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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsThe South - I live here
I live in a state that can be characterized by racism, lynching, lobotomizing people for being homosexual just 24 years ago.
I feel it as much in MS, but it irritates me that there is this equating of LGBT Southern people as being so idiotic that we enjoy the abuse that homophobes regularly heap on people. We don't.
We simply like where we live, and forget it, if you don't like living in this particular climate, this particular state, or this particular are where your family lives.
We KNOW. We know the people that have suffered, have suffered ourselves, and believe me, we get it.
1StrongBlackMan
(31,849 posts)"Why doesn't she (he) just leave?"
"Why would they WANT to live where they are not wanted?"
All these questions come from the same place, as that you are speaking of. It's not you; it's them!
NoJusticeNoPeace
(5,018 posts)a good friend spent about 20 paragraphs showing me just how racist and stupid many in California ARE, not were...
Ever since then I kind of tried to lay off the south is bad meme
RKP5637
(67,107 posts)it was a major city. We moved. CA is spotted with homophobia depending on where one lives. It is not the total la la land many believe it to be. And this city was near the coast.
AlbertCat
(17,505 posts)And where is it they want "us"?
Rural PA?
Rural CA?
Rural NY?
It's not like every state in the union isn't just like the South once you leave the urban areas.... and urban areas as we all know, just LOVE blacks and gays!
I live in NC, because the climate is perfect, and politics does not pound me every minute of the day and night. Of course the Teabagger legislature and Duke Power governor is trying to make it even worse than AL, but y'know.... that won't last forever.
But, y'know.... I'll move out of the USA if the Teabggers make it unbearable and even more of a 3rd world country than they already have.
Odin2005
(53,521 posts)There was no outrage over her position in the community and she and her GF (they are now married) went out in public like any typical couple.
All rural areas are NOT the same. The rural Red River Valley of the North, where I am from, is purple, not red.
AlbertCat
(17,505 posts)And NC voted for Obama in '08.... and almost in '12... what we are being punished for right now.
But generally the South is rural....and rural areas less tolerant everywhere.... Red River Valley or no.....
The most open prejudice I've ever seen was in PA.
But all this anecdotal evidence is not very good evidence.
Odin2005
(53,521 posts)If you look at election data for North Dakota, for example, you will see that the eastern countries are a lot less conservative than the western countries. western ND patterns with Nebraska, Kansas, and Oklahoma; while Eastern North Dakota patterns with Minnesota and Iowa.
Oh, and not strictly rural, but Fargo had an openly Atheist mayor who was a big supporter of the civil rights of gay people from 1978 to 1994.
AlbertCat
(17,505 posts)...anecdotal evidence is not good evidence..... mine included!
Things are always more complicated (and interconnected) than one can imagine. (a lesson from science)
Aerows
(39,961 posts)I've been needing to get that off of my chest for a while.
BeyondGeography
(39,370 posts)you gotta have a spot in your heart for the South. I love both so I go whenever it fits my schedule. Nothing like listening to 40 Johnny Cash songs and driving from New Orleans to Memphis.
Laffy Kat
(16,377 posts)I'm from Memphis but fled when I was 21. Although no more relatives in TN these days, I do enjoy short visits, especially to New Orleans and northern Fla-la-la. You can't beat southern cookin'.
BeyondGeography
(39,370 posts)I had a religious moment in this place in Chattanooga last August:
http://hickorypitbarbque.com/index.html
And the whole gumbo thing down on the Gulf. I could live off that stuff.
Laffy Kat
(16,377 posts)Love me some BBQ. The link is now Bookmarked. Thx!
Travelman
(708 posts)I still think that Sticky Fingers beats them in the "religious experience" category.
http://www.stickyfingers.com/default.aspx
I never go to, or through, Chattanooga without a stop at Sticky Fingers. You know it's a serious barbecue joint when they don't give you a napkin; they give you a towel.
BeyondGeography
(39,370 posts)The whole setting there is pretty awesome. Restaurants with stunning views usually don't have the best food though.
Travelman
(708 posts)Quite beautiful up there. Lots of history, if you're interested in Civil War history, and if you're not, then there's just spectacular views from the lookout. No restaurant, though.
Personally, I like the view of Chattanooga mostly from ground-level. I love that whole downtown area, from the Aquarium to about MLK Boulevard. Just a great area to walk around, people-watch, enjoy the sights, sounds, and smells....
BeyondGeography
(39,370 posts)and is advising other cities about it now:
http://www.syracuse.com/news/index.ssf/2014/12/as_syracuse_considers_ultra-high_speed_internet_we_called_the_mayor_of_gig_city.html
He could be someone to watch.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)was when I was in college and one of my friends from St. Martinville got a care package of seafood gumbo from her mother. There were whole crab claws in it that you had to crack, enough shrimp to make you dizzy, and just enough file to make you think you had lost consciousness.
I LOVE South Louisiana cooking, the more western and Cajun, the finer it gets.
BeyondGeography
(39,370 posts)It's dinnertime up here in NY...that sounds glorious.
The world needs more gumbo.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)and it was so good, I remember it a decade and a half later.
Seriously, it spoiled me for any gumbo I ever will probably eat (unless I get lucky - that was a HIGH benchmark that was set).
Rowdyboy
(22,057 posts)and has a huge crawfish boil every spring. Broke my heart last month when we heard he's been promoted and moving to Mobile.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)Home of the best catfish on the PLANET.
Middendorf's was so awesome with their catfish that you didn't CARE about a bone, you just moved around it.
That is eternally in my memory when I think of Manchac!
Rowdyboy
(22,057 posts)I guess folks from down that way just have it in the blood.
Middendorf's thin-fish is my favorite catfish anywhere, and their fried oysters are almost as good as my mom's
Always stop there on the way home from New Orleans for one last taste of heaven.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)I like the thick fish myself.
I'm drooling so hard I can barely type.
Rowdyboy
(22,057 posts)Did you know Drago's has opened a restaurant in Jackson? We always stop in Metairie on our way into New Orleans for their char-grilled oysters and now they're open 20 miles from where we live too.
Life is good.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)but any time that I can get fried alligator bites it seems like home.
Rowdyboy
(22,057 posts)There's damn little I don't like and if you deep-fried a paper bag I'd probably consider it. It a once or twice a year treat so I don't feel any guilt. Some people eat to live, I live to eat.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)If it has hopped, flown, swam, run, climbed or creeped, I've probably eaten it.
NOLALady
(4,003 posts)You're tempting me to go out and find some grilled oysters!
Aerows
(39,961 posts)it's December about the best time to have some oysters on the half shell. Delicious, delicious, and I won't reiterate delicious, okay I just did.
But it's ALWAYS in season for Middendorf's catfish. It's like saints, sinners and Jesus all curled up in a deep fryer, looked upon it, and it was GOOD.
pinboy3niner
(53,339 posts)The store was owned by a Cajun shrimper from New Orleans who taught gourmet cooking classes there in the evening. The guy had a lovely Cajun surname: Cheramie.
My favorite recipe from the classes was Barbecued Shrimp, a dish that isn't actually barbecued, it's sauteed in a butter sauce with lots of herbs and spices. iirc, that was a Paul Prudhomme dish. The New Orleans Bouillabaise after the late NOLA food critic and author Richard Collin and the Bananas Foster are also way up there.
My graduation sheepskin was a certificate making me an "Honorary Cajun."
After owning the market for a few years, I think Mr. Cheramie returned to the family seafood business in New Orleans.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)can turn shrimp into an "I think I died and went to heaven" dish like a shrimpboat captain (or more aptly, not encouraging roles, but their wife).
Ambrosia, I tell you!
Travelman
(708 posts)Having been married to a Cajun for a decade, I've long-since learned that if it doesn't hurt at least a little bit to eat, then it's not really good eating.
She made jambalaya that would absolutely light you up, but there was nothing better on a cold winters' night up here in Nashville, relatively the Frozen Nawth compared to southwest of Mobile.
Despite being the landlubber that I am, born and raised 500 miles from the closest salt water, I definitely learned to love things like soft-shell crab. There was a little place in the ex's hometown that had the absolute best West Indies salad on the entire planet: crab meat and onions and chives steeped in either vinegar or battery acid, I'm still not sure which, but DAMN that was some seriously good stuff.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)at vinegar and battery acid with crab and onions steeped in it.
When can I come over for dinner at your house, if it is being impolite to invite myself to it?
riqster
(13,986 posts)But you know where I actually got run out of town at gunpoint back in my long-haired days? Boston and Bar Harbor. Neither of which are anywhere NEAR the South.
I took a lesson in stereotyping from those experiences.
Scruffy Rumbler
(961 posts)Fla, VA, OR and several other states, the south may have a longer and more open and brutal history of racism, homophobia and misogyny; but it is everywhere. My home town area has gotten redder and meaner, upstate NY.
Live where you are happy and be safe!
Doc Holliday
(719 posts)that my black friend and I might find a more congenial environment in which to drink....a few miles down the road.
This was in Watertown, NY, June 1976...friend and I both active-duty military. (Nobody thanked us for our service, either.)
Gothmog
(145,176 posts)I was happy to recommend this post
and in disbelief at the fellow DUers who denigrate a region. In this century.
Look at the number of black elected officials in the south compared to the north, Midwest, or west.
Some Some ignorant folks need to do a fact check.
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)Just not enough . . . .
Aerows
(39,961 posts)I'm not ignorant. Many of the friends I have here aren't ignorant, either.
You are the example of exactly what I was attempting to discuss - assuming we are all dumbasses.
Glassunion
(10,201 posts)It's astounding at times.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)Thus why I made the thread instead of going off on some random person that posted something that was shitty. It gets majorly thick in here.
eridani
(51,907 posts)ncjustice80
(948 posts)There are lota of reasonable peoplw in the South, like OP. But they arent the majority. When the South turns blue Ill change my tune!
hueymahl
(2,495 posts)Any generalization of a group based on a characteristic like skin color, religion, place of origin (in this case, the south), is all bigotry - just various different forms of bigotry. Some forms are more acceptable in your mind, like denigrating an entire region based on some of the population there. I hope you will reconsider in the future.
ncjustice80
(948 posts)hueymahl
(2,495 posts)Just as you wouldn't say "white men suck because a majority vote republican", don't say "southerners suck because a majority vote republican".
Paladin
(28,254 posts)Response to ncjustice80 (Reply #140)
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Dawgs
(14,755 posts)The problem is that most don't vote.
Of course, it's not only the South. Michigan, Wisconsin, New Jersey and others aren't exactly helping make your point.
Glassunion
(10,201 posts)You can always change your geography.
You can't change your race, sex, orientation, etc...
snooper2
(30,151 posts)Mississippi is pretty far on the bottom of the list?
I grew up in Missery and it is a pretty crappy state as well. Actually since the 90's when I left it has actually managed to get worse LOL. (Of course, I left as soon as possible)
Aerows
(39,961 posts)I guess if you see it as shitty, that's the end, you move on.
Some people see it as opportunity.
Which person are you? That is what defines us - it doesn't label us by any means, but it does define our character.
snooper2
(30,151 posts)I thought you meant quality of life. Where exactly have you lived in MS that you didn't have the opportunity for any of the things that you mentioned?
snooper2
(30,151 posts)Except for the northwest... farthest northwest I have been is Big Bear CA-
Sorry, nothing good to say about Mississippi...Arkansas is the same way. I still remember flying into Little Rock (a dump) and when the plane was landing the graffiti was on the INSIDE of the walls around the runway/airport
The basic rule is that the states on the borders are the best. Either coast or the border with Mexico or Canada are the states that tend to be the better places to live (Florida is an exception to that rule but it will be under water in 50 years so )
I'll tell you one of the nicest, cleanest and fairly thriving cities I have ever been to was Lansing Michigan. It's so clean the snow on the roads actually stays white LOL.
whatever floats your boat. If it means snow that stays white, perhaps that is where you are meant to be.
snooper2
(30,151 posts)It melts by noon when we do get any
DrDan
(20,411 posts)pnwmom
(108,977 posts)Just not enough.
What is so "shitty" about that response?
If there were a majority of reasonable people, the Rethugs wouldn't be in control down there.
RiverLover
(7,830 posts)bigotry or see racism.
There aren't enough people there like the OP.
cordelia
(2,174 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)ms liberty
(8,573 posts)That you "feel sorry" for anyone who "has to live there." As if the south is some unmitigated hell on earth, every minute of every day. It sounded insulting and condescending to me. I don't think you meant it that way; but the assumption that the south has nothing positive as a region, a people, or a culture is a common one here at DU.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)compliment when I am on the receiving end of one.
I know exactly what sentiment was conveyed. I'm puzzled why no one over grade school didn't catch it.
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)Last edited Tue Dec 16, 2014, 12:55 AM - Edit history (1)
heavily Rethug area, whether it was in the South, in some wealthy metro suburb, or in a rural area almost anywhere. And I feel sorry for any liberal who does. But your OP was about the South.
RiverLover
(7,830 posts)Your OP to me seemed to validate that people in the south can be cruel & ignorant & bigoted & you've suffered because of it.
Maybe read the offending post without preconceived notions and you might just see someone agreeing with your post & sympathizing.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)to be a positive poster, so when I make a post about something that I see is negative, I speak up.
You may think I'm nit-picking, and that is absolutely your right, but it is absolutely mine to call outright prejudice what it is.
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)the police, and all the other institutions are controlled by right-wingers, it can be a very frustrating situation. It is for my mother, who lives in Texas and after twenty years still feels like a crazy liberal.
Stonepounder
(4,033 posts)I live in the South by choice, not 'because I have to'. Are there a lot of Tea Baggers around? Yeah. But while we have 2 Rethug Senators, we also have a Democrat Governor, Lt. Governor, Sec of State, and Attorney General. Do we have homophobes and racists around? Sure. But when we were getting ready to move from Ca to here, I called to get the Electricity turned on at the new place. The nice lady on the phone arranged it for me and then asked, "Do you have the numbers for the other utilities you will need?" and proceeded to give me the phone numbers for everything we would need. Try that in Ca! When I go to my local grocery (which is a big box store - but not Wal-Mart) no one gets upset if the person in line ahead of you spends a minute or two chatting with the checker instead of getting out of the way as soon as possible.
Several years ago my daughter and son-in-law were involved in a traffic accident. They called us to wait for the tow truck, because they wanted to take our (then) 4 year-old granddaughter to the hospital to be checked out. The left our 6 year-old grandson with us. Zack was pretty shook up, emotionally if not physically. The tow truck arrived and a character looking like someone straight out of Deliverance climbed out of the cab. Greasy hands, dirty trucker cap, missing teeth, several days stubble, etc. He sized up the situation in about two seconds and called Zack over and asked if Zack would help him get the car up on the tow. He hooked up the car and then showed Zack which levers to push and pull to winch the car up on the tow-truck bed. By the time he was done, Zack had pretty much forgotten about the accident and couldn't talk about anything other than 'helping' and getting to work the levers.
Yeah, the South has issues. But it also has one hell of a lot to recommend it as well. And you know what? Most of those 'racists' are racist in the abstract, not at the person-to-person level. They may talk about 'that uppity boy in the White House' but if they happen to have a black co-worker, they treat them just like any other co-worker. Same for LGBT. You pin them down, and the basic response is, 'Well what they do ain't natural, but hell, if it makes 'em happy ain't no skin off my nose."
So don't tell me you are sorry I 'have to live here'. I love it here and if I have to put up with the fact that I doubt a Democrat Presidential candidate will win my state in my lifetime, well there isn't any place that meets 100% of the items on my wish list. Here just comes closer than a lot of places.
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)Pacifist Patriot
(24,653 posts)Bigotry in the abstract, with true feelings of commonality and even friendship with other races when engaged with actual people. It's a form of cognitive dissonance I guess. But very real.
alarimer
(16,245 posts)The southern "friendliness" is a double-edged sword, to be sure. They might be nice to your face, but the back-stabbing is not far behind. If someone says racists things about Obama, they ARE a racist. Full stop.
Your experience is definitely not mine.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)that cares what other people gossip about, like to gossip yourself, and find yourself being gossiped about because you had nothing nice to say about anybody? You'll find plenty of those in the South.
You'll find plenty of those EVERYWHERE.
I don't gossip. I went to the beauty shop this morning (I know - it's quaint, that's what we call the hair salon here) and the most interesting thing we discussed was ... wait for it ... plants. We discussed it was horrible that so many people in Pakistan were murdered by zealots, and, of all things, anti-static Pledge that keeps mirrors clean without having hairspray stick to it.
You get what you bring into your environment - that has been my experience.
gaspee
(3,231 posts)As a non gender conforming atheist, I couldn't get out of the south fast enough. You couldn't pay me to live there. I lived in Texas and in Florida and it was pure hell. And the people I knew are racist on a face to face level.
I had one black co-worker - a guy in his 50's - tell me he knew I wasn't from there because of the way I treated him.
People fucking felt they had the right to try to "save" me.
It sure wasn't my experience either. When people say all these wonderful things about the south, I'm all - where? Not where I was.
I also spend a lot of time at a friend's house in Clarksville TV - it's just as bad as the other two places I lived in in the south.
And yes, there are racists where I live. In fact most of the white men I work with are racists - the women might be too, but they are not loud about it. But at least our government isn't trying to kill us poor people up here in the northeast. And at least people don't vote for evil assholes (for the most part.)
beerandjesus
(1,301 posts)hueymahl
(2,495 posts)Take your original statement:
I'm sorry that any reasonable person has to live there and I know there are many. Just not enough . . . .
And substitute with a stereotype that surely everyone agrees is offensive:
I'm sorry that any reasonable person has to be Jewish and I know there are many. Just not enough . . . .
Does that make it easier to understand?
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)Which I would think you would understand.
So that thought experiment fails.
hueymahl
(2,495 posts)I choose to live in the south. I also choose to practice Judaism. I AM both a southerner and Jewish. I could choose not to be, I guess.
I'm sorry you can't see the bigotry. I hope one day you will.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)I gigantic from me, dear hueymahl. You get it, my friend.
Dawgs
(14,755 posts)Ignorance of the South is no different than any other type of ignorance.
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)and people there don't get bent out of shape about other state residents' opinions about New Jersey.
Which have never been complimentary; NJ was routinely dumped on long before Snooki and Gov. Chrispie came on the scene.
Dawgs
(14,755 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)AlbertCat
(17,505 posts)What about the west....
Why would anyone live in the Rethug West.... who want's to live in a freakin' desert? Cowboys smell like horse shit... and that is their brains! The "Old Frontier West" mentality is just stupid and a myth anyway.... blah blah blah...
See... I, from the South, can do it too! It's easy making fun of regions!
Of course it doesn't really mean anything because you can do it for any region
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)But NJ people don't get all bent out of shape about that, even though they all know the stereotype is just a stereotype.
I think it's hypocritical for southerners who spout off NJ cracks to get defensive about what other people say about the south.
AlbertCat
(17,505 posts)And, some from NJ DO get bent outta shape over it.
Glassunion
(10,201 posts)pnwmom
(108,977 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)You could mend that image - every pebble carried eventually moves a mountain. It doesn't transform the landscape, either, it transforms our hearts.
In some cases.
And I hope it didn't come off as being a Southern know-it-all.
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)If enough Southerners wanted to, they could end the negative images.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)We all have them.
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)to see their schools still honoring the legacy of Confederate generals who fought for the right to own their ancestors?
Talk about a blind spot.
http://www.washingtonpost.com/local/education/in-richmond-students-seek-to-revive-rebel-mascot/2014/07/27/f5528214-142c-11e4-98ee-daea85133bc9_story.html
Many students and alumni are seeking to keep the mascot to cling to their heritage for sentimental reasons, Pruden said. But what they may not fully appreciate is what those images mean to African Americans and others who comprehend what an ugly period of time in our history slavery was.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)because we don't have any schools here named that way.
This is what the entire OP was about - unfounded assumptions.
If you have an example, step up to the plate. I'll eat my words. If not, then it's merely a stereotype.
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)How many do you require? Here's some more.
The first is from Orlando, Florida. Knowing that many of these schools were re-named after Confederate leaders in defiance of the Brown Vs. Board of Education Supreme Court decision, how can you support that?
http://articles.orlandosentinel.com/2013-09-17/features/os-confederate-names-schools-florida-2-20130917_1_school-name-history-lesson-orange-county-school-board
The two Orlando campuses are the only local schools with prominent Confederate names, according to the public school database at the National Center for Education Statistics. And those generals are viewed today as historical figures of a decidedly different sort than Nathan Bedford Forrest, who was a slave trader before the Civil War, accused of war crimes during the war and an early leader in the Klan.
But whether viewed as controversial or not, these school names share a common history, experts say. They mostly were assigned to Southern campuses by white-run school boards after the U.S. Supreme Court's landmark 1954 school desegregation case.
They were part of a "resurgence of Confederate identity" that emerged as part of the South's resistance to the Brown v. Board of Education decision that outlawed segregated schools, said Bill Link, a history professor at the University of Florida who studies Southern history.
Such names were symbols of "white defiance that was prevalent in a lot of the South, including Florida, which was more of a Southern place in those days than it is now," Link added.
SNIP
http://www.nytimes.com/2003/12/27/us/another-move-to-erase-a-confederate-name-from-a-public-school.html
The National Center for Education Statistics lists 19 schools named for Robert E. Lee, 9 for Stonewall Jackson and 5 for Davis.
The symbols and the names of the Confederacy remain powerful reminders of the South's history of slavery and the war to end it. States, communities and institutions continue to debate what is a proper display of that heritage.
SNIP
The naming of schools after Confederate figures is particularly rich with symbolism because of the South's slow move to integrate. Many schools were named after the United States Supreme Court ruled segregated schools unconstitutional in 1954 but before the departure of whites left many inner city schools with a black majority.
Erenestine Harrison, who started the petition drive to rename Jefferson Davis Middle School here, attended Hampton's segregated public schools. She moved north in 1967 and was struck by the school names upon her return seven years ago to Hampton, a city of 146,000 people at the mouth of Chesapeake Bay. Educated as a psychologist, Ms. Harrison has worked in the city schools as a substitute teacher.
''If I were a kid, especially a teenager, I would be ashamed to tell a friend that I went to Jefferson Davis,'' said Ms. Harrison, 55. ''Basically, those guys fought for slavery.''
SNIP
http://www.houstonmatters.org/segments/segment-a/2014/09/11/should-houston-schools-named-after-confederate-figures-change-their-names
Earlier this year, HISD unveiled new mascots at four district schools, as part of a policy banning mascots deemed culturally offensive. But its not just mascots that can offend some Houstonians. Some question whether schools here should be named after figures from Confederate history examples include Lee High School, named after General Robert E. Lee. Davis High School is named for the President of the Confederacy, Jefferson Davis.
Its an issue a school board in Jacksonville, Florida, faced, changing Nathan Bedford Forrest High named for a Confederate general and early KKK leader to what is now called, simply, Westside High School.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)and I do.
Won't be the first time I've eaten crow.
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)cordelia
(2,174 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)cwydro
(51,308 posts)Your Op is appreciated.
Seriously?
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)in a whole country dominated by right-wingers.
It's bad enough having to live under a Federal government that's being taken over by Rethugs, without having to live under their thumb in local matters, too.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)You know nothing of life here.
Nothing.
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)I don't want to send my kids to schools named after Confederacy generals where they try to teach religion in biology classes. Or have my father and his partner afraid to walk together in public, as they were afraid in his partner's southern state, because of harassment.
As much as people in much of the country like to mock people from NJ, my father and his partner were never made to feel uncomfortable when they lived there; people just accepted them.
Oh, and I almost forgot. I would never want to live in a state that's still flying the confederate flag -- as South Carolina still does. I don't know how any progressive can justify that.
http://www.theatlantic.com/national/archive/2012/08/americas-simple-minded-obsession-with-the-confederate-flag/261236/
However, the flag's most lasting legacy -- and the source of much of the controversy today -- can be traced to its use as a symbol of "Massive Resistance" by the Dixiecrats beginning in 1948 and continuing through the Civil Rights movement of the 1950s and 60s. During that period, the flag became the standard for those committed to defending classrooms, bus depots, and other public spaces (now battlefields themselves) from black encroachment.
In fact, the flag's use throughout the 20th century covered a time span significantly longer than its presence on Civil War battlefields. Its placement atop southern statehouses like South Carolina ultimately reinforced the flag's connection to segregation and racism.
Confederate flags no longer enjoy those privileged perches. In fact, over the past few years, white and black southerners have become less tolerant of the public display of the flag, which has relegated its supporters to the sidelines and a much more defensive posture. Last year, the city of Lexington, Virginia, banned the flying of the flag from public fixtures. This past spring, the Museum of the Confederacy opened a new branch at Appomattox that did not include the display of the flag outside its doors. Finally, late last year, the Virginia Museum of Fine Arts in Richmond removed Confederate flags flying on the grounds of the Confederate Memorial Chapel, which the museum oversees.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)Most of my co-workers are black. My direct manager is black, as is his. Many of the mayors of my city have been black. Most of the city government is black. My family is English, and I am first generation American. Oh and white. Vilified by you because I was born in the south. Tsk tsk.
My girlfriend and I (oh wow, add the gay angle in too) have NEVER been harassed or treated badly here. She has had different experiences than I, of course.
I have not seen the confederate flag in NC. Perhaps you are one of those Snooki types from NJ who cannot tell the difference between NC and SC. And I will not bother to click on your link if perhaps you have a picture of a Confederate flag in NC. There are numerous same pics of those flags across this country.
Wow. What a hater you must be.
The high schools in my city are called: Garinger, North Meck, South Meck, Myers Park, West Meck, West Charlotte. Not a confederate general in the bunch.
Go read a book. Ya know, I don't have anyone on ignore, but I find you so completely ignorant, that I think that qualifies as a de facto ignore.
New Jersey???
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)when they get bent out of shape about how other people regard the South.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)Reckon you can dish it out, but not take it.
Bless your heart darlin'.
It's rather silly how easily you took that hater down, my friend.
I've seen people disassemble things, but you had a carpenter's touch right there.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)Seriously, I hate all of us on DU tearing each other over so much silly crap.
I got no hard feelings for anyone.
But the south hate pisses me off no end.
Maybe because I am first generation here. My English parents showed me the KKK signs, they taught me about the "n word"....in many ways they were so horrified themselves that they could not grasp it.
Both of them were brought up poor in England's harsh class system. They knew of prejudice and discrimination.
But this nonsense on Du is ridiculous. The south is no more racist than any other part of this country. You know where Furman and his ilk all move? Idaho. Now I got nothing against Idaho.
But it is just silly to cast regional insults. Especially at one another.
And again. Thank you for your OP. That's one that's been on my chest for a long time too.
are things we are taught from the cradle. It seems odd to me when people don't how to be peaceful and kind for no other reason than it is the best way to relate with hardship.
I don't understand sometimes, maybe I'm weird, but being kind to others, minding my manners and doing the best I can do every day has always seemed to work for me.
I don't hate the entire world, so there is that benefit.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)And funnily enough, we Southerners were taught manners(as you said) from the cradle. Not to knock those "New" states, but they seem maybe to have missed those lessons.
Not hating the entire world is a great benefit. Especially in this one.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)In the South, we do know how to appreciate happiness.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)But that is because we live in the most beautiful part of the country. Like I said, they're just jealous lol.
Though I lived in Key West for years, and it sure qualifies as a beautiful place.
Yeah, it is the southernmost point of the US, but it is in no way the south.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)Did you ever see the guy with the cats that would do all kinds of tricks when the sun went down?
That was amazing.
And, yes, I have done the Duvaul crawl. LMAO.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)And yes, the Duval crawl.
Still got my t-shirt (from the Green Parrot) that says "see the lower Keys on your hands and knees."
Sigh I miss it.
Dang.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)My girlfriend and I went there for Memorial Day. We stayed at the Rainbow House. Pretty much the only amenity was being able to swim naked in the pool, since coffee was only served at 9am, and you could sneeze and brain yourself unconscious in the shower stall.
Odin2005
(53,521 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)for a Cheeseburger in Paradise
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)But sometimes those "manners" can seem very phony to the non-southerner.
Recently, I was having to take care of a problem for my mother in her southern state. I needed something very simple -- their medical release form -- but the person in the records department at the hospital was claiming they didn't have such a form. But I knew they have to -- it's the law. But she kept insisting they didn't. And the whole time she was being deliberately obstructive, she was "honeying" me and "sweetie-ing" me till I wanted to throw up.
So I prefer some northern bluntness when I'm trying to get something done. At least I know who I'm dealing with that way. Not some honey or sweetie.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)that when it comes to being blunt, I have that one down - even though I'm a generally mannerly Southerner.
You get what you put in - if you have preconceived notions about people, that's what you are going to get anyway no matter how completely opposite they are to your expectations.
It's food for thought, and that is my polite way of bluntly stating that you should get over yourself.
Sentiment is the same, delivery is a little different than telling you off, as I would dearly like to do.
If you want me to get stentorian, though, I am perfectly capable of it, as I'm sure you already know.
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)I appreciate such a flagrant display of it.
Odin2005
(53,521 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)that people make sometimes are rather spectacular, aren't they?
A positive post, meant to be an affirmation of those who live in a region that is underrepresented and you get ... that. That kind of post.
At least that post didn't shit in my coffee.
Glassunion
(10,201 posts)I did when I lived in Georgia.
t-shirts, bumper stickers, flags...
Have you looked at a t-shirt shop on a boardwalk recently?
Just sayin'
Aerows
(39,961 posts)upaloopa
(11,417 posts)Nevada mountains. The area is called Twin Oaks. It use to be all cattle ranches but the ranchers started breaking up there land into 20 acre parcels. Not a lot of people live there. It is still open range country. We had 20 acres and moved there because we had horses and wanted them on our land and not in a boarding place.
The place was heavily conservative.
They got to know you by what you said to the trash guy when you took your trash to the dump. He would discuss politics and religion with you then gossip to your neighbors about what you said. I never really agreed with him but he never understood that by my answers.
The people there were the friendliest I have ever met. We didn't lock our doors at night and everyone waved hi when you passed by no matter if you were a neighbor or stranger.
They always had pot luck fund raisers for who ever was going into the hospital or just needed money.
So much for being liberal in conservative country. I guess people aren't only what they vote for. I liked the folks there.
But I missed not being able to say what I thought politically.
One of the locals had a son who was killed in the Iraq war and we had a memorial at the church. I didn't know what to say to him other than I was sorry for his loss.
steve2470
(37,457 posts)The south is a blind spot for some DU'ers. It doesn't matter that many counties in the south are purple, or even blue. I'm not LGBT, black, or any other minority group, but yes, I like living in the south. People also forget that there's racism and homophobia in all states. Another side benefit of the south is that in many locations, housing and other prices are affordable.
One of my neighbors is a wonderful guy, but he's a conservative Republican. We'll avoid discussing politics, thanks.
Blanks
(4,835 posts)The only family that I have here is my wife and children, but I grew up in the Pacific Northwest and I still get a sense of dread as winter approaches even though winter is very nice here.
There's a lot of nice people here too. I don't personally see a lot of homophobes and I rarely run into overtly racist people. We had a democratic governor for the past 8 years and before that Hukabee was governor and he wasn't quite the dipshit that he is on Fox News when he was governor. He bragged about all the highway work that he had done.
I don't plan on moving any time soon.
RebelOne
(30,947 posts)I was born in Philadelphia and grew up in Miami, Fla. I have lived in New Jersey, California and Alabama. But I now live in the Atlanta metro area and feel like it has always been my home. I have never seen any racism or bigotry here. Atlanta is a very progressive area despite the Republican rule.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)have some of the finest restaurants on Earth!
greymattermom
(5,754 posts)and the area where I live is mainly Jewish. Smart city, smart people. Nice motto. No one has a Southern accent. Well, almost no one.
wilt the stilt
(4,528 posts)i worked at Mckinnon's louisiane as a waiter many years ago. i know the restaurant scene well here. It's ok but hardly the best. Ciboulette which as one of the finest left to go to Denver. To even compare it to Chicago, SF, NY or New Orleans is a joke.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)Not to be argumentative, because taste is a personal thing, but I'm pretty sure I know a good restaurant from a bad one. One of the most interesting and tasty things I've ever had in my life was fried boudoin balls for breakfast from a hole in the wall in Breaux Bridge, LA.
The Crawfish festival there is an event that everyone should attend at least once in a lifetime.
Glassunion
(10,201 posts)I never answer the question of what is your favorite restaurant, or what was the best meal that you have ever had. How can I compare a phenomenal Thai experience with a French one? They were both awesome.
What I like to do, is compare dish to dish. What's the best creme brullee (Iron Abbey - Warrington PA), the best sushi (Ooka - Montgomeryville PA), the best French Onion soup (Lark and Dove - Roswell Rd GA *sadly closed*), best pizza (J&V - Brooklyn), best Huarache (Distrito - Philadelphia PA), etc...
Wife and I vacationed in New Orleans. We ate all sorts of food. The oysters were amazing, the alligator was an adventure, gumbo, beignets, crawfish étouffée, etc... What was my takeaway from the hedonistic food orgy that is New Orleans? The best F%$#ING burger in the whole world, hands down, ever, ever, ever... At Yo Mama's on St Peter. We wandered into this little hole in the wall for lunch one day. We ate there for lunch every day of our visit. Every burger I tried was amazing. The bacon burger was to die for, the peanut butter and bacon burger was to kill for. Then they serve them with a loaded baked potato, that consists of more loaded than potato. I hope they never close... In case you are wondering, a grilled burger, with bacon, peanut butter, lettuce, tomato, onion, and mayo is a heavenly wonderful combination.
From Yelp:
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Aerows
(39,961 posts)I can't possibly say this gumbo is the best, this beignet is the best, that crab boil was the tastiest, or that crawfish had the best seasoning on it.
It's the South. Hashbrowns are a work of art down here, and I don't mind enjoying them.
Glassunion
(10,201 posts)Rowdyboy
(22,057 posts)They should visit and experience southern fried bliss.....
wilt the stilt
(4,528 posts)Atlanta has average food and Dunwoody has average food. i live off of spalding dr.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)as the folks that utilize them. Mine have been thoroughly exercised, and I still think Buckhead has a gorgeous restaurant or two.
wilt the stilt
(4,528 posts)Buckhead is average. Atlanta is average. your comment implied it was one of the great restaurant towns. Its not.
steve2470
(37,457 posts)I love Atlanta. Big city variety + that southern flavor.
RebelOne
(30,947 posts)I lived in South Florida until 1989 but feel that Georgia has always been my home.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)it has a lot of cosmopolitan things that make it upscale, but it has a lot of other things that make it feel like a home.
wilt the stilt
(4,528 posts)3 "downtowns" Perimeter,Midtown,buckhead) with no real downtown. One semi decent neighborhood Virginia highland. midtown and buckhead are kind of a bore (Buckhead was way better before the ray Lewis killing).
White flight decimated downtown.
It is like a lot of newer cities. suburban paradise.
better cities
Seattle, San Francisco, NY, Chicago, Denver, Portland, Boston.
cities just as boring- Phoenix,Dallas,LA,
you have visitors in town "where are you going to take them?'Stone Mountain, Coca Cola, ok I'm stuck
Brigid
(17,621 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)I have no idea what that person was talking about.
But yes, I'm with you, Stoned Mountain sounds like a hell of good place to visit.
Brigid
(17,621 posts)And feast your eyes.
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Glassunion
(10,201 posts)Rowdyboy
(22,057 posts)Ummm...pizza
Glassunion
(10,201 posts)Rowdyboy
(22,057 posts)A nice Tombstone....
Glassunion
(10,201 posts)Rowdyboy
(22,057 posts)Glassunion
(10,201 posts)Rowdyboy
(22,057 posts)Glassunion
(10,201 posts)Rowdyboy
(22,057 posts)Glassunion
(10,201 posts)pinboy3niner
(53,339 posts)Glassunion
(10,201 posts)DeadLetterOffice
(1,352 posts)*poof* it went, in a cloud of nasty snarky obnoxiousness.
Glassunion
(10,201 posts)DeadLetterOffice
(1,352 posts)Glassunion
(10,201 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)but, basil - y, you said it best.
Brigid
(17,621 posts)I wanted to see how long they would last.
pinboy3niner
(53,339 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)and frankly, I agree with that assessment. Why spend $20 when you can through a good Tombstone in the oven, add you own extra cheese and toppings (I always add tomato slices) and it's done not in 30 minutes, but around 18.
Efficiency. I like it.
Rowdyboy
(22,057 posts)Now I really DO want a pizza dammit!
Glassunion
(10,201 posts)Lately been hooked on the American Flatbreads, not really pizza, but man are they good.
DeadLetterOffice
(1,352 posts)Looks awesome actually.
But SO not pizza.
Odin2005
(53,521 posts)DeadLetterOffice
(1,352 posts)Though I do love me some deep dish Chicago. Real deep dish, not that crap at the chain places...
Rowdyboy
(22,057 posts)And its all because of a hugely unsuccessful troll
Glassunion
(10,201 posts)But you can order two of their products online. I believe that they are up in Vermont.
http://americanflatbread.elsstore.com/retailer/store_templates/shell_id_1.asp?storeID=689E076B23F74448AA41ECB96F8FB3E4
Rowdyboy
(22,057 posts)Glassunion
(10,201 posts)Hell when Ben and Jerry started you couldn't get a pint outside of VT for the longest time.
Odin2005
(53,521 posts)marym625
(17,997 posts)Only place for awesome pizza
Rowdyboy
(22,057 posts)marym625
(17,997 posts)Louis Malnati's or Giordanos. They will ship frozen, uncooked pizza. Good stuff
Rowdyboy
(22,057 posts)I can hope for.
marym625
(17,997 posts)On occasion. He thinks they are worth it. First thing he does every time he comes here is order a pizza
Aerows
(39,961 posts)My favorite is Detroit Deep Dish.
I know I am a traitor to both New Yorkers and Chicago.
Little Ceasar's deep dish is my favorite, it has enough cheese on it to satisfy MY appetite, and I LOVE cheese.
Banish me to hell.
I love neither Chicago nor New York.
marym625
(17,997 posts)Without taste buds. So that's ok.
Pizza is a sensitive subject .
marym625
(17,997 posts)And you obviously have never had Giordano's or Louis Malnati's or Sanfrantello's pizza.
I dare you to try it and then say something as crazy as pizza hut is better
(Where's the little "I challenge you to a duel" dudes?)
Aerows
(39,961 posts)I win! I call!
Great way to start the day, with a smile. Thanks!
Aerows
(39,961 posts)I'm glad, Mary, that I gave you one
marym625
(17,997 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)You'd be added to my lovely collection.
marym625
(17,997 posts)Same here. How sweet
Odin2005
(53,521 posts)I know that sounds like blasphemy to some people!
Puglover
(16,380 posts)Aerows. But "Jacks" orginal has Tombstone beat. Hands down.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)and my substandard video card that is getting upgraded for Christmas
Haven't tried a Jack's original. I'll have to look for it, thank you for the suggestion (and I really do love you, pug)
Odin2005
(53,521 posts)RiverLover
(7,830 posts)Odin2005
(53,521 posts)Up here in the Fargo area we have a regional brand of frozen pizza, Pizza Corner, that blows Tombstone out of the water.
SuperValu's Culinary Circle pizzas are really good, too.
If you signed up just to insult me, then LOL
dixiegrrrrl
(60,010 posts)See, being from the South, you know what "hey" means......
Pacifist Patriot
(24,653 posts)typical response would be appropriate. "Well bless his heart."
And being from the south, you should know what THAT means! LOL!
Aerows
(39,961 posts)It was a "Bless your heart" post.
brer cat
(24,562 posts)I really think we (southerners) are allowed on DU so that the others have someone to look down on. It is quite ignorant to tell a complete stranger that they need to move.
K&R
Rowdyboy
(22,057 posts)No one in my immediate family-father, siblings, nieces and nephews appears to have any problem with me (although like in any family I rarely associate with some of them). We've been "out" in our neighborhood and small Episcopal church for 25 years with no visible hatred or even disapproval (one exception and he moved away 15 years ago). Even University Medical Center has always treated my partner exactly as they would a spouse.
We aren't publically affectionate but I wouldn't be if I was straight-its just not my personality. Other than the poverty and the political ignorance I really have no problems living here. Its a good thing too because we couldn't afford to move to a blue state.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)That right there is the reason.
Southern Baptists?
You know that when you find Catholics to be moderate, you must have been raised Southern Baptist.
I got to go to Catholic High School only because the Southern Baptist one shut down due to lack of enrollment on the agreement that they wouldn't be too liberal and exploit my intelligence too much, what ever that meant.
Rowdyboy
(22,057 posts)That's no problem, I had plenty to send. Then they mentioned the person had to sign a contract promising not to dance as a condition of employment. I just laughed and told them they needed to talk to the DOJ first then call me back. Never heard from them again.
You're spot on about the Episcopal Church too. They call us Catholic-lite-"All the ritual and none of the guilt"
kwassa
(23,340 posts)They are attempting to secede and keep the money and property. In the Episcopal Church, all property is held in trust by the larger church.
Conservative Episcopal congregations all over the US have tried to do this since 2003 and the elevation of the first publicly gay bishop, Eugene Robinson, in Vermont. They all have lost at state supreme court levels except in Texas and South Carolina, and for some reason, Illinois.
In Texas it is only the former Fort Worth Diocese. In South Carolina, it is more complicated and still being fought over.
The rest of the church is quite liberal. I know many openly gay clergy here in the Washington Diocese. This covers DC and southern Maryland.
markpkessinger
(8,395 posts)Ever heard of the dioceses of Eau Claire and Fond du Lac, Wisconsin?
kwassa
(23,340 posts)I don't know the status in Wisconsin. I do know they have lost in California, New York, and Virginia, where they initially won. And Pennsylvania, a hotbed of activity in the Pittsburgh area.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)The Episcopal Church is the bastion of understanding, the ability to worship, participate and enjoy being a human being.
I don't know what it is like up North, but here, it is a blessing.
kwassa
(23,340 posts)The assistant rector in the church I used to attend was married to her same-sex partner at National Cathedral by the Bishop of Washington.
This is where presidents have their funerals.
AndyTiedye
(23,500 posts)Odin2005
(53,521 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)and doesn't directly relate to producing *something*, Southern Baptist are not in favor of it. They would do away with pepper and salt in the world if they could.
Rowdyboy
(22,057 posts)Or other men. I'm not exactly sure how the logic works.
Anyway, the horse looks great in her dress and the horse's ass looks good in his robes.
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)As safe as you would feel anywhere, that is?
My father and his partner wouldn't visit my sister and her family in her southern state. They didn't want to put up with the attitudes.
mcar
(42,307 posts)24 year Florida resident here. Four years to SO can retire. We will keep our options open after that.
We have loved touring around the South. The politics suck but there is some beautiful country and lovely people.
spanone
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kelly1mm
(4,733 posts)MFrohike
(1,980 posts)Amendment 1 passed in May 2012, not 2010. It was at the same time as the primaries. The GOP-controlled Assembly decided to have the vote on a day when they'd get maximum turnout, as a result of the GOP actually having a primary battle, and when the Democrats would have lesser turnout. In addition, there was a rather large split in the traditional Democratic voting base on that particular issue. I'm not going into details on it, you can look it up if you want.
Primaries are notoriously underattended. Had it been on the ballot in November 2012, it might have failed. That being said, it's a moot point anyway because the 4th Circuit invalidated VA's ban, so NC's is invalid as well.
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Warpy
(111,255 posts)were a lot more open and people were a lot more joyously "out" to friends and family in NC when I left than the whole business was in either Boston or NYC. There, in the urban north, there was extreme paranoia about being harassed by the cops in all the bars.
So I would never presume to lecture any LGBT person in the south about leaving, even though I know that things have loosened up in most urban centers outside it.
I also know the informal southern acceptance of giving a wise word and a wink to anyone who tries to play matchmaker for "that handsome friend of yours."
So yes, there are things in the south that run counter to the image of universal intolerance promoted by right wing preachers and Republican politicians.
I found living in the south intolerable but that's because I'm worse than being gay: a female math geek, science nerd, atheist who never learned how to be properly fluttery around men. Southern culture in the late 60s drove me bonkers so I was out of there like I was shot out of a cannon as soon as I'd saved enough money to leave.
Brigid
(17,621 posts)Maybe that was my problem too!
raccoon
(31,110 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)a female math geek, science nerd, atheist who never learned how to be properly fluttery around men.
Except I am gay.
The most exciting moment in my high school education was going to a Chemistry contest - and no, it wasn't making drugs - it was using liquid nitrogen to turn bananas into hammers.
That was a hell of a lot of fun.
Warpy
(111,255 posts)and cooked a baseball diamond. I don't think the teacher thought it would do that much damage to the grass in the outfield from a hole in the ground in the infield.
I'm old so we didn't have liquid nitrogen to play with. We did our share of damage with what we had, though.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)to get evacuated because she mixed ammonia and bleach under the fume hood, and didn't expect it to release THAT much chlorine gas. LOL.
She was a neat lady
Travelman
(708 posts)I also loved the liquid nitrogen balloon trick. Great fun.
The best, though, was making rather large booms with about 250g of pure sodium and a plastic garbage can with about three gallons of water in it. Hee hee!
Aerows
(39,961 posts)You are as geeky as I am! It seems I'm in good company
Odin2005
(53,521 posts)Well bless their sexist hearts!
Warpy
(111,255 posts)You know, lack of deference to men and all that. I was a looker so I had no trouble getting men, I just didn't want the ones I knew too well.
Comrade Grumpy
(13,184 posts)I'm tired of getting fucked over by drawling knuckle-draggers. You know, the ones the South keeps sending to Washington. And electing to state office.
I'm sure there are many good people in the South; they just seem to be hopelessly outnumbered.
Glassunion
(10,201 posts)Don't call them "drawling knuckle-draggers".
First off, there is nothing whatsoever wrong with a drawl. I personally find certain drawls quite sexy.
As for knuckle-draggers California has their share.
appalachiablue
(41,131 posts)steve2470
(37,457 posts)It will make your DU experience much more pleasant.
cordelia
(2,174 posts)They don't know or care just how much they hurt Democrats when they use hateful language like that.
Comrade Grumpy
(13,184 posts)Not to Southerners in general. Although it can't be forgotten that it's Southerners who are voting to send them there.
I'm not running for anything, so I don't need your money or your votes, and I certainly don't represent the Democratic National Committee. That leave me free to call 'em as I see 'em.
LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)Yet your comment expanded the pool of your targets from...
"That was a direct reference to the people the South sends to Washington."
to...
"I'm sure there are many good people in the South; they just seem to be hopelessly outnumbered"
However, I do realize that our prejudices may often blind us to to the distinctions between what we actually mean versus what we tell people we mean. No offense intended of course... I'm simply exercising my freedom to "call 'em as I see 'em," too.
nolabear
(41,960 posts)Insulting people en masse never helps anyone say "You know, that guy might have a point," and it gives those who we might persuade fuel in the "liberals are assholes" argument.
steve2470
(37,457 posts)Rowdyboy
(22,057 posts)Oh wait, they're not southern-they're western or Midwestern or border state.
Along with Grassley, Roberts, Risch, Coats, Blunt, Johanns, Fischer, Moran, Johnson, Hoevan, Murkowski, Heller, Thune, Toomey, Flake, Lee and-don't forget, Rand Paul! All western, Midwestern or border.
The cancer isn't localized-its systemic throughout the nation from Gov LePage in Maine to Congressman Issa of California. No region has clean hands.
But its not so simple to condemn a whole nation
steve2470
(37,457 posts)Comrade Grumpy
(13,184 posts)We've got one Democrat in Arkansas and one in Florida.
It's solid Republican governors from North Carolina to Texas.
A Democrat in Arkansas.
It's solid Republican control of the state house from Texas to Virginia.
Them's the facts. Sorry.
Yeah, there are conservatives elected all over the country. No region has clean hands, but some regions are clearly worse than others when it comes to political control. And the South is a Republican stronghold.
steve2470
(37,457 posts)go make your own OP, please. Good day.
markpkessinger
(8,395 posts)carolinayellowdog
(3,247 posts)GA and NC are slowly following suit. Meanwhile many overwhelmingly rural Great Plains states don't seem winnable for decades.
DrDan
(20,411 posts)of the Year to Washington.
http://humanevents.com/2014/01/02/conservative-of-the-year-rep-darrell-issa/
(knuckle-draggers)
cwydro
(51,308 posts)On at least two levels.
sir pball
(4,741 posts)I have (sane) family there and my wife is from backwoods north-central Louisiana (less than 30 miles from Jena, actually)...and LA is categorically less offensive in virtually every metric. You're overrating the drawl, the red NYers *sound* like any other "educated, liberal Northeasterner" until you pay attention.
DamnYankeeInHouston
(1,365 posts)Warpy
(111,255 posts)KingCharlemagne
(7,908 posts)any he ever experienced in the deep South. I think this was during the Poor People's Campaign (after the passage of the Civil Rights and Voting Rights acts), but I was always struck by that remark.
Anyone who remembers the South Boston busing riots of the early 70s will know whereof you speak.
Inkfreak
(1,695 posts)Quayblue
(1,045 posts)Blue_In_AK
(46,436 posts)Everyone thinks we're stupid like Sarah Palin. It sucks.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)I like most of the AK folks hear - we have bravenak, you, of course, and a few others.
I feel more akin to you than I do to others.
I just haven't gotten a job offer up there yet
The second I get an offer to run a network up there, I'll be putting a sweater on kitty.
arely staircase
(12,482 posts)Really?
La Lioness Priyanka
(53,866 posts)there are many reasons we choose to live where we do, I don't love tiny apartments but I can live with in given how much else I love about NYC. I am sure most of us have to make these calculations
bravenak
(34,648 posts)They would never do anything like that to me in the south. I never even knew tgere WAS such a thing. Disgusting!!!
You've been subjected to instant grits?
See this is exactly why I need to move there. I'll run the IT department and introduce REAL grits ... and biscuits with white gravy.
I might get snazzy and bring some Tabasco sauce with me.
Travelman
(708 posts)Mbrow
(1,090 posts)Idaho is like that as well. We have it all from fundies to the Skin Heads up north. But in general the people are nice and I like the area. We do have some Dem's here and the local UU minister is big in the LGBT community, but we are ran by all the RW nut jobs, all the stupid ideas you can think off are put in place here first and we are now at the bottom of the list in wages and schools. The local Dem's are a "good old boy club" but it is getting better. The local candidates are still blue dogs at best, except in Boise, we still get some good people from the city.
MFrohike
(1,980 posts)If they don't get it, it's their damn problem.
The people quickest to bash the south are also the most ignorant about the rampant bigotry in their own parts of the country. The south doesn't get that luxury because every damn jackass and his brother loves to get selectively self-righteous (i.e. lecture us while the same thing is happening in their own damn neighborhood).
DawgHouse
(4,019 posts)Plus, I live in Florida, and I can't walk out the door without tripping over a transplant from NJ, OH, NY, etc. It's that way with much of Florida. You can't judge a region geographically because people move around.
RKP5637
(67,107 posts)media tends to focus on the south way too much about all of this.
csziggy
(34,136 posts)You posted exactly what I was thinking. Thank you.
flygal
(3,231 posts)Montana for sure and they are a medium shade of purple. The Dems still held around 30-40% in most southern states. And so many larger cities voted Blue. In MT we had areas that were less than 20% Dem and even the strong Dem areas were only slight majorities.
But yes, the media needs a headline and the old Civil War is just too easy to pass up.
Historic NY
(37,449 posts)NY has its fair share of morans, its in pockets. Confederate flags flying along side the piss yellow bagger flag and some of the craziest signage one has ever seen. So don't fret I'd say its all over.
csziggy
(34,136 posts)My mother's family has lived in the South since before the Revolution - every single member. There were some good people and there were people I really wish I were not related to. But in their different ways they tried to make their communities better.
Every state has good people and bad people, liberals and conservatives. Every place does too.
I get pissed when I see people here dumping on the "South" as if it were one cohesive unit. People who are willing to denigrate a whole part of the country are as just as likely to denigrate entire classes of people. So I'll just consider the source - and consider whether they are worth reading any longer.
What is needed is that all of us work to make the place where we live better. It's not a matter of making sure one party or another wins - it's standing up for what we know is the right thing to do.
This thread and another: We have a choice. http://www.democraticunderground.com/10025963966 are examples of good people who happen to live in the South and who know that they can work to improve the place they happen to live in.
DrDan
(20,411 posts)black Illinois politician to the WH.
I get so frustrated when I see these South-bashers dispense their juvenile broad-brush comments on a relatively-progressive Dem site.
(I really need to start using "ignore" - my blood pressure will thank me)
csziggy
(34,136 posts)I live in Leon County which despite having the state government here is very progressive and very blue - my part of the county voted 74% for Barack Obama in 2008.
I've seen both sides of the state - I grew up in Polk County which is conservative - so conservative many voted for George Wallace every time he ran and it has gone GOP since the 1960s. So conservative that KKK members didn't try hard at all to hide their identities. Even so, Bartow, my hometown and the county seat, had the first black mayor in Florida. I was in school during integration and we didn't have the confrontations seen other places in the country.
I prefer living in a blue area but even if I didn't I would still work for the benefit of where I lived.
I tend to use "ignore" a lot, but periodically I go in and clear out my "ignore" list and start over. More often these days I will write a heated response and not post it. I think it's good for my blood pressure - it gets all the bile out but since I don't post the bile I don't get into the petty exchanges that raise the tension level.
DrDan
(20,411 posts)politically active in Sierra Club for both Volusia and Flagler so get to know politicians quite well. Both counties are conservative (Flagler more so) but with pockets of good environmentally-active liberals. Also quite a few local conservatives can be identified as environmentalists.
I have done the same thing you mention in the last paragraph - pen a response then throw it away. Not worth the effort to get into a debate with some of these South-haters. I rarely use ignore . . . but probably should. I think I have one on ignore now - probably the only one for the past year or so.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)"It's not a matter of making sure one party or another wins - it's standing up for what we know is the right thing to do."
That says it ALL.
This is the ONLY purpose that is necessary to make every day, every community and every job we do HAVE a purpose.
Do the right thing every day, and the rest takes care of itself, even in hard times. In fact, it's the hard times that harden our resolve to be even *better* people. You can't work your ass off for something, see it come to fruition and not be proud of it. It doesn't matter what it is.
csziggy
(34,136 posts)In that the GOP followers seemed to think that if their side won, all was well. DUers condemned that attitude for the most part.
Now it seems that some here have gotten into the same mindset whether it is the party winning or a particular candidate winning. This is tearing us apart and has been since the big Clinton vs. Obama battles during the 2008 primaries. I worry about what is going to happen to DU between now and the 2016 primaries.
Democrats used to be more concerned about the issues than the fight. Now here on DU it seems to be more about the fight than anything else.
It's not party above all else or even country - it's about people and what we can do to make their lives better. The events of the last few days shows that it's not just about people in this country, but people all over the world. Choices THIS country made have helped get the world to the point some random gunman can take people in a coffee shop hostage or extremists can kill dozens of schoolchildren.
dawg
(10,624 posts)There are good and bad people everywhere. The South has some unique problems, but other regions have their own problems as well.
DonCoquixote
(13,616 posts)the call "why don't we just ditch the south" masde by people in cities that have no idea how much the rural pasrts of their state are savage, nasty and brutal as anywhere in Dixie, save for the LIBERAL cities. I have lived in both north and south, and I can tell you that the people that voted for folks like bachmann and Christie did not appear out of nowhere.
Texasgal
(17,045 posts)I have finally decided after many years on DU that I just don't give a shit anymore.
I live here. This is my home.
I'm not moving.
I have a wonderful family that lives here as well.
I live in a very like minded area in Austin.
I vote for DEM'S. Always and will continue.
Yes, I realize that Texas politics are fucked. Duh.
I never encountered such shocking racism IN MY LIFE until I visited Philly,PA. yes, that is as a long life TEXAN.
I do no longer give a shit what DU'ers think about where I make my living and live my life. I am done arguing and I am done defending MY way of life. I'm not moving and I feel okay with my choices.
Oh, and one more thing, we are not all hung up on the Civil War as much of you would like to think. In fact, as a generational Texan it was NEVER discussed over Ice tea or anything else.
That is all.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)I would love an occasional dusting of snow, but it doesn't happen here.
I've been in 46 of the contiguous states of this good country for business or some other reason. But home is always near the Gulf, close to the sea, even if I never dip my toes in it - the ocean is there. (And yeah, I dip my toes in it when I can).
SixString
(1,057 posts)...and magnolia in my nose.
It ain't all bad down here.
Jamastiene
(38,187 posts)They will sit and spin in that red clay in winter time. It's not so bad in the summer because I do have some centipede grass that grows then. In winter, though, they will sit and spin in the wrong area of my yard. I tell them to back up the hill to get out and they won't get stuck.
I love my red clay but I hate how people just sit and spin in it. First rule of red clay is don't stop if you find yourself driving through it. Keep going, don't let the vehicle stop, because when you try to start back driving, you find yourself spinning tires in place. I don't know why they drive right over that red clay. Best to avoid it and back up up the hill where there isn't as much clay. You don't get stuck so easily up the hill and even if you do, gravity helps going down the hill to get going again.
I've lived here 10 years now and have yet to see a single person from outside the area that knows how to drive on the red clay in my yard. What gets me is that although we have very little snow here, I can drive on snow. I can't drive on ice, though, which is what the snow turns into after the first night of freezing and that next day of snow melting but not going away yet, then refreezing as an icy mess by the next night. Either that or it snows one day, then it is in the 60s the next day. I've seen that happen too.
My magnolia trees are the most awesome smell around. The wisteria is amazing for nice smells too.
mountain grammy
(26,620 posts)ALEC came along and showed the state legislatures how to win all the time and they did it. I think representation from the south would be vastly different if not for extreme gerrymandering. The story John Stewart did on representation in Austin said it all.
There are people in the south so unrepresented it's sad, and it's also one of the reasons voting just seems like a waste of time.
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)Oh, wait a minute, the first one is in Ohio and the second one in Pennsylvania.
mountain grammy
(26,620 posts)but it is prevalent in the south.
Glassunion
(10,201 posts)Snoopy kicking Roger Rabbit in the ass?
And quite sadly, we had a majority Republican house / senate right after the Census and well... Our districts now look like cartoon characters.
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)Matrosov
(1,098 posts)I live in the deep South. Among people who think President Obama is a Kenyan-born Muslim and gays and atheists are going to take over the country. Among the idiots who can't explain their hatred for Hillary Clinton with anything other than 'she hate Murica' and 'she's a socialist'
Ignorant conservatives can be found all over the country but they are easily the thickest here.
What I don't understand is why Southerners on DU are so sensitive about the matter. When I see another person make a negative remark about the South, I don't assume I'm included in the disgust, I assume it's limited to the conservative trash in the South. Does anyone really believe anti-Southern sentiment is also aimed at fellow progressives?
Aerows
(39,961 posts)sphere tells the world that we are idiots.
Unfortunately, we've had to many *PROMINENT* examples.
It's PR. We've had too many idiots.
Glassunion
(10,201 posts)why wearing a cowboy hat = racist. It may as well be a white hood. Wash, rinse, and repeat.
it's a persecution complex - kind of like christians who think they are under attack.
I've seen more I love the south posts here on DU than I hate the south posts.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)the assumption is the assumption
You don't read posts on DU proclaiming how straight, white males are the greatest thing since sliced bread, either, because ... they don't need to discuss how discriminated or less great the popular opinion of them is.
And frankly, you can trash the thread if it annoys you. Have a nice day.
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,683 posts)and it's not fair to criticize them because they prefer to live in a certain place. It's home. Personally, I wouldn't want to live in the South because it's too hot and humid for me - I prefer a cooler climate, so for me Minnesota is home. But some people don't want to live there, and I get that, too.
So if you are happy where you are, don't let the haters bother you.
Lunacee_2013
(529 posts)I live in a part of the country that, according to a map someone did using anti-gay tweets from twitter, is the most homophobic place in all the land. And just because I live here, that does not mean I'm like those idiots. Plus, if I had the money, I would move, trust me.
There is an argument to be made for staying, however. If we all lived in our own little closed off spaces with only other like-minded people, we'd be even more divided then we are now and life would be pretty boring.
progressoid
(49,988 posts)calimary
(81,238 posts)Sometimes it's just so damn frustrating to see what always seems to be the South acting exceedingly UNSEEMLY!
I know some really nice people who live in the South. Some really talented and friendly and warm and resourceful and intelligent and compassionate and wonderful people. People who are very dear to me. And there are parts of the South that are just SPECTACULARLY beautiful. And eateries that are FABULOUSLY delectable.
But ... SOMETIIIIIIIIMES....
Fumesucker
(45,851 posts)Bless their hearts.
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Orsino
(37,428 posts)I feel proud, knowing that their scapegoating of me makes those who live elsewhere feel so goddamned holy.
carolinayellowdog
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Having lived in two Deep South states and two Great Lakes states, I prefer Virginia to all four of them and am perturbed by sweeping hateful denunciations of "the South." But I refuse to defend "the South" from hatemongers because it just accepts their implicit false premise. Reification, aka Misplaced concreteness is treating abstractions as realities. Even within individual states there are vast differences among communities in terms of progressive values, gay-friendliness, etc. Within an abstract "region" there are so many differences that to tell people to "get out of the South" is as meaningless as to tell them to "get out of the United States." More so, because the US is in fact a real entity, if a political one, whereas "the South" is an abstraction with very indistinct borders. (For anyone in southern MO to look down on someone in northern VA, or direct evacuation orders at Arlington from the Bootheel, for example, is preposterous.)
If you look at the red/blue maps by county for recent presidential elections, you see California, Oregon, and Washington hinterlands to be very red with thin blue strips along the coasts. Dakotas, Nebraska, Kansas, etc. redredred. And yet pseudo-progressive bigots from the West coast can look across hundreds of miles of the eastern portions of their own states, across a thousand miles of red Great Plains, and hundreds more miles of the reddening Midwest, to sneer at "the South" as a whole, within which which every individual progressive enclave should be depopulated in the name of some kind of purity.
By the same logic, THEY all should evacuate the US rather than fight for progressive values, and move someplace more "pure." It would be just as easy for the 40% most progressive Americans to remove to Canada, as for the 40% most progressive southerners to move north. Kinda like the ease with which Pakistan and India shifted populations in the name of religious purity in the 1940s.
Gothmog
(145,176 posts)I understand the OP
Glassunion
(10,201 posts)than the in the entire population of Connecticut.
Gothmog
(145,176 posts)It will be hard work but Texas will be a blue state one day
alarimer
(16,245 posts)And actually, I'm not so sure about the climate. I hate winter. It is really unfortunate that blue states are mostly either cold and/or rainy. Or too expensive (CA).
The consolation is that there are good places in the south, some of the best in the country, actually. Austin, TX, for one. Asheville, NC for another. New Orleans. Parts of many other cities. But small towns can all go to hell as far as I am concerned. I actually think that the real divide is not North-South, but rural/suburban and urban. Politically, at least.
But then, I have no particular ties to anywhere. My family moved a lot when I was a kid and I move a lot for work. It is inconceivable to me to stay in one place for too long. So I can laugh and make fun of this stupid town because it means literally nothing to me.
I do think, politically, you cannot discount the voter suppression efforts. THAT is a major they send these assholes to Congress. That, and the fact that most people don't vote at all.
MynameisBlarney
(2,979 posts)I too live in the South.
I was born and raised in Charlotte, NC. I live in Key Largo, Fl. now.
I know exactly what you're talking about.
Some folks try to paint all Southerners as one monolithic group of mouth-breathin', knuckle draggin' frightwingers.
Clearly, that is not the case.
It is very frustrating to see some of my fellow progressives doing this.
Scuba
(53,475 posts)fbc
(1,668 posts)Throd
(7,208 posts)I'm sure some metric can be developed to determine once and for all what is the most progressive community in the entire USA. Then we call all move there and sneer at the poor rubes who are forced to live elsewhere or the racist troglodytes who choose to live elsewhere.
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)The gathering of progressives that started as the antithesis of the World Economic Forum in Davos, Switzerland is coming to Jackson in June, along with Philly and... drum roll, please... San Jose.
http://www.ussocialforum.net/node/511
Though often overlooked as a model for progressive movement, the legacy of struggle and resistance in Mississippi situates its capital, Jackson, as a key site for social movement in the south. The city has struggled with poverty, corruption, economic disinvestment, and a decaying infrastructure for decades. However, the 2013 historic election of a revolutionary administration with a people-centered economic plan showed to the world that this is a city on the move.
The late Chowke Lumumba was elected to city council in 2009 and then to the mayors office in June 2013, through a comprehensive electoral strategy that used the autonomous power of peoples assemblies organized by the Malcolm X Grassroots Movement (MXGM) and the electoral power of the Mississippi Freedom Democratic Party. As a former civil rights lawyer and founding member of the New Afrikans Peoples Organization (NAPO) and MXGM, Lumumbas platform was strongly influenced by his activism in the black liberation movement.
Lumumba drew his vision for the city from the Jackson Plan, a progressive initiative developed by the Jacksons People Assembly and other organizations to deepen democracy in Mississippi through self-determination and economic democracy. In his Jackson Rising Statement, Lumumba articulated his vision for a grassroots cooperative economy built through a bottom-up effort that was informed by human rights principles and participatory and transparent governance. Through peoples assemblies (like the PMAs used by the USSF), the plan aimed to engage the citizens of Jackson as leaders in developing a sustainable and equitable economy that produced meaningful changes in peoples material conditions. With the recent passing of Mayor Lumumba this February and the upcoming mayoral race in April, it remains to be seen how the city governance will carry out this vision. However, MXGM and Jackson Peoples Assembly will be carrying his vision forward with the Jackson Rising: New Economies Conference in May.
Perhaps you will run across my friend the farmer from northern MS. He will be easy to spot, as he would be one of a handful of wheelchair users there.
Mopar151
(9,983 posts)That if I live in a particular place, or belong to a specific demographic, I must be _______. Bullshit! Inbred knuclke-draggers are everywhere - The ones in big Eastern liberal cities are just as numerous, but they have learned to "pass" for decent folk.
Conversely, there are kind-hearted, tolerant progressives in Dog's Ass, Arkansas - they, too, have learned to "pass" as quiet folk who mind their own business. Just because the Arkies I've met represent an evolutionary dead end, It does'nt mean they're all that way, there's gotta be somebody to counterbalance them.......
Aerows
(39,961 posts)Knocking people down because they live in a certain region has always seemed a decrepit relic to me. We are a more mobile society, and you get what you give.
Gothmog
(145,176 posts)Fla Dem
(23,656 posts)Keep up the good fight.
War Horse
(931 posts)Most of whom still live here in Norway, some in other parts of Western Europe, some in the US.
They are incredibly critical of Russia themselves. Some are even saying they are afraid to go back, and are incredibly critical of Putin. Yet they can be incredibly protective of Russia if somebody else critizes it, and point out the great family ties, the hospitality etc. Which is undoubtedly true.
I see certain comparisons, but please excuse me if I'm totally out of line here.
mike_c
(36,281 posts)...and have lived there for varying lengths of time during my life, most recently while in grad school at the University of Georgia in the early 1990s. There are many places in the south that I dearly love-- western North Carolina, North Georgia, the Shenandoah Valley, the Low Country, and the Gulf shoreline come to mind. But I rarely return there any more, and god help me I have family in east Texas that I'd rather not see than have to visit Jesusland to see them. The west is way better for my blood pressure than the south ever was.
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)In NOLA. And I consider going back from time to time.
Yes, yes, it's a tiny blue islet in a wine-dark red sea, but La. as a whole was scarcely more progressive under DINO Buddy Roemer (who eventually signed with the repukes as a free agent ) than it is today with Booby.
NOLALady
(4,003 posts)It doesn't matter which party is in charge in this area. You can only vote for the lesser of the evils.
I'm a Southerner born and raised. I know the devils and I can live with that.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)I understand that sentiment and that's at the heart of my OP.
joshcryer
(62,270 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)I can't answer it, because I honestly don't know what you are asking.
I won't speculate, either, I'll wait for you to elaborate.
joshcryer
(62,270 posts)Or do we really get to choose our leaders? If our leaders were more liberal maybe the people would be more liberal.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)that the assumption that people act as their leaders is a real one, because many people follow their own agenda without regard to who might be peering at them.
There are quite a few free souls that simply like the life they build for themselves and their family and friends, and the "leadership" I think you are speaking of is their own.
Travelman
(708 posts)"People act like their leaders" would indicate that everyone (or at least most everyone) somehow changes or compromises their principles just because of who is in power at the moment.
I certainly didn't act like Bush just because Bush was in the White House. I didn't act like Reagan, but he was in eight years. I didn't act like Clinton, in the sense that I didn't cheat on any S.O., but he was in the White House.
I can follow that all the way down to pretty much county dog-catcher.
I don't think that the premise holds any water whatsoever.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)the south hate on here is really the only thing that gets me riled.
And I'm a gay woman lol. So I should have plenty to get riled about on this board.
South haters are pure ignorant. The pilot busing programs that began in the early 70s - they began in my hometown and in Boston. Guess which city screamed at the black kids on the buses; guess which city turned buses over?
Nope, it was not my southern city of Charlotte. Not calling out anybody in particular on this thread... But I think the south haters are just jealous.
Ugh, living up north? No thanks. Y'all are just pure T jealous.
Bless your Hater hearts. ( and every dang southerner knows what that means!)
Thanks for your OP.
Rowdyboy
(22,057 posts)as in "Bless his heart, he's so dumb he couldn't pour piss out of a boot with the directions on the heel"!
My mama taught me well....
cwydro
(51,308 posts)Rowdyboy
(22,057 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)It's a polite way to say "You are acting like a hoodlum, tone it down a notch" without actually saying it.
Rowdyboy
(22,057 posts)It can be kindly and concerned or devastatingly mean. Its all in the way you say it....
sir pball
(4,741 posts)Mrs. pball is Southern and she definitely says most of this..
mnhtnbb
(31,384 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)Those are breathtaking
Mind if I steal one to be my desktop background? That's amazing work you did there.
Odin2005
(53,521 posts)Holy fucking HELL!
Aerows
(39,961 posts)It's about 50 years behind the curve.
Logical
(22,457 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)which also seems to be a dearth of liberal thought, so I have no doubt you know what it's like, it's just a shade colder and windier than here.
Rex
(65,616 posts)Been quite a stretch since I've seen a thread of people talking like we were back in GD on DU2. Sure a few bashers, but been a LONG time since such a good thread had so many great conversations going on.
So refreshing to see this and not the usual suspects trying to divide us.
nolabear
(41,960 posts)Even though I've lived in the PNW for 30 years, And love its success, liberalism and ease of living, I miss the sheer artistry and emotionalism of the South. It goes in all directions, so assholes are REAL assholes, but even so there's a depth of involvement that is often above and beyond what you'll find elsewhere. We're hedonists, even the ones who think hedonism is sinful. We're good at reading people and find them fascinating, even when we're scandalized by them. We're full of conflict and contradiction, and wear lots of non-Southerners the hell out. And yes, we (not me personally) vote for a bunch of provincial, stupid yahoos who should never be allowed within a mile of a house of government. Go figure. But I miss New Orleans and even Mississippi every damn day because nothing is boring there. Nothing.
MNBrewer
(8,462 posts)I'd never go back south unless a glacier pushed me there.
But, to each his/her own. We all have different perspectives on where we want to live.