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Dear North Carolina,
I'm leaving you.
To be honest, it isn't me; it's you.
I've given you all I have to give: my days, nights, and weekends. I've sacrificed my money and hobbies for you.
I've done my best to please you over the years, but no matter how much I gave you, you always asked for more. In return, you gave me less and less.
Even worse, you refused to truly listen to me. I've tried, time after time, to explain my frustrations, but you always tuned me out.
And you frequently questioned me as if I'm unfaithful. With all that I do for you and the kids, how in the world would I have time for anyone else?
You've taken me for granted.
I deserve to be regarded as a partner in this relationship; Instead, you've treated me like a servant.
If you ever want us to be together again, you are going to have to make some serious life changes:
Treat me as an individual with my own perspective (no more top-down approaches to decision-making).
Respect my voice (don't remove my rights in this union between us).
Continually appreciate and repay me for all that I do for you (don't spend the money you owe me on someone else).
Trust me (don't measure me with unfair and inaccurate comparisons to others).
Call me crazy, but I believed I'd one day become a priority to you. And if not me, at least our kids! How were they never at the top of your priority list?
I used to love you, but I really can't do this anymore. I deserve better.
It's over.
I'm leaving you for your sister state, South Carolina.
If you ever decide to change your ways, call me.
You know the number.
Sincerely and No Longer Yours,
Justin Ashley
2013 North Carolina History Teacher of the Year
2013 North Carolina Social Studies Teacher of the Year
2011 Charlotte-Mecklenburg Schools East Zone Teacher of the Year
POSTED BY ANN DOSS HELMS AT 6:00 AM
Read more here: http://obsyourschools.blogspot.com/2014/05/teacher-to-nc-its-breakup-time.html#storylink=cpy
Smarmie Doofus
(14,498 posts)Last edited Mon May 12, 2014, 02:58 PM - Edit history (1)
Forwarding a copy to Prez. O.
He could learn a lot from it. ( But he won't.)
K and R
okaawhatever
(9,462 posts)ChairmanAgnostic
(28,017 posts)Duncan (and therefor Obama) support charter schools, which seem to be little more than dens of corruption and poor education.
okaawhatever
(9,462 posts)are dens of corruption. Just the for-profit ones. One of the reason Obama has cut back on funding for the program in the DC area.
ChairmanAgnostic
(28,017 posts)This is good . . . How, exactly?
He fucked single payer over.
He extended bush tax cuts which made our recovery that much slower. He pushed saving banks instead of helping those screwed by big banking. He has made many many mistakes, and seems to support big business instead of the little guy. All too often.
okaawhatever
(9,462 posts)first statement. He fucked single payer over. Lie, lie, lie. Obama never campaigned on single payer. And guess what, liberal icon Jimmy Carter also did not campaign on single payer but on pretty much the same thing as Obama got passed.
http://www.factcheck.org/2009/06/campaigning-on-single-payer/
When someone tells one blatant lie, I ignore everything else they say.
ChairmanAgnostic
(28,017 posts)okaawhatever
(9,462 posts)Thespian2
(2,741 posts)Arne Duncan...a disgusting human being who wants to destroy American public education.
As leader, Obama sucks.
roody
(10,849 posts)unions and paying teachers according to test scores.
FiveGoodMen
(20,018 posts)IllinoisBirdWatcher
(2,315 posts)This is not just the attitude of state leaders, but sadly, of leaders in so many states. It is worse in Wisconsin.
blm
(113,100 posts); )
Maybe Skinner will home page it.
vi5
(13,305 posts)Won't mean a damn thing to either of them, but still.
The_Commonist
(2,518 posts)Well, that just sounds weird.
Politicalboi
(15,189 posts)I thought maybe Ca, Ma, or any other left leaning states.
maddiemom
(5,106 posts)blm
(113,100 posts)Koch Brothers and Art Pope have been working feverishly to break NC, whereas SC escapes their completely evil, focused attention. Everything good in NC has been under sharp attack.
pscot
(21,024 posts)reformist2
(9,841 posts)appal_jack
(3,813 posts)SC currently pays its teachers much better. Crazy, but it's true...
-app
corkhead
(6,119 posts)okaawhatever
(9,462 posts)used to being treated with uneducated, lowly paid substitutes.
NC_Nurse
(11,646 posts)She is teaching at a non-profit school for special needs kids now. I'm sure she will enjoy this, she felt the same way.
okaawhatever
(9,462 posts)AnneD
(15,774 posts)We were applauding the district teachers of the year. As we were applauding I turned to my friend and we simultaneously said..they won't be here next year. They will be fired for cheating on the state test. Then we and several folks around us started laughing. Sad but true.
joeglow3
(6,228 posts)...under the union's last hired, first fired policy. Sorry, but this whole profession is a mess and all parties are playing a part.
roody
(10,849 posts)joeglow3
(6,228 posts)They would rather justify their paycheck by their "ability" to have popped out of their mother's womb earlier than someone else. And THAT mentality contributes in some part to why our schools are bad: the thoughtless adherence to the idea that merely existing longer than someone else automatically makes you more qualified.
roody
(10,849 posts)to have employment rights because I work in a union shop with a negotiated contract. If I were not doing my job properly, I would expect my supervisor to get rid of me. If I did not have employment rights, at my salary level and age, I would be replaced by someone young and cheap and better looking.
I'm sure you have noticed that that is the direction this country is going.
Helen Borg
(3,963 posts)Dunno, when I started reading I though she was going to California...
Edit: Just noticed a few other people thought the same earlier in the thread!
I don't think South Carolina will be much better. But, good for him for trying and write a superb letter.
Spider Jerusalem
(21,786 posts)Jefferson23
(30,099 posts)Louisiana1976
(3,962 posts)nclib
(1,013 posts)Pretty sad when he has to leave NC for SC.
octoberlib
(14,971 posts)the schools are worse.
blm
(113,100 posts)and have been working feverishly at it since the economy crashed.
octoberlib
(14,971 posts)I always used to crow "well, at least we're not SC!". Not anymore.
blm
(113,100 posts)there is still breaking that can be done in red states.