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The Straight Story

(48,121 posts)
Fri Mar 7, 2014, 11:17 PM Mar 2014

'I was told I could either divorce or be fired'

(Seattle) The gay former vice-principal of Eastside Catholic says the school claimed it did not discriminate based on marital status or sexual orientation when he was hired, but then fired him for entering into a same-sex marriage last year.

Mark Zmuda filed a complaint for damages against Eastside Catholic and the Seattle Archdiocese Friday. Zmuda told reporters the school was initially supportive of his marriage, but said he believes the school changed its position under pressure from the church.

“The information we have is that there was involvement from the archdiocese. Pressure was put on the school to fire Mark,” said Richard Friedman, Zmuda’s attorney.

“I was asked by the school to break my wedding vows to keep my job. I was told I could either divorce or be fired. How could anyone ask anyone else to make that choice? I was fired,” said Zmuda.

http://www.king5.com/news/local/Eastside-Catholic-Mark-Zmuda-complaint-249047821.html

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'I was told I could either divorce or be fired' (Original Post) The Straight Story Mar 2014 OP
What exactly is the church's position on divorce? hobbit709 Mar 2014 #1
Divorce as a catholic Old Codger Mar 2014 #2
I'm sure they would see a same sex marriage as invalid anyway therefore paving the way for an liberal_at_heart Mar 2014 #4
Only Catholic marriages count, LeftyMom Mar 2014 #3
As long as it was not a Catholic marriage, Ms. Toad Mar 2014 #5
I'm trying to figure out why they hired a homosexual Jenoch Mar 2014 #6
religion LOL n/t KG Mar 2014 #7
 

Old Codger

(4,205 posts)
2. Divorce as a catholic
Sat Mar 8, 2014, 02:08 AM
Mar 2014

They do not believe in divorce, if you have been divorced and want to marry in the church they do some magic sleight of hand and annul your previous marriage, then you cannot be divorced since you were never (by their standards) never married...

liberal_at_heart

(12,081 posts)
4. I'm sure they would see a same sex marriage as invalid anyway therefore paving the way for an
Sat Mar 8, 2014, 02:10 AM
Mar 2014

annulment. I am glad he is suing. I hope he wins.

LeftyMom

(49,212 posts)
3. Only Catholic marriages count,
Sat Mar 8, 2014, 02:09 AM
Mar 2014

and you have to fill out some paperwork and pay the church to get out of one of those.

Ms. Toad

(34,086 posts)
5. As long as it was not a Catholic marriage,
Sat Mar 8, 2014, 02:28 AM
Mar 2014

it doesn't exist. The prohibition on divorce relates only to marriages performed by the church.

 

Jenoch

(7,720 posts)
6. I'm trying to figure out why they hired a homosexual
Sat Mar 8, 2014, 02:48 AM
Mar 2014

as a vice-principal, unless he claimed to be celibate.

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