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Omaha Steve

(99,618 posts)
Thu Jun 12, 2014, 09:34 PM Jun 2014

Strangers Shamed This Mother for Doing the Most Natural Thing in the World (boob photo warning)


DO NOT CONTINUE PAST THIS POINT IF YOU ARE AT WORK!!!!!

In the privacy of your home with the drapes closed?

Please continue.

OS

http://www.takepart.com/article/2014/06/11/strangers-shamed-this-mom-for-doing-what-comes-naturally?cmpid=tpdaily-eml-2014-06-12

After a photo of Karlesha Thurman nursing her baby at her college graduation went viral, the mom found out just how awful the breast-feeding backlash can be.

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(Photo: KiaraxBlanco/Twitter)


June 11, 2014 By Liz Dwyer

Staff Writer Liz Dwyer has written about race, parenting, and social justice for several national publications. She was previously education editor at GOOD.

Krlesha Thurman had no idea that a photo of her doing one of the most natural things in the world could cause such a controversy. But after an image of the 25-year-old mom breast-feeding her four-month-old daughter, Aaliyah, during her graduation from California State University Long Beach went viral, Thurman is finding out just how heated the debate about nursing in public can be.

A fellow classmate snapped the photo of Thurman while the recent grad was sitting in her seat, feeding her daughter. Thurman shared it on a Facebook group that encourages African American mothers to nurse their babies. Next thing she knew, strangers were using social media to shame her.

“I do not care how natural breast feeding is, a college graduation is not the place…decorum, people,” commented one Twitter user. “Maybe I still have sleep in my eyes but did I just see a pic of a chick really breastfeeding during middle of her graduation?” tweeted another. Those are the nice comments. Other social media users called Thurman names and accused her of being promiscuous.

FULL story at link.



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Strangers Shamed This Mother for Doing the Most Natural Thing in the World (boob photo warning) (Original Post) Omaha Steve Jun 2014 OP
That women is a hero to me. I LOVE her!!! vanlassie Jun 2014 #1
Mom should be proud all around. baldguy Jun 2014 #2
Heaven forbid we use the darn things for their intended purpose! DeadLetterOffice Jun 2014 #3
Agree with everything you wrote laundry_queen Jun 2014 #6
me too Dorian Gray Jun 2014 #8
Mine EYES... a woman using that god given equipment nadinbrzezinski Jun 2014 #4
Thanks for posting this! Duppers Jun 2014 #5
Congratulations to Karlesha! pinboy3niner Jun 2014 #7
How could anyone have Dorian Gray Jun 2014 #9

DeadLetterOffice

(1,352 posts)
3. Heaven forbid we use the darn things for their intended purpose!
Thu Jun 12, 2014, 09:53 PM
Jun 2014

Especially in public!
Without a blanket covering everything up!
What on earth IS this world coming to?!?


When my first child was 8 days old, my mother-in-law asked: "You're not going to nurse him until he's old enough to ask for it, like Mary did, are you?!?" We continued to have these types of supportive pep-talks for the next 3 1/2 years until my son weaned. And then we had them again for 2 1/2 years when my second son came along.

I will never understand WTF is the big deal about feeding babies the way they've been fed for 99.999% of the time humans have existed.

laundry_queen

(8,646 posts)
6. Agree with everything you wrote
Fri Jun 13, 2014, 03:59 AM
Jun 2014

I breastfed all 4 of my kids for a lot longer than the norm (we did child-led weaning). I got all those comments too. My own parents were the worst. Oh the stories I could tell.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
4. Mine EYES... a woman using that god given equipment
Thu Jun 12, 2014, 09:55 PM
Jun 2014

for it's intended purpose!!!!!!

We as a society are truly sick.

pinboy3niner

(53,339 posts)
7. Congratulations to Karlesha!
Fri Jun 13, 2014, 04:04 AM
Jun 2014

It can be difficult enough finishing college without a baby. More power to this proud mom!

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