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DonViejo

(60,536 posts)
Fri Feb 7, 2014, 07:12 PM Feb 2014

NC parenting columnist’s 3-year-old son shoots 17-month-old sister with dad’s gun

By David Edwards
Friday, February 7, 2014 11:03 EST

The 17-month-old daughter of a North Carolina parenting columnist is expected to recover after her 3-year-old brother shot her with his father’s gun.

Cleveland County Sheriff’s Capt. Joel Shores said that 911 dispatchers received reports that a child had suffered a gunshot wound at around 11:30 a.m. on Thursday morning, according to the Gaston Gazette.

Justin Carper, who is a youth church leader and writes an unpaid parenting column for the Shelby Star, said that he never imagined that his son could have climbed on a stool and and then taken the gun from a “secret compartment” on top of his dresser.

The mother drove the baby girl to Cleveland Regional Medical Center after calling 911. She was then flown to Levine Children’s Hospital.

“When I got the phone call, like any parent would, your heart sinks,” Carper said Thursday night. “We drove straight to the hospital.”

Carper called it a “miracle” when the girl was able to use the injured arm to feed herself in the hospital later that night.

“It went through the top of her shoulder,” he explained to the Gaston Gazette. “She was feeding herself using that shoulder, using that arm. The bullet went straight through. You wouldn’t even know. Doctor after doctor have told us that there’s nowhere else the bullet could have gone that would have ended up with this story.”

“My mind is pretty much blown,” Carper added.

As of Friday, no charges had been filed against the father.

“We’re compiling the case and will present the case to the D.A. to determine if any charges will be filed for failure to secure a firearm,” Sheriff’s Capt. Shores noted.

“Regardless of the outcome, the parents have been punished more than any criminal justice system can do to them by this happening.”

Watch this video from WSOC, broadcast Feb. 6, 2014.

http://www.rawstory.com/rs/2014/02/07/nc-parenting-columnists-3-year-old-son-shoots-17-month-old-sister-with-dads-gun/

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NC parenting columnist’s 3-year-old son shoots 17-month-old sister with dad’s gun (Original Post) DonViejo Feb 2014 OP
He "never imagined" wryter2000 Feb 2014 #1
It appears that he needs to work on his avebury Feb 2014 #2
how about some stupid shit... instead of it is a miracle, lets celebrate. nt seabeyond Feb 2014 #3
Gun owner and father, Justin Carper, should be in jail for this. NYC_SKP Feb 2014 #4
At the very least they should lose custody of the children. Mariana Feb 2014 #15
They should lose the right to possess firearms for at least 10 years. MH1 Feb 2014 #17
If they leave loaded firearms where the kids can get to them Mariana Feb 2014 #18
You have a point there. MH1 Feb 2014 #20
Why not life? Heidi Feb 2014 #28
I don't think children are safer in foster care gerogie2 Feb 2014 #24
There is no miracle involved gollygee Feb 2014 #5
I've stopped believing these stories with the "cover-your-ass" twist Blue_Tires Feb 2014 #6
A state of denial... countryjake Feb 2014 #10
A bright three year old can figure out Mariana Feb 2014 #21
How/why does the 3 year old even know where the gun is kept??? cui bono Feb 2014 #7
I suspect the kid saw Dad take out the gun Mariana Feb 2014 #19
And it was obviously loaded and had no trigger lock. nt tblue37 Feb 2014 #22
would you let this "parenting expert" babysit your kid Skittles Feb 2014 #8
No The Parents Haven't Been Punished otohara Feb 2014 #9
There is, in our culture, kiva Feb 2014 #30
How nice to live in AMerica where guns are not controlled by laws! CTyankee Feb 2014 #11
... Phentex Feb 2014 #31
Jail time. cherokeeprogressive Feb 2014 #12
Damn Solly Mack Feb 2014 #13
WTF? reusrename Feb 2014 #14
Send the parents to jail. Do they really think we believe that 3 yr old found and loaded the gun? riderinthestorm Feb 2014 #16
When I was 3, I climbed on the rocking horse to get a poppsicle out of the freezer notadmblnd Feb 2014 #23
you really wanted that popsicle Skittles Feb 2014 #25
"I never imagined a gun in the house could be used to shoot somebody... villager Feb 2014 #26
Stupid ass. Warpy Feb 2014 #27
Sick of this maudlin excuse being used: freshwest Feb 2014 #29
'As of Friday, no charges had been filed against the father' spanone Feb 2014 #32

wryter2000

(46,051 posts)
1. He "never imagined"
Fri Feb 7, 2014, 07:15 PM
Feb 2014

"My child knows he/she isn't allowed to touch my guns." How can people be so stupid?

avebury

(10,952 posts)
2. It appears that he needs to work on his
Fri Feb 7, 2014, 07:17 PM
Feb 2014

own parenting skills. I don't why anyone would want advice from him. They are lucky their daughter wasn't killed.

Mariana

(14,858 posts)
15. At the very least they should lose custody of the children.
Fri Feb 7, 2014, 10:26 PM
Feb 2014

The home is clearly not a safe environment.

MH1

(17,600 posts)
17. They should lose the right to possess firearms for at least 10 years.
Fri Feb 7, 2014, 10:34 PM
Feb 2014

I don't know that it would do anyone any good to take the kids away from their parents.

The possession of firearms is the problem, and that can be easily solved.

Mariana

(14,858 posts)
18. If they leave loaded firearms where the kids can get to them
Fri Feb 7, 2014, 10:36 PM
Feb 2014

what do they do with poisons, or knives, or power tools, or other dangerous things?

MH1

(17,600 posts)
20. You have a point there.
Fri Feb 7, 2014, 10:44 PM
Feb 2014

But, a surprising number of kids survive growing up in households that aren't perfect in securing every possible dangerous thing. If we took every kid out of every imperfect household, who would raise them?

I guess I agree with you in theory but I don't believe that in practice you would improve the kids' lives. And as anti-gun-nuttery as I am, there are worse things happening to kids in this country - probably by the thousands, every day - then dear old Dad forgetting to put the loaded gun away. (Well, worse given that the kid wasn't killed and will probably fully recover. It's harder to make the comparison if the kid was killed or brain-damaged). Sexual abuse, physical abuse, starvation, giving the kid drugs and/or alcohol ... when we can find good homes for all these kids, then we can start worrying about every idjit with a brain-fart about leaving his gun out. Just make sure he doesn't have a gun to leave laying around again.

 

gerogie2

(450 posts)
24. I don't think children are safer in foster care
Sat Feb 8, 2014, 01:00 AM
Feb 2014

The horror stories I have heard from people that ended up in foster care is enough to make me not want to see any children put in those homes.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
5. There is no miracle involved
Fri Feb 7, 2014, 07:21 PM
Feb 2014

when one of your kids shoots the other.

The threshold for "miracle" seems to be set very low lately.

Blue_Tires

(55,445 posts)
6. I've stopped believing these stories with the "cover-your-ass" twist
Fri Feb 7, 2014, 07:30 PM
Feb 2014

about some unsupervised toddler climbing to reach some impossible location to shoot a sibling without any parent watching....

Either one parent or the other mishandled the gun and it fired, OR the gun was left in an easily accessible place....I just wish some parents would start to get called out on this bullshit....

Mariana

(14,858 posts)
21. A bright three year old can figure out
Fri Feb 7, 2014, 10:48 PM
Feb 2014

how to climb up on something and also how to get into something like a "secret compartment" in a dresser - especially if he's seen Dad open it before.

cui bono

(19,926 posts)
7. How/why does the 3 year old even know where the gun is kept???
Fri Feb 7, 2014, 07:37 PM
Feb 2014

Of how to shoot one for that matter? Like how to hold it, point it, etc... My bro's kids had no idea what a gun even was when they were 3.

Mariana

(14,858 posts)
19. I suspect the kid saw Dad take out the gun
Fri Feb 7, 2014, 10:39 PM
Feb 2014

to fondle it, or to pose in front of the mirror with it, or whatever the hell he does with it.

 

otohara

(24,135 posts)
9. No The Parents Haven't Been Punished
Fri Feb 7, 2014, 07:45 PM
Feb 2014

just because it happened.

Fucking bullshit - so called responsible gun owners keep escaping any responsibility for their gun recklessness.

Boys will seek out guns even if they're in not so "secret compartments"



kiva

(4,373 posts)
30. There is, in our culture,
Sat Feb 8, 2014, 05:05 PM
Feb 2014

a presumption that when parents do (leave your child in a hot car) or don't do something (fasten seat belts, secure weapons) that results in the death of one of their children, that the parents "have been punished enough" and "will have to live for their rest of their lives knowing what they have done".

My problem with this is that is has never extended to people beyond parents. Mom/dad forgets and leaves child in a hot car? Lots of sympathy. A day care worker or babysitter does the same thing? Hang them.

Mom/dad doesn't secure their weapon? As the sheriff here says, there is no worse punishment. Kid is at another relative's home or at a sitters'? Charge the gun owner.

I have no issue with charging the adults, but I do have a problem with the assumption that parents almost always get a 'get out of jail free' card, while other adults do the same thing and are charged.

CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
11. How nice to live in AMerica where guns are not controlled by laws!
Fri Feb 7, 2014, 08:43 PM
Feb 2014

Aren't we all proud? Isn't it a comforting feeling?

 

reusrename

(1,716 posts)
14. WTF?
Fri Feb 7, 2014, 09:17 PM
Feb 2014

“Regardless of the outcome, the parents have been punished more than any criminal justice system can do to them by this happening.”





How can the crime itself be the punishment?


 

riderinthestorm

(23,272 posts)
16. Send the parents to jail. Do they really think we believe that 3 yr old found and loaded the gun?
Fri Feb 7, 2014, 10:30 PM
Feb 2014

Or is it more plausible that the gun was fully loaded and in an accessible spot?

Its time we prosecuted gun owners for NOT securing their weapons. All of them. Even parents in this kind of scenario.

notadmblnd

(23,720 posts)
23. When I was 3, I climbed on the rocking horse to get a poppsicle out of the freezer
Fri Feb 7, 2014, 11:24 PM
Feb 2014

and broke my arm for the first time. No, 3 year olds don't climb

 

villager

(26,001 posts)
26. "I never imagined a gun in the house could be used to shoot somebody...
Sat Feb 8, 2014, 01:56 AM
Feb 2014

... who was also in the house! Mind blown!"

Warpy

(111,277 posts)
27. Stupid ass.
Sat Feb 8, 2014, 01:59 AM
Feb 2014

Kids will figure out anything that doesn't lock with a key and/or a combination.

Secret compartment, my flabby old ass. To a kid, that's just where Daddy keeps the best toys.

All my dad had was a pellet gun. He was smart enough to keep it locked up unless we were plinking his empties in a lake.

freshwest

(53,661 posts)
29. Sick of this maudlin excuse being used:
Sat Feb 8, 2014, 04:53 PM
Feb 2014
“Regardless of the outcome, the parents have been punished more than any criminal justice system can do to them by this happening.”

IOW, they will not be charged. Why are black families being charged and the police and media NEVER say this then. It is a stock excuse now for not filing charges, not even for parental negligence.

And the idiot in this OP will likely use it in sermons as proof of his godliness that his child was spared, look at that starry eyed account he gave. 'It's a miracle!' Then he'll pass around the collection plate.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=2866553

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10022840764

All okay under ALEC laws.
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