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one_voice

(20,043 posts)
Mon Aug 18, 2014, 12:09 PM Aug 2014

I lost my sweet baby Sugar...

She crossed the rainbow bridge Friday at 2:51 pm. I'm crushed. She was my boo boo girl.

When we got Sugar I wasn't ready for another dog. I'd just lost my 3 year old Boxer to a seizure. I tried to stay neutral not fall head over heels in love with her. At first she kinda made that easy. She tried my patience ALL. THE. TIME. But then she would look at me with those eyes and I was done.

We bonded and Sugar stopped trying my patience and became my friend. Then my world was turned upside down and we had to find Sug a home. We were moving and our house needed a lot of work so we were staying with my parents while we did the work. I couldn't take Sug because they had 4 small dogs; one with medical problems. I didn't want to keep her locked up in a crate-that wouldn't have been fair to her. So we found her a great home with other dogs and lots of land to run on. I was heartbroken.

Fast forward 6 months. We were in our house and had gotten another dog. We were sitting on the deck on a Saturday evening and I asked my husband what he would say if the people called and asked if we wanted Sug back. Of course we would take her in a heart beat. The next morning the phone rang...Sugar came home on Sunday. She was back where she belonged...she was home. Crazy right?

Sugar & our new puppy Izzie were buddies right from the start. The dynamic duo.

It happened so fast. I noticed she was drinking a lot more than usual and eating a lot more. Then she started having accidents (she NEVER had accidents) and I noticed she wasn't walking right. She couldn't manage the steps. I took her to the vet lab work was done and xrays. She had a brain tumor that was very aggressive and progressed very quickly. It was just two weeks and she couldn't even stand to eat.

Not a month ago she was out running with me.

Sugar was my dog. I spent everyday with her, she followed wherever I went.

She was the sweetest most gentle dog in the world. She was my friend, my confidant, my sweet baby girl. Her eyes were so full of love. I miss her so so much. I keep looking for her to be there. To wiggle at me....something..but she's gone and I'm so heartbroken.

I want to hold her again. I can still feel her in my arms. I will miss her soft tongue giving me a kiss as I bend down to wipe her paws.









This one was Friday morning. I'm sure Izzie was saying goodbye.

Sugar 06.19.04 to 08.15.14

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I lost my sweet baby Sugar... (Original Post) one_voice Aug 2014 OP
I'm so sorry. Blessings to all. eom catrose Aug 2014 #1
may Peace be with you and your family at this time of difficult loss. nt xchrom Aug 2014 #2
Sorry about your puppy. I know how much that hurts. TwilightGardener Aug 2014 #3
I am sorry shenmue Aug 2014 #4
Very sorry for your loss. Sassysdad Aug 2014 #5
So sorry you so recently lost your Sassy. classof56 Aug 2014 #19
I'm sorry for your loss... one_voice Aug 2014 #48
Thank you...and again, I feel your hurt. Sassysdad Aug 2014 #58
so very sorry for your loss, as well. niyad Aug 2014 #70
Too sad malaise Aug 2014 #6
I'm sorry for your loss. nt raccoon Aug 2014 #7
Aw my thoughts are with you Cal Carpenter Aug 2014 #8
I'm so sorry. hamsterjill Aug 2014 #9
Thank you so much. one_voice Aug 2014 #50
I'm sorry for the loss of your sweet Sugar. onecaliberal Aug 2014 #10
I am so very sorry. Maraya1969 Aug 2014 #11
{{{one voice}}} leftynyc Aug 2014 #12
Hugs. Fur people are special. riqster Aug 2014 #13
the perfect name for such a sweet pup renate Aug 2014 #14
She was beautiful! redwitch Aug 2014 #15
Sweet dreams, Sugar joeybee12 Aug 2014 #16
Ah, one_voice!! Sissyk Aug 2014 #17
Thank you Sissy one_voice Aug 2014 #51
I'm so sorry. What a beautiful animal. I'm about to have my cat put down, ellenrr Aug 2014 #18
I'm sorry about your kitty... one_voice Aug 2014 #53
I am so sorry, one_voice MissDeeds Aug 2014 #20
I'm so sorry! They always take a piece of our hearts with them, it seems. ColesCountyDem Aug 2014 #21
My heart goes out to you and yours for the loss of your friend. TheKentuckian Aug 2014 #22
I still see my dear calico packman Aug 2014 #23
rip Sugar Liberal_in_LA Aug 2014 #24
I'm so very sorry one_voice, for your loss lavenderdiva Aug 2014 #25
Go in peace, Sugar. DirkGently Aug 2014 #26
Sending you much love. Raine1967 Aug 2014 #27
I'm sorry to hear about Sugar. OnyxCollie Aug 2014 #28
my condolences on your loss shanti Aug 2014 #29
So sorry for your loss. She looks like an absolute sweetheart. opiate69 Aug 2014 #30
Oh God I couldn't even imagine... one_voice Aug 2014 #54
Her eyes WERE filled with love get the red out Aug 2014 #31
She's a beautiful girl! I'm so sorry for your loss! Triana Aug 2014 #32
Oh sweet baby...what wonderful dogs...I feel your loss. Tikki Aug 2014 #33
Thank you for sharing your Sugar with us. You and Izzie will always miss her. ladjf Aug 2014 #34
The photo of Izzie saying good-bye made me sob etherealtruth Aug 2014 #35
I'm very sorry for your loss. sinkingfeeling Aug 2014 #36
Sugar was beautiful. madashelltoo Aug 2014 #37
What a beautiful girl..... dawnie51 Aug 2014 #38
I'm sorry for your loss. MarianJack Aug 2014 #39
I'm very sorry LloydS of New London Aug 2014 #40
I'm so sorry you lost your baby. Loki Aug 2014 #41
I will keep you in my thoughts... one_voice Aug 2014 #56
My sincere condolences. AtomicKitten Aug 2014 #42
Tony was there to greet her. Behind the Aegis Aug 2014 #43
. one_voice Aug 2014 #57
:'( BlancheSplanchnik Aug 2014 #44
Damn. So sorry, one_voice. calimary Aug 2014 #45
So sorry. You might think about long-lived chihihua for next one ErikJ Aug 2014 #46
what a sweetie - so sorry that she's no longer with you. GoneOffShore Aug 2014 #47
RIP Sugar. Kingofalldems Aug 2014 #49
Am so, so sorry. At least she came home for her goodbye... villager Aug 2014 #52
After 30 years with Boxers sadoldgirl Aug 2014 #55
I'm so sorry for your loss of Sugar. A beautiful tribute for a sweet girl and livetohike Aug 2014 #59
RIP over the alsame Aug 2014 #60
I am so very sorry for the loss of your baby... Avalux Aug 2014 #61
... Aristus Aug 2014 #62
Oh sweetie...how terribly sad... glinda Aug 2014 #63
Truly so very sorry. I know this pain. SammyWinstonJack Aug 2014 #64
Dogs have a way of getting into your heart. bklyncowgirl Aug 2014 #65
*cry* Boreal Aug 2014 #66
I am so sorry, one_voice. brer cat Aug 2014 #67
So sorry for your loss Jawja Aug 2014 #68
what a beautiful girl!! the lady of the beasts has taken this gentle being home. I am niyad Aug 2014 #69
I'm so, so sorry tavalon Aug 2014 #71
Awww....beautiful pictures my #1 voice and I'm so sorry. RiffRandell Aug 2014 #72
Thank you Riff, you are a very kind & sweet person... one_voice Aug 2014 #74
I am very sorry for your loss. gademocrat7 Aug 2014 #73
I'm so sorry. MoonRiver Aug 2014 #75
I'm so sorry for the loss of your friend. CrispyQ Aug 2014 #76
So so sorry, sweetie. tblue Aug 2014 #77
I am so sorry for the loss of your wonderful dog and faithful companion... virgdem Aug 2014 #78
godspeed Sugar magical thyme Aug 2014 #79
. myrna minx Aug 2014 #80
This beautiful baby had a wonderful life with you Greybnk48 Aug 2014 #81
Oh dear one voice, that last picture made me tear up!!! onecent Aug 2014 #82
So, So sorry life long demo Aug 2014 #83
This is so heartbreaking Worried senior Aug 2014 #84
 

Sassysdad

(65 posts)
5. Very sorry for your loss.
Mon Aug 18, 2014, 12:23 PM
Aug 2014

I just went through it myself with my Sassy the Friday before.
My wife and I rescued her from abuse in '01 and we had her together until '06 when my wife died of cancer.
Sassy held me together....she was my "girl". I had her for 13 of her 16 yrs.

You are in my thoughts and prayers. Rest well Sugar.

classof56

(5,376 posts)
19. So sorry you so recently lost your Sassy.
Mon Aug 18, 2014, 01:11 PM
Aug 2014

Your user name reflects how special she was to you. I can only hope she and my Cammy-dog, whose loss I still grieve, were there to greet Sugar at the other side of the Rainbow Bridge. What a wonderful thing that would be!

Blessings.

one_voice

(20,043 posts)
48. I'm sorry for your loss...
Mon Aug 18, 2014, 02:58 PM
Aug 2014

of both your wife and your Sassy. They have a way of comforting you when you need it. You will be in thoughts as well.

 

Sassysdad

(65 posts)
58. Thank you...and again, I feel your hurt.
Mon Aug 18, 2014, 03:17 PM
Aug 2014

Maybe Sugar and Sassy are playing...I like to think dogs go to better places.

hamsterjill

(15,223 posts)
9. I'm so sorry.
Mon Aug 18, 2014, 12:44 PM
Aug 2014

I can tell that Sugar was loved, and that makes my heart sing! It's so hard to lose them. I've been there many times, but I deal with a lot of rescue animals, and I always have to stop for a moment and just be thankful when I know that one has had a good home.

Thank you for loving her and taking care of her. I'm sorry that she's gone, and I'm sorry that it hurts. It hurts because you CARE so much.

Please give Izzie an extra hug for me, and I wish you, in time, peace and comfort.

renate

(13,776 posts)
14. the perfect name for such a sweet pup
Mon Aug 18, 2014, 01:01 PM
Aug 2014

I'm so sorry. That last picture is heartbreaking.

She was beautiful. The sweetness is absolutely shining from her eyes.

Sissyk

(12,665 posts)
17. Ah, one_voice!!
Mon Aug 18, 2014, 01:06 PM
Aug 2014

I am so very sorry for the loss of Sug. I have tears in my eyes as I type this because I know where you are coming from.

It hurts so much!

Take care of yourself now, and be thankful she had such a wonderful life with you and Izzie.

one_voice

(20,043 posts)
51. Thank you Sissy
Mon Aug 18, 2014, 03:01 PM
Aug 2014


Yeah it hurts so much...I feel like my heart is literally breaking. I imagine that it did, she took a piece with her.

ellenrr

(3,864 posts)
18. I'm so sorry. What a beautiful animal. I'm about to have my cat put down,
Mon Aug 18, 2014, 01:08 PM
Aug 2014

so believe me I know how you feel.
My best thoughts to you.

 

MissDeeds

(7,499 posts)
20. I am so sorry, one_voice
Mon Aug 18, 2014, 01:12 PM
Aug 2014

Losing a beloved pet is like losing a member of the family...it's a special kind of hell. I lost my twelve and a half year old bichon, "Boo Boo Bear" a year and nine months ago and I miss him like crazy. Just thinking of him makes me smile, and my eyes to fill with tears. He was my angel. You never get over the loss, but it does get bearable.

You, your family and dear Izzie will be in my thoughts and prayers.



 

packman

(16,296 posts)
23. I still see my dear calico
Mon Aug 18, 2014, 01:17 PM
Aug 2014

in the shadows sometime - barely tolerated me and hated everyone else. Grief is deeper when it comes from the loss of something that was part of your everyday life - the vacuum it creates is often irreconcilable to the life that continues.

lavenderdiva

(10,726 posts)
25. I'm so very sorry one_voice, for your loss
Mon Aug 18, 2014, 01:19 PM
Aug 2014

Its so hard losing our furry kids. I've lost so many over the last few years, all rescues that found their way to us, and into our hearts. I'm so glad Izzie is there for you. When you are ready, you may want to consider adding another to your family, another friend for Izzie. I have no doubt that the right little one will find its way to you, when your heart is ready. Sending lots of hugs your way---

DirkGently

(12,151 posts)
26. Go in peace, Sugar.
Mon Aug 18, 2014, 01:21 PM
Aug 2014

Beautiful dog. I know a boxer person, and she recently lost one to cancer, with similar symptoms, although it was in another part of the body. She's active with a local rescue org and always has two or three adoptees in the house.

Raine1967

(11,589 posts)
27. Sending you much love.
Mon Aug 18, 2014, 01:25 PM
Aug 2014

I wish I could give you the comfort you need but all I can do is send you a huge hug. I have tears for you and Izzie.

 

opiate69

(10,129 posts)
30. So sorry for your loss. She looks like an absolute sweetheart.
Mon Aug 18, 2014, 01:30 PM
Aug 2014

We lost both of our little furballs within a period of 14 days last summer, so I can definitely empathize.

one_voice

(20,043 posts)
54. Oh God I couldn't even imagine...
Mon Aug 18, 2014, 03:06 PM
Aug 2014

how hard that was. We are concerned with how Izzie will do without Sugar. They've been together since Iz was a puppy and she's 8 now.

get the red out

(13,468 posts)
31. Her eyes WERE filled with love
Mon Aug 18, 2014, 01:42 PM
Aug 2014

It is obvious in the pictures of her. I am so sorry for your loss of your beautiful companion, sugar. These precious souls are our angels.

Tikki

(14,559 posts)
33. Oh sweet baby...what wonderful dogs...I feel your loss.
Mon Aug 18, 2014, 01:51 PM
Aug 2014

Looks like she knew love and returned it...

hugs to everyone who will feel her loss and carry her memory.

Tikki

dawnie51

(959 posts)
38. What a beautiful girl.....
Mon Aug 18, 2014, 02:02 PM
Aug 2014

my family has had boxers for many years, and I have been right where you are now. There is nothing I can say to make it better, but I surely understand and wish you peace. Boxers are a joy but you know that. Bless you and yours.

Loki

(3,825 posts)
41. I'm so sorry you lost your baby.
Mon Aug 18, 2014, 02:25 PM
Aug 2014

I am losing one of my beautiful doxie boys to cancer right now and I know we only have a short time left with him. It is never easy to say goodbye and let them go. You are in my thoughts.

 

AtomicKitten

(46,585 posts)
42. My sincere condolences.
Mon Aug 18, 2014, 02:26 PM
Aug 2014

She came home to be with the one that loved her the most so she could pass peacefully.



Fragile Circle

"We who choose to surround ourselves with lives even more temporary than our own, live within a fragile circle, easily and often breached. Unable to accept its awful gaps, we still would live no other way. We cherish memory as the only certain immortality, never fully understanding the necessary plan."

by Irving Townsend.

calimary

(81,450 posts)
45. Damn. So sorry, one_voice.
Mon Aug 18, 2014, 02:39 PM
Aug 2014

Sugar has lots of friends upstairs, for sure. Probably busy getting acquainted with, and playing with, them all! (Well, the other dogs anyway.)

That's who I hope I meet when I cross over, myself. All the critters I loved in my life, who went before me.

Hugs and prayers and gentle thoughts to you, dear friend.

 

ErikJ

(6,335 posts)
46. So sorry. You might think about long-lived chihihua for next one
Mon Aug 18, 2014, 02:53 PM
Aug 2014

or any small dog / breed really.

I was watching Micky Rourke on Jimmy Kimmel the other night who asked him about his famous chihuahuas.

He always had German Sheps but they lived to only 9 or 10 and was devasted every time so he switched to chihuahuas which live much longer to 16-18 yrs old--unless they are neglected and/or fed people food etc.
Basic rule is the larger the dog the shorter their life span. Mixed breeds also are healthier as they dont have any inbred problems like most purebreds do. Boxers get cancer a lot I heard.

 

villager

(26,001 posts)
52. Am so, so sorry. At least she came home for her goodbye...
Mon Aug 18, 2014, 03:02 PM
Aug 2014

...and had you there at the crossing.

But I know how hard this all is.

sadoldgirl

(3,431 posts)
55. After 30 years with Boxers
Mon Aug 18, 2014, 03:06 PM
Aug 2014

I took in a standard poodle (at 6 years) from the shelter. I had to put her down, when she was 17. Yes, a very long life. The other dog, a Boxer cried and cried. At my age I did not want another dog feeling that I could not do justice to it. My Boxer started acting like a stuffed animal and kept crying. I am sure that Izzie feels the same way now. So I caved. As soon as I got a 2 year old std poodle for him, he was in heaven again. I still miss my old poodle, but my Boxer is happy now.
One of my Boxers some years ago had the same problem as your Sugar, It was so hard to do the right thing, so I know exactly how you feel. It happened when "Drake" was only 6 years old and no operation was possible.
So it is time for you now to spend extra time with Izzie as a consolation to both of you, and I hope it will work better for your Boxer than it did for mine.
Best wishes!

livetohike

(22,161 posts)
59. I'm so sorry for your loss of Sugar. A beautiful tribute for a sweet girl and
Mon Aug 18, 2014, 03:38 PM
Aug 2014

I'm crying with you right now . May all the good memories of the times you shared live in your heart and bring you comfort.

Avalux

(35,015 posts)
61. I am so very sorry for the loss of your baby...
Mon Aug 18, 2014, 04:56 PM
Aug 2014

...been through it and it hurts like hell...it is so hard to say goodbye....

 

Boreal

(725 posts)
66. *cry*
Mon Aug 18, 2014, 05:08 PM
Aug 2014

one voice, I am so sorry about Sugar. She was beautiful. It's so damn painful to lose these incredible beings with whom we are blessed enough to share our lives. My own soul mate was a dog. The best comfort is knowing Sug was so loved and you were lucky enough to have the honor.

brer cat

(24,598 posts)
67. I am so sorry, one_voice.
Mon Aug 18, 2014, 06:55 PM
Aug 2014

I hope Sugar's passing was peaceful for her. Keep hugging Izzie and you will make it though.

niyad

(113,546 posts)
69. what a beautiful girl!! the lady of the beasts has taken this gentle being home. I am
Mon Aug 18, 2014, 10:32 PM
Aug 2014

so very sorry for your loss, and know that words cannot ease the grief and the pain. but she is at peace, and I hope that you and your family will find comfort and peace as well.

tavalon

(27,985 posts)
71. I'm so, so sorry
Mon Aug 18, 2014, 10:48 PM
Aug 2014

Sugar is waiting for you over the rainbow bridge. It's much harder for you now than her. No consolation whatsoever, I know. Hugs to you and your family during this awful and sad time.

RiffRandell

(5,909 posts)
72. Awww....beautiful pictures my #1 voice and I'm so sorry.
Mon Aug 18, 2014, 11:04 PM
Aug 2014

I started crying when I got to reading the phone call part....you were meant to be together.

Hugs and thoughts to you during this heart-breaking time. It's so hard going through this; I know.

You are such a good person and I wish I could take away some of your pain.

one_voice

(20,043 posts)
74. Thank you Riff, you are a very kind & sweet person...
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 10:13 AM
Aug 2014

I'm glad I've gotten to know you.

Yeah, my Suggie was meant to be with us.

I saw this quote somewhere:

Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.

virgdem

(2,126 posts)
78. I am so sorry for the loss of your wonderful dog and faithful companion...
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 11:28 AM
Aug 2014

It's so hard losing our best friend. She is at peace now and no longer in pain. May you find peace in the coming days as you mourn your best friend.

 

magical thyme

(14,881 posts)
79. godspeed Sugar
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 11:38 AM
Aug 2014


peace and healing to you, Izzie and the rest of your family. I'm sure Sugar will be waiting for you just the other side of the rainbow bridge when your time comes.

Greybnk48

(10,174 posts)
81. This beautiful baby had a wonderful life with you
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 11:45 AM
Aug 2014

and your hubby. Knowing that should help a little with the pain. Love to you all.

onecent

(6,096 posts)
82. Oh dear one voice, that last picture made me tear up!!!
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 11:46 AM
Aug 2014

I am so sorry for your loss of Sugar. I know how difficult it is to lose pets. Our fur babies sneak into our heart...and Sugar will be with you forever!! Hugs!

Worried senior

(1,328 posts)
84. This is so heartbreaking
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 12:42 PM
Aug 2014

I hate reading these posts but know the love you all had for each other was wonderful.

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