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gollygee

(22,336 posts)
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 10:47 AM Jun 2014

18 Things White People Should Know/Do Before Discussing Racism

I didn't write this obviously but it covers a lot of the issues that come up here. I'll post the first four paragraphs per DU's rules:

http://t.thefrisky.com/all/2014-06-12-18-things-white-people-should-knowdo-before-discussing-racism#1

1. It is uncomfortable to talk about racism. It is more uncomfortable to live it.

2. “Colorblindness” is a cop-out. The statements “but I don’t see color” or “I never care about color” do not help to build a case against systemic racism. Try being the only White person in an environment. You will notice color then.

3. Oprah’s success does not mean the end of racism. The singular success of a Black man or woman (i.e. Oprah, or Tiger Woods, or President Obama) is never a valid argument against the existence of racism. By this logic, the success of Frederick Douglas or Amanda America Dickson during the 19th century would be grounds for disproving slavery.

4. Reverse racism is BS, but prejudice is not. Until people of color colonize, dominate and enslave the populations of the planet in the name of “superiority,” create standards of beauty based on their own colored definition, enact a system where only people of color benefit on a large-scale, and finally pretend like said system no longer exists, there is no such thing as reverse racism. Prejudice is in all of us, but prejudice employed as a governing structure is something different.

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18 Things White People Should Know/Do Before Discussing Racism (Original Post) gollygee Jun 2014 OP
#1: Stop telling white people what to know/do. SMC22307 Jun 2014 #1
I think the point is more that Erich Bloodaxe BSN Jun 2014 #3
Thanks Erich, I'm here to learn not to quibble with the choir. saidsimplesimon Jun 2014 #21
Why are you thanking Erich Bloodaxe for that response? gollygee Jun 2014 #37
oops, gollygee, to many screens opened...sorry, saidsimplesimon Jun 2014 #41
A whole lot of white people need a whole lot of telling. McCamy Taylor Jun 2014 #5
I wonder how many years have racial discussions been stopped on DU because Baitball Blogger Jun 2014 #26
The Republicans have been telling Southerners the Democrats are the Party of Black People.... Spitfire of ATJ Jun 2014 #38
I do recall how hard the pundits were pushing with the meme that Democrats ARE Baitball Blogger Jun 2014 #51
Some need help seeing their blind spots and ignorance. bettyellen Jun 2014 #7
Well thanks for that bit of staggering ignorance. LeftyMom Jun 2014 #12
so, you fail the colorblind point Kali Jun 2014 #15
What do you care about? Want to share with the rest of the class? Tuesday Afternoon Jun 2014 #19
yes, lets pretend that white people understand or experience racism similarly to POC La Lioness Priyanka Jun 2014 #23
i agree on all three of your points Enrique Jun 2014 #29
How is anything written here about telling you what to do? underthematrix Jun 2014 #32
... Scootaloo Jun 2014 #76
I don't quite follow #12. Erich Bloodaxe BSN Jun 2014 #2
That might be speculation based on the past gollygee Jun 2014 #4
But the folly in that is that it will shift, and thus nothing changes for the better Harmony Blue Jun 2014 #6
This is some kind of riddle gollygee Jun 2014 #33
I hope it isn't some version of "It's not racism, white people/Latinos just work harder!" nomorenomore08 Jun 2014 #55
I'm old enough to remember when the racists were claiming Italians weren't really "white". Spitfire of ATJ Jun 2014 #39
Many of these actually make sense, which is unusual for this sort of list. Donald Ian Rankin Jun 2014 #8
I actually agree that the term "reverse racism" is "BS". Nye Bevan Jun 2014 #10
Yes, absolutely. Donald Ian Rankin Jun 2014 #16
Actually, no. Erich Bloodaxe BSN Jun 2014 #40
No, racism has nothing whatsoever to do with power, they're completely orthogonal concepts. Donald Ian Rankin Jun 2014 #44
Ah, deja vu. Erich Bloodaxe BSN Jun 2014 #48
Quite possibly. Donald Ian Rankin Jun 2014 #50
Well, black people with whom I've worked take the prejudice + power definition; they all agree. So, ancianita Jun 2014 #53
Of course I am (assuming that you accurately describe their views). Donald Ian Rankin Jun 2014 #56
Heh heh. The oppressed get to define the terms of their oppression. Opposing that is to be on the ancianita Jun 2014 #57
I agree with you! JustAnotherGen Jun 2014 #59
... ancianita Jun 2014 #64
Hey DIR! JustAnotherGen Jun 2014 #58
I, meanwhile, will stick with the lexicographers. N.T. Donald Ian Rankin Jun 2014 #60
Because the lexicographer definition 1StrongBlackMan Jun 2014 #72
What about all the social scientists that disagree with you. eom 1StrongBlackMan Jun 2014 #71
So scientists don't get to 1StrongBlackMan Jun 2014 #70
yep...that's him noiretextatique Jun 2014 #79
Just about every Post- Civil Rights era .. 1StrongBlackMan Jun 2014 #68
Wow, now you're adding disclaimers about racial discrimination too! bettyellen Jun 2014 #89
It's not BS for the reason you think. It's bs because prejudice is prejudice when coming from any ancianita Jun 2014 #54
And ... 1StrongBlackMan Jun 2014 #73
Exactly! Any group -- let's say, fraternity hazing that singles out a race, or cops who profile or ancianita Jun 2014 #85
11 is dangerous nonsense? gollygee Jun 2014 #35
Post removed Post removed Jun 2014 #42
I'm concerned about #2; my kids have friends of several races, and don't appear to care about color. Nye Bevan Jun 2014 #9
No, you just have to remind them that other people aren't. Donald Ian Rankin Jun 2014 #13
Bravo JustAnotherGen Jun 2014 #61
i think you need to understand what colorblind policies mean to POC La Lioness Priyanka Jun 2014 #24
+1 nomorenomore08 Jun 2014 #65
More and more kids today... Scratchem Jun 2014 #62
Can we discuss it honestly without needing a list? LittleBlue Jun 2014 #11
"Honest" is no substitute for "correct". N.T. Donald Ian Rankin Jun 2014 #14
"Correct" sounds like an attempt to end discussion before it begins LittleBlue Jun 2014 #17
Yes, it's essentially an attempt to end discussion; that's what "discussion" *is*! Donald Ian Rankin Jun 2014 #18
Actually JustAnotherGen Jun 2014 #63
The thought is that gollygee Jun 2014 #28
You explained it very well. Thank you. n/t nomorenomore08 Jun 2014 #66
Things White People Should Know/Do Before Discussing "American" Racism AlbertCat Jun 2014 #20
Racism in Asia Rebubula Jun 2014 #27
What do you mean we are not the worst? FrodosPet Jun 2014 #84
This is obviously for an American audience. gollygee Jun 2014 #31
I know, huh ... 1StrongBlackMan Jun 2014 #86
We don't get to leave it dirty because someone else has dirty laundry of their own. AlbertCat Jun 2014 #92
Only 18 ? Bonx Jun 2014 #22
Isn't this racism? Boom Sound 416 Jun 2014 #25
Don't miss this one. wryter2000 Jun 2014 #30
i'm sure these are all reasonable points Enrique Jun 2014 #34
So you don't disagree with it gollygee Jun 2014 #36
Don't judge a book by it's cover smallcat88 Jun 2014 #43
Because your point wouldnt have been the same iamthebandfanman Jun 2014 #45
Is there some reason this one particular OP should have Erich Bloodaxe BSN Jun 2014 #82
Well I for one am feeling a little more encouraged. FreedRadical Jun 2014 #46
Reading the comments thus far, I think he missed a point. Erich Bloodaxe BSN Jun 2014 #47
You just said a mouthful right there. Amen. Tuesday Afternoon Jun 2014 #49
defensiveness is inevitable Enrique Jun 2014 #52
defensiveness is not inevitable noiretextatique Jun 2014 #81
+2 nomorenomore08 Jun 2014 #67
Does it really where anyone starts with their position? LittleBlue Jun 2014 #69
amen noiretextatique Jun 2014 #80
Thanks for posting this. bravenak Jun 2014 #74
Two comments: Jamaal510 Jun 2014 #75
Great book ... 1StrongBlackMan Jun 2014 #87
Agreed. Jamaal510 Jun 2014 #90
I'll add another Warpy Jun 2014 #77
When I try to link to it, I just see a web page that's black. What gives? nt raccoon Jun 2014 #78
Well, it loads slowly, for one. Erich Bloodaxe BSN Jun 2014 #83
This is some old video from a lesson taught by a teacher in the form of an experiment. Skidmore Jun 2014 #88
I had a recent experience that was not good nadinbrzezinski Jun 2014 #91

SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
1. #1: Stop telling white people what to know/do.
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 10:54 AM
Jun 2014

(That's directed to the author, not you. And I couldn't care less re: the author's skin color.)

Erich Bloodaxe BSN

(14,733 posts)
3. I think the point is more that
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 10:59 AM
Jun 2014

you shouldn't enter any discussion from a point of ignorance, unless you're entering it simply from a 'I'm trying to learn through this discussion'.

I might quibble with one or two things on the list, but it looks pretty solid in terms of things you really should know before simply barging into a discussion of racial issues and making statements that only end up making you look stupid for having made them.

saidsimplesimon

(7,888 posts)
21. Thanks Erich, I'm here to learn not to quibble with the choir.
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 01:15 PM
Jun 2014

I suspect we have a few Rand Paul young'ins in the mix. OK by me, if they do not try dirty tricks like the guy in AZ who lost as a Repub candidate. He registered as a Dem and changed his name to Caesar Chavez.

Then we have the teapublican supporters locked in an area where votes were stored and counted. Teapublicans, and their founders the Libertarians, who worship greed, care more about avoiding taxes than creating a government that reflects the view of the majority (that's US folks, check the polls).

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
37. Why are you thanking Erich Bloodaxe for that response?
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 01:40 PM
Jun 2014

He wasn't responding to you but you're responding very much as if it was an answer to your question.

saidsimplesimon

(7,888 posts)
41. oops, gollygee, to many screens opened...sorry,
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 01:49 PM
Jun 2014

if I answer my own questions, wrong diary? It's the best in critical thinking, or so I was educated to believe.

McCamy Taylor

(19,240 posts)
5. A whole lot of white people need a whole lot of telling.
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 11:23 AM
Jun 2014

And any white person who is not out there telling them is also part of the problem. So, if you are white and you stand by when some of your white brothers and sisters are getting ugly and racist in the safety of their all white environment and you feel uncomfortable---that is not doing anything. If you feel smug because you are not making any racist comments yourself and because you are judging them for doing it----that is really not doing anything.

On the other hand, if you make sure that they know that what they are saying is unacceptable, and if you do not do it from a position of power---i.e you are the teacher and they are students---that is doing something.

So, instead of telling people to stop telling white people, how about you go tell some white people yourself? There are a whole lot of them out there. I know. I am pretty damn pale myself, with all this naturally blond hair, and when I'm around, strange white folks sort of lose their inhibitions and let all that racism hang out as if they think I'm gonna go along. They go all freaky when I don't. As if the world has turned upside down. Maybe they need their world turned upside down. Maybe if more little old white ladies turned their world upside down, it would shake some of the stupid out of their heads and they would see that racism is a tool used by the Man to keep an underpaid workforce available to drive down the wages of all workers---and that is all that it is.

Baitball Blogger

(46,703 posts)
26. I wonder how many years have racial discussions been stopped on DU because
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 01:23 PM
Jun 2014

of the fear that the topic would divide the Democratic party. For goodness sakes. If fighting racism IS part of the Democratic platform, why is there so much hesitance to talk about it? If DU began in 2001, I would have expected members of all races to understand the issue from a minority perspective by now.

I have to pinch myself to remember we're in the 21st Century.

 

Spitfire of ATJ

(32,723 posts)
38. The Republicans have been telling Southerners the Democrats are the Party of Black People....
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 01:44 PM
Jun 2014

Only they didn't say "Black People".

The DLC did a knee jerk denial and the "Common Wisdom" claimed the ONLY Dem that could win the presidency was one from the South.

(This is what happens when you let the enemy set the rules.)

Baitball Blogger

(46,703 posts)
51. I do recall how hard the pundits were pushing with the meme that Democrats ARE
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 03:03 PM
Jun 2014

conservative. This was in the years before Obama won the presidency. It was Chris Matthews who was supporting this field of thought.

I would say that the source of all of our problems are rooted in the same evil. You just need to hear minorities out, because they won't forgive the 1001 infractions that go on every day that are used to make excuses for the foundation of lies that bolster a dichotomous society.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
7. Some need help seeing their blind spots and ignorance.
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 12:20 PM
Jun 2014

And your post is a sad example of misunderstanding the first point.

LeftyMom

(49,212 posts)
12. Well thanks for that bit of staggering ignorance.
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 12:29 PM
Jun 2014

Coffee wasn't quite doing the job and now I'm definitely awake. Wow.

Kali

(55,007 posts)
15. so, you fail the colorblind point
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 12:35 PM
Jun 2014

and you seem defensive about people informing white people how they might behave in a more sensitive manner when discussing actual racism.

Did you want to whine about the gay agenda and radfems too?

 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
23. yes, lets pretend that white people understand or experience racism similarly to POC
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 01:19 PM
Jun 2014

hence they don't need to be told anything different.

underthematrix

(5,811 posts)
32. How is anything written here about telling you what to do?
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 01:31 PM
Jun 2014

I've never understood that. Think and do what you like.

Erich Bloodaxe BSN

(14,733 posts)
2. I don't quite follow #12.
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 10:56 AM
Jun 2014

Is the author simply saying 'white' will be redefined to include Hispanic, thus ending the chances of 'white' being a minority probably for centuries?

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
4. That might be speculation based on the past
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 11:04 AM
Jun 2014

Race is a social construct and we have always defined it in whatever way best benefits us. If it benefits us to change the definition again, we will.

Harmony Blue

(3,978 posts)
6. But the folly in that is that it will shift, and thus nothing changes for the better
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 11:29 AM
Jun 2014

in L.A. we see it already with the Latino voting bloc coming into power and many of the other minorities looking at them as more privileged. Nothing good can come from tearing down success and self empowerment.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
33. This is some kind of riddle
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 01:32 PM
Jun 2014

How does fighting racism equal "tearing down success and self empowerment?"

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
55. I hope it isn't some version of "It's not racism, white people/Latinos just work harder!"
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 03:30 PM
Jun 2014

But given some of the other posts I've read, I'm not too optimistic.

Donald Ian Rankin

(13,598 posts)
8. Many of these actually make sense, which is unusual for this sort of list.
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 12:24 PM
Jun 2014

4 is nonsense, 11 is dangerous nonsense, and 9 and 13 are highly questionable, but most of the others seem reasonable.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
10. I actually agree that the term "reverse racism" is "BS".
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 12:28 PM
Jun 2014

Racism is racism, regardless of what racial group someone is being racist against.

Donald Ian Rankin

(13,598 posts)
16. Yes, absolutely.
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 12:35 PM
Jun 2014

A few people are uncomfortable acknowledging that racism is not just evil whites prejudiced against virtuous minorities, and want to redefine the word to make themselves more comfortable; I think this trend should be resisted.

Erich Bloodaxe BSN

(14,733 posts)
40. Actually, no.
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 01:47 PM
Jun 2014

And is has nothing to do with who is 'virtuous' or 'evil'.

Racism requires power, the power to actually create consequences that benefit one racial group at the expense of another. In the US, white people have historically had control of that power, and still do.

You're confusing racism with bigotry. People of any race can be racially bigoted against any other race. Bigots can be racists, racists can be bigoted, but you can be bigoted without having the power to be racist. And you can be racist (in the sense that you belong to a group that benefits from racially-aligned policies, mores, and laws) without being a bigot.

And that has nothing to do with me being any more 'comfortable' in my pasty white skin.

Donald Ian Rankin

(13,598 posts)
44. No, racism has nothing whatsoever to do with power, they're completely orthogonal concepts.
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 01:54 PM
Jun 2014

I'm not confusing racism with racial bigotry, I'm (correctly) using them as essentially synonyms; you're trying to create an incorrect distinction between them.

"Belonging to a group that benefits from racially-aligned policies" is nothing whatsoever to do with being a racist, either.

Racial *discrimination* requires at least some power (although many non-white people have sufficient power to indulge in it).

Erich Bloodaxe BSN

(14,733 posts)
48. Ah, deja vu.
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 02:19 PM
Jun 2014

I think I've had this exchange with you before. If so, you're the guy who ignores all of the sociological work done on racism and instead stands by the elementary definition of racism provided by some dictionary somewhere. If not, you sound just like him.

Donald Ian Rankin

(13,598 posts)
50. Quite possibly.
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 02:51 PM
Jun 2014

Certainly, I think that what words mean is defined by social consensus and best learned from lexicographers (lexicographers plural, not "some dictionary somewhere&quot , not from sociologists.

So if it wasn't me, it was probably someone I'd agree with, at least about that.

A lexicographer will set out to tell you what a word actually does mean, their agenda is accuracy. A sociologist will - too often -set out to tell you what they think a word ought to mean, sometimes honestly, and sometimes trying to misrepresent that as what it actually does mean.

ancianita

(36,053 posts)
53. Well, black people with whom I've worked take the prejudice + power definition; they all agree. So,
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 03:26 PM
Jun 2014

are you actually going to tell them that the way they define racism is wrong, then?

Donald Ian Rankin

(13,598 posts)
56. Of course I am (assuming that you accurately describe their views).
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 03:31 PM
Jun 2014

"I have black friends who disagree with you" is not a compelling argument, I'm afraid.

ancianita

(36,053 posts)
57. Heh heh. The oppressed get to define the terms of their oppression. Opposing that is to be on the
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 03:34 PM
Jun 2014

side of those who benefit from unequal power relations.

JustAnotherGen

(31,819 posts)
58. Hey DIR!
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 03:36 PM
Jun 2014

I'm your new black friend! And I disagree with you. I agree with all the blacks I know in America.

You probably know different black folks than my friends and family - but now you know one like us!

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
89. Wow, now you're adding disclaimers about racial discrimination too!
Tue Jun 17, 2014, 08:58 AM
Jun 2014

It appears you think the institutional racism doesn't exist as a serious problem (why keep bringing up these exceptions) - or that people should be denied the terminology used by social scientists for the last 40 years. Or both?

ancianita

(36,053 posts)
54. It's not BS for the reason you think. It's bs because prejudice is prejudice when coming from any
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 03:30 PM
Jun 2014

group, but its public expression in systematic discrimination is racism.

Not wanting to sit next to a person of color is prejudice. Making an enforced rule that all people of color sit in the last three rows of the bus is racism.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
73. And ...
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 04:23 PM
Jun 2014

Quoting the law to get a Black person to seat in the designated area, using the force of that law to insist that a Black person seat in the designated area, or punishing/harming/threatening harm a Black person for refusing to seat in the designated area, is racism.

ancianita

(36,053 posts)
85. Exactly! Any group -- let's say, fraternity hazing that singles out a race, or cops who profile or
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 06:08 PM
Jun 2014

do dragnet arrests in select neighborhoods -- are racist, since the discrimination has been practiced within the framework of an institution which might be legally bound to observe "letter of the law" but because individuals in it aren't always monitorable, they exhibit racism by means other than force of law.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
35. 11 is dangerous nonsense?
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 01:35 PM
Jun 2014

We don't label it "white on white crime" when one white person kills another white person. We just call it crime, or maybe more specifically murder. But we do label it "black on black" crime when one black person kills another black person? Why do you think that is? I think it's so we can ignore that crime and not try to solve it. It's happening to someone else, not going to affect me, so we don't have to focus resources on it. We can focus resources on the crime that might affect white people.

Response to gollygee (Reply #35)

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
9. I'm concerned about #2; my kids have friends of several races, and don't appear to care about color.
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 12:27 PM
Jun 2014

Are they falling victim to the dreaded and insidious "colorblindness"? Do I need to have a talk with them to warn them about the dangers of being colorblind?

Donald Ian Rankin

(13,598 posts)
13. No, you just have to remind them that other people aren't.
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 12:32 PM
Jun 2014

As an individual in private life, treating everyone the same regardless of race is a sensible goal, but as a society, we need to remember that many people don't do that, and take account of that when making public policy and in public life.

JustAnotherGen

(31,819 posts)
61. Bravo
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 03:38 PM
Jun 2014


but as a society, we need to remember that many people don't do that, and take account of that when making public policy and in public life.

 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
24. i think you need to understand what colorblind policies mean to POC
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 01:20 PM
Jun 2014

interpersonal racism is only a very tiny part of racism. can you be interpersonally mostly colorblind, but when we create policies we should not be colorblind because the aftereffects of policies are not colorblind

 

Scratchem

(19 posts)
62. More and more kids today...
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 03:40 PM
Jun 2014

... just look at you like you came from the stupid ages when the older generations insist that they view things through a racial lens.

Insisting that your kids pay more attention to their friends race and treat them in a certain way because of it is backwards... at best...

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
11. Can we discuss it honestly without needing a list?
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 12:28 PM
Jun 2014

"Here is what you must believe about a topic before discussing it"

Nonsense.

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
17. "Correct" sounds like an attempt to end discussion before it begins
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 12:36 PM
Jun 2014

Like "acceptable free speech".


Nope

Donald Ian Rankin

(13,598 posts)
18. Yes, it's essentially an attempt to end discussion; that's what "discussion" *is*!
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 12:43 PM
Jun 2014

Discussion is *not* an end in itself; it is a means towards either acquiring or promulgating better knowledge and understanding.

The "acquiring" part of that can take place in silence, or through questions; people who make statements in a discussion do so because they want other people to accept them as true.

Most discussion is, essentially, an attempt to end that discussion, by setting out an argument that convinces the person you are talking to.

If you can do that straight off the bat, that's ideal.

JustAnotherGen

(31,819 posts)
63. Actually
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 03:40 PM
Jun 2014

Discussing this at all has become kind of taboo at DU - but I give gollygee credit for posting outside of one of the minority based groups. I know other than one or two sentences I'm just not discussing outside of the minority community - including DU anymore.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
28. The thought is that
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 01:29 PM
Jun 2014

the discussion never gets to really tackling racism because it's always stuck on "reverse racism" or how wealthy Oprah is or whether someone is "color blind." The author acknowledges at the beginning that it isn't anyone's fault that they buy into some myths about racism, such as that if Oprah has money then the problem is solved, because our society is inherently racist and it's impossible to avoid these myths when living in this society. The point is that it would be helpful if people who have learned these myths to be true would get learn more and get past the myths so every discussion about racism doesn't get sidetracked by them.

 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
20. Things White People Should Know/Do Before Discussing "American" Racism
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 01:05 PM
Jun 2014

Next week..... racism in Asia....

Rebubula

(2,868 posts)
27. Racism in Asia
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 01:23 PM
Jun 2014

I grew up in north Georgia....I have seen plenty of racism....and thought it was the worst I had seen.


UNTIL I travelled to the Middle East and SE Asia. The racism is open and without shame....and it is not just black\white...it can be shades of color or simply regional hatred.


I am convinced that most people here have not traveled the world too much. Once you do, you start to realize that the US (while not being close to perfect or even really good) is not the worst in the world by a long shot.

Until we start to be honest that EVERY Group has biases against some other group - there will never be an honest discusion.

FrodosPet

(5,169 posts)
84. What do you mean we are not the worst?
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 05:58 PM
Jun 2014

America is #1 at being the worst most oppressive country on Earth.

U.S.A.!!! U.S.A.!!!

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
31. This is obviously for an American audience.
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 01:30 PM
Jun 2014

But that's another distraction technique. We can't discussion racism here because of racism elsewhere? We have our own dirty laundry to deal with. We don't get to leave it dirty because someone else has dirty laundry of their own.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
86. I know, huh ...
Tue Jun 17, 2014, 06:54 AM
Jun 2014

When I see these type of comments, I think of the "poor people in the U.S. receive more on welfare than working people in the 3rd world ... so they really aren't poor" comments found on fox.

 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
92. We don't get to leave it dirty because someone else has dirty laundry of their own.
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 09:13 AM
Jun 2014

Who suggested such a thing?

 

Boom Sound 416

(4,185 posts)
25. Isn't this racism?
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 01:22 PM
Jun 2014

Additionally I would hope some sort of education is needed to discuss any topic.

And that goes for all races.

smallcat88

(426 posts)
43. Don't judge a book by it's cover
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 01:54 PM
Jun 2014

There are all kinds of prejudice and discrimination. Racism, sexism, discrimination of the disabled, religious bias, nationalism, just to name a few. Many of them are based solely on appearance. Judging a soul, or character/personality based on the body. Even a lot of religious bias is justified by appearance - re: the recent nonsense on the right that Bergdahl's father 'looks' Muslim but the Duck Dynasty lot doesn't?

The first step - but by no means the last - is to start evaluating people based on their actions, not their appearance. It's just a beginning, but if more of us would actually get to know people before forming a snap judgment based on looks it would go a long way toward breaking down the long standing social systems that automatically place anyone who isn't white and male at a disadvantage.

iamthebandfanman

(8,127 posts)
45. Because your point wouldnt have been the same
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 01:55 PM
Jun 2014

nor the message as clear if you had excluded the word 'white' in that subject line... eh?

seems unnecessary to me.

Erich Bloodaxe BSN

(14,733 posts)
82. Is there some reason this one particular OP should have
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 05:14 PM
Jun 2014

edited the title of the outside article to which the poster was linking? I was under the impression the standard on DU was to simply use the title of outside articles to which one is linking. The original article elsewhere had 'white' in the title, so the poster here wasn't adding 'white', merely faithfully using the original title, like pretty much every other OP on site that links to an outside article.

FreedRadical

(518 posts)
46. Well I for one am feeling a little more encouraged.
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 01:56 PM
Jun 2014

If you agree or disagree with the premise of this OP, to me the important thing is the discussion. I have watched as a few of our members in the AA community bring up these issues, and be hotly debated and demonized. That kind of thing would piss me off to no end. Slowly I realized that they were vary effective in pushing this issue out of the small cloister of the AA group, and into the light of GD. That is a good thing. Like it or not.

Where do we go from here?

I think the guilt statement is big. When I am trying to impress a point on a friend, or trying win someone over to my point of view, I work to frame it in a way that is empowering to all. I think that comes from being raised in a community with vary small AA population. Still, I marvel at people trying to win important points, or bring someone over to their position by putting them on the defensive. Now that is an overly simplistic way to approach complex issue's. It is just my approach. Also, if you feel guilty, that is something that you will have to work out in your own heart and mind. I am not responsible for your guilt. I know it is not helpful to my issue.

Erich Bloodaxe BSN

(14,733 posts)
47. Reading the comments thus far, I think he missed a point.
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 01:59 PM
Jun 2014

0. Don't automatically start from a position of defensiveness and denial, or assume that your role in any discussion is to automatically and reflexively refute any and all things that don't agree with the worldview you already hold. Listen, think, and poke around at these ideas and try to figure out why other people think they're important.

Enrique

(27,461 posts)
52. defensiveness is inevitable
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 03:17 PM
Jun 2014

even when I agree with some of the individual points they make, this author is telling me that I HAVE to agree with them, and that's simply not true.

There are white people, and black people, who feel different than this author, and this author is saying they should keep their mouths shut. A ridiculous stance and very unlikely to do any good. Except generate a lot of chest-beating among the people who have the "correct" views.

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
69. Does it really where anyone starts with their position?
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 04:08 PM
Jun 2014

The outcome is predetermined.

If you agree with the list, you've accepted the truth. If you disagree, you're starting from a position of "defensiveness and denial". Until you agree, the discussion can't begin.

So why pretend this list is the beginning of a discussion when it's really just a manifesto?

noiretextatique

(27,275 posts)
80. amen
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 05:08 PM
Jun 2014

Arrogantly fighting over idiotic semantic nuances is a way to derail the conversation. Arrogantly insisting your definition is the correct one does nothing to address to actual issue.

Jamaal510

(10,893 posts)
75. Two comments:
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 04:46 PM
Jun 2014

1. Regarding #8, I highly recommend Nathan McCall's book "Makes Me Wanna Holler". My African American Studies professor assigned this book to our class several years ago. The title is derived from Marvin Gaye's hit song, and this book elaborates on the author's youth and adult years in Portsmouth, VA, and his race relations with Whites. When he was a kid, he was the only Black person at an otherwise White school, but the racism towards him was so bad that his parents transferred him to another school that was mostly Black. As he grew older and went through adolescence, he started hanging around the wrong crowd, he got a gun, and was eventually locked up. Behind bars was when he started reflecting on his life and when the book starts getting deep.
Anyway, that's all I have to say about it without spoiling too much.

2. With #12, I have been saying that for a while. There is this idea that the White race is becoming the minority in the U.S. and here in California, but in actuality, it is mostly just non-Hispanic Whites who are seeing their portion of the demographic decrease. I think that many people are confused in general about the difference between race, ethnicity, and nationality, and it doesn't help that in many different demographic surveys and studies, they tend to group together racial and ethnic groups, as if they're mutually-exclusive.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
87. Great book ...
Tue Jun 17, 2014, 07:14 AM
Jun 2014

Read it years ago.

Regarding your second comment: the "minority" status of white folks in America is a myth ... A dangerous myth, as it suggests that when whites become the numerical minority, the power structure will shift. It won't ... and if history is to be a guide, we can expect a more oppressive racism ... I point to South Africa and Israel, as examples.

Jamaal510

(10,893 posts)
90. Agreed.
Tue Jun 17, 2014, 10:37 PM
Jun 2014

"it suggests that when whites become the numerical minority, the power structure will shift. It won't ... and if history is to be a guide, we can expect a more oppressive racism ... I point to South Africa and Israel, as examples."

Warpy

(111,255 posts)
77. I'll add another
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 04:56 PM
Jun 2014
Do more listening than talking. You don't know more than they do and you don't know how to fix it. You can only adjust your own attitude and the first step to that is shutting up.

Erich Bloodaxe BSN

(14,733 posts)
83. Well, it loads slowly, for one.
Mon Jun 16, 2014, 05:18 PM
Jun 2014

When I take the link, I get a black page with a swirling white circle for about 10 seconds. If you're not even getting the circle, you might have javascript blocked or some other 'defensive' software that is stopping the load process running.

Skidmore

(37,364 posts)
88. This is some old video from a lesson taught by a teacher in the form of an experiment.
Tue Jun 17, 2014, 07:18 AM
Jun 2014

Well worth the time to watch it.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
91. I had a recent experience that was not good
Tue Jun 17, 2014, 10:45 PM
Jun 2014

lets just say it is part of the problem. And that would be number 19

Understand that racism is not just limited to black people. And yes, there is a level of reverse racism, and while understandable when I am told that I am part of the oppressive majority when I quality as two different minorities, is the height of irony. I am both Hispanic (immigrant from Mexico) and Jewish.

I am willing to work to end racism, in all it's forms. But I would have an issue sitting across the table from that particular individual, and for good reasons. Lets just say her comments ended any chances I would ever have of working with her.

And since some of the stories I cover involve going to areas of the County where shall we say we have a few skin heads, I do not wear my religion on my sleeve either. Not that I am very observant, but these folks would make me realize I cannot escape that ethnicity, especially my local neo nazis.

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