rather than walking home, did he ever offer to meet you at work and walk you home? Or was he too 'lazy' to do that?

But, as you say, I can't see how it would be any of his business, unless maybe you had trouble coming up with your share of the rent, and he was arguing simply about the expense. It doesn't sound like that's the case from what you wrote, though.

Doesn't sound like the kind of area I'd want to be out walking around after midnight in, even as a hefty male.

saying i am an abusive mother, i need to be investigated, how much damage i do to my sons, abuse my husband, i am a drunk, druggie and the ugliest things said about me, and meh.

threads started trashing me

posts in threads, trashing me

OPs on du and takes hours for hosts to decide to lock. and skinner does nothing to the poster.

i am FAR from the ONLY poster on du talking about this issue. hof members are FAR from the ONLY people talking about this issue. but, cause i dare to participate in any of these threads, that warrants the most vile personal attacks against me. and it is my fault. i deserve. i am playing the victim for even mentioning this.

i do not start the Ops in gd. yet, i am responsible for ALL the Ops in gd about womens issues, as are a few other gals. i am responsible for all the hundreds of other people making comments and support on womens issues.

youngdem has over 156 rec.

yet. a group of petty people, men who want to use harassment to shut me up, can zero in on one person and harass at will.

and that.... seems to be just fine, way too often.


I Am Not an Angry Feminist. I'm a Furious One.


being furious at the contempt, the nasty, the vile.... makes us the bad people, the deserving.

i want to know how this works. cause it makes NO sense in the sane world.

Glad he realized it later and apologized.

That whole safety thing becomes pretty obvious early in life.