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By David Edwards
Friday, February 7, 2014 11:03 EST
The 17-month-old daughter of a North Carolina parenting columnist is expected to recover after her 3-year-old brother shot her with his fathers gun.
Cleveland County Sheriffs Capt. Joel Shores said that 911 dispatchers received reports that a child had suffered a gunshot wound at around 11:30 a.m. on Thursday morning, according to the Gaston Gazette.
Justin Carper, who is a youth church leader and writes an unpaid parenting column for the Shelby Star, said that he never imagined that his son could have climbed on a stool and and then taken the gun from a secret compartment on top of his dresser.
The mother drove the baby girl to Cleveland Regional Medical Center after calling 911. She was then flown to Levine Childrens Hospital.
When I got the phone call, like any parent would, your heart sinks, Carper said Thursday night. We drove straight to the hospital.
Carper called it a miracle when the girl was able to use the injured arm to feed herself in the hospital later that night.
It went through the top of her shoulder, he explained to the Gaston Gazette. She was feeding herself using that shoulder, using that arm. The bullet went straight through. You wouldnt even know. Doctor after doctor have told us that theres nowhere else the bullet could have gone that would have ended up with this story.
My mind is pretty much blown, Carper added.
As of Friday, no charges had been filed against the father.
Were compiling the case and will present the case to the D.A. to determine if any charges will be filed for failure to secure a firearm, Sheriffs Capt. Shores noted.
Regardless of the outcome, the parents have been punished more than any criminal justice system can do to them by this happening.
Watch this video from WSOC, broadcast Feb. 6, 2014.
http://www.rawstory.com/rs/2014/02/07/nc-parenting-columnists-3-year-old-son-shoots-17-month-old-sister-with-dads-gun/
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wryter2000
(46,051 posts)"My child knows he/she isn't allowed to touch my guns." How can people be so stupid?
avebury
(10,952 posts)own parenting skills. I don't why anyone would want advice from him. They are lucky their daughter wasn't killed.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)NYC_SKP
(68,644 posts)That much is obvious.
Mariana
(14,858 posts)The home is clearly not a safe environment.
MH1
(17,600 posts)I don't know that it would do anyone any good to take the kids away from their parents.
The possession of firearms is the problem, and that can be easily solved.
Mariana
(14,858 posts)what do they do with poisons, or knives, or power tools, or other dangerous things?
MH1
(17,600 posts)But, a surprising number of kids survive growing up in households that aren't perfect in securing every possible dangerous thing. If we took every kid out of every imperfect household, who would raise them?
I guess I agree with you in theory but I don't believe that in practice you would improve the kids' lives. And as anti-gun-nuttery as I am, there are worse things happening to kids in this country - probably by the thousands, every day - then dear old Dad forgetting to put the loaded gun away. (Well, worse given that the kid wasn't killed and will probably fully recover. It's harder to make the comparison if the kid was killed or brain-damaged). Sexual abuse, physical abuse, starvation, giving the kid drugs and/or alcohol ... when we can find good homes for all these kids, then we can start worrying about every idjit with a brain-fart about leaving his gun out. Just make sure he doesn't have a gun to leave laying around again.
Don't most felons lose their right to bear arms for life?
gerogie2
(450 posts)The horror stories I have heard from people that ended up in foster care is enough to make me not want to see any children put in those homes.
gollygee
(22,336 posts)when one of your kids shoots the other.
The threshold for "miracle" seems to be set very low lately.
Blue_Tires
(55,445 posts)about some unsupervised toddler climbing to reach some impossible location to shoot a sibling without any parent watching....
Either one parent or the other mishandled the gun and it fired, OR the gun was left in an easily accessible place....I just wish some parents would start to get called out on this bullshit....
countryjake
(8,554 posts)http://www.bing.com/videos/watch/video/are-your-guns-truly-inaccessible-to-your-kids/2jtpaz7fn?cpkey=a0abe1e1-76a7-47d4-85f1-b718f15310a1%257c%257c%257c%257c
Mariana
(14,858 posts)how to climb up on something and also how to get into something like a "secret compartment" in a dresser - especially if he's seen Dad open it before.
cui bono
(19,926 posts)Of how to shoot one for that matter? Like how to hold it, point it, etc... My bro's kids had no idea what a gun even was when they were 3.
Mariana
(14,858 posts)to fondle it, or to pose in front of the mirror with it, or whatever the hell he does with it.
tblue37
(65,408 posts)Skittles
(153,169 posts)f***ing gun humpers
otohara
(24,135 posts)just because it happened.
Fucking bullshit - so called responsible gun owners keep escaping any responsibility for their gun recklessness.
Boys will seek out guns even if they're in not so "secret compartments"
kiva
(4,373 posts)a presumption that when parents do (leave your child in a hot car) or don't do something (fasten seat belts, secure weapons) that results in the death of one of their children, that the parents "have been punished enough" and "will have to live for their rest of their lives knowing what they have done".
My problem with this is that is has never extended to people beyond parents. Mom/dad forgets and leaves child in a hot car? Lots of sympathy. A day care worker or babysitter does the same thing? Hang them.
Mom/dad doesn't secure their weapon? As the sheriff here says, there is no worse punishment. Kid is at another relative's home or at a sitters'? Charge the gun owner.
I have no issue with charging the adults, but I do have a problem with the assumption that parents almost always get a 'get out of jail free' card, while other adults do the same thing and are charged.
CTyankee
(63,912 posts)Aren't we all proud? Isn't it a comforting feeling?
cherokeeprogressive
(24,853 posts)It's time to start.
Solly Mack
(90,773 posts)reusrename
(1,716 posts)Regardless of the outcome, the parents have been punished more than any criminal justice system can do to them by this happening.
How can the crime itself be the punishment?
riderinthestorm
(23,272 posts)Or is it more plausible that the gun was fully loaded and in an accessible spot?
Its time we prosecuted gun owners for NOT securing their weapons. All of them. Even parents in this kind of scenario.
notadmblnd
(23,720 posts)and broke my arm for the first time. No, 3 year olds don't climb
Skittles
(153,169 posts)villager
(26,001 posts)... who was also in the house! Mind blown!"
Warpy
(111,277 posts)Kids will figure out anything that doesn't lock with a key and/or a combination.
Secret compartment, my flabby old ass. To a kid, that's just where Daddy keeps the best toys.
All my dad had was a pellet gun. He was smart enough to keep it locked up unless we were plinking his empties in a lake.
freshwest
(53,661 posts)IOW, they will not be charged. Why are black families being charged and the police and media NEVER say this then. It is a stock excuse now for not filing charges, not even for parental negligence.
And the idiot in this OP will likely use it in sermons as proof of his godliness that his child was spared, look at that starry eyed account he gave. 'It's a miracle!' Then he'll pass around the collection plate.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=2866553
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10022840764
All okay under ALEC laws.