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Opinion: 'Prostitutes Are People, Not Criminals' by Belle Knox
By Miriam Weeks | November 5, 2014
As a porn actress, one of the perverse tragedies of public policy I often contemplate is the fact that people can pay to watch me have sex on camera but are considered criminals if they pay to have sex behind closed doors. I'm talking about prostitution, a practice that continues to be shunned in the United States, pushing countless Americans trying to make an honest living onto the streets despite centuries of human history proving that governments cannot eliminate market demand for sex. The time has come for the world's oldest profession to be legalized in the so-called Land of the Free for public health, safety and opportunity.
First and foremost, I'd like to clear up a myth that remains pervasive in any discussion about sex work. Prostitution opponents love to promote images of abused hookers and human traffickers to trump up hostility towards sex work. While it's true ill-intentioned criminals do exist and should be prosecuted to the full extent of the law, these conditions do not apply to the vast majority of sex workers. We should especially not conflate the sex industry with the abuses of human trafficking because it delegitimizes the workers and creates a moral panic that manifests itself in harmful legislation. The fact of the matter is that most sex workers enter the industry via their own consent and genuinely enjoy their work.
This is not just theory, but hard fact. Barbara G. Brents of the University of Nevada, Las Vegas, studied the Silver State's legal brothels for more than 15 years and found that "employees report that they feel safe, are free to come and go and are bound only by their contract." In fact, 84 percent of the brothel workers her team surveyed said their job "felt safe," and no evidence of trafficking could be found.
Legal prostitution wouldn't simply result in greater safety, but improved health as well. While it's not well-known, Rhode Island unintentionally legalized prostitution in 1980 as the result of a legal loophole. Between the time a criminal case brought the loophole to public attention in 2003 and when it was recriminalized in 2009, gonorrhea infection among women plummeted by 39 percent, according to a study by the National Bureau of Economic Research. Similarly, reports of rape declined by 31 per cent.
http://www.rollingstone.com/culture/features/opinion-prostitutes-are-people-not-criminals-by-belle-knox-20141105
Guy Whitey Corngood
(26,501 posts)AngryAmish
(25,704 posts)When I was her age I am sure I would have felt equally certain. I happen to agree with her but still.
Ok, I'll get that onion back on my belt, continue the surveillance of my lawn and finish the other 5 Lagunitas I have.
scarystuffyo
(733 posts)bluestateguy
(44,173 posts)Let counties decide if they want to legalize it (although big counties like Clark and Washoe may not legalize it). Then, if they opt for legalization, there are rules and regulations that must be followed concerning licensing, STD testing and other procedures.
PumpkinAle
(1,210 posts)it............ all the time their citizens are frequenting the brothels elsewhere. Against the law for prostitution in cities over a certain size in Nevada.... and god help the women who are street prostitutes there. Regular stings happen and it is the women who bear the brunt.
Double standards, absolutely.
LittleBlue
(10,362 posts)This. Just like the war on drugs, policing adults for their moral behavior is a waste of time and money. Always has been, always will be.
Niko
(97 posts)And coming straight from a sex worker herself lends credibility to this article too. It's unfortunate that the puritanical religious horseshit continues to strangle society in more ways than just this particular domain.
Here in Canada our idiotic conservative government just adopted the so called "Swedish model", where the Johns are prosecuted while the sex workers are not. As if that's going to make them safer somehow. Take away the demand from all the honest guys and let the price go down for the criminals. Yeah, that'll make it safer for them.
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)Though I personally lean toward legalization/decriminalization, albeit with aggressive prosecution of pimping and public solicitation.
Niko
(97 posts)This is one of those things that's actually NOT complicated, and the only reason it stays illegal is because of puritanical and prudish attitudes towards sex in general. It's religious insanity taken to the extreme just like the drug war.
Legalize it, regulate it, enforce existing penalties on rape. Simple.
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)yeoman6987
(14,449 posts)We have to have some boundaries for goodness sake. Do we really want a free for all country. Legalize drug, gambling on every street corner and now prostitution legal? Can we at least have a bit of morals for the country? A little for goodness sake.
Erich Bloodaxe BSN
(14,733 posts)Not something forced onto you by government. Blue laws are for theocracies.
So should we have morals? Sure, by our own choice.
yeoman6987
(14,449 posts)We are all together and this would not be for the good of society. We have other things to focus on. Prostitution is not one of them. Lets clean up the drug situation first and see if that really improves our lives as a society. One area I know is not good for society is all these casinos going up all over the place. They breed financial problems that are so horrible. "Free for all" societies have huge problems that we just don't need.
Erich Bloodaxe BSN
(14,733 posts)Sure, you may also disapprove of them for moral reasons, but the problems that society (ie, government) should address are the non-moral ones. Addiction, violent crime, disease, etc.
There's nothing 'moral' about not doing something because it's illegal, but there are reasons certain activities are made illegal that have nothing to do with morality, or 'not having to have this in your community'.
PumpkinAle
(1,210 posts)and men and where it is legal, it is clean and accepted and regulated.
No matter the laws, men and women will buy and sell sex. Criminalizing the buying of sex will not make those who buy and sell sex safer. Keeping it illegal will push the practice further underground - which will only exacerbate the drugs, etc. that you are so against. Legalizing can protect those in the sex trade......... which is a good thing.
whathehell
(29,067 posts)and now, many are being trafficked, enslaved.
So much for that "freedom".
phil89
(1,043 posts)So presumptuous.
Niko
(97 posts)There's nothing immoral about adult consensual sex. You ought to read The God Delusion by Richard Dawkins. It'll open your eyes and free you from the shackles of religion.
yeoman6987
(14,449 posts)Response to LostInAnomie (Original post)
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NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)Yeah, that does get the juices flowing for some. Any minute now our own fun police should be here.
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NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)Yeah, I think I might be a distant relative of the great philosopher Mencken.
treestar
(82,383 posts)for the prostitute.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)That's how most people think of their professions. Does the fact that their professions bring pleasure to people offend you for some reason?
treestar
(82,383 posts)It's an intimate part of a person's life that they should get to enjoy too, not just because they need money. You're forgetting the prostitute. Bringing pleasure to some john is of no concern to me, what bothers me is the poor prostitute is putting up with unwanted sex just to get the money. She should be able to get the money another way. We should legalize drugs, for example, so that drug addicted women don't have to make their lives even worse by selling the only thing they have, which should be for them only.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)upon gender and economic inequality that
But, hey, if it gives men boners and ejaculations, it must be good, right?
Go ahead and tell me all of the men pushing for their own ability to be able to buy sex are really, truly interested in the welfare of the women they want to be able to exploit.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)"First and foremost, I'd like to clear up a myth that remains pervasive in any discussion about sex work. Prostitution opponents love to promote images of abused hookers and human traffickers to trump up hostility towards sex work. While it's true ill-intentioned criminals do exist and should be prosecuted to the full extent of the law, these conditions do not apply to the vast majority of sex workers. We should especially not conflate the sex industry with the abuses of human trafficking because it delegitimizes the workers and creates a moral panic that manifests itself in harmful legislation. The fact of the matter is that most sex workers enter the industry via their own consent and genuinely enjoy their work."
It's right there in the OP, second paragraph.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)for all workers.
An alternative view:
http://www.nytimes.com/roomfordebate/2012/04/19/is-legalized-prostitution-safer/legalizing-prostitution-leads-to-more-trafficking
Violence is inherent in the sex industry. Numerous studies show that between 70 percent and 90 percent of children and women who end up in commercial sex were sexually abused prior to entry. No other industry is dependent upon a regular supply of victims of trauma and abuse.
But hey, who cares about them?
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)Human trafficking should be punished with life in prison. We can probably agree on that much.
Obviously we are not going to agree on the rest.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)Where there are johns there will be pimps.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)Response to geek tragedy (Reply #122)
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LadyHawkAZ
(6,199 posts)Care to here my views?
Didn't think so.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)LadyHawkAZ
(6,199 posts)What would it require, besides total agreement with your views, to get you to respect the views of actual sex workers?
Behind the Aegis
(53,959 posts)LadyHawkAZ
(6,199 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)When prostitution no longer is driven by gender and economic inequality, I'll reconsider the institution's merits. When there's a positive correlation between economic opportunity/ education and entry into the sex industry (instead of a sharply negative one), I'll reconsider.
LadyHawkAZ
(6,199 posts)so that the workers have workplace protections, higher wages and basic human rights. I suspect you already know that though.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)nature of the institution doesn't change. In the Netherlands and Germany there are a lot more men wanting to buy than women willing to sell, because women have other options. So they import economically desperate women from Africa and eastern Europe.
Demand reduction, not supply increase, is the key. When the only women in the sex trade are those who really want to be in it, then maybe it can be considered something other than a foul perpetuator of inequality.
LadyHawkAZ
(6,199 posts)And while it might be easy to dismiss as only one success, criminalization still has zero successes.
But you already know that.
LadyHawkAZ
(6,199 posts)From what other (non-sex) industries do you also propose legally barring women and arresting anyone who hires or buys from them, until after all gender problems have been solved?
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)why have sexual harassment laws?
We don't make it illegal for bosses to make employees pick up their dry cleaning. Why would requiring a blowjob be any different?
Consenting adults and all.
LadyHawkAZ
(6,199 posts)And the answer, according to the courts where sex work in LEGAL AND PROTECTED, is:
SEX WORKER SUES BROTHELAND WINS
The slight wrinkle in this case is that the plaintiff is a prostitute, employed at a legal and regulated brothel. According to her complaint, the plaintiff claimed she felt debased and unsafe under the management of a brothel owner who tried to break and control her, so much that she couldnt sleep or eat and began drinking excessively to soothe fraying nerves. According to the New Zealand Herald, the accused said weekends were his play time, when he liked to get stoned and have sex with them in his special room...[and] on occasions he told her details about the sex, including that he liked young, skinny girls. In her complaint, the unnamed woman claimed that her boss peppered her with questions about whether she was shaved and whether she would have anal sex with clients.
The brothel owner denied any wrongdoing, but New Zealands Human Rights Review Tribunal concluded that his self-described role as protector of the sex workers at the Kensington [Inn] has led him to be overbearing and exploitative, granting the plaintiff a significant sum in damages.
In the U.S. there is an assumption, unfair though it is, that humiliation, loss of dignity and injury to feelings comes with the territory for prostitutesso that one would file a sexual harassment claim in a (mostly) underground sex industry boggles the mind. But in New Zealand, where running a brothel has been legal since the 2003 Prostitution Reform Act (PRA), theres a national incentive to protect sex workers. Its been just fantastic, really, Catherine Healey, national coordinator for the New Zealand Prostitutes Collective, told The Toronto Star of the PRA in 2010. In 2008, the New Zealand Ministry of Justice declared the new law effective in controlling abuses and keeping sex workers safe, concluding that the sex industry has not increased in size, and many of the social evils predicted by some who opposed the decriminalisation of the sex industry have not been experienced.
I would now like an answer to the question you just tried to dodge, please.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)You've cited the exception, not the rule. It's considered a big deal that an employer who threatened his employees was found liable? Not impressed.
Nor am I impressed by the sophistry-cated question which presumes that there are other trades/industries in which women's bodies are directly commoditized. But if you can come up with another industry that is irredeemable and incapable of advancing the well-being of society, dependent upon and perpetuating gender and economic inequality, I will be happy to discuss appropriate governmental responses.
Finally, in terms of basic economics you can't extrapolate from remote, island nations to the rest of the planet on this. Basic economics--where there is greater demand than supply, then the terms will shift in the suppliers' favor as they have better bargaining power. In NZ, because women have other/ better options, there are fewer willing to sell than buy. Ergo those that do sell are able to win concessions such as being treated like a human being.
However, in Europe supply can be trafficked/imported and ergo increased to meet demand. Indeed, due to the tragically huge numbers of economically desperate women, the terms of exchange will inevitably tilt against those being sold due to the superior bargaining power and resources of both johns and pimps/traffickers. Government regulation is only a superficial remedy, as an underground trade develops to reflect the economic realities.
Short of eliminating global poverty, the only way to make it less awful in most places is to dissuade men from trying to buy women. Part of that is legal deterrence, and part of it is raising boys and educating men to avoid doing so.
treestar
(82,383 posts)and why don't you respect the views of others.
It is not "work." It is not something one should have to sell. The image of them all happily going off to work is ridiculous. No one does it if they are not desperate for the money. I am sure most of them would rather have a better way to earn that money. And how many of them are supporting a drug habit.
And their "views" are quite suspect as they are not of course going to admit their true ones to their "customers." To top it all off, likely they have to spend plenty of time reassuring some customers they like it just fine. That's almost worse than cynically using them; knowing it is wrong but demanding that they "consent" that it's all just fine and dandy.
LadyHawkAZ
(6,199 posts)I have never personally known, spoken to, networked with, or listened to a sex worker that supported criminalization. I'm sure they exist, but they're in the minority. Some people like working for Wal-Mart. Some people like voting for Republicans. Sometimes people do go against their own interests.
I'm not required to respect views that do direct harm to people, and I don't.
It is work. There are an infinite number of jobs that people wouldn't do if they didn't have bills to pay. I notice no one is suggesting that commercial fishing be outlawed. Or waitressing. Or retail sales.
treestar
(82,383 posts)I think it ought to be illegal to procure - arrest the johns rather than the prostitutes. The prostitutes need help with drug addiction or with poverty or whatever other situation of desperation applies. It's just absurd to act like doing something like that is just another job. They ought to be able to have their own sex lives.
Viewing prostitution as fine is just as harmful to people. Maybe not to men who find it convenient. But it does a lot of harm to the women involved in it and to society in general.
LadyHawkAZ
(6,199 posts)The people doing it are workers and deserve to be respected as such.
Anyone with addiction problems deserves help, not dehumanization.
Niko
(97 posts)Do you even realize that you're making the argument that prostitution ought to be legalized and regulated when you post something like that to make your "point"?
That girl was underage - hence, it was not consensual. She was a victim of rape and human trafficking. She wasn't a sex worker.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)treestar
(82,383 posts)they genuinely enjoy the work. You never tell the customers you hate working for them.
It would be a very rare person, whose sanity might be in question, who would not be doing it out of desperation. Mostly, drug addiction causes people to turn to prostitution.
There's no way it is enjoyable. Men who use prostitutes trying to claim the prostitutes like it are delusional. If you have to pay, then by definition she does not really want sex with you.
Blue_Tires
(55,445 posts)Maybe she needs to start looking outside of the well-known, high-class joints in Nevada to get a proper perspective...I can suggest some cities and neighborhoods where she can start if she's interested...
For every "good" anecdote she can spew out, I can respond with two bad ones...
Threedifferentones
(1,070 posts)Hence, Belle Knox must not be a young woman who has already had sex for money, but rather some MRA type masquerading as such.
Oh, wait a second, that isn't right, just like the argument for keeping prostitution illegal makes no sense. It is like people who say that drugs are bad because they funnel money to gangs.
Actually, the prohibition of drugs funnels money to black market dealers, just as the prohibition of prostitution funnels money to traffickers and pimps. If both "vices" were legal, then sooner or later 99.9% of the people dealing in them would be legitimate tax paying citizens instead of gangsters.
Ya, it would probably be better if we all had sex in committed relationships, just like it would be better if we were all content to be sober all the time, but that's never going to happen, and the prohibition clearly makes the situation worse.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)is about the dumbest argument advanced for legalization.
So congrats on that.
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hifiguy
(33,688 posts)And yes, she is right as rain.
ismnotwasm
(41,989 posts)Toss the tricks in jail. Which doesn't not one motherfuckin thing for trafficked children OR adults. Or the fact that it's a gendered profession.
My bottom line is prostitutes deserve to be safe. And since prostiution is built on a religious prohibition, it will never be safe. Prostitution used to be a religious act, with nothing in common with what it is today. Then came other religions jockeying for power. The act of prostiution became shameful, the women and men participating or forced into it shunned.
I know a lot of sex workers. She's young. I'm middle aged. I know what happens with the rest of the story. On FB, I found a group of survivors from my time on the street. We talk. A lot.
You want anecdotal evidence? Happy to oblige
LostInAnomie
(14,428 posts)ismnotwasm
(41,989 posts)LostInAnomie
(14,428 posts)Why should johns be thrown in jail if everyone is consenting?
Niko
(97 posts)Didn't you know that it's wrong to have sex unless you're married? You need to brush up on your Bible reading.
ismnotwasm
(41,989 posts)It's quite likely that Paul was referring to Athenian cults in which which sex and orgies were a part when he 'condemned' homosexuality. As I said before, it comes FROM religion, not apart from it.
treestar
(82,383 posts)It is not the same thing as sex between people who don't have to pay one of the partners to do it!
ismnotwasm
(41,989 posts)Legalization has led to increase in trafficking. But I don't feel prostitutes should be punished at all.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)let people sell their kidneys.
LostInAnomie
(14,428 posts)Are you seriously comparing waterboarding and organ removal with people consensually having sex?
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)After all, you're invoking the libertarian playbook on this one.
Which would most people rather do, get waterboarded for 30 seconds or suck the d!cks of 25 lowlives?
LostInAnomie
(14,428 posts)If a person wants to get waterboarded consensually there isn't a law against it. Have at it for all I care. I'm not going to make a moral judgement over the consensual actions of another adult that doesn't harm anyone else.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)There are some men who consciously adopt a fantasy view that women who are in prostitution do it because they enjoy themselves.
These men usually adopt this self-deception in order to be able to live with themselves while ejaculating into someone who finds them sickening.
LostInAnomie
(14,428 posts)The article in the OP was written by woman that has sex for money and enjoys it. Are you saying you know better than her as to if she is being exploited?
"There are some men who consciously adopt a fantasy view that women who are in prostitution do it because they enjoy themselves.
These men usually adopt this self-deception in order to be able to live with themselves while ejaculating into someone who finds them sickening."
Look how comfortable you are inserting your thoughts for those of other people. You have no clue what most johns are thinking.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)so one 19-year old speaks for all women caught up in the industry?
LostInAnomie
(14,428 posts)But you seem to have no problem substituting your paternalistic judgement for the judgement of thousands of men/women sex workers.
"what insight do you have into the minds of johns?"
None. That's why I don't insert my thoughts for their own.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)promote gender equality.
LostInAnomie
(14,428 posts)A woman with first hand experience and insight into the industry. A woman that is double majoring at Duke in women's studies and sociology at that.
I'm sure you know better though.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)and lots of men have masturbated to the video of that assault.
"And I was like, 'Just please don't hit me so hard.' But it went on like that, me getting hit, pushed, spit on. I was being told I was fat, that I was a terrible feminist, was going to fail all my classes, was stupid, dumb, a slut. But I got through it. You know how you kind of zone out sometimes? I just disassociated." It wasn't until she got back to Duke that she felt the weight of it all. "I remember just being a wreck, like, 'Oh, my God, what have I done? This is the most embarrassing thing ever. What if somebody finds it?'"
http://www.rollingstone.com/culture/news/the-blue-devil-in-miss-belle-knox-meet-duke-porn-star-miriam-weeks-20140423?page=2
But, hey. that's 'consensual' for you.
But, hey, go ahead and tell us how awesome that is.
P.S. one 19-year old (still economically dependent upon the porn industry 1%ers) does not trump the hundreds of thousands of women chewed up and spit out by the industry.
LostInAnomie
(14,428 posts)... "While Weeks maintains that everything that happened at the shoot was consensual..."?
It's almost like you did it intentionally.
This woman has taken part in over 30 movies. She also wrote the article in the OP where she states:
"While it's true that paying my tuition at Duke was my initial motivation for entering the porn industry, I've grown to appreciate the empowerment opportunities that sex work has provided me. In porn, I can speak openly about my experiences without fear of punishment, work in a safe and professional environment and play a vital role in the creative process."
She is smart enough form an informed opinion on if she is being exploited. What you are doing is infantilizing her.
Just because you seem to have hang ups about consensual sex and what people find arousing, doesn't mean everyone else does.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)because it's an inconvenient fact. That this young woman makes a living in the sex industry and seems to enjoy it doesn't fit the party line of the prohibitionists.
davidn3600
(6,342 posts)And you are dismissing her opinion completely all because you don't agree with it.
You lectured me the other day saying that feminists exist that agree with pornography and support prostitution. So shouldn't Knox qualify as a feminist?
But now you are claiming this woman's opinion is invalid because she doesn't adhere to your particular brand of feminism. You don't like her because she stars in porn films and supports decriminalizing prostitution.
This is exactly what I was talking about when I said that feminism is very, very rigid where supporters are not allowed to think outside the box. It's why the movement has such a bad reputation.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)Her opinion is that of one young privileged woman who entered the industry by choice.
It is what it is, but it does not trump the many who are not so lucky.
Niko
(97 posts)It's not a fantasy. Go click the link.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)behalf of those who are.
LittleBlue
(10,362 posts)All those damned libertarians in the Netherlands.
Niko
(97 posts)You're comparing torture to consensual sex.
Can't even fathom it.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)Yep, that consensual sex among consenting adults stuff needs to be nipped in the bud. People might be enjoying themselves, and we all know how bad that is.
ismnotwasm
(41,989 posts)All pro-prostitution proponents get out there and try it for your self-- male and female. This is a place where economics comes into play--and would be considered is a form of coercion or wage slavery in any other field.
I'm not against it, I despise how it is now.
So go ahead. Try making a living-- at a decent brothel even, see what you run into. Perform fellatio on 5 or 10 different men a night, or other acts that you might not care for, but, it's your consensual way of making a living. Tell me how enjoyable that is.
When you start feeling old at 25, try to believe the young ones when they say they're of age. Because the older you are, the harder you have to work, the more kink you have to perform, and the More you have to stick your head in the sand, to not see.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)since it's not something that I choose to do, it wouldn't be consensual. However, for those who choose to do it, it is consensual. See how that works?
ismnotwasm
(41,989 posts)Just as I thought.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)Well well...how about that?
ismnotwasm
(41,989 posts)I meant You misread everyone of my posts.
But I'm done here, after a while it's all circular arguments and baiting. No conversation at all, and conversation is possible, I've had them with women who believe the exact opposite that I do. As most men don't admit to ever being a prostitute, I tend to listen to them less, I admit. As purchasers, they make assumptions, the worst ones involving economic inequity as means of coercion as well as ignoring early recruiting of prostitutes. Really early.
Have a good rest of the day.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)You too.
kcr
(15,317 posts)Shoulders of Giants
(370 posts)I don't want the law to be used as a tool to keep people from making the wrong choice. That's called freedom.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)Johns are pigs. They use and degrade women. That is what they are. Pigs.
LostInAnomie
(14,428 posts)That is puritanical/paternalistic bullshit.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)Who are you to tell them that they are being exploited and mistreated?
And while we're at it, why not get rid of those stupid OSHA rules?
And those rules against sexual harassment? Totally paternalistic and puritanical.
LostInAnomie
(14,428 posts)... that you are getting this stuff from? Getting rid of OSHA rules? Getting rid of sexual harassment laws? How does that even make sense to you?
Ever hear of dominatrixes? In most places, consensual abuse for pleasure is legal.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)Your entire schtick is that the state has no business regulating the economic affairs of citizens, and that consent makes the state regulatory interest go away.
So, if there's no problem in paying people for a blowjob, why not allow bosses to ask their employees to do so?
If someone consents to do something for money, why should the state stick its nose in?
That's what you are arguing. It's libertarianism.
LostInAnomie
(14,428 posts)The state has an interest in looking out for the health and welfare of its citizens. Since regulations could be easily put in place to avoid almost all the physical risks of prostitution, you whole argument is a ridiculous strawman.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)prostitution also goes up.
Because, you know, an institution founded upon male supremacy and economic inequality works that way. Men who pay for sex don't want to pay extra to use a condom and behave respectfully towards a woman and respect her welfare. So the lowlife pimps and sex traffickers continue to meet the demands of their target audience.
You can't take something that's inherently bad and regulate it into something good.
LostInAnomie
(14,428 posts)That is a woefully misinformed opinion.
"You can't take something that's inherently bad and regulate it into something good."
"Bad" and "good" are subjective to the point that they are useless. The real question is if prostitution is going to exist or not. History has shown that it will always exist. By keeping it illegal, you only further the worst aspects of it. The disease, the child trafficking, the coercion, etc., all stay in place because it is kept illegal.
Legalizing it at least gives sex workers a recourse and protections.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)That does not mean we don't try to minimize their occurrence.
LostInAnomie
(14,428 posts)Consensual sex between adult for money is not.
kcr
(15,317 posts)Money is power and powerful. It corrupts and exploits. It is beyond disingenuous to portray prostitution as nothing more than a sexual act between consenting adults. I don't know where you fall on the political spectrum, but I don't get how some can be liberals and progressives and support regulation that protects against exploitation in all matters except for this.
LostInAnomie
(14,428 posts)Not everyone feels that sex is something that should be reserved or is sacred. Many people feel it is a fun, enjoyable activity, and don't need or even want an emotional/spiritual connection. If they decide to get paid for it, who are we to tell them they are being exploited?
kcr
(15,317 posts)Guess what? Physical labor is regulated and some of it is flat out illegal.
LostInAnomie
(14,428 posts)Making prostitution legal would involve regulating it.
kcr
(15,317 posts)LostInAnomie
(14,428 posts)kcr
(15,317 posts)LostInAnomie
(14,428 posts)Is protection and testing for diseases required now? Is arresting prostitutes and forcing them into the legal system effective in stopping it? Are prostitutes required to stay clean off drugs now? Do prostitutes currently have any recourse against abusive johns or pimps?
If you seriously think the current state is better than one that is regulated, you haven't put much thought into it.
kcr
(15,317 posts)Prostitutes don't have it any better where it is regulated and legal. I'm fine with a model that works to get them out rather than criminalizing them, and criminalizing customers and pimps instead. But I am not okay with legalizing it for the same reasons I'm not okay with legalizing selling organs, or ones own offspring, the torture example given elsewhere in this thread. Even if there are examples of those who would do those things freely of their own will, it doesn't mean it's okay to legalize them because too many would only do it under desperation. I'm not okay with legalizing exploitation.
LostInAnomie
(14,428 posts)"Prostitutes don't have it any better where it is regulated and legal."
Are they being arrested? Are they having to spend time in jail? Are they going to be continually building a criminal record making them unemployable? Do they have a legal recourse if they are raped, robbed, or abused? If you can't see that having those protections is better, you aren't anyone that should be taken seriously.
"...and criminalizing customers"
Either sex for money is immoral or it isn't. You can't say it's ok to sell sex but not ok to buy. That's pure hypocrisy.
"I am not okay with legalizing it for the same reasons I'm not okay with legalizing selling organs, or ones own offspring, the torture example given elsewhere in this thread."
Specious logic. Selling organs irreparably harms your health. Selling you children is monetizing a human being without their consent. Torture is harming someone without their consent. Sex work when done safely harms no one.
"I'm not okay with legalizing exploitation."
Shouldn't it be up to the sex worker to decide if they are being exploted?
kcr
(15,317 posts)Is it hypocritical to go after corporations but not employees when they violate labor laws? I don't think so. Do you think employees should be punished, too?
There's nothing spurious about my argument. You are the one claiming that everyone is freely giving the sex and are only charging because what ever, it's all consensual. It's bullshit. They're charging and the customers are paying for a reason. The prostitute wouldn't be having sex otherwise. That is not consensual sex.
LostInAnomie
(14,428 posts)The comparison between corporations violating labor laws and johns being punished for purchasing legalized prostitution is apples and oranges nonsense. The "Swedish model" sets up a system where the exact same act is legal for one person and not the other based on the misplaced notion that sex work is inherently exploitative no matter how consensual.
"They're charging and the customers are paying for a reason. The prostitute wouldn't be having sex otherwise. That is not consensual sex."
Bullshit. Have you ever had a job? You are consensually choosing to provide your labor in return for money. That is exactly what sex work is. It is a person choosing to have sex for money. Not a person being coerced. Not a person being exploited. A person choosing to use their body as they see fit to make a living. You're inability to separate your own hang ups from this doesn't change the fact that it is consensual.
kcr
(15,317 posts)Cars and planes are both forms of transport. They aren't the same thing. But it's okay to point out they both transport. See?
LostInAnomie
(14,428 posts)kcr
(15,317 posts)Okay, here's my smilie.
LostInAnomie
(14,428 posts)kcr
(15,317 posts)LostInAnomie
(14,428 posts)Enough with the ham fisted dodges.
kcr
(15,317 posts)kcr
(15,317 posts)Because sex is involved, therefore it must be prudery to be against it, because no one can be against anything if sex is involved because the sex automatically makes it okay and you have to disregard everything else about it. Yes there are people who tie morality to sex. That doesn't mean that everyone who objects to legalizing prostitution is doing it for the same reasons. I don't care what anyone does with their private lives. Really. I don't. And if everyone who engaged in prostitution was doing it freely and consensually I wouldn't care one bit. But that isn't what happens. I knew exactly what you were doing with that question and I wasn't going to bite.
For example. Adoption I'm perfectly okay with. Baby brokering I'm not okay with. Even if there are "consenting parties" involved. The same arguments could be made there. Poor people who were going to give up their babies anyway can make money, what's the problem? What business is it of yours? Exploitation is the reason. Once money is involved, the incentive to coerce people into decisions they wouldn't otherwise make is there. Whatever you want to call it, I don't like it, and society doesn't like it enough that many governments make it illegal. Same thing with sex. I don't care what goes on between consenting adults. Not in the least. Coercion by financial means is not okay with me in that regard, either. Enough people are no longer truly free with that decision. True freedom of sexuality and sexual expression should not belong only to those who can afford it.
LostInAnomie
(14,428 posts)kcr
(15,317 posts)You are the one who seems to be doing a lot of dancing. I'm pretty straightforward, here. Prostitution is exploitation and should remain illegal. Where's the dodge in that? You're the one who's dancing around trying to make it look like I'm an anti sex prude. All that moving around looks like I'm dodging when I'm not budging.
LostInAnomie
(14,428 posts)You directly compared prostitution to torture and selling children. When called on it you danced around saying your meant that they are exploitation. So the question still stands: Is exploitation immoral?
Show some courage of conviction and answer the question.
kcr
(15,317 posts)Because duh, exploitation is immoral.
LostInAnomie
(14,428 posts)kcr thinks prostitution is exploitation
kcr thinks exploitation is immoral
ipso facto: kcr thinks prostitution is immoral
kcr
(15,317 posts)LostInAnomie
(14,428 posts)You know, like a puritan. It has shown all through your argument against prostitution.
It isn't a matter of whether legalizing prostitution would improve the lives of prostitutes, because prostitution=exploitation=immorality.
It doesn't matter whether both participants are consenting, because prostitution=exploitation=immorality.
It doesn't matter that keeping it illegal actively harms prostitutes, because prostitution=exploitation=immorality
All the mental gymnastics you have gone through are just to cover up the fact that you are standing in moral judgement of behavior you find immoral. Sounds pretty puritanical to me.
kcr
(15,317 posts)Talk to me when more people are actually engaging in prostitution freely as a choice and not out of economic necessity. There is nothing puritanical about my position.
kcr
(15,317 posts)Is it, you're going to twist my anwser and make it look like I"m an anti-sex prude? Or is it some There's No Such Thing as Morality! weirdness? That's happened before on DU. There are all kinds here. Or is it just your basic deflection? I don't know. It's such a weird question. Of course it's immoral. You're the one who brought up morality to begin with, which made the question doubly suspect. When people ask such obvious questions in a debate like that, there is almost never a good, honest reason.
Violet_Crumble
(35,961 posts)The only ones who want to make it illegal here (I call it the US model) is the right-wing and loony religious groups. Sex workers here have the same job protection that any other worker has, work in brothels that are safe and regulated, and there's no such thing as pimps or johns or having to worry about being mistreated.
http://www.legislation.act.gov.au/a/1992-64/current/pdf/1992-64.pdf
I don't see how anyone would have a problem with how it works here. While I've only seen what it's like in the US via episodes of Cops, what I've seen horrifies me. No-one who cares about sex workers should want it to be illegal.
The US also needs to have a social security safety net so that people don't ever get to the point where they have no choice.
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)extrinsic, real-world factual evidence instead of relying on moral outrage and unprovable pseudo-philosophical assertions. You CAN'T be from the US.
Needless to say I am being snarky and think you have hit the nail squarely on the head. As you usually do.
treestar
(82,383 posts)Prostitues who claim that since sex is fun and they can get paid for it, so they choose that as their "job?"
Really? These would be people who think sex with anyone is "fun." Not very picky about who. How many people really can approach it like that?
And if that's the case, why don't most women demand payment? Though it may be fun, if you can get money for it, why not get the money for it? Why would any man resent paying? If they can pay a prostitute and think she's having fun, then why have men denigrated prostitutes since time began and why don't they pay any woman they date?
If it were such fun, they wouldn't need the money, and they wouldn't refuse to do it without the money.
LostInAnomie
(14,428 posts)... and they wouldn't refuse to do it without the money. "
Why do most pro-sports players require money to play? Why does anyone play sports if they aren't getting paid?
"why don't most women demand payment?"
Social stigma and the fact that sex work isn't for everyone.
"...if you can get money for it, why not get the money for it?"
It's your body. Do what you want.
"Why would any man resent paying?"
Probably because there is a difference between professional and personal relationships.
"...then why have men denigrated prostitutes since time began..."
Sex-negative religions and archaic ideas about human sexuality?
treestar
(82,383 posts)Then at least admit it's not fun, it's work. Drop the idea the poor prostitute is actually enjoying it.
Just not the kind of work anyone ought to have to do. Liberals argue against bad working conditions for coal minors and almost anything else.
If social stigma went away, no one would have to sell their body at all.
It's not a matter of doing what you want with your body. It is doing something you don't want because you need the money. And any other job is not as intrusive to your body. Few people view their body that way, and anyone who does could be said to have low self esteem.
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)joeglow3
(6,228 posts)I laughed at it then and I laugh at it now.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)joeglow3
(6,228 posts)Nice job of trying to accuse me of sexism to try and shut me up. It IS a popular defense mechanism.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)Just provide documentation of said hostility:
See generally your Men's Rights Activism in this thread and disregard for women's rights and privacy in this thread:
http://www.democraticunderground.com/1014752698
Sorry, no credibility on your end. You care what's good for the man, period.
joeglow3
(6,228 posts)Give me a break.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)You were arguing men's rights garbage about a man being able to sue his way into a woman's medical procedure. And arguing estranged boyfriends have a right to rip the baby out of a woman's arms the minute she gives birth.
People such as yourself care about women's rights the way Mitt Romney cares about workers' wages.
joeglow3
(6,228 posts)geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)in the fucking operating room, after hours of labor, with her fluids still on the baby and taken to a separate room so the ex-boyfriend could have what you imagined was his right to see the kid minutes after childbirth.
Delivering a baby does not give someone the right to refuse other people their rights. There have been debates about babies prior to birth and the argument (that I agree with) is that until the baby is born, the mother possesses all rights. NOW, your position is that since labor sucks, the mother gets to extend her views beyond the birth of a child. How far does this extend?
Two freaking bad. If the mother is the one making the choice to not be in the same room with the other parent that possesses equal rights to be with the new life/patient of the hospital, then move the baby to a different room to clean it up. That way, one parent can be there and the other can choose to be a part of that or not.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1014&pid=752798
One of the more nauseating examples of anti-woman advocacy this place has seen, and boy that is saying a lot.
Because in your mind the petulant demands of men are all that matter.
joeglow3
(6,228 posts)You are advocating a woman has the right to dictate WHERE the baby (of both parents) has it's medically necessary procedures done. You can somehow rationalize that the mother has superior rights to dictate where the baby has its procedures done.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)Baby daddy has no rights until paternity is legally established.
And quite frankly if she wants her husband outta there for the immediate aftermath, that's what happens.
joeglow3
(6,228 posts)If she really doesn't know, paternity needs to be established. If mom knows, but won't admit it to screw dad over, it is a good glimpse into a future of a mother that will most like shit all over her kid just to piss dad off.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)joeglow3
(6,228 posts)If a mother knows who the father is, but lies in order to deny the rights of a parent to experience the first procedures of a child (weighing, taking foot prints, etc.), you are damn right I will call the out for using the child to get to the father. The fact that you think that is cool and opposing it is some sort of sexism is disgusting.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)There is no right to be there for those procedures. The mother is the sole legal guardian and is the custodial parent. He has no right to be there. No court has recognized such a right. The mother gives birth to a child for whom she is the sole legal guardian. Everyone else is there on an invitation-only basis. The post-partum period doesn't get violated because baby daddy throws a hissy fit.
Your rage at women is palpable to the point you conjure up imaginary men's rights and grievances.
If baby daddy wants 'his rights' from day one he should marry the woman before impregnating her. You know, make a commitment before making demands.
joeglow3
(6,228 posts)Has NOTHING to do with gender of either parent. It has everything to do with a selfish, juvenile parent putting their personal desire for vengeance above everyone else, including their child.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)during the most vulnerable time of their lives.
Baby daddy being there won't benefit the kid at all.
The world does not revolve around every man's whims.
joeglow3
(6,228 posts)The baby has been delivered. We are taking about an independent human. The mother has delivered the child. The child now has two parents that both have a right (at a minimum, ethically speaking) to experience the first procedures that independent human being goes through.
Baby momma being there doesn't benefit the baby at all.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)you are utterly incapable of seeing things from women's point of view.
You can have the last word.
Violet_Crumble
(35,961 posts)It's legalised here and what you said isn't the case at all...
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)Violet_Crumble
(35,961 posts)Here's the legislation
http://www.legislation.act.gov.au/a/1992-64/current/pdf/1992-64.pdf
Sex workers are protected by the same employment laws as any other worker. They're represented by unions just like any other worker, and the brothels are regulated by the government and even the religious groups and the right-wingers here don't argue that there's an increase in sex-trafficking or prostitution since it became legal.
joeglow3
(6,228 posts)I did and have in the past. This particular poster does not care about laws or what is ethically right. For some reason, they are angry. If you argue for equal rights across the genders, you are labeled a "MRA freak." Now, we all know it is a defense mechanism. Label someone racist, sexist, etc. and you can (in your mind) dismiss them and not worry about supporting your position with logic.
Shoulders of Giants
(370 posts)Yes that would be a lousy choice, but what right do you have to use the force of government to tell people they cant make that choice? Many journalists, Christopher Hitchens included who learned waterboarding was no joke, chose to waterboarded and learned it was torture the hard way.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)in the workplace?
Hey, so long as the employees consent . . .
kcr
(15,317 posts)It is our business if we live in a society that allows this form of coercion to happen.
Shoulders of Giants
(370 posts)If they are coerced, its not a choice. I never liked the "slippery slope" argument of making choices illegal, because they may later not be a choice. It makes no logical sense. On social issues, I am libertarian minded. People should be allowed to make whatever dumb choices they want to, if their choice doesnt harm other people. If the idiots in the Jackass movies decide they want to get waterboarded as part of a stupid stunt, what right do we have to stop them. In the same regard if someone wants to sell or buy sex consensually (yes consensually, I am not making an argument in favor coerced prostitution, which is rape) then what right do we have to tell they can't do it? In my opinion, government should not be in the business of banning consensual sex. And I don't know why so many people feel the need to lump consensual sex in with nonconsensual sex. It is possible for sex to involve a money transaction and still be 100% consensual.
You can say that some people need the money to survive, and therefore is not consensual, and should be banned. But that argument can be used to ban pretty much everything. The solution is to increase governmental safety nets so people can make the choices they want to make, not ban consensual activities.
kcr
(15,317 posts)I mean, because, choices.
Shoulders of Giants
(370 posts)That doesn't make any sense. Both involve having sex for money, one involves a camera and the other in most circumstances doesnt. Therefore, we do live in a society that allows people to sell sex for money already, I do want to point that out, before I get address your point.
However, the correct argument that you are making would be to ban people from working all together. However, we live in a society where low wages are subsidized by the government. Whenever someone is paid 7 dollars an hour (or 50 cents an hour in your example), they don't have enough to live on. Therefore, the government has to support employees of low wage employers through various welfare programs. Therefore, we as a society, have "skin in the game." After all, we are all taxpayers, and we can demand the corporate welfare queens pay their employees their fair share, because when they dont, we as a society suffer.
The same argument cannot be made for prostitution. When prostitution is legal, discrete, and consentful, we as a society do not suffer. Infact, when Rhode Island legalized certain forms of prostitution, rape rates went down. http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/wonkblog/wp/2014/07/17/when-rhode-island-accidentally-legalized-prostitution-rape-and-stis-decreased-sharply/
Also, porn usage (which as I pointed out is very similiar to prostitution) is believed to cut down on sexual assault as well.http://www.dailykos.com/story/2006/08/24/239656/-Study-As-Porn-Goes-Up-Rape-Goes-Down Therefore, I believe you are making an invalid comparison. The choice of working for 50 cents an hour burdens society as a whole. The choice of seeing a prostitute consensually does not burden society. I am making an argument for freedom of choices that do not harm society as a whole. And I have yet to see how consensual prostitution harms society. The way to solve this issue is to increase government safety nets so people don't feel they have to be a prostitute out of economic necessity. However, government banning of consensual sexual activities is not the way to go about it.
kcr
(15,317 posts)One participant is not paying the other participant.
Shoulders of Giants
(370 posts)How is that not prostitution? And also, its not true that both participants are always paid. Sometimes, porn involves only the female being paid, because the male is the owner of the small porn business, which posts videos online. Therefore, he is still paying someone for sex, but it is perfectly legal. So why is this ok, but prostitution isn't? I don't even care about the legal technicalities involving the first amendment. Im asking how are these morally different.
PS: I noticed you didn't even address my larger point involving legalized prostitution's positive impact on society.
kcr
(15,317 posts)In prostitution, one person is not paying. They're participating because the other person is paying them. Not so with porn.
Shoulders of Giants
(370 posts)You completely ignored it (and yes there are many of those examples of this, look around the internet for them) and you ignored my larger point of prostitution's positive impact on society again.
kcr
(15,317 posts)Shoulders of Giants
(370 posts)Thats the point Im making. Right now, it is 100% legal for men to start a small porn business. They can pay women to have sex with them on camera, and then sell the videos later. So what I am pointing out, is we already have legal prostitution. It is perfectly legal to pay someone to have sex with you, if you do it that way. And even when a corporation is paying all participants in a porn, its just prostitution at a higher level. Someone is still paying them to have sex, just with someone else. However, strangely this form of prostitution has cut down on rape rates as I have pointed out already. However, many people still feel the need for government to crack down on consensual sexual acts. I'd rather the government stay out of people's sex lives, unless they are preventing force.
kcr
(15,317 posts)And then sell the videos later. Is he doing this secretly, or is the woman a porn actress knowing she's performing for the camera? That is the difference. If he lies and tells her he's making porn but actually has no intention of selling any videos and is actually just paying her for sex, then he'd be breaking the law.
Shoulders of Giants
(370 posts)as a videotape is involved and the video is actually sold in the marketplace. This isn't a logical position to hold at all. You may want to rethink this position.It doesn't make any sense. Logically if you are against prostitution, you should be against porn as well. And yes I'm fully aware that's what the current law is. The law doesn't make any sense either.
kcr
(15,317 posts)I realize that porn has its own host of problems but it isn't the same as prostitution.
treestar
(82,383 posts)Good grief.
Everyone needs some money to survive. That's not a "choice" in the sense you are making it. If someone is resorting to prostitution to survive or to make a certain amount of money, that is not entirely "choice." I choose to be a millionaire but it's not happening.
And there are people who might be entertained by the suffering of others, and those desperate enough might allow for that to be done to them in exchange for the fees. A lot of sick things could happen.
A person has to be a libertarian, not a liberal, to think this stuff is all OK to be part of the regular economy.
ismnotwasm
(41,989 posts)Report back.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)You keep telling people (including me) to "go try it." For those of us who don't want to "go try it" it would not be a consensual act. For those who freely choose to "go try it" it's consensual, as in their own choice.
kcr
(15,317 posts)those who have no desire to do it themselves seriously. Because it's not hard to figure out why they don't want to do it themselves.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)kcr
(15,317 posts)Erich Bloodaxe BSN
(14,733 posts)If I were in incredible shape, and really good at it, maybe it would pay enough, but nobody's lining up to pay to have sex with fat, ugly guys. I'd starve to death if I tried to make a living at it.
You're right, that wasn't hard to figure out at all.
Shoulders of Giants
(370 posts)I believe in the right to make choices. And the right means the right to not make choices I dont want to make. But that doesnt mean I believe in banning people from making choices I wouldnt make.
LadyHawkAZ
(6,199 posts)That's why I advocate for making it legal.
For my trouble, someone upthread is questioning my sanity. Not the first time that's happened, won't be the last time. Dehumanizing the workers as either drug addicts or crazy people, so that their voices (and rights, and humanity) can be safely ignored.
"Concern for workers", though.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)I'm tired of the holier-than-thou social judges who think anyone who disagrees with them is either evil or insane.
treestar
(82,383 posts)They are lying to you if they claim it's great. You wouldn't have to pay if it were.
Looking at streetwalkers, of course they are degraded and their economic desperation is being exploited.
I doubt the percentage charging really high rates is very high. More like the 1%..
Mostly we are talking about drug addicts.
LostInAnomie
(14,428 posts)... are largely a result of prohibition. Just like any underground economy, the illegal nature of the business draws out the most unsavory aspects. Take away the stigma and threat of arrest and many of the worst aspects of sex work would disappear.
kcr
(15,317 posts)Among other aspects of her job she recounted having to wash the dried fecal matter from the ass hair of one of her regulars. She had to do this every time. She lost her job, I think it was office manager or something like that and after much struggle found herself there. Can you imagine? Having sex with strangers, some so gross they have dried fecal matte on them. That, to me, is pretty damn unsavory.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)Oh wait...
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)Niko
(97 posts)Since we're name calling, and all....
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)LittleBlue
(10,362 posts)We're saving them from bad decisions, dammit
Shoulders of Giants
(370 posts)Thats the question that needs to be asked before even having this "debate." What people do in their bedroom is none of your business.
Not all prostitution is forced.And in my opinion, jailing people for consensual sex, is no different than the viewpoints of the religious right.
Keep in mind, a large reason that a lot of prostitution is forced right now is because its illegal nearly everywhere. Therefore, criminal enterprises run prostitution. Legalize it, and get rid of the criminal element. Same with the drug war.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)It will be met with hatred and derision, but it's exactly right.
kcr
(15,317 posts)If the people choose to take that wage, what's the problem?
LittleBlue
(10,362 posts)I'm confused as to where labor laws and sexual morality laws overlap. Seems to me the consensus on the legalization argument say that sexual morality shouldn't be regulated, no one is arguing that prostitutes should be paid less than minimum wage.
By your argument if we can regulate minimum wage, we should be able to constitutionally restrict anything we want, including abortion.
kcr
(15,317 posts)Once you introduce money, it's no longer a matter of no one else's business. That is how Libertarians believe laws should work.
LittleBlue
(10,362 posts)Which is the argument anti-choice crusaders use. It, as you say, is in the sphere of regulated medicine.
kcr
(15,317 posts)I don't think that's a good idea.
LittleBlue
(10,362 posts)making decisions about their bodies and sexual practices.
War on drugs
Policing a woman's right to safe, available abortions
Prostitution
kcr
(15,317 posts)LittleBlue
(10,362 posts)^This is my argument. I'm perfectly fine with regulating how much a corporation pays its employees. The corporation does not have a physical body, it is not a person, therefore I'm comfortable with this.
You're just angry that your position justifies anti-choicers, so you assuage your guilt by doing mental gymnastics attempting to believe I'm making an anti-minimum wage argument.
kcr
(15,317 posts)You seem to be fine with regulating it. Unless it's sex. And I don't understand that.
LittleBlue
(10,362 posts)kcr's intentional misrepresentation of what I said:
What I actually said:
Let's do away with regulation involving consenting adults making decisions about their bodies and sexual practices.
War on drugs
Policing a woman's right to safe, available abortions
Prostitution
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=5827055
Unless it's a personal decision involving your body, not just sex and certainly not regulation of corporations or employee pay
kcr
(15,317 posts)That quote was directly after we talked about minimum wage and how you were fine with regulating that.
LittleBlue
(10,362 posts)Notice how I don't need to misrepresent what you're saying. Only to point out that once you open the door to regulating what women can do with their bodies, you diminished the concept of bodily autonomy, which makes legislators more comfortable with restricting abortion. It's a bad position to take even without that aspect.
Regulating what corporations and other businesses pay hourly is obviously not the same as regulating what a person can do with his/her body. Obviously. You just latched on to minimum wage because it's an issue that no one would argue with.
Corporations =/= individual people. Do you understand? Say yes or no.
Quotes please.
kcr
(15,317 posts)If our conversation is taken in whole, it's clear I'm trying to point out how it's the transaction of money that is the problem, and that generally speaking that is not a "nobody's business" affair. For anything. If it were, we'd have people working for 50 cents an hour.
My first reply to you distinguished between regulating what corporations pay and what individual people engage in privately, regardless of whether money is involved:
I'm confused as to where labor laws and sexual morality laws overlap. Seems to me the consensus on the legalization argument say that sexual morality shouldn't be regulated, no one is arguing that prostitutes should be paid less than minimum wage.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=5826823
And I made it explicit once again here:
making decisions about their bodies and sexual practices.
War on drugs
Policing a woman's right to safe, available abortions
Prostitution
Surely you don't need context to understand such an explicit statement. All of those involve money. All of them can be regulated. I'm arguing that they shouldn't be regulated. None of this has anything to do with how much corporations pay employees because I never argued that pay/corporations can't be regulated.
Compare my quotes with your misrepresentation:
Shameful.
kcr
(15,317 posts)That is my point and that was my point in my comment. Can one person hire another for anything else, whatever it is, and pay them under the table 50 cents an hour? Is it okay as long as no one else knows? No, it's still against the law. Privacy has nothing to do with it. It's the monetary transaction and the type of monetary transaction that it is. You aren't getting that.
Scout
(8,624 posts)doesn't make that choice holy and sacrosanct.
i chose to sell myself for sex because i had no other choices to make money....
mythology
(9,527 posts)It kind of blows up the idea that legalizing it alone is enough to get the criminal element out of it.
Shoulders of Giants
(370 posts)There are many other elements at hand. However, legalizing a product removes the need for the black market by a large extent. Keep in mind that rapes went down in Rhode Island during the temporary period it was legal.
http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/wonkblog/wp/2014/07/17/when-rhode-island-accidentally-legalized-prostitution-rape-and-stis-decreased-sharply/
treestar
(82,383 posts)It is my business that my fellow humans not be in dangerous situations. I'm liberal and not libertarian. The one paid should have a safer and better way to make a living, and should be able to have their own fun sex life with people they really want. If you won't do it without money, then you don't really want that sex now do you?
Shoulders of Giants
(370 posts)Yet I do it, because I get paid. Believe it or not, some people would actually want the job of prostitute though. I know more people would not. But what right do you have to tell someone they cant sell sex for money? Keep in mind, there are many other unsafe jobs (Professional Wrestler, Power Line Repair Person, Soldier, Sky Scraper Engineer) people can choose to do, and people still choose these professions.
treestar
(82,383 posts)And none of that is as intimate.
They tell you they "want" to, but that's because you are a customer. There are few people who wouldn't take a better way if they could get it. Most of them are addicted to drugs. It'd be better to give them money for drugs rather than requiring them to have sex they don't really want.
Blue_Adept
(6,399 posts)This was once the case, as a host of research on prostitution long ago confirmed. But the population of women choosing sex work has changed dramatically over the past decade. High-end prostitutes of the sort Eliot Spitzer frequented account for a greater share of the sex business than they once did. And as Barnard College's Elizabeth Bernstein has shown, sex workers today tend to make a conscious decision to enter the trade -- not as a reaction to suffering but to earn some quick cash. Among these women, Bernstein's research suggests, prostitution is viewed as a part-time job, one that grants autonomy and flexibility.
These women have little in common with the shrinking number of sex workers who still work on the streets. In a 2001 study of British prostitutes, Stephanie Church of Glasgow University found that those working outdoors "were younger, involved in prostitution at an earlier age, reported more illegal drug use, and experienced significantly more violence from their clients than those working indoors."
Like a lot of things, people hold onto this "old school" view of how certain things are even though times have changed. There are so many different ways of working this industry these days due to the internet where it is about choice of partners and screenings. It's far less about the prostitute on the street than the movies and TV would have you believe.
http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2010/09/10/AR2010091002670.html
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)"First and foremost, I'd like to clear up a myth that remains pervasive in any discussion about sex work. Prostitution opponents love to promote images of abused hookers and human traffickers to trump up hostility towards sex work. While it's true ill-intentioned criminals do exist and should be prosecuted to the full extent of the law, these conditions do not apply to the vast majority of sex workers. We should especially not conflate the sex industry with the abuses of human trafficking because it delegitimizes the workers and creates a moral panic that manifests itself in harmful legislation. The fact of the matter is that most sex workers enter the industry via their own consent and genuinely enjoy their work."
It's right there in the OP, second paragraph.
H2O Man
(73,559 posts)Thanks for posting this. Recommended.
stupidicus
(2,570 posts)I went a few rounds with some of the more puritanical and obnoxious prudes around here awhile back on this issue.
ALL the reasons they provided for not legalizing it are BS imo.
What I find and found most confusing, is how it is many/most of them can argue so strenuously for the right of any woman to "choose" what they do and don't do with their body, and yet they are all too willing to throw prostitutes to the moralizing patriarchal wolves in this case.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)"First and foremost, I'd like to clear up a myth that remains pervasive in any discussion about sex work. Prostitution opponents love to promote images of abused hookers and human traffickers to trump up hostility towards sex work. While it's true ill-intentioned criminals do exist and should be prosecuted to the full extent of the law, these conditions do not apply to the vast majority of sex workers. We should especially not conflate the sex industry with the abuses of human trafficking because it delegitimizes the workers and creates a moral panic that manifests itself in harmful legislation. The fact of the matter is that most sex workers enter the industry via their own consent and genuinely enjoy their work."
This is from someone who actually has experience in the industry, not someone who simply makes up their own "facts" to support their opinions.
ismnotwasm
(41,989 posts)I have experiance "in the industry" I know women to this day "in the industry" if we wrote an article arguing the opposite would you believe it?
I'd toss in statistics and everything.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)Why is nobody allowed to have an opinion that differs from yours, particularly someone who currently works in the industry?
If you want to write your own article, I would be happy to read and consider it.
ismnotwasm
(41,989 posts)And I could toss that question right back at you. As I posted upthread, I'm done-- I've seen the way these threads go, and I don't involve myself much.
I do agree that prostitutes are human beings who deserve safety and kindness, not stigma and shunning.
You know are among the worst offenders of those additudes? The purchasers.
kcr
(15,317 posts)I think many in the pro-legalize crowd really don't have a clue and think it's just like the sex they have, only with money involved. Or like the porn they watch.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)I suppose that's true. The big difference between your opinion and mine is that I don't want anyone thrown in jail for consensual acts.
kcr
(15,317 posts)There are people who get the money who aren't even in the room when the consensuality happens. They had no part of any actual consensual act. But they get a cut of the consensual action. Consensual profits!
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)Throw the pimps in jail. Human trafficking should be punished with life in prison.
As for the rest, we just are destined to disagree. Sometimes debate (or argument) is simply an exercise in futility.
Take care.
kcr
(15,317 posts)If there are no pimps, there are very few prostitutes.
davidn3600
(6,342 posts)What's being argued here is putting johns in jail. Feminists want to attack this problem by attacking the demand. It's the same strategy as the war on drugs...and all that has done is provide us with the largest and most expensive prison system in the world....and not a dent has been made in the demand.
kcr
(15,317 posts)It's not about attacking the demand. A demand existing is not a rationalization for allowing exploitation. It is the exploitation that is the problem. I have no problem and in fact support jailing the exploiters, including the ones with the cash in hand.
davidn3600
(6,342 posts)It's a waste of money, time, and resources.
kcr
(15,317 posts)But I do think we should jail johns and pimps for sure because that can and does solve a whole lot of problems.
Yavin4
(35,441 posts)Is that what you want our justice system to be?
No.
Yavin4
(35,441 posts)If you want to arrest the "Johns", you would have to pose as a prostitute in order to arrest them.
kcr
(15,317 posts)Yavin4
(35,441 posts)If you want to make buying sex illegal but not selling sex, how are you going to identify the "Johns"? The prostitute is not going to rat on their customers.
LittleBlue
(10,362 posts)You just blew up that argument.
kcr
(15,317 posts)So no argument blown. clap clap clappity clap
Blue_Tires
(55,445 posts)LeftyMom
(49,212 posts)Can you picture her making the opposite argument, knowing her audience, the people who pay her bills, don't want to hear it?
For that matter, I'm not entirely sure how a brief career in porn films gives her much of an insight on prostitution. Some of the women in porn do a little side work, but it's really, really frowned on and mostly occurs with people who are new, not getting much work, or generally on the fringes of the industry (I know because I've talked about it with porn actresses, so I don't have a link.) They see it as a disease risk and a threat to everybody's health and prosperity, since it's been the cause of more than one work shutdown after somebody had a positive aids test.
I'm in favor of legalization because I think criminalization hurts women, but I don't find Belle Knox's arguments especially helpful or compelling. I'd suggest Melissa Gira Grant's work as being much more thoughtful and the product of more relevant experience. For that matter the parts of Janet Mock's biography that talk about sex work are likely even more relevant to the experience of women doing criminalized and stigmatized sex work, because criminalization of course is much worse for the poor, women of color, and trans women. Interlocking oppressions are a thing.
Initech
(100,080 posts)"Selling is legal, fucking is legal, so why shouldn't selling fucking be legal?"
Hey it's still a more legitimate racket than what Charles and David Koch are involved in!
Wella
(1,827 posts)I feel extraordinarily sorry for her.
Recursion
(56,582 posts)Hm
I'm not sure "we" are the ones doing that conflating. It's endemic even in places with liberalized prostitution laws. For that matter, both the Netherlands and Nevada demonstrate that legalizing prostitution does not end illegal prostitution.
Approximately 70% of sex workers in the Netherlands are foreign, the NGO's I've dealt with estimate half of them are victims of trafficking. (Now, sex trafficking itself is a drop in the bucket compared to the much larger global problem of labor trafficking, but that's a different rant...)
joshcryer
(62,276 posts)Germany in particular is a hotbed for trafficked prostitutes (it's legal there).
Recursion
(56,582 posts)I'm not saying legalization is wrong, just that things are not quite so simple as people want.
joshcryer
(62,276 posts)There's a good documentary on Germany, it's kind of sobering for sex-positive / pro-sex work advocates. It's quite complex. And as far as I can tell a good percentage are being exploited. I consider it wage slave syndrome. Poor people from poor countries selling their bodies for money and being exploited for it.
A global living wage would solve so many problem (I know this is idealistic). :/
treestar
(82,383 posts)behind closed doors, it is a lot more dangerous. Why does a porn actress have any interest in wanting other women to have to serve as prostitutes? Why should any woman have to resort to that to earn a living? And most of them are supporting a drug habit anyway.
Prostitution should be outlawed because it's dangerous for the prostitute, who should have a social safety net or addiction treatment. Maybe if we arrested the johns only it would help.
LostInAnomie
(14,428 posts)I think that's the fundamental misunderstanding both sides are having in this debate. No one wants sex workers to have to do anything they don't want to do. The pro-legalization side has accepted that prostitution is simply a fact of life and always has been. Since it is going to inevitably happen, society should make sure that it is done in the safest way possible.
The current system is horrible. Drug abuse, violence, rape, pimping, and disease is rampant. The threat of arrest keep prostitutes from seeking help. Long criminal histories make most prostitutes unemployable. There are no real protections and constant threats. It honestly couldn't be much worse.
Most people on the pro-legalization side know that legalization won't be perfect, but it with the proper regulations it would be better. By regulating prostitution prostitutes could be required to stay drug free, be regularly tested for disease, required to use condoms, wouldn't fear turning in abusive johns, and wouldn't fear violent pimps. They would also not be building a criminal record.
bravenak
(34,648 posts)davidn3600
(6,342 posts)Kablooie
(18,634 posts)Legal prostitution would be regulated and prostitutes that know of abuse could report it without the threat of being arrested themselves.
Douglas Carpenter
(20,226 posts)of the parties involved?
MADem
(135,425 posts)If not by pimps in a trafficking scenario, by abusive customers.
There may be a minority that "choose" the work, but most, if given a real choice in terms of educational opportunity, training, vocation, etc. would not elect that occupation. Even in the "best" situations, it's WORK.
So of course they're "people." They're abused, exploited people with few damn options. "Happy hooker" exceptions that prove the rule (and ameliorate justified feelings of guilt) notwithstanding.
I'm not sure why this teenager styling herself as a "porn actress" is lecturing the public on the issue of prostitution. Is she a moonlighter, or something? I thought those adult film stars went to great pains to distinguish their work from that of prostitutes.
Doubly offensive is Rolling Stone carrying this piece, and "normalizing" the work like it's no different than bricklaying or being a supermarket cashier. I'm not talking about issues of "morality," or even of "trafficking," I am talking about how difficult and marginalizing the work is for the people, male and female, who engage in it.
Unimpressed. Another Rolling Stone swing-and-a-miss. Even the illustration they use is all about half naked ladies--not a rent boy in sight. They DO know their target audience, I suppose.
They're doing that faux-edgy stuff a lot lately, trying desperately (and failing) to stay relevant with "the kids" while their base market staggers towards sixty and seventy. I think they're the only ones who don't realize that they are farty and not "hip" anymore. This kind of dumbshit "opinion" piece is not just sexist, but more doddering old Hugh Hefner's speed than the POV of a magazine that wants to appear cool and progressive.
Prophet 451
(9,796 posts)Look, people have already made up their minds on this and nothing Belle Knox says is going to change anyone's opinion.
Personally, I'm for legalisation and regulation.
Yavin4
(35,441 posts)Most people are trafficked to work in agriculture, hospitality, meat packing, factories, etc. In fact, in the cocoa fields in Africa, children are forced into slavery to work the fields. Yet, no one wants to put people who eat chocolate in jail.
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)wtf.