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BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:20 PM Jun 2014

NSFW. Old shriveled, limp dick, pasty cracker

Hasn't gotten it up in twenty years.

Attack of the White Walkers on the early bird special at Denny's.






We are told misogynistic, racist, and homophobic slurs are just freedom of speech, nothing more than words. How about these?

Is it okay to insult some people and not others? Or it is who uses the words that counts?

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NSFW. Old shriveled, limp dick, pasty cracker (Original Post) BainsBane Jun 2014 OP
Funny! Kaleva Jun 2014 #1
Mind adding a warning to the topic for the pic? Lancero Jun 2014 #2
done. BainsBane Jun 2014 #4
To be honest, I thought this was a post about Dick Cheney Siwsan Jun 2014 #3
LOL BainsBane Jun 2014 #5
I thought so too BB! JustAnotherGen Jun 2014 #47
So did I lumpy Jun 2014 #176
I was going to say, "What?" gratuitous Jun 2014 #6
+1 nomorenomore08 Jun 2014 #17
This is why I love DU....sometimes there's a shitstorm going on and I have no clue... Cali_Democrat Jun 2014 #7
This storm's a DUzy! Cooley Hurd Jun 2014 #13
Yes, indeed In_The_Wind Jun 2014 #34
The only thing that bothers me... Wait Wut Jun 2014 #8
Good point. Cooley Hurd Jun 2014 #11
Oh no. I didn't even notice BainsBane Jun 2014 #12
took it down BainsBane Jun 2014 #18
Aw... Wait Wut Jun 2014 #29
Found a royalty free version BainsBane Jun 2014 #31
LOL Tuesday Afternoon Jun 2014 #9
Big diff using a phrase (which was a pun on Cheney's name)... Cooley Hurd Jun 2014 #10
Let me get this straight BainsBane Jun 2014 #15
Someone used the C-word? Cooley Hurd Jun 2014 #19
Yes, in the subject line in an OP in GD BainsBane Jun 2014 #52
Depends. Will they be serving pizza? Warren DeMontague Jun 2014 #21
Sasuage pizza. Lancero Jun 2014 #27
That was literally the ONLY funny thing about that movie. Warren DeMontague Jun 2014 #30
It's a good thing Bill Clinton's first name isn't Richard leftstreet Jun 2014 #23
Wait .... (whine, whine, sniffle, whine) .... your post does not adulate me etherealtruth Jun 2014 #14
OH MY GOD WHY I NEVER Warren DeMontague Jun 2014 #16
You'd be surprised... nomorenomore08 Jun 2014 #20
Kinda like a fucking post about a barbecue eh? pipoman Jun 2014 #40
Why are you still so upset over your own lame joke? You didn't even get a hidden post for God's sake nomorenomore08 Jun 2014 #45
no, but the crying and knashing of teeth pipoman Jun 2014 #65
The hypocrisy and/or ignorance by a certain few does get bothersome from time to time..... AverageJoe90 Jun 2014 #133
this thread devolved into lies and bullying... pipoman Jun 2014 #142
just read that thread, pipoman grasswire Jun 2014 #158
I had to take the picture down BainsBane Jun 2014 #22
Why? Warren DeMontague Jun 2014 #25
You don't feel insulted by the choice of walker they used? Rex Jun 2014 #71
If that walker had wheels, he might have rolled over something. boston bean Jun 2014 #122
They should have used this one Warren DeMontague Jun 2014 #150
You were alerted and it wasn't hidden. 3-4. Squinch Jun 2014 #24
Results? Lancero Jun 2014 #26
Here you go: Squinch Jun 2014 #28
Juror #4 has stuck me in a strange loop Warren DeMontague Jun 2014 #32
I'm taking back your Duzy nomination for that. BainsBane Jun 2014 #43
Bet we can figure out who Juror #6 is. Shrike47 Jun 2014 #44
I don't know about that. There are too many possibilities for me to be sure. Squinch Jun 2014 #49
I was juror #2 etherealtruth Jun 2014 #56
If you do, let me know BainsBane Jun 2014 #59
LOL BainsBane Jun 2014 #35
It's a good point. Squinch Jun 2014 #42
good point 840high Jun 2014 #145
It wasn't 0-6... Cooley Hurd Jun 2014 #36
Your OP passed the jury test so now what? Rex Jun 2014 #33
Now we explore the issue BainsBane Jun 2014 #61
You will have to make another OP that insults another group, I guess. Rex Jun 2014 #68
I think a comparison of the jury results are midly interesting BainsBane Jun 2014 #75
I have to tell you, as depressing as this sounds, I think that is normal human behavior. Rex Jun 2014 #76
Don't you think that becoming politically aware BainsBane Jun 2014 #128
I am missing where anyone at all was bothered by this post Egnever Jun 2014 #101
So you think the alert was out of admiration? BainsBane Jun 2014 #116
You know what the alert was for you admit it down thread Egnever Jun 2014 #147
Or use them to their advantage. RiffRandell Jun 2014 #159
But your experiment just proved their point. lumberjack_jeff Jun 2014 #163
How much exploration do you want? lumberjack_jeff Jun 2014 #162
No, I didn't know BainsBane Jun 2014 #169
"old shriveled limp dick pasty cracker" Warren DeMontague Jun 2014 #37
You know it is hard coming up with terms to insult BainsBane Jun 2014 #39
I have an idea JustAnotherGen Jun 2014 #60
You are, of course, correct. I find in terms of general insults Warren DeMontague Jun 2014 #67
Mine are better BainsBane Jun 2014 #83
I'm gonna get me one better. Warren DeMontague Jun 2014 #148
I had an Uncle that used to call us all little dipshits. Sissyk Jun 2014 #139
DUzy! nt AverageJoe90 Jun 2014 #135
Thank you for changing the image in your OP... Cooley Hurd Jun 2014 #38
Yes, it comes from a royalty free site BainsBane Jun 2014 #41
It's still acceptable to make fun of white men from the South NightWatcher Jun 2014 #46
This is funny but I think making fun of people just because they are old is cheap humor. Lint Head Jun 2014 #48
As opposed to because they are women, black, or LGBT? BainsBane Jun 2014 #50
Not as opposed to anyone. Lint Head Jun 2014 #53
Could you clarify? BainsBane Jun 2014 #57
You specifically asked two questions. Lint Head Jun 2014 #69
I understand that BainsBane Jun 2014 #72
And just who is doing that on this site, who isn't an RWNJ troll? AverageJoe90 Jun 2014 #137
Aww, that's the spirit! bluesbassman Jun 2014 #51
The context is to examine hypocrisy BainsBane Jun 2014 #54
I see. I bet if you tried really hard though you could come up with some more to help in your quest. bluesbassman Jun 2014 #64
I did solicit contributions BainsBane Jun 2014 #88
'Look who's eating at 6 o'clock!' Kingofalldems Jun 2014 #55
I'm OK with it. I don't find words to be all that disempowering. Gore1FL Jun 2014 #58
Unrec Boom Sound 416 Jun 2014 #62
+1 In_The_Wind Jun 2014 #66
I Boom Sound 416 Jun 2014 #89
Methinks that's an excellent idea ~ In_The_Wind Jun 2014 #104
I made fun of the wrong peoples BainsBane Jun 2014 #70
I am curious, did you expect to get a hide from the OP? Rex Jun 2014 #73
I figured it was a toss up BainsBane Jun 2014 #77
Well, I have a big jury blacklist just for that reason. Rex Jun 2014 #78
That's funny. Boom Sound 416 Jun 2014 #80
No, I don't believe I've ever alerted BainsBane Jun 2014 #85
It was funny? Boom Sound 416 Jun 2014 #82
Were the vulgar insults funny? BainsBane Jun 2014 #84
You can't make friends with word salad Boom Sound 416 Jun 2014 #87
Here BainsBane Jun 2014 #92
Thank you Lt. Hauk Boom Sound 416 Jun 2014 #113
Old shriveled limp dick pasty cracker Dr Hobbitstein Jun 2014 #63
Did somebody just insult white men? backscatter712 Jun 2014 #74
Only people do care. BainsBane Jun 2014 #79
The most vocal few on DU only care if it is pipoman Jun 2014 #86
Actually I see the opposite BainsBane Jun 2014 #102
Uh-oh. You said "cracker" and you didn't mean Keebler. WinkyDink Jun 2014 #81
If Rude has said, Dick Cheney is a white privileged old man, some of these peeps boston bean Jun 2014 #90
So true. BainsBane Jun 2014 #91
I wouldn't have. And neither would have anybody else who wasn't a troll(or missed the point). AverageJoe90 Jun 2014 #134
This is funny. bravenak Jun 2014 #93
Knew I could count on you! BainsBane Jun 2014 #96
Yeah baby!! bravenak Jun 2014 #100
Feeling Misandrific? BainsBane Jun 2014 #105
All day every day! bravenak Jun 2014 #110
A list of what? Egnever Jun 2014 #103
I really don't know yet. bravenak Jun 2014 #108
Hmm as a white guy Egnever Jun 2014 #109
I hate when people call people Nazi's. bravenak Jun 2014 #112
No idea what it is Egnever Jun 2014 #115
I believe "peckerwood" was adopted by white prison gangs pipoman Jun 2014 #123
Thank you, i never knew that.nt bravenak Jun 2014 #126
I was told this during an interview with one of the only surviving pipoman Jun 2014 #127
interesting you made me look Egnever Jun 2014 #149
The person I was interviewing who explained this to me was incarcerated at pipoman Jun 2014 #151
God old San Quentin Egnever Jun 2014 #153
Creep is the one that really offends. Wanna see some brains explode? boston bean Jun 2014 #117
You've got a lot of courage... Cali_Democrat Jun 2014 #118
I know, it's early, but I see so many EW ones. I was feeling left out! boston bean Jun 2014 #120
I do it often. bravenak Jun 2014 #119
Especially when it's the plain truth... n/t nomorenomore08 Jun 2014 #167
Apparently missed the original but this one doesnt bother me a bit. Egnever Jun 2014 #94
Really, you weren't in on any of the outrage threads BainsBane Jun 2014 #97
didn't see them throw me a link Egnever Jun 2014 #99
Me too. I'm completely lost. :( nt ecstatic Jun 2014 #121
Okay, now I'm offended. Comrade Grumpy Jun 2014 #95
sticks and stone may break my bones... Puzzledtraveller Jun 2014 #98
Don't you be insulting my pasty! madamesilverspurs Jun 2014 #106
Did I spell it wrong? BainsBane Jun 2014 #107
Good lord quakerboy Jun 2014 #111
People are either hypersensitive or they're not. Aldo Leopold Jun 2014 #114
You don't recall the outrage thread about age? BainsBane Jun 2014 #132
Then there's this. pipoman Jun 2014 #161
If you're trying to steal the Rude Pundit's gig, you'd better try harder hatrack Jun 2014 #124
Nope BainsBane Jun 2014 #125
No that is perfectly fine here as double standards are all the rage with the hall monitors. Dragonfli Jun 2014 #129
that cartoon is adorable! look at that bike horn on the walker! NuttyFluffers Jun 2014 #130
Not personally offended, but I also fail to see the humor, if there was any. nt AverageJoe90 Jun 2014 #131
Ah Man! I thought this was going to be about Bob Dole... NutmegYankee Jun 2014 #136
Someone said it fit Dick Cheney BainsBane Jun 2014 #140
But It'd be even funnier given Dole's "Viagra" commercials. NutmegYankee Jun 2014 #141
No, Bob Dole doesn't deserve it BainsBane Jun 2014 #143
Given his numerous surgeries... NutmegYankee Jun 2014 #144
I've been called worse in at least 8 languages. hobbit709 Jun 2014 #138
This message was self-deleted by its author AAO Jun 2014 #146
racial slurs are freedom of speech Shoulders of Giants Jun 2014 #152
I agree BainsBane Jun 2014 #168
It's perfectly acceptable to insult men all the time. MicaelS Jun 2014 #154
If "small penis jokes" are the worst thing we men have to worry about, then I'd say we're doing nomorenomore08 Jun 2014 #166
Exactly whose hypocrisy are you trying to demonstrate? Cause the thing is... Bonobo Jun 2014 #155
Really? BainsBane Jun 2014 #156
Post removed Post removed Jun 2014 #164
"Words do not actually have the power to leap across the internet and harm" HereSince1628 Jun 2014 #177
I must say that LiberalElite Jun 2014 #157
I don't either, truth be told BainsBane Jun 2014 #165
I think this is my favorite OP headline from a thread of yours, ever quinnox Jun 2014 #160
Ya know, if there was some context that made some larger point Warren Stupidity Jun 2014 #170
It came close BainsBane Jun 2014 #171
People should stay off the alert button. It is like crack to some here. Warren Stupidity Jun 2014 #172
Some of the people complaining about that thread being hidden BainsBane Jun 2014 #173
Oh I agree with that. Warren Stupidity Jun 2014 #174
AGREED!! doxydad Jun 2014 #175
Message auto-removed Name removed Sep 2018 #178

Lancero

(3,003 posts)
2. Mind adding a warning to the topic for the pic?
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:24 PM
Jun 2014

A slur doesn't imply a artistic rendition of a penis, which is what you've chosen to post.

Siwsan

(26,262 posts)
3. To be honest, I thought this was a post about Dick Cheney
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:24 PM
Jun 2014

And maybe it makes me a bad person to think so, but it seemed a brilliant assessment of the guy.

JustAnotherGen

(31,823 posts)
47. I thought so too BB!
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:45 PM
Jun 2014

I really expected a picture of Deferment Dick Sneering! Alas - you left out coward . . . Shoud ave been a dead give away!

gratuitous

(82,849 posts)
6. I was going to say, "What?"
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:26 PM
Jun 2014

But then I see you weren't addressing me, specifically.

And the reason it's not such a horrible insult to me is because all my life I have been assured of my privileged position in society.

 

Cali_Democrat

(30,439 posts)
7. This is why I love DU....sometimes there's a shitstorm going on and I have no clue...
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:28 PM
Jun 2014

Then I click on a thread like this and....

Wait Wut

(8,492 posts)
8. The only thing that bothers me...
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:28 PM
Jun 2014

...is the "No Free Use Allowed" stamped all over the pic...I'm a graphic artist. I've had too much stolen in the past to not cringe when I see that. Those watermarks never work.

Wait Wut

(8,492 posts)
29. Aw...
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:38 PM
Jun 2014

Y'know that actually made me feel pretty good. Somewhere a graphic artist just got a little anonymous respect.

There are tons of free or donation sites around. Let me see if I can't find something that fits for you.

 

Cooley Hurd

(26,877 posts)
10. Big diff using a phrase (which was a pun on Cheney's name)...
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:28 PM
Jun 2014

...vs using an offensive drawing AND using the same "misogynistic" language (i.e. the pun) as the Rude Pundit.

Sorry but, fail.

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
15. Let me get this straight
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:31 PM
Jun 2014

It's okay to refer to a woman by a crude term for genitalia, but not okay to show a drawing of a man's genitalia?

 

Cooley Hurd

(26,877 posts)
19. Someone used the C-word?
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:33 PM
Jun 2014

I'm not in favor of that at all! I thought the RP used "suck a dick" only.

And crude drawing of penises are just declasse in any instance...

(on edit: that term "suck a dick" is not homophobic as felacio is also a heterosexual act).

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
52. Yes, in the subject line in an OP in GD
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:48 PM
Jun 2014

and the Rude Pundit did use it to refer to Ann Coulter. Someone linked to an older entry of his in one of the many threads on the subject.

leftstreet

(36,108 posts)
23. It's a good thing Bill Clinton's first name isn't Richard
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:34 PM
Jun 2014

Can you imagine the far recesses of the Interwebs to which the Rude Pundit would be hurled forth from DU, should he have made a joke that Hillary and 'Dick' Clinton should go suck dick

O.M.G.

etherealtruth

(22,165 posts)
14. Wait .... (whine, whine, sniffle, whine) .... your post does not adulate me
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:30 PM
Jun 2014

Oh, this is an attempt to point out hypocrisy that may be associated with some posters.

Whew

 

pipoman

(16,038 posts)
65. no, but the crying and knashing of teeth
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:58 PM
Jun 2014

Was so completely over the top it should be an example of stupidity and hypocrisy to the posters in this thread....incredible how all the cryers in that subthread are in this thread proclaiming the idiocy of anyone who would be offended by this thread.

Why am I still talking about it? Because I have enjoyed DU, contributed my money every one of the 8 years I've been here, and a vocal few are doing all they can to ruin it based on race and gender. Over reacting and bullying others. The content and half of the responses are 50 times more offensive (that still isn't very offensive) than my post in a thread about parties, music, and comedy to bring awareness.

 

AverageJoe90

(10,745 posts)
133. The hypocrisy and/or ignorance by a certain few does get bothersome from time to time.....
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 07:53 PM
Jun 2014

Not to mention overreactions and/or even outright bullying: I can personally attest to the fact that I been wildly accused of "devaluing" experiences simply because I disagreed on one or two things that a person wrote, amongst other things; as for bullying, one poster actually became particularly nasty during a "white privilege" argument and accused me of being opposed to Civil Rights. On a board for supporters of the Democratic Party no less. Unfuckinbelievable.

I mean, I can forgive the occasional overreaction just fine, TBH: it happens to many of us from time to time. Bullying, on the other hand, is harder to let slip by.

 

pipoman

(16,038 posts)
142. this thread devolved into lies and bullying...
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 08:08 PM
Jun 2014
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10025108740

My off the cuff remark is #5. The resulting shitstorm even had one poster of accusing me of telling "fuck jokes"...over post #5...

note that the op was about getting together for fun, comedy and music....
 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
71. You don't feel insulted by the choice of walker they used?
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 06:01 PM
Jun 2014

A cane was far more appropriate! I am engraged!

Squinch

(50,949 posts)
28. Here you go:
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:38 PM
Jun 2014

ALERTER'S COMMENTS

Silly post - retaliation for other posts the OP is offended by. How about growing up?

You served on a randomly-selected Jury of DU members which reviewed this post. The review was completed at Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:32 PM, and the Jury voted 3-4 to LEAVE IT.

Juror #1 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #2 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: I don't view this as "retaliation". This strikes me as an attempt to point out hypocrisy. I am hoping the 'poor old me' idiots can understand the point of this post. I am old and I can easily understand it.
Juror #3 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #4 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: Nope. Not hiding. People have their hair on fire over people objecting to posts that are as offensive to women and LGBT people as this is to white men. To those who object to this, and not to the ones which are offensive to women and LGBT people, this is equal to what you have defended.
Juror #5 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #6 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: Maybe BB can create another sock puppet to post shit like this.
Juror #7 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: No explanation given

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
32. Juror #4 has stuck me in a strange loop
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:39 PM
Jun 2014

I can't tell if I'm offensively objecting or objectively offending.

etherealtruth

(22,165 posts)
56. I was juror #2
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:51 PM
Jun 2014

.... juror #6's response really creeped me out. Fine if they voted to hide because they were offended, that is what the jury is for. sadly, it appears the vote was based on a dislike of the person writing the OP


I actually would have voted to hide had the alert been based on the original copyrighted image's presence (as soon as BB was aware it appears BB removed it) ... I did not notice it at the time of the jury. Glad BB quickly did the right thing

 

Cooley Hurd

(26,877 posts)
36. It wasn't 0-6...
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:40 PM
Jun 2014

...so that's something.

I think most jury members, like myself, are sick of a stupid pun being blown out of proportion.

Stupid puns, when blown out of proportion by misinterpretation, are what make DU truly suck.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
68. You will have to make another OP that insults another group, I guess.
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:58 PM
Jun 2014

Evidently, by jury, picking on old white men is A-OKAY. I guess that could be a topic, who gets a free pass and who gets hidden by group/race/ethnicity.

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
75. I think a comparison of the jury results are midly interesting
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 06:05 PM
Jun 2014

as are some of the responses in this thread. Clearly some who vigorously defend insults against women, people of color and LGBT folk have issues with making fun of old white men. That was my point. People tend to be comfortable with words that demean historically oppressed groups, but not against people like them.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
76. I have to tell you, as depressing as this sounds, I think that is normal human behavior.
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 06:08 PM
Jun 2014

I can't tell you how many times in my life I have seen people not care about something, until it personally effects their life. THEN they are suddenly activists in whatever it is that wronged them.

 

Egnever

(21,506 posts)
101. I am missing where anyone at all was bothered by this post
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 06:45 PM
Jun 2014

Except the guy who objected to you using copyrighted material.

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
116. So you think the alert was out of admiration?
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 07:08 PM
Jun 2014

And the three votes to hide?
There have been a few. You need to look more carefully. One said unrec, another said plus one. Another said it wasn't right to make fun of people for being old. Some who were applauding the thread about the seven dirty words were less than pleased with this one.

 

Egnever

(21,506 posts)
147. You know what the alert was for you admit it down thread
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 08:25 PM
Jun 2014
Some will hide anything of mine, regardless of content


Had little or nothing to do with anyone being offended and at least one of the three who voted to hide admitted as much.
 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
163. But your experiment just proved their point.
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 10:36 PM
Jun 2014

I'll be as clear as possible. You've just proven that what YOU said is acceptable to DU'ers.

Be prepared to have this thread used as evidence each time you assert that the opposite is true.

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
162. How much exploration do you want?
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 10:34 PM
Jun 2014

You've just proven that the language you used, and in fact the sentiment behind that language, is consistent with the community standards of DU.

Not that this is in any way newsworthy, and you knew it before hand or you wouldn't have sacrificed one of your "hides" in vain.

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
169. No, I didn't know
Sat Jun 21, 2014, 03:20 AM
Jun 2014

because anything can and does get hidden. It's a crap shoot, and it came within one vote of a hide. The idea was to point out the hypocrisy. Of course the point will be lost and people will be up in arms the next time someone mentions privilege, old folks or white men, per usual. Insults are to be directed against the subaltern, not against the privileged. If anyone strays from that path, they are the subjects of witchhunts, as a few African American posters have learned over the past months. (even though those offending comments were far more mild since the vocabulary simply doesn't exist in the English language to insult white men as it does the rest of us).

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
39. You know it is hard coming up with terms to insult
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:42 PM
Jun 2014

white men. There just aren't that many in the English language.

Oh, DUzy, como sempre.

JustAnotherGen

(31,823 posts)
60. I have an idea
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:54 PM
Jun 2014

There are Good ones and there Bad ones - get that reference?

The Good Ones we shall call Carter. "Oh! You are such a Carter!". IE My boyfriend and future ex husband Jimmy Carter.

One who is one of the Good Ones but is a spitfire with a mouth - We shall say - You are such a Biden!

When they meet both criteria - "You are such A Redford!". That's only because Newman is dead!


^Those are the good ones!^



But if you are being a Dumb Dick Mofo - You are such a Cheney! <--- this can be followed by an 8th grade hair flip.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
67. You are, of course, correct. I find in terms of general insults
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:58 PM
Jun 2014

it's convenient to sort of rotate a certain number of pre-and-suffixes, and sort of randomly shuffle them together.

Good prefixes include "chuckle", "ass", "chowder", "fuck" and "dick"

Excellent choices for suffixes would be things like "head", "clown", "hat", "monkey", "stick", "turd"


Some of them, like dickhead, are obviously tired from overuse. Others, like asshead, don't really work very well.

Still, dickhat is good, fuckmonkey's not bad, chowderturd, dickstick... you see where I'm going with this.

Sissyk

(12,665 posts)
139. I had an Uncle that used to call us all little dipshits.
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 08:03 PM
Jun 2014

Dipshits -I think that's what I'm gonna start using. lol!

NightWatcher

(39,343 posts)
46. It's still acceptable to make fun of white men from the South
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:45 PM
Jun 2014

And speaking as one, I don't care...sticks and stones and whatnot.

Anyone who is not a white male from the South is a protected group.

Lint Head

(15,064 posts)
53. Not as opposed to anyone.
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:50 PM
Jun 2014

Making fun of people, period, is not good. There is a difference between sarcasm and irony.

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
57. Could you clarify?
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:52 PM
Jun 2014

Do you support the Rude Pundit's speech and the other thread now in GD listing a string of vulgar words? Is the problem that I'm making fun rather than expressing outright hatred, as those words do?

Lint Head

(15,064 posts)
69. You specifically asked two questions.
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:59 PM
Jun 2014

1.) Is it okay to insult some people and not others? No.

2.) Or it is who uses the words that counts? It's the "context" which can be complicated by "who" uses the word. George Carlin used vulgar words yet it was to make a point. A member of the KKK or a religious bigot or a rapist could never use a slur or a vulgar term without being offensive to me.

Still cloudy?

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
72. I understand that
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 06:02 PM
Jun 2014

What I'm wondering is how you see this post vs. the others on DU lately, including one in GD that currently has 51 recs and the entire kerfuffle over the Rude Pundit.

 

AverageJoe90

(10,745 posts)
137. And just who is doing that on this site, who isn't an RWNJ troll?
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 08:02 PM
Jun 2014

Last I checked, the administrators of this site don't tolerate actual racism.....or even lower prejudice, for that matter. And neither do the vast majority of DUers, either.

bluesbassman

(19,373 posts)
51. Aww, that's the spirit!
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:47 PM
Jun 2014

You knocked that one right out of the park! And the context in which you've used these slurs is... is... is, wait a tic, there is no context. Oh well, it's great to see you joining the Word Liberation Front at any rate.

Please proceed.

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
54. The context is to examine hypocrisy
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:50 PM
Jun 2014

Why some groups are fair game and not others. I was at a distinct advantage in that English simply doesn't have many words to insult that particular demographic.

bluesbassman

(19,373 posts)
64. I see. I bet if you tried really hard though you could come up with some more to help in your quest.
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 05:56 PM
Jun 2014

Best of luck to you in your endeavor.

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
77. I figured it was a toss up
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 06:10 PM
Jun 2014

I was prepared to take a hide, which would have been my fifth, in order to make the point. It needed saying.

I got two hides for this: Some will hide anything of mine, regardless of content, as juror 6 made clear. The more salient point, however, is that people are more than happy to declare to be freedom of speech insults against those they see as lesser, but are not so tolerant of insults toward people like them. The alert and some of the comments in here show as much.

You were supportive of the thread using vulgar insults to women and others, but you have issues with this one. I find that interesting. That is the point I wanted to explore. I wanted to show that what we regard as free and acceptable speech is bound by who we are.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
78. Well, I have a big jury blacklist just for that reason.
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 06:13 PM
Jun 2014

And it was a close vote. Don't go into timeout, not worth it imo.

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
84. Were the vulgar insults funny?
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 06:18 PM
Jun 2014

So what's the problem? Is the post not hateful enough to qualify as a righteous expression of free speech? I am limited by the paucity of words in the English language expressing contempt for white men.

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
102. Actually I see the opposite
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 06:46 PM
Jun 2014

How many recs did that thread about age get? And then there was the witch hunt over the person who referred to some DUers as "malcontents." Then all of the people up in arms that anyone dared to use the word privilege. There are some of us who indeed do take bigotry quite seriously, but then there are more than a few who are more concerned with the so-called oppression of the more fortunate. People guard their privilege very closely, even imagining that a comment about age compares to centuries of slavery, Jim Crow, lynchings, and discrimination.

boston bean

(36,221 posts)
90. If Rude has said, Dick Cheney is a white privileged old man, some of these peeps
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 06:27 PM
Jun 2014

would have been screaming Rude was a reverse racist! A divider! And how it is not helpful to categorize "all" men like this.

 

AverageJoe90

(10,745 posts)
134. I wouldn't have. And neither would have anybody else who wasn't a troll(or missed the point).
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 07:59 PM
Jun 2014

Because you see, Dick Cheney IS in a position of power and actual privilege. And not a single (non-troll) person would have made the "not all men!" argument, because I doubt the Rude Pundit would ever engage in the very same tactics that some radfems do. So I'm afraid this is nothing more than a strawman. Make of that observation, what you will.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
93. This is funny.
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 06:36 PM
Jun 2014

Last edited Fri Jun 20, 2014, 07:15 PM - Edit history (1)

15. Pasty-face
14. Honky
13. Hairback
12. Gringo
11. Ghost/Casper
10. Redneck
9. White Bread
8. White Trash
7. White Devil
6. Whitey
5. Neanderthal
4. Peckerwood
3. Cracker
2. Ofay
1. Nazi

I found a list.


Forgot Great White Ape.
And Silverback Gorilla.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
108. I really don't know yet.
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 06:52 PM
Jun 2014

I got it from my stepdad of things not to call him. He doesn't mind peckerwood though.

 

Egnever

(21,506 posts)
109. Hmm as a white guy
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 06:53 PM
Jun 2014

The only one that would remotely bother me is Nazi.


on edit

Didnt notice redneck..That one would probably bother me as well.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
112. I hate when people call people Nazi's.
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 06:59 PM
Jun 2014

Redneck is different because some of my black family in the south call themselves rednecks and love tractors. My white family does too. I never use that one either since i do not see it as an insult. I like perkerwood. What is it? What is a Peckerwood anyway? Nobody knows.

 

pipoman

(16,038 posts)
123. I believe "peckerwood" was adopted by white prison gangs
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 07:22 PM
Jun 2014

If not coined by them, back in the 1960's.

 

pipoman

(16,038 posts)
127. I was told this during an interview with one of the only surviving
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 07:38 PM
Jun 2014

Founders of the aryan brotherhood around 20 years ago.

 

Egnever

(21,506 posts)
149. interesting you made me look
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 08:29 PM
Jun 2014

wikipedia says...

Peckerwood is the inverse of the word woodpecker. In most parts of the country where the word originated, the woodpecker is considered to be a pest and or nuisance. Like other words sharing a similar context (a nuisance, bother, pest etc.), it quickly became a common retort in most social circles and groups of friends. It is a derogatory term referring to southern whites, similar to "rednecks".

In the 1940s, the abbreviated version "wood" entered California prison slang, originally meaning an Okie mainly from the San Joaquin Valley. This has caused the symbol of the woodpecker to be used by white power skinheads and other pro-white groups.[1][2] Some white supremacist groups call male members "peckerwoods" and female members "featherwoods".[3] It is usually drawn with a long beak, sometimes drawn to resemble Woody Woodpecker or Mr. Horsepower. Sometimes the letters "PW" or "APW" (Peckerwood and American Peckerwood) are used.[1]

 

pipoman

(16,038 posts)
151. The person I was interviewing who explained this to me was incarcerated at
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 08:39 PM
Jun 2014

San Quentin in 1962....

 

Egnever

(21,506 posts)
153. God old San Quentin
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 08:43 PM
Jun 2014

Back in 1982 I was going out with an assistant wardens daughter at San Quentin, I used to sneak through a hole in the fence to go to her house on the grounds.Always kind of freaked me out that there were these huge holes in the fences no one seemed to care about and that I was never ever confronted by anyone asking what I was doing there.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
119. I do it often.
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 07:14 PM
Jun 2014

Alaska has rapists galore and i read the sex offender registry. There are so many red dots in my neighborhood i just assume they are all creeps. I have a friend on there. I am not his friend anymore.

 

Egnever

(21,506 posts)
94. Apparently missed the original but this one doesnt bother me a bit.
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 06:37 PM
Jun 2014

Course I am not constantly looking to be outraged either.

Puzzledtraveller

(5,937 posts)
98. sticks and stone may break my bones...
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 06:42 PM
Jun 2014

In High School some kids thought I was Jewish, I was called kike many times. I didn't even respond to say I was not Jewish.

quakerboy

(13,920 posts)
111. Good lord
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 06:59 PM
Jun 2014

that thing is long. Thats like, dangerous to health and safety long. He should really get that looked at.

Aldo Leopold

(685 posts)
114. People are either hypersensitive or they're not.
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 07:00 PM
Jun 2014

Gender, age, race, sexual orientation are secondary to that, amplifying or muting it as the case may be.

Just my two cents.

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
132. You don't recall the outrage thread about age?
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 07:51 PM
Jun 2014

Or the one about "malcontents." The first in particularly got over 200 recs. That was a huge reaction to a single post not even directed at that person, and the pile on was tremendous. Those same people think homophobic, sexist, and racist insults are merely an expression of free speech.

 

pipoman

(16,038 posts)
161. Then there's this.
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 09:59 PM
Jun 2014
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10025108740

After reading the op start with post #5 and read that subthread, then maybe we can discuss overreacting and bullying. ..

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
125. Nope
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 07:24 PM
Jun 2014

This was inspired by another thread in GD. I couldn't possibly manage the Rude Pundit's shtick.

Dragonfli

(10,622 posts)
129. No that is perfectly fine here as double standards are all the rage with the hall monitors.
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 07:42 PM
Jun 2014

Personally I wouldn't hide either post, but then again, I never was one to get the vapors over funny nonsense.

NuttyFluffers

(6,811 posts)
130. that cartoon is adorable! look at that bike horn on the walker!
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 07:44 PM
Jun 2014

gets me every time. "outta my way, speeding on thru!"

oooh, i totally want handlebar streamers on mine when the time comes. or would it be too hipster to start much younger? totally taking the walker instead of crutches if i ever get injured.

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
143. No, Bob Dole doesn't deserve it
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 08:09 PM
Jun 2014

You can't tell me with Cheney's heart problems that everything is fully operational.

NutmegYankee

(16,199 posts)
144. Given his numerous surgeries...
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 08:10 PM
Jun 2014

one never knows what "mechanical" enhancements were installed. I swear he makes Darth Vader seem like a swell guy.

hobbit709

(41,694 posts)
138. I've been called worse in at least 8 languages.
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 08:03 PM
Jun 2014

Big deal. Insults are like drinks, they only affect you if you accept them.

Response to BainsBane (Original post)

152. racial slurs are freedom of speech
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 08:41 PM
Jun 2014

However, that doesn't mean its wise to use racial slurs. There are millions of things that are perfectly legal to do, but only a moron would do.

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
168. I agree
Sat Jun 21, 2014, 01:34 AM
Jun 2014

However, some here insist that they should be spoken. Truth be told, they are less keen on those than vulgar insults against women. Those are sacred.

MicaelS

(8,747 posts)
154. It's perfectly acceptable to insult men all the time.
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 08:44 PM
Jun 2014

And it happens right here on DU, quite frequently. And yes, women are the ones often making the slur. Just as often as other men.

Don't believe it?

The constant reference to the (theoretical) small size of a man's penis. Not based on any evidence, because he own a gun, or drives a big, expensive car or truck, or buys or owns something which is viewed as an ostentatious display of wealth by others. In other words men are constantly accused of being deficient in their manhood and sexuality because certain people don't like certain male's purchases and / or behavior. Despite being also "constantly" being told by women that penis size really does not matter to women.

The same type of comment is almost never made about the size of a women's breasts or the size of her genitals. The closest that it comes, is calling a woman the dreaded "C" word. And THAT provokes howls out outrage.

So to answer your question "Yes, is it perfectly okay to insult some people and not others."

And let's cut the crap. What all this really boils down to is an attitude among some that they are "entitled" to never, ever being insulted.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
166. If "small penis jokes" are the worst thing we men have to worry about, then I'd say we're doing
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 11:53 PM
Jun 2014

pretty well.

Bonobo

(29,257 posts)
155. Exactly whose hypocrisy are you trying to demonstrate? Cause the thing is...
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 08:57 PM
Jun 2014

It seems to me that it highlights yours.

As for me, I would allow your post as well as the other you are referring to.

Words do not actually have the power to leap across the internet and harm you (well, just your ego) so I would let them be.

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
156. Really?
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 08:59 PM
Jun 2014

Words like Lorena Baguette that you made yourself apoplectic about? Or that you insisted the word "fail" was a nasty personal insult? Give me a break. You're the last one to make that claim. No one gripes more about words than you do. You even complain because there is no "men's history week."

Response to BainsBane (Reply #156)

HereSince1628

(36,063 posts)
177. "Words do not actually have the power to leap across the internet and harm"
Sun Jun 22, 2014, 11:40 AM
Jun 2014

I think that view depends upon a narrow bounding of the system of interest and parsing of the utility of words.

I see the truth in your statement in a limited sense, but I wonder if taking a reductionist view is as useful as an integrationist approach that takes a wider perspective.

It's fairly clear that words are used on the internet just as they are elsewhere. And those uses include applications in the propagation and maintenance of bigotry and chauvinism.

Of course we laugh when our side's chauvinism promotes our group's superiority in attempts at hilarious broadsides against iconic political opponents or policies. It's all supposed to raucous fun within our group.

But it's also clear that overwhelmingly groups that have had the need to struggle for equal dignity, groups that populate the Left, have had to fight against stigmatizing words intended to educate others to attitudes and behaviors that produce discrimination

It's also true that readers vary in sensitivities just as do people in society. Depending upon factors that could be both innate or acquired it's possible that people can vary in perception, scarring past experience, or otherwise be made raw and more sensitive to words. Consequently the impact of words depend not only on their authors, but also on readers. In such circumstance, pejoratives intended to besmirch open targets (members of out-group(s)) can cause unintended and unexpected collateral damage.

In an integrationist's consideration communication takes place along axes that pass through and engage a richer complexity than that provided by the simplicity of reductionism.

With respect to the current discussion across DU, the heaping of insults onto sensitive (perhaps traumatized) people as faint hearts, goats, etc. seems if nothing else evidence that words are used on this site on the internet to harm through shame and humiliation.







BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
165. I don't either, truth be told
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 11:44 PM
Jun 2014

It's not something I use in my normal course of speaking or writing. I did it to make a point.

 

quinnox

(20,600 posts)
160. I think this is my favorite OP headline from a thread of yours, ever
Fri Jun 20, 2014, 09:44 PM
Jun 2014


First time I have ever found one of them somewhat amusing, at any rate.
 

Warren Stupidity

(48,181 posts)
170. Ya know, if there was some context that made some larger point
Sat Jun 21, 2014, 12:12 PM
Jun 2014

then this would be ok. Your op, for example is context that makes a larger point, and is ok, and so far, has not been hidden by jury nor locked by host. Imagine that.

BainsBane

(53,032 posts)
173. Some of the people complaining about that thread being hidden
Sat Jun 21, 2014, 12:52 PM
Jun 2014

are the biggest alerters. HOF members don't alert on ourselves, and I rarely post an OP that isn't alerted on. I got two hides for
and they resulted in my being flagged. Considering some of the stuff that gets hidden, I don't have a lot of sympathy for angst over a single hide on a Rude Pundit's blog entry. I wouldn't have alerted on it, but then I wouldn't have read it if not for this kerfuffle. I thought one of Taterguy's hides was way worse. Lots of hides are worse than that. The outrage is highly selective.

 

Warren Stupidity

(48,181 posts)
174. Oh I agree with that.
Sat Jun 21, 2014, 03:29 PM
Jun 2014

There are at least two wars going on that I know of, and there are several good people, long time duers, who have been victimized.

Response to BainsBane (Original post)

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