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avebury

(10,952 posts)
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 01:31 PM Jul 2014

An interesting way to deal with open carry laws:

http://www.pqed.org/2014/06/how-should-people-respond-to-open-carry.html?m=1

The questions that concerns me now is how we bystanders should react when people come into a store with guns. There really is no legitimate way of determining intent. Even if the people with guns are carrying a sign claiming to be activists (which they do not do), they could be lying, just setting us all up for slaughter. And since there is no way to know what is on their minds, all we have are our instincts, but as we all should know, our instincts are often racist, classist, and frequently mistaken. So, what should we do?


My proposal is as follows: we should all leave. Immediately. Leave the food on the table in the restaurant. Leave the groceries in the cart, in the aisle. Stop talking or engaging in the exchange. Just leave, unceremoniously, and fast.

But here is the key part: don’t pay. Stopping to pay in the presence of a person with a gun means risking your and your loved ones’ lives; money shouldn’t trump this. It doesn’t matter if you ate the meal. It doesn’t matter if you’ve just received food from the deli counter that can’t be resold. It doesn’t matter if you just got a haircut. Leave. If the business loses money, so be it. They can make the activists pay.
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An interesting way to deal with open carry laws: (Original Post) avebury Jul 2014 OP
Now way are we hanging around if some asshole walks in with a gun, no way, AND, RKP5637 Jul 2014 #1
truly great idea thank you! ALBliberal Jul 2014 #2
appropriate samsingh Jul 2014 #3
So an 'open carry asshole' and a 'stand your ground asshole' walk into a grocery store NightWatcher Jul 2014 #4
that scenario ... napkinz Jul 2014 #10
I would leave first IronLionZion Jul 2014 #11
That is what I would do. Lugnut Jul 2014 #13
This. quakerboy Jul 2014 #29
After leaving, I will inform the management. By phone. nt Bigmack Jul 2014 #72
This advice has been around for a while.... Turbineguy Jul 2014 #5
I taught that for 20 years! :-) WinkyDink Jul 2014 #82
Memories! ChazInAz Jul 2014 #123
Do it. nt Eleanors38 Jul 2014 #83
It is also important to know what the Alcohol Tobacco and Firearms rules are in avebury Jul 2014 #6
Chuck E Cheese is a dangerous place. Those bears are real creepy. alfredo Jul 2014 #116
leave . . . but let someone in management know WHY you are leaving DrDan Jul 2014 #7
This - and followup with a letter Retrograde Jul 2014 #24
agree - definitely make it clear why you left and will not return DrDan Jul 2014 #37
I view leaving the business under these circumstance avebury Jul 2014 #136
Agree so the management needs to know why they are losing business DrDan Jul 2014 #138
I live in a state with pretty strict gun control laws. (New York) The_Commonist Jul 2014 #8
What are the legal repercussions? BrotherIvan Jul 2014 #9
Manager was a moron. dilby Jul 2014 #12
Unfortunately, that's what I thought BrotherIvan Jul 2014 #15
The proper method is to notify the manager that you are uncomfortable. dilby Jul 2014 #19
Yes BrotherIvan Jul 2014 #21
I plan to start yelling Gun, Gun, Gun as loud as I can and asking for the manager...... Swede Atlanta Jul 2014 #33
It's prudent BrotherIvan Jul 2014 #41
I see your point, but that will only cause panic among everyone else. davidpdx Jul 2014 #59
So what is wrong with screaming fire in a theater A Simple Game Jul 2014 #111
That's *falsely* yelling fire marybourg Jul 2014 #126
"I can assure you that based on those facts you would never be in any trouble with the police." SCUBANOW Jul 2014 #97
Yell Gun!, then run out in a crouched position. alfredo Jul 2014 #112
Seems like that is a different discussion other than open carry laws... User_Friendly Jul 2014 #91
For the time being, perhaps skepticscott Jul 2014 #131
Such BS. They can only charge you with a crime if you commit one - if your intent is to prevent jtuck004 Jul 2014 #31
Failing to pay for food you ate is a crime. dilby Jul 2014 #38
It's not an unfounded fear to be afraid of a gun BrotherIvan Jul 2014 #40
Being afraid of guns makes you kind of unstable and paranoid. dilby Jul 2014 #42
Not afraid of guns - HAVE NO CONFIDENCE IN MOST PEOPLE WHO CARRY THEM - jtuck004 Jul 2014 #46
But you just proved my point BrotherIvan Jul 2014 #47
I have one rule about guns. tonybgood Jul 2014 #54
There's nothing unstable or paranoid about it. Paladin Jul 2014 #100
...kinda like people who feel the need to carry guns in public. lastlib Jul 2014 #101
I came from a relatively gun free society. mwooldri Jul 2014 #108
So how many mass shootings need to occur before it isn't paranoia? A Simple Game Jul 2014 #120
No, your racism is not the same as concern for individual safety. But feel free jtuck004 Jul 2014 #45
I have learned that for a gunner, "criminal" means dark person BrotherIvan Jul 2014 #51
So if a racist sees a black person and assumes criminal. dilby Jul 2014 #58
The idea that people are shot and killed by guns is by no means illogical. BrotherIvan Jul 2014 #68
It's just as illogical as people are robbed by blacks. dilby Jul 2014 #69
Look at the photo in response #60 of the two guys with rifles BrotherIvan Jul 2014 #73
Have you ever heard anyone ever being accidentally robbed? Accidentally mugged? Accidentally Ed Suspicious Jul 2014 #128
The chances of getting killed by gun shot go down.... daleanime Jul 2014 #130
I don't mind guns. I mind people who must use them as an extension of their personality. jtuck004 Jul 2014 #88
Why would a person need a gun on them at all times? BrotherIvan Jul 2014 #89
If you need a gun, you need to have it with you. That said, it's just one of many tools,the jtuck004 Jul 2014 #90
How is it racist? Because I used the word black? dilby Jul 2014 #55
Big difference, Dilby. First, you make a choice to strap on a gun, and a bad choice at that. Hoyt Jul 2014 #57
Don't own a gun and have no interest in purchasing one. dilby Jul 2014 #61
Gunner logic: billh58 Jul 2014 #79
It's demonstrably true that gun controllers try to tie RKBA to racism, bigotry, and misogyny.... NYC_SKP Jul 2014 #146
What if it were several poisonous snakes instead of a little spider? Bandit Jul 2014 #110
Black skin is not lethal, a loaded glock is. alfredo Jul 2014 #114
Not really. Hassin Bin Sober Jul 2014 #66
I'd suggest he send the bill to the guy with the gun. lastlib Jul 2014 #99
Who would be under no obligation, legal or otherwise, to pay it. IronGate Jul 2014 #102
not a good manager Skittles Jul 2014 #75
I wish you were there BrotherIvan Jul 2014 #76
Legally you're acting in self defense. You'd been presented with an imminent danger valerief Jul 2014 #106
It probably depends on the state BrotherIvan Jul 2014 #137
Ah, yes, being a PoC adds a wrinkle in those KKK states. And I agree with you about the valerief Jul 2014 #152
Always good to read your posts, Brother :) davidthegnome Jul 2014 #122
I'm glad you're ok! BrotherIvan Jul 2014 #135
every person with a gun is a threat and should be treated as such nt msongs Jul 2014 #14
Absolute agreement BrotherIvan Jul 2014 #18
How to tell the difference between an open-carry patriot and a deranged killer Electric Monk Jul 2014 #23
To an extent, I already do that. Iggo Jul 2014 #16
Now that we've banned open carry in California Mr.Bill Jul 2014 #17
How about if I just do what I normally do? aikoaiko Jul 2014 #20
You're outrageous sarisataka Jul 2014 #27
Yeah I am in the same boat. dilby Jul 2014 #28
You don't get it. It's not the gun so much as it is the yahoo who'd strap one on and walk into a Hoyt Jul 2014 #60
Look where the guy's finger is on the right BrotherIvan Jul 2014 #70
Okay, just go to another store, Bro. Eleanors38 Jul 2014 #85
What do you bet that neither of these losers ever get laid? kimbutgar Jul 2014 #132
Everybody needs love, even if cold steel and ammo. Hoyt Jul 2014 #156
It just doesn't seem the same kimbutgar Jul 2014 #157
You feel comfortable around guns. Some have a history with gun violence and... Tikki Jul 2014 #62
My, god! You don't mean that! The horror. Eleanors38 Jul 2014 #84
Future OP: Crunchy Frog Jul 2014 #93
Another anti-gunner fantasizing about pro-rkba types getting shot. aikoaiko Jul 2014 #115
Nope. Just pointing out that there are some valid reasons Crunchy Frog Jul 2014 #141
It may also be a good idea to write letters to the editor in those cities and areas No Vested Interest Jul 2014 #22
I like walking out AND calling the police. Make as much noise as possible. rickyhall Jul 2014 #25
The police open carry, ZombieHorde Jul 2014 #30
The police are trained and accountable Retrograde Jul 2014 #44
They are trained, but they are less accountable than others. ZombieHorde Jul 2014 #48
They will get tired of it for sure and probably ask you to stop calling them. dilby Jul 2014 #32
A private business can certainly put a stop to it, IronGate Jul 2014 #34
Sure there is something the police can do, they can verify the intentions of the armed person. n/t A Simple Game Jul 2014 #121
In some states, if the person is not presenting a threat, IronGate Jul 2014 #125
If they can pull me over and say they did so because they thought I had a bald tire A Simple Game Jul 2014 #142
Here. IronGate Jul 2014 #143
Poor examples. A Simple Game Jul 2014 #145
They will get tired of that sarisataka Jul 2014 #35
Always call when you reach a safe distance. MohRokTah Jul 2014 #26
Has there ever been a massacre by the open carry crowd? LittleBlue Jul 2014 #36
Jus how you propose identifying an open carry gun avebury Jul 2014 #39
I dont agree with your logic. People with guns via open carry are trying to make a statement rhett o rick Jul 2014 #113
Having been hit by a bullet fragment Oldtimeralso Jul 2014 #43
Not a bad idea. Business owners who allow guns, have to provide a "no gun" zone. Hoyt Jul 2014 #64
With you completely. lupinella Jul 2014 #87
It's real simple... derby378 Jul 2014 #49
"Without devolving into a nation of whiners." This isn't whining. We've all heard enough about Squinch Jul 2014 #56
"WHINERS"????? That's one helluva term to use in a nation of GUN-NUTS who WHINE all the time WinkyDink Jul 2014 #94
Pity the poor store clerks.. When someone comes in with a gun, SoCalDem Jul 2014 #50
Exactly BrotherIvan Jul 2014 #139
Ignore it and it will go away MosheFeingold Jul 2014 #52
"these guys just want attention"---No offense (I'm a proud daughter of a WWII vet), but we live in WinkyDink Jul 2014 #95
Sounds good, but Zimmerman was "a watcher for some non-existent foe" truebluegreen Jul 2014 #98
+1000. nt Erich Bloodaxe BSN Jul 2014 #151
I love this but I would make a suggestion: I would not be able to sleep at night if I left without Squinch Jul 2014 #53
This ^^^. I'd immediately walk out telling the host/hostess to box my food, and bring me the bill riderinthestorm Jul 2014 #74
No it wouldn't. They have to LOSE money to make any changes. nt valerief Jul 2014 #105
I think it depends on the situation and where I am davidpdx Jul 2014 #63
Excellent idea. JDPriestly Jul 2014 #65
If you already got a haircut, or some other service, Jenoch Jul 2014 #67
I refuse to spend my tourist dollars in a state that has "open carry". Xolodno Jul 2014 #71
Colorado is an open carry state. nt hack89 Jul 2014 #77
Doh!!!! Xolodno Jul 2014 #80
Very few states ban open carry. nt. IronGate Jul 2014 #103
I know an acquaintance who is a 69 year old woman onecent Jul 2014 #78
Why should I let some asshole ruin my dinner? hunter Jul 2014 #81
I prefer a bolo knife: dig holes, cut bamboo, cut arms Eleanors38 Jul 2014 #86
This is decidedly brilliant. joshcryer Jul 2014 #92
Frankly, I would be so shocked I think I'd scream, "GUN! HE'S GOT A GUN!!" Not joking. WinkyDink Jul 2014 #96
Absolutely. That's the only way to deal with business owners who allow open carry. nt valerief Jul 2014 #104
Excellent idea. n/t CanonRay Jul 2014 #107
The next guy here in Texas I see with a gun Gman Jul 2014 #109
Hmmm.....6'2" and 215 vs. a bullet. Yep, you're toast. BIG toast, but toast. WinkyDink Jul 2014 #117
What's he gonna do? Shoot me because I embarrassed him? Gman Jul 2014 #153
Asked and answered! WinkyDink Jul 2014 #154
So you are in favor sarisataka Jul 2014 #140
That just ain't gonna happen Gman Jul 2014 #144
Back in the real world sarisataka Jul 2014 #147
Just because it's a woman in the stupid open carry bunch Gman Jul 2014 #149
pretty much my default quaker bill Jul 2014 #118
YES!!! DesertDiamond Jul 2014 #119
I agree. catrose Jul 2014 #124
Leave, but BE SURE to tell management why Auggie Jul 2014 #127
I live in Arizona. I've done this already. marybourg Jul 2014 #129
I've been saying this from Day One of this idiocy. A guy walks in with a gun, and I leave... Hekate Jul 2014 #133
Culture war. krispos42 Jul 2014 #134
I suspect this will happen naturally anyway Shankapotomus Jul 2014 #148
K&R! n/t billh58 Jul 2014 #150
If I were the manager Iwillnevergiveup Jul 2014 #155

RKP5637

(67,111 posts)
1. Now way are we hanging around if some asshole walks in with a gun, no way, AND,
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 01:33 PM
Jul 2014

how does one know if they are some open carry asshole or someone else ready to do mass murder?

NightWatcher

(39,343 posts)
4. So an 'open carry asshole' and a 'stand your ground asshole' walk into a grocery store
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 01:39 PM
Jul 2014

Each one assumes the other is a threat and 23 shoppers are killed by stray rounds.

HA!


If I see an open carry asshole, I will leave, after informing the management that I dont feel safe in their establishment.

IronLionZion

(45,454 posts)
11. I would leave first
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 02:17 PM
Jul 2014

and then after going to a safer place, call the management to give the reason they lost my business.

quakerboy

(13,920 posts)
29. This.
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 03:34 PM
Jul 2014

If I feel unsafe, I'm leaving, not sticking around to have management called over and have a conversation. Maybe a quick statement to a passing staff member to alert them to the fact that some dude with a gun just showed up so that they have the same opportunity to get to safety that I do.

 

WinkyDink

(51,311 posts)
82. I taught that for 20 years! :-)
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 08:46 PM
Jul 2014

I doubt if any of my students remember that line---or scene!---though!

ChazInAz

(2,569 posts)
123. Memories!
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 11:35 AM
Jul 2014

I've actually lost count of the number of times I've been in that scene. My favorite was as Banquo.

avebury

(10,952 posts)
6. It is also important to know what the Alcohol Tobacco and Firearms rules are in
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 01:42 PM
Jul 2014

your state regarding guns and businesses that sell alcohol. In some states, customers with guns can impact the liquor license of a business.

https://www.tabc.state.tx.us/laws/sign_requirements.asp

Retrograde

(10,137 posts)
24. This - and followup with a letter
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 03:22 PM
Jul 2014

or at least an email - to the owner and manager of the business stating that having people openly carry guns in your presence makes you fear for your safety, and that you will no longer do business at an establishment that allows this. Then stick to your personal boycott.

avebury

(10,952 posts)
136. I view leaving the business under these circumstance
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 01:31 PM
Jul 2014

not as a matter of potential fear for my life but more the use of one of the few tools available to the public - patronage. For people who are fed up with the overly lax gun laws about the only tool you have available is to refuse to give a business your patronage when there are gun toting people running around that business. The gun issues is constantly made a matter of the 2nd Amendment to the point of sheer insanity. But if the masses take a stand and turn it into an economic issue on businesses it would be interesting to see what the outcome on the issue becomes.

The_Commonist

(2,518 posts)
8. I live in a state with pretty strict gun control laws. (New York)
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 01:55 PM
Jul 2014

So, I don't expect that to be in issue near home.

However, if I find myself in a place with open carry, and that happens, that is exactly what I plan on doing.
No question about, no hesitation. I'm out the door.
And I do hope to be able to let someone who works there know why, but if not, I don't really care.

BrotherIvan

(9,126 posts)
9. What are the legal repercussions?
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 02:04 PM
Jul 2014

Last edited Fri Jul 4, 2014, 01:32 PM - Edit history (1)

Once I was with a group at a very nice restaurant, the kitchen had a fire and smoke started pouring into the dining room. We left as did everyone else. We stood outside and said goodbye to each other as the fire trucks came and put out the fire. As we turned to leave, the manager came and started yelling at us that we needed to pay for our entire order, even that which we had not received. I never argue over bills and always give a big tip, so I was tempted just to pay. But one of the people I was with argued that not only had our meal been ruined, but we were covered in smoke and very nicely pointed out to just chalk it up to a bad night. I offered to pay for what we had consumed, but the manager was very adamant and threatened to call the police on us. At that point, he was so rude and unsympathetic, we all just turned around and left.

Would a company be able to call the police on you for theft if you walk out having consumed food? Just asking any who may know as this is an excellent idea and needs to happen all over. I also heard people calling the police if you see a gun because who knows if its legal and they should check the registration. That's why they're making laws so the police can't even ask. I may have to show a driver's license, but gun, no way.

I thank God we don't allow open carry where I live. But concealed carry is potentially as dangerous if the weapon is mishandled.

dilby

(2,273 posts)
12. Manager was a moron.
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 02:21 PM
Jul 2014

Everything would have been covered by insurance in that instance, including all the food that the patrons did not pay for.

And yes the restaurant could call the police and you would be charged with a crime if you walked out without paying due to open carry. You can't use you are afraid of something and that is why you left if that something is legal. It would be like little old white ladies getting up and leaving without paying when a black man walked into a restaurant.

BrotherIvan

(9,126 posts)
15. Unfortunately, that's what I thought
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 03:07 PM
Jul 2014

Might be worth it to challenge this. We always worry about the rights of gun owners, but never the people who are threatened by their weapons. The argument that "responsible" gun owners never accidentally discharge their weapon has been shown to be untrue by the amount of gun safety trainers who accidentally shoot someone among others. A gun in any situation has a potential for harm. I should be able to protect myself from guns as an individual.

I can see walking out of a store without buying, but the restaurant question came up. Probably do a cash estimate and plop it down before I left to assuage the management. Or perhaps calling the police once outside of the restaurant. I know this will piss police off, but perhaps they will see that guns everywhere is the dumbest idea ever. You never know when someone has brought in their gun to shoot, never.

dilby

(2,273 posts)
19. The proper method is to notify the manager that you are uncomfortable.
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 03:12 PM
Jul 2014

Even with Open Carry it's up to the establishment to allow it or not, if the patrons are not comfortable they Management can ask the person to leave. The thing that 2nd Amendment People usually fail to understand is that their rights end where mine begin. Legal open carry does not mean they can take their firearms anywhere, if a business owner says not on my property they have to abide by that.

BrotherIvan

(9,126 posts)
21. Yes
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 03:15 PM
Jul 2014

And if the person had some kind of identification, I would do that. But what about all the ex-husbands or boyfriends that have gone into a place of business to kill their wife/girlfriend and shot everyone in the vicinity? They had hand guns for the most part. A gun, open carry or concealed is dangerous at all times. I think we should learn to yell "GUN!" whenever we see one as a safety measure so people can act accordingly. That way the management can sort it out.

 

Swede Atlanta

(3,596 posts)
33. I plan to start yelling Gun, Gun, Gun as loud as I can and asking for the manager......
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 03:42 PM
Jul 2014

I will tell the manager I am leaving the premises but offer to give them my telephone number so we can arrange payment for any goods or services I consumed.

But I will leave the premises and as long as I have demonstrated good faith that I had a "reasonable" fear for my safety because someone was toting a gun and I had no way of knowing if the person carrying was there to commit a crime and that I am very uncomfortable around guns I have committed no crime.

I can assure you that based on those facts you would never be in any trouble with the police. You made clear your intention to pay for the goods/services but circumstances beyond your control that caused you to have a reasonable fear for your safety caused you to leave the premises.

BrotherIvan

(9,126 posts)
41. It's prudent
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 03:57 PM
Jul 2014

People should be able to protect themselves from a a gun. How many stories of "accidental" discharge are there? If someone is so paranoid and fearful they need to carry a gun to a store or restaurant, what will set them off? Hitting their cart in the supermarket aisle? Taking the last clearance item? Taking a parking space? Because that is some scary stuff, so you need to stand your ground!

davidpdx

(22,000 posts)
59. I see your point, but that will only cause panic among everyone else.
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 04:33 PM
Jul 2014

It could be seen as the same thing as screaming fire in a theater. I know it's difficult to tell which kind of wacko the person is, stupid wacko or homicidal wacko. I'm going to the US in about three week and will be a lot more vigilant about keeping an eye out for guns.

A Simple Game

(9,214 posts)
111. So what is wrong with screaming fire in a theater
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 10:36 AM
Jul 2014

if in fact you do see a fire? That would be the same as saying gun when you see a gun. No one would wait until the fire actually hurts someone before warning the rest.

When talking about fire as with guns, a few seconds could save a lot of lives.

But I half agree with you, perhaps a better way would be to let management know your intentions when you enter the restaurant. Let them know in no uncertain terms what you will do if they allow a person with a gun in their restaurant while you are there. Make sure they know you will leave and they can expect no payment for food and services even if your meal is mostly consumed. Make sure you let them know that to you a restaurant meal is more than just food it is an experience to be enjoyed and the presence of a gun ruins that experience. If they hear this enough times a sign banning guns should soon appear at their entrance.

marybourg

(12,633 posts)
126. That's *falsely* yelling fire
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 12:10 PM
Jul 2014

in a crowded theater (which used to be lit by gas lamps and were a terrible fire risk). Accurately yelling fire is o.k., in fact expected in the circumstances.

 

SCUBANOW

(92 posts)
97. "I can assure you that based on those facts you would never be in any trouble with the police."
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 08:31 AM
Jul 2014

You would be wrong. The police will charge you with theft if the business wishes to press charges. And can take you to jail right then and there.

 

User_Friendly

(10 posts)
91. Seems like that is a different discussion other than open carry laws...
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 02:37 AM
Jul 2014

... as they would do that anyways.

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
131. For the time being, perhaps
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 12:39 PM
Jul 2014

but if there are enough incidents where open carriers are barred from businesses, you will see a very hard push for laws banning that practice, and decreeing that open carriers can go anywhere they please, and that even private businesses cannot discriminate against them.

 

jtuck004

(15,882 posts)
31. Such BS. They can only charge you with a crime if you commit one - if your intent is to prevent
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 03:42 PM
Jul 2014

potential harm to your family - and just because one has a carry license does not automatically mean I HAVE to presume they are safe, not mentally challenged, or about to create havoc - then they are going to have a hell of a time proving that the elements of a crime were committed.

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE - Charge me with a fucking crime - I would LOVE it. And I may well bring an action against the restaurant for not assuring that the gun is unloaded, that the person is legally carrying it (did they ask to see their permit and verify that it isn't fraudulent?) and the potential psychological damage from potentially being held against my will by an accomplice of that armed individual. That's reaching, but hey, that's how you get the big settlement

Oh, and what the fuck is wrong with you? Equating black people with guns? Racism with public safety?

You are suggesting that DUers who fear for their safety and the safety of their family from a deadly weapon are the SAME as virulent racists who perpetuate their hate of PEOPLE?

Seriously? That's a horrible example and borders on overt racism.

dilby

(2,273 posts)
38. Failing to pay for food you ate is a crime.
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 03:48 PM
Jul 2014

You can't use excuses like I was afraid of something as your reasoning for skipping out on paying. I am terribly afraid of spiders, I can't just up and run out of a restaurant without paying because I saw a spider. And yes saying you are afraid of a person with a gun is exactly like a person saying you are afraid of black people. Sorry if you don't like my example but what is the difference between a person crossing the street when they see someone with a holstered firearm and someone crossing the street because they see a black man? Both are crossing the street due to unfounded fears.

BrotherIvan

(9,126 posts)
40. It's not an unfounded fear to be afraid of a gun
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 03:53 PM
Jul 2014

One should always be afraid of a gun. I am relying on the "responsibility" of a gun owner, who by his or her very need to have a weapon in public shows they are unstable and paranoid.

dilby

(2,273 posts)
42. Being afraid of guns makes you kind of unstable and paranoid.
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 03:57 PM
Jul 2014

Police carry guns, lots of lawyers carry guns, judges carry guns, regular people carry guns. Many of which do them concealed, everyday you probably come across people who are carrying guns. People who do it open carry probably stupid attention whores but they are no different than people who do it concealed.

I don't own any firearms, don't really have the need. I live in a safe suburban middle class neighborhood where most crime is done by the children of the neighborhood. If I lived in Rural America or in some crime ridden slum I would probably own firearms.

 

jtuck004

(15,882 posts)
46. Not afraid of guns - HAVE NO CONFIDENCE IN MOST PEOPLE WHO CARRY THEM -
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 04:07 PM
Jul 2014

different from your pandering characterization.

BrotherIvan

(9,126 posts)
47. But you just proved my point
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 04:09 PM
Jul 2014

You see that your environment is mostly safe, so no need to have a gun. If I lived in a place where I might encounter a bear or moose, perhaps a gun might be prudent. But walking into Chipotle or Target? Or school, or church, or a court house?

Guns do not belong in public. If someone is carrying a gun, they intend to use it at some point. If no one is legally carrying guns in public, it's very easy to arrest those that are. Now, we are encouraging guns everywhere so how can we tell? Tombstone didn't allow guns in town because people get mad, get drunk, get stupid and shoot people. Opening fire in a crowded place means other people will get shot. People walking in to kill their ex cannot be discerned from an innocent person until they open fire. Dude walking into a mall looks like everyone else until he takes out a few.

The answer to gun violence isn't more guns: it's less. It has worked in every country that has gun restriction.

tonybgood

(218 posts)
54. I have one rule about guns.
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 04:19 PM
Jul 2014

It doesn't matter where I am or what I'm doing.

If you are not around a gun or guns, you can't get shot with them.

This rule works with police as well!!!

Paladin

(28,264 posts)
100. There's nothing unstable or paranoid about it.
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 09:08 AM
Jul 2014

Given the number of public shooting incidents by unhinged gun-wielders, it's the smart thing to do. And in case you haven't noticed, the open carry loons don't look like judges, lawyers, or "regular people." Come to think of it, they don't look like black people, either, so your feeble, ugly attempt to make this into a racial issue fails, as well......

mwooldri

(10,303 posts)
108. I came from a relatively gun free society.
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 10:20 AM
Jul 2014

Even after 15 years here, I'm not comfortable with people having guns on them. Sure it's something I have to deal with but it doesn't take away my fear. Call it paranoia if you like but to me it is a fear. I will never own a gun for many reasons. Other people owning guns...it's up to them and if they're responsible then I can't object.

I don't know if Florida has open carry but if it did... imagine someone openly carrying an ak47 into places where you might find lots of European tourists (or tourists from a non-gun culture).... the reaction to the person openly carrying around a gun (shotgun, rifle, machine gun) would be more extreme. I bet you'd have some of those tourists wanting to go home early. Rifles being carried around Disney World just because open carry is legal... the gun wielder having the full legal right to do so and Disney World having no legal reason to say "guns are banned here, go away".... I don't think that would be good for business.

Yes there are places where openly carrying a gun around is OK. Target, or any other retail store, the kiddies play park, the Library, a sports arena... Those are in my book not okay places to openly carry a gun.

A Simple Game

(9,214 posts)
120. So how many mass shootings need to occur before it isn't paranoia?
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 11:05 AM
Jul 2014

Police, lawyers, judges, politicians, and many other people of notoriety have a good reason for carrying guns and rarely advertise the fact.

The nut cases we are talking about carrying their AK-47's down the street and into the local Chipolte are not people of notoriety, they are the ones that you should assume are paranoid. They are the ones afraid of an unknown threat. They are the ones that are looking for attention and people are safe to wonder how far they are willing to go to get it; that is not paranoia, that is common sense.

Two people are walking down a street or into a restaurant, one is armed to the teeth and one has no weapons at all and you call the one without weapons paranoid? Think about it.

 

jtuck004

(15,882 posts)
45. No, your racism is not the same as concern for individual safety. But feel free
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 04:05 PM
Jul 2014

to try and bring charges anytime.

What I think of your example is irrelevant. It is racist on it's face to equate the two.

But just fyi, not only have I walked, I invited a business to to try and get the police to charge me to make it even more public - the police laughed in their face(s). They declined, as most people running a business, and not just typing bs from their chair on the Internet, would.

Not much point in wasting any more time with you on this, however. I won't be able to read what you write, but if your ego needs it, feel free.

BrotherIvan

(9,126 posts)
51. I have learned that for a gunner, "criminal" means dark person
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 04:14 PM
Jul 2014

It is the fear of black and brown people that have the fearful clinging to guns. Also "drugs" "gangs" and "slum." It's all over the gun threads.

dilby

(2,273 posts)
58. So if a racist sees a black person and assumes criminal.
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 04:31 PM
Jul 2014

Then what do you call a person who sees someone open carrying and assumes they are a criminal? In both instances I say the people are acting irrational and making decisions based on their personal beliefs over logic.

BrotherIvan

(9,126 posts)
68. The idea that people are shot and killed by guns is by no means illogical.
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 06:41 PM
Jul 2014

In fact it's as simple and provable as 2+2=4. I still can't believe after all that has happened that gunners/NRA are still trying to push the idiotic fallacy that "guns don't kill people." Anyone who thinks that guns are not dangerous DEFINITELY should not own one.

dilby

(2,273 posts)
69. It's just as illogical as people are robbed by blacks.
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 06:45 PM
Jul 2014

Do people get shot by guns? Yes... Does someone die every time a gun is present? No....

BrotherIvan

(9,126 posts)
73. Look at the photo in response #60 of the two guys with rifles
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 06:56 PM
Jul 2014

Look where the guy's finger is on the right. I am I supposed to just trust that this asshole won't accidentally pull the trigger and spray bullets all over the place?

What about this guy? He killed a new father at the homecoming for his baby because he picked the gun up by the trigger

The shooter was Ayers' next door neighbor, 62-year-old Charles Edward Shisler, who did probably the stupidest thing you can do as a gun owner: He picked his gun up by the trigger causing it to shoot through the wall and hit Ayers in the head. Shisler's defense? He didn't think the gun would shoot.

""The damn gun doesn't usually shoot," Shisler's arrest report quoted him as saying. "You have to squeeze the hell out of the trigger to shoot it."


http://jezebel.com/new-father-killed-by-stray-bullet-while-welcoming-newbo-1593083148

Was he one of the "irresponsible" ones? You don't need to pass an IQ test to own a gun, which means that very stupid people are allowed to have them. Like the idiot above. Or idiots who leave loaded guns around for their kids to find. Or idiots who shoot targets in neighborhoods. Or idiots that shoot themselves putting their guns away or when their guns fall out.

There are so many stories of someone accidentally shooting themselves or someone else. That is what guns are meant to do. How can anyone argue that guns are not dangerous?

Ed Suspicious

(8,879 posts)
128. Have you ever heard anyone ever being accidentally robbed? Accidentally mugged? Accidentally
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 12:21 PM
Jul 2014

pummeled by fists of fury?

How about accidentally shot by accidental discharge of a firearm?

 

jtuck004

(15,882 posts)
88. I don't mind guns. I mind people who must use them as an extension of their personality.
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 12:35 AM
Jul 2014

That gun does nothing by itself. I have several, for different purposes, but I don't parade them around.

It's the moron with a chip on their shoulder carrying it that I have no trust in.



BrotherIvan

(9,126 posts)
89. Why would a person need a gun on them at all times?
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 01:14 AM
Jul 2014

Do they believe the world is really so dangerous? And much like stand your ground, it prevents them from making smart decisions in terms of safety. The last person I want around me with a gun is someone so paranoid they think they need a gun.

 

jtuck004

(15,882 posts)
90. If you need a gun, you need to have it with you. That said, it's just one of many tools,the
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 02:12 AM
Jul 2014

first of which, as you alluded to, is your brain. The world is dangerous, though the things that might more likely kill you faster (car wrecks, stress or dangerous jobs, eating at McDonalds, having to listen to North Idaho talk radio) are tough to stop with a bullet, yet the open carry folks seem to want to lead with the lump on their hip. It's like a carpenter setting about to build a house by banging on the plans with a hammer, as if that's all she, or he, knows. Carrying guns for a living, or even for personal safety (which I don't think, in this day and age, is something that should always be marginalized) isn't a matter for public display and aggression, yet they treat it like it is. Many of the open carry advocates are simply bullies, and need to be treated as such.

Given that, it may be that they want to open carry their gun because if they open-carried their brain it would get lost in their holster.


dilby

(2,273 posts)
55. How is it racist? Because I used the word black?
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 04:22 PM
Jul 2014

Sorry but I am not afraid of black men just like I am not afraid of guns. I would not have called the cops on Trayvon Martin nor would I have called them on George Zimmerman, I would have called them if I would have seen the two together fighting though.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
57. Big difference, Dilby. First, you make a choice to strap on a gun, and a bad choice at that.
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 04:30 PM
Jul 2014

Second, you are a threat to society by the mere fact you don't care whether you offend/scare/frighten/concern people with your gun, a lethal weapon, strapped to your body.

Third, anyone with a gun strapped to their body is more likely to be a racist -- yes gun fanciers tend to be bigots, not all but majority -- and actually are a big threat to minorities.

How in the heck you came up with your analogy is beyond me. If you are a gun toter, that might indicate you should not be carrying a gun in public.

dilby

(2,273 posts)
61. Don't own a gun and have no interest in purchasing one.
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 04:35 PM
Jul 2014

But I see the same logic used here on why someone is afraid of guns as why a racist is afraid of blacks. And can you point me to your study that shows people who have guns strapped to them are more likely to be a racist, because I find that far fetched unless your statistics are only counting the white guys in the backwoods of Mississippi.

billh58

(6,635 posts)
79. Gunner logic:
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 07:39 PM
Jul 2014

True Second Amendment absolutists like to equate gun control with racism and bigotry. The flaw in the argument is that being black or Muslim can not kill someone else -- especially from a distance.

 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
146. It's demonstrably true that gun controllers try to tie RKBA to racism, bigotry, and misogyny....
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 03:54 PM
Jul 2014

But they don't even want to have a conversation about ways to address gun control productively.

Proof: http://www.democraticunderground.com/12626916

Amazing.

Bandit

(21,475 posts)
110. What if it were several poisonous snakes instead of a little spider?
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 10:32 AM
Jul 2014

Does one have the right to flee for your life first and fore most and worry about payment later or must you stand there among the snakes until the waitress brings you your check? A man with an assault rifle is far more dangerous than several poisonous snakes.

Hassin Bin Sober

(26,330 posts)
66. Not really.
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 05:01 PM
Jul 2014

If the police think you sat down and ordered never intending to pay, you committed a crime - theft of services or however the statute is worded.

On the other hand, if you are unsatisfied with the service, the product or, in this case, the fact that there are armed people causing you discomfort, you can refuse to pay. It then becomes a civil matter.

Intended to steal = crime.

Intended to pay but are unhappy with the product/service = civil matter for the civil court to determine who is in the right.

Now that's not to say some badge heavy douche-bag cop won't cajole, threaten or falsely arrest an unhappy customer - I've seen it happen. Cops abuse their authority all the time and they are likely to side with a local merchant. But that doesn't make it right and it opens the police up for civil action - this is why smart cops will bow out of civil matters.

I own guns. I'm not afraid of guns. I don't really even mind CCW. But I'll be damned if I'm going to hang out in a place with toothless yahoos carrying AR-15s on their chests in the ready position with their fingers on the trigger guard.

Skittles

(153,169 posts)
75. not a good manager
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 07:27 PM
Jul 2014

sh** happens everywhere - it's how that sh** is dealt with that determines whether or not customers will return

valerief

(53,235 posts)
106. Legally you're acting in self defense. You'd been presented with an imminent danger
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 09:56 AM
Jul 2014

and tried to save your life. How can you tell if the AKKKer isn't a mass murderer? It's not like you're on hunting grounds, where you might expect to come across someone with a gun.

BrotherIvan

(9,126 posts)
137. It probably depends on the state
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 01:32 PM
Jul 2014

If I was in Georgia, then they probably would call me "paranoid" and a "criminal" because I am a PoC. Where I live, my state acknowledges that guns are dangerous and so has more laws to restrict them. This new push to convince everyone that guns are safe and anyone with a healthy fear of them is dumb or paranoid is the height of gaslighting.

valerief

(53,235 posts)
152. Ah, yes, being a PoC adds a wrinkle in those KKK states. And I agree with you about the
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 06:24 PM
Jul 2014

gaslighting. They'll have to Manchurian Candidate me to convince me guns aren't dangerous.

davidthegnome

(2,983 posts)
122. Always good to read your posts, Brother :)
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 11:25 AM
Jul 2014

I work for the front desk of a hotel - I had a pretty awful situation just a few weeks back. A guest came to me in an absolute fury. The man was so angry he was shaking. "Why the (expletive) was the door to my room left open!?!?"

I was in the middle of checking in a guest, but I had to pause to deal with this. "Sir, I don't know, it's possible that one of our housekeepers might have forgotten to close it, we have a few in training right now... I'm very sorry, let me finish checking in this guest then I'll be happy to help you however I can..."

"WHY WAS THE DOOR TO MY ROOM OPEN?!?!?" I use caps to emphasize how loud he was. This was a pretty muscular older fellow (mid fifties, at a guess), probably 6'2, who's company (some sort of mercenaries) contracts with border patrol - he was from Louisiana. Bald headed, very red in the face and on the top of his head by now. At this point I noticed the gun on his hip and was starting to get a bit nervous.

"Sir, I'm sorry, I don't know... if you'll..."

"Well find out! If there's anythin' missin' you fuckers are gonna buy me a new wardrobe!"

The guest I was checking in at the time was apparently someone who worked with him. "He's had a real bad day. Good luck dealing with that one". I smiled nervously, finished the check in process and sent the guest to his room. Then I quickly called the manager who was out shopping for some things for our restaurant, to let her know what was going on.

I have a very easy-going personality. I'm one of those live and let-live people. I don't like confrontations - and I have some real issues with anxiety. By this point, I was starting to pace a bit, fidgeting with my shirt collar, and wondering if eight dollars an hour was really worth it.

The guest returned to the desk, about ten minutes after the initial confrontation. "Well, yer lucky there's nothin missin, you little shithead. Now, I'm expectin' a free meal and a free room fer the night after this shit. You better make sure that happens, boy."

Now I'm thirty, not exactly a boy, but I'm often told that I look younger than I am. In any event, it's been a while since anyone I didn't know well has called me boy.

"Sir, I don't have the authority to offer you that. Our manager should be returning soon and I'm sure that she will be happy to discuss this with you. I am very sorry for your inconven..."

"Well, that just figures. Ya can't do much of nothin', can ya, ya little fucker? Are ya tellin' me that yer company don't care? Are ya tellin' me that management doesn't give a shit?"

At this point, he was wearing a little smirk, the fingers of his right hand tapping the handle of his holstered weapon.

"No Sir, that's not what I'm saying. It's just that I can't..."

"Whatever. Get yer manager ta meet me in the restaurant. I'll wait fer someone who can actually do shit. Can ya at least give me a free meal?"

I was trying very hard not to totally lose it at this point, I was feeling a very nervous mixture of anger and fear. "Sir, I'm sorry, I cannot authorize that."

The man's smirk became a sneer. "If ya think this is angry, boy, you ain't never seen me angry and ya don't want to. I'm bein' nice right now."

There were a few more verbal exchanges, but the man eventually wandered off to the restaurant, leaving me feeling well beyond flustered and shaking. I had a pretty awful panic attack and it was very fortunate that no one else needed me for the next half hour.

When my Manager came in, I explained what had happened, with some stuttering and obvious frustration. I can't remember the last time I was so angry, or so frightened.

To summarize (at this is already an extraordinarily long post) our manager, a woman in her mid fifties who is just shy of five feet tall, walks with a constant limp (earned from years of hard work) and definitely does not look intimidating... went down to talk to the guest. He started yelling at her and she would not tolerate it. "Sir, there's no reason to yell." Anyway, he eventually apologized (to her) for the way he acted. She explained that what had happened wasn't my fault, told him he'd had no reason to take it out on me, and so on.

At the end of the night? That gentleman was comped the rest of his stay and several meals at our restaurant. I went home that night dreaming wistfully of better employment.

What really freaks me out is that people like that guy are not terribly stable to begin with. To have them walking around with open carry laws and stand your ground laws... dealing with people who are pretty much defenseless... it's a very frightening notion.

Maybe I should find a good cave to live in.

BrotherIvan

(9,126 posts)
135. I'm glad you're ok!
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 01:26 PM
Jul 2014

Jesus, that guy was probably roided up or amped or something. Or people just flip a switch, as in road rage. It happens. That guy was putting on a show to get free stuff and threatening you with bodily harm. If he had had a pipe in his hand as he yelled at you, you could have called the cops. But since it was a gun, you're just being "paranoid" (ask DU gunners) because guns are perfectly safe, right? It truly is a form of terrorism because the threat is loud and clear.

People snap all the time and for different reasons. I know someone who was taking too much OTC ephedra to get ripped and had a psychotic break. He tried to kill his roommate and his girlfriend with a knife. They were hurt, but not dead. If he had had access to an arsenal, he could have walked down the street mowing people down. He said he felt like he was in a video game and nothing seemed real. He was a computer genius who spent most of his time playing single shooter video games. Easy access to guns will always make a heated situation far more dangerous.

You just never know when someone with a gun is going to snap. It's so scary and I'm glad you're ok. I hope you can push your hotel to have some kind of policy that does not allow guns in the public spaces. Many businesses are doing it. Reading your story might help them to decide. Glad your manager supported you, but $8 sure is not worth it.

BrotherIvan

(9,126 posts)
18. Absolute agreement
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 03:09 PM
Jul 2014

And if people haven't learned this yet, they will.

Gunners to babble about the millions of "safe" conceal carry owners in 5...4...3...2...

Mr.Bill

(24,303 posts)
17. Now that we've banned open carry in California
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 03:08 PM
Jul 2014

I hope I won't have to worry about it, But a few years ago when it was happening here (never experienced it myself) I was considering if I ran into the situation I would just openly laugh at them, I mean laugh really loud while pointing at them. What if everyone did this?

aikoaiko

(34,172 posts)
20. How about if I just do what I normally do?
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 03:15 PM
Jul 2014

And keep shopping until I have what I want, pay the cashier and then leave.

I know....thats so outrageous.

dilby

(2,273 posts)
28. Yeah I am in the same boat.
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 03:27 PM
Jul 2014

If I see a gun I am not really concerned unless it's in someones hand then I pay attention to them. I wonder if these people run like a roaches when cops walk into a store or restaurant.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
60. You don't get it. It's not the gun so much as it is the yahoo who'd strap one on and walk into a
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 04:33 PM
Jul 2014

public place. I'm sorry, these yahoos aren't normal:

?1400610224

BrotherIvan

(9,126 posts)
70. Look where the guy's finger is on the right
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 06:46 PM
Jul 2014

Yeah, I would RUN outta there. If they can't even follow the rules of guns safety--which I bloody know after hearing it from so many gunners--then we're not supposed to respond? WTF?????????????

kimbutgar

(21,162 posts)
132. What do you bet that neither of these losers ever get laid?
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 12:43 PM
Jul 2014

And their guns are an extension of their small peni.

Tikki

(14,557 posts)
62. You feel comfortable around guns. Some have a history with gun violence and...
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 04:37 PM
Jul 2014

will never feel comfortable with seeing an average Joe walking around with a gun in plain site.

Outrageous is a gun death or injury..

Tikki

Crunchy Frog

(26,587 posts)
93. Future OP:
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 07:28 AM
Jul 2014

"DUer aikoaiko one of the victims in XYZ Mall shooting. Don't be sad for him, it's how he wanted to go."

Crunchy Frog

(26,587 posts)
141. Nope. Just pointing out that there are some valid reasons
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 02:14 PM
Jul 2014

why some people are aprehensive around people with guns in inappropriate places, which you seem to be poo pooing. But feel free to keep on making up stories about the meanings of my posts.

No Vested Interest

(5,167 posts)
22. It may also be a good idea to write letters to the editor in those cities and areas
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 03:18 PM
Jul 2014

you are likely to be in.

Example - I would have the need to drive through Georgia at least twice a year. Georgia is a fairly lengthy state so it requires a number of hours to traverse.
With these new laws in place, I am wary of stopping there, even briefly; I have very often made overnight stops, which include hotels/motels as well as restaurants.

I think the owners/managers of businesses which depend on tourists/visitors should be made aware of how they may be impacted by this law. Perhaps local Chambers of Commerce as well.

Safe and secure travel is important.

rickyhall

(4,889 posts)
25. I like walking out AND calling the police. Make as much noise as possible.
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 03:22 PM
Jul 2014

Eventually the store and police will tired this and put a stop to it.

ZombieHorde

(29,047 posts)
30. The police open carry,
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 03:38 PM
Jul 2014

so calling them to the scene will just increase the number of people who are openly carrying in that location.

Retrograde

(10,137 posts)
44. The police are trained and accountable
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 04:04 PM
Jul 2014

at least in theory: they don't just go to the local gun shop and load up.

ZombieHorde

(29,047 posts)
48. They are trained, but they are less accountable than others.
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 04:10 PM
Jul 2014

Hell, I've had formal firearm training, and I don't even own a firearm.

dilby

(2,273 posts)
32. They will get tired of it for sure and probably ask you to stop calling them.
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 03:42 PM
Jul 2014

And the store will probably ask you to stop coming into it. It would be like the George Zimmerman calling the cops every time he saw a black kid in his neighborhood.

 

IronGate

(2,186 posts)
34. A private business can certainly put a stop to it,
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 03:43 PM
Jul 2014

but if it's legal in your state, there's nothing the police can do about open carry in public places.

 

IronGate

(2,186 posts)
125. In some states, if the person is not presenting a threat,
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 11:59 AM
Jul 2014

police can't even stop him/her, and even if they can, once it's determined that the armed person isn't a threat, the police have to let them go on their way.

Several cities/states have been successfully sued by open carry people that have been illegally stopped and harassed or arrested by the police.

A Simple Game

(9,214 posts)
142. If they can pull me over and say they did so because they thought I had a bald tire
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 02:53 PM
Jul 2014

when they really want to check for DUI, they can stop and question open carry people with a made up excuse. They all look like drug runners to me. If the police can't stop them for carrying a gun what better way to transport drugs and ill gotten gains from drugs?

Please link to your assertion that police have been sued and lost.

A Simple Game

(9,214 posts)
145. Poor examples.
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 03:41 PM
Jul 2014

First sentence of the first link:

A man charged with disorderly conduct after posting audio of three police stops involving his openly carried weapon has sued Philadelphia police.
They didn't arrest him for carrying they arrested him for posting audio of their stopping him.

Lower in the article:
The federal suit filed Tuesday says city police failed to train officers that citizens can openly carry weapons with the proper permit.
People need a permit to carry, implies to me that police would have a right to see such a permit. They were accused of harassing him and ignorance of the law. Nowhere does it say they can't question him and ask for his permit.

Again in the second link, it was just ignorance on the part of the police about the law. Nothing in the article says they can't stop and ask for his permit if applicable, or question his intent. They were wrong when they arrested him for carrying a weapon in a park which isn't illegal but again nothing says they couldn't question him about his intent.

sarisataka

(18,663 posts)
35. They will get tired of that
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 03:46 PM
Jul 2014
and put a stop to it
Though maybe not in the way you are thinking
Just sayin'
 

MohRokTah

(15,429 posts)
26. Always call when you reach a safe distance.
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 03:23 PM
Jul 2014

Ask for the manager.

Politely explain you saw an armed person, feared for your life, and left.

Offer to pay for any food you ate or any deli food you left in the cart.

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
36. Has there ever been a massacre by the open carry crowd?
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 03:46 PM
Jul 2014

I view them mainly as a rare nuisance. They've never troubled me and I've never heard of them going on a rampage. I'm far more worried about people who conceal their weapons.

Much ado about nothing. Eventually they'll tire themselves out and hopefully go home.

avebury

(10,952 posts)
39. Jus how you propose identifying an open carry gun
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 03:51 PM
Jul 2014

owner from a bat sh*t crazy open carry person visually before a gun (or guns) is (or) shot off?

There really is not way to tell at first glance the level of sanity exhibited by any person carrying a gun.

Edit to add - The purpose is to demonstrate to the gun lovers that not everyone is on board with their fixation and that there can be consequences to business owners when it comes to open carry. A gun owner may have every legal right to carry a gun but people have every right to decide which business that they want to patronize. It can becom an interesting debate for corporate America, which is more important - gun rights or the all might dollar.

 

rhett o rick

(55,981 posts)
113. I dont agree with your logic. People with guns via open carry are trying to make a statement
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 10:36 AM
Jul 2014

Fine, then I can also make a statement and call the cops (I feel threatened, not sure what's going on) and leave the establishment.

Oldtimeralso

(1,937 posts)
43. Having been hit by a bullet fragment
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 03:59 PM
Jul 2014

and having my father shot and lose the ability to use his right hand; I can tell you I am in fear of guns. I think that if people are allowed to open carry in public the owner of the establishment must be made to provide a bulletproof "no gun" zone. This would be similar to the no smoking areas with separate ventilation that were established prior to most places going all no smoking.

lupinella

(365 posts)
87. With you completely.
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 09:59 PM
Jul 2014

I've been threatened with guns multiple times - from childhood on.

If I see someone with a gun, who is not a cop, I'm out.*

If anyone wants to tell me that my PTSD-triggered anxiety attack at the sight of a gun is an over-reaction - Fuck Off.**

Once you've had the muzzle of a weapon against you (aged 12), once you've been chased by shotgun-wielding drunken assholes (age 16), once you've stood between 2 groups of men holding guns at each other over the sale of a business (early elementary school) - THEN we can compare our opinions on the threat that guns pose.***

I will not add that particular risk to my life when I have any say in the matter.

*Yeah, trust me I know from personal family experience not to think cops are safe, but I deal with the reality.

**Hope I am not violating terms of use for saying this, I mean no disrespect to those who are not dismissive of the very real emotional cost that PTSD takes on a person. This is also not pointed at people who shoot as a hobby - I can actually still shoot in very specific conditions. (welcoming range, foreknowledge of guns present, safe environment - though I have not found these conditions present at any range since 2008....) Guns simply have no place being openly carried for no bloody reason.


***Seriously.

derby378

(30,252 posts)
49. It's real simple...
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 04:11 PM
Jul 2014

Are the open-carry extremists disturbing the peace? If so, you call 911 and tell the cops. Keep doing it until the stores and the toters get the picture.

A simple but effective tool to fight abuse of open-carry without devolving into a nation of whiners. Keep the focus on public safety and the general welfare.

Squinch

(50,955 posts)
56. "Without devolving into a nation of whiners." This isn't whining. We've all heard enough about
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 04:23 PM
Jul 2014

how many insane and completely stupid people are walking around with guns. I don't feel safe around someone who feels the need to carry his rifle slung around his shoulder in Baskin and Robbins. By definition this person is a fat-headed dumbass.

If that is whining, then get used to hearing people whine. Because talking about it isn't the ridiculous action. DOING it is.

 

WinkyDink

(51,311 posts)
94. "WHINERS"????? That's one helluva term to use in a nation of GUN-NUTS who WHINE all the time
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 07:41 AM
Jul 2014

about their "rights."

SoCalDem

(103,856 posts)
50. Pity the poor store clerks.. When someone comes in with a gun,
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 04:11 PM
Jul 2014

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they have been able assume that person is there to rob them..

Can they now "stand their ground" and shoot them?...or have the security guard shoot them?

How does one assume that the gun wielding "customer" is there to buy cotton swabs & a tv guide?...or are they just a run-of-the-mill robber?

BrotherIvan

(9,126 posts)
139. Exactly
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 01:50 PM
Jul 2014

I guess we're all supposed to take our chances so paranoid people can imagine they are invincible. How we got to this point while the civilized world moves forward, I don't know. That cowboy persona dies hard. And if you're some couch slug who wouldn't know which end of a horse to feed, you can still feel like John Wayne or Rambo by plopping down some cash.

We have a mass shooting every week but we keep having less restrictive gun laws--madness!

MosheFeingold

(3,051 posts)
52. Ignore it and it will go away
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 04:15 PM
Jul 2014

I was a soldier (WWII -- I am old) and a cop before I became a lawyer.

This meant I was cynical and my give-a-shit meter had broken about 35 years before normal peoples' give-a-shit meters break.

Obviously, as a soldier and a cop, I carried a rifle or pistol for years. They do not alarm me, in an of themselves.

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Anyway, these guys just want attention and are not new. It's what people who feel powerless do.

When I was a cop (in Philly), it was blacks on the militant fringes of the normal civil rights movement.

They dressed in cammo, marched with rifles, and generally acted like idiots, in order to try to stir up some sort of confrontation.

Instead of cooking up trouble with them, we met with them, said it was awesome, and could they organize a bit more, get on a formal schedule, and act as neighborhood watch/guardian angels types.

They could not turn this down, as their purported purpose was to keep their neighborhoods safe.

Well, as we knew, being a watcher for some non-existent foe is boring as Hell, so they did it for a while, then about six months later, broke up and did something more productive.

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I propose doing the same to these guys. Tell them it's great, give them a cellphone and some very basic training, and then watch them get bored with doing what they do and they go away.


 

WinkyDink

(51,311 posts)
95. "these guys just want attention"---No offense (I'm a proud daughter of a WWII vet), but we live in
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 07:48 AM
Jul 2014

different times.

Was Adam Lanza "just" seeking "attention"?
Were Harris and Klebold "just" seeking "attention"?
Was James Holmes "just" seeking "attention"?

WERE ALL THESE OTHER PEOPLE "JUST" SEEKING "ATTENTION"? OR DID THEY ACTUALLY USE THEIR GUNS TO MURDER?
http://www.motherjones.com/politics/2012/07/mass-shootings-map?page=2

http://timelines.latimes.com/deadliest-shooting-rampages/


Squinch

(50,955 posts)
53. I love this but I would make a suggestion: I would not be able to sleep at night if I left without
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 04:16 PM
Jul 2014

paying, but what I think I will do is run out of the building and stay outside. Let them know that they can come out to us to get our money because we're not going back in. That will disrupt things nicely.

 

riderinthestorm

(23,272 posts)
74. This ^^^. I'd immediately walk out telling the host/hostess to box my food, and bring me the bill
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 07:16 PM
Jul 2014

OUTSIDE because of the open carry idiot.

Then I'd patiently wait outside to pay.

davidpdx

(22,000 posts)
63. I think it depends on the situation and where I am
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 04:42 PM
Jul 2014

In a store where I have not purchased the items I'd have no problem leaving them in the cart and walking out. If I saw a manager on the way out I'd likely ask them outside and explain in person why I am leaving. In the event the manager was willing to ask the person to leave, I'd go back in.

I don't live in the US and only visit once every few years, so I have yet to come across something like this. I will be there in a few weeks and keep an eye on my surroundings.

 

Jenoch

(7,720 posts)
67. If you already got a haircut, or some other service,
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 05:14 PM
Jul 2014

or if you already ate part of your meal, you better return and at some point to pay for your goods and services, otherwise it is theft.

Xolodno

(6,395 posts)
71. I refuse to spend my tourist dollars in a state that has "open carry".
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 06:51 PM
Jul 2014

....I just don't feel safe visiting such a state.

In fact, I just came back from a vacation in Colorado where they have legalized Pot....I feel safe there.

onecent

(6,096 posts)
78. I know an acquaintance who is a 69 year old woman
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 07:34 PM
Jul 2014

who was in a psych ward for 7 days, and she 15 years later
is carrying a concealed weapon. I don't EVEN get around her because
she IS A CRAZY person. I don't understand HOW SHE GOT the license to carry
a gun.????????????????????
scary


hunter

(38,317 posts)
81. Why should I let some asshole ruin my dinner?
Thu Jul 3, 2014, 08:03 PM
Jul 2014

I'd probably just ask the open carry gun clown to go away, nicely at first.

But if he refused, started to threaten me, I'd cut his fucking arms off with my chainsaw.

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WinkyDink

(51,311 posts)
96. Frankly, I would be so shocked I think I'd scream, "GUN! HE'S GOT A GUN!!" Not joking.
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 07:50 AM
Jul 2014

I ain't about to ASSume good or even neutral intentions of someone CARRYING A DAMN GUN.

To hell with that verkakte law.

Gman

(24,780 posts)
109. The next guy here in Texas I see with a gun
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 10:26 AM
Jul 2014

I'm going to tell him he must have a little dick. I'm 6'2" , 215 and in good shape. Bring it on.

sarisataka

(18,663 posts)
140. So you are in favor
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 02:12 PM
Jul 2014

Of people of greater size/strength being able to intimidate those of lesser...

What if the next guy you see carrying is a 110 lb woman?

Gman

(24,780 posts)
144. That just ain't gonna happen
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 03:25 PM
Jul 2014

Dream on. This is a real world. Not the gun nut fantasy world they live in.

sarisataka

(18,663 posts)
147. Back in the real world
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 03:57 PM
Jul 2014

Which i believe Texas is a part of, some people are openly carrying long arms as a way to protest/make a statement. That i disagree with and oppose the practice does not make it less true.

For pictures they have posted, some of these people are women. You may not like that but also that does not make it less true.

Or are you saying your statement of confronting a person by insulting their genitalia was bluster and that just ain't gonna happen?

Gman

(24,780 posts)
149. Just because it's a woman in the stupid open carry bunch
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 05:34 PM
Jul 2014

Doesn't make her any less an idiot. And I know a couple of guys into that open carry shit. I embarrassed the shit out of them in front if a bunch if people. It was great and everyone laughed at their pitiful shit.

What are they going to do? Shoot me? LOL!

quaker bill

(8,224 posts)
118. pretty much my default
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 10:49 AM
Jul 2014

is to give as much room to anyone carrying as I can. Open carry just makes the decision faster and easier. I have no need or desire to be around people who carry, open or concealed, regardless of why they believe they carry.

catrose

(5,068 posts)
124. I agree.
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 11:35 AM
Jul 2014

But we could could mail a check later, explaining we had to leave so quickly. I wouldn't want the business to take it from my stylist's or waiter's wages.

marybourg

(12,633 posts)
129. I live in Arizona. I've done this already.
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 12:24 PM
Jul 2014

I just left my cart (I was still shopping) and told a cashier on the way out the door: "man with a gun. I'm outa here". Went to the next supermarket .

Used to do it in restaurants too back when people used to yell into their cellphones while sitting at tables next to me. Do people still do that? I stopped eating in restaurants.

Hekate

(90,714 posts)
133. I've been saying this from Day One of this idiocy. A guy walks in with a gun, and I leave...
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 12:58 PM
Jul 2014

Immediately if not sooner.

Cops in uniform: certainly. Random assholes: I don't think so.

This is the very definition of terrorism, you know: Striking fear into people's hearts by implying that you will do violence because your cohort has already done violence.

krispos42

(49,445 posts)
134. Culture war.
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 01:19 PM
Jul 2014

Not that I'm particularly defending those that open carry; in my viewpoint, all states should issue concealed-carry permits to any qualified citizen and restrict open-carry to a few select circumstances that occur primarily in rural areas. Open-carry needlessly inflames people, marks you as a source of an illegally-obtained firearm, and identifies you as the first target if something DOES happen. Aside from a somewhat faster draw time with open carry, concealed-carry has pretty much all the advantages.


But your doubts about intent are based on sandy footing; you don't know the intent of pretty much anybody that walks into a business anyway, nor it a lack of an open-carry firearm an indication of whether that person is armed.

Your intent is to "change the culture"... that is, culture war.

Shankapotomus

(4,840 posts)
148. I suspect this will happen naturally anyway
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 04:06 PM
Jul 2014

Consumers go shopping not just for the items but the experience and atmosphere. Their first sight of some unsophisticated, heavily bearded, camo-clad nutcase with an AR15 strapped to his shoulder in the shoe department will instantly kill the whole shopping atmosphere.

Iwillnevergiveup

(9,298 posts)
155. If I were the manager
Fri Jul 4, 2014, 08:12 PM
Jul 2014

of a store, restaurant, etc. and someone entered with a gun, I'd be out the door with the customers. And on the phone outside to the police.

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