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Gothmog

(145,291 posts)
Thu Mar 6, 2014, 09:46 PM Mar 2014

I said goodbye to my bearded collie yesterday

My family has been raising bearded collies for a while. Two of our bearded collies were in the Shaggy Dog movie with Tim Allen (they had 6 dogs trained to do the tricks when Allen was in dog form). I had to say goodbye to my beardie yesterday. He was 15 years old which is a good age for beardie. My dog had a major scare back in May of last year and we put him on nsaids and pain killers. My dog was alert and active until the very end. He had been slipping on the tile some that week and he was laying down when we left for election duty. When we came back from being election judges, my dog could not walk and we knew it was time. Everyone in the family got to say goodbye and I even flew my middle child down from law school in Iowa for the day to be with my dog at the end. I picked up my middle child at the airport at 4 and we were at the vets by 5 in time to say goodbye and be present when the drugs were administered. My daughter caught a plane at 8 this morning and made her afternoon classes.

When my dog was on the show circuit, he was the number 4 or 5 dog for that breed and could have gone to Westminster. My dog had a herding title and enjoyed moving sheep. If you get a chance, you need to watch a herding trial or competition. Beardies are beautiful when they herd compared to border collies who act like wolves when they move the sheep. Beardies bounce when they herd sheep and it is beautiful to watch. It is joy watching these dogs do what they were bred to do.

Until the very end, my dog was active and enjoyed bossing my youngest around. My youngest was 7 when Spencer came to live with us and Spencer considered her to be a puppy who needed to be supervised.

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I said goodbye to my bearded collie yesterday (Original Post) Gothmog Mar 2014 OP
So sorry! I have a collie mix I dearly love. Redford Mar 2014 #1
He sounds like he was so well-loved! babylonsister Mar 2014 #2
So very sorry for your loss. bigwillq Mar 2014 #3
Hugs nadinbrzezinski Mar 2014 #4
... Skittles Mar 2014 #5
Spencer sounds like a wonderful dog that had a wonderful life. alittlelark Mar 2014 #6
I'm so sorry for your loss warrior1 Mar 2014 #7
All my sympathies to you, Gothmog countryjake Mar 2014 #8
rip Spencer magical thyme Mar 2014 #9
I'm sorry, Gothmog. Mnemosyne Mar 2014 #10
I am so sorry...n/t ms liberty Mar 2014 #11
I'm so sorry. OnyxCollie Mar 2014 #12
I'm sorry. herding cats Mar 2014 #13
Very saddened to hear this. RKP5637 Mar 2014 #14
This is the saddest part of being a loving companion owner. Useless in FL Mar 2014 #15
Saying goodbye... pacalo Mar 2014 #16
I'm very sorry for your loss. NaturalHigh Mar 2014 #17
I am so sorry for your loss. countingbluecars Mar 2014 #18
Beardies are wonderful companions Gothmog Mar 2014 #21
So sorry, Gothmog ReRe Mar 2014 #19
I'm so very very sorry for your loss lavenderdiva Mar 2014 #20
They are our greatest joy. Veracious Mar 2014 #22
So sorry for your loss. greatlaurel Mar 2014 #23
Condolences gopiscrap Mar 2014 #24
I am so sad for you passiveporcupine Mar 2014 #25
it sounds like a life well lived.... mike_c Mar 2014 #26
My heart goes out to you and your family. truedelphi Mar 2014 #27
I'm so sorry for your loss, Greybnk48 Mar 2014 #28
What a wonderful spirit. Sorry you had to say goodbye, but what great memories. Take care. n/t freshwest Mar 2014 #29
Feeling for you from a Aussie and BC Household exboyfil Mar 2014 #30
Maybe He Is Playing With My.... rsmith6621 Mar 2014 #31
I'm so sorry for your loss, Gothmog. Manifestor_of_Light Mar 2014 #32
I'm sorry. Beacool Mar 2014 #33
You gave him quite a life! KT2000 Mar 2014 #34
God bless all of you. It is so hard. I wish you all the best. roguevalley Mar 2014 #35
The hardest thing I ever had to do up until the age of Jenoch Mar 2014 #36
My older two children consider Spencer to be a littermate Gothmog Mar 2014 #50
I have two brothers who had dogs die. Jenoch Mar 2014 #53
This is a lovely tribute you have written about Spencer Samantha Mar 2014 #37
Aw, sorry for your loss Gothmag. nt TBF Mar 2014 #38
So sorry. MoonRiver Mar 2014 #39
Of course it does. I am so sorry for your loss. merrily Mar 2014 #46
I understand how you are feeling Gothmog Mar 2014 #48
My condolences Rider3 Mar 2014 #40
Condolences PDittie Mar 2014 #41
My condolences to you and your family. MerryBlooms Mar 2014 #42
So sorry ctsnowman Mar 2014 #43
So sorry for your loss. Worried senior Mar 2014 #44
Awww, Spencer sounds like a champ who enjoyed his merrily Mar 2014 #45
My youngest needs a great deal of supervision Gothmog Mar 2014 #49
So sorry for Your loss! I'm happy to read Your Dog live a wonderful life & the love was mutual!! hue Mar 2014 #47
So sorry for this loss get the red out Mar 2014 #51
Very sorry to hear this, but it sounds like he had a good long life... joeybee12 Mar 2014 #52
I am so sorry... tosh Mar 2014 #54
I'm very sorry for your loss. Having a dog share your life for 15 years makes sinkingfeeling Mar 2014 #55
So sorry TuxedoKat Mar 2014 #56
Beardies are very intelligent dogs Gothmog Mar 2014 #57
I am sorry for the loss of your Lifelong Protester Mar 2014 #58
The Vet called-Spencer's ashes are ready to be picked up Gothmog Mar 2014 #59

babylonsister

(171,070 posts)
2. He sounds like he was so well-loved!
Thu Mar 6, 2014, 09:49 PM
Mar 2014

The benefits your family got were priceless, too. I'm sorry you lost your buddy.

Skittles

(153,164 posts)
5. ...
Thu Mar 6, 2014, 10:00 PM
Mar 2014

Grieve not,
nor speak of me with tears,
but laugh and talk of me
as if I were beside you.....
I loved you so --
'twas Heaven here with you.

--by Ilsa Paschal Richardson

alittlelark

(18,890 posts)
6. Spencer sounds like a wonderful dog that had a wonderful life.
Thu Mar 6, 2014, 10:06 PM
Mar 2014

...so sad when we lose those we love. He was certainly loved, and gave that love back 10x.



countryjake

(8,554 posts)
8. All my sympathies to you, Gothmog
Thu Mar 6, 2014, 10:25 PM
Mar 2014

It is always so hard to do this, it's good that your family got to be there with you.

 

magical thyme

(14,881 posts)
9. rip Spencer
Thu Mar 6, 2014, 10:26 PM
Mar 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss. It sounds like Spencer had a wonderful, loving life with you.

Peace and healing you and all of Spencer's family and friends.

herding cats

(19,565 posts)
13. I'm sorry.
Thu Mar 6, 2014, 10:53 PM
Mar 2014

I know what it's like to lose a beloved pet/family member. My heart is with you all. It's beautiful how you all had a chance to say your goodbyes. That matters.

Useless in FL

(329 posts)
15. This is the saddest part of being a loving companion owner.
Thu Mar 6, 2014, 11:07 PM
Mar 2014

You know, I really understand what you are feeling and what you have to deal with. I had the most beautiful and loving collie who was such a part of my life. She sensed, and knew my feelings and she was always there to comfort me ..... and I her. It's so hard to say goodbye, and I ache for you as grieve for this baby. It doesn't matter in the final analysis..... a pedigreed or a mutt, they are your babies and you love them and they love you. He will be waiting for you at the Rainbow Bridge, you can be certain of that!

pacalo

(24,721 posts)
16. Saying goodbye...
Thu Mar 6, 2014, 11:10 PM
Mar 2014

to our little furry family members is one of the most difficult things to do for pet lovers, but the joy they fill their homes with stays with us forever.

I'm sorry for your pain, Gothmog.



countingbluecars

(4,766 posts)
18. I am so sorry for your loss.
Thu Mar 6, 2014, 11:12 PM
Mar 2014

Our beardie,Watson, turned 15 in December, and I know we will soon be facing what you are going through.

Gothmog

(145,291 posts)
21. Beardies are wonderful companions
Thu Mar 6, 2014, 11:54 PM
Mar 2014

Good luck with your beardie. The average age seems to be 13 to 14 according to some websites.

ReRe

(10,597 posts)
19. So sorry, Gothmog
Thu Mar 6, 2014, 11:23 PM
Mar 2014

There is a herding competition here every summer at our little county fair. Large fields and plenty of room for everyone to watch. I am so worn out from doing the flower show competition that I haven't felt like sticking around and watching the herding, but I will this year, as I'm not able to do the flower show anymore. And when I do, I will look for the bearded collies and think of Winston.

lavenderdiva

(10,726 posts)
20. I'm so very very sorry for your loss
Thu Mar 6, 2014, 11:40 PM
Mar 2014

it's hard when we lose our furry kids -- it sounds like Spencer knew he was well-loved until the very end.....

Veracious

(234 posts)
22. They are our greatest joy.
Fri Mar 7, 2014, 12:01 AM
Mar 2014

And it is our solemn promise to help them at the end of their lives.
You all are the best companions and family to your friend.
He loves you all, and you love him.
You had great lives, he is a good boy.

gopiscrap

(23,761 posts)
24. Condolences
Fri Mar 7, 2014, 12:17 AM
Mar 2014

I know some of what you are going through. I lost my beloved cat (the best per I have ever had) in January.

passiveporcupine

(8,175 posts)
25. I am so sad for you
Fri Mar 7, 2014, 12:21 AM
Mar 2014

It is the hardest thing to do...I wish there was a way to have these wonderful animals and to never have to go through that.

You just encouraged me to watch a youtube of a bearded collie herding sheep and I am so glad I did it. They are wonderful. I have an English Shepherd who tries to herd my goats all the time, but I don't know how to train him. It is amazing to watch how much they love it. I wish I knew someone in the area who could help me. He would be so good at it.

I've never seen a bearded collie before. They are adorable. He will be a cherished memory stored in your heart forever.

mike_c

(36,281 posts)
26. it sounds like a life well lived....
Fri Mar 7, 2014, 12:28 AM
Mar 2014

I'm sorry for your loss, but grateful that you had the opportunity to know such an exceptional dog. To Spencer

truedelphi

(32,324 posts)
27. My heart goes out to you and your family.
Fri Mar 7, 2014, 12:42 AM
Mar 2014

Glad your Beardie was with you for such a long life.

Take care of yourself. We forget that pets are such deep parts of our souls, and we often don't give ourselves the chance to properly grieve.

I still miss my Beardie. And her death was over thirty years back.

Greybnk48

(10,168 posts)
28. I'm so sorry for your loss,
Fri Mar 7, 2014, 12:45 AM
Mar 2014

but as many have said, it sounds like your dog had a wonderful life among people who loved him dearly.

exboyfil

(17,863 posts)
30. Feeling for you from a Aussie and BC Household
Fri Mar 7, 2014, 01:03 AM
Mar 2014

Dogs are part of the family. My big boy border is looking at me right now. Herding dogs are great.

Take Care.

 

Manifestor_of_Light

(21,046 posts)
32. I'm so sorry for your loss, Gothmog.
Fri Mar 7, 2014, 01:19 AM
Mar 2014

Speaking of collies: When I was a kid, we had a stray wander into our garage that was just gorgeous. She was a rough collie, the kind bred with Russian wolfhounds, so they have big barrel chests, pointy noses, flat rears, and tails that curl a bit. Her coloring was the blond with the white ruff.

We think she got out of a cage at Hobby Airport & walked to our house. She was obviously a show dog because when you put her on a leash, she pranced like they do at dog shows. My parents had to put her down in January 1979 from old age, and I still can't put the dog's studio portrait, up on my wall, after all these years. She looked like a movie star. The neighborhood kids always wanted to see "Lassie" but she was prettier than Lassie.

We always joked that our dog had a better pedigree than we did!!

Beacool

(30,249 posts)
33. I'm sorry.
Fri Mar 7, 2014, 01:23 AM
Mar 2014

Pets become part of the family and it's heartbreaking to see them go. It sounds like Spencer had a wonderful life with you and your family. A life well lived.

 

Jenoch

(7,720 posts)
36. The hardest thing I ever had to do up until the age of
Fri Mar 7, 2014, 03:13 AM
Mar 2014

25 was to put down our family cat who was 22 years old. I did not grieve as much for my grandmother as I did for that cat. Of course I knew the cat much better than I did my grandmother. He was almost like a sibling. Of course as an adult many years later I realize he was just a cat, but at the time I was devastated.

Gothmog

(145,291 posts)
50. My older two children consider Spencer to be a littermate
Fri Mar 7, 2014, 04:04 PM
Mar 2014

That may not be a good reflection on my ability as a parent.

One of my law partners told me that I was crazy to fly my middle child home to say goodbye. I felt that it was the right thing to do

 

Jenoch

(7,720 posts)
53. I have two brothers who had dogs die.
Fri Mar 7, 2014, 04:56 PM
Mar 2014

The differences in how their families handled it were polar opposites. I have a nephew who was visiting my father in Arizona when their dog died. We were told not to share the news because they wanted to tell my 20 year old nephew in person upon his return. The other family was not so sentimental. My SIL was waiting for her sister to help her bring the family dog to the vet to have him put down. The dog expired before she could do it however. The dog was on his cedar shavings bed near the front door. When their 8 year old boy came home from school, he shouted to his mother upstairs, "what's wrong with Fido, it looks like he's dead". His mother replied "that's because he is". The boy was not emotionally harmed in any way, that's just how they handle things.

Samantha

(9,314 posts)
37. This is a lovely tribute you have written about Spencer
Fri Mar 7, 2014, 03:39 AM
Mar 2014

I am so sorry for you and your family's loss. Sounds like Spencer was pretty magnificent.

Sam

Worried senior

(1,328 posts)
44. So sorry for your loss.
Fri Mar 7, 2014, 03:17 PM
Mar 2014

It's wonderful that your family cared enough to be with him at the end.

No well loved animal is just a cat or just a dog, they can be more important to us than many humans would.

merrily

(45,251 posts)
45. Awww, Spencer sounds like a champ who enjoyed his
Fri Mar 7, 2014, 03:30 PM
Mar 2014

his useful life supervising your daughter.

I am glad he was active to the end. Watching a family member suffer is hard. You (and he) were spared that.

What a beautiful, loving eulogy you wrote.

get the red out

(13,466 posts)
51. So sorry for this loss
Fri Mar 7, 2014, 04:23 PM
Mar 2014

Beardies are BEAUTIFUL and sweet dogs. I love watching them run agility at the trials I take my dog to. They have such JOY in whatever job they do. You must have been a great breeder to have such wonderful dogs. Herding dogs are the best; smart, sweet, willing to please.

I am glad though that you had this wonderful dog for 15 years and that his life was great to the end. What wonderful memories.

tosh

(4,423 posts)
54. I am so sorry...
Fri Mar 7, 2014, 05:03 PM
Mar 2014


I've always admired the breed but I've never had a chance to see them at trial.

Sweet Spencer...

TuxedoKat

(3,818 posts)
56. So sorry
Fri Mar 7, 2014, 05:40 PM
Mar 2014

for the loss of your beloved Spencer. What a great dog he must have been to have around! Now you have made me very curious about this breed. (((HUGS)))

Gothmog

(145,291 posts)
57. Beardies are very intelligent dogs
Fri Mar 7, 2014, 06:02 PM
Mar 2014

Spencer could take apart and escape from heavy duty dog crates if he was bored. He destroyed and escaped from several crates. These dogs are very intelligent and love children.

We had several beardies in my house at one time when Spencer was younger and they had a game of "sheep" where one of the dogs would end up being herded by the other beardies. They would also try to heard a PBGV that we had which was funny because the PBGV resented being treated as a sheep.

The downside is that you have to either shave them down or spend some time grooming and combing their hair to prevent mats and tangles.

Gothmog

(145,291 posts)
59. The Vet called-Spencer's ashes are ready to be picked up
Thu Mar 20, 2014, 02:18 PM
Mar 2014

This call really him me hard. I am not sure why but it does.

One of my daughters was in town for Spring Break with her beardie. I picked her and her dog up at the airport and took her to my house to pick up a spare car. Her dog looked all through my house for Spencer and it was obvious that she missed him.

I have my Texas Democratic Party senate district meeting on Saturday and the vet's office is near the location of this meeting. I will probably wait to pick up the ashes until after this meeting.

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