuse cases in that the majority of victims have been boys.

Above suspicion? What crime has Mia been accused of? She is not the alleged abuser here. You've got some things badly twisted. Adultery is not a crime. It is in fact entirely irrelevant to Dylan's account of abuse. You are the one blaming the person who notified authorities. Why? How is that in any way relevant? You're using that attack to defend the metaphorical Father O'Doyle. Why?

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
134. yeah, you did.
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 02:46 PM
Feb 2014

You implied prior to edit that I cared less for a female victim of abuse. Vile, shitty and not acceptable. You are not allowed to speak to me in that way and then edit, claim you did not and absolve yourself.
I'm not overlooking that vicious bullshit you posted. An implication of the worst sort made based on nothing but a need for snarky rhetoric. Utterly unacceptable behavior.
Bye now. You lack even the decency to apologize and instead you edit and deny. Let members check your edit history and see the facts.

BainsBane

(53,072 posts)
138. Well, I was about to apologize
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 03:07 PM
Feb 2014

but your over the top insults far than exceed what I said. For the record, I said "I wouldn't like to think. . ." Not the best choice of words, which is why I edited. You've more than made up for it, and you've said far, far worse to me in the past.

The fact is you are deflecting and not examining your position in this issue. I only raised the issue with you because I was surprised you posted what you did, unlike in the case of some of Allen's other defenders. It did not seem in keeping with your previous positions on similar issues. Clearly I was mistaken.

Bonobo

(29,257 posts)
92. How creepy that Dory Previn had a song called "My Daddy in the Attic"!
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 09:35 PM
Feb 2014

"With my
Daddy in the attic
That is where
My being wants to bed
With the
Mattress ticking showing
And the tattered pillow slip
And the pine
Unpainted rafters overhead
With the
Door closed on my mama"

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
127. Andre and Mia are the parents of 6 children. They claim to be adults, both of them.
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 02:17 PM
Feb 2014

You seem to absolve Mia Farrow of her very own actions. I think she's responsible for herself and Andre for himself. How is this a problem?

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
128. I keep reading here SHE broke his marriage. A married person is responsible for their own shit.
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 02:23 PM
Feb 2014

And he doesn't have a great track record there, does he?

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
131. I don't know what you 'keep reading here' but it was not me you were reading so don't barf it
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 02:39 PM
Feb 2014

on my doorstep. My post, you might note, was critical of Andre and Mia. She is also responsible for her 'own shit' as you so deftly put it. And having an affair with your friend's husband is in fact ones own 'shit'. Dumping your spouse to take up with her friend half your own age is Andre's shit. Being that young friend is Mia's own shit. And shit it is. Tip of a shit ice berg in fact.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
137. It was primarily an attack on Mia. And the warning about young girls, LOL.. It seems everyone Mia
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 02:50 PM
Feb 2014

got involved with had a soft spot for young girls- and of course- it is the girls fault when they are chased by married men. Mia's fault, not Frank or Andre, Soon Yi, and the HS senior he dated, not Woody.
Ah, the spells the young ones cast are no match at all for a wedding ring. How's that for vomit?

Walk away

(9,494 posts)
76. It seems to me that Weekend Warrior is the one freaked out about...
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 10:20 AM
Feb 2014

Allen and his pedophilia. The rest of us are just very sorry for his victims and rather disgusted with him.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
80. Disagreeing with you and Mia Farrow is not denial
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 10:56 AM
Feb 2014

I don't trust any of the Farrows. Mia's brother is in jail for long term abuse of multiple kids. Mia has not said a word about that. It was the now imprisoned brother that first told the press about Allen and Soon Yi Previn, the 19 year old adopted daughter of Andre Previn and Mia Farrow. The story served him well for a time, but only for a time. He's in jail now.
Soon Yi and Allen have been married happily for 15 years now. Andre, busy on marriages 4 and 5, said this about his adopted daughter Soon Yi 'She does not exist'. What a great man! He himself once took a wife half his age, barely 24. 'She does not exist'. The 24 year old was Mia, Andre was married to Mia's friend, but he dumped her for Mia. A great man! 'She does not exist'. Mia continued her relationship with ex Sinatra throughout the Previn 'marriage' and then during her dating of Woody Allen. Great, great, moral people of the highest order, to be believed because of who they are and how they have lived!

TheSarcastinator

(854 posts)
135. You obviously have something to hide!
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 02:47 PM
Feb 2014

Anyone who claims Allen is innocent until proven guilty is OBVIOUSLY hiding "something", according to the posters above.

Of course, this is the vilest, most slimy smear imaginable: if you insist on evidence, you may be a child molester yourself. It's disgusting to watch the way certain posters on this website use this tactic over and over again in an attempt to steamroll anyone who objects to a trial by media and popular opinion.

TheSarcastinator

(854 posts)
136. shame on you for such a slimy response
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 02:49 PM
Feb 2014

Disagreeing with you and insisting on the legal presumption of innocence does not make anyone a child molestor or an apologist for molestation, as you are obviously implying.

Disgusting tactics. You should be ashamed of yourself.

Squinch

(51,015 posts)
82. And again, let's all remember: all this outcry and villification are happening simply because a
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 12:12 PM
Feb 2014

woman recounted the story of her father's sexual abuse of her when she was a child.

"Why don't more people come forward to report sexual abuse?!!"

treestar

(82,383 posts)
87. There are people freaking out about Woody Allen?
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 02:22 PM
Feb 2014

I haven't even considered freaking out about him since the 70s.

BainsBane

(53,072 posts)
90. God forbid anyone believe a woman about her own sexual abuse
Sun Feb 2, 2014, 06:17 PM
Feb 2014

over a man. I've heard it a million times. Child abuse and rape continue because people refuse to believe victims and make excuses for perpetrators. That is why it's called RAPE CULTURE.

WeekendWarrior

(1,437 posts)
94. God forbid anyone do any research on the subject before they spout
Mon Feb 3, 2014, 12:12 PM
Feb 2014

A team of doctors conducted a six month investigation of this case at the time of the alleged incident and found that not only did it have no merit, but that it was likely the child had been coached by her mother. This is all public record—including court transcripts—if you bothered to read.

But no, let's assume that because a guy who was exonerated has once again been accused of the very same disproven offense, that a failure to believe the victim is a product of rape culture.

The woman in question is a victim, all right. And so is the man.

BainsBane

(53,072 posts)
139. Is it 1992 or 2014?
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 03:20 PM
Feb 2014

Last edited Wed Feb 5, 2014, 04:03 PM - Edit history (1)

We now have a victim's clear statement. The determination to ignore that is clear. Research my ass.

The pattern of disbelieving victims is indeed part of rape culture. It is how it is constructed in case after case of sexual assault. Victims are disbelieved, prosecutors fail to follow through, and people take a statement from Woody Allen's publicist and present it as though it were fact. It is not. You want to pretend it's all about men vs women. It is not, at least not for me. Perhaps it is for you. The only reason gender plays a role is that most victims are women and most perpetrators male, and too many people assume women are lying, which is exactly what is happening here. My reaction would be identical if the accused perpetrator were female and the victim male. I will always believe a credible victim because I choose not to engage in the far too common pattern of disbelieving victims that is central to rape culture. Your appeals to "research" are bogus. You have ignored the key evidence: Dylan's recent statement.

I find is astounding how accused sexual predators are held in higher esteem by many than any other member of society. No politician is given that level of consideration, no other accused criminal, yet for some reason if a person is accused of sexual assault he is elevated in stature. I find it a disturbing trend.

WeekendWarrior

(1,437 posts)
140. We have the brother Moses's clear statement as well
Thu Feb 6, 2014, 02:28 AM
Feb 2014

He says he was there at the time of the "incident," was 14 years old, that nothing happened and the culture in Mia Farrow's household was often one of rage and violence, that she hit him on numerous occasions, and that Dylan and the rest of the kids were poisoned to believe Allen was evil.

A nanny in the household at that time backed up at least part this story back in 1993, saying that she personally witnessed Moses being slapped across the face by Mia when he couldn't find a dog leash.

So now comes the question: who do we believe? The girl who claims sexual abuse by her father, or the boy who claims the only abuse was physical and emotional violence by the mother?

And why should we believe one over the other? Is there not a culture of disbelieving victims of emotional abuse as well? Do we ignore Moses's key evidence? And if so, aren't we applying a double standard.

Using rape culture to bolster your accusations is ridiculous. You can also point to the fact that most predators molest over and over and do it with multiple children, but why have there never been any other accusations agains Allen, especially after his alleged abuse came to light in the 90's?

Each case has to be considered not on statistics, but on evidence. Case by case. The evidence in the 90's showed, according to the investigative team of a man and two women, experts in child-abuse, that there was no molestation and that Dylan was either making it up or had been coached by her mother.

Now we have Dylan's adult recollections of something that happened when she was seven, and Moses's recollections of the same incident, and he was fourteen. So who's memory do we trust? Do we assume they're both telling the truth? Do we dismiss one as an opportunist and believe the other?

A bit of a conundrum, I'd say.

And the disturbing trend is this jump to conclusions based on emotion rather that taking the stance that the accused is innocent until proven guilty.

Response to WeekendWarrior (Original post)

tammywammy

(26,582 posts)
98. Ronan would be their own biological son
Mon Feb 3, 2014, 03:18 PM
Feb 2014

But Mia has said he could possibly be Frank Sinatra's son. Moses and Dylan were adopted. Dylan's a woman.

Moses apparently has reunited with Woody & Soon-Yi and is estranged from Mia, Ronan and Dylan.

Response to tammywammy (Reply #98)

tammywammy

(26,582 posts)
102. It might not have been a lie.
Mon Feb 3, 2014, 03:28 PM
Feb 2014

She easily could have thought he was Woody's and not until later, when Ronan's features became more apparent, realized he was possibly Sinatra's. Plus, we have no idea what goes on in their family, for all we know she told Ronan years before she said anything to the public about it.

no_hypocrisy

(46,192 posts)
104. I'm torn.
Mon Feb 3, 2014, 04:10 PM
Feb 2014

I dealt with a contentious legal matter last year where my client, a mother of five, fought to prevent her parental rights from being terminated.

Her children were interviewed individually, alone, with the judge and later with two therapists. They were searching for testimony of abuse.

And the children claimed their mother neglected them and their father hit them. It didn't sound good at first impression.

Further examination of the totality of the circumstances found that the children were being brainwashed by their foster parents who wanted to adopt them. They had more money and material amenities in the foster home as compared to their original home.

When you compared their testimony, it was nearly identical. The kids had been rehearsed not only by their foster parents, but the child protection caseworker and even their assigned counsel. They stated their claims with great conviction.

I was the first to suspect false memory syndrome, where a child can be convinced that false information was fact, that something happened when it didn't. The judge agreed with me. The children were returned to my client. Matter of fact the judge didn't allow the children to return to say goodbye to the foster parents due to their contemptible role in trying to get the children to denounce their mother.

The children are now happily living with their mother, together. They all are on honor roles and take advanced classes. And they've had to take therapy to transition from the past 5 years of their lives.

My point: maybe Dylan Farrow is telling the truth, maybe not. More information is needed to know. All we can do is guess at this point.

 

quinnox

(20,600 posts)
111. By the way, Woody Allen has now responded to this, and said these accusations are untrue and
Mon Feb 3, 2014, 04:34 PM
Feb 2014

"disgraceful".

http://www.eonline.com/news/506626/woody-allen-cate-blanchett-and-alec-baldwin-respond-to-dylan-farrow-s-new-york-times-letter?utm_source=eonline&utm_medium=rssfeeds&utm_campaign=imdb_topstories

"It seems as though Woody Allen will not be staying silent following Dylan Farrow's recent open letter that appeared in the The New York Times in which she detailed her estranged father's alleged sexual abuse. 'Mr. Allen has read the article and found it untrue and disgraceful. He will be responding very soon,' Allen's publicist Leslee Dart said in a statement, suggesting that the iconic screenwriter will not allow himself to be publicly bashed."

LostOne4Ever

(9,290 posts)
117. Yeah, because this is a site for us to bash rightwingers
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 01:41 AM
Feb 2014


However, we would also weigh the facts objectively and most here would curtail their own political bias on a neutral site.

This is not a neutral site and on here I will gleefully cling onto any allegation against any rightwinger and use it to bash them over the head with it here. I hate conservatives and take joy in watching them squirm

davidpdx

(22,000 posts)
115. I only had time to read about half the article
Tue Feb 4, 2014, 12:06 AM
Feb 2014

It does clear up the misconceptions about him and Soon Yi (See Post #40 or the article for those). Whether he molested Dylan or not, I have no idea. My opinion has always been that he's a little creepy.

 

El_Johns

(1,805 posts)
124. I guess the soap opera is going on for a while.
Wed Feb 5, 2014, 12:44 PM
Feb 2014

"Of course Woody did not molest my sister," says Moses, who is estranged from Farrow and many of his siblings and is close to Allen and Soon-Yi. "She loved him and looked forward to seeing him when he would visit. She never hid from him until our mother succeeded in creating the atmosphere of fear and hate towards him. The day in question, there were six or seven of us in the house. We were all in public rooms and no one, not my father or sister, was off in any private spaces. My mother was conveniently out shopping. I don’t know if my sister really believes she was molested or is trying to please her mother. Pleasing my mother was very powerful motivation because to be on her wrong side was horrible."

Moses accuses Farrow of bullying him as well. "Our mother has misled the public into believing it was a happy household of both biological and adopted children," he says. "From an early age, my mother demanded obedience and I was often hit as a child. She went into unbridled rages if we angered her, which was intimidating at the very least and often horrifying, leaving us not knowing what she would do."

Dylan:

"I will not see my family dragged down like this," she adds. "I can't stay silent when my family needs me and I will not abandon them like Soon-Yi and Moses. My brother is dead to me. My mother is so brave and so courageous and taught me what it means to be strong and brave and tell the truth even in the face of these monstrous lies."

http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20783306,00.html

Response to WeekendWarrior (Original post)

pnwmom

(108,995 posts)
142. Those freaking out about Dylan
Thu Feb 6, 2014, 02:31 AM
Feb 2014

should remember that a teenage brother, busy with high school, is unlikely to be following his 7 year old sister around all day. How would he know if she had been abused when she was alone with Woody?

WeekendWarrior

(1,437 posts)
144. Allen wasn't there all day
Thu Feb 6, 2014, 02:34 AM
Feb 2014

And why do you ignore Moses's characterization of his mother's rage and abuse and brainwashing and hatred for Allen after the Soon-Yi incident?

As I said in another comment, you can't look at these two and say one victim is lying and the other isn't. Because YOU DON'T KNOW. You cannot know.

And you shouldn't assume.

pnwmom

(108,995 posts)
146. There are 11 other siblings who support Dylan in this. Why is Moses the only one who matters?
Thu Feb 6, 2014, 02:37 AM
Feb 2014

I'm not assuming anything. But when I saw people here instantly rise up and start to attack Dylan, I responded. Can you imagine the effect this backlash is having on other young people who may have considering acknowledging the harm done to them?

WeekendWarrior

(1,437 posts)
149. I wouldn't know about the other kids except Ronan and Soon-Yi
Thu Feb 6, 2014, 02:54 AM
Feb 2014

Show me their statements.

Ronan was about four or five at the time, so I highly doubt he has any recollection of events at all and is merely regurgitating what his mother told him.

Two of the other kids are dead (one of whom was treated like a "scullery maid" by Farrow according to a witness), and the only other child I've heard from besides Moses is Soon-Yi who says the molestation charges are nonsense, has been married to the guy for over a decade and has two adopted children with him.

I won't even get into the fact that Farrow's brother is doing ten years for child molestation.

None of this is cut and dried. As such, we can't make any assumptions. We can only assume innocence until proven guilty.

pnwmom

(108,995 posts)
150. You haven't read either of the long Vanity Fair articles, which included interviews
Thu Feb 6, 2014, 03:46 AM
Feb 2014

from most of the living siblings.

None of the 8 interviewed for the 2013 article complained that adopted children had been treated any differently, much less like scullery maids; in fact, they said the opposite.

Soon-Yi was adopted by Farrow and Previn only one year before they were divorced, and Allen and Farrow began their relationship one year after that. So Soon-Yi saw more of Allen than she did of Previn. There are reports that falsely imply that Allen never spent any time at their residence. That was probably true in NY, but it wasn't in Connecticut. The Vanity Fair article said Woody often stayed in Mia's house there, until the problems started and Mia made him stay in the guest cottage.

FROM 1992:

http://www.vanityfair.com/magazine/archive/1992/11/farrow199211

Previn has also been supportive of Mia, and has told friends, “If Mia is not a good mother, then Jascha Heifetz didn’t know how to play the violin.” Ironically, Woody Allen in the recent past praised Mia specifically as a mother. He told Eric Lax, the author of his 1991 biography, “She has raised nine children now with no trauma, and has never owned a thermometer. I take my temperature every two hours in the course of the day.”

SNIP

To those on the inside, however, who have watched the departure of Soon-Yi from the family, who have heard Dylan on the videotape and seen her changes of behavior, who have read the lurid headlines about Mia, who know about another approach Woody apparently made within the family, and who wonder if their phones are being tapped, Woody Allen is a chilling figure of power, a potentate of reel life who doesn’t seem to have to play by the rules. “This man is so exalted in the business—no one has the position he has. Until recently he hasn’t had to submit a script or anything,” says Leonard Gershe. “I think when you get up into that stratosphere you no longer have to pay attention to the law of gravity. Regular morals, conscience, ethics—that’s for slobs like you and me.” The effect, says Gershe, “spills over into real life. He’s treated like a little god, and little gods don’t have to do what everybody else does.” “He just scares me,” says a member of the household. “I think he scares everyone who knows all the things he has done. And anybody who is close to him—that he has the potential of destroying—I think is scared of him.”

SNIP

“Most of my students are New York City kids. Many have parents who are glamorous and famous, and most of these kids are very neglected and troubled and grow up very fast,” says Audrey Sieger, who has been tutoring the children in the Previn-Farrow-Allen household for the last 12 years. “Mia’s family is very unusual. She—at any time in these 12 years—has been able to tell me in detail about every one of her kids. These kids travel on buses with bus passes. They cook dinner for each other. They do their own laundry. Different kids over the years have been assigned the job of going to the supermarket. They have not been raised by nannies.” Mia, according to Sieger, was “warm, loving, sincere, and throughout all my years of working with the kids, having them at my office, calling at home, they were happy kids, giggling and laughing and involved with each other.”

“I couldn’t get over how much the biological kids weren’t favored. They all viewed each other as equal and always referred to each other as ‘my brother,’ ‘my sister,’ ” says Lorrie Pierce, who has gone to the house to teach the children piano for the last seven or eight years. “Mia passes down family heirlooms to each one, without regard to who is adopted.” The piano teacher echoes the tutor: “She’s the one that kids threw up on. She gets right in the arena and does all the dirty work. She doesn’t push them off onto the help.” Every September, Mia would start a new film with Woody, and, according to those in the household, there was rarely a day when at least one of the children didn’t accompany her to the set; she turned her dressing room at the Kaufman-Astoria Studios into a nursery for them. Creating a large family “is not the act of a compulsive. It’s too much hard work,” says Mia’s friend Rose Styron, the human-rights-activist wife of novelist William Styron, who is Soon-Yi’s godmother. “I’ve never known anyone who cared so selflessly about children, and who put so much of herself into them.… They always came first.” Perhaps that was the key issue for Woody: who came first? One of the people who has spoken up for him, his costume designer Jeffrey Kurland, said in New York magazine, “Why this constant need [of Mia’s] for infants and little ones? Get on with your life!”

FROM 2013:

http://www.vanityfair.com/online/daily/2013/10/mia-farrow-children-family-scandal

Twenty years after Vanity Fair special correspondent Maureen Orth reported on the sexual-abuse case involving Woody Allen and Mia Farrow’s adopted daughter Dylan, Orth reconnects with Farrow to discuss her human-rights work, her relationship with Frank Sinatra, the home she created for her 14 adopted and biological children, and the scandal that nearly destroyed it, 20 years ago. For her piece in the November issue, Orth talks to eight of Farrow’s children, including the long-silent Dylan, who speaks on the record for the first time about the alleged incident.

SNIP

Farrow’s son Fletcher Previn, who built his first computer at the age of 13, tells Orth that he has Photoshopped Allen out of every single family photo and edited him out of family videos so that none of them would ever have to see him again. “We can look at them and be reminded of the good and not be reminded of the bad,” Fletcher tells Orth. Of the family’s reaction to the crisis with Soon-Yi, Fletcher says, “To my siblings and me, you thought of (Allen) as another dad. It can disrupt your foundation in the world. It resets the parameters of what is possible.” He also discusses the impact Allen’s actions had on the family, telling Orth, “There were casualties, who were totally derailed. It had a different impact on everyone, but everyone had a reaction.” Fletcher singles out Lark, who died at 35. “I really do think he’s got some blood on his hands,” he says of Allen.



http://www.vanityfair.com/hollywood/2013/11/mia-farrow-frank-sinatra-ronan-farrow

“There were never more than eight children at a time living at home,” Mia says. In essence, there are two sets of siblings, six Previns and eight Farrows. The oldest are the Previn twins, Matthew and Sascha, and their brother, Fletcher Previn. Matthew, the father of two and married to a lawyer, is a partner in a Park Avenue law firm. Sascha, a teacher, is the stay-at-home dad of a baby girl, whose mother, his second wife, is a pediatric cardiologist. Fletcher is an executive assistant at IBM; his wife is a graphics designer. The next in age, Lark, adopted from Vietnam, died in 2008 of complications from pneumonia and left two little girls; her estranged husband has a criminal record. Daisy, also from Vietnam, is a construction manager in Brooklyn, married to a musician, with a son from her first marriage. Both women as babies suffered from severe malnutrition. Soon-Yi, from Korea, now married to Woody Allen, was adopted at seven, after having been abused and abandoned by her prostitute mother. She is totally estranged from Mia’s family, and she and Allen have adopted two daughters. Her father, André Previn, says, “She does not exist.”

Mia adopted Moses, who has cerebral palsy, from Korea at two. He is a family therapist and a photographer. Separated from his wife and two children, Moses does not keep in touch with any of the others.

Dylan was adopted in 1985 from Texas. After Mia gave birth to Ronan, she adopted Isaiah, an African-American born to a crack-addicted mother; he is a senior at the University of Connecticut. Tam, a blind girl from Vietnam, died from heart problems in 2000. Next came Quincy, also African-American, who at 19 attends college and wants to be an aid worker. Thaddeus is a paraplegic; he was adopted from India. A car mechanic, he is studying to become a police officer. The last daughter, Minh, from Vietnam, is also blind.

SNIP

I was able to speak to eight of Mia’s children, who uniformly said they were not especially aware of how unique their situation was growing up. “I knew the status of my mom, but to me we were normal. My brothers were my brothers, and my sisters were my sisters. There was nothing special,” Daisy Previn, 39, told me. “We each had our own life, went to school, did our homework. My mom was there to sit down for dinner with us.” There was help in the house, but not a lot, and sometimes the teenage girls would complain about how much they had to babysit. I asked Daisy about their emotional issues and physical handicaps. “It wasn’t considered that you can’t see or you have this disability or that,” she said. “It was more that it was time to clean your rooms, so one person would help another one do it.” One of the accusations Woody Allen’s side made during the uproar with Soon-Yi was that Mia favored her biological children. Daisy disagrees: “If we got into trouble, it was no different than if a biological kid got into trouble. As far as love was concerned, there was no distinction. I gave my mom some very hard times growing up, but in the end she always said, ‘Remember, Daisy, I love you.’ ”

Most of the children used the same adjective for their situation: cool. “Not many people have that much variety, diversity. I liked that,” says Sascha Previn. “We all pitched in and helped each other out; we had to.” Isaiah, 21, who at six feet three and 275 pounds defines himself as “the large black male of the family,” adds, “In terms of size, composition, and disabilities, we weren’t normal, but we were great—we were so cool.” He credits Mia’s “unflinching honesty. She was very open about what each one of us is and where we came from. That became more normal to me than the regular 2.2 nuclear family. We got used to that as soon as we were old enough to understand some of us have physical or mental disabilities—so what? We are defined by more than just blood; we are brought together by love.”

SNIP


pnwmom

(108,995 posts)
152. The Robert Weide article of January 27th on Woody Allen by the guy who did the
Thu Feb 6, 2014, 04:19 AM
Feb 2014

documentary on him is the puff piece.

The Vanity fair investigative reporter interviewed more than two dozen people for the second article, including people who criticized Mia. And she is a serious journalist with an extensive background.

Maureen Orth

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maureen_Orth

Orth began her career as one of the first female writers at Newsweek, where she wrote seven cover stories. Between 1978-80 she was a Senior Editor at New York, New West Magazines. In 1981 she was the principal correspondent of Newsweek Woman on Lifetime TV. From 1983 to 1984 she was a network correspondent for NBC News.

Orth was a contributing editor at Vogue from 1984 to 1989 and a columnist for New York Woman from 1986 to 1990.

Orth has written for Vanity Fair since 1988 and has been a Special Correspondent for that magazine since 1993. Among the heads of state she has interviewed are Russian President Vladimir Putin, British Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher, Argentinian President Carlos Menem, and Irish President Mary Robinson. Shortly after the terrorist attack on the U.S. on 9/11 of 2001, which originated in Afghanistan, she traveled to Central Asia to investigate the connection between drugs and terrorism for "Afghanistan's Deadly Habit."

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