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tavernier

(12,393 posts)
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 10:01 PM Nov 2014

My friend has breast cancer.

My friend has no breasts. Well, let me clarify: in our circle of friends, the rest of us are all quote "chesty". Jessica (not real name), is built like a twelve year old boy. She has always joked about her "lack of endowment", although she is gorgeous and has never lacked for male attention.

Last week she was diagnosed with breast cancer. She joked about adding insult to injury, even saying, " Mammogram attempts are pitiful when you have nothing to place in the machine."

I'm posting this as a warning to all women... Please get checked. In this case, size really doesn't matter.

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My friend has breast cancer. (Original Post) tavernier Nov 2014 OP
I think it's usually easier for the mammogram to see cancer in small breasts, MoonRiver Nov 2014 #1
size does mercuryblues Nov 2014 #2
This message was self-deleted by its author Drayden Nov 2014 #9
Guess mercuryblues Nov 2014 #10
Great warning-size doesn't matter. babylonsister Nov 2014 #3
Diagnosed very early tavernier Nov 2014 #4
She'll be ok. Good 840high Nov 2014 #8
Thank you for the warning tavernier sheshe2 Nov 2014 #5
My 85 Year Old Mom Is A 24 Year Survivor... Best Of Health To Your Friend !!! WillyT Nov 2014 #6
There is a new diagnostic drug on the market that she should ask about 7962 Nov 2014 #7

MoonRiver

(36,926 posts)
1. I think it's usually easier for the mammogram to see cancer in small breasts,
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 10:08 PM
Nov 2014

versus "dense" breasts. I hope she has a very early stage, easily dealt with bc.

mercuryblues

(14,532 posts)
2. size does
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 10:11 PM
Nov 2014

not matter and neither does sex.

Best of health for your friend. My Aunt is a 15 year survivor.

Response to mercuryblues (Reply #2)

mercuryblues

(14,532 posts)
10. Guess
Sat Nov 15, 2014, 11:15 AM
Nov 2014

you missed the point of my post. The OP was about size not mattering. I added neither does sex. Yes, you are right the risk is not as great for men as women. But that was not my point.

Many men do not even know they can get breast cancer. By the time they get that lump checked out it has advanced to other areas of the body. The end result is a higher percentage of men diagnosed with BC than woman die from BC because they delay going to the DR. If there is a prevalence of BC in a family, men should also be tested for the BRCA gene. Not just the women.

Campaigns like save the Tatas and save second base not only objectify women, it has a negative impact on men.

babylonsister

(171,074 posts)
3. Great warning-size doesn't matter.
Fri Nov 14, 2014, 10:23 PM
Nov 2014

it sounds like she was diagnosed early, I hope?

As a survivor for many years, I'm here for her if she has any questions/fears.

Getting breast cancer is horrible; catching it in its early stages is essential. Hugs to her! xo

 

7962

(11,841 posts)
7. There is a new diagnostic drug on the market that she should ask about
Sat Nov 15, 2014, 12:25 AM
Nov 2014

It is called Lymphoseek from Navidea. This drug finds and marks the lymph nodes that are cancerous to a higher degree than the previous drug. It also does not burn when injected, like the sulpher colloid & blue dye used in the past. I know this sounds like an ad, but this is really a step forward in getting ALL the cancerous lymph nodes without taking them out en masse. Its only been on the market since summer, so her dr may not have heard about it.
Please tell her to research it and discuss with her dr. It may be a great help to beat this.
I wish her the best of luck. I've had a few long time friends die from breast cancer and I hate it. I HATE it along with ALL cancer.

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