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Gravitycollapse

(8,155 posts)
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:00 PM Jun 2014

Say whatever horrible word you want which expresses your terrible sentiment.

Just don't think the rest of us have to maintain the illusion that what you said wasn't horrible. That really is the issue at hand here.

The argument right now seems to be over whether or not there is an innocent way to use slurs and sexist/homophobic insults when the point all along is that there is no way to do so innocently. There is no target deserving enough of such vitriol.

That's the entire goddamn point of establishing the unconditional inappropriateness of epithets. We cannot at any point justify their usage by the simple nature of designating someone the "real" enemy.

So, let's just be entirely real with ourselves by abandoning the "logic" that Rude Pundit isn't being a disgusting pig by using such disgusting language. Instead, we should accept that disgustingness as an actuality and move on in the discussion.

Should we be endorsing disgusting piggishness? Yes or No? That is the real debate.

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Say whatever horrible word you want which expresses your terrible sentiment. (Original Post) Gravitycollapse Jun 2014 OP
Dinsdale dipsydoodle Jun 2014 #1
Interesting approach; that said, isn't the solution to offensive speech MORE speech? MADem Jun 2014 #2
What do you mean by "solution?" Gravitycollapse Jun 2014 #3
I mean a resolution that would make ME smug, satisfied, and feeling as though the MADem Jun 2014 #12
Not "solution" so much as "counteraction" I suppose. nomorenomore08 Jun 2014 #14
No - the answer is to stop giving words power. dipsydoodle Jun 2014 #6
Well, that's not possible. Words often DO have power... MADem Jun 2014 #9
Oh stifle you big fat poopie head! whistler162 Jun 2014 #4
Mr. Clean Kingofalldems Jun 2014 #5
Feel whatever you want, just don't pretend other people must as well. Rex Jun 2014 #7
I'm not entirely certain what you're arguing here. Gravitycollapse Jun 2014 #15
I'm saying don't pretend you are the knower of all things. Rex Jun 2014 #18
I don't need to ask him what he meant because what he meant was transparently obvious. Gravitycollapse Jun 2014 #22
Thanks for making my point. Rex Jun 2014 #27
Very true that everyone draws the line a bit differently. n/t nomorenomore08 Jun 2014 #16
Seriously, the self-righteous crowd here thinks they are owed beer and travel money. Rex Jun 2014 #20
+ a million Egnever Jun 2014 #39
Belgium. muriel_volestrangler Jun 2014 #8
Piggishness should be used very sparingly frazzled Jun 2014 #10
I think the point is more that TRP (or his persona) *intends* to be disgusting and "piggish" nomorenomore08 Jun 2014 #19
Yes, I know that; but it still gets boring and sometimes offensive frazzled Jun 2014 #23
I can understand and respect that view. As I said, everyone has to choose where to draw the line nomorenomore08 Jun 2014 #25
But that might actually be the worst part. That he does bring so much to the table... Gravitycollapse Jun 2014 #30
I can't disagree with that at all. It's on him, ultimately, to draw his own line. nomorenomore08 Jun 2014 #32
There really is no defense for it. redqueen Jun 2014 #24
I think he has crossed the line at times, certainly. I don't blame people for being offended. nomorenomore08 Jun 2014 #28
+1. Well expressed, frazzled. brer cat Jun 2014 #21
How about horrible words for wonderful sentiment? Throd Jun 2014 #11
What sentiment would that be? Gravitycollapse Jun 2014 #13
I dunno. Just pointing out that the sentiment is judged "terrible" based on the words used. Throd Jun 2014 #17
Thinking Ann Coulter is a cunt, for instance, is not part and parcel to thinking she is wrong. Gravitycollapse Jun 2014 #26
Exactly. Insulting her ideas or her as a person isn't the same as gratuitously insulting her gender. nomorenomore08 Jun 2014 #29
Exactly. I would even argue that the two aren't really even compatible. Gravitycollapse Jun 2014 #34
verdict is in Go Vols Jun 2014 #31
So let's take a step back for a moment to identify a key difference here... Gravitycollapse Jun 2014 #36
Can I say Rush Limbaugh is a stupid, fat pillhead? Throd Jun 2014 #37
I think calling him fat or a pillhead is wrong because it does mock those people. Gravitycollapse Jun 2014 #38
Get a grip... DryHump Jun 2014 #33
Where is my joy? It's certainly not in using slurs against those I disagree with. Gravitycollapse Jun 2014 #35
Totalitarian? Where has anyone advocated outright censoring the guy? nomorenomore08 Jun 2014 #43
The rude pundit should be banned from DU! Dragonfli Jun 2014 #40
My wife's favorite word was "FUCK!" hobbit709 Jun 2014 #41
He's talking about slurs, not profanities. Though the line between the two isn't always set in stone nomorenomore08 Jun 2014 #44
suckling pig nipples betsuni Jun 2014 #42

MADem

(135,425 posts)
2. Interesting approach; that said, isn't the solution to offensive speech MORE speech?
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:07 PM
Jun 2014

Anything else is censorship--that's the opposite argument.

I like to split things down the middle; rather than publish the entire rant on site, provide a short tidbit to illustrate the sense of the article, and a link for the rest. That way, the tender-hearted need not avert their eyes, and the interested can click the link. Win-win.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
12. I mean a resolution that would make ME smug, satisfied, and feeling as though the
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:24 PM
Jun 2014

entire issue had been put to rest.

YMMV, of course.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
14. Not "solution" so much as "counteraction" I suppose.
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:26 PM
Jun 2014

Not that one speech-act erases another, but if you object to something someone says, your objection helps promulgate the idea that maybe they shouldn't have said it.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
9. Well, that's not possible. Words often DO have power...
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:22 PM
Jun 2014

Look at the words in the Declaration of Independence, the Constitution, some of the more compelling speeches throughout history...words can often be very powerful. You can't make them not powerful by decree.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
7. Feel whatever you want, just don't pretend other people must as well.
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:20 PM
Jun 2014

Keep your 'we' to your self, thanks.

Gravitycollapse

(8,155 posts)
15. I'm not entirely certain what you're arguing here.
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:27 PM
Jun 2014

Are you saying that Rude Pundit was using these slurs innocently?

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
18. I'm saying don't pretend you are the knower of all things.
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:30 PM
Jun 2014

Because you are not and don't have any final say in this, sorry but take it elsewhere with the 'we'. Why don't you go ask the RP what he meant...oh right, that would mean you would have to have an honest discussion about words with the source.

I understand, much easier to pretend you know what you are talking about...my bad.

Gravitycollapse

(8,155 posts)
22. I don't need to ask him what he meant because what he meant was transparently obvious.
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:36 PM
Jun 2014

That is what I'm saying. I don't need to debate over the underlying motivation for using slurs in text because the very usage of the slurs defines the motivation. Does that make sense?

If I call someone a cunt, I don't need to explain my motivation any further. The motivation lies in my usage of the word. The reason why I called someone a cunt was to infuse the subject with the objectivization of the slur. That is why we use slurs; to remove the agency of the other.

You think all of that just evaporates because someone self-identifies as being rude? Does admitting you're an asshole make being an asshole any less like being an asshole? That seems kind of ridiculous.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
20. Seriously, the self-righteous crowd here thinks they are owed beer and travel money.
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:32 PM
Jun 2014

And this OP is just another in a series of, LOOK AT ME TOO threads which seem to populate GD atm. Like I believe for one second they are sincere posts about the words we use.

Like I was born yesterday...

 

Egnever

(21,506 posts)
39. + a million
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 06:52 PM
Jun 2014

Feel whatever you want, just don't pretend other people must as well.

Needed to be repeated.

frazzled

(18,402 posts)
10. Piggishness should be used very sparingly
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:22 PM
Jun 2014

I realize that it can occasionally be humorous, but a steady diet of foul name-calling can be numbingly tiresome and lose its impact, even. At that point, in excess, it just becomes ... disgusting piggishness in itself.

If you have an argument to make, try making it in a logical, convincing, non-hysterical, non-offensive way. And if, to express your anger you need to throw an f-bomb or two, so be it. Unmitigated cursing is NEVER, however, a substitute for real thought.

I remember quite a number of years ago, when the expression "whiny ass titty baby" cropped up on the blog Eschaton as an epithet for, well, almost anybody its author didn't like. He even began a "Whiny Ass Titty Baby of the Day" rubric (see http://www.eschatonblog.com/2008/04/whiny-ass-titty-baby-of-day.html ) I found the phrase so incredibly offensive, even when applied to people with whom I disagreed violently, that I stopped reading that site forever. Really.Buh-bye. It was that bad.

That said, I can't stop remembering a cartoon I saw in the New Yorker a hundred years ago (well, maybe in the 1980s or early 90s). It was an image of a man hunched over in a pay-telephone booth, and the caption read something like: "Is this Miss Johnson, the kindergarten teacher? This is an obscene phone call: sissy caca tushie boom boom." I laughed so hard I've never forgotten it. Was it crude? Yeah. But it was also a reminder of how truly juvenile such name-calling can be.



nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
19. I think the point is more that TRP (or his persona) *intends* to be disgusting and "piggish"
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:31 PM
Jun 2014

with some of his word choices - repulsive language being arguably appropriate when applied to repulsive people or ideas (like the Cheneys for example).

frazzled

(18,402 posts)
23. Yes, I know that; but it still gets boring and sometimes offensive
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:36 PM
Jun 2014

There are plenty of things to say about Dick Cheney that are biting, acerbic, and express appropriate outrage without using insults that are directed at women, gay people, or the developmentally disabled. Or that simply make people's eyes glaze over. Thinking up a string of crude insults isn't all that hard, so I don't really bother to read it.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
25. I can understand and respect that view. As I said, everyone has to choose where to draw the line
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:40 PM
Jun 2014

for themselves. But IMO The Rude Pundit brings too much to the table, to be dismissed based on occasional bothersome or tedious word choice.

Gravitycollapse

(8,155 posts)
30. But that might actually be the worst part. That he does bring so much to the table...
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:52 PM
Jun 2014

Then knowingly disarms his rhetoric by introducing it with outlandish slurs.

So there are two surface arguments. The first is that we must overlook the outlandish slur to dive into the meat of the argument. The second is to disavow the argument because of the very nature of the slur.

I think there is a third argument that isn't popular because it gives the agency back to the writer. That argument is that we should take the meat of the argument seriously and then turn to the writer and ask "why the hell did you say that first part?"

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
32. I can't disagree with that at all. It's on him, ultimately, to draw his own line.
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:54 PM
Jun 2014

Just like the rest of us.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
24. There really is no defense for it.
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:39 PM
Jun 2014

In the examples I've seen where TRP used racist slurs, he used them to demonstrate what hateful stupid rightwingers think.

When he's used misogynistic and homophobic insults, he's using them himself, about rightwingers. And we are agreeing if we support his use of those insults.

There's an argument to be made about the former. The latter is simply indefensible, full stop.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
28. I think he has crossed the line at times, certainly. I don't blame people for being offended.
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:43 PM
Jun 2014

And I certainly wouldn't be inclined to throw around such expressions myself - if nothing else, I have too much respect for other people's sensibilities to behave that way.

brer cat

(24,562 posts)
21. +1. Well expressed, frazzled.
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:34 PM
Jun 2014

Much of what I have seen the last couple of days on this episode has been very juvenile. I can only think the middle schoolers are out of class and coming on DU to cuss and giggle.

Throd

(7,208 posts)
17. I dunno. Just pointing out that the sentiment is judged "terrible" based on the words used.
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:30 PM
Jun 2014

I agree with the sentiment the Rude Pundit harbors towards the Cheneys, despite the words he used to express it.

Gravitycollapse

(8,155 posts)
34. Exactly. I would even argue that the two aren't really even compatible.
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 06:05 PM
Jun 2014

I think the epithet is not only a clear departure from a reasoned argument against her positions but is actually the exact opposite. It in a way endorses her wrongheadedness by making opposition to her a matter of gender.

I mean, it is the equivalent of disagreeing with Michael Steele by calling him a racial slur.

Go Vols

(5,902 posts)
31. verdict is in
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:54 PM
Jun 2014

On Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:47 PM an alert was sent on the following post:

Thinking Ann Coulter is a cunt, for instance, is not part and parcel to thinking she is wrong.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=5128387

REASON FOR ALERT

This post is disruptive, hurtful, rude, insensitive, over-the-top, or otherwise inappropriate.

ALERTER'S COMMENTS

I am SICK of seeing men throwing around that hateful misogynist word! Please! Enough!

You served on a randomly-selected Jury of DU members which reviewed this post. The review was completed at Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:53 PM, and the Jury voted 3-4 to LEAVE IT.

Juror #1 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #2 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: There's never a justification for use of that word. Dead wrong.
Juror #3 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: Alerter should probably read the post. The author was actually agreeing with them. Deep breaths, alerter. Not everything is an attack on women.
Juror #4 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #5 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: How is this different than calling someone a dick, which happens here frequently?


Juror #6 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: I vote to leave it alone because this is what DU has become. A bunch of potty-mouthed adolescents (in thoughts and words if not in chronological age) and they're welcome to it. Beavis and Butthead live!!!!
Juror #7 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: Whatever GC meant to say, if he didn't know that "cunt" is offensive to many on DU, especially on a heading, he hasn't adjusted to his environment. Note that I'm a man and I'm being harder on GC than on a woman who used "prick" in a heading because I'm tired of false equivalencies.

Thank you very much for participating in our Jury system, and we hope you will be able to participate again in the future.

Gravitycollapse

(8,155 posts)
36. So let's take a step back for a moment to identify a key difference here...
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 06:08 PM
Jun 2014

That difference is between weaponizing a word and presenting the usage of the weaponization of a word.

The latter follows the former. Equating the two is like saying that recalling the history of slavery is an implicit endorsement of slavery.

Throd

(7,208 posts)
37. Can I say Rush Limbaugh is a stupid, fat pillhead?
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 06:43 PM
Jun 2014

Or is such a statement offensive to the mentally challenged, people with eating disorders, or people with substance abuse problems?

Gravitycollapse

(8,155 posts)
38. I think calling him fat or a pillhead is wrong because it does mock those people.
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 06:48 PM
Jun 2014

I think stupidity is too broad a term to say it is specifically disparaging those with intellectual disabilities.

DryHump

(199 posts)
33. Get a grip...
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:59 PM
Jun 2014

Rude Pundit is FUNNY in the same, over the top way is/was Commedia del Arte....use of cock jokes to poke fun!!!! Get a fucking grip!!!! Get some laugh going!!!!! Can't stand liberals so close to being totalitarian...where is your joy?????

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
43. Totalitarian? Where has anyone advocated outright censoring the guy?
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 11:37 PM
Jun 2014

TRP is hilarious and usually dead-on, but his language isn't for all tastes.

Dragonfli

(10,622 posts)
40. The rude pundit should be banned from DU!
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 08:47 PM
Jun 2014

He uses naughty words
OFF WITH HIS HEAD!!!!!


+10000!
I heard a word and my spleen ruptured! I am harmed irreparably!

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