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davidn3600

(6,342 posts)
Mon May 19, 2014, 08:30 PM May 2014

American Rushes to Sudan to Save Pregnant Wife From Hanging

A Sudanese immigrant living in New Hampshire has returned to Sudan to try to save his wife, who is eight months pregnant and facing the death penalty there for marrying a Christian.

Daniel Wani is a Sudanese man with U.S. citizenship who has been living in Manchester, N.H.

His wife, Meriam Yehya Ibrahim Ishag, became the focus of worldwide news reports last week after the Sudanese government sentenced her to death. She is eight months pregnant.

The Islamic court considered Ishag a Muslim and did not recognize her marriage to Wani, a Christian. That constituted a crime of adultery and she was sentenced to receive 100 lashes.

The court also found her guilty of apostasy by converting to Christianity and sentencing her to be hanged.

The flogging and the death penalty were to be delayed until after she gave birth.


http://news.yahoo.com/american-rushes-sudan-save-pregnant-wife-hanging-182451081--abc-news-topstories.html
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American Rushes to Sudan to Save Pregnant Wife From Hanging (Original Post) davidn3600 May 2014 OP
"The flogging and the death penalty were to be delayed until AFTER she gave birth..." rocktivity May 2014 #1
Religion= Danger to women Tsiyu May 2014 #2
Of the billions of people in the world who are members of organized religion Gman May 2014 #4
It's my opinion Tsiyu May 2014 #5
I just gotta say... theHandpuppet May 2014 #6
boggles the mind sometimes, doesn't it? Tsiyu May 2014 #7
Thing is, more progressive believers (and there are many) tend to be the furthest removed from nomorenomore08 May 2014 #23
If it's just your opinion, perhaps you shouldn't describe it as "beyond a shadow of a doubt". 11 Bravo May 2014 #18
It's beyond a shadow of a doubt for me Tsiyu May 2014 #28
You realize that is a bronze age religion nadinbrzezinski May 2014 #26
I am not asking anyone to follow me in to broadbrush land Tsiyu May 2014 #29
Because the most liberal sections of Judaism have women rabies and cantors nadinbrzezinski May 2014 #30
If my opinion is so frightening, too bad Tsiyu May 2014 #31
No, frightening is NOT the word you should be using nadinbrzezinski May 2014 #33
Intolerance would be demanding people stop believing Tsiyu May 2014 #36
Yes, I do know the definition of the word nadinbrzezinski May 2014 #40
You as well Tsiyu May 2014 #41
Yes. Religion is the scourge of humanity, and women in particular. Arugula Latte May 2014 #8
Women need to say 'stuff it" Tsiyu May 2014 #9
Yeah, I don't get it. I've sat through misogynistic Catholic wedding ceremonies. Arugula Latte May 2014 #10
I've been to a wedding where the preacher served up Tsiyu May 2014 #16
Stockholm Syndrome + learned helplessness. nt tblue37 May 2014 #12
Indeed Tsiyu May 2014 #22
Even their double standards have double standards rocktivity May 2014 #20
How confusing is all that legalistic mishmosh? Geez Louise Tsiyu May 2014 #21
I think it's unfair to Christianity and Judaism to lump them in with Islam Donald Ian Rankin May 2014 #13
I'm sorry, perhaps you haven't noticed the THOUSANDS of bills Tsiyu May 2014 #17
+1 nomorenomore08 May 2014 #24
I agree completely Tsiyu May 2014 #32
As a "cradle Catholic" (albeit non-practicing) I agree on basically all points. nomorenomore08 May 2014 #37
Yes, all faiths seem to try to tack a few "good works" onto their to-do list Tsiyu May 2014 #39
Absolutely. Putting money before doing God's will is idolatry, but they do just that, constantly. nomorenomore08 May 2014 #44
But don't YOU contradict their legalistic rules on Birth control! Tsiyu May 2014 #45
Only at this point in time csziggy May 2014 #35
If not for the last few hundred years of increasing secularism, we'd essentially be living under nomorenomore08 May 2014 #43
Exactly csziggy May 2014 #47
Which makes the cancellation, by Brandeis University, of Ayaan Hirsi Ali so maddening question everything May 2014 #34
Yes, I'm beginning to see that any DESERVED criticism of the Abrahamic faiths Tsiyu May 2014 #38
I wonder how much financial aid we give these nut jobs...any is too much. Drew Richards May 2014 #3
Yay religion! ChisolmTrailDem May 2014 #11
Her husband is an American citizen? Dorian Gray May 2014 #14
This message was self-deleted by its author rocktivity May 2014 #15
If they married in the U.S. after 2005, that could work rocktivity May 2014 #19
Horrific story and situation for the woman and her family. Boomerproud May 2014 #25
Can she renounce her Christianity, join the Muslim cult and then get the hell out of there? seveneyes May 2014 #27
100 lashes? She might not live to be hanged. n/t winter is coming May 2014 #42
The state deptartment needs to put some pressure on Sudan Marrah_G May 2014 #46

rocktivity

(44,576 posts)
1. "The flogging and the death penalty were to be delayed until AFTER she gave birth..."
Mon May 19, 2014, 08:48 PM
May 2014

Last edited Thu May 22, 2014, 11:50 AM - Edit history (1)

Two whole years after she gives birth. Well, at least they aren't visiting the sins of the parents upon the unborn child -- that would be cruel and unusual punishment!


rocktivity

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
2. Religion= Danger to women
Mon May 19, 2014, 08:56 PM
May 2014

I wish all women around the world would abandon these ridiculous misogynist religions.

They exist for the benefit of psychotic, deranged males.

This case proves this beyond a shadow of a doubt.

I know there are many who think "their" Chritianity or "their" islam or Judaism are not "this way."

But read the bible, the Koran, the torah - all three are woman-bashing as an art form.

There is nothing in these "faiths' for any sane woman to follow.

Just be a good person and stop looking for some Sky daddy who has to be appeased, worshipped and begged to before he'll give you anything to eat. Can you imagine a "parent" who has to be petitioned ceaselessly and worshipped before he will be a decent parent, or who is always threatening to kill you if you don't do this thing or the other thing?

What is so compelling that people still believe this hoohaw?

Anyhoo, sorry, just sick of the misogyny religion condones. To each his own and all that; I just don't get why any woman would go along with it.

Gman

(24,780 posts)
4. Of the billions of people in the world who are members of organized religion
Mon May 19, 2014, 09:39 PM
May 2014

"This case proves this beyond a shadow of a doubt."

Ummm... Yeah, right. I guess you know so much more than billions of people.

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
5. It's my opinion
Mon May 19, 2014, 10:25 PM
May 2014

having read those works of religious fiction.

I even tried the Dead Sea Scrolls.

And in there it is written: "better the evil a man does than the good a woman does."

Really? So a woman nurse saving lives isn't as good as a guy who beats people to a pulp?

A female teacher is not as good as a male child molester? REALLY?

I threw that book across the room immediately upon reading that lovely male-scribed proverb.

And will never, ever give any credence to any religious fiction again.

If you gotta beg your daddy to help you on bended knee, and if your daddy allows you to kill other people for normal human behavior, your "daddy" is a psychopath.

Again, my opinion. Worship as you wish but don't ask me to think Abrahamic religions are anything more than institutionalized misogyny.





nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
23. Thing is, more progressive believers (and there are many) tend to be the furthest removed from
Tue May 20, 2014, 06:48 PM
May 2014

"traditional" literalism RE: the holy books of their faith. The most progressive Christian denominations are arguably those that deviate the most from taking the Bible literally.

So at base level, I think Tsiyu is right.

11 Bravo

(23,926 posts)
18. If it's just your opinion, perhaps you shouldn't describe it as "beyond a shadow of a doubt".
Tue May 20, 2014, 01:14 PM
May 2014

Seems more than a little bit contradictory.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
26. You realize that is a bronze age religion
Tue May 20, 2014, 07:09 PM
May 2014

and that there are branches within all these faiths, from the ultra orthodox that fit your views to a T, to ultra liberal who believe in a god, but use the positive tenets of their respective faiths to better the world?

I am an atheist, ok. I grew up within Judaism, but you my dear are making the kind of broad brushes that drove me away from the ultra religious.

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
29. I am not asking anyone to follow me in to broadbrush land
Tue May 20, 2014, 10:45 PM
May 2014

But I can wonder aloud why any woman would willingly support religions that demean, demonize and call for different rights and punishments if one is a woman.

I have many friends and family of every faith known to man. I am not calling for them to go to hell, to stop going to church, nor am I proposing their churches be outlawed.

However, I am allowed to think that anyone following an Abrahamic code - in a faith that doesn't like birth control, that is bigoted against gender, orientation, other religions etc, that demands you "submit to your husband" - is someone I do not understand.

It's like a minority joining the KKK or a gun control advocate joining the NRA. You can, but why would you?

It's just a question. If it scares anyone, they should ask themselves why.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
30. Because the most liberal sections of Judaism have women rabies and cantors
Tue May 20, 2014, 10:52 PM
May 2014

and Suffies are far from what you are talking about, and Unitarians are extremely tolerant and were the first to marry LGBT couples and are open to women equality.

Like all institutions they evolve. The ones who are scared shitless of that evolution are fighting back, but that broad brush will NOT get you many friends.

And no, they are not like the KKK, not one bit. It is those progressive branches that led this country in social justice movements, or have you forgotten about MLK, or for that matter the Quakers that led the Anti Slavery movement?

You and your broad brushes, you are not better than the worst of them, and just as intolerant. And if this gets hidden by a jury, so be it.

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
31. If my opinion is so frightening, too bad
Tue May 20, 2014, 10:57 PM
May 2014

I was just saying to another poster that of course some of the Abrahamic religions do good things.

But the basis of their religions are tomes that hate women at their core.

I can't decide which bible verses I like best: the one where if you're raped and you don't cry out you should be stoned, or the one in Judges where the woman is cut up into twelve pieces. Or maybe it's where Paul said wymmins should just shut up and cover their heads and leave the menz to the important stuff

Lovely literary work.

And I am not calling for any harm to come to anyone of any faith, unlike many Christians who think i'm going to hell and WANT me there! I live in a place where they post the ten commandments at the courthouse. Believe me, I have to practice religious tolerance just to pay my taxes and do business in my county. Because if I said anything, the Christians would have my head on a pike.





 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
33. No, frightening is NOT the word you should be using
Tue May 20, 2014, 11:03 PM
May 2014

The correct word is intolerant.

And many Christians, who are extremely loud, are a few loud mouths.

Look, as a Jew, we have quite the healthy antisemitism going. I have a passport ready to go all the time. It is what it is. You are, and truly have never been THAT persecuted as a minority. These days, it is less likely even.

As to the Bible, yes, it has some horrific passages, do you even care for the history of it? Or that it was written by four different teams of scribes, or why those passages are there? I don't expect you to have that curiosity. I guess you would prefer if we burned it, all of them.

But no, frightening is not the word you are looking for. It is intolerant. And you are being just as intolerant as they are. Congrats.

If you want to have a live, let live world, well, my dear... you do not use broad brushes for starters.... Especially since you will need the cooperation of allies in the Progressive religious communities.

And again, if this is hid by a jury so be it.

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
36. Intolerance would be demanding people stop believing
Tue May 20, 2014, 11:28 PM
May 2014

Intolerance would be wanting to lock them away for believing.

Intolerance would be discriminating against them in my daily work, which I do not


Intolerance would be picketing in front of their many churches.

Listen, at a board meeting last week, some of the Christians - hell they're all Christians - were going to "lecture me" because it is their goal to 'save" me. They cannot accept that I do not follow their faith.

Thankfully the work I'd been doing became the focus, and they could not deny the value of that and dropped the religious manipulation crap.

I never tell them what I think of their faith. You would not believe the number of people who want me to come to Jesus. I smile and I'm polite, but how would they feel if I were to tell them they should become pagans?

I am in a safe place on DU venting my feelings. There is no intolerance here except anyone who wants me to shut up because I make them uncomfortable. And tough shit if anyone feels uncomfortable with my opinion.

You don't have to share it. But you don't have to tell me my opinion makes me intolerant either. You do not know the definition of the word.



 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
8. Yes. Religion is the scourge of humanity, and women in particular.
Mon May 19, 2014, 11:12 PM
May 2014

It's all about control and power.

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
9. Women need to say 'stuff it"
Mon May 19, 2014, 11:35 PM
May 2014

I can see why a man would love those faiths.

If I were a guy, I'd love to hear that a male deity created everything ( here on earth you gotta have both genders durnit ) that women had to submit to me, that it's all Eve's fault everything in the world went to hell.

And all the other claptrap dingaling notions those ignorant goat herders penned in their lonely hours hatin' on the wymminz.

But why would any woman accept such misogynist dogma?

I never will get it. I suppose "tradition" and "habit" trump good old common sense and self-preservation.

I hope this man is able to save his wife from the Sudanese woman-haters. No religion is worth that crap.






 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
10. Yeah, I don't get it. I've sat through misogynistic Catholic wedding ceremonies.
Mon May 19, 2014, 11:38 PM
May 2014

That was enough to make my blood boil. I couldn't handle listening to that bullshit week after week, let alone doing things like being covered from head to toe so as not to tempt the poor, weak men.

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
16. I've been to a wedding where the preacher served up
Tue May 20, 2014, 11:54 AM
May 2014

a frothing-at-the-mouth sermon on the evils of the "Women's liberation movement" and how women were destroying the very foundation of all that men hold dear.

My mom and I just grabbed each others hands and stifled our horrified laughter.



Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
22. Indeed
Tue May 20, 2014, 06:35 PM
May 2014

I am amazed at American women who buy into the Southern Baptist, Roman Catholic, Mormon etc mindset.

Many will say they don't really agree with all the misogyny, but then why support it at all?




BTW: rocktivity posted a link below to a petition and for an e-mail letter ( which you can adapt ) to the Sudanese embassy in support of the woman.

To think, she is a physician who could save many, many lives!

Instead, the ignorant men of her ignorant country would kill her in cold blood.

How can Sudan ever hope to rise above their bloody past, when they keep making it flow?

Sometimes you just gotta wish there really was some just deity up there, but if there is one, I've yet to see it.

rocktivity

(44,576 posts)
20. Even their double standards have double standards
Tue May 20, 2014, 04:09 PM
May 2014

Last edited Thu May 29, 2014, 07:22 PM - Edit history (4)

Wikipedia: Mariam Yahia Ibrahim Ishag...was born to a Muslim father, who left her mother to bring her up alone from when she was very young, and an Ethiopian Orthodox Christian mother. She was raised in her mother's faith...She was reportedly turned in to the authorities by one of her relatives who claimed Mariam was committing adultery by marrying Daniel Wani, a Christian...

Three of (their son's) grandparents - both his paternal grandparents, and his maternal grandmother - were Christian from birth...but the authorities have stated that as the absentee maternal grandfather that he never met was a Muslim...he cannot legally be raised by his Christian father.

She was sentenced to death on 15 May 2014 for allegedly committing apostasy from Islam, because although she says she has always been a Christian, the prosecution claimed she should have followed the faith of her absent father, and demanded, with the support of the judge, that she abandon her Christian faith. She...refused, arguing that she had been a Christian all her life, and could not rescind her beliefs at the request of a court.

Does that mean if both Wani's in-laws were Christian, this wouldn't be happening? Sure, they took away his parental rights, but not only does the court see Daniel Wani as blameless, he is apparently able to enter and leave Sudan with absolutely no fear of ending up in his-and-her jail cells!


rocktivity

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
21. How confusing is all that legalistic mishmosh? Geez Louise
Tue May 20, 2014, 06:08 PM
May 2014

Bottom line: the ignorant "religious" want some blood and she's their latest victim.

Because their god likes them killing women I guess. Great Allah they got going there. He's a misogynist beast who wants human sacrifice. Or at least, they get to SAY he wants human sacrifice.

What the Muslims here are saying: "human life has no value to us or to Allah." .

Yippee.. Gotta Love that old tyme religion!

Donald Ian Rankin

(13,598 posts)
13. I think it's unfair to Christianity and Judaism to lump them in with Islam
Tue May 20, 2014, 03:27 AM
May 2014

Atrocities like this do happen in non-Muslim societies, but much, much more rarely.

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
17. I'm sorry, perhaps you haven't noticed the THOUSANDS of bills
Tue May 20, 2014, 12:07 PM
May 2014

introduced by religious republicans and teabagger nutjobs demanding women undergo forced vaginal penetration and other hideous invasions of their privacy merely because they possess a uterus?

The rightwing nutjob Christians would stone us to death for having orgasms and clitori if they could, of that I have no doubt. They say asinine, misogynist things like "A woman's body just shuts down that whole pregnancy thing when she's raped." The law prevents them from stoning us just yet, but the religious fundies have practically eliminated access to an abortion in many states, because CHRISTIAN. How many women, forced to carry a child to term, might die from this forced pregnancy? Who knows? Who cares? Because JESUS.

In TN, they just passed a draconian law regarding pregnant women and drugs. No, pregnant women should not do drugs, but severely punishing them is going to lead to fewer poor women getting care for their unborn or themselves out of fear.

Your fundy Christian and Jewish misogynists - with their rules on separating the genders and dress codes and purity balls and women must submit to men crap - show us exactly where they stand on the issue of women and their freedom to choose ANYTHING.

The number one killer of pregnant women in the US is murder, and I don't doubt that many of the men who murder their wives are fundy nutjobs,

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
32. I agree completely
Tue May 20, 2014, 11:01 PM
May 2014

There are good Christian, Jewish and Muslim people.

It's their religious texts I loathe, and the Christian bible is as misogynist as the rest

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
37. As a "cradle Catholic" (albeit non-practicing) I agree on basically all points.
Tue May 20, 2014, 11:30 PM
May 2014

I haven't read the Bible cover to cover, but much of what I have read makes a good case (unintentionally) for non-belief.

In all fairness, though, having gone to relatively liberal Catholic schools growing up, I do think the more social justice oriented side of Catholicism has had a definite effect on my quasi-socialist beliefs. Feeding the hungry and housing the homeless should be the bare minimum for a civilized society, but we've failed miserably at that.

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
39. Yes, all faiths seem to try to tack a few "good works" onto their to-do list
Tue May 20, 2014, 11:35 PM
May 2014

But when you see the vast wealth the Roman Catholic church has, you realize they could wipe out poverty in many nations with all their treasures alone.

"Lay not up for yourselves treasures on earth." The Catholics, and most faiths, don't even follow this most basic rule!

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
44. Absolutely. Putting money before doing God's will is idolatry, but they do just that, constantly.
Tue May 20, 2014, 11:40 PM
May 2014

I'm not saying I believe in "God's will" per se, but they contradict the very tenets of their own faith.

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
45. But don't YOU contradict their legalistic rules on Birth control!
Tue May 20, 2014, 11:47 PM
May 2014


You will be excommunicated!

I just finished a book by a Mormon. The day they were "let go" from that faith was the happiest day of their life.

I see excommunication as a gift!

Like the Episcopal church here bans people from their little "town" if they don't like you. The Episcopalians in TN got all up in arms because a fundy church in Chattanooga excommunicated a member who kept visiting her gay daughter.

I nearly spit out my lunch reading the condemnation of the local Episcopalians against this fundy church.

"But you people ban people from an entire TOWN for less!" I said to no one.

If you bring this up to the 'good" Episcopalians in that town, they give all sorts of excuses.

No denomination is without some sort of evil 'control' over someone else.

csziggy

(34,136 posts)
35. Only at this point in time
Tue May 20, 2014, 11:17 PM
May 2014

Look at the history of Christianity and Judaism. Both have had their eras of rampant anti--women activities. Just because those attitudes are slightly in abeyance at the moment does not mean they will not return at any point.

Religions like governments should never be trusted blindly.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
43. If not for the last few hundred years of increasing secularism, we'd essentially be living under
Tue May 20, 2014, 11:38 PM
May 2014

Christian theocracy. And there are many who wish to move us closer to just that.

csziggy

(34,136 posts)
47. Exactly
Wed May 21, 2014, 10:01 AM
May 2014

And growing up in the South with family members who lived and preached in the Bible belt, I know all too well what the fundamentalists want. And it is not a system I would want to lived under being far too much like "The Handmaid's Tale."

question everything

(47,486 posts)
34. Which makes the cancellation, by Brandeis University, of Ayaan Hirsi Ali so maddening
Tue May 20, 2014, 11:06 PM
May 2014

She exposed the way women are being treated in Muslim countries and is considered: "Islam Hater."

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
38. Yes, I'm beginning to see that any DESERVED criticism of the Abrahamic faiths
Tue May 20, 2014, 11:30 PM
May 2014

is now viewed as " intolerance."

I guess if your imaginary sky daddy tells you to enslave and murder women, you get a pass...



Drew Richards

(1,558 posts)
3. I wonder how much financial aid we give these nut jobs...any is too much.
Mon May 19, 2014, 09:20 PM
May 2014

Whats that you say? Over 8 billion since 2005 and still they act like 9th century primitives...go figure.

Dorian Gray

(13,496 posts)
14. Her husband is an American citizen?
Tue May 20, 2014, 07:03 AM
May 2014

We need to make her an American Citizen and insist that she is sent to the USA immediately. Make this a diplomatic emergency.

Response to Dorian Gray (Reply #14)

rocktivity

(44,576 posts)
19. If they married in the U.S. after 2005, that could work
Tue May 20, 2014, 03:55 PM
May 2014

But it would depend on when and where they married. It doesn't sound as though she ever left Sudan:

Meriam Yahia Ibrahim Ishag, a 27-year-old physician who is eight months pregnant with her second child, was convicted under the Islamic sharia law that has been in force in Sudan since 1983...

Meriam’s husband, Daniel Wani, was pronounced innocent but their marriage was revoked and...the court considered his wife a Muslim. Wani, a Sudanese man with US citizenship who lives in Manchester in New Hampshire, is now in Sudan...(A) US citizen since 2005, (he) went to Sudan almost a year ago to arrange for his wife and child to move to New Hampshire, where (he) and his brother Gabriel Wani immigrated in 1998...

“...(T)he revoking of this marriage means that my son is no longer my son and the one coming...will not be my son — so this innocence means nothing...” Reuters news agency reported.

"He tried to do the best for his family. He left his wife over there and came back here for his business,” Gabriel Wani told New Hampshire Union Leader.

Wani, who uses a wheelchair, is not allowed to care for their 22-month-old son Martin because he is a Christian and is banned from visiting him or his wife in prison...
link



rocktivity

Boomerproud

(7,955 posts)
25. Horrific story and situation for the woman and her family.
Tue May 20, 2014, 07:02 PM
May 2014

I can only hope justice and common sense prevail. I will continue to follow this closely.

 

seveneyes

(4,631 posts)
27. Can she renounce her Christianity, join the Muslim cult and then get the hell out of there?
Tue May 20, 2014, 07:24 PM
May 2014

That would be the wise thing to do if at all possible.

Marrah_G

(28,581 posts)
46. The state deptartment needs to put some pressure on Sudan
Tue May 20, 2014, 11:48 PM
May 2014

Is the glee of killing a woman for not following the religion of her father, who abandoned her as an infant, leaving her to be raised in her mother's religion and then marrying a man of the same faith she has had all her life worth,the loss of billions in aid? I am sure the government would rethink thinks if the aid and dollars were completely cut off.

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