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Miles Archer

(18,837 posts)
Fri Feb 14, 2014, 05:07 PM Feb 2014

Mom Writes Horrifying Response To Birthday Party Invite From Kid With Gay Dads

Mom Writes Horrifying Response To Birthday Party Invite From Kid With Gay Dads

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/02/12/gay-dads-birthday-invite_n_4776658.html?utm_hp_ref=mostpopular

Well, apparently not everyone likes tie dye parties...

This awful response to a child's birthday invitation is making its rounds on the Internet after a two gay dads living in Baldwin, N.Y., submitted it to their local radio station.

Originally posted on the K-98.3 Facebook page, the heartbreaking note allegedly written by a disapproving mother on an invite to a birthday party for a 7-year-old is certainly a testament to the work that still has to be done to overcome homophobia in our society.



The note reads: "Tommy will NOT attend. I do not believe in what you do and will not subject my innocent son to your "lifestyle." I'm sorry Sophia has to grow up this way. If you have an issue or need to speak to me: (number erased)"
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Mom Writes Horrifying Response To Birthday Party Invite From Kid With Gay Dads (Original Post) Miles Archer Feb 2014 OP
Why block her name I wonder? nt Logical Feb 2014 #1
What's blocked are the details of the family who sent the invite, as far as I can see. Donald Ian Rankin Feb 2014 #4
Because the parents of Sophia are better human beings than the bigot mythology Feb 2014 #26
we are a country divided. diabeticman Feb 2014 #2
I'm sorry Tommy has to grow up with a bigot for a mom; that's a lifestyle to which an innocent child smokey nj Feb 2014 #3
I can see Debi Mazar playing this mom in some TV movie Tom Ripley Feb 2014 #5
I feel so sorry for the little children that are taught to hate. hamsterjill Feb 2014 #6
Really - no strippers at this age Yo_Mama Feb 2014 #7
I'm sorry Tommy has to grow up this way. Learning hate at mom's knee. sinkingfeeling Feb 2014 #8
I'm sorry Tommy has to grow up "this way," with her for a mother. nt City Lights Feb 2014 #9
If you have an issue? frylock Feb 2014 #10
She's creepy shenmue Feb 2014 #11
Whatever happened to just not saying anything? DiverDave Feb 2014 #12
Thank you libodem Feb 2014 #20
This was not in Florida Boom Sound 416 Feb 2014 #13
If true, that's horrible. nt B2G Feb 2014 #14
"I do not believe in what you do..." Rex Feb 2014 #15
k&r for wtf. uppityperson Feb 2014 #16
I was so disgusted by this... one_voice Feb 2014 #17
This message was self-deleted by its author Hissyspit Feb 2014 #18
I can think of only one thing worse than getting that note Warpy Feb 2014 #19
IT'S A HOAX - and pretty stupid one. edbermac Feb 2014 #21
I was going to point out this possibility yesterday, but B2G Feb 2014 #23
They were hoping to "spur a healthy discourse on a highly passionate topic"? NaturalHigh Feb 2014 #24
Well...that certainly sucks. Miles Archer Feb 2014 #25
This message was self-deleted by its author edbermac Feb 2014 #22

Donald Ian Rankin

(13,598 posts)
4. What's blocked are the details of the family who sent the invite, as far as I can see.
Fri Feb 14, 2014, 05:21 PM
Feb 2014

The women who replied has given permission for her details not to be blocked, but they - very sensibly - presumably haven't.

On edit: you're right, I hadn't noticed that her details are also blocked. I've seen a version of this with them unblocked, and a note that she'd given permission for that, elsewhere on DU, though, so I don't know what's happened.

 

mythology

(9,527 posts)
26. Because the parents of Sophia are better human beings than the bigot
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 09:56 PM
Feb 2014

And because there are people who would call and harass the woman. Granted she needs a metaphorical smack upside the head, but there are people who would call her with death threats. I believe that there are not as many as would give the gay couple death threats, but there are assholes everywhere.

smokey nj

(43,853 posts)
3. I'm sorry Tommy has to grow up with a bigot for a mom; that's a lifestyle to which an innocent child
Fri Feb 14, 2014, 05:20 PM
Feb 2014

should not be subjected.

hamsterjill

(15,223 posts)
6. I feel so sorry for the little children that are taught to hate.
Fri Feb 14, 2014, 05:23 PM
Feb 2014

I fear little Tommy will grow up with much hate in his heart and that is very sad.

If the kids all go back to school on Monday and talk about what a GREAT time that they all had at the party, little Tommy may feel a little "left out", too.

Good grief. It's a party for seven year olds! Anyone who tries to make THAT about sex is seriously screwed up.

shenmue

(38,506 posts)
11. She's creepy
Fri Feb 14, 2014, 05:39 PM
Feb 2014

Teaching her kids to hate that early? I hope they grow up to be nice anyway, just to spite her. That'll screw up her head.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
15. "I do not believe in what you do..."
Fri Feb 14, 2014, 06:43 PM
Feb 2014

What? Exist? FUCK HER and I am sorry Tommy has to grow up with a mom that will fuck his brain up as a child!

one_voice

(20,043 posts)
17. I was so disgusted by this...
Fri Feb 14, 2014, 07:03 PM
Feb 2014

and feel so horrible for those kids growing up in that house.

You're not born with hate and bigotry in your heart, you're taught it--like this.

Hopefully when the kids grow up they won't be anything like their parents.

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Warpy

(111,327 posts)
19. I can think of only one thing worse than getting that note
Fri Feb 14, 2014, 07:20 PM
Feb 2014

and that is going through life as the hateful person who felt entitled to write it.

Poor Tommy. I hope he isn't gay, not with a mother like that.

edbermac

(15,943 posts)
21. IT'S A HOAX - and pretty stupid one.
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 04:30 PM
Feb 2014

Now, the entire incident has been revealed as a hoax drummed up by K-98.3's Steve Harper and his "Morning Show" co-host, Leeana. The two posted an apology note on the station's website Friday.

"This story was, in fact, totally fictitious, and created by the two of us. This was done without the knowledge of K-98.3 management or ownership," they wrote. "We were attempting to spur a healthy discourse on a highly passionate topic, but we made a mistake by misleading our listeners into thinking that this specific situation actually existed."

"We are very sorry that we perpetuated this falsehood, even after it was clear that it had taken on a 'life of its own,'" they concluded. "We deeply apologize for violating your trust, and we will work hard to regain that trust."

Critics took to the station's Facebook page to voice their anger over what is being called a shameless publicity stunt.

"Disgusting that you fabricated the Sophia Invitation story for ratings. SHAME ON YOU!" wrote one person. "What exactly did you think would happen making up a fake story like this? There is enough hate in this world. You just lost a loyal listener!" wrote another.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/02/15/gay-dad-birthday-invite-hoax_n_4794437.html

Way to go guys!

 

B2G

(9,766 posts)
23. I was going to point out this possibility yesterday, but
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 04:34 PM
Feb 2014

figured I'd be crucified.

They should be fired. What was the point? The result will be for people to immediately not believe true incidents of hate. This makes me sick, not unlike the waitress incident.

Disgusting.

NaturalHigh

(12,778 posts)
24. They were hoping to "spur a healthy discourse on a highly passionate topic"?
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 04:39 PM
Feb 2014

Seriously? What a couple of dumb fucks.

Miles Archer

(18,837 posts)
25. Well...that certainly sucks.
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 08:48 PM
Feb 2014

I had no way of knowing that when I posted the original story, but still...

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