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ChisolmTrailDem

(9,463 posts)
Wed Jun 25, 2014, 02:05 PM Jun 2014

I'm out the door to take my beloved to her mother's side at the hospital. UPDATE: See Post #64. nt

Last edited Thu Jun 26, 2014, 10:40 PM - Edit history (1)

She suffered a stroke on top of already being in ICU for other critical problems. It doesn't look good.

If you love God, please pray for them both. Otherwise, your positive vibes will surely help ease the transition, no matter the direction it takes.

I usually like to stay and participate in my OPs, but I hope you understand.

She's ready to go now. Thank you all in advance.

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I'm out the door to take my beloved to her mother's side at the hospital. UPDATE: See Post #64. nt (Original Post) ChisolmTrailDem Jun 2014 OP
Best wishes to all. MineralMan Jun 2014 #1
Sending good thoughts and prayers... vankuria Jun 2014 #29
Praying for all of you. God Bless. 840high Jun 2014 #2
Here are lots of positive vibes!!! RKP5637 Jun 2014 #3
Wishing the best for her. William769 Jun 2014 #4
Take care villager Jun 2014 #5
Sending vibes sakabatou Jun 2014 #6
take care of you and yours. seabeyond Jun 2014 #7
Holding you and your family in my heart. Coventina Jun 2014 #8
Prayers ascending. hrmjustin Jun 2014 #9
If she's ready to go then you need to tell her that is okay! dballance Jun 2014 #10
I believe he meant his wife is ready to go to the hospital, newcriminal Jun 2014 #12
Good Point. I miss-fired. dballance Jun 2014 #53
Peace and comfort to you and your family. PeaceNikki Jun 2014 #11
Prayers sent. newcriminal Jun 2014 #13
Best wishes to her, and her, and you. uppityperson Jun 2014 #14
Prayers and wishes for a speedy recovery. n/t FSogol Jun 2014 #15
Will keep her in my thoughts NEOhiodemocrat Jun 2014 #16
Best wishes for the best MissDeeds Jun 2014 #17
Peaceful Vibes for All. Tuesday Afternoon Jun 2014 #18
Good thoughts to you all. riqster Jun 2014 #19
Positive vibes for both of them and you. LoisB Jun 2014 #20
We are with You in our hearts & spirit! Thanks for being with Your Wife at this time!! hue Jun 2014 #21
Sending prayers and good vibes to your family. gademocrat7 Jun 2014 #22
Prayers for you all. nt silvershadow Jun 2014 #23
Postive Thoughts and Prayers for your Family! Liberalynn Jun 2014 #24
{{{Peace}}} shenmue Jun 2014 #25
Sending you all PumpkinAle Jun 2014 #26
Prayers and vibes to all of you in this difficult time. bluesbassman Jun 2014 #27
Prayers sent for all... Peacetrain Jun 2014 #28
Prayers for an easy transition...and strength to you and your beloved... CaliforniaPeggy Jun 2014 #30
Thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time. hamsterjill Jun 2014 #31
Sending vibes to all of you during this difficult time snacker Jun 2014 #32
Chisolm, you have my family's prayers and all the friends in my prayer circle. Ecumenist Jun 2014 #33
Peace be with you and your family. Ishoutandscream2 Jun 2014 #34
Hugs to all! Generic Other Jun 2014 #35
() Jack Rabbit Jun 2014 #36
Sending good thoughts, prayers and hugs to you and your family. n/t woodsprite Jun 2014 #37
My very best vibes for a good outcome either way. lunatica Jun 2014 #38
(((.....))) handmade34 Jun 2014 #39
Love and positive energy is headed to both of you. peace13 Jun 2014 #40
Best wishes to you and your family. TheBlackAdder Jun 2014 #41
Prayers and best wishes for all of you. n/t mia Jun 2014 #42
Good luck and be there for her nadinbrzezinski Jun 2014 #43
Holding you and your loved ones in the Light. n/t TygrBright Jun 2014 #44
I'm so sorry. Beacool Jun 2014 #45
Thoughts of peace to you and yours. The Wielding Truth Jun 2014 #46
Praying for peace to surround all of you. nt Granny M Jun 2014 #47
Wishing peace and strength you and your family. gringo43 Jun 2014 #48
Sending thoughts and prayers to you and your family n/t Oldtimeralso Jun 2014 #49
best wishes barbtries Jun 2014 #50
Strokes no fun at all! Riftaxe Jun 2014 #51
vibes irisblue Jun 2014 #52
Here's what you need malaise Jun 2014 #54
god bless all of you. i hope for you all the best roguevalley Jun 2014 #55
. JI7 Jun 2014 #56
I lost my mother 2 1/2 years ago Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Jun 2014 #57
Sending you Good Thoughts and Positive Vibrations and an anecdote ... 1StrongBlackMan Jun 2014 #58
loving and healing vibes for best outcome for her and all who love her. niyad Jun 2014 #59
I am so sorry, and I've been there, too. Rhiannon12866 Jun 2014 #60
May her going be easy; may her name be remembered for a blessing Hekate Jun 2014 #61
I'll be chanting Nam Myoho Renge Kyo this morning for your beautiful mom's recovery! DesertDiamond Jun 2014 #62
Stay strong Rider3 Jun 2014 #63
Kicking this to thank you all for your prayers, good vibes, best wishes, and kind words... ChisolmTrailDem Jun 2014 #64
i am sorry. thankfully she passed peacefully Liberal_in_LA Jun 2014 #65
Please accept my deepest condolences for your loss. greatlaurel Jun 2014 #66
All my sympathies to you & yours, ChisolmTrailDem countryjake Jun 2014 #67
So sorry to hear that. joshcryer Jun 2014 #68
I just now saw your post. Blue_In_AK Jun 2014 #69
 

dballance

(5,756 posts)
10. If she's ready to go then you need to tell her that is okay!
Wed Jun 25, 2014, 02:13 PM
Jun 2014

One of the things the nurses and therapists told us when my dad was in hospice is that it is important to tell your loved one it is okay to go. That you love them, you'll always remember them and you'll be okay even after they are gone.

 

newcriminal

(2,190 posts)
12. I believe he meant his wife is ready to go to the hospital,
Wed Jun 25, 2014, 02:22 PM
Jun 2014

not that his mother-in-law was ready to die.

 

dballance

(5,756 posts)
53. Good Point. I miss-fired.
Wed Jun 25, 2014, 08:43 PM
Jun 2014

However, my advice still applies to dealing with a loved one in the last part of their life. I have that experience and wish to share it with others to help them deal with these difficult times.

 

MissDeeds

(7,499 posts)
17. Best wishes for the best
Wed Jun 25, 2014, 02:32 PM
Jun 2014

possible outcome. I hope your beloved and her mother are granted strength and healing throughout this painful ordeal. My thoughts are with you all.


MissDeeds

Ecumenist

(6,086 posts)
33. Chisolm, you have my family's prayers and all the friends in my prayer circle.
Wed Jun 25, 2014, 03:18 PM
Jun 2014

You are NOT alone, honey....

Riftaxe

(2,693 posts)
51. Strokes no fun at all!
Wed Jun 25, 2014, 08:13 PM
Jun 2014

Best wishes, and and if need be remember there is real person in there somewhere! So worse thing you can do is treat her differently then you normally do.


best remedy!

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
58. Sending you Good Thoughts and Positive Vibrations and an anecdote ...
Wed Jun 25, 2014, 08:53 PM
Jun 2014

My Mom has suffered two strokes (and an unknown number of "mini-strokes&quot over the past 5 years. I spent last week celebrating her 90th Birthday.

I guess that's to say ... what doesn't look good to us, there are times when the Universe has a different vision.

Rhiannon12866

(205,320 posts)
60. I am so sorry, and I've been there, too.
Wed Jun 25, 2014, 11:08 PM
Jun 2014

I lost my mother in 2011. She fell down the stairs in the dark when Hurricane Irene caused the power to go out. She was rushed to a medical center over an hour away and I drove there to see her every day for three weeks. My thoughts and prayers are with all three of you.

DesertDiamond

(1,616 posts)
62. I'll be chanting Nam Myoho Renge Kyo this morning for your beautiful mom's recovery!
Thu Jun 26, 2014, 12:04 PM
Jun 2014

Please update us on her progress!

 

ChisolmTrailDem

(9,463 posts)
64. Kicking this to thank you all for your prayers, good vibes, best wishes, and kind words...
Thu Jun 26, 2014, 10:39 PM
Jun 2014

My beloved's mother passed away just after 10am this morning. She was in no pain and passed peacefully.

It's been a long couple of days and nights. Just know that I appreciate each and every word every one of you took the time think about and write and the positive energy you sent through the universe to help ease her transition to the other side.

Peace and love to you all.

greatlaurel

(2,004 posts)
66. Please accept my deepest condolences for your loss.
Thu Jun 26, 2014, 10:54 PM
Jun 2014

Take care of yourself and your beloved at this difficult time. The loss of a dear parent is so very difficult. It is always too soon. Hugs to you both. Rest in peace, dear lady

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