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kpete

(72,005 posts)
Sat Oct 11, 2014, 10:48 AM Oct 2014

“It breaks my heart”: How a SWAT team upended my baby’s life — and got away with it


My son will be 2 years old next week. He’s recovering from a total of eight surgeries, one of which was to reattach his nose to his face.



For those who don’t know, it’s been over five months since the night a SWAT team broke into the house in which we were staying. It was the middle of the night, and even though our minivan with car seats inside was parked in the driveway and our children’s toys were in the yard, the SWAT officers claimed they had no way of knowing there were kids inside. We were staying with relatives and my whole family was sleeping in one room. My husband and I, our three daughters and our baby (nicknamed “Baby Bou Bou”) in his crib.

Dressed like soldiers, they broke down the door. The SWAT officers tossed a flashbang grenade into the room. It landed in Baby Bou Bou’s crib, blowing a hole in his face and chest that took months to heal and covering his entire body with scars.

On Monday, we were devastated and heartbroken by the grand jury’s decision to not charge any of the officers involved in injuring our son. I relive that night every time I hold my son, see my daughters afraid and watch my husband in pain. Bou Bou will be 2 years old next week, and my gift to him will be my continued commitment to demand justice for what was done to him. We will not give up, we will not remain silent – we will continue to fight.

Bou Bou’s birthday is October 14. We are very happy we can celebrate with him — after the raid, we weren’t sure if he would make it. But our joy and relief he is alive can’t take away any of the psychological damage done by that raid. We’ve been trying to find a new normal ever since. But it’s been hard.

the rest:
http://www.salon.com/2014/10/10/it_breaks_my_heart_how_a_swat_team_upended_our_lives_and_got_away_with_it/
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“It breaks my heart”: How a SWAT team upended my baby’s life — and got away with it (Original Post) kpete Oct 2014 OP
Message auto-removed Name removed Oct 2014 #1
K and R Savannahmann Oct 2014 #2
No accountability. Brigid Oct 2014 #3
The Justice Department is looking into this case. We'll see if anything happens. Comrade Grumpy Oct 2014 #12
Hopefully, they'll come up with something sakabatou Oct 2014 #23
Evil billhicks76 Oct 2014 #24
They should have been charged and convicted. There is no responsibility for the police. Shrike47 Oct 2014 #4
What sickens me are the apologists who criticize exboyfil Oct 2014 #5
Has anonymous doxed these pigs yet? ncjustice80 Oct 2014 #7
All I can say is . . . Dem_in_Nebr. Oct 2014 #6
Do away with "Tactical" policing. marble falls Oct 2014 #8
Shame on that grand jury and prosecutor Marrah_G Oct 2014 #9
This is how the Nazis operated The Wizard Oct 2014 #10
+1 Enthusiast Oct 2014 #16
When the bushes take power, authoritarianism is what follows. Dont call me Shirley Oct 2014 #31
Please remind those responsible how their actions have impacted a young innocent life. No Vested Interest Oct 2014 #11
K&R!! marym625 Oct 2014 #13
it's an absolute outrage that they got away with it. magical thyme Oct 2014 #14
Kicked and recommended! Enthusiast Oct 2014 #15
Whatever happened to the petition government for redress of grievances thing? Octafish Oct 2014 #17
Is the Grand Jury the last word besides a civil suit? nm rhett o rick Oct 2014 #20
Be interesting in knowing what the prosecutor told the Grand Jury. rhett o rick Oct 2014 #18
Great point! They can say anything they want. And protect cops! Nt Logical Oct 2014 #22
HUGE K & R !!! WillyT Oct 2014 #19
A tree fell on Texas AG Abbott and he got millions for his injuries.....but when cops negligently Fred Sanders Oct 2014 #21
Psychos with a badge. GeorgeGist Oct 2014 #25
I really... really... am beginning to dislike police... TheVisitor Oct 2014 #26
Amazing how many think this is all about raising money when it's all about cops having respect. Spitfire of ATJ Oct 2014 #27
Frankly, it's not about "respect" AT ALL. It's about the police committing crimes in the name of the WinkyDink Oct 2014 #29
They only do it because they don't care about the people they hurt. Spitfire of ATJ Oct 2014 #30
Truly the definition of "unconscionable," both on the SWAT team's part AND ON THE GJ'S DECISION. WinkyDink Oct 2014 #28
Beautiful child, so sad. Dont call me Shirley Oct 2014 #32

Response to kpete (Original post)

Brigid

(17,621 posts)
3. No accountability.
Sat Oct 11, 2014, 11:16 AM
Oct 2014

A SWAT team nearly kills a toddler and no indictments. What was that grand jury thinking?? Now all the family has left is filing a lawsuit, which will be paid by the taxpayers, not the idiots who threw that flashbang grenade. Unbelievable.

Shrike47

(6,913 posts)
4. They should have been charged and convicted. There is no responsibility for the police.
Sat Oct 11, 2014, 11:41 AM
Oct 2014

I must say, however, he looks pretty good to me, thank goodness. May he have a long and happy life.

exboyfil

(17,865 posts)
5. What sickens me are the apologists who criticize
Sat Oct 11, 2014, 11:44 AM
Oct 2014

the family because they suspected drug dealing was going on. Like an appropriate response to drug dealing is lobbing flash bangs into a house and hitting it SWAT style. I remember the day when flash bangs were used only in hostage situations. I missed where Patty Hearst was being held captive.

The Wizard

(12,545 posts)
10. This is how the Nazis operated
Sat Oct 11, 2014, 01:03 PM
Oct 2014

Last edited Sat Oct 11, 2014, 03:32 PM - Edit history (1)

followed by the Sergeant Schultz defense. I know nothing, I see nothing. I hear nothing. I say nothing.
We have to stop worshiping uniforms.

No Vested Interest

(5,167 posts)
11. Please remind those responsible how their actions have impacted a young innocent life.
Sat Oct 11, 2014, 01:13 PM
Oct 2014

Send them photos of your baby at regular intervals.
He is still a beautiful child.
Hold him close.

 

magical thyme

(14,881 posts)
14. it's an absolute outrage that they got away with it.
Sat Oct 11, 2014, 01:37 PM
Oct 2014

The people that blame them are despicable. They'd lost their home to a fire and were staying with relatives temporarily. They didn't know about the drugs until after they moved there, and did everything they could to get away. They were scheduled to leave the next day.

And it is horrible that the county had said they would pay the medical bills and reneged.

The whole situation is simply obscene.

I hope they sue and win enough money that they never have to work again.

Octafish

(55,745 posts)
17. Whatever happened to the petition government for redress of grievances thing?
Sat Oct 11, 2014, 05:03 PM
Oct 2014

The Constitution, that's what it was. The Constitution.

 

rhett o rick

(55,981 posts)
18. Be interesting in knowing what the prosecutor told the Grand Jury.
Sat Oct 11, 2014, 08:00 PM
Oct 2014

I hope there is a civil suit. Not that that will punish those involved.

Fred Sanders

(23,946 posts)
21. A tree fell on Texas AG Abbott and he got millions for his injuries.....but when cops negligently
Sat Oct 11, 2014, 08:03 PM
Oct 2014

maim an infant, it is "oops, sorry about that", denial and defensiveness.

I hope you sue these cops and their supervisor and the idiot who swore the information for the warrant and they pay personally, not through the taxpayers.

TheVisitor

(173 posts)
26. I really... really... am beginning to dislike police...
Sun Oct 12, 2014, 01:03 AM
Oct 2014

They're murderers, thieves, liars, lawless, and obscene... and it really irritates me...

 

WinkyDink

(51,311 posts)
29. Frankly, it's not about "respect" AT ALL. It's about the police committing crimes in the name of the
Sun Oct 12, 2014, 09:18 AM
Oct 2014

law.

 

WinkyDink

(51,311 posts)
28. Truly the definition of "unconscionable," both on the SWAT team's part AND ON THE GJ'S DECISION.
Sun Oct 12, 2014, 09:16 AM
Oct 2014

WE ARE A LAWLESS NATION, FOR THE LAWMEN ARE CRIMINALS.

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