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rurallib

(62,433 posts)
Sun Feb 16, 2014, 10:57 PM Feb 2014

Remember last year when Brittney Griner came out as gay?

before she left Baylor to play pro basketball.
Hardly anyone paid attention. The news was greeted with almost no mention.
Here was a big time athlete who was really the first to be playing as a gay athlete in a pro sport and no one cared.

I find it very strange that women can be gay and almost no one cares, but a man comes out and it is Katy-bar-the-doors.
Just a comment, that is all.

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Remember last year when Brittney Griner came out as gay? (Original Post) rurallib Feb 2014 OP
i think it's like the girl scouts, women's groups ,organizations etc aren't as anti gay JI7 Feb 2014 #1
I don't recall that at all yeoman6987 Feb 2014 #5
women + basketball player = gay for many people so no surprise element there? nt msongs Feb 2014 #2
I think it's because homosexuality is more accepted with women. CFLDem Feb 2014 #3
that isn't accurate dsc Feb 2014 #4
Good info. Lizzie Poppet Feb 2014 #14
Swoopes is married to man now. AngryAmish Feb 2014 #22
wow didn't know that dsc Feb 2014 #25
If the majority of the populace have to ask "Who?" Lost_Count Feb 2014 #6
I'm not sure what you meant by that theHandpuppet Feb 2014 #7
In women's basketball... Lost_Count Feb 2014 #8
Annnnnd they're off. Are_grits_groceries Feb 2014 #11
It isn't a diss. It is a fact. joeglow3 Feb 2014 #15
I am not claiming it 's on par with the NBA, the NFL or other leagues. Are_grits_groceries Feb 2014 #20
I think you confused me for someone else joeglow3 Feb 2014 #24
That was for me... Lost_Count Feb 2014 #26
This message was self-deleted by its author joeglow3 Feb 2014 #15
I think the OP gives credence to my point... Lost_Count Feb 2014 #21
I think that has to do with sterotypes about female athletes BainsBane Feb 2014 #9
"I'm cool with two wimmen-folk doin' it - 'specially when they're REALLY REALLY hot!! bullwinkle428 Feb 2014 #10
Men, as a rule aren't repulsed by women making out. In fact, women making out is standard in Luminous Animal Feb 2014 #12
The first? Not so sure about that. Lizzie Poppet Feb 2014 #13
The WNBA is still around? n/t bobclark86 Feb 2014 #17
Lesbians are not a threat to the Phallocracy but those who are male homosexual and high profile are. wocaonimabi Feb 2014 #18
You do realize that lesbians are homosexuals, right? Behind the Aegis Feb 2014 #19
Maybe because we are conditioned to anticipate men, in general, Shankapotomus Feb 2014 #23

JI7

(89,260 posts)
1. i think it's like the girl scouts, women's groups ,organizations etc aren't as anti gay
Sun Feb 16, 2014, 10:58 PM
Feb 2014

as the all male ones like the sports clubs, boy scouts etc.

 

CFLDem

(2,083 posts)
3. I think it's because homosexuality is more accepted with women.
Sun Feb 16, 2014, 11:10 PM
Feb 2014

Women in general are kind of touchy feely anyways so it's not really surprising at worst and titillating at best.

dsc

(52,166 posts)
4. that isn't accurate
Sun Feb 16, 2014, 11:15 PM
Feb 2014

the WNBA has several openly lesbian players before Griner.

http://www.seattlepi.com/sports/article/WNBA-star-becomes-only-openly-gay-player-active-1186038.php

Sheryl Swoops came out in 2005.

On edit it should be noted that there have been very top women athletes who have come out (Martina, Billie Jean King) to name two. Swoops was the first team player to come out, which is a big deal, but she also was well noted at the time.

 

Lizzie Poppet

(10,164 posts)
14. Good info.
Mon Feb 17, 2014, 01:24 AM
Feb 2014

I don't follow basketball, so I didn't realize. I'm a huge football (soccer, that is...) fan, though, and I was surprised for years that more of the players hadn't come out (it was one of those unspoken "everybody knows" things).

 

Lost_Count

(555 posts)
6. If the majority of the populace have to ask "Who?"
Sun Feb 16, 2014, 11:27 PM
Feb 2014

Then she probably doesn't qualify as a big time athlete.

theHandpuppet

(19,964 posts)
7. I'm not sure what you meant by that
Sun Feb 16, 2014, 11:33 PM
Feb 2014

Considering she was the best women's player in collegiate ball and is now a pro.

 

Lost_Count

(555 posts)
8. In women's basketball...
Mon Feb 17, 2014, 12:59 AM
Feb 2014

Which ranks somewhere around bowling but below rodeo in the American consciousness.

There's probably an amazing gay shuffleboarder out there that is on the national circuit but hasn't broken into the media spotlight either.




Are_grits_groceries

(17,111 posts)
11. Annnnnd they're off.
Mon Feb 17, 2014, 01:05 AM
Feb 2014

That's where it ranks in your mind.
If you watch ESPN at all you know who the better WNBA players are. They do get press.

Do you know who else keeps up? The NBA players. They support the women and recognize who's got game.

If you don't like women's basketball, that's your prerogative. However, don't diss it especially since you obviously don't have a real clue about it.

 

joeglow3

(6,228 posts)
15. It isn't a diss. It is a fact.
Mon Feb 17, 2014, 01:26 AM
Feb 2014

Women's basketball doesn't register on the national radar, despite the (noble) attempts to make it nationally relevant.

Are_grits_groceries

(17,111 posts)
20. I am not claiming it 's on par with the NBA, the NFL or other leagues.
Mon Feb 17, 2014, 06:47 AM
Feb 2014

However, your 'cute' reference to shuffleboard is a diss and minimizes those who play and those who support the league.

Certain players are attracting more attention as the enter the WNBA. Griner, Delle Donne, and Diggins attracted national scrutiny. Griner garnered attention because of her height and play and because she is openly gay and a leader in anti-bullying campaigns. Delle Donne has gained interest because of her play.

A major problem are those who do diss it out of hand. They don't watch or have a clue about the players or the teams. They do enjoy constantly insulting everything associated with the league. They beat it down just for the hell of it.

If they don't like it, fine. I find some NBA games unwatchable. The level of play for a pro league is execrable in some cases. Looking at you 76ers. The NFL wasn't exactly a pleasure to view either. The level of play in some of those games was well below par. That doesn't mean I am going to dump on them. I keep up and know what's up unlike anti-WNBA fans I don't automatically hit full blast when they are mentioned.

If you dare to venture into the comment sections about the WNBA, what 's posted there is beyond vile. The racism and sexism is nasty and boggles the mind. Men get dissed too but nowhere near the level that the women do. Few offer valid criticisms of the league.

You have jumped right on board and you sound like a member of the diss first and fast team. I have no idea based on your two posts although they are negative in many ways. I am not automatically throwing you in the slime patrol.




 

Lost_Count

(555 posts)
26. That was for me...
Mon Feb 17, 2014, 09:54 AM
Feb 2014

I theorize that you could ask random Americans between the ages of 18-55 and a significant number of them could list of a number of teams, players and recent champions of the NFL, NBA, PGA, MLB or even their college counterparts.

Not so much for women's basketball at any level.

It's like trying to make Americans care about soccer. Quit trying to make it happen. It's not gonna happen....

Response to Are_grits_groceries (Reply #11)

 

Lost_Count

(555 posts)
21. I think the OP gives credence to my point...
Mon Feb 17, 2014, 07:39 AM
Feb 2014

While I'm sure there is a small percentage who are well informed, they are a small minority of sports fans.

You can also reference every sports analyst who got in trouble for talking about Seattle and their first significant championship in 30 years.

BainsBane

(53,041 posts)
9. I think that has to do with sterotypes about female athletes
Mon Feb 17, 2014, 01:02 AM
Feb 2014

That many assume they are lesbians even when they aren't.

bullwinkle428

(20,629 posts)
10. "I'm cool with two wimmen-folk doin' it - 'specially when they're REALLY REALLY hot!!
Mon Feb 17, 2014, 01:04 AM
Feb 2014

Sincerely,

Every Homophobe that Ever Existed.

Luminous Animal

(27,310 posts)
12. Men, as a rule aren't repulsed by women making out. In fact, women making out is standard in
Mon Feb 17, 2014, 01:07 AM
Feb 2014

straight male porn. Men making out with each other is not.

So women coming out is not "repulsive" but rather, to many men, it is "hot."

 

Lizzie Poppet

(10,164 posts)
13. The first? Not so sure about that.
Mon Feb 17, 2014, 01:22 AM
Feb 2014

I'd have to check, but I think Megan Rapinoe came out before Brittney.

But yeah, you make a good point. No one pays much attention to gay female athletes' orientation. That may be in part because it was kind of an unspoken understanding in many women's sports for so long. Everyone knew, but no one talked about it. It's so much better now, with it being less and less of a big deal all the time.

Shankapotomus

(4,840 posts)
23. Maybe because we are conditioned to anticipate men, in general,
Mon Feb 17, 2014, 09:16 AM
Feb 2014

to be more homophobic than women. Especially men in sports.

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