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xchrom

(108,903 posts)
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 07:16 AM Aug 2014

My Family Has Been Racially Profiled Everywhere from Harvard to Our Own Home

http://www.alternet.org/news-amp-politics/my-family-has-been-racially-profiled-everywhere-harvard-our-own-home

What happened to Michael Brown Jr. in Ferguson, Missouri has resonated across the country with African Americans because all of us feel that it could have easily happened to any of us.

Every black person has their own story of racial profiling, especially black men. Any white person, not just police, engages in racial profiling when they suspect, avoid, follow, report or challenge a black person simply because of their race and their own idea of where black people "belong."

My own family is more typical than exceptional. I was about ten years old, and my family was living in a newly integrated part of Los Angeles in the 1960's. We had been on a family outing to the more exclusively white area of the San Fernando Valley. When returning at the end of the day, my father noticed a police car had begun following us. The police car followed us fully ten miles back to our neighborhood and didn't stop until my father pulled into the driveway of our own home.

As we exited the car, the officer got out to question my father. I remember hearing the officer ask my father, "Where do you live?" Insulted and incredulous, my father responded, "I'm standing in front of my home." After inspecting his driver license, the officer left. But he left my father standing there, embarrassed as a grown man, humiliated in front of his family, and reminded once more that in spite of his college education, middle class home and tidy children, he was no more than a criminal suspect in the eyes of America.
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hedgehog

(36,286 posts)
1. I think this is a very common story - a white suburb quietly integrates,
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 08:18 AM
Aug 2014

but the local police still consider any person of color an "outsider" and therefore suspicious. I think the problem is that most suburbanites have no real idea how their area is governed, or who the governing officials are. There is a lot of knee jerk voting for whomever is on the Republican line. The police forces operate under the radar as long as they are careful not to arrest the wrong people.

wcast

(595 posts)
2. Viewing others as different than you allows some to treat those groups as less than human.
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 08:34 AM
Aug 2014

When it comes to being black in America, AA's are fighting a narrative that has been in place for over 300 years, beginning with the founding of our nation. It is a narrative that continues today as is often pointed out here on DU. My three children are biracial as I am white and my ex-wife is black. While my two girls get mostly comments from white friends that are either insensitive or downright racist, my son, at 6'3", 218 pounds of pure fitness, endures profiling on a daily basis. While he is the nicest, sweetest kid who is loved by almost anyone that knows him, just his presence can be scary to some. I have seen white men visibly recoil in fear when walking past him. He has been pulled over in our small town and in the small city in which he lives more times at 22 than I have been my whole life, and it is rarely one cop. When cops see him they almost always call for back-up until they approach him and they almost always pull him over as he fits the profile.

At 22, since he has left our small town to attend college and live there full time, he has grown to hate the police and feels persecuted. While I think he is starting to come to terms with it, it is a constant pressure that is always there. I worry about how it seems the easiest way to get away with murder is to kill a black man. I worry for my son that another George Zimmerman or Darren Wilson will feel scared, threatened, or intimidated by his mere presence.

My son's reality is something that I have never had to deal with, and is something my white friends do not have to worry about with their children. I hope my son graduates college and is a successful, happy adult. But I fear that as in the OP's article, no matter what he accomplishes, he will always be seen as a criminal in waiting.

Enthusiast

(50,983 posts)
4. I'm sorry your son has had to endure such abuse.
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 08:46 AM
Aug 2014

You are in a unique position to observe this close up and personal.

The Righties® deny that racism even exists.

There would be plenty of racism even without Fox and Limbaugh fanning the flames of hatred.

This rampant racism is an embarrassment to our nation.

Kahuna

(27,311 posts)
3. I'm a black female. I've been profiled, and just about every black man I know has been profiled. nt
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 08:38 AM
Aug 2014
 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
9. Do you think it's worse for black males than black females?
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 12:59 PM
Aug 2014

Or do you think the experience is pretty similar regardless of gender?

Louisiana1976

(3,962 posts)
6. It makes me sad and angry to read how blacks are being racially profiled. Such a thing shouldn't
Sun Aug 31, 2014, 08:59 AM
Aug 2014

happen in this country which should be a free country for all.

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