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I'm a coward. I can't open posts about: (Original Post) MerryBlooms Aug 2014 OP
I don't blame you. Erich Bloodaxe BSN Aug 2014 #1
It takes all I can muster to take the day as it comes after those posts. MerryBlooms Aug 2014 #6
I can't either. shraby Aug 2014 #2
. MerryBlooms Aug 2014 #7
I can top that... Bigmack Aug 2014 #3
. MerryBlooms Aug 2014 #8
I'm a softie too Bigmack. lovemydog Aug 2014 #38
. MerryBlooms Aug 2014 #64
I can't open animal cruelty topics either. NuclearDem Aug 2014 #4
. MerryBlooms Aug 2014 #12
Not this week, certainly. tosh Aug 2014 #5
. MerryBlooms Aug 2014 #13
Me either BuelahWitch Aug 2014 #9
. MerryBlooms Aug 2014 #17
truth? i do the same thing. just the headlines crush me without even reading the posts Takket Aug 2014 #10
. MerryBlooms Aug 2014 #21
Same here. nt Mojorabbit Aug 2014 #68
I'm a coward too Polly Hennessey Aug 2014 #11
Yes, same here. MerryBlooms Aug 2014 #23
That's not cowardice, it's self care. LeftyMom Aug 2014 #14
, MerryBlooms Aug 2014 #25
Well-said LeftyMom. lovemydog Aug 2014 #39
I hate even reading the thread title regarding those things. cry baby Aug 2014 #15
Same here. MerryBlooms Aug 2014 #26
I do the same thing procon Aug 2014 #16
I understand what you're saying and I don't view those either. MerryBlooms Aug 2014 #27
Not a coward. Triana Aug 2014 #18
. MerryBlooms Aug 2014 #28
Me too shenmue Aug 2014 #19
. MerryBlooms Aug 2014 #29
I'm with you Garthem Aug 2014 #20
. MerryBlooms Aug 2014 #30
The last one was like a mob hit with a cement pour.... Spitfire of ATJ Aug 2014 #22
ok MerryBlooms Aug 2014 #31
Especially when 2-year old abuse stories are needlessly reposted with misleading headers REP Aug 2014 #24
. MerryBlooms Aug 2014 #32
sometimes I have shut DU down. Coventina Aug 2014 #33
The mere words... 3catwoman3 Aug 2014 #34
. MerryBlooms Aug 2014 #49
Same here. Just can_not_go_there. WillowTree Aug 2014 #35
. MerryBlooms Aug 2014 #50
I get you!!! I onecent Aug 2014 #36
Me either, I always change the channel or go to the powder room. MerryBlooms Aug 2014 #51
unfortunately I opened one today that will haunt me until I wipe out the memory.... mike_c Aug 2014 #37
Me too passiveporcupine Aug 2014 #48
. MerryBlooms Aug 2014 #63
Awful. :( MerryBlooms Aug 2014 #52
Same here. Don't feel bad. n/t Blaukraut Aug 2014 #40
Thanks MerryBlooms Aug 2014 #53
I feel you BrotherIvan Aug 2014 #41
. MerryBlooms Aug 2014 #54
Nor, can I. GoCubsGo Aug 2014 #42
I understand why people post them, MerryBlooms Aug 2014 #55
Amazon mimi85 Aug 2014 #43
I have my Amazon Smile set for the Illinois food bank, MerryBlooms Aug 2014 #56
Yes, mine is set for the World Wildlife Federation. lovemydog Aug 2014 #69
You too! nt mimi85 Aug 2014 #71
Daily Mail is especially bad at hitting you with a hideous graphic right off the bat. Peregrine Took Aug 2014 #44
I feel my whole mood go down the drain sometimes, so I hang out over in De'Nial for a little while MerryBlooms Aug 2014 #58
Haha, sometimes De'Nial is a nice place. lovemydog Aug 2014 #70
I understand ... I can't really either... jimlup Aug 2014 #45
Yes, we have two wonderful kitties and I totally understand and feel the same way. MerryBlooms Aug 2014 #59
Thank You Thank You!! tavernier Aug 2014 #46
I, too, suffer Ineeda Aug 2014 #47
. MerryBlooms Aug 2014 #61
That is so awful, I'm sorry you suffer that way. :( MerryBlooms Aug 2014 #60
I can't even stand to read the graphic titles on these posts TorchTheWitch Aug 2014 #57
I have keyword trash for 'Palin' MerryBlooms Aug 2014 #62
I'm with you Faux pas Aug 2014 #65
Oh, yeah? Well, I can't open posts that don't say what's Iggo Aug 2014 #66
Hate animal cruelty posts. MadrasT Aug 2014 #67

Erich Bloodaxe BSN

(14,733 posts)
1. I don't blame you.
Fri Aug 1, 2014, 07:59 PM
Aug 2014

It's incredibly depressing to see the monsters that walk among us, taking sadistic glee in harming or killing the defenseless.

 

Bigmack

(8,020 posts)
3. I can top that...
Fri Aug 1, 2014, 08:03 PM
Aug 2014

... there was a thing going around FB and the web about some people who were going to give their old dog a perfect day before they had to send him across the rainbow bridge due to age and illness.

I got as far as the first sentence in the description of the situation. Tears in my eyes. Couldn't read about it or watch the video.

I was a Marine, fercrissakes! I did shit to people I'm not proud of, but I have learned to live with those things.

Old dogs...? Dogs...? Pets...?

I'm an old softie.

lovemydog

(11,833 posts)
38. I'm a softie too Bigmack.
Fri Aug 1, 2014, 09:18 PM
Aug 2014

I've rarely loved a human the way I've loved my dog Angelina, and the formerly starving horse, Root Beer, that I work with at a horse shelter. They are both just so special to me. I guess some haven't felt that love and kindness in the exact same way, but I know many have. Thank you for your service. Have a good weekend.

 

NuclearDem

(16,184 posts)
4. I can't open animal cruelty topics either.
Fri Aug 1, 2014, 08:03 PM
Aug 2014

I've got a low enough opinion of people who treat animals like that, and I don't need to make my blood boil any more than it already does.

Polly Hennessey

(6,799 posts)
11. I'm a coward too
Fri Aug 1, 2014, 08:15 PM
Aug 2014

I pass them by, the headline is enough. If I am foolish enough to open one the image stays with me all day. I just try to remember that we cannot save all of them. When I get home, I look at my furry guys and know that at least three dogs and three cats are happy, healthy and loved.

LeftyMom

(49,212 posts)
14. That's not cowardice, it's self care.
Fri Aug 1, 2014, 08:19 PM
Aug 2014

Do what you can in your own community, and don't get so hurt by what you read that you can't function.

lovemydog

(11,833 posts)
39. Well-said LeftyMom.
Fri Aug 1, 2014, 09:22 PM
Aug 2014

Self care. That's important. It enables me to function and I can't help others if I can't function. The horse shelter where I work has photos on its web page of the 'before' photos. I.e., the horses when they arrive to our place. I can't look at them. I prefer the 'after' photos. Healthy, happy horses. Have a good weekend!

cry baby

(6,682 posts)
15. I hate even reading the thread title regarding those things.
Fri Aug 1, 2014, 08:21 PM
Aug 2014

I've lost a lot of faith in what little humanity there is left in the world.

procon

(15,805 posts)
16. I do the same thing
Fri Aug 1, 2014, 08:22 PM
Aug 2014

and I'll add war porn to the list. Some people are enablers, perhaps attracted to those who engage in such evils, they take perverse delight in constantly posting their rogue's gallery of horrors if for nothing more than the shock value.

MerryBlooms

(11,770 posts)
27. I understand what you're saying and I don't view those either.
Fri Aug 1, 2014, 08:47 PM
Aug 2014

I know we're all supposed to be about transparency and such, but I can't view some pictures.

 

Spitfire of ATJ

(32,723 posts)
22. The last one was like a mob hit with a cement pour....
Fri Aug 1, 2014, 08:38 PM
Aug 2014

Chevy Chase on Weekend Update talked about the new Teamsters building and quoted the spokesman as saying "Jimmy Hoffa will always be a cornerstone of our organization."

Let's face it. A REAL mob cat would end up sleeping with the fishies.

REP

(21,691 posts)
24. Especially when 2-year old abuse stories are needlessly reposted with misleading headers
Fri Aug 1, 2014, 08:41 PM
Aug 2014

The one on the first page now is from two years ago and was connected to Warren Jeff's' band of morons.

3catwoman3

(24,006 posts)
34. The mere words...
Fri Aug 1, 2014, 09:01 PM
Aug 2014

..."crossed the Rainbow Bridge" are sufficient to start the waterworks for me. I don't have to read any further, altho I sonetimes do.

WillowTree

(5,325 posts)
35. Same here. Just can_not_go_there.
Fri Aug 1, 2014, 09:01 PM
Aug 2014

Those are about the only threads that I trash, but if I know that's what's inside, I've just gotta or I won't sleep.

mike_c

(36,281 posts)
37. unfortunately I opened one today that will haunt me until I wipe out the memory....
Fri Aug 1, 2014, 09:12 PM
Aug 2014

It sounded like good news. It was utterly horrible. I want to pith my own brain to eradicate the memory. Fuck. You can't un-see that shit.

passiveporcupine

(8,175 posts)
48. Me too
Fri Aug 1, 2014, 11:00 PM
Aug 2014

I usually do open the animal rescue posts because they have a good ending. The one about the kitten today had me crying for ten minutes after seeing that video. I will never do that to myself again. That was just too damned painful. And there was no good ending to it, so why the hell post it? Just to make people feel bad? I'm sorry, but that really pissed me off.

BrotherIvan

(9,126 posts)
41. I feel you
Fri Aug 1, 2014, 09:43 PM
Aug 2014

But those kinds of stories only make me work harder and hug my animals closer. I won't let those evil people win.

GoCubsGo

(32,086 posts)
42. Nor, can I.
Fri Aug 1, 2014, 09:58 PM
Aug 2014

And, like Triana said, it's about compassion. Courage has nothing to do with it. Count me among those who just hit that little box with the "X" in it when we see posts like that. I honestly don't understand why people insist on posting those stories. It's not like we don't know that kind of thing goes on all the time, and it sure as hell isn't going to stop it.

mimi85

(1,805 posts)
43. Amazon
Fri Aug 1, 2014, 10:04 PM
Aug 2014

This is kinda OT, but Amazon has a program where a percentage of everything you spend goes to the charity of your choice - even your kid's school if you want. But I have it set in my toolbar to send whatever to the ASPCA. I use Amazon a LOT, mainly since I'm pretty much homebound due to health crap. Check it out. I started with Doctors Without Borders who I greatly admire, but those damn commercials on TV got to me. My husband and I have to change the channel when they come on.

http://smile.amazon.com/about

MerryBlooms...even your name is cheery.

MerryBlooms

(11,770 posts)
56. I have my Amazon Smile set for the Illinois food bank,
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 08:16 AM
Aug 2014

our regular contributions to various charities I write checks for, but I think I will add local animal organizations to the Smile program.
After seeing so many feeling the same way, I do feel a little more cheery. Thanks.

lovemydog

(11,833 posts)
69. Yes, mine is set for the World Wildlife Federation.
Sun Aug 3, 2014, 06:40 AM
Aug 2014

Thanks for mentioning it. Hope you're enjoying a good weekend.

Peregrine Took

(7,414 posts)
44. Daily Mail is especially bad at hitting you with a hideous graphic right off the bat.
Fri Aug 1, 2014, 10:17 PM
Aug 2014

I know I shouldn't read the tripe and I'm yrying to get away from it.

lovemydog

(11,833 posts)
70. Haha, sometimes De'Nial is a nice place.
Sun Aug 3, 2014, 06:43 AM
Aug 2014

I enjoy hanging there when it all seems overwhelming, or when I see too much animal or interpersonal cruelty.

jimlup

(7,968 posts)
45. I understand ... I can't really either...
Fri Aug 1, 2014, 10:23 PM
Aug 2014

I have a dear kitty who is my companion. I just can't imagine why anyone would hurt an innocent animal.

tavernier

(12,392 posts)
46. Thank You Thank You!!
Fri Aug 1, 2014, 10:35 PM
Aug 2014

Some people seem to take a certain pleasure in headlining their posts with 'Child Tortured and Burned' or 'Puppy strangled...' etc. etc.

I really wish there was a separate forum where these folks brimming with bloody and heart wrenching news could go to spill their latest gruesome discoveries.

I'm not a Barbara Bush who doesn't want to waste her beautiful mind on the horrors of life, but I am a person who suffers greatly with each and every story, and at times these accounts are extremely debilitating. I don't avoid reality but I beg you, consider the readers who suffer from these ongoing horror stories.

Could you please preface your bloody tale with a warning?

Ineeda

(3,626 posts)
47. I, too, suffer
Fri Aug 1, 2014, 10:43 PM
Aug 2014

mental anguish when these are sprung on us. I never open them purposly and, like another poster said, even the headlines evoke lasting horror.

TorchTheWitch

(11,065 posts)
57. I can't even stand to read the graphic titles on these posts
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 08:18 AM
Aug 2014

That kind of stuff just hurts too much.

I can't figure out a way to trash them automatically by keyword either.

MerryBlooms

(11,770 posts)
62. I have keyword trash for 'Palin'
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 08:27 AM
Aug 2014

but other than the very specific, you're right, it's near impossible without unintentionally trashing other stuff.

MadrasT

(7,237 posts)
67. Hate animal cruelty posts.
Sat Aug 2, 2014, 01:07 PM
Aug 2014

Trash them as fast as I can. Same thing on Facebook. I don't even want to know about it.

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