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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsWhat happens to your email account after you die?
We log into our email, social media and bank accounts, perhaps dozens of times a day, without thinking about how effortlessly we manage our lives online. But have you ever thought about what happens to these accounts when you die?
Donna Johnson, 43, and her family found out how frustrating it can be to gain access to a loved ones digital accounts when her father, Ray Johnson, passed away unexpectedly in January 2010. Not having the password to her fathers email account turned an already difficult time into a financial nightmare. Her mother, Claudia Johnson, 67, tried to guess the password to her husbands email, without any luck, and the company wouldnt reset the password or grant her access, saying their user agreement terminated upon the account holders death....
Johnson didnt want anyone to have to go through for her what her mother did when her father died.
In my will, I put down all of my main accounts, my email account, my photo accounts, my Facebook account, anything like that, she says. I listed what my login and what my password were and that those would be provided to the executor of my estate just so in case anything happened to me, they could go in, they could get anything they needed before anything was shut down.
http://finance.yahoo.com/news/what-happens-to-your-email-account-after-you-die-160820508.html
yeoman6987
(14,449 posts)I would add ITunes, Amazon Instant Videos purchased, e-books, etc. we certainly live in a different world where information on the web may have to be settled.
spooky3
(34,466 posts)So one needs to stay on top of this.
NJCher
(35,709 posts)Anyone who has been a power of attorney or trustee will tell you what a nightmare this job is. E-mail and all the rest just adds an additional layer of red tape to deal with.
Cher
liberal N proud
(60,339 posts)When the junk mail can no longer be received, it will stop. That will teach those SOB's sending me all that trash.
BlueJazz
(25,348 posts)treestar
(82,383 posts)if the person has a will, the executor can deal with all entities once they get the letters issued.
If not, someone opens the estate and gets appointed as representative.
Then you can step in the shoes of the person and deal with them yourself.
Ms. Toad
(34,085 posts)HipChick
(25,485 posts)cui bono
(19,926 posts)Then you can update account/password changes regularly.
Demeter
(85,373 posts)email is for instant communication. It's totally insecure and potentially unreliable. The NSA can walk through it like gangbusters.
Anybody want to see my condo board emails or spam file? I'll leave you my password.
Skittles
(153,174 posts)always have
Sherman A1
(38,958 posts)"Before It's Too Late" by oishi - thompson. Helps you organize pretty much everything. As for the electronic part of life, I have set up a separate file with accounts and passwords using a business card file, so that I can add them, delete them and change as needed.
Great ideas
SheilaT
(23,156 posts)I have a file that has all of my passwords in it, but I need to update individual passwords every so often, so I can't just print it out one time and be done forever.
It's a real nuisance, even though I generally have pretty secure passwords.
Did you know, that the systems that don't want you to use a recognizable word, apparently never learned French?
barbtries
(28,810 posts)i tried to get her password for her yahoo account; they refused. if things went through snail mail we could get them. things were lost and they would not do a thing for me.
i've tried to make sure my children have my important passwords in case i die suddenly.
lovemydog
(11,833 posts)They're cheap & easy.
Update them every few days.
Leave them in your house.
I do this for myself, just to keep my passwords updated and backed up on something separate from my hard drive.
Yavin4
(35,445 posts)Otherwise, I would be fired.
crazylikafox
(2,760 posts)Texano78704
(309 posts)All you would need to provide is the master password. Last Pass would be one example.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)My sister tried forever to get his FB account deactivated (which he only did without any knowledge of the stupid site).
He still has an account.
Dr Hobbitstein
(6,568 posts)he had recently cleared his passwords and browsing history. He knew he was dying, and didn't want his crazed ex-wife to get ahold of anything (which was a sound plan, because as soon as she found out, she tried claiming they never divorced and she tried to take everything, in the end all she was able to do was receive his 2 month old power bill, which was for more than the deposit). However, he left no info for me or my family to get into his accounts (he did leave his PIN number for his bank card with a trusted family friend, so that made closing his account easier). It took time, but we got into everything eventually.
A year ago, my step-father passed away. He wasn't too tech savvy, so there wasn't anything to go through, but my mom made sure to tell me and my sister that there's a certain file in a certain directory on her computer that has all her passwords for everything of importance (and various account numbers).
HeiressofBickworth
(2,682 posts)I have a small notebook on my desk with all account information and passwords in it with instructions to deactivate everything when I die. I need to put a label on the book -- thinking about "The Key to Everything" as the title. It's in pencil so when I change a password, I can easily change the entry.
politicat
(9,808 posts)So spouse can shut things down as needed. If we both go at the same time... Well, our heirs are Planned Parenthood, the Electronic Freedom Foundation and Mediciens Sans Frontiers. They can figure it out. (We do keep a hard copy of the master access to our applications in the safe deposit box, so once the estate is through probate, they can do the necessary.)
I tolerate my family, I love my friends, but I have only one person on the planet I trust with the whole of my interior world. If I go first, he should have the right to decide when and what he chooses to keep of me.
Should Spouse predecease me, I will probably set up a dead man's switch; if I don't log in every 72 hours, everything (nonessential) burns; if I'm out of action for longer (probably 6 weeks; if I'm out of action for that long, my DNR and living will should have kicked in and I'm done anyway), then everything else burns, closes and transfers. Digital dead man switches are not difficult; I think there are even some pre-pack apps now, instead of having to code one.
greiner3
(5,214 posts)Who is the executor of my will.
Also, I have a Word document on my computer's Desktop that has all online passwords, sort of encrypted of course but easy when you know a few basic things about me.